The Best Small Wedding Venues in Delmar, NY

The Best Small Wedding Venues in Delmar, NY

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4 Wedding Venues in Delmar, NY

Farms, barns, ranches
Up to 50 guests
Available on September 13, 2026
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The Rosemary at Spano Lake 

5.0

Schenevus, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $6,000

Discover The Rosemary at Spano Lake - the latest addition to Upstate New York's stunning outdoor wedding and events venues. Just a short drive from the historical town of Cooperstown, The Rosemary offers a picturesque setting for your special occasion. Encompassing a vast expanse of 325 acres, this private waterfront location is surrounded by breathtaking natural beauty, making it the perfect choice for your wedding or private gathering. Experience the magic of a secluded and intimate celebration beside the tranquil waters of our private lake, creating unforgettable moments that will be treasured forever.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Requires outside catering services
  • No on-premises lodging options
Awarded Best of Zola
When we drove in to Spano Lake, we knew. The woods and path suddenly opened up to a fairy tale setting. On our wedding day, the sun shown bright, the trees sparkled with color and the air vibrated magic. Every day in between, the team at Spano Lake was there to help us with the details. And when the unexpected things happened, as they do during weddings, Jackie and Danny were right there with us. Our wedding day was a beautiful start to our wonderful new life together and we were so happy with our choice to start off at the Rosemary!
Slade & K., 2 years ago
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Adena Orchard 
Jewett, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

AUTHENTIC & ROOTED. Adena Orchard is a family-run & community-centered events venue on a rare piece of land in the heart of Catskill State Park in New York State. Adena represents deep roots, natural beauty, and organic connection. Every wedding we host is a reflection of our core values combined with the remarkable individuals who book with us. Your unique visions, cultures, personalities, traditions, and stories are woven into our foundation. Surrounded by mountains, fields, & forests, we are a gathering place for unique weddings, retreats, farm-to-table suppers, family reunions, birthday parties & corporate retreats.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Combines timeless elegance with history

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • No in-house catering options
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The Lucy Brate Barn at Mead Family Farm 

5.0

Delmar, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Our historic, nineteenth-century, recently renovated barn is surrounded by natural beauty with picturesque rolling green pastures grazed by Angus cows and Border Leceister sheep, as well as hay fields, and crop and cut flower fields. Our stately barn sits at the top of a hill overlooking the Vloman Kill. Our family has farmed this land in Albany County, NY for over two hundred years and we would like to share this beautiful property with you for your special day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor

Venue considerations

  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Dance floor not included
  • No in-house catering options
I attended a very memorable wedding at Lucy Brate Farm. The venue , a newly restored barn, was absolutely beautiful with a soaring ceiling, and plenty of natural light. The exposed beams and large barn doors made for an appealingly rustic yet chic setting. The views from around the venue were breathtaking. Gazing at the lush green grass and rolling hills, seeing sheep and cows grazing freely in the distance, it prompted much conversation as we took in this gorgeous view during the cocktail hour! The location of the venue makes you feel as if you’ve traveled far into the country but you are just a short distance from Albany.
Julie S., 2 years ago
M&D Farm 

5.0

Westerlo, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $16,500

M&D FARM: FALL IN LOVE... GET INSPIRED. Tucked away on 58 acres of pastoral beauty in Upstate New York, M&D Farm is a romantic escape for intimate garden and barn weddings. Where the Hudson Valley meets the Catskills and Capital Region, our property blends rustic elegance with timeless charm—featuring a gently preserved 1940s barn (complete with its own bar area), European-inspired gardens, a serene pond, open meadows, and lush woodlands—all anchored by a lovingly restored 1800s farmhouse. At M&D Farm, we believe your wedding should be as unique as your love story. That’s why we host only a limited number of weddings each year—ensuring an experience that feels exclusive, authentic, and entirely yours. With us, affordable luxury means understated elegance, where every detail whispers romance, not excess. Stroll through our gardens and let each space unfold like a hidden world—whimsical, intimate, and utterly unforgettable. Contact us today! We can’t wait to bring your vision to life.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Rustic charm with elegance

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
  • No in-house catering options
I saw a photo of M&D farm on google two years ago. My husband and I had our wedding at M&D this past month. We did not view any other venues and booked this venue site unseen. This venue truly spoke to us! I cannot even find the words to explain how magical our wedding weekend was. Most of our guests told us it was the most beautiful wedding they had ever been to. With every single corner of this property you will find something new and special. Just when you didn’t think it could get more beautiful throughout the day, Mario and Daniel unveil yet another grand detail. Between the home they have perfectly curated, the flower beds, the secret garden, the upper gardens, the gravel throughout, the garden statues, the greenery, the barn, the pond, the fields, I could go on for days about how dreamy it feels. As you take in the the view of flowers, a breeze will follow giving your nose a chance to experience the scent of the flowers, all while the birds and the bees hum their melodies. It is straight out of the most perfect fairytale movie set you can imagine for a wedding- but it is real! Mario and Daniel’s hospitality and professionalism is unmatched. To sum it up, we had many guests tell us how helpful they were the entire day. But they made sure to say that it was the perfect amount of help, not too much and not too little. Guests told us they felt welcomed into this magical space that Mario and Daniel so happily love to share with everyone who enters. I can 100% say we have no regrets about anything because the entire day went even better than we could have imagined. Mario and Daniel are masters at what they do. Moving onto the wedding planning process. We worked with Mario and Daniel for about a year and a half. They made everything so easy and very straightforward. They were very helpful but not overbearing. One thing I would like to point out is, they have an unspoken understanding of your vision for the day. Some things I hadn’t even thought to communicate they delivered on, because they just understand the vision. I believe this is because they are very connected to each of the couples they plan with. It’s truly amazing! Regarding vendors, we used most of the vendors Mario and Daniel recommended and we are so happy we did. They work with a trusted tight-knit group of vendors because they trust and know they will deliver and bring the best energy and service to your special day. If you feel drawn to this venue, follow your heart, the magic is calling you and will exceed your expectations. Thank you Mario and Daniel for everything
Cassity L., a month ago

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About wedding venues in Delmar, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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