__We asked over 4k Zola couples getting married in 2023 about what’s on their minds – what they’re planning, what they’re prioritizing, and what’s got them pumped.__

And what we heard back was pretty interesting. These couples have been engaged for on average 2 years – longer than any group we’ve surveyed before. That means more time to plan the wedding they really want, and to celebrate even more of the mini-moments along their way to the big day. 

Good news: There’s no shortage of ideas. Couples are getting inspo — things they love and things they might do differently — from all the weddings they attended in the epic year for weddings that was 2022. Plus, with the rise of [#WeddingTok](https://www.tiktok.com/@zola) and Zola’s [online wedding planning community](https://www.zola.com/community/topic/general), they now have more places to gather, get ideas, and ask questions. For 2023 couples, it’s not about “keeping up with the Joneses,” it’s about creating unique, personalized, intentional, and memorable celebrations. 

More good news: These couples are excited. We straight up asked them how they feel about wedding planning and they made it clear that this is a journey they feel enthusiastic about. They’ve shaken off preconceptions of what a wedding should be: __2023 couples know that, ultimately, the wedding is just one (really fun & special) part of the journey. And, there are many days and moments that they’re celebrating along the way. __

## First comes love, and then, for most couples, comes a long list of milestones before marriage (including a longer-than-ever engagement).<a id="couples"> </a>

The ongoing wedding boom means many venues and vendors booked up well in advance, so __2023 couples have been patiently waiting their turn for (on average, 18 - 24 months)__. For some added perspective, before the pandemic, the average engagement was about 12 months long. But hey, what’s a few extra months when over half (54%) of these couples have been together for 5+ years?

And, couples haven’t just been waiting around to get their lives started; they've used this time practically, and they don’t feel like marriage absolutely must precede other life events. Aside from choosing each other, these couples have already ticked off some pretty major milestones together. Sure, they live together before the wedding. But, from combining finances and making huge purchases, to going to couples therapy, some even breaking up and getting back together, they’re riding the rollercoaster of life in a way that is just right for them.

![FLR-Infographic-pre-engagement timeline](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3ceGzN2IEWBqnCpbZ6uqk9/70538bda2fc4684d8dc8940279788b0f/FLR-Infographic-pre-engagement_timeline.jpg)

## For these couples, weddings aren’t just for the sake of tradition; weddings are a way for couples to be surrounded by their loved ones, represent who they are as a unit and demonstrate their love for each other.

__2023 couples want their weddings to feel even less “traditional” (43%) than weddings of the previous few years.__ It’s not about the pomp and circumstance: They want to be married and have a wedding, yes, and they want those weddings to be representative of who they are and what their future together will be about. This year again, we see couples turning away from what they’re supposed to do and turning towards what they’re excited to do. 

Our data also shows subtle nuances in how this plays out for different generations. 

- Millennials and Zillennials ranked having a fun party with their loved ones as the #1 reason to have a wedding
- Gen Z ranked because it means a lot to them and is something they’ve always dreamed about as their top reason

The majority of couples, regardless of age, also want to demonstrate their love for each other in the form of a wedding. Meanwhile, very few couples of any age are having a wedding just because they feel like society, tradition, or other people say they should. 

## Couples are looking to the future — when it comes to choosing a partner, background matters much less than shared values and vision.

__Here’s what couples said was very important for their partner to share:__

- Values 
- Vision for growing a family 
- Financial goals 
- Sexual compatibility 

Sharing the same career goals, level of income and salary, political views and religion are important, but for almost all couples, these attributes rank much further below what’s listed above. 

Additionally, race is no longer an important factor in choosing a partner: 85% stated that marrying a person of the same race is not important to them at all. This makes sense when you consider that rates of interracial marriage [continue to increase](https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/05/27/as-millennials-near-40-theyre-approaching-family-life-differently-than-previous-generations/#:~:text=Among%20married%20Millennials%2C%208%25%20of,all%20racial%20and%20ethnic%20groups.) from generation to generation. It simply doesn’t take precedence the way it did for many previous generations, and especially does not take precedence over those factors listed above. 

Couples' diverse backgrounds show up in their authentic wedding visions:
- 14% are combining their religions and cultural traditions 
- 31% are having a religion-free wedding 
- 22% are purposefully choosing a wedding vendor team who aligns with their values. 

[![Team Z Tip 1 - Vendor Vows](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4f1qxUp2cPKVJrrpESclFc/d00678c3d28587ff75468077bf93a46f/Team_Z_Tip_1.jpg)](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors)

## Although certain about who to marry, most couples reported also feeling unsure of where to begin: 60% feel overwhelmed by setting a budget and 54% don't know where to begin their vendor search.

When it comes to when they’re wedding planning, these couples are using their free time — and some of their not-exactly-free time. While most couples are planning on the weekends and at night, 46% did admit to planning during work. We see you, we salute you. 

Despite 33% saying they feel like they’re planning “all the time,” they’re enjoying it together. __Half of 2023 couples said wedding planning has made their relationship stronger (45% said it didn’t have any impact on their relationship).__ They’ve also got big support systems around them. 77% said their partner has been their “rock” during the process, 18% said their pet is their tower of strength, and 5% have found an anchor in their therapist. Huh, not a bad ad for wedding planning.

[![Team Z Tip 2 - Budget tracker](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6zQh9aCUnegIbvtjdH36wH/7083b0500b297e3688039c7e17e6a5df/Team_Z_Tip_2.jpg)](https://apps.apple.com/us/app/zola-wedding-registry-gifts/id852691916)

## Inflation has increased some costs, but it has not changed overall budgets or wedding guest counts, so we know couples are spending $ with extra intention and thought. <a id="budgets"> </a>

__The average wedding budget sits between $20,000 - $40,000 (the same as 2022), and guest lists fall between 100-150 (31%), and 150-200 (23%).__ Important to note: Most of these couples locked their venues and vendors in months ago, so many costs and contracts have been signed, sealed, delivered for quite some time. 

OK, so what are these couples prioritizing their spend on? 2023 couples are mainly willing to splurge on their memories: They want the perfect photographer and their ideal venue. 

In terms of what they’re prioritizing less, compared to 2022, fewer couples marked attire as a “splurge” (down 20%). Makes sense when you consider the increased interest in upcycling: 19% want to thrift their wedding look and/or elements. And, as couples remain conscious of their budgets (and their guests!) amid rising costs, they’re also thinking in a cost-conscious way around hosting supplementary events such as bach parties and showers, to make them meaningful but without huge price tags. 

__The majority of couples continue to contribute to the payment of their wedding in some way.__ They’re also being smart about how to pay:

- 29% are optimizing credit cards
- 26% have saved for years prior to getting engaged
- 24% are adding cash funds meant to supplement wedding costs to their registries 

Speaking of cash funds, 81% have added cash funds to their registry, and they’re using them as an opportunity to ask for support on the many other financial responsibilities beyond their wedding:

![FLR-budgets-cash funds ](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/32UiKvz3iYaFry2iaBivoB/8abe0b5ef5997c0a29d863ea4d11b063/FLR-budgets-cash_funds_1080x720.jpg)

## 2023 couples have spent the past year cheering on their loved ones at, on average, 5+ weddings, and 80% say they’ve been heavily influenced to make their celebrations even more unique. 

Like we said, these couples don’t see their wedding as an obligation — they are planning the weddings they want to attend. For the most part, __2023 couples want their weddings to feel more fun, authentic, and welcoming, and a reflection of their values, and less traditional, religious, and fancy.__ 

And that translates into some pretty interesting ways couples are reimagining their weddings. From having a friend or family member officiate, to breaking with gender stereotypes, picking a theme that feels authentically them, and even memorializing loved ones who’ve had an impact on their lives, they’re differentiating in many ways:

![FLR-Infographic-new traditions](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6p0zpfwRtjNsdUru8o54IN/8d24a5503e7f910644860de7272b5832/FLR-Infographic-new_traditions.jpg)

## Social media has taken on new roles during the planning process, helping 71% of couples figure out their wedding style, making 48% feel even more excited, and providing 24% with a greater sense of community. <a id="social"> </a>

While there used to be a few big resources for wedding inspo, (shoutout to Pinterest, the mood board OG that 75% of couples said is still a major source of inspo) there are now endless channels for couples to surf. 

#WeddingTok is rising fast to compete as a top resource, while 13% of couples are turning to online communities, such as [Zola’s community](https://www.zola.com/community/topic/general), to feel connected, supported, and get inspired. 

Beyond inspo, 49% credit TikTok as being there for them as a much-needed mental break and/or comic relief, and 23% said endlessly scrolling social media helped them to combat stress. Fortunately, only 13% said social media added pressure to do things a certain way or to a certain standard. 

__For 90%, social media plays a role on and around the big day__, with 29% admitting they'll overshare their planning and wedding pics for years to come (we would, too!), and 13% incorporating an actual social media plan into their wedding day timeline.

[![Team Z Tip 3](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2obBUSMJWussaC4LajFkSm/2ffdfa75aa42565979ec7e622eb28f84/Team_Z_Tip_3.jpg)](https://www.tiktok.com/@zola)

## After 2 years of planning, what will these weddings look & feel like? The answer: unexpected, local, non-traditional, and also yummy. <a id="inspo"> </a>

__Love is in the air -__ 81% of 2023 venue inquiries on Zola’s platform are for completely outdoor, or covered outdoor venues. So, while beautiful, staple ballrooms venues are the most popular, we see that parks & garden venues come in as a close second as couples seek boho, natural vibes to fit the settings. Think wildflower bouquets, more casual-feeling events, and even celestial themes. Searches for farms, barns, and ranch venues on Zola have also increased 39% in the past year. 

__All the drama -__ The word “moody” is a top search term on Zola for 2023 weddings. How are couples incorporating this? In terms of color palettes, think dark, gorgeous shades like plum, emerald, gold, burgundy, maroon and rust that evoke true romance. Beyond the look and feel of that day, we also see this vibe creep into other vendor choices, such as couples are gravitating towards more dramatic and cinematic photography & videography. 

__Local romance -__ Also, remember we said that couples are having weddings to feel connected to their loved ones, so as ⅓ of couples are concerned about current travel industry troubles, 55% are choosing a venue local to where they currently live, and 18% are choosing a venue local to their hometown. 6% are selecting an international locale. 

__Full hearts, full bellies -__ Hot & fresh wedding food coming right up, with caterers supporting couples in their quest for creativity. In fact, 15% of couples are incorporating their own dietary preferences into the food selection. Expect: 
- Foods that nod to couples’ hometowns and heritages – from crab cakes for Maryland to green chilis for New Mexico, and everything in between
- After-party fast food – Taco Bell, Panda Express, Chipotle…pick your poison
- Pizza. That’s it. That’s the trend. (And we’re here for it) – casual, customizable, easy to serve en masse: what more could you want?

## After the wedding there’s… a breather to enjoy married life. Now, that’s what we call wedded bliss.

As we said, while the wedding itself is one momentous, huge, milestone, it’s not the only one 2023 couples are planning for. Once they’re married they have some big plans:

- 27% are prioritizing buying a home
- 19% are prioritizing starting a family
- 15% are prioritizing paying off debts
- 7% are prioritizing saving for travel
- 5% are prioritizing finishing education

And, when asked what they’re looking forward to most after the wedding, most couples answered sweetly that they just can’t wait to spend the rest of their lives together. Here’s to happily ever after. 

### Want to see all the data? Contact press@zola.com for a full breakdown and for any other media inquiries.

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Your wedding invitations are an important piece of the planning puzzle. Not only are your invitations one of the first things your guests will see, touch, and feel when it comes to your wedding, but they do an important job of conveying critical information. For the sake of politeness and formality, as well as for clarity of your message, be sure to choose clear and appropriate wedding invitation wording.

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Worried you’re not good with words, or you don’t know all the proper “rules” for wedding invitation wording? Follow our comprehensive guide, outlined below, to understand the ins and outs of wedding invitation wording and etiquette.

## What to Include in Your Wedding Invitation 
![what-to-include-in-your-wedding-invitation](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6OrqLSs7G5su3LU5E5fq1x/b66c146a6b51f678844aa5dccc591c64/what-to-include-in-your-wedding-invitation.jpg)

The wedding invitation sets the theme for your wedding. When guests see [a rustic invitation](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop/rustic) with informal wording, it lets them know that the event will be casual. When they see a [classic wedding invitation](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop/classic) with traditional wording, they will expect a formal event. Like your wedding, invitations can be as simple or as grandiose as you want as long as they accomplish the following jobs:

- Tell guests the critical information about the wedding: who is getting married, the wedding date, and the wedding location.
- Recognize the hosts of the wedding.
- Convey the tone and formality of the wedding, including the dress code.
- Indicate how guests should RSVP, if no response or other enclosure cards are included.
- Recognize the couple’s parents, if they are not also the hosts. (Optional)

If you are writing your own invitations from scratch, follow these requirements line-by-line as you fill out this piece of your wedding stationery. Each section outlines what information should appear, and in what order, on a traditional wedding invite. Once you understand the various components of invitation wording, feel free to get creative with your own personal touches and style, using the language that feels right for you and your partner.

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## Essential Wedding Invitation Wording (Line-by-Line)

### 1. Host Line
Located at the very top of the invitation, the host line is where the name(s) of the event hosts appear. The hosts are typically the people who are paying for the wedding. Depending on who’s hosting, the wording will vary slightly: it could be one set of parents, both sets of parents, the couple and their parents together, or just the couple. Jump down to the Wedding Invitation Wording Etiquette section for guidance on how to format names in your invitation.

### Host Line Etiquette
- Capitalize proper names and titles.
- Don’t use punctuation, except after courtesy titles.

### 2. Request Line
The request line is where you'd invite your guests to join your wedding celebration! Traditionally, couples would include formal wording in the request line to denote a formal religious ceremony, whereas modern celebrations tend to use more casual language in their invitation.

#### Request Etiquette
- Include the British spelling of "honour" to denote a more formal tone to your wedding day (“request the honour of your presence”)
- Opt for more casual language if you're planning a non-religious service or more casual wedding ceremony. Common wording options include "invite you to join," "please join us to celebrate," and "love the pleasure of your company."

### 3. Couple’s Names
Make sure you and your partner’s names are front and center. They may be placed high, low, or center depending on your invitation design, but make sure they are clearly legible. For heterosexual couples, the bride’s name traditionally comes before the groom’s. For same-sex couples, the wording of the host line may dictate who’s name comes first (i.e., if one set of parents is hosting, their names will come first and their child’s should follow). If you are hosting yourselves, then it’s up to you which name comes first.

#### Name Etiquette
- Capitalize proper names and titles.
- Don’t use punctuation, except after courtesy titles.
- Avoid abbreviations; in general, spell everything out except courtesy titles.
- Don’t spell out courtesy titles, except for “Doctor” in the case of medical doctors.
- Consider using both partners’ full legal names. If you prefer to go by a nickname, use it on the save the date or other, less formal pieces of the invitation suite.
- Drop the bride’s and/or groom’s middle names if they become too long to fit on one line.

### 4. Ceremony Information (Date, Time, and Location)
Don’t make your guests guess. Include everything they need to show up at the right place at the right time. The real meat of the <a href="https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/paper" target="_https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/paper"> invitations</a>, the information section follows the couple’s names. It states the date of the wedding, where the ceremony and reception are taking place, and the start time. Include the address of the wedding venue(s), unless your invitation design doesn’t allow room. You can also include information on dress code and how guests should RSVP (a wedding website, an email, and/or phone number, and an RSVP deadline) if you forgo a response card.

#### Information Etiquette
- Spell out the date and year for formal invitations so that guests do not transpose numbers.
- Spell out time for formal invitations.
- Don’t use a.m. or p.m. Instead use “in the morning”, “in the afternoon”, or “in the evening”. 
- Include the ceremony location, using the full address for a destination wedding or out-of-town guests.

### 5. Reception Details line
The party line comes at the end of the invitation and notifies guests of what’s scheduled to follow the wedding ceremony. Let your guests know what type of wedding reception they should expect, whether it’s dinner and dancing, a light luncheon, or cocktails and canapes.

#### Reception Details Line Etiquette
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- Include the reception location, if different than the ceremony, on a separate card for [formal wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop/formal). 

## Wedding Invitation Wording Etiquette and Examples
![wedding-invitation-wording-etiquette](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/hlMIKAeagmXrwzYvymnRc/aaeee860c12da1a4db12d697f626c7c3/wedding-invitation-wording-etiquette.jpg)

Wedding invitations, and how they are worded, are a topic that makes people nervous. What if you accidentally misspell a word, or leave out critical info? Or, worse yet, what if you don’t know the proper “rules” and end up committing a social faux pas? Never fear—we’ve put together a list of wedding invitation wording etiquette and examples that will help you craft perfectly on-point invitations.

__Note__: We realize that every wedding is unique. You will have to decide as a couple what type of language feels right for your specific style. These etiquette “rules” are really more suggestions for the most traditional and formal invitation wording. If you are having an informal wedding, and/or prefer a more modern approach to your invitation design, then do whatever works for you and your style.

### Hosted By One Set of Parents
![hosted-by-one-set-of-parents](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5ShCgsAATreIQByWCnFeJy/9850df43ba058415cfe1b904573e1846/hosted-by-one-set-of-parents.jpg)

Traditionally, the bride's family hosted and paid for the wedding. While that is still common, the groom’s family or even other loved ones may host the event. In all of these cases, it is a nice gesture to include their names on the invitation.

- Include your parents’ full names with middle names (for very formal invites).
- Avoid using initials. 
- Write "and" to join the two names if the parents have different last names.

#### Formal Invitation Example

> Mr. and Mrs. Ernie Lively 
> invite you to share in the joy 
> of marriage uniting their daughter 
> Blake Ellender 
> to 
> Ryan Rodney 
> Saturday, the ninth of September 
> two-thousand twelve 
> at noon 
> Boone Hall 
> Mount Pleasant, South Carolina 
> Dinner and merriment to follow 

#### Casual Invitation Example

> Mr. and Mrs. Oliver Simon Peter Blunt 
> invite you to the marriage of 
> Emily Olivia Leah 
> and 
> John Burke 
> July 10, 2010 
> at half past six in the evening 
> Via Regina Teodolinda, 35 
> Como, Italy 
> Food, wine, and merriment to follow 

### Hosted By Both Sets of Parents
![hosted-by-both-sets-of-parents](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2v37R0g9ao3mqyZdY1tdgn/05518e0f091bb63185d8d22168633206/hosted-by-both-sets-of-parents.jpg)

Weddings are beautiful celebrations of unity and what better way to demonstrate that unification than both sets of parents hosting the big day. If you are fortunate to have both families host your wedding, configuring all of the names on the invitation may be tricky. 

- List the bride’s parents’ names first if you are a different-sex couple. 
- List parents’ names in alphabetical order if you are a same-sex couple. 

#### Formal Invitation Example

> Mr. and Mrs. Anthony Adams 
> and 
> Mr. and Mrs. David Beckham 
> request the pleasure of your company 
> at the marriage of their children 
> Victoria Caroline 
> to 
> David Robert Joseph 
> Saturday, the fourth of July 
> Nineteen ninety-nine 
> at half past seven in the evening 
> Luttrellstown Castle 
> Clonsilla, Ireland 
> Reception to follow. 

#### Casual Invitation Example

> With great pleasure 
> Kimberly and Jonathan Biel 
> and Lynn Bomar Harless and Randall Timberlake 
> invite you to celebrate the marriage of their children 
> Jessica and Justin 
> October 19, 2012 
> at four o’clock in the afternoon 
> Borgo Egnazia Resort 
> 72015 Savelletri di Fasano BR, Italy 
> Dress as you wish, dine as you like, dance as you please

### Hosted By the Couple
![hosted-by-the-couple](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3te0hlIJQ9TltYpu6L6gjw/45d88869621a1c9a49c4758a52f79c17/hosted-by-the-couple.jpg)

For modern couples, the tradition of parents hosting a wedding is often skipped. Whether the couple has unique ideas for their wedding, wants to keep it small, or don’t have parents with us anymore, hosting your own wedding is a wonderful thing.

- To save space you can skip the host line or you can start the wording with a welcoming introduction.

#### Formal Invitation Example

> Amal Alamuddin 
> and 
> George Timothy Clooney 
> request the pleasure of your company 
> at the celebration of their marriage 
> Saturday, 27 September 2014 
> at noon 
> Aman Canal Grande Hotel in Venice, Italy 
> Festivities to follow 

#### Casual Invitation Example

> Miss Beyonce Knowles 
> and 
> Shawn “Jay Z” Carter 
> are getting married 
> Friday, April 4th, 2018 
> at four o’clock in the afternoon 
> Join us for dinner and drinks 

### Hosted By Divorced Parents
![hosted-by-divorced-parents](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/8WBKuDroA8kwAU4KB7Sez/03ef4a198d9a1e4f2993a9897de7b8b7/hosted-by-divorced-parents.jpg)

To include divorced parents on the invitation—either for the bride or the groom—include the mother’s name first followed by the father’s name on a separate line without an “and” separating them.

- For divorced mothers who are not remarried, use the courtesy title “Ms.” followed by whichever last name she prefers (maiden or married).
- To include stepparents on the invitation—for either the bride or the groom list the mother and stepfather’s names first, followed by the father and stepmother’s names.
- List the mother first regardless if the father is remarried and the mother is not.
- The bride should consider including her last name if multiple sets of parents, with different last names, come before her on the invitation.

#### Formal Invitation Example

> Mr. Angiolo Guiseppe and Ms. Elettra Rossellini 
> invite you to share in the joy 
> of marriage uniting their son 
> Roberto Rossellini 
> to 
> Ingrid Bergman 
> Saturday, the twenty-fourth of May 
> nineteen fifty 
> at noon 
> Hotel Boca Chica, Acapulco, Mexico 
> Dinner and merriment to follow 

#### Casual Invitation Example

> Ms. Pamela Jacobsen 
> Mr. and Mrs. Fred Jacobsen 
> invite you to share in their wedding festivities 
> at the marriage of their daughter 
> Jordan 
> to 
> Paige 
> Saturday, the tenth of April 
> two thousand and twenty one 
> at half past six in the evening 
> Hotel Chantelle 
> New York City, NY 
> Dress as you wish, dine as you like, dance as you please 

### Hosted By Parent, Including Deceased Parent
![hosted-by-parent-and-deceased-parent](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3q6HDcYU32ifqAFKT6cHn/015637a1699b93d14d94a8f85666d44e/hosted-by-parent-and-deceased-parent.jpg)

Weddings are emotional events especially when a parent isn't there to witness it. If you want to honor a deceased parent on your invitations include them in the host line or after the bride or groom's name.

- Use the phrase “the late” preceding his or her name.

#### Formal Invitation Example

> Mrs. and Mr. Michael Francis Middleton 
> request the honour of your company 
> at the marriage of their daughter 
> Catherine Elizabeth Middleton 
> to Prince William, Duke of Cambridge 
> Son of Charles, Prince of Wales and the late Diana, Princess of Wales 
> Friday, the twenty-ninth of April 
> two thousand and eleven 
> at eleven o’clock in the morning 
> at Westminster Abbey – 20, Deans Yard 
> London, England 
> Reception to follow 

#### Casual Invitation Example

> Together with their families 
> Malaak Compton 
> daughter of Gerald and Louisa Compton 
> and 
> Christopher Rock 
> son of the late Julius Rock and Rosalie Rock 
> invite you to share in their wedding festivities 
> November 23, 1996 
> at eight o’clock in the evening 
> The Estate at Florentine Gardens 
> 97 Rivervale Road 
> River Vale, New Jersey 
> Dinner reception to follow 

### Hosted By Same-Sex Parents
![hosted-by-same-sex-parents](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5yrqGZ53EITqbo4HXNw3Di/e15c40542de42bb03318611ac387131d/hosted-by-same-sex-parents.jpg)

If your parents identify as the same sex here are a few ways to best honor them on your invitation.

- To include the names of two parents with different last names, use the courtesy title “Mr.” “Mrs.” or “Mx.” and list their names in alphabetical order by last name.
- To include the names of two parents with the same last name, use the courtesy title “Mr.” “Mrs.” or “Mx.” and list their names in alphabetical order by first name.

#### Formal Invitation Example

> Mr. Michael and Mr. Sean Flannigan 
> request the pleasure of your company 
> at the marriage of their daughter 
> Julie Marie 
> to 
> Stephen Anthony 
> Saturday, the tenth of April 
> two thousand and twenty one 
> at half past six in the evening 
> Hotel Chantelle 
> New York City, NY 
> Reception to follow 

#### Casual Invitation Example

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> Ms. Jane and Ms. Courtney Lowe 
> invite you to attend the marriage 
> of their daughter 
> Madison 
> to 
> Colton 
> Saturday, April 10th, 2021 
> at half past six in the evening 
> Allan House 
> 1104 San Antonio Street 
> New York City, NY 
> Party to follow 

## Enclosure Cards Wording
![enclosure-cards-wording](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7qhfUvckCPh8G7zZhjM5SQ/dceec1cde74f1a1b179665295b52dde4/enclosure-cards-wording.jpg)

Once you have your bases covered on your invitation, feel free to include enclosure cards to inform your guests about details. Your cards could include reception details, RSVP information, or anything else that wouldn’t fit on the invitation. 

### RSVP Cards

RSVP cards are great tools for getting an accurate headcount for your big day. Make sure to include a reply-by date that occurs at least three weeks before the wedding. This will allow you to give a final headcount to the caterer and fill out your seating chart. On the RSVP card include specific instructions about how they should respond. If you expect them to be mailed back to you, it is courteous to include a stamped envelope. If you would like guests to RSVP online, include the URL to the wedding website on the card. If you have meal choices for your reception, the RSVP card is a great way to collect your guests’ preferences. 

### Change the Date Cards

Due to the ever-changing social distancing guidelines in response to COVID-19, changing a wedding date has become a reality for couples all over the world. If you had to make the difficult decision to postpone your wedding day, include a <a href="https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/change-the-date/shop" target="_hhttps://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/change-the-date/shop">change of date card</a> with information about the new date and time along with social distancing details. These will help keep your guest informed during these confusing times.

### Details Card

If you run out of space on your invitation but need to mention details about accommodations, directions, or attire, a details card is the perfect place for overflow. These are especially important if the reception is held at a different location than the ceremony.

Browse <a href="https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop" target="_https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop">Zola's Invites + Paper designs</a>. You can even order sample wedding invitations to get a feel for the, well, feel ahead of making your invites. Stay on top of your planning with our suite of <a href="https://zola.app.link/PaLG7eguI7" target="_https://zola.app.link/PaLG7eguI7">Wedding Planning Tools</a>.

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Have you chosen a wedding theme for your big day? If not, you should. We’ve put together an extensive list of different wedding themes we love that can be tailored to all sorts of couples, tastes, and wedding styles.

## Do I Need a Theme for My Wedding? 
Though having one isn't mandatory, theme weddings can help you decide on the style of your [bridesmaid dresses dress](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop), the wedding cake/[food you serve](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/menus/shop), the photos you take for your [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding/manage), wedding colors, and more. Having a wedding theme can also help you create more cohesion with your other pre-wedding events—for example, connection your wedding theme with your [bachelorette party theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-themes).

## How Do I Choose a Wedding Theme?
If you’re looking for wedding inspiration, you’ve come to the right place! Regardless of whether you are looking for a fall wedding or spring wedding, there are plenty of unique wedding reception themes for you and your partner to choose from. We’ve compiled a list of our favorite wedding theme ideas, that match the needs of book lovers, outdoor enthusiasts, an offbeat bride, and even more! Keep reading to discover the perfect wedding theme with 73 jaw-dropping wedding ideas for every style of bride.

## Popular Themes For Weddings<a id="popular"> </a>

Before we jump into all the wedding themes to choose from—whether you're classic or creative, glam or vintage, alternative or boho-inspired—let's take a look at some of the most popular wedding themes for today's soon-to-be-married couples:

1. __Formal contemporary:__ Stick to the basics with this upscale wedding theme that uses design elements from the present. Draped fabrics, crystal chandeliers, and tall centerpieces will bring this sophisticated look together.

2. __Classic glam:__ A classic glam affair is dazzling and over the top, with luxurious details from the venue to the decor. Monochromatic [color palettes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/5-wedding-color-palettes-to-try-right-now) are popular, with metallics mixed in to add glitz and glamour.

3. __Natural:__ Consider an open-air courtyard to celebrate the beauty of nature throughout your wedding day. [Eco-friendly wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/eco-friendly-wedding) details such as edible favors and a sustainable exit help add sustenance to your natural wedding vibe.

## Classic Wedding Themes<a id="classic"> </a>
If you're a traditional, classic person, chances are, you're going to gravitate towards traditional, classic wedding themes.

But "classic" and "traditional" certainly don't need to translate to "boring!" There are plenty of wedding themes that will give you the classic look and feel that you're going for—while still feeling exciting and unique—including:

4. __Winter wonderland:__ Your winter wedding celebration can glisten like snow with a winter wonderland theme. Use sparkles, snowflakes, and holiday decorations to achieve this dreamy aesthetic.

5. __Fall foliage:__ Use the colors of fall to inspire your wedding style—think maroon, gold, and forest green.

6. __Full bloom:__ In spring, all the flowers are in bloom—and you can use those blooming flowers as theme inspiration to your wedding. Incorporate fresh spring flowers into every element of your wedding decor—from elaborate table arrangements to a floral arbor.

### Classic Modern Wedding Themes

7. __Modern minimalist:__ Reduce distractions by limiting over-the-top decor and focusing instead on what really matters: the happy couple. Less is more with this simplistic theme that uses shapes, geometry, and small pops of color to come to life.

8. __Mid-century modern:__ Embrace this retro (yet still modern) design style in your wedding decor with retro tablescapes and burnt orange furniture.

9. __Art deco:__ Celebrate the timeless elegance of the roaring ’20s with gold decor, sparkling sequins, feathers, and lots of bubbly. Use a wedding color scheme of white, gold, and black for a sophisticated art deco design.

10. __Art history:__ For a tasteful and refined affair, consider a theme that commemorates art history throughout its decor and design. A museum or small art gallery is the perfect setting for this eventful art lesson.

11. __Preppy:__ Your country club wedding is the perfect stage for a preppy wedding theme. Combine bright accents and modern patterns together for a bold and flirty design in your [modern save the dates](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/save-the-date/shop/modern), invitations, and decor.

![wedding-themes-modern](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5nMSWtCHql6osd2SuhfSkO/34635f336c93404eb8e25349d9190943/wedding-themes-modern.png)
Sources: [Mariah Naella](https://weddings.mariahnaella.com/) | [Kate Merrill Photography](https://www.katemerrillphoto.com/) | [J Wiley Photography](https://jwileyphotography.com/) | [Captured Frames](https://capturedframes.com/) 

### Classic Glamorous Wedding Themes

12. __Chic estate:__ Old world glam takes center stage on the sprawling estate lawn during your ceremony and reception. Dress up your wedding tent with linens, lights, and floating florals for a look that’s elegant and refined.

13. __Classic romance:__ This timeless wedding theme comes with a soft, delicate palette of pinks and golds and traditional table decor such as bouquets made of roses and peonies. To set the romantic mood, provide candlelight and intimate seating for your guests.

14. __Vineyard chic:__ Wine enthusiasts can make bubbly an important part of their wedding day with a vineyard chic celebration. To bring your vision to life, consider hosting your ceremony and reception at an actual vineyard and use wine bottles and corks as creative decor.

15. __Botanical bliss:__ If you plan to play up florals on your wedding day, consider a botanical bliss wedding theme. This upscale garden party is luxe and sophisticated, and typically features metallic palettes and opulent floral displays. Send a floral save the date and wedding invitation to match your wedding theme decor.

### Classic Rustic Wedding Themes

16. __Rustic:__ For a [rustic theme](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/rustic-wedding-ideas)—popular with outdoor weddings—play up natural elements or homey decor (like plenty of greenery and mason jar floral arrangements).

17. __Country:__ Break out the cowboy boots and country music at a ranch-style wedding. You can even incorporate ranch activities like hayrides and horseback rides if your venue allows it.

18. __Shabby chic:__ This rustic-meets-[vintage wedding](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/real-weddings/vintage) style is all about romantic, soft textures and warm colors. Take something old and make it new again by decorating with antique [centerpieces](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-centerpiece-ideas) and light fixtures.

19. __Farm-to-table:__ Make food the focal point of your day by creating an outdoor ambiance using organic decor and fresh menu offerings. Try an earthy palette and centerpieces that feature fruits and vegetables.

20. __Southern charm:__ Peach cobbler and citrus are just some of the fixings to serve at your Deep South-inspired celebration. Play up feminine details and casual elegance in your ceremony and reception.

21. __French countryside:__ If you’re getting married at a chateau-style venue, consider saying “I do” the French way. This wedding theme mixes opulence with rustic chic. Make sure to bring lots of lavender, macarons, and baguettes baked with love.

<a id="rustic">![wedding-themes-rustic](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5C7BBB22goYR39EyK4V51D/1756be84e55408a255a481a8a5376210/wedding-themes-rustic.png)</a>
Sources: [Stacey Able Photography](http://www.stacyable.com/citrus-lake-atitlan-guatemala-destination-wedding-photography/) | [Mango Studios](https://mangostudios.com/) | [Lara Hotz](http://larahotz.com/) | [Nichols Photographers](https://www.nicholsphotographers.com/) 

### Classic Vintage Wedding Themes

22. __Tea party:__ Host a vintage tea party for a daytime wedding celebration that’s both casual and cute. Serve snacks on fine China, have bridesmaids carry parasols, and don’t forget delicate touches of lace in your [vintage wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop/vintage) and decor.

### Classic Destination Wedding Themes

23. __Tropical:__ You don’t have to get married on the beach to embrace the island vibe. Use lush palms, exotic flowers, and conch shells to pull together a tropical wedding, and encourage guests to get into theme with resort wear.

24. __Nautical:__ Anchor your love in place with a wedding theme that celebrates the high seas. Dress your celebration up with blue hues, breezy linens, and delicious seafood stations.

25. __Beach:__ If you’re dreaming of getting married barefoot, toes in the sand, then a beach wedding is for you! Embrace the shoreline with your decor and bouquet with a wedding arch made of dried poms.

## Creative Wedding Themes<a id="creative"> </a> 

Want to embrace a more creative vibe for your wedding? Then creative wedding themes might be just what you've been looking for. Think outside of the box while planning your dream wedding with these out-of-the-box wedding themes:

### Creative Seasonal Wedding Themes

26. __Summer glamp:__ Go glamping for a laid-back camp-themed wedding with a touch of glamour. Elevate a barn or backyard venue with feminine furniture and festive food stations for a summer camp experience like no other.

27. __Midsummer:__ Celebrate the Swedish Midsummer holiday with a summertime ceremony that is centered around florals. Host a daytime picnic where you and your guests relax in the sun while making flower crowns and wreaths.

### Creative Modern Wedding Themes

28. __Postmodern industrial:__ Revitalize a worn-down space such as an old factory or abandoned warehouse with a gritty and contemporary spin by using sharp lines and sleek accents. This theme looks to the future of design so have some fun picturing what your postmodern world looks like.

29. __Geode:__ This glittering gemstone wedding theme really rocks. Incorporate agate place cards, a geode cake design, and other stone accents to achieve this look.

30. __Pop art:__ If you’re looking for a loud wedding theme that always stays relevant, throw a pop art wedding. This style, made famous by artist Andy Warhol, mixes pop culture items with more traditional pieces for a look that’s anything but boring.

31. __Feminine maximalist:__ More is more with this colorful and loud wedding theme that plays up dramatic displays and quirky touches. Make your maximalism pretty in pink with cascading florals and bright embellishments.

### Creative Glamorous Wedding Themes

32. __Royal wedding:__ Channel the grace of Meghan Markle and the tradition of the British royal family with this romantic wedding theme. Myrtle flowers, London artwork, tiaras, and tea help make this look authentically chic.

33. __Desert chic:__ Achieve an earthy glam aesthetic—with a boho touch—by mixing elevated bohemian elements with desert plants. This is perfect for a summer wedding theme in the western heat. Send guests home with a succulent wedding favor to complete the theme.

34. __Breakfast at Tiffany’s:__ Your wedding palette can’t get more luxurious than Tiffany Blue. This classy wedding theme will embody the late great Audrey Hepburn, so play up her timeless style with white and black fashion accessories.

35. __Masquerade:__ Throw a dark, classy, and refined affair, all while wearing a mask. Whether you’re channeling Venice or Mardi Gras, this fun and festive wedding theme is heavy on the glitz, glamour, and mystery.

36. __Grecian:__ Host a wedding worthy of the gods by adorning your venue in drapes, vines, and earthy colors. Gold accents and greenery can help make the white and cream drapery pop.

![wedding-themes-vineyard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5a6sYi76hFOXds4k9tixJs/4de7808084b73d3b6252d3960c97a1ea/wedding-themes-vineyard.jpg)

### Creative Rustic Wedding Themes

37. __Kentucky Derby:__ This upscale country wedding theme is perfect for spring weddings. Bring southern glitz and glamour into your day with derby favorites like chic hats, mint juleps, and of course, horses!

38. __Patriotic:__ If you, your spouse, or someone you love has served, consider paying homage to their sacrifice with red, white, and [navy blue wedding](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/real-weddings/navy-blue) details. You can encourage veterans and service members to come dressed in uniform.

### Creative Vintage Wedding Themes

39. __Retro Trailer:__ Throw a unique and laid-back ceremony and reception in a retro trailer park. Gather a bouquet of wildflowers, hang twinkle lights for decoration, and serve barbecue to keep with the casual theme.

40. __Vintage Travel:__ Adventure seekers will love decorating for this theme that uses antique globes, postcards, and other vintage travel pieces as creative decor. Celebrate your wanderlust as you embark on the greatest journey of all.

41. __1950s:__ Take it back to happy days with a retro rock-a-billy wedding. Wear a tea length wedding gown and perfectly coiffed hair to achieve style aesthetic, and set up a photo booth to capture all the fun.

42. __Renaissance:__ Take your love back in time with this historical wedding theme. Consider replacing the traditional bridal dress with a medieval gown and serving up a menu full of ancient spices.

43. __Elvis elopement:__ Elope like you’re in Las Vegas, complete with your own Elvis Presley officiant. You can keep it casual with this vintage style ceremony.

44. __Fantasy of flight:__ If you’re an aviation enthusiast, consider celebrating the fantasy of flight on your wedding day. Take your decorations back to 1937, the year Amelia Earhart took her last flight.

45. __Midnight in Paris:__ You don’t have to go all the way to France to have a dazzling Parisian wedding celebration. Create a nostalgic vibe using creative touches such as books written by Hemmingway and Bukowski as centerpiece decor.

46. __Theatre:__ If you and your partner are film buffs, consider hosting your wedding at a historical theatre. Make movie magic part of your day with popcorn, a film screening, and touches of old Hollywood glamor.

47. __Peacock:__ Channel the glamor of 1920s lounges with a peacock wedding theme. This mod, [chic wedding style](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/10-chic-wedding-themes-for-a-city-wedding) uses the beautiful shades of peacock feathers to bring together the ceremony and reception details.

![wedding-themes-vintage](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4WYEPXwvnrWa8EmgcIBVlf/1706751532c9b5957dc651f45153a4f9/wedding-themes-vintage.jpg)

### Creative Storybook Wedding Themes

48. __Harry Potter:__ If you’ve ever dreamed of traveling to Hogwarts, a magical ball might be the wedding theme for you. Break out your wand, spell books, and chocolate frogs and throw a party that would make Potter proud.

49. __A Midsummer Night’s Dream:__ Host a magical Shakespearean-inspired wedding in the height of summer — think fairy lights and greenery at a post-sunset celebration that’s heavy on the romance and wine.

50. __Alice in Wonderland:__ Take your guests down a rabbit hole with this themed garden party idea. Bring the look together with eclectic touches such as clocks, cards, pocket watches, and pastels.

51. __Romantic Fairytale:__ Ditch the kitschy themes in favor of an upscale fairytale rich in romantics. Use a pink and white color palette for a dreamy aesthetic and add tasteful touches to your reception decor.

52. __Great Gatsby:__ Celebrate the Jazz Age with a Gatsby-inspired party featuring diamonds, feathers, and glamorous accents — don’t forget the champagne towers and fringe.

53. __Twilight:__ Edward and Bella knew a thing or two about love. Channel the infamous [Twilight wedding](https://venuelust.com/post/twilight-wedding/) outdoors with dangling florals and wooden furniture.

54. __Enchanted Forest:__ Earthy couples can embrace the mystique of the forest with this wedding theme that features twinkling lights, hanging moss, and greenery vines.

55. __Secret Garden:__ Take a page from the English novel and host a wedding inspired by the cozy and lush charm of a British garden.

56. __Disney:__ Inspire childlike wonder with a Disney-themed wedding. Whether you focus on one story, such as Cinderella, or mix in elements from multiple fairytales, this theme is sure to evoke nostalgia in your guests.

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Sources: [Stephanie Weber Photography](https://stephanieweberphotography.com/) | [Nirav Patel](https://niravpatelphotography.com/) | [Abigail Malone](https://abigailmalone.com/) | [Arte De Vie](https://artedevie.com/) and [Blue Gardenia Events ](http://www.bluegardeniaevents.com/)

### Creative Destination Wedding Themes

57. __Aloha brunch:__ Host a Hawaiian-inspired luau during the day so you can take advantage of the sunshine and vibrant colors. The morning reception opens up new menu offerings like banana pancakes and mimosas.

58. __Jungalow:__ What is a jungalow wedding? Jungalow designer [Justina Blakeney](https://blog.jungalow.com/) describes this design style as wild, cozy, and homey, with boho touches and lots of plants—perfect for a more bohemian wedding.

59. __Yacht:__ This is not your average wedding on the water. Take your nautical up a notch with an upscale, black-tie wedding on (or inspired by) a yacht!

60. __Under the sea:__ Hold your under-the-sea nuptials at an aquarium so you can say “I do” alongside creatures of the deep. Decorate with turquoise, coral centerpieces, and sand dollars.

61. __Rainforest:__ If you’re interested in hosting a private, tranquil affair, consider a rainforest-themed wedding. Pick a destination with rich, natural landscapes, send a [destination wedding save the date](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/save-the-date/shop/destination), and play up the greenery decor.

62. __Yoga retreat:__ Enter marriage with a cleansed mind and spirit. You and your guests can reach a Zen state through meditation during the ceremony. Then dress up your reception with yoga-inspired relics and handwoven blankets.

63. __Safari:__ If you and your spouse are animal lovers, consider a safari wedding theme. Embrace natural tones mixed with animal prints for an eclectic, bush-inspired vibe.

![wedding-themes-exotic](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6PDon46BqVfhQU4ZGZkzKG/8f1620b23498fdd74cce4b7f552541ce/wedding-themes-exotic.jpg)

### Creative Alternative Wedding Themes

64. __Rock ‘n Roll:__ Get inspired by rock stars from decades past with a wedding theme that celebrates your love for music, fashion, and eclectic decor. You can rock n’ roll all wedding night, and then party every day with your spouse from here on after!

65. __Festival:__ If you and your partner love music festivals, consider a festival wedding where guests camp onsite, rock floral crowns, and dance into the night.

66. __Carnival:__ Be kids for the day with this wedding theme that lets you relive your childhood. Incorporate silly touches such as balloons, circus tents, and fair food — but maybe beware of clowns.

67. __Gothic:__ A castle-like venue is the perfect setting for a gothic affair. Consider ditching the white wedding dress in favor of something more sinister and don’t forget to light up lots of candelabras.

68. __Steampunk:__ This chic and sexy wedding theme is reminiscent of the steam-powered aesthetics of the Victorian era. Have some fun with your wedding day outfit and encourage guests to get into the theme, too!

69. __Celestial:__ If your love burns as bright as the stars in the galaxy, consider a celestial wedding to celebrate the sky. Star-crossed lovers can get decor inspiration and color palettes from astronomy, stars, and outer space with this out-of-this-world wedding theme.

70. __Mountain:__ If you’re a morning person and/or lover of the outdoors, how about a hike-themed wedding that has your guests up and active at dawn? Play up the hiking theme after your intimate, mountainside ceremony with a celebratory brunch reception.

71. __Halloween:__ If you’re getting married in the fall, take advantage of the spooky season’s deep color pallette and popular accessories such as pumpkins, smoke, and crystal balls.

72. __Murder mystery:__ While you have everyone all dressed up, why not throw a murder mystery (and some funky accents) into the mix? Perfect for couples who love games, this wedding theme can be incorporated into the decorations, entertainment, and menu.

73. __Game of Thrones:__ Winter is coming to your wedding with this theme straight from Winterfell. Let your [wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one) get into character with faux fur, tiaras, and thick braids.

![wedding-themes-alternative](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6KF7Kfp5f2WR1PH2XgqoAt/98fa5d92d309df258f4f4975d8ba1323/wedding-theme-alternative.png)

Sources: [Uriel Photography](http://www.uriel-photography.com/) | [Michelle Edgemont](https://michelleedgemont.com/) | [Nichols Photographers](https://www.nicholsphotographers.com/) 

After you’ve found a wedding theme perfect for you and your spouse, it’s time to start [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning). Shop for decor and more at [Zola’s Wedding Boutique](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop), and don’t forget to match your [invites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop) to your wedding theme.

73 Wedding Themes to Inspire Every Type of Couple

*Want to keep track of your wedding budget? [Try our free budget tool](https://www.zola.com/wedding-budget) with payment reminders and tips on how much to spend.*

What are couples spending on weddings? Well, it depends. The average cost of a wedding in 2023 is as varied as the couple tying the knot. 

Estimating the average cost of a wedding is both art and science. How much is the average wedding? Well, it’s important to keep in mind that average wedding costs are just that — averages. While helpful, a wedding budget does not need to define a vibe or vision. 

Average wedding costs vary for several reasons: the number of guests, location, day of the week, and even the seasonality of food served and flowers displayed. It helps to picture the day and think about what matters most to the two of you. Think of the wedding budget in pieces and priorities rather than imagining the whole thing at once. 

## How Much Will Couples Pay for Weddings in 2023?<a id="couples"> </a>

Every year, we survey thousands of engaged couples to hear about their wedding-planning experiences. In our latest [First Look Report](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-first-look-report-2023), we learned that the average wedding expenses for couples getting married in 2023 total around $29,000, up slightly from $28,000 in 2022. Most couples will send invitations to 130–150 guests this year, making it quite the party. And inflation is also a factor because economic changes always impact the cost of goods and services. 

The most important thing to remember is that an amazing wedding can happen on any budget, and along with your team of vendors, Zola is there to guide you along every part of the journey. And there is more than one way to pay for a wedding. Today, the majority of couples contribute to their wedding bills in some way, and we’ve found that in 2023: 

- 29% will optimize credit cards
- 26% have saved for years to prepare
- 24% are including cash funds on their registries to cover wedding costs 

## Average Wedding Cost by Number of Guests<a id="guest"> </a>

Some wedding cost line items, like photography, are less dependent on guest count and more on other factors, such as services provided and time. But other line items, such as catering and decor, are greatly impacted by the size of the wedding.

Zeroing in on your estimated number of guests and the size of your wedding party early on in the wedding planning process helps when evaluating everything from venue size to catering. 

If you’re unsure how many invitations you’ll send, our team found the average wedding guest list was 130–150 people, and about 75% of guests usually RSVP yes. This is a good starting point for budget conversations if you’re unsure where to begin. Have open and honest discussions with vendors about how your guest count may impact the pricing of their services, such as how the price of fifteen table centerpieces might differ from the price of ten. Vendors are there to support you and help you get the information you need to make decisions, after all! 

As with all things, the average cost per person for a wedding has a lot of variables. But we can derive some data based on the size of your guest list.

- Over 200 guests: $40,000 and up
- 150–200: $36,000
- 100–150: $31,000
- 75–100: $22,000
- 50–75: $18,000
- Under 50 guests: under $15,000

## Average Wedding Cost by State<a id="state"> </a>

Just as home, food, gas, and other prices vary by state, so do those for weddings. The cost of a wedding in our most expensive location is more than double that of our least expensive — though $19,000 is still a sizable investment!

Here is a complete breakdown of more than 4,000 couples and their projected average spending on weddings in 2023 by state.

- Washington, DC: $45,400
- New Jersey: $44,219
- New York: $43,863
- Massachusetts: $40,097
- Illinois: $36,844
- West Virginia: $33,333
- Pennsylvania: $32,562
- California: $32,369
- Connecticut: $31,350
- Louisiana: $31,100
- Virginia: $30,205
- Maryland: $29,928
- Rhode Island: $29,531
- South Carolina: $28,456
- Montana: $28,214
- North Carolina: $28,170
- Florida: $28,121
- Hawaii: $28,000
- Colorado: $25,625
- Minnesota: $25,377
- Georgia: $25,284
- Wisconsin: $25,242
- Mississippi: $25,000
- Kentucky: $24,565
- Indiana: $24,531
- Missouri: $24,293
- Ohio: $24,157
- Texas: $24,063
- South Dakota: $23,750
- Tennessee: $23,698
- Michigan: $23,586
- Arizona: $22,845
- Maine: $22,750
- New Hampshire: $22,667
- Nevada: $22,353
- Washington: $21,352
- Oregon: $20,955
- Alabama: $20,208
- Iowa: $20,000
- Nebraska: $19,643
- Delaware: $19,643
- Kansas: $18,690
- Utah: $18,409
- Wyoming: $16,111
- Idaho: $15,769
- Vermont: $15,000
- Arkansas: $14,545
- Oklahoma: $14,464
- New Mexico: $13,500
- North Dakota: $12,917
- Alaska: $12,083

## Average Wedding Cost in the Largest Metro Areas<a id="metro"> </a>

Yes, big-city weddings often come with higher price tags than weddings in rural areas. Still, for the possible tradeoff of some budget items, you can get the urban sophistication of a New York City, Houston, Phoenix, or other metro area wedding. Metro areas are also travel hubs, meaning they’re accessible and offer cheaper flights and accommodations than remote locations. It’s all about what matters to you. 

You’ll have to balance out your wants — like the urban sophistication of a New York City wedding — with your needs of [sticking to a budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/5-ways-cut-wedding-costs) and [reducing the guest list](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/small-wedding-guest-list).

As of 2023, this is the average cost of a wedding in the largest American metros:

- New York City: $43,536
- San Francisco-Oakland-San Jose: $37,284
- Boston: $35,902
- Philadelphia: $34,111
- Miami-Ft. Lauderdale: $33,622
- Washington, DC: $33,199
- Chicago: $32,281
- Los Angeles: $30,712
- Houston: $27,792
- Tampa-St. Petersburg: $26,806
- Cleveland-Akron: $25,793
- Detroit: $25,513
- Atlanta: $25,473
- Orlando-Daytona Beach-Melbourne: $25,288
- Phoenix: $23,852
- Denver: $23,367
- Minneapolis-St. Paul: $22,664
- Sacramento-Stockton-Modesto: $22,372
- Dallas-Fort Worth: $21,602
- Seattle-Tacoma: $21,458

## Cost Differences For Wedding Services in 2023<a id="service"> </a>

Once you nail down the major requirements — where, when, and who — you’re ready to begin conversations with vendors and decide how much to spend on each service. Your vendors will guide you in making budget-conscious decisions, such as selecting food and flowers that are in season or recycling ceremony decor for the reception. While you might not be able to splurge on every checklist item, what’s important is your wedding still feels like a reflection of your relationship and future together. 

To help you and your soon-to-be spouse plan ahead, here are the national average wedding expenses for services in 2023, based on a total budget of around $29,000:

- Wedding venue: $6,500–$12,000
- Catering: $6,500–$10,000
- Band or DJ: $2,000–$7,000
- Wedding planner: $1,500–$4,750
- Photographer: $3,500–$6,500
- Videographer: $3,000–$6,000
- Flowers: $2,500–$6,000
- Transportation: $700–$1,200
- Cake: $600–$900
- Ceremony music: $500–$800
- Hair and makeup: $550–$850

## 6 Tips to Save Money on Your Wedding<a id="save"> </a>

With so many considerations, it helps to start with a wedding budget breakdown. Here you’ll decide what you want to spend in specific categories or what dollar amount you’d earmark for expenditures. To help get you started, we’ve got six tips to help save money on your big day. 

### 1. Zola’s Budget Tool

Couples told us they wanted an easy way to track their budget… so we created one! It’s simple to use. In Zola’s budget tool, currently available in the [iPhone app](https://apps.apple.com/us/app/zola/id852691916), enter your maximum budget and how much you plan to spend on everything from your venue to your videographer. Our handy tool helps you keep tabs on your spending, get payment reminders, and see expert tips on budgeting. 

### 2. Decide what’s most important

Every couple and “dream” vision is different. For most, the priority is having all of their loved ones in attendance, and often other details fall into place. Sit down as a partnership and decide on the top three ingredients you must have and go from there, whether it be a live band, top-shelf open bar, videographer, or steakhouse meal. There are no wrong answers — only your answers for your wedding.

### 3. Search on Zola

After prioritizing the essential pieces of your big day, [search Zola for wedding vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors) and venues based on price and other factors. We love social media for inspiration — but leave the planning to us. We can help you curate the most memorable and personalized wedding vibe.

### 4. Send digital save-the-dates

Sending digital [save-the-dates](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-save-the-dates) is an easy way to save. Zola’s digital save-the-dates are completely free! 

### 5. Thrift wedding attire
Upcycling and thrifting have become second nature for many people in their everyday lives, but shopping secondhand is also a great way to save on wedding attire and decor. After all, doesn’t everyone need to find their perfect something borrowed? 

In fact, we found that 19% of today’s couples upcycle to avoid excessive spending on tuxedos, wedding dresses, other white outfits, wedding party attire, and more. 

### 6. Include cash funds in your registry

The vast majority of couples today — over 80% — add personalized cash funds to their registry. Not only does this help the happy couple start their life together, but it also helps them afford other major expenses — the dream home, a home renovation, or a future family. 

## Let Zola take the work out of wedding planning

The wedding should be one of the best days of your life, but celebrate the steps to get there as well. The average wedding cost breakdown figures above are averages, and planning your big day comes down to prioritization and must-haves. 

For that and everything else you need for your big day, Zola is here to help.

What’s the Average Cost of a Wedding in 2023?

How Much Does the Average Wedding Cost in 2023? 

Brainstorming wedding registry ideas is arguably one of the most enjoyable parts of wedding planning. What’s not to love about crafting a curated wish list to kick off your lives as newlyweds? 

Your wedding registry is your guests’ true north for choosing the perfect wedding gift, and it streamlines the entire gift-giving and receiving process. Instead of winding up with a slow cooker you don’t need, your registry makes it easy for guests to choose gifts you and your partner truly want or need. 

Deciding what to add to your wedding registry is highly personal, and there are plenty of creative options if material gifts aren’t your thing. Honeymoon funds, [cash funds](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry/how-cash-gifts-work), and even charity funds are all fair game. 

Ultimately, your wedding registry should align with you and your partner’s goals. Maybe your home is already furnished but you’re saving for renovations—add a cash fund! Or perhaps you’d happily forfeit material gifts for a [fully funded honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-fund-101). On the flip side, you might finally stock up on those home essentials you never bothered with when you were single—things like quality bedding, upgraded cookware, or kitchen dishes (that actually match). 

Read along for our favorite wedding registry must-haves, broken down by budget: 

- <a href="#150">Wedding Registry Ideas $150+</a> 
- <a href="#100">Wedding Registry Ideas $100–$150</a> 
- <a href="#75">Wedding Registry Ideas $75–$100</a> 
- <a href="#51">Wedding Registry Ideas $50–$75</a> 
- <a href="#50">Wedding Registry Ideas Under $50</a> 

Dig into the best wedding registry items for 2023 below!

## Wedding Registry Ideas $150+ <a id="150"> </a> 

Giving a wedding gift is about so much more than the price tag. With that said, these gifts are on the high end of the spectrum and are typically reserved for immediate family members, close friends, and members of the wedding party. Depending on your wedding guests, it might be wise to limit the number of gifts in this range. 

### Espresso Machine
![1](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1EJ09WfufcvD9OBaIQAZ46/e2390593fcdfb7d799911a60adf9129c/1-barista.jpg)

[Breville Barista Express Espresso Machine](https://bit.ly/2LNNpP3), $749.99 

Ditch the $5 espresso at your local coffee shop every day and make it yourself instead. Adjust your grind size and dose and become a barista in no time. 

### 10-Speed Stand Mixer
![2](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/67Z5QTsrxWtxg5JzF2pgyJ/42da89b21393a82a6bb56c9a731f86e6/3-mixer.jpg)

Trust us when we say that every kitchen needs a good mixer. This model has a very powerful motor with 10 speeds and planetary mixing action. 

[KitchenAid Artisan Series 5 Qt. Tilt-Head Stand Mixer](https://bit.ly/36vzYLL), $449.99

### Dutch Oven
![3](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/EKhFCZdmSSY6u9OvsaQMf/9865b4ce2e29e631ff50f52761d732b5/4-dutch-oven.jpg)

Soups, stews, and roasts, oh my! Cook just about anything in this classic dutch oven. It’ll be a fixture in your kitchen for a long time, especially as you host more dinner parties with your partner after the wedding.

[Le Creuset Signature Round Dutch Oven](https://bit.ly/2LQ3SSX), $419.99-$459.99

### Stainless Steel Cookware Set 
![4](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6GhMx17Ocfty4CdXdj3iIL/07c05ef943edf0d79b933d9c9ee55381/5-cookware.jpg)

You can’t go wrong with this 14-piece cookware set. The French-inspired collection includes the essentials: saucepans, skillets, a stockpot, and various inserts.

[Cuisinart Chef's Classic Stainless 14-Piece Cookware Set](https://bit.ly/2YI3qvb), $219.99

### Combo Coffee maker
![5](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4v5w7CCULQEIOKMLOhJL9u/3404f9f00900c3e36353ce1d46455b27/6-coffee.jpg)

Get the best of both worlds with this combination coffee maker and single serve brewer.

[Cuisinart Combo 12 Cup Coffee Maker and Single Serve Brewer](https://bit.ly/36rkybl), $199.99

### Cast Iron Skillet
![23](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/nrwRPYvbEwUwpK46A1kVt/da953a7fd91e4c29a928895ea1e4f943/29-skillet.jpg)

Iron skillets have been around forever and for good reason. You need one in your kitchen, whether you’re pan-frying, baking, or roasting.

[Le Creuset Signature Cast Iron Handle Skillet](https://bit.ly/35gPdbg), $174.99-$219.99

### Rotisserie Roasting Pan
![7](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6XEg1IVi5aLO2cmvon6J5P/fa1c553ccca4735fd748ae66932b83be/8-pan.jpg)

Perfectly browned holiday roasts are suddenly within the realm of possibility with this pan—and its V-shaped nonstick roasting rack that elevates meats and promotes even cooking.

[All-Clad Rotisserie Roasting Pan with Rack](https://bit.ly/2LNZ3JX), $179.99

### Juicer
![8](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5KtnEHlIR5Jv12VBmYCYE0/dee6ddb2cad8f8160926f4a2ddacd4a5/9-juice.jpg)

Forget about all of the slicing and dicing. Feed large chunks of your favorite fruits and vegetables through the wide 3-inch tube, and enjoy fresh, delicious juice in seconds.

[Breville Juice Fountain Plus](https://bit.ly/2qKzkL4), $179.95 

### Stock Pot and Steamer
![9](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/17uytDYmowqrbBOYesF1jS/be33177bb75d086573f9b9673141da92/10-cooker.jpg)

Draining your stocks, vegetables, and pasta has never been easier! The large pot also works well for canning, blanching, and making large batches of soups and stews.

[All-Clad Multi Cooker with Steaming & Pasta Inserts](https://bit.ly/2YFo0we), $149.99

### Foam Mattress
![10](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/298azhvibcpzuQZ9l8OK0p/aeeed07e15c9a4c88f3b106d32fdcfac/11-mattress.jpg)

You spend a third of your life sleeping, so you might as well enjoy it! This mattress features three foam layers for cooling, comfort, support, and pressure relief to keep you and your partner happy.

[The Leesa Mattress by Leesa Sleep](https://bit.ly/36qv2b1), $1,099

### Platform Bed
![platform-bed](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1llZg8HL3rTZMvDhRTwDv8/681181bc7f459b522476cfa5fb44529d/platform-bed.jpeg)

Bring the great outdoors inside! The solid wood bed frame finished in a walnut veneer floats on solid metal.

[Baxton Studio Karine Mid-Century Modern Platform Bed](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/baxtonstudios_karine_midcentury_modern_platform_bed), $404.99-$507.99

### Memory Foam Mattress Topper
![memory-foam-mattress-topper](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5GnvZSX6aFKV0C1QbMhrjl/55941f696cdca1fce4c83716c915841b/memory-foam-mattress-topper.jpeg)

This mattress topper is constructed with three unique layers designed to support the ultimate sleep environment—temperature, comfort and support. 

[Sleep Philosophy Memory Foam Mattress Topper](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/sleepphilosophy_memory_foam_mattress_topper), $209.99

### Bedroom Sheet Set
![13-buffy-eucalyptus-4-piece-sheet-set](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6XHcxI5J8v2pbfSJPeQjWw/69632447249cd165440d2065409d67ee/13-buffy-eucalyptus-4-piece-sheet-set.jpg)

Hot sleepers rejoice—these 100% eucalyptus sheets are cool-to-the-touch, breathable, and designed to get softer with every wash. 

[Buffy Eucalyptus 4-Piece Sheet Set](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/buffy_eucalyptus_4pc_sheet_set), $169-$239

### Nightstand
![nightstand](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/157iq52sip6Ai8LFTrbped/5a59b459e9fac596b903f2138fbc68d7/nightstand.jpeg)

Safely store your sweaters and socks in the closed drawer, or rest your books and other valuables on the open shelf.

[Ashley Furniture Mirlotown 2-Drawer Night Stand](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ashleyfurniture_mirlotown_2drawer_night_stand), $184.99

### Towel Warmer 
![12](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1spR6PC8teRhSHcHWbarjw/b30d9886802e5445a14624d3fc1ae045/15-warmer.jpg)

This towel rack looks beautiful and serves a number of important purposes. Warm up and dry towels, plus reduce humidity in the bathroom at the same time.

[Amba Products Alma Towel Warmer](https://bit.ly/35fJGBR), $280 

### Bathroom Countertop Essentials
![16-juliska-berry-thread-3-piece-bath-set](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/13YRz0sE0cVVILfMT5wvKM/3bb8f84d61a387551d76e42211f7f421/16-juliska-berry-thread-3-piece-bath-set.jpg)

This bathroom essentials set includes a soap/lotion dispenser, a tissue box cover and a wastebasket, all designed with a classic elegance that adds a chic touch to any bathroom. 

[Juliska Berry & Thread 3-Piece Bath Essentials Set](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/juliska_berry_thread_3pc_bath_essentials_set), $250

### Bathrobe
![17-matouk-caito-bathrobe](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4yq7uyJH8NvTK22Fsavga5/25700fd116fd728a344033a9d6e462d3/17-matouk-caito-bathrobe.jpg)

Following in the footsteps of the luxurious Cairo towel collection, this bathrobe provides a sense of comfort and simple luxury. 

[Matouk Cairo Bathrobe](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/matouk_cairo_bathrobe_azure), $275 

### Sensor Mirror
![18-simplehuman-sensor-touch-control-mirror](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6FhMcB6NGencF7YiP16XUq/cc133afe9927adb30e09e7e882d912a6/18-simplehuman-sensor-touch-control-mirror.jpg)

This sensor mirror lights up automatically as you approach it, and provides 5x magnification for full color variation. 

[Simplehuman Sensor Touch-Control Mirror](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/simplehuman_sensor_touchcontrol_mirror_stainlesssteel), $199.99

### Bath Runner
![13](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/368AY5jposjOcLFg4T6jRu/53bfd072d5c358484733b249c88442da/17-runner.jpg)

Treat your feet with this soft and cozy bath runner. This hand-woven treasure is perfect beside the tub, in front of a door, or even beside your bed.

[Coyuchi Mosaic Canyon Organic Bath Runner](https://bit.ly/2rFnPFg), $227.99

### Stainless Steel Propane Grill
![14](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1FOX2LIHz22Wo3D90vODuQ/ef3ab108619658c45b74c9d04d7f5e65/18-grill.jpg)

Calling all grill masters! This four-burner grill is the perfect addition to your patio.

[Cadac Grill Entertainer 4 Stainless Steel Propane BBQ Grill](https://bit.ly/2Ea6kQ1), $399.99

### Outdoor Dining Table Set
![15](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6gs96u954volGAFrqiE6SU/f5c330e92eacb5302d737f76ae8396a2/19-table.jpg)

Give your outdoor guests a place to gather with this wooden hexagonal dining table. The director-style chairs fold and tuck under the table for easy storage during the winter.

[Safavieh Outdoor Collapsible Dining Table Set](https://bit.ly/2RNWLOK), $508.99

### Outdoor Pizza Oven
![16](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1odFUYEizOgjzrqOhlC5dj/5171b6d41921def05e29ca2b72bfc5b3/20-oven.jpg)

Imagine firing up delicious pizzas for your dinner guests in 60 seconds. You’ll wow your guests—even your partner’s hard-to-please mom—with this impressive oven that can reach temperatures of up to 932°F.

[Ooni Koda Portable Outdoor Gas Pizza Oven](https://bit.ly/2rvWBB2), $399

### Picnic Basket
![120-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2021-3-picnic-time-up-bag](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Ho7931Npjb6icla40mo4G/2dd01cd65d4d96e954a94e6de6a8b195/120-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2021-3-picnic-time-up-bag.jpg)

Including adorable porcelain plates, wine glasses, and flatware, this super cute picnic set will bring some Disney magic to your backyard picnic.

[Picnic Time Mickey & Minnie Mouse Champion Picnic Basket](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/picnictime_mickey_minnie_mouse_champion_picnic_basket), $219.99

### Wicker Trash Bin
![palm-wicker-trash-bin](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/15kosCiIeBwP8LuN3DxJd4/dce05c3d6b0e868d9cfe0e749d603e7a/palm-wicker-trash-bin.jpg)

Your friends will hardly know this is a trash bin. It’s constructed of durable steel and covered in resin wicker that makes it resistant to whatever Mother Nature throws at it.

[Crosley Furniture Palm Harbor Outdoor Wicker Trash Bin](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/crosleyfurniture_palm_harbor_wicker_trash_bin_weatheredgrey), $238.99

### Rope Hammock
![montauk-rope-hammock](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3dpJd2tIvOoDwySfDQCs2U/f6668f555ad7f4c9612274f75c92b01f/montauk-rope-hammock.jpg)

Think back to your relaxing honeymoon with this beautiful hammock. The hand-woven weaves are engineered to be comfortable and allow for breezes to blow through on hot days.

[Yellow Leaf Hammocks Catalina Rope Hammock](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/yellowleafhammocks_catalina_hammock), $199.99

### 3-in-1 Humidifier and Air Purifier 
![26-boneco-h300-hybrid-humidifier](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/R0eXkMSiM8J6znB8RRwo2/5e1fe8e3582e32ce78118b3ee65a8324/26-boneco-h300-hybrid-humidifier.jpg)

This high-performing humidifier and air purifier provides the ideal humidity in any home while keeping indoor air fresh and clean. 

[Boneco H300 Hybrid 3-in-1 Humidifier and Air Purifier](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/boneco_h300_hybrid_3in1_humidifier_and_air_purifier), $399.99

### GoPro Camera
![gopro-camera](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5ezuoWgzbV8VifYFEVQWm0/170a95636f3e027a88936651cd2a7014/gopro-camera.jpeg)

Perfect for an engaged couple that craves adventure or just a stroll around town, this camera’s streamlined design makes it more portable than ever. 

[GoPro HERO9 Camera](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/gopro_hero9_black), $349.99

### Smart Soundbar
![19](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/EmJOnZ0VGmjN9KOxhW5iQ/2bab1698730dc776ba3bf2b87c4ec84f/23-soundbar.jpg)

This slim soundbar offers incredible sound while you’re streaming music, watching TV, listening to podcasts, or playing video games.

[Sonos Beam Soundbar](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/sonos_sonos_beam_gen_2_black), $449

### Wi-Fi Robot Vacuum 
![28-irobot-roomba-i3-robot-vacuum](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6W0fdIhbRqRcQ00QY54AyT/d081a7739f95f5a254b766eedec082e7/28-irobot-roomba-i3-robot-vacuum.jpg)

Just let it loose and allow it to do its thing. This Wi-Fi-connected robot vacuum sucks up everything, from small particles to large debris.

[iRobot Roomba i3 Wi-Fi Connected Robot Vacuum](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/irobot_irobot_roomba_i3_wifi_connected_robot_vacuum), $349.99

### Smart Thermostat
![21](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/AuntFjelzB1RYRsMb853R/318223eb9af5e8189bc4867f4526f8e5/26-thermostat.jpg)

Automate your heating and cooling, and control your thermostat from your smartphone with this popular smart thermostat.

[Nest Learning Thermostat, 3rd Generation](https://bit.ly/34j6H5f), $270

### Bar Cart
![22](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1Y3z5l3Ox9NDCA39vakmll/7b7a5d65aa77006fe6596a3e1ce91312/27-cart.jpg)

If you love Art Deco and entertaining, you’ll love this bar cart with its vibrant gold tone and geometric design.

[Sauder International Lux Bar Cart](https://bit.ly/2PDWHyn), $257.99

### Outdoor Umbrella
![34](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/mLMOBfZ2CEqwdvuLQncRe/1e67e12b11f624e15716715c121bb645/42-umbrella.jpg)

Say goodbye to sunburns with this shady oasis on your patio or by the pool.

[Safavieh Hurst Easy Glide Outdoor Umbrella](https://bit.ly/2sndJZu), $154.99

### Cordless Drill Kit
![cordless-drill-kit](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7H1XZodc7nnH0XmMfQMLMH/c88b97f6e0db66daef3961558aa90bcd/cordless-drill-kit.jpg)

If you’ve just purchased a home, you might need to fix it up a bit. Have everything you need with this kit that includes a lithium-ion drill and 59 hand tools.

[Black+Decker 12V Max Cordless Lithium Drill/Driver Project Kit](https://bit.ly/38xQxIH), $160.99

### Rotisserie Grill and Skewer Set
![111](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5lrjwwzQq1iwbb3KTvDTWH/1d17d0ed5875c0becd5066ad3d50f40d/120-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2021-21-brazilian-gas-rotisserie-grill.jpg)

State-of-the-art electronic technology will let you cook up barbeque, grilled steaks, fish, vegetables, and more, all with the flavor of a Brazilian grill.

[Brazilian Flame Brazilian Gas Rotisserie Grill and 5-Skewer Set](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/brazilianflame_brazilian_gas_rotisserie_grill_with_5skewer_red), $559.99

### Home Speaker
![120-sonos-one-sl-home-speaker](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/8AiWV6efagtb5LHAJYNDC/99e0bbdc3f765d53a8c80a4c5a76fcff/120-sonos-one-sl-home-speaker.jpg)

This powerful, compact speaker will fill your room with excellent sound without taking up your counter space. 

[Sonos One SL: The Essential Home Speaker](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/sonos_one_sl_white), $199

### Compact Drill/Driver Kit
![113]
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This compact drill/driver kit is ideal for working in tight spaces. With high-speed transmission and two speed variations, they’ll help get any job done.

[DEWALT 20V Max Lithium Ion Compact Drill/Driver Kit](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/dewalt_20v_liion_compact_drilldriver_kit_8), $378.99

### Travel Luggage
![travel-luggage](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6aMW072GE1k5jbwBZMe2el/d4f520f7001bfffb4eea2ba8f0f28ff3/travel-luggage.jpeg)

Travel with confidence using this lightweight and durable luggage, available in multiple colors.

[Samsonite Elevation Plus Large Spinner](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/samsonite_elevation_plus_large_spinner_midnightblue), $279.99

### Old Fashioned Glasses
![old-fashioned-glasses](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5vfsUyhHZwS7sIiZNxxIRq/8dfbcf55d19fa4f56b21985b1e970b67/old-fashioned-glasses.jpeg)

Stylishly presented in an embossed gift box, these double old fashioned glasses combine quality with sophistication for an elevated gift. 

[Waterford Lismore Double Old Fashioned Glasses](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/waterford_lismore_dof_glass_set2_giftbox), $200

### Water Resistant Backpack
![water-resistant-backpack](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7KxWJ66sWSYfAmP5nZgR2c/11490963d2a7af1288091a38e72832fb/water-resistant-backpack.jpeg)

Organize like never before with this modern backpack’s multiple compartments and laptop sleeve, and keep your gear safe with its water-resistant bottom.

[Dagne Dover Large Dakota Backpack](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/dagnedover_large_dakota_backpack1_onyx), $214.99

### YETI Cooler
![yeti-cooler](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/195mjg7bylEpVas4u2ihGD/03f2e24adcb68f6e5fa8ef58f7cb3b17/yeti-cooler.jpeg)

Bear-resistant, inner tube friendly, and complete with ultra-thick insulation—whatever weekend adventures are ahead, this cooler is up to the task. 

[YETI Tundra 35 Cooler](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/yeti_tundra35_cooler_tan_15.25), $275

## Wedding Registry Ideas Under $50

A good number of your coworkers, acquaintances, and distant relatives will shop for gifts for you in this price range. Try adding complementary items that your guests can purchase together.

### Canvas Basket Tote
![canvas-backpack-tote](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/FeP1VABXbSc2Be0OF5xh5/1bd0b48a5f16362cc0546fc109b356df/canvas-backpack-tote.jpeg)
Seek out adventure at your next picnic or outdoor excursion with this spacious, lined tote in hand.

[Picnic Time Coronado Basket Tote](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/picnictime_coronado_basket_tote_khakigreenwithbeigeaccents), $49.99 

### Baking Dish Set
![45](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6d3GnjJ2r7B8l8dRZxELfs/892bddcbf92909db9c5b034f4325382c/54-dish.jpg)

Don’t mess with this baking dish set! It’s elegant, yet durable, withstanding oven temperatures of up to 572°F. It’s also microwave and dishwasher safe.

[Staub Rustic 2-Piece Rectangular Baking Dish Set](https://bit.ly/2RRSQjM), $49.99

### Classic Toaster
![81](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1WeAM2sEke7pPY3K2kyl15/84ed16ec84da9a8edf50fa233aa1d9c9/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-97-cuisinart-toaster.jpg)

Defrost and toast your bread simultaneously with this brushed stainless steel toaster.

[Cuisinart Two-Slice Metal Classic Toaster](http://bit.ly/2LQaWyX), $49.99

### Measuring Cup Set
![82](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2WJx3cyHZb3TKo05QqeFDQ/03999fd1607b7344bf7daba3b5014e9d/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-98-all-clad-measuring-cup-set.jpg)

You might mistake these measuring cups for mini saucepans. The stainless steel measuring cups are stylish and functional and even contain the rare two-thirds cup measure.

[All-Clad 5-Piece Measuring Cup Set](http://bit.ly/2t4tqoP), $49.99

### Cast Iron Pizza Pan 
![86](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4TxfEPiiARFfNxGvy0AImz/67cb2693708f0730955976bde562468f/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-102-lodge-pizza-pan.jpg)

Treat yourself to pizza night with your partner. Cook an irresistible, golden-brown pizza crust with this large cast iron baking and pizza pan.

[Lodge Cast Iron Baking & Pizza Pan, 15" Seasoned](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lodge_pizzapan15), $39.99

### Nonstick Straining Saucepan
![87](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5fk5npNMBKWZaMZUsG61YW/2a58b055581f7d3074f8eb1ed7ab2c42/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-103-anolon-straining-saucepan.jpg)

Stop reaching for the colander! Strain your veggies and pasta easily with this nonstick straining saucepan.

[Anolon Advanced Nonstick Covered Straining Saucepan](http://bit.ly/35giL8V), $49.99

### 3-Blade Spiralizer 
![88](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2aSrRTqYDt5bBCrOhewdSE/a27ed95afae965afdee0e5d6a9b904eb/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-104-oxo-spiralizer.jpg)

Zucchini noodles are all the rage right now. Crank them out in your kitchen with this quick three-blade spiralizer.

[OXO Good Grips 3-Blade Spiralizer](http://bit.ly/2M3HvtB), $47.99

### Cheese Board
![89](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3WIZ2l9p6Iw7E0Va175Ggr/8cdfe8c8db8882da6028513410dfad0c/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-105-brooklyn-slate-cheese-board.jpg)

Label your finest Morbier or aged Gouda right on this beautiful slate board with soapstone chalk.

[Brooklyn Slate Rustic Slate Cheese Board](http://bit.ly/2RNQ8Mb) , $34.99

### Pizza Cutter
![91](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5FlNCNs8A7eoFPoMLkxCUI/c69bdedb0b4a77341181cc39cf48622c/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-107-epicurean-pizz-cutter.jpg)

It may be one of the most underrated kitchen tools out there. This pizza cutter slices through a tough crust in seconds.

[Epicurean Pizza Cutter](http://bit.ly/34fYOh8), $24.99

### Faux Sheepskin Rug
![92](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3GZCCn6qBcacbdMOwz4G55/9720585be9c2627e4dff1fd20f3a38f2/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-108-nuloom-faux-sheepskin.jpg)

This beautiful faux sheepskin area rug will glam up your bedroom or living room instantly, and your toes will thank you!

[NuLOOM Rugs Hand Tufted Double Pelt Faux Sheepskin](http://bit.ly/2PI69AZ), $49.99

### Ultrasonic Aroma Diffuser 
![93](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4MjTqYbjn0SUJPkCpcHIqm/de582d6a95f51d0f98dc13d1d85ecf8a/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-109-stadler-aroma-diffuser.jpg)

Create the perfect mood in your bedroom with this discreet aroma diffuser.

[HoMedics Soothe Ultrasonic Aroma Diffuser](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/homedics_ellia_soothe_ultrasonic_aroma_diffuser_white), $39.99

### Slippers
![slippers](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/50f4pbsOWxmUhh6lj9Gnzm/caf1a3e06a3abd201e9112ab3382a8fd/slippers.jpeg)

Walk around in style and comfort with these lightweight slippers. The slippers feature non-slip soles to avoid any accidents.

[Hawkins New York Simple Waffle Slippers](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/hawkinsnewyork_simple_waffle_slippers_peacock), $38.99

### Sateen Eye Mask
![96](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1YoXsbcfxt78QFmZN02CET/1c4e51341c638b25e4ccc65c31e7a4f4/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-113-coyuchi-eye-mask.jpg)

Fall fast asleep with this 300-thread count organic eye mask that’s perfect for travel or everyday use.

[Coyuchi Sateen Organic Eye Mask](http://bit.ly/2YFUk20), $17.99

### Candlewick Trimmer
![candlewick-trimmer](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/GQv8auGBVsSobARANg8XQ/1ea0f6813b6d7bf9175fa0420194c1db/candlewick-trimmer.jpeg)

Get the most out of your candles and create a longer, cleaner burn with this handy wick trimmer. 

[Homesick Wick Trimmer](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/homesick_wick_trimmer), $18.99

### Heated Massage Wand
![99](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6D8WDhU7fE9O1ZwfUT1iFL/ad54427ebebab679f44789633723c8dd/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-118-conair-wand-massager.jpg)

This heated wand massager with its large head and four surface attachments can go a long way toward rejuvenating you after a difficult day.

[Conair Body Benefits Heated Wand Massager](http://bit.ly/2Pg0KSw), $26.99

### Cotton Jar Holder
![100](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/717b5mHdu4ZnnTgV4EwAWL/26972be71d3a1a52ce19c9966f071efb/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-119-kassatex-cotton0jar.jpg)

This cotton jar features a unique ribbed texture with a rich ivory color on the outside and a contrasting black interior.

[Kassatex Fillmore Cotton Jar](http://bit.ly/38A0wNw), $24.99

### Grilling Tool Set
![102](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3pFAhd5E3NB4qAxauocU9L/7d52701eede02691e5f342f28e2f5342/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-121-cuisinart-grilling-tool-set.jpg)

Before grilling season rolls around, stock up on these must-haves. Each tool is cut from durable stainless steel and includes an insulated wooden handle.

[Cuisinart Grill Wooden Handle 13-Piece Grilling Tool Set](http://bit.ly/2PATu2y), $39.99

### Outdoor String Lights
![103](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5gKrGT6BzifY2FXqteMsK7/3fe6a80599383f81d55aa9273b92d887/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-122-bulbbrite-string-light.jpg)

Spruce up your patio with these crystal clear string lights. The modern bulb shape offers a contemporary twist on a classic design.

[Bulbrite 14' Incandescent String Light](http://bit.ly/2smzatE), $47.99

### Outdoor Picnic Blanket
![104](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6nzZVHtneRjqIZbA3rKU2A/fc6839f7ca2c1dbc8edc37f7027333f4/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-123-oniva-picnic-blanket.jpg)

Spread out 38 square feet of sitting space with this oversized picnic blanket and relax on soft polyester fleece.

[Oniva Blanket Tote XL Outdoor Picnic Blanket](http://bit.ly/38zZhxS), $45.99

### CharityChoice Gift Card 
![120-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2021-1-charity-choice-giftcard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7aoORMrwDGHDne0qXvKoJK/7ec61d49d11c64ff2dcd385873596f3e/120-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2021-1-charity-choice-giftcard.jpg)
Use this card to give back to causes that are meaningful to you by donating to three important charities of your choice.

[CharityChoice Gift Card](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/charitychoice_charitychoice_giftcard), $50

### 450-Piece Puzzle
![114-jiggy-universe-puzzle](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6D5yEatVcRj4ej0zwp84qk/1038a95ab99e5e21254f6cde51a47b6a/114-jiggy-universe-puzzle.jpg)

This beautifully-illustrated, 450-piece puzzle will keep you occupied on a rainy day. It even includes puzzle glue if you want to display your creation after putting it together.

[JIGGY Universe Puzzle](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/jiggy_universe_puzzle), $48.99

### Mixologist Bar Tool Set
![108](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1KbUCsi7yFOvpDoaObIYjc/b0703e34ab3c58ecf7eb7e96c7a11738/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-127-libbey-bar-tool-set.jpg)

Channel your inner mixologist with this nine-piece set. It even includes a mixing glass with delicious recipes printed right on it.

[Libbey Cool Cocktails 9-Piece Mixologist Bar Tool Set](http://bit.ly/36yqorz), $39.99

### Pet Chill Pad
![109](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5Mpfwk0ThQBCpvIsx5d3Oe/94bb2161b21b07795414cf4a78e519e0/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-129-chill-pet-bed.jpg)

Allow your furry friend to relax in comfort with this soft, yet durable, pad.

[P.L.A.Y. Pet Lifestyle and You Chill Pet Pad](http://bit.ly/2RNmgQa), $44.99-$98.99

### Travel Iron
![travel-iron](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/58uFcXoZPMXv3r6eP5mcoh/93aff237b60d65228a96f92b01e50355/travel-iron.jpeg)

Pack this compact steam iron in your suitcase for a powerful wrinkle remover.

[Rowenta Travel Iron](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/rowenta_travel_iron), $39.99

### Wireless Speaker
![wireless-speaker](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/p5RECMVG0FlmIncGuKsSV/10f242104f21f6b218686acbeda757c8/wireless-speaker.jpeg)

Weighing a mere 3.5 pounds, this portable bluetooth speaker is the perfect travel companion for tailgates, weekend getaways and more. 

[ILive Wireless Tailgate Party Speaker](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ilive_bluetooth_tailgate_speaker), $49.99

### LED Grill Light
![121](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5HRT7XN70hQP7bxJmA36ZR/48f3b6d1b4bd787dfae64feb4f8c284e/120-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2021-14-led-grill-light.jpg)

This durable, waterproof, and heat resistant light is bright enough to let you keep cooking long after the sun goes down.

[Outset LED Grill Light](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/outset_led_grill_light), $30.99

Now that you’re armed with some great wedding registry ideas, it’s time to build your dream registry! Customize your own with Zola’s free [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) for an easy-breezy process. You can also create a free, beautiful wedding website, shop wedding invitation designs, and lean on us to create a free customizable checklist to simplify your planning!

![wedding-registry-etiquette](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3peTv0mZbMgzqKFTwJSZ7j/dc7787d521ffbc4c75ac10253444b1ad/wedding-registry-etiquette.png)

## FAQs About Wedding Registry Ideas
Find answers to any lingering wedding registry questions below. 

### Why Do I Need a Wedding Registry? 

A [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-registry) lets you curate all your gift preferences in one place (and avoid receiving gifts you don’t really need). Friends, family, and loved ones are usually very eager to purchase gifts for newlyweds, and your registry helps them feel confident that they’re getting you something you’ll love! 

Online registry perks like [group gifting](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry/benefits/group-wedding-gifting), controlled shipping, easy gift exchanges, and post-wedding discounts also make the shopping experience more efficient for both you and your guests.

### Is It OK to Ask for Money Instead of Gifts? 

Absolutely. Cash-specific funds are becoming increasingly popular, and guests can still feel excited about contributing to a designated fund rather than handing you an envelope of cash.

### What Should You Not Put on Your Wedding Registry? 

Your [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry/benefits) should include items you know you and your partner will use for years to come—avoid adding highly personal gifts that are specific to just one of you. Instead, opt for things you can share with your partner as you begin your new life together. [Be intentional with your selections](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-10-dos-donts-when-creating-wedding-registry), and only add items you’ll truly use.

Top 130 Wedding Registry Ideas for 2023 (For Every Budget!)

Registry

Are you coming up short on wedding food ideas? Your menu is one of the trickiest decisions you’ll make during the wedding planning process. Make sure to ask your venue about any limitations they may have before you decide. Some venues use in-house catering, others charge a fee to bring in outside vendors, and some have a preferred vendors list that you will need to choose from. Once you find out all the details, make a list of you and your sweetheart’s favorite dishes and take it to your caterer. They will be able to help you blend in your faves with their expertise to create a menu that is delicious and unique to your event.

To get an idea about what your guests would like to eat, send options in your <a href="https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop" target="_https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop">wedding invitations</a> and give your caterer an accurate count. Whether you want to include classics like chicken or beef, or serve up something unique like vegan burgers, these wedding food ideas are sure to inspire.

## Wedding Buffet Ideas<a id="buffet"> </a> 
One of the biggest trends in wedding receptions is the inclusion of interactive food stations during the cocktail hour or as the main course. These buffet tables can be as casual as a popcorn bar, or as intricate as a grazing station filled with fine meats and cheeses. The sky's the limit with these wedding buffet ideas. Choose the best examples that fit with your <a href="https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes" target="_https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridal-shower-themes">wedding theme</a>, and use them as inspiration for your interactive food stations.

### 1. Brunch Bar
![01-brunch-bar.](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3CQfD9V16vKTQkyD5XXHP8/85bad2992474be90e7cd0f3ef53769ef/01-brunch-bar..jpg)

Whether your wedding is happening earlier in the day or you and your sweetie are big fans of brinner (breakfast for dinner), a <a href="https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/brunch-wedding" target="_https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/brunch-wedding">brunch</a> spread is sure to make your guests happy. Include savory options like biscuits and gravy alongside sweet jams and fruits so there is something for everyone.

### 2. Popcorn Table
![02-popcorn-bar](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/WYa18vDCEjtnAPosvTWt5/e3d5495817cbd07ec4669b91ca546f01/02-popcorn-bar.jpg)

Serve this classic snack with a twist during your cocktail hour or as a late-night snack. Your guests can happily munch away while mingling and your pocketbook will thank you.

### 3. Ice Cream Bar
![03-ice-cream-bar](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2jiI6FKK7ihUIhOsTtCNNo/c842ed7d45a5c585177c97854a982669/03-ice-cream-bar.jpg)
Source: <a href="http://giftofhospitality.com/" target="_http://giftofhospitality.com/">Gift of Hospitality</a>

You scream, I scream, we all scream for—well, you know how it goes. At the end of the night, there is no better way to treat your guests than with an ice cream station. Add a special touch with some fun toppings like hot fudge, sprinkles, or candy.

### 4. Waffle Table
![04-waffle-table](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/12efH2W2ZZKnws6125RfpW/e558286c4d7acc90aed9b31f7b30a35d/04-waffle-table.jpg)
Source: <a href="https://www.meganreiphotography.com" target="_https://www.meganreiphotography.com">Megan Rei Photography</a>

Waffle buffets are the perfect option for weddings at any time of the day. Add a few breakfast options for early celebrations or the iconic fried chicken and waffles pairing for evening events .

### 5. Pizza Platter
![magnolia-and-ember-wedding-pizza-bar](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3KuqeIeva1gMxs3iraJWQp/f7566b2385d689d9593f22886bb30fd5/05-magnolia-and-ember-wedding-pizza-bar.jpg)
Source: <a href="https://magnoliaandember.com/" target="_https://magnoliaandember.com/">Magnolia + Ember</a>

What better way to celebrate with your amor than to serve pizza pie? This easy wedding buffet idea is a crowd favorite and a great way to cater to a variety of tastes. You can serve classics like pepperoni and cheese, or you can get creative with vegan and vegetarian options.

### 6. Taco Table
![06-taco-table](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3yb3iSQ5zaSg64CTTe1rMH/4cb454880154e37b1e5987c1c6ec3fa9/06-taco-table.jpg)

Taco buffets are a great way to serve crowds of any size. Make sure to combine classic favorites, like guacamole and pico to gallo, with unique additions, like mushrooms and mango, to make your spread tasty and memorable.

### 7. Donut Station
![06-donut-station](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/538SbociMQqGwLA7N51D4H/bebfeae9bb248419c3465f3e24efc846/06-donut-station.jpg)
Source: <a href="http://sarahbrookhart.com/" target="_http://sarahbrookhart.com/">Sarah Brookhart Photography</a>

Donut walls and spreads have grown in popularity over the years for their fun flavors and, of course, their Insta-worthiness. This buffet idea is perfect for couples who prefer wedding cake alternatives.

### 8. Salad Bar
![08-salad-bar](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5aQHSddbRLOjQa4bGPEZ5R/c7a816efa119e9f8304e6ae6834c7571/08-salad-bar.jpg)
Source: <a href="https://www.catercow.com/" target="_https://www.catercow.com/">Cater Cow</a>

A salad bar is a fabulous wedding buffet idea for all the veggie lovers out there. Place your basics, such as spinach and romaine, alongside toppings like rice, fruits, vegetables, and dressings.

### 9. Grazing Table
![09-grazing-table](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/dOSXFx0cpbyFoKqrRGIC7/0463b8577dcb42c15a3d53a7d746bf95/09-grazing-table.jpg)
Source: <a href="https://www.grazingacres.com.au/" target="_https://www.grazingacres.com.au/">Grazing Acres</a>

If you and your partner enjoy the finer things in life, what better way to celebrate than with charcuterie? These giant meat and cheese spreads have mesmerized wedding guests for the past few years and are sure to be a hit.

### 10. Bagel Buffet
![10-bagel-buffet](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/JBxMxnnkmJQYGE70Hrpob/507e0ef2b8233ceb9ddb1c4968a8f7f1/10-bagel-buffet.jpg)
<a id="entree"> </a>

This idea gives your guests the freedom to create their perfect snack. Whether they love lox or prefer peanut butter, there is sure to be something for everyone at the bagel bar.

## Wedding Entree Ideas
Whether you want to serve a plated meal or buffet style food, the entree is the toughest decision. The best way to go is to choose two or three main entrees and let your guests decide for themselves. This will allow them to enjoy their favorite item and cater to any dietary preferences that your guest might have.

### 11. Steak and Salad
![11-steak-and-salad](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6lyLaC2vZBV0h6MdCs13wJ/f6c477317ff548312d28f8b5d85f82b9/11-steak-and-salad.jpg)
Source: <a href="https://www.fannetasticfood.com" target="_https://www.fannetasticfood.com">Fannetastic Food</a>

Steak and salad is the perfect option for summer weddings when you don’t want to weigh your guests down with heavy sides. , talk to your caterer about infusing some fruit in the salad or dressing for a pop of color and flavor.

### 12. Kebabs
![12-kebabs](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4PTCej9e28p1f7sZCfE2xR/33f0461c224633ff22a3eb68947549b0/12-kebabs.jpg)
Source: <a href="https://www.midwestfoodieblog.com" target="_https://www.midwestfoodieblog.com">Midwest Foodie</a>

Kebabs are convenient entrees If you’re hosting an outdoor wedding. These tasty skewers allow your guests to enjoy their meal on the go.Try including a vegan skewer with mushrooms in place of beef or chicken to give your guests meatless options.

### 13. Fried Chicken
![13-fried-chicken](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5084eKVp6HDWYlG6qvy0GB/f859fb300065f88ccb44b6306685a0e9/13-fried-chicken.jpg)
Source: <a href="http://spicepaw.com/" target="_http://spicepaw.com/">Spicepaw</a>

Fried chicken is a staple at weddings, especially in the south. This tasty entree is sure to fill your guests and remind them of home. Fried chicken is also great if you intend to serve each table family style.

### 14. Shrimp
![14-shrimp](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3VNaF8vZwl5Bt9QrT0nUCn/60ad3db0417688e055168215e87d5985/14-shrimp.jpg)

This seafood favorite can be paired with various sides to create the perfect wedding plate any time of the year. Try adding rice, pasta, or grits for a southern twist.

### 15. Salmon
![15-salmon](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1iK5Q1lqerG3MFlPEUH67a/2f436289c0a06ae2e0bbfaff4a190745/15-salmon.jpg)

Fish has been a wedding classic for years. Customize the glaze based on the season for a fresh and unique twist. Try a bright lemon garlic glaze in the summer or something savory like a red wine mushroom sauce for the colder months.

### 16. Steak
![16-steak](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5drqibnzgFTCeBHjry5ANV/f876a02c6bae3424d913eda2724035e4/16-steak.jpg)

This wedding classic is perfect for treating your guests. Talk with your caterer about different options for choosing the cut. Some classic choices include tenderloin, t-bone, rib-eye, and New York strip.

### 17. Lobster
![17-lobster](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1r87Tz8J8vBU7p2Q9Zh01A/948805411ee1abe90d012b9b28e00b93/17-lobster.jpg)

If you want to serve your guests the best of the best, offer a lobster option. Place the lobster atop a bed of risotto or serve with butter. Make sure to include a second choice for those who are allergic to shellfish.

### 18. Lasagna 
![18-lasagna](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7yJlWAn3z8hvtQWTjJpSMx/15b10a313a539163bd812b1687bb6f12/18-lasagna.jpg)

This Italian classic is perfect for weddings in colder months. One of the best parts about lasagna is the easy swaps your caterer can make to offer a vegan zucchini option so everyone can take part. 

### 19. Spaghetti Squash
![19-spaghetti-squash](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/XJp8LnSD3JQz0cETewAu8/51f90ed29ae1d6469c9e238ee6389e1e/19-spaghetti-squash.jpg)

These amazing veggies can turn into a gluten-free pasta dish in under an hour. Ask your caterer what they can do with these veggies. Whether you serve spaghetti or chicken parmesan, your guests are sure to be thrilled.

### 20. Lamb
![20-lamb](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3JCoWnEoKGeymfVlTvzauM/321b5a1dcbeff200971b117acf9a3792/20-lamb.jpg)
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If you would like to serve your guests a nice entree and are tired of beef and chicken, try to incorporate lamb into your feast. Whether you choose to pair it with shrimp or veggies, this unique option will impress your guests.

## Wedding Finger Food Ideas
When you’re mingling at weddings, you just feel better with something to munch on. Whether you plan to serve hors d'oeuvres during cocktail hour or throughout the night, your guests will appreciate each bite. Here are a few crowd favorites that will keep your guests happy all night long.

### 21. Caprese Cups
![21-appetizer-cups](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2tipjfYZGOfUb2RIsEwbxA/3909232e2354b9ee3c92eadb71a88905/21-appetizer-cups.jpg)

If you and your partner plan to feed your guests Italian cuisine, then these Caprese cups are the perfect savory appetizer for cocktail hour. Your guests can carry their snacks in one hand while talking to friends and family. 

### 22. Bruschetta 
![22-sliders](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1HVzexLHwBxsqvXTrFqNLr/b7598fa25d610ca6f840b9d0e90818b0/22-sliders.jpg)

Consider serving bruschetta during cocktail hour for a quick and easy appetizer. The options are endless for these bite-sized snacks, so speak with your caterer about their specialties. They will help you decide on the perfect ingredients.

### 23. Sliders
![23-sliders](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4MHd4kENW2HSwtcES7yLFb/c92ac365f9e6d16dba329644e4a767fb/23-sliders.jpg)

Sliders are everything you love about hamburgers and sandwiches all in one bite. Offer a variety of meat and vegetarian options to choose from so all of your guests can enjoy these snacks.

### 24. Mini Tacos
![24-mini-tacos](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/RHgUZImqQ6V6u1AeT06UA/319fc50eab62e366cb9fbd77008fd916/24-mini-tacos.jpg)

Tiny tacos will be the talk of any event. They’re delicious and adorable — what more could you ask for? Serve these tacos with traditional toppings, or get creative and include dessert toppings to mix things up.

### 25. Veggie Roll-ups
![25-veggie-roll-ups](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5sgTkTncKsMVTICfT5dD7W/4c2c67eb15420239e00fa236e45126b6/25-veggie-roll-ups.jpg)

For some lighter fare, mix in some fresh vegetable apps. Your guests will love popping these zucchini roll-ups in their mouths in between heavier options. You could also try using summer squash or cucumber for some variety.

### 26. Meatballs
![26-meat-balls](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1OKF3EXuf5OURI95Ugolzj/63b3885102b2b4dd62d9f344b3f597e8/26-meat-balls.jpg)

For a simple and cheap option, talk to your caterer about including meatballs in your event. Choose among beef, pork, turkey, or falafel (or some of each), and don’t forget a tasty sauce on top.

### 27. French Fries
![27-french-fries](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/evOOXCsubtbVcfrhBHNzT/bd5799c40d909fd704b7108e99467cc7/27-french-fries.jpg)
Source: <a href="http://chrismanstudios.com/" target="_http://chrismanstudios.com/">Chrisman Studios</a>

This popular appetizer gives guests a savory and filling bite that is full of flavor. Put your fries in cones for easy handling and offer unique dips like aioli, queso, or flavored mustard.

### 28. Spring Rolls
![28-spring-rolls](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Uu7vTFZHWLZjIilHSvFU5/c06dba82e71b9f84075df5317f8353de/28-spring-rolls.jpg)
Source: <a href="http://heidilau.com/" target="_http://heidilau.com/">Heidi Lau</a>

Veggie-filled spring rolls are a great vegetarian option for cocktail hour and are mess-free so guests can grab and go without a thought. Make sure to include mini cups of sweet and sour sauce for guests who want it.

### 29. Flatbread
![29-flat-bread](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1kQcOtSahmSChOC3aYarwC/61ef744151287cdc2da520e03eced486/29-flat-bread.jpg)

Whether you’re in love with the classic margarita flatbread, or you prefer sweet balsamic and chicken toppings, there is sure to be a slice for everyone. If you can’t choose, include a little bit of everything. The more, the merrier!

### 30. Grilled Cheese Bites
![30-grilled-cheese-bites](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/OGvdGFxPFgHTGZZuf9mKF/58d1dd53f58276c737e288cfd6b921f5/30-grilled-cheese-bites.jpg)
Source: <a href="http://nextexitphotography.com/" target="_http://nextexitphotography.com/">Next Exit Photography</a>

Between the crunchy bread and melty cheese, grilled cheese sandwiches are a classic. Pair these tiny sammies with shot glasses of tomato soup for a match made in heaven. These cheesy bites will capture the hearts (and the stomachs) of your guests.

## Cheap Wedding Food Ideas
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Everyone wants to serve their guests the best of the best, but sometimes steak and lobster just aren’t in the budget. Just because you can’t spend much money on your catering doesn't mean you have to settle for boring meals. Use these ideas as inspiration and work with your caterer to come up with the perfect menu.

### 31. Fried Chicken and Gravy
![31-fried-chicken-and-gravy](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1G2ZrRh1rRuKKm1serNHPY/f57620d81daab0480c7ff364e8578d6d/31-fried-chicken-and-gravy.jpg)
Source: <a href="https://zonacooks.com/chicken-fried-chicken-and-gravy-recipe/" target="_https://zonacooks.com/chicken-fried-chicken-and-gravy-recipe/">Zona Cooks</a>

The best part about serving southern comfort food at your wedding is that it is filling and will require less food than others meals. Fried chicken and gravy is not only cost-effective, it’s delicious. The creamy gravy and crispy chicken are a match made in heaven.

### 32. Brisket
![32-brisket](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1UMXy9MLOk3YFV5ZGjNCbm/0f466bf1f01c3cff36542f581b979daf/32-brisket.jpg)

BBQ is also a fantastic choice if your catering budget is limited. Whether you’re hosting a [backyard wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/backyard-wedding) or ballroom bash, your guests will enjoy this menu that’s tasty and hearty. 

### 33. Soup
![33-soup](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3yijfE4jFXm1qUQhCr7SFz/502243e64a20515bc3aa28515618f1d3/33-soup.jpg)

Soup is the perfect way to warm up your guests if you’re planning a winter wedding. Talk to your caterer about including a meat-heavy soup like a stew, a cream-based soup like broccoli and cheddar, and a brothy option like chicken noodle. 

### 34. Tacos
![34-tacos](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3J7jY5euXXm0M3OxUuUGKg/8bdef773ec2ba5ddd6fe6e4f2c4f6794/34-tacos.jpg)

Tacos are a crowd favorite and cost-effective. The perfect combination! Set up your taco station with unique ingredients like mushrooms or mango to make it unforgettable.

### 35. Spaghetti
![35-spaghetti](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1OsBEPfNVXOtV5oLLrMBsT/085f5a439ed3175e810c6eee5a0dc1e4/35-spaghetti.jpg)

If you and your honey love to celebrate with pasta, serve your guests spaghetti or alfredo. These options are filling, delicious, and are made of cost-effective ingredients. Serve your dish with a side of garlic bread for the final touch.

### 36. Burgers
![36-burgers](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2A7mnaWvcse0A2U6KjxAnM/1fe03fed8d7ee8172360e873bf351b38/36-burgers.jpg)

In 2020, many large weddings have pivoted to intimate backyard celebrations. With the change in size came different menu options. If you’re itching for the backyard wedding of your dreams, lean into the theme with burgers. Don’t be afraid to get creative with toppings.

### 37. Vegan Burgers
![37-vegan-burgers](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4jUWRc3oAzf4NJV64VAQSI/673f9e68aeffb3cf79298ae8d8185db1/37-vegan-burgers.jpg)

If your friends and family would rather swap veggies for meat, vegan burgers can be even more cost-effective than beef burgers. Try portobello mushrooms in place of a beef patty or costly, plant-based meat.

### 38. Fajitas
![38-fajitas](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4RhprxESnRHr8eLQHeh9SC/eae5311c2f185dc91ee17b034e4649f6/38-fajitas.jpg)

Similarly to tacos, fajitas are a great option for couples on a budget. The ingredients are affordable and filling, and guests can customize their meals to fit their diet. Make sure to include a mix of meats, vegetables, and other toppings to keep it interesting.

### 39. Chili
![39-chili](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4Ak4gIS9Z0HLNhFBsUT4Mp/26fcd5600968bb5fa7d7643ba9093b7c/39-chili.jpg)

Whether you’re on team beans or team no beans in your chili, everyone loves to love this hearty meal. Serve chili with baked potatoes, bratwurst, or over rice for a low-cost and yummy meal.

### 40. Fish and Chips
![40-fried-catfish](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/57geYzrpBsTZB42NlUqLb0/9e86590f06991b620442206dccc87b75/40-fried-catfish.jpg)
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If your heart is set on serving fish at your nuptials, consider offering fish and chips. It’s substantially cheaper than serving salmon or cod, and with a French fries and some lemon, you can serve your guests a plate of comfort food.

## Wedding Dessert Ideas
Traditional wedding desserts consist of <a href="https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-cake-ideas" target="_https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-cake-ideas">wedding cakes</a> or cupcakes. While these classics are still a staple in many weddings, couples are starting to use the dessert table to showcase their favorite sweets instead. Whether you and your honey want to keep it classy or think outside of the box, these wedding dessert ideas will be the talk of the event.

### 41. Wedding Cake
![41-wedding-cake](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1hJtAp5Vl07PIcT9ZCfibR/6994dd492f3df55571d4745baeee39cf/41-wedding-cake.jpg)

Wedding cakes are just as tasty as they are beautiful, and they’re a wedding staple for a reason. If you and your partner want to serve wedding cake, choose flavors and icings that compliment your theme. Pre-cut the cake for easy serving.

### 42. Cookies
![42-cookies](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3jYmTGDaxv6bUpmBmHxsbP/7540acf2a7bc269f53d66acd5fa3ff9f/42-cookies.jpg)
Source: <a href="http://theviewfromgreatisland.com/" target="_http://theviewfromgreatisland.com/">The View From Great Island</a>

Cookies are a great choice for wedding desserts because you can customize them to fit your big day perfectly. Add edible flowers for a romantic theme or use your alma mater logo to excite the super fans.

### 43. Cupcakes
![43-cupcakes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/35Arq9DgwRA5Ae1fzOIBSF/7918eb3546cfc3c44c10175fde249cbc/43-cupcakes.jpg)

Regular or mini cupcakes are another popular dessert idea. These desserts give your guests all the flavor of a traditional wedding cake in a portable package. Cupcakes also allow you to choose multiple flavor options if you can’t pick your favorite.

### 44. Popsicles
![44-popsicles](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/QW9Iqg5wkyLOBpO3rai1B/c7e64b7b343294ad2ef9a2369159b083/44-popsicles.jpg)

Popsicles are an ideal dessert for hot summer weddings to help your guests cool down. Try experimenting with unique flavors and ingredients like the edible flowers and liquor in these boozy pops!

### 45. Hand Pies
![45-hand-pies](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1fhe5in4jQsDRErstmV08g/59c0c4fa0ce7e78f28d714a747a511e2/45-hand-pies.jpg)

Many couples choose to celebrate with pie instead of cake, but serving guests the flaky dessert can get messy. Hand pies solve that problem by containing all of the fruity goodness in a neat package.

### 46. Mini Pies
![46-mini-pies](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5XDH57uIgYupIjtx7jBg3X/17c97437504344c9ecdb7e8bd37e8bb0/46-mini-pies.jpg)
Source: <a href="http://allspiceblog.com/" target="_http://allspiceblog.com/">AllSpice</a>

If you would rather keep the classic pie shape instead, you can serve mini versions to your guests. These adorable pies are just as tasty as they are cute.

### 47. Pot de Crémes 
![47-pot-de-cremes](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2opoOb7otmr8ub6SIPrKDI/859ac28a69094b5f702b0b68c70cbcc1/47-pot-de-cremes.jpg)
Source: <a href="http://theviewfromgreatisland.com/" target="_http://theviewfromgreatisland.com/">The View From Great Island</a>

These sweets are a favorite for a reason. They have all the flavor that you love in pudding and custard, packed in small pots for convenient and adorable service. Try garnishing with flowers or fruits to add a special 

### 48. Mini Cheesecakes
![48-cheesecake](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1Z8nrVu3kkvrisj8z3W2Qf/1a933841674e687495aa9936a949d7c9/48-cheesecake.jpg)
Source: <a href="http://beautifullifeandhome.com/" target="_http://beautifullifeandhome.com/">Beautiful Life and Home</a>

Bite-sized cheesecakes give your guests the perfect amount of dessert with a beautiful presentation. Ask your caterer about tailoring these for your wedding season by opting for seasonal fruits.

### 49. Macarons
![49-macarons](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Cu5PXDK1PyttI7HXNY3ZR/5491beb600c7dc70f07e7ba9d7d99760/49-macarons.jpg)

These tasty, French treats make your wedding day feel extra fancy. Arrange your macarons in an appealing way to make them look just as wonderful as they taste.

### 50. Strawberry Shortcake
![50-strawberry-shortcake](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/490hEimVaeuL3d7VFeePwF/bada963f9f95cbaa7a32457d6dc13ecf/50-strawberry-shortcake.jpg)

Strawberry shortcake is an enjoyable summertime sweet during the hot months. The combination of shortcake, cream, and berries is the stuff of dreams. Serve these desserts in personal cups for a beautiful display and easy grabbing.

### 51. Candy
![51-candy](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4OjJLVXX6pPdLKZo0ADvWy/f74619f297e93049988d0d344a53bf8c/51-candy.jpg)

If baked goods aren’t your jam, set up a candy bar for dessert. Include your and your sweetheart’s favorite options and lay out some bags for your guests to fill. All of the kids (and the kids at heart) will be thrilled with this unique set up.

Deciding on the perfect fare for your big day can be stressful. Make the process as easy as possible and discuss your ideas with your caterer to come up with a good list of options. Once you get your <a href="https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop" target="_https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/invitations/shop">wedding invitation</a> responses back, you’ll be able to give your caterer a final headcount and they’ll help you prepare an amazing menu for your big day.

51 Best Wedding Food Ideas - Zola Expert Wedding Advice

Decor + Inspiration

Writing your "About Us" story is a meaningful part of creating your beautiful __[wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website)__. It gives you a chance to reminisce about your relationship journey and gives you yet another reason to be excited for your wedding ceremony and celebration. While your website will include essential wedding details about your venue, dress code, and information about the spouses-to-be, it also provides the perfect opportunity to add a custom touch. That's why including a beautiful story about how the two of you met is highly recommended. It’s one of the most popular parts of a wedding site and in wedding planning overall. Your guests and member in your wedding party want to read it, so why not try to make it enjoyable and engaging for them?

A common way to approach writing an ‘about us’ story is to write the story of how you met. This approach helps relatives and friends from both sides who may not know you as a couple or may have met your significant other only a few times more insight into your relationship

However, some couples opt out of telling the story of how they met. Maybe your friends and family already know the details of your love story. Maybe you’re childhood sweethearts and everyone who is attending your wedding has watched your relationship grow. You can still have an About Us story and skip over the __[wedding website bios](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/5-lovely-wedding-website-bio-examples)__. 

For example, people want to know the story of the proposal. It’s probably the first question people ask when they learn about your engagement. You can share this moment instead of, or in addition to, a How We Met story. Other ideas include sharing a memorable date or milestone that you’ve experienced as a couple. Give information about each of your personalities and what you love about each other. Or talk about your love for each other and how you feel about getting married. [The best wedding website builders](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/make-wedding-website) will also offer an FAQs section where you can share some of the nitty gritty details, such as logistics and transportation, or arrangements for special dietary or mobility restrictions, etc. 

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## “Our Story” Examples For Your Wedding Website

When coming up with your own wedding website’s About Us, think of a favorite moment from your relationship and share it with your loved ones. Here are five [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-make-a-wedding-website) examples inspired by Hollywood love stories to spark your creativity and inspiration for how to write your own story.

### 1. How We Met

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*"We were introduced through Sally’s college friend. We were both moving to New York (separately) from Chicago after graduation and Harry sat shotgun as Sally drove. We talked a lot on that road trip but parted ways as soon as we arrived in the city."* 

*"Throughout the years, though, we’d run into each other randomly and eventually, we started hanging out and became close friends."*

This example follows the classic guideline of answering who, what, where, and when. Fill in the blanks of the questions for yourself and think about who introduced you as a couple, what you were doing when you met, where the first meeting happened, and when you realized that a relationship might be a possibility.

### 2. The Proposal

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*"Michael was leaving on another extended business trip and as his train was pulling away, he rushed to the back and yelled out “Marry me!” to Kimmy who was standing on the platform."*

*"It was exhilarating and spontaneous and we both knew right then that no matter how many miles were between us or however many days we had to be apart. We wanted to be together for the rest of our lives."*

Was your proposal a well-planned out affair or a spontaneous moment based on a rush of love and emotions? Let your proposal story be guided by the details of how it happened and the feelings that surrounded it. When writing your proposal story, let it provide a glimpse into your life. This example shows the distance challenges the couple faced and how it worked itself into the actual proposal and setting of a wedding date. Add an engagement photo gallery as pictures do speak louder than words. 

![Zola Wedding Website Proposal](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1bDsrlJEKyVvmZYy94nRzv/3c940c5db4dbd3960ae0223058fc7994/inline_unsplash.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Simply Adrian Photography

### 3. Share a Memorable Date or Milestone

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*"We wouldn’t call it a date necessarily. But we started spending a lot of time together when Kevin was assigned to write a story on Jane." *

*"Her always-a-bridesmaid-never-a-bride tale was intriguing to Kevin’s newspaper and he followed Jane closely as she prepared for the upcoming wedding season, including her sister’s semi-impromptu nuptials."* 

Inject humor when possible or specific details many may not know such as your first date or how you chose your destination wedding. It allows guests to feel like they have personal insight into what makes your love so special and will get everyone geared up for the big day.

### 4. Show Your Personalities

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*"Anna has lived in the spotlight her whole life. She likes jet-setting around the world and experiencing the finer things in life. William prefers his own quiet part of the world surrounded by only his closest friends and family. You’ll likely find his nose buried in a book." *

*"At first, our worlds collided serendipitously but not necessarily in a good way. But in the end, a change of pace is exactly what we both needed and we got to a place where we could completely be ourselves together. We found that we balance each other out in all the right ways." *

Showing parts of your personality individually also illustrates how you work together as a couple. It gives your wedding party and guests a chance to know more about both of you since the bride’s side may not know too much about the groom’s and vice-versa. It is also a great way for family members and best friends to learn more about you and your special other.

## 5. Reflecting on Your Love for Each Other

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*Sara: When I met Alex, he seemed like another smooth talker trying to pick me up in a bar. While I must admit his suave demeanor was attractive, it was his sweet and thoughtful side that really drew me in*

*Alex: I was immediately awestruck when I first laid my eyes on her but knew I had to be creative to win her over. She was someone special; I could just tell.*

An About Us story can be short and sweet. Speak from the heart from your individual perspectives to keep it authentic and fill in the space by sharing your excitement about getting married. This will get your guests excited, too.

## Tips for Writing Your Own Story
The About Us section is one of the first parts you'll fill out on your website. Take your time when you create it. Write a few drafts before settling on the final story. Read your words aloud to each other and have fun laughing and reminiscing about fond memories before your wedding ceremony. Keep it to a few short paragraphs and add levity and authenticity when you write it. A few tips to keep in mind as you’re writing are:

- __Tip 1:__ Write it like a casual conversation, not a professional bio. It should read like you’re telling the tale in person to a guest. You want it to feel warm and inviting. Skip writing inside jokes but freely share the humor of a story. Guests want to feel like they have a bit of insider knowledge about the spouses-to-be.

- __Tip 2:__ Don’t overthink it. While most About us stories are about the length of a paragraph, if you want to sum it up in two or three sentences, do as you please. It’s about sharing your story in the way you want guests to receive it.

- __Tip 3:__ Make sure the story flows. If you are each writing from your own perspective, make sure each part is similar in length. You don’t want one of you to extend the writing to several lines while the other person only contributes one or two.

Following the Hollywood formula is useful as it answers the questions of who, what, when, where, and how. It also shows how to focus on the important details and select private moments.

![Zola Wedding Website Photo](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7iMxcB3Lsjs2rhBGZsN8Gs/161cd2722cc9508f4576a85c68d593d5/inline_simplyadriphotography.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Simply Adri Photography

### Let Your Wedding Website Design Guide Your Words

Choose from one of hundreds of [wedding website templates](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-website-examples-and-inspiration-themes-and-designs). Each will guide you to where and how much you should add to your wedding website’s About Us story. Using templates helps you decide __[what to put on your wedding website](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-z-list-of-what-to-put-on-your-wedding-website)__. You’re able to preview how it looks on the screen and decide if you want to add or delete words to make it easier to read. The design enhances the story by also reflecting your personalities and style of your upcoming nuptials. 

Match your website to your wedding theme. Whether it’s an elegant evening affair, an afternoon countryside ceremony, or one of the many other aesthetics and locations in between, you’ll find one that sets the tone for your big day. This can also be extended to your RSVP, guest list, wedding registry, and wedding invitations. 

Part of creating your wedding website means taking a walk down memory lane while at the same time preparing for the future. It’s a special time so make sure you savor the moment when getting ready for your wedding day!

### Zola, Your Best Wedding Website Option

With Zola, you not only get a free [wedding website template](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/20-most-popular-zola-wedding-website-templates) but also a unique and customizable one with many features. Not only is there an exhaustive wedding registry to choose from, but the variety of designs and templates to add your personality to your wedding website design is huge. You also receive a completion discount for items pending in your wedding registry past your wedding date so go ahead and set up your own [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website) and [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) at Zola to see how easy and convenient a platform it is as you plan for your big day.

5 Creative “Our Story” Wedding Website Examples

Sharing your wedding wishes with a newlywed couple is a thoughtful way to celebrate their new life together and [show your appreciation](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/registry/gift-etiquette/wedding-gifts-from-around-the-world) for being a part of their wedding day. But knowing what to write in a wedding card can be intimidating, especially if you don’t consider yourself to be great with words. 

To help you get started, we’ve put together a collection of tips and examples for what to write in a wedding card. Use them as inspiration for your own wedding wishes, and remember that a genuine, from-the-heart message from you is all that really matters.

- <a href="#formal-wedding-card-wishes">Formal Wedding Wishes</a>
- <a href="#casual-wedding-card-wishes">Casual Wedding Card Wishes</a>
- <a href="#religious-wedding-card-wishes">Funny Wedding Card Wishes</a>
- <a href="#funny-wedding-card-wishes">Religious Wedding Card Wishes</a>
- <a href="#wedding-card-for-a-family-member-and-new-spouse">Wedding Wishes for Family</a>
- <a href="#wedding-card-for-a-friend-and-new-spouse">Wedding Wishes for Son or Daughter</a>
- <a href="#wedding-card-for-a-coworker-and-new-spouse">Wedding Wishes for a Friend</a>
- <a href="#wedding-card-for-a-parent-and-new-stepparent">Wedding Wishes for a Coworker</a>
- <a href="#wedding-card-for-a-son-or-daughter-and-new-spouse">What to Write in a Wedding Card When You Can't Attend</a>
- <a href="#wedding-card-for-a-sibling-and-new-spouse
">Printable Wedding Gift Tags</a>

Wedding cards are traditionally gifted to the couple at the wedding [reception](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-reception-timeline). If you [can’t make it to the ceremony](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-postpone-your-wedding), be sure to mail your wedding card as close to the wedding date as possible. The most important rule of thumb when it comes to wedding card etiquette is to write a warm, genuine message unique to the newlyweds. 

## How to Structure Your Wedding Card Message
Depending on the nature of your relationship with the newlyweds, you might not feel the need to follow a specific message structure when you write your wedding card. However, the standard format of a wedding card message typically follows the format below: 

1. Note of congratulations
2. Warm wishes for their new marriage 
3. Personal message, memory, joke or marriage advice (this will vary depending on your relationship to the newlyweds) 
4. Loving sign off 

If you’re stuck on [how to word your wedding card message](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-word-wedding-invitations), the format above is a great place to start. For more inspiration, keep reading for a variety of wedding message examples.

## Examples for What to Write in a Wedding Card

To get your pen moving, here’s some wedding card inspiration at different levels of formality and for various types of couples:

### Formal Wedding Wishes
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Examples: 

- “Sending you wishes for a lifetime of love and happiness.” 
- “I/We wish you all the best as you begin your lives together.” 
- “May the years ahead strengthen the love that you share.”
- “Best wishes for a beautiful marriage filled with wonderful memories.”
- “Warm wishes for a beautiful wedding day and a happy union.”
- "May your joining together bring you more joy than you can imagine."
- "May today be the beginning of a long, happy life together."
- "Thank you for letting us/me share in this joyful day. We/I wish you all the best as you embark on this wonderful union."
- "Wishing you joy, love and happiness on your wedding day and as you begin your new life together."
- "May the love and happiness you feel today shine through the years."

### Casual Wedding Wishes
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If the newlyweds you’re writing to are close friends or family members, a formal message might not feel as genuine. Or perhaps a formal note just doesn’t fit your personality—that’s okay too! Opting for a more casual message allows you to be more personal, and works well when combined with a specific detail or memory you have of the couple. 

Examples: 

- “Best wishes!”
- “Congratulations on your wedding!”
- “Here’s a little something to start your life together.” (if you’re including a gift) 
- “Here’s to a long and happy marriage!” 
- "I'm seeing a fun-filled life in your future. Congratulations!"
- “I/We wish you guys lots of love now and always.”
- “Here’s to many years of love and happiness!”
- “Best wishes for an amazing future together.”
- “Hope the days ahead are filled with lots of hugs and kisses.”
- “Wishing you guys fun-filled adventures in married life!”

### Funny Wedding Wishes
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If you want to make the happy couple laugh, consider writing a funny wedding card message if it will put a smile on their faces! Don’t be afraid to include something laugh-worthy in your note—after all, you know them best, so you can be the judge of what to include based on their sense of humor. 

Examples: 

- "Thanks for inviting us/me to eat and drink while you get married. Congrats!"
- "I haven't been this happy for anybody since [insert team name here] won the World Series/other championship!"
- Being married is like any other job; it helps if you like your boss. Congratulations!
- "Congratulations—your wedding successfully made me sob like a baby!"
- “Hope you guys have more belly laughs than fights overloading the dishwasher!”
- “Best wishes as you annoy each other for the rest of your lives.”
- “Here’s to endless sleepovers with your favorite weirdo.”
- "Thanks for the free booze. Best wishes on a long, happy marriage!"
- “May Facebook notifications always save you from forgetting your anniversary.”
- “Good luck and remember that dating apps are only getting creepier.” 

### Religious Wedding Wishes
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If the newlywed couple is religious, this could be the perfect way to tailor your wedding card message. A religious wedding card may include mentions of your prayers over their marriage, quotes from scripture, and mentions of God. Be sure to think about the couple’s religious beliefs before you opt for this type of wedding card, and use their practices to frame your note. 

Versatile Examples: 

- “May God bless your marriage.”
- “May the One who brought you together bless your marriage, enrich your lives and deepen your love throughout the years.”
- “May your union be filled with God’s blessings, now and every day forward.”
- “We/I pray that God will cover you both as you enter this new life together.” 
- “Sending you prayers for a marriage filled with love and joy.”
- "God bless you both on this day with a lifetime of shared love and joy."
- “Praying that your marriage will prosper and be strengthened by the love of God each step of the way.” 

Christian Examples: 

- "Be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you." –Ephesians 4:32
- "No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us." –1 John 4:12
- "'Love is patient. Love is kind… Love never fails.' – 1 Corinthians 13:4-13"

Jewish Examples: 

- “Mazel Tov! May joy fill all the days of your life together."
- "'I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine.' – Shir Ha'Shirim/Song of Songs 6:3" Or " 'Ani L'Dodi, v'Dodi Li.' – Shir Ha'Shirim/Song of Songs 6:3"
- "Mazel Tov on your wedding!" or "Mazel Tov on your marriage!”

### Wedding Wishes for Family
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There’s something special about celebrating the wedding of a close family member. A wedding card message to someone in your own family is a great chance to get personal, and you don’t have to be afraid of being too over the top—in fact, it’s probably expected! 

Examples: 

- “Today, we add one more member to our family and we couldn’t be happier.”
- “I love you both. Thanks for letting me share in your celebration.”
- I love you both and couldn’t be happier for our family!
- What a beautiful day for our family, we’re finally complete.
- Thanks for letting us share in your celebration.
- “So excited to add a new member to our family! Here’s to a lifetime of love and growing old together.”
- “Today is a wonderful day for our family. Congrats and warm wishes!”
- “Congratulations and welcome to the family! Hope today and every day after is amazing.”
- “We’re so happy to call you both family. Here’s to lots of love and future family drama!”
- “Cheers to family and love! Congrats on getting married you guys.”

### Wedding Wishes for Siblings
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Your sibling is someone you’ve grown up with and shared some of life’s defining memories with, and watching them get married is one of the greatest milestones you’ll share. When writing a wedding card to one of your own siblings, a good rule of thumb is to just write what feels natural to you. 

Examples:

- “I’m so happy to add a brother/sister to our family. Congratulations and best wishes for a happy life together.”
- “Congrats to the best brother/sister in the world and my new brother-in-law/sister-in-law. Lots of love to you both.”
- “So thankful that my brother/sister has found the one whom his/her soul loves. Welcome to the family and congratulations on finding love in each other.”
- “Yay! So excited to gain a sibling today. All my love to you guys!”
- “Best wishes to you guys as you begin your lives together. Let’s celebrate!”
- “For my brother/sister who’s found love. May your wedding be the first day of many years of happiness to come!”
- For my brother/sister who deserves only the best, may your wedding day be everything you’ve dreamt of.”
- To my brother/sister who has always meant so much to me, I am so happy for the wonderful love you’ve found. I’m wishing you all the best on your wedding day.”
- "It seems like yesterday we were playing 'house' in the backyard, and now you get to do it in real life. I couldn't be happier for you both. Congratulations!"
- I couldn’t be happier as a brother/sister than I am to see the joy you’ve found in marriage. Can’t wait to watch you two grow old together.”

### Wedding Wishes for Son or Daughter
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For many parents, watching their son or daughter get married is a huge milestone. If you’re the mother or father of a bride or groom, you might feel overwhelmed with emotion that can feel tough to put into words. What’s most important is that you express your joy and wish the couple well. From there, feel free to get as personal as you’d like. 

Examples: 

- “So happy to welcome a new son/daughter to our family. Thank you for the joy you bring my son/daughter. May the joy you feel today last a lifetime!”
- “Today we add a new member to our family and we couldn’t be happier. Congrats to you both!”
- “Lots of love and happiness to you both on this joyful day for our family.”
- Son/Daughter, I’m so happy to see you marry someone who brings you so much joy. Here’s to a beautiful marriage that grows through the years.”
- “Best wishes to my son/daughter and my new son-in-law/daughter-in-law on this wonderful occasion!”
- "We/I know we're/I'm not losing a son/daughter. We're/I'm gaining a son/daughter. Much happiness to you."
- "Son/daughter, I/we feel many emotions on this day. Most of all, I'm/we're happy you've found someone wonderful to share your life with. Best wishes to you both."
- “Seeing you go from a young girl/boy to the grown man/woman you are today is such a special sight to see. May you both be blessed in your future together, and know how much I love you!”
- “Watching you reach this milestone is a proud moment for a parent, and I’m filled with joy to know you’ve found love.” 
- “It’s a privilege to watch you get married and to give you away to [spouse]. I have no doubt that your marriage will be an adventure, and don’t forget I’ll always be here to support you as your mother/father.”

### Wedding Wishes for a Parent
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Finding the right thing to say to a parent who’s getting married or remarried can be tough, so when in doubt, keep it simple! Any parent will likely be grateful for any type of message they receive from their child, whether you want to get deep and personal or keep it short and light. 

Examples: 

- “Welcome to the family. Love you both so much!”
- “I’m so thrilled that you have found each other. Congrats and best wishes!”
- “Mom/Dad, I’m so happy for the love that you have found. Congrats to you both, and welcome to the family [Name of Stepparent]!”
- “[Name of Stepparent], thank you for the joy you bring my Mom/Dad. Cheers to a bigger, better family!”
- “So excited to see our family grow today. Congratulations on your big day!”
- “Mom/Dad, thank you for all the advice you’ve given me over the years. Now here’s mine: [Fill in your own advice].”
- “I’m overjoyed to see you so happy. Lots of love.”
- “Mom/Dad, seeing how happy [Name of Stepparent] makes you is such a gift. So happy for you both.”

### Wedding Wishes for a Friend
How you craft your wedding card message to a friend will depend on how close you are to them. The message might be short, sweet and classic, or you may choose to get specific and personal. Consider your relationship and how personal, sentimental, serious or funny you want to get with your wedding wishes. 

Examples: 

- “May you bring each other as much happiness and friendship as you’ve brought me. Congrats!”
- “Here’s to love, friendship, and double-dates! Best wishes for an awesome marriage.”
- “So thrilled to celebrate this day with two amazing friends! Happy wedding day, guys!”
- “Can’t wait to get down on the dance floor and celebrate with you. Congratulations on getting married!”
- “Thanks for inviting me to eat cake and drink champagne. You should get married all the time!” 
- "Of all the big life events we've celebrated over the years, today tops the list. Congrats!"
- "We've had so many laughs together! May you always make each other laugh!"
- "Here's to love and friendship!"
- "Congratulations to a wonderful friend and his/her new husband/wife."
- “We’re so thrilled to celebrate this wonderful day with you both.”

### Wedding Wishes for a Coworker
If you’re writing to congratulate a coworker on their marriage, it’s unlikely you’ll be including deeply heartfelt sentiments. Instead, it’s best to be more general with your wording. You might choose to use one of the more formal or casual examples above depending on your relationship, or opt for one of some of the work-inspired wedding quotes below. 

Examples: 

- “Thank you for inviting me to share this day with you. Best wishes!”
- “I’m so happy to have bonded with you at work. Congrats to you and your love!”
- “Cheers! I’m looking forward to seeing your new title on your email signature.”
- “Wishing you guys the very best and a happy honeymoon!”
- “Congrats on finding each other! Here’s to many happy years.”
- "Best wishes to a very cool coworker and his/her new husband/wife."
- "Wishing you success—and most of all happiness—in your marriage."
- "You've got a new title: husband/wife! Wishing you and your spouse the best."
- "What a wonderful day to celebrate my coworker and his/her spouse. All the best to you both in your marriage."
- What a wonderful day to celebrate my coworker. All of the best to both of you in marriage.

### What to Write in a Wedding Card When You Can't Attend
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Sometimes life gets in the way and you can’t make it to the wedding. This type of wedding card presents the perfect opportunity to express your apologies for not being able to attend and share warm wedding wishes to the couple. 

Examples: 

- “With you in spirit as you celebrate your love. Congratulations!”
- “So sad to miss your special day, sending all our love and best wishes to the happy couple!”
- “So sorry we can’t be there to celebrate your special day, but please know we are toasting you from afar!”
- “We are glad we have the rest of your lives to congratulate you on your new marriage. Best of wishes!”
- “Your wedding is important to us, don’t let our absence tell you otherwise! We would’ve loved to be a part of your special day and wish you all the best on your union.” 
- “While we hate to have missed your special day, we’re celebrating from afar. Congratulations!”
- “Just because we missed your wedding doesn’t mean we aren’t still celebrating! We’re so thrilled for you two and wish you all the best.”
- “I’m sure the wedding was beautiful—we’re so sorry we missed it! We wish you all the best as you start your next chapter as newlyweds.”
- “Congratulations to the happy couple, I wish I could have been there to watch you say ‘I do’!”

You might feel guilty if you have to miss a friend’s wedding, but you can still share your love from afar and let them know you care with a thoughtful wedding gift. With all the [wedding gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-gift-ideas) they’ll probably be receiving, give yours a special touch with these printable gift tags with sweet messages. 

### Printable Wedding Gift Tags
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[![download-gift-tags](//images.contentful.com/77l22z9el0aa/J0f9yxZ4rnHV9r0EdYbl4/a320342aa5519dda542669ad1f9b2f20/download-gift-tags.png)](//assets.contentful.com/77l22z9el0aa/5ImtAZV4XdSDrYm7vD8NeA/b933d79d65dcea2818ec399d36c817e2/wedding-gift-tags.pdf)

Weddings are one of the most joyous occasions to take part in, and your wedding wishes are an opportunity to make the newlyweds feel special, loved and supported as they embark on their new life together. If you’re looking for the perfect wedding card to send, there are hundreds of [beautiful and affordable designs](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/paper) to choose from that can add that special touch to your message.

What to Write in a Wedding Card: Funny, Thoughtful & Lovely Wishes Ideas 

Wedding Guests

You’ve signed the last check, paid the last deposit, purchased the final items, and settled up all the remaining balances…your wedding has been paid for! Or—has it? In the grand scheme of budgeting for your wedding, don’t forget to factor in funds for tipping wedding vendors. While not all vendors expect to be tipped for their services—instead choosing to make their prices reflect all the payment they feel they need—for some it’s an expectation to follow tipping etiquette in the wedding industry. Confused on which vendors to tip, how much you should tip each type of vendor, and when to distribute tips? Fear not: here’s a guide on tipping vendors.

## Wedding Vendor Tipping Pointers

1. Tips are a great way to show vendors your appreciation for their hard work at your wedding and may even be an unexpected surprise. You can also tip when you feel you’ve received extraordinary service.
2. Check your contracts to be sure that gratuity has not already been included in the price.
3. Generally speaking, you do not need to tip the owners of large businesses (just their employees). Small business owners, on the other hand, should be considered for tipping based on the quality of service you feel you’ve received.
4. Tip or no tip, writing a thank you note to vendors who provided you with great service is always a thoughtful gesture and highly appreciated—as is leaving them positive reviews on wedding planning websites like [Zola for Vendors](https://www.zola.com/inspire/vendors).

### Who's responsible for tipping?

When it comes to tipping wedding vendors, the responsibility for providing the tip can sometimes be a point of confusion, especially if someone else is covering the cost of the wedding. In the scenario where the bride's parents or another party are paying for the wedding, it is generally considered thoughtful and appropriate for your as the couple to handle the tipping on their own. 

Tipping vendors is a gesture of appreciation for their hard work and dedication in making the wedding day special. Even if someone else is funding the event, you've likely been involved in selecting and working with the vendors throughout the planning process, making it fitting that they express their gratitude through tipping. By taking on this responsibility, you can ensure that the vendors who contributed to your big day are properly acknowledged and thanked for their efforts.

## How Much to Tip Wedding Vendors (by Vendor Type)

While your tip should depend on your wedding budget and level of satisfaction & a few other factors, here are some quick guidelines on how to tip your wedding vendors, with additional protocol & tips below:

- Photographers & Videographers: 10% of the total package cost if opting for a percentage, or $50-$100 per person
- Wedding coordinator/planners: 10-20% of the total bill (up to $500)
- Wedding Venue Coordinator/Catering Captain: $250-500, or 15-20% of the food and drink bill
- Officiant: $50-$100
- Ceremony Musicians: $15-$20 per musician
- Florist: $50-100
- Hairstylist & Makeup Artist: 15-20% of total
- Transportation: 15-20%
- Wedding Band: $25-$50 per musician
- Wedding DJ: 10-20% of total
- Reception Waitstaff: 15-20% of labor costs on food & drink bill
- Reception Bartender: 10% of the total bill
- Delivery Personnel: $5-$10 per person

### Wedding [Photographer(s)](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers) and [Videographer(s)](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-videographers)

- __Protocol:__ Optional; consider tipping second shooters or staff beyond the business owner(s).
- __Amount:__ Although not required, consider tipping wedding photographers and videographers 10% of the packgae cost or $50-$100 per person. You could also provide a good review as another nice gesture for their photography services.  
- __Timing:__ At the end of the reception.

### [Wedding Planner](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-planners)

- __Protocol:__ Optional; about 50% of couples tip.
- __Amount:__ Although wedding planners don’t expect a tip, if you’d like to show your appreciation for examples of exceptional service, consider offering a tip that’s 10-20% of the total bill (up to $500).
- __Timing:__ At the end of the reception, or mail it after the honeymoon.

### Wedding Venue Coordinator/[Catering Captain](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-venues)

- __Protocol:__ Expected, based on contract. If service fee is not included, tip according to below.
- __Amount:__ Wedding venue coordinators and catering captains should be tipped $250-500, or 15-20% of the food and drink bill.
- __Timing:__ If included in the contract, the final bill is due before the wedding. If not, at the end of the reception.

### Officiant

- __Protocol:__ Expected, depending on officiant. If s/he works for a church or synagogue, you might consider making a donation to that institution additionally.
- __Amount:__  A wedding officiant should be tipped around $50-100 for the officiant alone, depending on how much time they’ve spent with you pre-ceremony. Consider a $100-500 donation to the religious institution.
- __Timing:__ Prior to the wedding (when paying the ceremony service fee), or after the rehearsal.

### [Ceremony Musicians](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-bands-djs)

- __Protocol:__ Optional; consider the complexity of their setup and/or performance.
- __Amount:__ Consider tipping each ceremony musicians $15-20 per musician.
- __Timing:__ At the end of the wedding ceremony.

### [Florist](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-florists)

- __Protocol:__ Optional or not expected, unless you really loved their work and service.
- __Amount:__ Consider tipping your wedding florist $50-$100 of your total floral bill.
- __Timing:__ Include a separate check with the final invoice, or mail it after the -honeymoon.

### [Hair & Make-up Artist(s)](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-hair-makeup)

- __Protocol:__ Expected
- __Amount:__ Wedding hair and make-up artists should be tipped 15-20% of your total charge (just like at a salon!). You can discuss with your wedding party whether on not you plan to cover this cost or if they're expected to.
- __Timing:__ At the end of their service.

### Transportation

- __Protocol:__ Expected (but may be already included in the contract).
- __Amount:__ Wedding transportation staff should be tipped 15-20% of your total bill.
- __Timing:__ At the end of the night or after the final ride.

### [Wedding Band](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-bands-djs)

- __Protocol:__ Optional; consider their overall performance and responsiveness to your requests.
- __Amount:__ Consider tipping your wedding band $25-$50 per musician
- __Timing:__ At the end of the reception.

### [Wedding DJ](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-bands-djs)

- __Protocol:__ Optional; consider their overall quality and responsiveness to your requests.
- __Amount:__ Although not required, consider tipping your wedding DJ 10-20%.
- __Timing:__ At the end of the reception.

### [Reception Waitstaff](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-catering)

- __Protocol:__ Optional, based on contract (check to see if a service fee is included). Tip on top of service fee only for exceptional service.
- __Amount:__ Consider tipping your wedding reception waitstaff 15-20% of labor costs on your food and drink bill. Reach out to the your lead caterer or catering captain to determine the best way to ensure each person you plan to give a tip recieves theirs.
- __Timing:__ At the end of the reception (or during set-up, to encourage great service).

### [Reception Bartender](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-bar-services)

- __Protocol:__ Optional, based on contract (check to see if a service fee is included). Tip on top of service fee only for exceptional service. 
- __Amount:__ Consider tipping your wedding reception bartender 10% of the total liquor bill.
- __Timing:__ At the end of the reception (or during set-up, to encourage great service).

### Delivery Personnel (Wedding Cake, Rentals, Flowers, Etc.)

- __Protocol:__ Expected
- __Amount:__ Wedding delivery personnel should be tipped $5-$10 per person
- __Timing:__ Leave cash envelopes with the coordinator or catering manager (whomever will be on site overseeing delivery and setup) to distribute the tip(s).

## How to Deliver Tips 

It is essential to consider streamlining the process, especially amidst the bustling activities of the big day. One solution to designate a member of the wedding party, such as the best man or maid of honor, to take charge of distributing tips. This delegation allows the couple to fully immerse themselves in the joyous occasion, free from concerns about managing tipping logistics. This arrangement becomes particularly advantageous if the couple plans a grand exit, as they won't be burdened with carrying envelopes while making their departure. By entrusting a trusted individual with the task, the vendors' hard work receives the appropriate appreciation, contributing to a harmonious and memorable celebration for all involved parties.


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How Much To Tip Wedding Vendors

The Newlywed Game, based on a game show of the same name, is a party game where you quiz the couple to see how well they know each other. It’s a popular [choice for entertainment](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/decor-inspiration/music-and-entertainment) at wedding-related events as it lets couples take a walk down memory lane, recalling favorite moments and fun facts about each other.

It’s also a hilarious ice-breaker and allows guests to learn more about the happy couple, with [questions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-game-questions-youll-love) like “Who is a better gift giver?” and “Who said I love you first?”

Below, we’ve compiled a list of 90 of the best Newlywed Game questions for a [wedding shower](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers) or [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas) as well as tips for playing. In addition to interesting and funny Newlywed Game questions and printables, we’ve included even more free party printables at the bottom of this post — <a href="#printables">[click here](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/newlywed-game-questions#printables)</a> to jump directly to those games. 

## How to Play the Newlywed Game
Hosting a wedding-related event? Break the ice with The Newlywed Game. Sometimes also called the honeymoon game or couples quiz, this activity is a fun, simple, and affordable way to add humor to a celebration.

The point of the game is to discover who knows their partner best by correctly predicting their responses to revealing questions. Here’s a quick overview of how to play: 

### 1: Make Sure the Couple is on Board
First and foremost, reach out to the couple and confirm they’re willing to play the Newlywed Game at their event. The game should be fun and light-hearted, but since the questions can reveal personal information in front of a large group, it's best to gauge comfort level ahead of time.

### 2: Gather Intel via Email
Once the couple has agreed to play along, email them individually with a list of questions for them to answer about themselves a few days before the event. Remind them not to discuss the questions at all and to keep their responses a secret. 

### 3: Designate a Host to Emcee the Game
The Newlywed Game is the most entertaining when it’s played as a game show. Find someone willing to explain the rules to a crowd, ask tough questions, and make light of the responses along the way. The more personality and humor the emcee can add on the fly, the better.

### 4: Play the Game and Keep Score
Now it’s time to quiz the couple. Pass out fill-in-the-blank scorecards to each individual. These questionnaires will ask them facts about their partner, and they’ll want to correctly guess the response their partner emailed over a few days before.

Each time an individual correctly guesses an answer to a question about their partner, they receive a point. The individual who has the most points at the end of the game is the winner. 

## 90 Newlywed Questions for Couples
Ready to get started? Below you’ll find a list of 90 Newlywed Game questions for couples. In the event of a tie, we’ve included a tie-breaker round with more challenging questions.

We’ve also included free printable fill-in-the-blank questionnaires you can print and use at the event.

### Romantic Questions
To start, let’s delve into your romantic history with this list of “remember when” questions. 

1. Where did you two meet?
2. Who made the first move?
3. Where did you first kiss?
4. On a scale from 1 to 10, how would your partner rate your first date?
5. How often do you go on dates now?
6. Who's the better kisser?
7. What did your partner wear on your first date?
8. Who said I love you first?
9. What movie did you first watch together?
10. Who is a better gift giver?
11. What song most reminds you of your partner and why?
12. What’s your partner’s favorite physical feature on you?
13. What’s your spouse’s perfect date night like?
14. What is your dating anniversary?
15. What is your partner’s favorite vacation you went on together?
16. When did your partner first know they loved you?
17. What is your partner’s pet name for you?

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### Favorites Questions
Do you know all of your partner’s favorite things? Prove it! 

16. What is your partner’s favorite food?
17. What is your partner’s favorite dessert?
18. What’s your spouse’s favorite color?
19. What is your partner’s favorite tv show? 
20. What is your partner’s favorite holiday?
21. What is your partner’s favorite alcoholic beverage?
22. What is your partner’s favorite soda?
23. What’s your spouse’s favorite ice cream flavor?
24. What is your partner’s favorite sports team? 
25. What is your partner’s favorite band?
26. What is your partner’s favorite movie? 
27. What is your partner’s favorite animal? 
28. Who is your partner’s favorite actor or actress?
29. Who is your partner’s celebrity crush? 
30. What is your partner’s favorite scent? 
31. What is your partner’s favorite podcast?
32. What is your partner’s favorite board game? 

### Guess Who Questions
In this round, get inside the mind of your partner to answer “guess who?” questions. 

31. Who takes longer showers?
32. Who is the better cook?
33. Who is better with kids? 
34. Who is the better singer? 
35. Who is a better planner?
36. Who is more addicted to their cell phone?
37. Who is tidier? 
38. Who is a better driver? 
39. Who exercises more? 
40. Who is more street smart?
41. Who is more artistic?
42. Who is more outgoing? 
43. Who is more of a risk-taker? 
44. Who is a bigger foodie? 
45. Who is more likely to win Jeopardy?

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### Finance Questions
Money is an important part of every relationship. Do you know your partner’s finance habits and preferences? 

46. Would your partner rather spend money on experiences or possessions? 
47. How many credit cards does your partner have? 
48. Is your partner better with money than you? 
49. If your partner won the lottery, what’s the first thing they would buy? 
50. What is your partner’s dream vacation spot?
51. Does your partner buy generic or name brand products?
52. If your partner found unmarked cash, would they turn it in? 
53. What hobby does your partner spend the most on? 
54. How many kids does your partner want to have? 
55. Who is your partner’s biggest financial influence? 
56. Where does your partner want to retire? 
57. Does your partner drive a more expensive car than you? 
58. Has your partner ever donated plasma for money?
59. Who is more charitable?
60. Does your partner follow a monthly budget? 

### Random Facts Questions 
These quiz questions will reveal how well you know random facts about your partner. 

61. What was your partner’s first car? 
62. What was the name of your partner’s first pet? 
63. Does your partner snore?
64. What is your partner’s biggest fear? 
65. What’s your partner’s hidden talent?
66. What is your partner’s go-to karaoke song?
67. Is your partner more likely to arrive early or late?
68. What is your partner’s love language? 
69. What is your partner’s sign?
70. If your partner had a superpower, what would it be?
71. What is your partner’s worst habit? 
72. What is your partner’s dream date?
73. Does your partner prefer dogs or cats? 
74. What would be your partner’s last meal?
75. What decade does your partner want to live in most? 

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### Tiebreaker Questions 
Tied up at the end of the game? Use this list of challenging questions to declare a winner.

76. What was your partner’s GPA in high school? 
77. What’s your spouse’s shoe size?
78. What’s your spouse’s pet peeve?
79. What’s the full name of your spouse’s best friend?
80. Were you your partner’s first love?
81. How often does your partner dream about you? 
82. Who was your partner’s favorite teacher? 
83. What did your partner want to be when they grew up?
84. What was your spouse’s first job?
85. What is your spouse’s dream job?
86. What’s the first movie your spouse ever watched?
87. What was your partner’s favorite age?
88. Was your partner rebellious as a teenager? 
89. What is the happiest moment of your partner’s life?
90. As a child, what was your partner’s favorite movie?
91. How would your partner choose to get famous? 
92. What is your partner’s greatest accomplishment? 
93. What is your partner’s favorite time of day? 
94. Who would your partner trade places with and why?
95. How does your partner want to be remembered?
96. Is your partner a better listener than you? 

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## More Engagement Party Games and Activities 

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Looking for more party activities to spice up a wedding event? We’ve included some more unique printable games below. You can also check out our posts on [bridal shower games](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/free-bridal-shower-printables) and [bachelorette party games](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bachelorette-party-games). 

### Never Have I Ever 
Similar to the Newlywed Game, Never Have I Ever delves into the past — only this time, each individual fesses up to their own actions. 

__How to play__: Sit the couple front and center, each with their own paddle. Ask a list of situational questions to reveal what each individual player has or hasn’t done. Every time an individual flashes the “I have done that” paddle, they must place a finger down. The loser is the one who gets eliminated first. 

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### Famous Fictional Couples Guessing Game 
This next game is perfect for film and literature lovers, and it can be played with a group of party guests. The point of the game is for each player to guess the famous fictional couple they’ve drawn from the deck by asking yes or no questions. 

__How to play__: Each player will draw a famous couple card facedown. They’ll then hold the card on their head without looking at it (this is key). Players then ask the group a series of yes or no questions to guess which famous fictional couple they are. 

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### Message in a Bottle Activity 
Games aren’t the only way to spice up a party. This activity creates meaningful memories and can double as a creative reception display later on. Attendees will each write a message to the couple for them to open on their one year anniversary. 

Whether it’s marriage advice or a fond memory, the message will help make the couple’s one year anniversary even more magical. 

__How to play__: Print our free display sign and message cards on color paper. Display them on a table with pens and empty wine bottles, and usher party attendees towards the activity throughout the event. Have them write down a meaningful note and then place it rolled up inside a bottle. 

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## Conclusion
This list of Newlywed Game questions and free printables helps make hosting a wedding-related event (like an [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/engagement-party-ideas)) a breeze. For similar bachelorette party games, check out our list here. Hosting a bridal shower and are in need of some entertainment? [We’ve got you covered](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/free-bridal-shower-printables).

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