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__Official Rules: Poshmark x Zola Giveaway__

__NO PURCHASE NECESSARY TO ENTER OR WIN.__

__ELIGIBILITY:__ OPEN ONLY TO LEGAL RESIDENTS OF THE FIFTY (50) UNITED STATES AND THE DISTRICT OF COLUMBIA, 18 YEARS OF AGE OR OLDER. VOID WHERE PROHIBITED. Employees (and their immediate families (spouse, and parents, children and siblings and their respective spouses, regardless of where they reside) and those living in their same households, whether or not related) of Poshmark, Inc. . (“Sponsor”) and its parents, affiliates, subsidiaries and advertising and promotion agencies are not eligible to enter or win. By participating, entrants agree to be bound by these Official Rules and the decisions of the Sponsor, which are binding and final on matters relating to this sweepstakes (the “Promotion”). This Promotion is subject to all applicable federal, state and local laws. This Promotion is in no way sponsored, endorsed or administered by Facebook, Instagram, or similar social media sites.

__HOW TO ENTER:__ In connection with the Promotion, Sponsor will publish an Instagram post on the Sponsor’s Instagram account @poshmark on or about August 4, 2025 (“Promotion Post”). An eligible entrant may enter the Promotion between 10:00 a.m. Eastern Time (“ET”) on August 4, 2025 and 11:59 p.m. ET on August 8, 2025 (“Entry Period”) by taking all three of the following steps: (1) liking the Promotion Post, (2) comment on the Promotion Post by tagging a friend and (3) following @poshmark and @zola on Instagram. For an alternative method of entry (AMOE), submit your entry by using this form. Entries made via the form must be received during the Entry Period to be considered. Limit one (1) entry per person; additional entries received from any person or email address will be void. Entries generated by script, bot, macro or other automated means are void. All entries become the property of Sponsor. Limit one (1) entry per household. 

__DRAWING:__ Two (2) potential winners will be selected in a random drawing held on or about August 11, 2025 from all eligible entries received. Odds of winning depend on the number of eligible entries received. The potential winners will be notified by DM in Instagram, and may be required to execute and return an Affidavit of Eligibility, Liability and, unless prohibited, Publicity Release. If a potential winner does not respond to the initial notification within the time period stated in the initial notification, does not return all required documentation within the time period stated, or if a prize notification or prize is returned as undeliverable, or such potential winner is not in compliance with these rules, the prize will be forfeited and, at Sponsor’s sole discretion, an alternate winner selected. Up to three (3) alternate winners will be selected for any prize, after which prize will remain unawarded. Sponsor is not responsible for any delay or failure to receive notification for any reason, including inactive Instagram account(s), technical difficulties associated therewith, or the potential winner’s failure to adequately monitor any Instagram account.

__PRIZES:__ There will be two (2) potential winners.  Each winner will receive: one (1) $500 in Poshmark store value; one (1) $500 in Zola Stored Value redeemable on Zola.com or on the Zola app (collectively, the “Prize”). Zola Stored Value never expires and can be used for any physical product, third-party gift card or experience that Zola sells. Zola Stored Value cannot be redeemed or used for cash, honeymoon funds or other cash gifts, digital Zola gift cards, Vendor Credits or Vendor Plans, nor can it be applied towards items purchased from another website. The Prize is awarded “as is” with no warranty or guarantee, either express or implied and subject to Zola’s Terms of Use located at https://www.zola.com/terms. All federal, state and local taxes, if any, and all other costs and expenses associated with prize acceptance and use not specified herein as being provided are the sole responsibility of the winner. Winners may not substitute, assign or transfer any prize, but Sponsor reserves the right, at its sole discretion, to substitute a prize (or portion thereof) of comparable or greater value. Prizes are not redeemable for cash. All prize details are at Sponsor’s sole discretion. Limit one (1) Prize per household. 

__PUBLICITY GRANT:__ The winner, by acceptance of a prize, except where legally prohibited, grants permission for Sponsor and its designees to use his/her/their name, address (city and state), photograph, voice and/or other likeness and prize information for advertising, trade and promotional purposes, in any manner, in all media now known or hereafter devised, worldwide in perpetuity, without additional compensation or notification to, or permission from, such winner.

__GENERAL CONDITIONS:__ Entrants, by participating, agree that Sponsor, its parents, affiliates, subsidiaries, and advertising and promotion agencies, and all of their respective officers, directors, employees, representatives and agents (collectively, “Released Parties”) will have no liability whatsoever for, and shall be held harmless by entrants against, any liability, for any injuries, losses or damages (including punitive, incidental and consequential damages) of any kind, including death, to persons, or property resulting in whole or in part, directly or indirectly, from acceptance, possession, misuse or use of a prize or participation in this Promotion. SOME JURISDICTIONS DO NOT ALLOW THE LIMITATIONS OR EXCLUSION OF LIABILITY FOR INCIDENTAL OR CONSEQUENTIAL DAMAGES, SO THE ABOVE MAY NOT APPLY TO YOU. Released Parties are not responsible for lost, late, incomplete, inaccurate, stolen, delayed, misdirected, undelivered or garbled entries or email; or for lost, interrupted or unavailable network, server, Internet Service Provider (ISP), website, or other connections, availability or accessibility or miscommunications or failed computer, satellite, telephone or cable transmissions, lines, or technical failure or jumbled, scrambled, delayed, or misdirected transmissions or computer hardware or software malfunctions, failures or difficulties, or other errors or difficulties of any kind whether human, mechanical, electronic, computer, telephonic, network, typographical, printing or otherwise relating to or in connection with the sweepstakes, including, without limitation, errors or difficulties which may occur in connection with the administration of the Promotion, the functionality of the voice recording, the processing of entries, the announcement of the prizes or in any Promotion-related materials. Released Parties are also not responsible for any incorrect or inaccurate information, whether caused by site users, tampering, hacking, or by any equipment or programming associated with or utilized in the Promotion. Released Parties are not responsible for injury or damage to participants’ or to any other person’s computer related to or resulting from participating in this Promotion. Persons who tamper with or abuse any aspect of the Promotion, or who are in violation of these Official Rules, as determined by Sponsor in its sole discretion, will be disqualified and all associated entries will be void. Should any portion of the Promotion be, in Sponsor’s sole discretion, compromised by virus, worms, bugs, non-authorized human intervention or other causes which, in the sole opinion of the Sponsor, corrupt or impair the administration, security, fairness or proper play, or submission of entries, Sponsor reserves the right at its sole discretion to suspend, modify or terminate the Promotion and, if terminated, at its discretion, select the potential winners from all eligible, non-suspect entries received prior to action taken or as otherwise deemed fair and appropriate by Sponsor. A potential winner may be required to show proof of being the authorized account holder. Entries specifying an invalid, non-working, or inactive email address, username or handle will be disqualified and ineligible to win.

__CHOICE OF LAW AND FORUM:__ Entrant agrees that all matters arising out of or relating to this sweepstakes and these Official Rules are governed by, and construed in accordance with, the laws of the state of New York, without giving effect to any of its conflict of laws provisions thereof. Entrant further agrees that any legal suit, action, or proceeding arising out of or relating to this sweepstakes and these Official Rules shall be brought exclusively in the applicable federal or state courts located in New York, NY.

__USE OF DATA:__ Sponsor will be collecting personal data about entrants in accordance with its privacy policy. Please review the Sponsor’s privacy policy at https://poshmark.com/privacy#privacy. Personal data may be shared in connection with price administration and/or redemption.

__WINNERS LIST:__ To receive the names of the winners, please send a self-addressed stamped envelope to “Poshmark x Zola Giveaway” - Winner List, c/o Poshmark, Inc., 203 Redwood Shores Parkway, Floor 8, Redwood City, CA 94065. Queries must be postmarked no later than 60 days after the end of the Entry Period.

__SPONSOR:__ Poshmark, Inc., 203 Redwood Shores Parkway, Floor 8, Redwood City, CA 94065


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__Official Rules: After the Tone Giveaway__

__NO PURCHASE NECESSARY TO ENTER OR WIN.__

__ELIGIBILITY:__ OPEN ONLY TO LEGAL RESIDENTS OF THE FIFTY (50) UNITED STATES AND THE DISTRICT OF COLUMBIA, 18 YEARS OF AGE OR OLDER. VOID WHERE PROHIBITED. Employees (and their immediate families (spouse, and parents, children and siblings and their respective spouses, regardless of where they reside) and those living in their same households, whether or not related) of Zola, Inc. (“Sponsor”) and its parents, affiliates, subsidiaries and advertising and promotion agencies are not eligible to enter or win. By participating, entrants agree to be bound by these Official Rules and the decisions of the Sponsor, which are binding and final on matters relating to this sweepstakes (the “Promotion”). This Promotion is subject to all applicable federal, state and local laws. 

__HOW TO ENTER:__ In connection with the Promotion, Sponsor will publish an Instagram post on the Sponsor’s Instagram account @zola on or about May 27, 2025 (“Promotion Post”). An eligible entrant may enter the Promotion between 10:00 a.m. Eastern Time (“ET”) on May 27, 2025 and 11:59 p.m. ET on May 30, 2025 (“Entry Period”) by taking all three of the following steps: (1) liking the Promotion Post, (2) comment on the Promotion Post by tagging a friend and (3) following @zola and @afterthetone on Instagram. For an alternative method of entry (AMOE), submit your entry by using this form. Entries made via the form must be received during the Entry Period to be considered. Limit one (1) entry per person; additional entries received from any person or email address will be void. Entries generated by script, bot, macro or other automated means are void. All entries become the property of Sponsor. Limit one (1) entry per household. 

__DRAWING:__ Three (3) potential winners will be selected in a random drawing held on or about June 2, 2025 from all eligible entries received. Odds of winning depend on the number of eligible entries received. The potential winners will be notified by DM in Instagram, and may be required to execute and return an Affidavit of Eligibility, Liability and, unless prohibited, Publicity Release. If a potential winner does not respond to the initial notification within the time period stated in the initial notification, does not return all required documentation within the time period stated, or if a prize notification or prize is returned as undeliverable, or such potential winner is not in compliance with these rules, the prize will be forfeited and, at Sponsor’s sole discretion, an alternate winner selected. Up to three (3) alternate winners will be selected for any prize, after which prize will remain unawarded. Sponsor is not responsible for any delay or failure to receive notification for any reason, including inactive Instagram account(s), technical difficulties associated therewith, or the potential winner’s failure to adequately monitor any Instagram account.

__PRIZES:__  Three (3) winners will each receive: one (1) After the Tone phone guestbook service and one (1) $250 in Zola Stored Value redeemable on Zola.com or on the Zola app (collectively, the “Prize”). Zola Stored Value never expires and can be used for any physical product, third-party gift card or experience that Zola sells. Zola Stored Value cannot be redeemed or used for cash, honeymoon funds or other cash gifts, digital Zola gift cards, Vendor Credits or Vendor Plans, nor can it be applied towards items purchased from another website. The Prize is awarded “as is” with no warranty or guarantee, either express or implied and subject to Zola’s Terms of Use located at https://www.zola.com/terms. All federal, state and local taxes, if any, and all other costs and expenses associated with prize acceptance and use not specified herein as being provided are the sole responsibility of the winner. Winners may not substitute, assign or transfer any prize, but Sponsor reserves the right, at its sole discretion, to substitute a prize (or portion thereof) of comparable or greater value. Prizes are not redeemable for cash. All prize details are at Sponsor’s sole discretion. Limit one (1) Prize per household. 

__PUBLICITY GRANT:__ The winner, by acceptance of a prize, except where legally prohibited, grants permission for Sponsor and its designees to use his/her/their name, address (city and state), photograph, voice and/or other likeness and prize information for advertising, trade and promotional purposes, in any manner, in all media now known or hereafter devised, worldwide in perpetuity, without additional compensation or notification to, or permission from, such winner.

__GENERAL CONDITIONS:__ Entrants, by participating, agree that Sponsor, its parents, affiliates, subsidiaries, and advertising and promotion agencies, and all of their respective officers, directors, employees, representatives and agents (collectively, “Released Parties”) will have no liability whatsoever for, and shall be held harmless by entrants against, any liability, for any injuries, losses or damages (including punitive, incidental and consequential damages) of any kind, including death, to persons, or property resulting in whole or in part, directly or indirectly, from acceptance, possession, misuse or use of a prize or participation in this Promotion. SOME JURISDICTIONS DO NOT ALLOW THE LIMITATIONS OR EXCLUSION OF LIABILITY FOR 
INCIDENTAL OR CONSEQUENTIAL DAMAGES, SO THE ABOVE MAY NOT APPLY TO YOU. Released Parties are not responsible for lost, late, incomplete, inaccurate, stolen, delayed, misdirected, undelivered or garbled entries or email; or for lost, interrupted or unavailable network, server, Internet Service Provider (ISP), website, or other connections, availability or accessibility or miscommunications or failed computer, satellite, telephone or cable transmissions, lines, or technical failure or jumbled, scrambled, delayed, or misdirected transmissions or computer hardware or software malfunctions, failures or difficulties, or other errors or difficulties of any kind whether human, mechanical, electronic, computer, telephonic, network, typographical, printing or otherwise relating to or in connection with the sweepstakes, including, without limitation, errors or difficulties which may occur in connection with the administration of the Promotion, the functionality of the voice recording, the processing of entries, the announcement of the prizes or in any Promotion-related materials. Released Parties are also not responsible for any incorrect or inaccurate information, whether caused by site users, tampering, hacking, or by any equipment or programming associated with or utilized in the Promotion. Released Parties are not responsible for injury or damage to participants’ or to any other person’s computer related to or resulting from participating in this Promotion. Persons who tamper with or abuse any aspect of the Promotion, or who are in violation of these Official Rules, as determined by Sponsor in its sole discretion, will be disqualified and all associated entries will be void. Should any portion of the Promotion be, in Sponsor’s sole discretion, compromised by virus, worms, bugs, non-authorized human intervention or other causes which, in the sole opinion of the Sponsor, corrupt or impair the administration, security, fairness or proper play, or submission of entries, Sponsor reserves the right at its sole discretion to suspend, modify or terminate the Promotion and, if terminated, at its discretion, select the potential winners from all eligible, non-suspect entries received prior to action taken or as otherwise deemed fair and appropriate by Sponsor. In the event of a dispute as to the identity of a potential winner, the authorized Zola account holder, or email address used to enter will be deemed to be the entrant. A potential winner may be required to show proof of being the authorized account holder. Entries specifying an invalid, non-working, or inactive email address, username or handle will be disqualified and ineligible to win.

__CHOICE OF LAW AND FORUM:__ Entrant agrees that all matters arising out of or relating to this sweepstakes and these Official Rules are governed by, and construed in accordance with, the laws of the state of New York, without giving effect to any of its conflict of laws provisions thereof. Entrant further agrees that any legal suit, action, or proceeding arising out of or relating to this sweepstakes and these Official Rules shall be brought exclusively in the applicable federal or state courts located in New York, NY.

__USE OF DATA:__ Sponsor will be collecting personal data about entrants in accordance with its privacy policy. Please review the Sponsor’s privacy policy at https://www.zola.com/privacy. Personal data may be shared in connection with price administration and/or redemption.

__WINNERS LIST:__ To receive the names of the winners, please send a self-addressed stamped envelope to __“After the Tone Giveaway”__ - Winner List, c/o Zola, Inc., 7WTC, 250 Greenwich St., 39th Floor, New York, NY, Attn: Legal Department. Queries must be postmarked no later than 60 days after the end of the Entry Period.

__SPONSOR:__ Zola, Inc., 7WTC, 250 Greenwich St., 39th Floor, New York, NY 10007.


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Shopping for a wedding dress is no easy feat, especially when there’s so much pressure to look your very best on your wedding day. It can mean attending numerous bridal appointments and trying on dozens of gowns to find The One. From sweetheart to deep V-neck and ball gown to sheath, there are plenty of necklines, silhouettes, and styles to compare, making it easy to get lost in a sea of white.

You may be surprised to find that there’s quite a variety of [wedding dress train](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-types-of-wedding-dress-trains) types to choose from as well. Each style has a name, specific length, and defining attributes that make it unique. From the shortest to the longest, you should explore all the different types before deciding which one is right for you. While it may sound like just one more thing to worry about, the wedding train will affect you more than you think, from your ability to move in the dress to the cost of its alterations. 

Today, we’ll compare the shortest of the two [wedding dress train styles:](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/train-or-no-train-what-are-the-pros-and-cons-of-wedding-dress-trains) the sweep train and the court train. If you are wary of a long train, but do want some drama at the back of your dress, one of these two styles is probably just right for you. 

![Sweep Train vs. Court Train](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2LMoFSwEWZ1U3d4S2MS3fi/bafe16037bc879ad94ddf4d287e2f452/inline_Mason_Photography.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Mason Photography

## The Sweep Train Wedding Dress

### What Is a Sweep Train? 
A sweep train, also known as a “brush” train because it just brushes the ground, is the shortest of all wedding dress trains. It falls gracefully from the back of the skirt of the [bridal gown](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/bridal-dresses-gowns) and extends only six inches to one foot behind the bride. As its name suggests, it creates a romantic sweeping look that follows the bride wherever she goes.

### Best For:
A sweep train is the most manageable of all wedding dress trains, because it’s the shortest in length. This makes it best for the low-maintenance bride who wants to let her dress trail behind her. She won’t need to worry about bustling it or carrying it, because it won’t get in the way. It’s an ideal choice for an outdoor wedding, because it won’t collect too much dirt or sand while she walks. Picture a beachfront ceremony or a backyard wedding where the breezy, romantic look will fit in just right. However, it can shine at a simple indoor spot like a courthouse or an intimate restaurant, too. 

Sweep trains look great on [mermaid wedding dresses ](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what's-your-wedding-dress-style)or trumpet silhouettes that flare out just at the bottom, but can also pair well with straight styles that just need a little dash of drama. 

### Picture It: 
Crystal T-Back Gown, Photo via David’s Bridal
The sweep train on this beautiful halter gown flares out from behind the knees. This allows the dress’s stretch crepe fabric to skim the bride’s curves and extend into a soft, yet dramatic train.  

Tadashi Placid Gown, Photo via BHLDN
This fashion-forward lace gown is given the bridal touch with a subtle sweep train that trails the bride just a bit and balances the volume of the dress’s flutter sleeve.  

Hestia Dress, Photo via Reformation
The sweep train on this lace gown counters the long sleeves and deep V on top, creating symmetry and just the right amount of volume. Lace dresses work best with sweep trains, because the short length protects the delicate fabric from snagging. 

Flower Dress from The White One, Photo via The Knot
The back of this dress is all about the sheer floral lace at the top, but the buttons lining the center seam that lead to the perfectly long sweep train complement it beautifully. This fabric is also perfectly suited for a train of this length and won’t wrinkle as the bride walks.

Arlow Gown, Photo via Grace Loves Lace
This slinky silk bridal gown is made for the minimalist bride. Its barely-there sweep train is just enough to make it wedding day-worthy. The style and the length of its train make it comfortable and lightweight, yet glamorous and elegant.  

## The Court Train Wedding Dress 

### What Is a Court Train?
A court train falls between one and two and a half feet behind the bride and extends from the waist of the dress’s skirt, creating volume and drama. This style is similar to the popular chapel style train, but shorter in length, removing the need for a bustle. The court train is also extremely versatile; it works well with a variety of silhouettes and fabrics.

### Best For:
A court train is a classic choice that will feel timeless and bridal on any gown. It will give the bride a princess feel without all the bulky fabric, plus all the freedom of movement she needs. This makes the court train an ideal choice for whimsical outdoor wedding venues, such as the woods or lakefront, where volume without hassle is important. It’s also great for the bride who wants the look and feel of a ball gown, but doesn’t want to deal with a heavy-duty wedding dress train or a difficult bustle. It goes great with A-line, sheath, and fit-and-flare silhouettes—or any gown that has a waistline.

### Picture It: 

Willow by Waters Geranium Gown, Photo via BHLDN

This court train begins where the velvet ribbon ends for a feminine and ethereal look. The lace applique completes this style and makes it the perfect choice for a garden soiree or a classic ballroom wedding. 

V-neckline A-line Wedding Dress with Lace & Glitter, Photo via Kleinfeld

Romantic and bohemian touches come together to create this tulle and lace wedding gown that features a tiered court train. The mixed materials and sparkly sheen create the drama, so the train doesn’t have to. 

Viktor & Rolf Bow-Back Crystal Gown, Photo via The Knot 

The court train on this silk gown is embellished with crystals. That train combined with the low back that’s tied together with a big bow makes this dress extremely striking from behind. See, there’s no need to go bigger. 

Aurora Rose Gold Wedding Gown, Photo via Claire Pettibone

The perfect train does exist. This French embroidered tulle skirt fans out into a rose-colored court train that’s sprinkled with gold sparkles. Underneath, a sweep-length train ensures you can see every beautiful detail without getting in the way. 

Leigh Ball Gown, Photo via Jenny Yoo

Yes, you can have a ball gown and a court train. This strapless ball gown is embroidered with lace florals and skirted with just the right length train for an elegant, yet modern, overall look. Light organza fabric makes it easy to dance the night away and show off the beautiful skirt. 

## Sweep Train vs. Court Train
The main differences between a sweep train wedding dress and a court train wedding dress are the length of each style train and where it extends from on the dress. Once you understand the differences you will not only be able to spot one or the other out from a crowd, but also be able to select the style that’s right for you. 

### Length
The court train can be a foot to a foot and a half longer than the sweep train, which visually makes a big difference. The benefit of being longer is that the court train is a bit grander. If your wedding is more formal, a court train will better match the style and venue. However, the benefit of being shorter is that the sweep train is easier to travel in and with. If you’re having a destination wedding on a beach or eloping, a sweep train will be just right. 

### Volume
The court train extends from the waist, which adds more volume to the back of the dress while the sweep train falls from lower on the back of the dress or even straight from the hem. The additional volume of a court train is great if you want a fuller skirt or a whimsical feel. However, if you want a more fitted silhouette or a sleeker feel, a sweep train is the better bet. Each style train can feel dramatic in its own right, but only one will be the kind of drama you’re looking for. 

![Sweep Train vs. Court Train](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2EPYBbzrg5xxncIWJPHaLQ/cd37ee62f945f159f6c4ef2a727f8be5/inline_Onthetimes_Photography.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Onthetimes Photography

## Which One Is Right for You? 
A sweep train and a court train are both beautiful options that will add elegance to the end of your dress without the unnecessary hassle of a long train. However, if you want to go bigger and bolder, you can consider longer-length trains, such as the popular chapel train, which extends four feet behind the bride or the cathedral train length, which extends six to seven feet behind the bride. These trains, given that they are much longer, will require a bustle for the reception. Or, you may choose to forgo the train altogether and opt for a simple floor-length gown. 

Whether you decide now or later, knowing the difference between a sweep train wedding dress and a court train wedding dress will help you on your hunt for the right dress. With the unique styles in your memory, you can go forth and conquer your bridal appointments with confidence.  

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How Do You Attach a Train to a Wedding Dress?

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How to Share Your Wedding Website

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Read Zola Sweepstakes official rules and terms and conditions.

Come behind the scenes of the Zola Community! Learn about product launches, Z-team updates, Zola Sweepstake official rules, and advice and guidelines on Covid-19 weddings.

As of 10/1, the Zola App Community will no longer be available. But, not to worry - we have an amazing community of couples that are looking to share, connect, and vent on Facebook! Join them [HERE](https://www.facebook.com/groups/zolacommunity/).

### Why are you moving the Community to Facebook?

We created the [Zola Community](https://www.facebook.com/groups/zolacommunity/) on Facebook in 2017, with the goal of building community and fostering connection amongst the thousands of engaged couples that are going through the wedding planning process. Since then, this community has grown to over 10,000 people - all having the same experiences, looking for inspiration, and ready to ask their questions!

### Will there be a new Community?

We love hearing from you and finding new ways to connect with our couples. If you have any ideas for where you’d like to see us pop up, please let us know! For now, you can find us in our [Facebook Community](https://www.facebook.com/groups/zolacommunity/), which has thousands of other engaged couples, ready to ask, answer, share, and vent. 

### What if I need help with my wedding planning?

Talk to Team-Z, we’re always here for you! Email us anytime at __advisor@zola.com__, DM us on [IG](https://www.instagram.com/zola) or [TikTok](https://www.tiktok.com/@zola), or visit us at https://www.zola.com/advisor.

### And if I need more wedding inspo?

Follow us on [Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/zola) or [TikTok](https://www.tiktok.com/@zola). You’ll find all the latest wedding trends, Team-Z’s hottest hot takes, and have a chance to share what’s on your mind! Also, look out for [“Pop the Questions”](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/ask-us-anything) where our Team-Z advisors and guest experts answer all your burning wedding planning questions. 


What’s happening with the Zola Community?

Get to know Zola! See what's up in the Zola Community, learn about product launches, Team-Z updates and more.

If your wedding was postponed or affected by Covid-19, look here for resources and guides to change of dates, wedding safety guidelines, virtual weddings and more.

*__Planning A Wedding During A Pandemic:__ Every wedding planning journey has its twists and turns. To make sure your path is as smooth as possible and to help you keep an eye out for tiny potholes and giant roadblocks, always follow the advice of your local health guidelines and the recommendations set forth by the [CDC](https://www.cdc.gov/). The state of the pandemic can change quickly, but by staying informed, you can make it to your destination—wedded bliss—without a hitch.*

In 2020, COVID-19 forced a huge percentage of engaged couples to [postpone their weddings](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-postpone-your-wedding) and adjust their [wedding planning timeline](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist)—with many pushing their [save the dates](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/save-the-date/shop) into 2021, in the hopes that the Covid-19 pandemic would be under better control, and that it would be safer for them to bring their loved ones together to celebrate their “[I dos.](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-vows)” 

With the loosening of Covid-19 restrictions for a private event and the Covid-19 vaccine rollout in full swing, it looks like weddings will be safer in the coming months. But, if you’re on the [guestlist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-make-a-wedding-guest-list) for a wedding (or multiple weddings!) in the near future, or you’re in the middle of your own [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning), you probably have some questions on how things are going to play out—both with the vaccine and at the actual event. 

Do you need to get vaccinated before you attend any weddings? What safety precautions will you need to take [wedding venues](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-venues)? And how do you interact with other guests who may or may not be vaccinated—but aren’t taking the same safety precautions that you are? 

Let’s take a look at everything you need to know about guests, weddings, and vaccinations in 2021:

## The Couple May Want You to Get Tested and/or Vaccinated Before the Big Day <a id="survey"> </a>

The COVID-19 vaccine is optional; no one can force you to get vaccinated. But, if you’re attending weddings this year, chances are, the couples are at least going to ask. 

According to a recent survey from Zola and Modern Fertility, more than half of the survey respondents (52.8 percent) said they wanted the majority of their [wedding guests](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/dos-and-donts-for-wedding-guests) to get the Covid-19 vaccine before their big day. 

After sending out [wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors) and choosing [wedding vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors), the couple may also want you to get a pre-wedding COVID test before you attend (according to the survey, 23.10 percent of people said they wanted their entire guest list to have a negative COVID-19 test before attending their wedding reception).

Although couples may look for cost-efficient options that they can change in their [wedding checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist) such as using free [wedding websites](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website), clearly, keeping COVID-19 out of their big day—and keeping themselves and their guests safe—is top of mind for many couples. So, if you have any weddings on the calendar in the coming months, you should be prepared for a test and/or vaccination request from the couple, and be sure to check their [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website) for more updates.

## Even If You’re Vaccinated, You Still Need to Take Safety Precautions<a id="caution"> </a>

Getting the COVID-19 vaccine offers a layer of protection that can make you (and the soon-to-be-married couple) feel safer about your attendance at the wedding. 

But, the vaccine isn’t a free pass to throw caution to the wind, ditch your mask, and run up to every person at [cocktail hour](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-10-tips-for-successful-cocktail-hour) (forget social distancing!) for a high-five or handshake. Even if you are vaccinated before the wedding, you still need to play it safe.

There are a few different reasons why COVID-related safety precautions are a must—even if you’re fully vaccinated before the wedding. According to the [CDC’s recommendations](https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/vaccines/fully-vaccinated.html#:~:text=After%20you've%20been%20fully,places%20until%20we%20know%20more.), fully vaccinated people can be inside without a mask with other vaccinated people and with unvaccinated people who aren’t at high risk for serious COVID-related complications—but the CDC strongly recommends wearing masks and social distancing in public places and around unvaccinated people who are at an increased risk for serious illness if they catch COVID-19.

When you’re at a wedding, you have no way of knowing who is fully vaccinated, who is not fully vaccinated, and who might be at risk for developing serious complications if they catch COVID-19. And, because you have no way of distinguishing between vaccinated and unvaccinated, or at risk and not at risk guests, you have to take safety precautions with all guests. This means that you should wear a mask, keep six feet of distance, and wash your hands regularly.

## Have a Plan in Place Before the Wedding for Dealing With Guests Respecting Other’s Space<a id="plan"> </a>

You can make masks and social distancing a priority when you’re at a wedding, but other guests might not take safety as seriously as you do, which can lead to potential uncomfortable (and unsafe!) interactions, such as guests going in for a hug or handshake, sliding their chair right next to yours for the [wedding ceremony](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-ceremony-programs), or getting a little too close for comfort during a conversation at the [wedding reception](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-reception-timeline).

If you’re the kind of person who has no problem telling someone that their behavior makes you uncomfortable, you’ll have no problem shutting down these interactions in real-time. But, if you’re someone who struggles with setting boundaries or being perceived as rude, coming up with the right thing to say when someone tries to hug you or initiate a conversation without a mask will probably feel challenging at the moment. This is why you need to have a plan for how to deal with those interactions ahead of time.

Before the wedding, brainstorm all the ways other wedding guests might cross your COVID-related boundaries—and develop a plan for how to deal with them. For example, if someone tries to give you a greeting hug, you might take a step back and say, “It’s so great to see you, but I’m still practicing social distancing. Sending you a big air hug!” Or, if someone tries to talk to you without a mask, you can say, “Would you mind putting a mask on? I’m still concerned about COVID-19.” However, if that feels uncomfortable, politely excuse yourself and head to another area of the wedding venue. 

The point is that you can’t control other wedding attendees’ behavior—but you can have a plan in place to make yourself feel more comfortable and safe in how you deal with that behavior. 

## Enjoy the Wedding, Safely

Vaccine distribution is ramping up every day, and it’s only going to get safer to gather in large groups—including at weddings. So, if you’re gearing up to attend a wedding in the coming months, have a good time, and enjoy yourself; just make sure to do it safely.


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