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As of 10/1, the Zola App Community will no longer be available. But, not to worry - we have an amazing community of couples that are looking to share, connect, and vent on Facebook! Join them [HERE](https://www.facebook.com/groups/zolacommunity/).

### Why are you moving the Community to Facebook?

We created the [Zola Community](https://www.facebook.com/groups/zolacommunity/) on Facebook in 2017, with the goal of building community and fostering connection amongst the thousands of engaged couples that are going through the wedding planning process. Since then, this community has grown to over 10,000 people - all having the same experiences, looking for inspiration, and ready to ask their questions!

### Will there be a new Community?

We love hearing from you and finding new ways to connect with our couples. If you have any ideas for where you’d like to see us pop up, please let us know! For now, you can find us in our [Facebook Community](https://www.facebook.com/groups/zolacommunity/), which has thousands of other engaged couples, ready to ask, answer, share, and vent. 

### What if I need help with my wedding planning?

Talk to Team-Z, we’re always here for you! Email us anytime at __advisor@zola.com__, DM us on [IG](https://www.instagram.com/zola) or [TikTok](https://www.tiktok.com/@zola), or visit us at https://www.zola.com/advisor.

### And if I need more wedding inspo?

Follow us on [Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/zola) or [TikTok](https://www.tiktok.com/@zola). You’ll find all the latest wedding trends, Team-Z’s hottest hot takes, and have a chance to share what’s on your mind! Also, look out for [“Pop the Questions”](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/ask-us-anything) where our Team-Z advisors and guest experts answer all your burning wedding planning questions. 


Pop the Question: "What Should I Do if I’m Burned Out From Wedding Planning?"

Pop the Question: How Do I Get My Wedding Party to Help Out More?

Pop the Question: "How Do I Get My Wedding Party to Help Out More?"

Pop the Question ft. Celeb Nail Artist Zola Ganzorigt

Pop the Questions ft. Celeb Nail Artist Zola Ganzorigt: “Should My Wedding Nails be Classic or Trendy?"

Pop the Question: "How Do I Make Sure My Wedding Is Gender-Inclusive?"

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We wanted to let you know that the Zola app for Android will be shutting down on January 1, 2023. But don’t worry, your account will still be active, ready for you to access on Zola.com. There you’ll find all the features you love from the Android app, like our planning tools and the Zola Community.

### What do I need to do?
Nothing! Your website, registry, invites, and everything else won’t be affected. Just go to Zola.com to keep planning. 

### Does this affect the iOS app?
No, if you’re an iPhone user, you can continue to use the iOS app as usual.

### What about my guests?
Nothing changes here, they can still see your website, RSVP to your wedding, and shop your registry.

### Can I continue to use the Android app until January 1, 2023?
Yes! The app will continue to work as usual until then but will be removed from any app stores so new users won’t be able to download it. 

### What should I do after January 1?
Just delete the Zola app and continue planning on Zola.com.

__Have more questions? Email support@zola.com.__


An update on the Zola Android app

__Rent The Runway__  - our favorite partner to keep your fits fresh for every wedding celebration along the way.

The deal: 25% off 5 Reserve rentals

The details: Code starts 11/1/23 and expires 2/29/24. Minimum order value of $30. 

__Ellevest__ - Weddings can be…expensive. And, quite possibly the first major expense you have to budget for and manage with your partner. Our friends at Ellevest can help you make a plan to start off on a strong note. 

The deal: Two months free as an Ellevest client, including a complimentary 20-minute financial consultation with one of their experts.

The details: One time use only. One use per customer. 

__Dame__ - According to our 2023 First Look Report, 71.56% of engaged respondents felt that having strong sexual compatibility with their partner was very important. What better way to keep the spark alive than with a discount from our favorite sexual wellness brand?

The deal: 15% off your order

The details: For the Online Store. 15% off your entire order. Applies to one-time purchases. No minimum purchase required. One use per customer. Can’t be combined with other discounts.

__Peoplehood__ - Planning a wedding can be really fun, but also super stressful for you and your partner. We’re huge fans of the Gathers at Peoplehood, which are basically workouts for your relationship. Time to flex!

The deal: One free Couplehood Gather (either virtual or in-person) 

The details: Promo code may only be used once per couple. 2 Gather Credit packages expire in 45 days after they are redeemed. Virtual credits can only be used for Virtual Gathers, In-Person credits can only be used for In-Person Gathers.

We know what you’re thinking…where can I sign up? 

Unlock Zola Treat Codes

Dear Zola couples,

We take the security of your information very seriously. You and your guests can feel comfortable shopping on Zola and using all of the services as you normally would. We know that planning a wedding is stressful enough and we are deeply sorry if recent events have added to that. 

We have strong and extensive measures in place, including two-factor authentication (2FA), an account/password lock if too many attempts are made to access an account, and a system to monitor suspicious IP address activity, and we have recently made additional enhancements to these features. We also work with an external security company in addition to our internal Trust & Safety team to help ensure we are doing all we can to protect our community.

The recent attempt to breach Zola’s security and gain access to funds was blocked, and we’ve now resolved the issues that impacted less than 0.1% of our registered couples.  No cash was lost by our couples, credit card and bank information was never exposed and continues to be protected. As a matter of practice, cash funds have always been held in a protected, separate account. Out of an abundance of caution, we reset all user passwords. 

*Team Zola*

## FAQ:

### Should I reset my password?

Out of an abundance of caution, we took action to reset all account passwords, regardless of whether suspicious activity was detected. If you have not already reset your password from our email, we urge you to reset your password as soon as possible and choose a password that is strong (containing letters, numbers, and symbols) and unique to Zola. You can reset your password by visiting [https://www.zola.com/account/forgot-password](https://www.zola.com/account/forgot-password).

### Is my account safe to use?

Yes, you and your guests can safely resume all normal activity on Zola once you reset your password. You and your guests can feel comfortable shopping on Zola moving forward.

### What about for guests?

We take the privacy and security of everyone on our site very seriously. Please rest assured Zola does not store guests' credit card information. All bank and credit card information was never exposed and continues to be protected. You and your guests can feel comfortable shopping on Zola moving forward. It is absolutely safe for guests to purchase registry gifts, respond to RSVPs, and interact with your wedding website and Zola as they normally would. 

### What if I am experiencing an account issue?

If your account has been impacted, our team will be in touch with you directly, and there is no need to email Zola. 99.9% of Zola accounts were not impacted. We have addressed this concern with our Trust & Safety team, and have launched an investigation into all impacted accounts. Rest assured that all outstanding issues will be resolved. All fraudulent cash transfers were blocked and 100% of fraudulent orders will be refunded by the end of today. All actions that were not taken by our account users will be corrected. 

 Zola is Safe and Security Is Our Priority

No two weddings look the same and no two couples are the same. That’s what makes the work we all do so special. We celebrate and appreciate all those differences while always remembering the one thing that is the same — how each couple wants to be treated. Equally, with respect and compassion, regardless of their sexual orientation, gender identity, race, ethnicity, religion, or anything else that makes them who they are.  

Celebrating love every day is a joy and a privilege. And it’s never been more important. With anti-LGBTQ+ legislation gaining momentum across the country, and the U.S. Supreme Court ruling in *303 Creative LLC v. Elenis*, we all need to show up as an authentic ally and advocate every day for equality and inclusivity in the wedding industry.

This guide is designed to provide insights and practical tips to help make that happen, created in partnership with the experts at Open to All, a nonprofit nondiscrimination program that believes everyone should be welcome and works with nonprofit and corporate partners like Zola to advance diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) initiatives.

## Why this matters

The wedding industry is rooted in tradition. But that doesn’t mean it should be stuck in the past. We see today’s couples breaking gendered and heteronormative stereotypes, picking and choosing the traditions that they find meaningful to create a wedding that reflects themselves and their values. We need to evolve with them. Together we can truly celebrate the uniqueness of every couple’s love story and wedding vision by creating an environment where everyone feels listened to, respected, accepted, supported, and valued.

Here are some of the questions we get asked most often by wedding vendors.

### I want to make sure all couples feel comfortable working with me and my business. What are the best ways to achieve this?

Listing on Zola is a great place to start. Because every Zola vendor commits to our Vendor Vows, couples already know and trust your business to be inclusive and that you’re proud to work with couples of all backgrounds. Here’s what else to think about:

1. __What’s the first impression you’re making?__ Long before you speak to a couple, they might have found your listing, website, or portfolio. Will they see themselves in the images and examples of your work? Will they read testimonials from couples they feel an affinity with?
2. __Then, think about the language you’re using.__ Are you speaking inclusively? Do you speak about “brides and grooms” or “partners”? Are you making assumptions about who your potential couples are and their roles? 
3. __Consider sharing your [pronouns](https://www.thehrcfoundation.org/professional-resources/all-children-all-families-pronouns-101) (such as he/him, she/her, they/them, etc.).__ By proactively sharing them (in person, on your email signature, on social media), you create a welcoming space that acknowledges and respects the diversity of gender identities. 
4. __Establish partnerships with our inclusive vendors.__ Actively seek out other inclusive wedding professionals, including LGBTQ+-owned businesses, vendors from different cultural backgrounds, and those who specialize in unique ceremonies or traditions. By working together, you can create an inclusive network that supports and lifts up all couples, ensuring a joyful wedding experience.

### How can I make sure I’m presenting myself as an authentic ally?

Listen to your couples. Ask them questions rather than making assumptions. And don’t be afraid to share your own experiences, whether personal or from LGBTQ+ weddings you’ve been proud to be a part of. And remember to visibly support LGBTQ+ couples all year round, not just during Pride month. 

Open to All also has [tools and training](https://www.opentoall.com/inclusive-retail-toolkit/#trainings) available for your business.

### What are some useful resources for staying on top of LGTBQ+ issues?

Some of our favorite wedding-related blogs with an LGTBQ+ focus are [Equally Wed](https://equallywed.com/), [Love Inc](https://loveincmag.com/), and [Dancing With Her](https://dancingwithher.com/). For a broader look at LGTBQ+ issues and culture, try [Autostraddle](https://www.autostraddle.com/), [Out](https://www.out.com/), or [The Advocate](https://www.advocate.com/). For political developments and advocacy, keep an eye on [GLAAD](https://glaad.org/), [ACLU](https://www.aclu.org/), and the [Human Rights Campaign](https://www.hrc.org/).

Explore [CenterLink](https://www.lgbtqcenters.org/) to find an LGTBQ+ community center in your local area.

And if you’re keen to be more actively involved in changing the wedding industry for the better, [Altered](https://altaredpdx.com/) has some great resources, as does the [Equality Institute](https://www.gayweddinginstitute.com/). 

Remember to keep an eye on our [Expert Advice](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice) section on Zola.com for tips and trends, including recent articles on how LGTBQ+ couples are [reinventing wedding traditions](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/lgbt-wedding-traditions-and-how-to-reinvent-old-ones) and a guide to [gender-neutral wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/androgynous-wedding-attire).

### What are words and cliches I should avoid?
Weddings are always better when everyone feels welcome.  Many words associated with weddings are rooted in gender and heteronormative assumptions and stereotypes. From the obvious (“Bridezillas”) to the subtle (“fiancé”), there are words the industry should try to avoid to help create that safe and inclusive space. 

Whenever you’re working with a client, remember that you’re addressing couples, not individuals (they’re both on the wedding planning journey, after all!). If you start by meeting with one partner, avoid making assumptions at the other half of the couple or referring to them with a specific gender identity. Here are some alternatives to consider:

__Instead of:__
- Bachelor/bachelorette party
- Bridal party
- Bridal shower
- Fiancé/Fiancée
- Holy matrimony
- Tying the knot, getting hitched, making an honest man/woman
- Man and wife, bride and groom

__Try:__
- Bach party
- Wedding party
- Wedding shower
- Partner/spouse-to-be/S.O.
- Wedding ceremony
- Getting married
- The happy couple, newlyweds

For more on [gender-neutral language](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/gender-neutral-terms-to-use-wedding-planning), take a look at this Zola article.

### How should I handle potential negative attention to my business?

It’s important to remember that you’re in the powerful majority; the vast majority of business owners in our industry do strive to treat all couples with dignity and respect, and understand that excluding couples because of who they are is harmful. And nationally, the majority of Americans [support marriage equality](https://news.gallup.com/poll/506636/sex-marriage-support-holds-high.aspx) for all couples and oppose discrimination. In working together, we can ensure that everyone feels included in weddings. However, we also understand that while being an ally opens your business up to everyone, it’s possible some people won’t support your actions. Here are some tips:

1. __Stay true to your values:__ Grounding yourself in your beliefs will provide a strong foundation for your response. Remember that the negative attention may be coming from a vocal minority, and it's crucial not to let their negativity undermine your dedication to supporting all couples.
2. __Choose your battles:__ Not all negative attention deserves a response. If the comments or actions are overtly hateful or harmful, it may be best to disengage and focus on providing support to those who appreciate what you’re doing.
3. __Respond with empathy and respect:__ If you decide to respond, avoid getting defensive or engaging in heated arguments. Instead, acknowledge the person's concerns or comments and explain your commitment to inclusivity and emphasize that your intentions are rooted in love, acceptance, and equal treatment.
4. __Highlight positive experiences:__ Share stories and testimonials from same-sex couples who loved working with you. By showcasing these positive experiences, you can counteract negative attention and demonstrate the impact of your inclusive practices.
5. __Seek support:__ Reach out to your supportive community, including other vendors, clients, and organizations that champion inclusivity. Share your experiences and seek advice or encouragement. Allies can provide reassurance and help amplify your message, strengthening your position against negative attention.

## How does Zola support inclusivity?

Celebrating diversity has always been part of our DNA. Zola was founded to shake up the wedding industry, to better represent all beautiful couples, and to allow couples to get married the way they want. 

This year marks our ten year anniversary as a company. We understand that these same ten years have been a rollercoaster for the LGBTQ+ community. We cheered eight years ago when *Obergefell v. Hodges* meant states were required to license and recognize marriage for same-sex couples, and watched in horror as legal challenges were mounted. We will continue to speak loudly and proudly regarding our commitment to celebrate all couples and the love they share, every day. 

It’s a joy and privilege to build inclusive products, and to uphold the very same Vows that we ask our Zola Vendors say “I do” to in joining our platform. We could not be more proud to celebrate and support all of our couples along their wedding journey, and have curated a community of tens of thousands of vendors who feel the same. 

__Together, we wholeheartedly reaffirm that we will always:__
- Lead with zero tolerance for discrimination 
- Support every couple’s right to an equal and joyful wedding planning journey, and delight in the opportunity to be part of it
- Treat every couple, vendor, and community member with the love and respect they deserve regardless of their sexual orientation, gender identity, how they choose to present, or any other beautiful difference 
- Celebrate all couples and the love they share, every day

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A woman wearing androgynous wedding attire during the sunset. 

Androgynous Wedding Attire: A Timeless Gender-Neutral Style Guide

Gender-Neutral Wedding Terms—And Where to Use Them

LGBTQ+ Wedding Invitations 101

Rotating gif of couples' wedding photos that reads "renewing our vows"

LGBTQ+ Wedding Traditions & How to Reinvent Old Ones

LGBTQ+ Wedding Traditions—How to Reinvent Old Ones

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