Discover wedding fashion advice and inspiration for how to dress up yourself and your crew to look your best on the big day.   

Some brides see their wedding as an opportunity to try something new with their hair, changing the length, volume, and texture with extensions, wigs, clip-ins, and other [hair accessories](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop). If that’s not your style (or you just love your hair as is), good news: you don’t have to add a single thing to it in order to nail the wedding look of your dreams. You can wear your natural hair for your wedding and look and feel stunning.

### What is natural hair?
To put it simply, by definition, natural hair is hair that hasn’t been altered by chemical straighteners, including relaxers and texturizers. So, it’s just the hair on your head, in its natural texture. Whether your hair is curly, straight, thick, fine, or any type of texture in between, you can embrace your natural hair and work with what you got to create a stunning bridal look.

We talked to expert hairstylists to get their best advice on how to wear your natural hair for your wedding. Plus, we give our favorite tips and natural hair inspiration for each hair type.

### Why wear your natural hair for your wedding?
There are a few reasons you might want to go with an au naturel hairstyle for your big day.

- __Budget.__ Simply put: Wigs, extensions, clip-ins, and other hair add-ons can be expensive—and those added costs can eat into your [wedding budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-set-your-wedding-budget). Plus, most of those extras are designed to make your hair thicker and longer—and the more hair your wedding stylist has to deal with, the more expensive it’s going to be to get it styled.
- __Comfort.__ A lot of hair add-ons are just uncomfortable, especially if you’re not used to wearing much in your hair. Wigs can feel hot, extensions can be heavy, clip-ins can slide out of place. The last thing you want to deal with on your wedding day is any unnecessary discomfort.
- __Personal Style.__ For some brides, bridesmaids, and guests, wearing their natural hair is the way they feel most themselves. If you don’t usually play with your hair too much, you may feel more comfortable doing natural hairstyles.

## How To Wear Your Natural Hair For Your Wedding
Decided you want to sport a more natural hairdo on your big day? Let’s take a deep dive into how you can rock a natural hair look on your wedding day—no matter what your hair type:

### 1. Fine/Straight Hair
![INLINE Fine Straight VILDPhotography 1080x720 Abigail&Dan](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3FCwib0jsYGWu9NwNp00S6/7b5c908c8b93a21b351796f123ef9578/INLINE_Fine_Straight_VILDPhotography_1080x720_Abigail_Dan.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // VILD Photography

If your hair is fine and straight, your biggest challenge with styling is going to be volume (especially if you have long hair). Luckily, that’s a pretty straightforward challenge to solve—and it starts with using the right hair care and products.

#### It’s all in the product.
“First of all with your shampoos and conditioners … we want to make sure that we were using something that's light and volumizing—not anything that's moisturizing because that tends to be heavier,” says Dustie Richardson, a stylist at [Paul Labrecque Salon and Spa at The Royal Poinciana Plaza](https://www.paullabrecque.com/)in Palm Beach, Florida. “That's going to give you more body, that's going to give you more volume from the root.”

In addition to using the right shampoo and conditioner, plan to add an extra product before styling to give your hair some extra “oomph” on the big day. “You’re [also] going to want to use a volumizer, a volumizing spray, or a thickening lotion of some sort,” Richardson says.

Using the right products is key for prepping your hair ahead of styling. Here are some hair styling tips to get the most out of your fine or straight hair:

- __Go sleek.__ Having fine or straight hair is a serious plus with certain hairstyles—especially sleeker looks. According to Richardson, sweeping straight hair into a sleek bun is a great way to work with your natural texture—and get an impossibly chic look in the process. For added visual interest, try adding embellished bobby pins to the front of the hairstyle, which work better for a finer hair texture than heavier accessories like clips. “The bobby pins are smaller and they're tighter which means they can stay on the hair a little bit better,” says Richardson. “They stay in place better and they're lighter on the hair.”

### 2. Wavy Hair
![INLINE Wavy Britt&BeanPhotography 1080x720 Alicia&Donna](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2lxbMv9KspMxol3ahpj4U/c9684b620b9d72327b3f04fef89104a0/INLINE_Wavy_Britt_BeanPhotography_1080x720_Alicia_Donna.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Britt & Bean Photography

The right haircut is important for every hair type—but when it comes to bridal styling, it’s even more important for wavy hair. “Oftentimes there can be a lot of weight in the ends of [wavy] hair that's removed with a good haircut,” Richardson says. “Also, having those dead ends trimmed will allow a better shape to form in the waves.”

#### Get to know your waves.
Once you chop your split ends (and get rid of any dead weight), the next step is to really get to know your hair—and, in particular, get to know your wave. Typically, with wavy hair types, some areas are more wavy or curly than others. But there are strategies your stylist can use (from a product, haircut, and styling perspective) to even out your hair and give you more uniform waves for your wedding.

“You want to really look at the hair and understand what's going on because you can encourage more curl in the places that there's less curl,” says Richardson. Here's our favorite styling tip to rock your natural waves for your big day:

- __Go fully natural.__ If you want to go fully natural on your wedding day, let your waves air dry. “If you use the right product, you can honestly get a great look with air-dried waves,” says Richardson. Use an anti-frizz serum and a texturizing spray, then braid (for a more natural wave) or twist (for a more beachy look) wet hair and let air dry.

### 3. Natural Black Hair
![INLINE Black CMKPhotography 1080x720 Kristen&David](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/52LhlvM09qBaRZFan3EMe7/18d6595ba6a2d64c4e622c2690639902/INLINE_Black_CMKPhotography_1080x720_Kristen_David.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // CMK Photography

“African American hair is generally characterized by tight curls and kinks, and grows almost parallel to the scalp—but in general, natural black hair usually ranges from wavy to kinky-coily, with a wide range of variation between the two.” says Alicia Henry, celebrity hairstylist with years of experience working with black and African American hair. 

#### Different textures, different styles.
While weather can play a large role in determining the best style for natural black hair (*“[You] need to consider whether they are having an indoor or outdoor wedding because the weather and humidity can play a big factor on the style chosen,”* says Henry), the good news is, whether you have curls, coils, waves, or locs, there are a ton of different options for natural hair wedding looks, depending on hair texture. 

If you have a curly texture, adding height and volume for a more free-flowing, unstructured look is a great way to embrace your natural hair. “To achieve that look, you have to have a pretty tight natural curl,” says Richardson. “Then it's blown out—and what that does is it stretches that curl out” and adds the height and volume.

If wearing all your curls loose doesn’t feel like the right look for you, you can also part the hair and pull it back tightly—either with braids, twists, or just smoothing out the hair—and leave the rest of the hair out for more of a half-up. Soft curls are a great look for more relaxed hair. Just make sure to add some smoothing serum before styling to control frizz and add shine.

Here's an additional tip for styling natural black hair for your wedding day:

- __Give yourself time to prep.__ “For natural hair, you should start prepping your hair—not just the night before, but 3-4 days before,” says Henry. “Natural hair swells and expands each day after you wash it so depending on how full you want it to be it needs time to prep [to get your desired look].”

### 4. Asian Hair
![INLINE Asian SouthShoreStudios 1080x720 HyoJin&Joseph](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/17torW3GyHCd2TdN2cib2H/8becaab46aaa376ac99b79e7df18b1a2/INLINE_Asian_SouthShoreStudios_1080x720_HyoJin_Joseph.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // South Shore Studios

“Asian hair is normally very thick,” says celebrity stylist [Marshall Lin](https://www.instagram.com/marshalllinstyle/). While that strength makes for gorgeous hair texture, it doesn’t always make for long-held curls. “Because it's so heavy, oftentimes curls tend to fall from the weight of [the hair] alone,” Richardson says. 

Fortunately, that issue can easily be avoided by sweeping natural hair into an updo or other, more structured style. “Having it braided, in buns, [or in another updo]  is a good way to keep it beautiful for a long period of time.” 

Here's an additional styling tip for wearing natural Asian hair for your wedding:

- __Add natural highlights.__ “Because [Asian] hair has a lot of pigment, it will appear darker,” Lin says. And while that pigment can add a serious dose of shine, “the only challenge is that the color might be too dark for some styles because it will not be able to show texture,” Lin adds. Adding a few natural highlights will show movement and make it easier to see the texture in your bridal style.

### 5. Curly Hair
![INLINE Curly RubySkyPhotography 1080x720 Hannah&Joey](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1lMsma0XPAyQa9v3s44z8D/e656320d882120d0818689e1b45e41e6/INLINE_Curly_RubySkyPhotography_1080x720_Hannah_Joey.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Ruby Sky Photography

Not all curls are created equal—but for most curly-haired brides, moisture is the biggest challenge. “There are so many different types of curls. You have your soft curl, your loose curl, your tight curl, your kinky curls,” Richardson says. “But if there was one thing I could say about all curls? It’s moisture, moisture, moisture.”

#### Prep with moisture.
In the days leading up to your wedding, make sure you’re using plenty of hydrating products to add plenty of moisture to your curls. You may even consider heading to the salon for a moisturizing treatment.

Similar to wavy hair types, with curly hair, it’s all about the cut. “If you want to wear that hair naturally curly for your wedding, again, a good cut is always key for the shape,” Richardson says. The right haircut will give your hair the shape and texture it needs “so that your curls can form to their best potential,” she says.

Once your is hydrated and properly cut, here's one key tip for rocking your natural curls on your wedding day:

- __Dry with a diffuser.__ Using a diffuser will add more definition to your curls—as well as infuse some extra “oomph” for your wedding day. “Diffuse it for more body and volume,” Richardson says. Finish off with a blast of cool air, which “will alleviate that frizz and that will leave it shiny and feeling healthy without heat damage,” says Richardson.

### 6. Short Hair
![INLINE Short ImagesByAmberRobinson 1080x720 Alicia&Monique](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5AQo3mXvWTLotFrYV3pHy9/c93554dd3883b391cfcde5fa72025271/INLINE_Short_ImagesByAmberRobinson_1080x720_Alicia_Monique.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Amber Robinson

If you have short hair, you might think your options are limited—but according to Richardson, short hair (which she considers anything above the shoulders) can be the most fun to style.

Working with short hair is going to depend on your length. Styling a pixie cut is going to be a bit different from styling a bob or a shoulder-length do. Here's our favorite styling tip for rocking your short hair as you walk down the aisle:

- __Rock waves and a braid.__ If you have a bob or shoulder-length hair, rocking beachy waves and adding a small braid can be a cool way to play with texture. “A soft braid or even a fishtail braid can add a little fun in there,” says Richardson. Hide the end of your braid (or braids) beneath another section of hair with some bobby pins for a seamlessly styled look. Opting for a French braid can add to this effect.

These tips are a great jumping-off point. For some flair, you can always utilize a variety of accessories like a headband, headpiece, hairpins, or barrette. Regardless, remember, it doesn’t matter what type of tresses you have—you can rock your natural hair on your big day in any style that feels right to you. “I don't consider the type of hair when creating styles,” Lin says. “I would tell the bride to go for the style she wants. Texturizing updos, a silky, clean straight style, or a sexy wave—all of these are able to be applied to different hair types.”

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Fashion + Beauty

You visit the venue, taste the catering and cake, and even listen and review the DJ’s playlist. You test so much before your wedding day—why should your makeup be any different? Most brides are familiar with the idea of a makeup trial. Whether you’re [doing your own wedding makeup](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/diy-wedding-makeup-tips) or hiring a makeup artist to do it, it’s important that you give it a test run. Testing your wedding makeup should go beyond what color palette or style you want, though. Your makeup will go through a lot on your wedding day. Here’s how to test for it all. 

![INLINE Patricia&Rahul PhotographybyWhatEm SeesPhotography](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7mj6WfOrY2VzMGE5dIdjgt/eabaa503958a23a10b8ee444d18cd5be/INLINE_Patricia_Rahul_PhotographybyWhatEm_SeesPhotography.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // What Em Sees Photography

## Do I really need a wedding makeup trial?
We don’t subscribe to universal wedding planning rules. That said, most brides will agree: The first time you test your wedding makeup should *not* be the morning of your wedding. Testing your wedding makeup comes with a slew of benefits:

- __You can nail down the perfect look.__ Chances are you won’t love every part of your wedding makeup the first time you get it done. Maybe you want a bolder lip or a softer eyeshadow color, for example. Your wedding makeup trial is your chance to work out the changes and make adjustments. 
- __You can get to know your makeup artist.__ Your engagement photoshoot gives you the opportunity to get to know your photographer and your makeup trial does the same for your [makeup artist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/9-great-bridal-makeup-tips-by-charlottesville-makeup-artist). You definitely want to find someone with a positive personality who also is open to feedback.
- __You can test your makeup’s staying power.__ How your wedding makeup looks is only one part of the equation. It needs to stand the test of time from ceremony to afterparty and for all the pictures in between.

## What am I looking for during the test?
Once you’ve wrapped up your wedding makeup trial, keep your look on for the same amount of time you estimate that you’ll wear it on your wedding day—or even a little longer. Then, ask yourself the following questions:

- Does the foundation match your skin tone? Does the foundation oxidize and change color on the skin throughout the day?
- Does the foundation have a smooth, flawless finish—or does it separate and/or settle into fine lines and wrinkles?
- Does the powder absorb into the skin—or does it have a thicker, cakey appearance?
- Does the foundation or powder wear off over the course of the day?
- Does the foundation or powder transfer when touched? (For example, onto hands or articles of clothing?)
- Does the mascara run when exposed to water (or tears)?
- Does the eyeliner smudge when touched—or even when not touched?
- Does the blush maintain pigment throughout the day or does it fade?
- If using fake lashes, do they stay in place throughout the day?
- How does the makeup feel on the skin throughout the day? Does it feel dry, itchy, uncomfortable, and/or cakey after a few hours of wear?

Pay attention to how your skin feels with the makeup on and, then, give it a critical once-over to see how it really looks at the end of the day.

![INLINE Rashida&Phillip Photo byCinderandCo.](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/57SxByJrlg4oJS74t9BFvI/e1ff5d52ab9bc93d9a6bd915c1d60d35/INLINE_Rashida_Phillip_Photo_byCinderandCo..jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Cinder and Co.

## How To Test Your Wedding Makeup
A lot goes on during a wedding. There’s eating, crying, drinking, dancing, hugging, and more. You want to make sure your wedding makeup stands up against it all. Try the following actions while wearing your wedding makeup to test its staying power.

- __Taking photos.__ How your makeup looks in person isn’t always how your makeup looks on camera. Ask someone to snap photos of you in various lighting (interior, natural, and overhead) to see how your makeup translates in digital images.
- __Kissing.__ The first kiss is one of the most exciting moments of a wedding ceremony—and the last thing you want is to pull away and see your lipstick smeared all of your new spouse’s face. Practice kissing your partner to make sure your makeup stays in place during the big kiss.
- __Hugging.__ There will be hugging—a lot of it. Don’t let guests walk away with your foundation rubbed on their shoulders and collars. It’s, uh, not a great party favor. Hug people post-wedding makeup trial to make sure it stays on your face (and won’t end up on your guests).
- __Dancing.__ If you’re going to dance the night away, you’re probably going to sweat—and you don’t want to [sweat your face off](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-fight-sweat-on-your-wedding-day). After your wedding makeup trial, turn on some tunes, dance up a sweat, and see how your makeup fares.
- __Eating and drinking.__ Enjoy a few meals and beverages in your wedding makeup to make sure it will stand up through happy hour, dinner, and those many, many toasts. Cheers!
- __Crying.__ Skip the muddy tears (a la LC in The Hills) and test that mascara. Even if you’re not a big crier, there’s a possibility you’ll shed a tear or two on your wedding day. End your day of wedding testing with your favorite sad movie and just … let it all out. 

Test your wedding makeup before the big day and rest easy thanks to the knowledge that you’re going to look just as flawless from your walk down the aisle to your last dance. 


Wedding Makeup

The modern groom now approaches his wedding day attire as a reflection of his style and personality. While the classic wedding attire choices for grooms—a suit or tuxedo—are still the go-to attire for many grooms, others opt for more casual looks, like a dress shirt, slacks, and a blazer or a more laid-back linen shirt and khakis (perfect for a summer wedding).

The decision to wear a suit, tuxedo, or something less traditional on the big day is often a difficult dilemma for guys—especially now, when there are more attire options than ever. If you’re not sure where to start when it comes to choosing wedding day clothing for men, check out our guide to [groom’s attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groom-vs-groomsmen-attire-what-to-wear) below.

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The most important part of choosing your suit is making sure that it’s sized appropriately for your body type. Getting measured is a must to ensure your wedding suit fits you perfectly and compliments your shape. 

If you're getting a custom suit or tux, a professional tailor can take your measurements—and if you're getting your attire from a larger retailer, a salesperson can make sure you get measured accurately.

From there, the choices about suit vs. tux, individual garments, materials, and cuts will all be easier knowing exactly what sizes you should be shopping for.

## The Difference Between a Suit and a Tuxedo
At first glance, there isn’t a whole lot of difference between the physical appearance of a suit and a tux. Here are the main differences between these two menswear styles:

- Tuxes tend to have satin features (such as the buttons, the lapels, and a stripe down the side of the pants) whereas suits do not.
- Tuxes are typically worn with bow-ties and a cummerbund or vest, and the jacket might have a tail.
- Suits usually have a standard suit jacket and are paired with a long tie (and sometimes a vest, depending on preference).

When [choosing a suit](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-groom-and-groomsmen-suits) or a tux, focus on which style makes you feel comfortable, fits into your budget, and matches the formality of your wedding.

![Groom and Groomsmen Suits](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/25zO6FbThOdt4gPJ7r0bNL/54971006e9ae1a52012f4677ac14181d/Inline_Manuel_Montenegro_Photography.png) *Photo Credit* // Manuel Montenegro Photography

## The Pros and Cons of Suits and Tuxes
### Suits

__Pros:__
- If purchased, can be worn multiple times after the wedding day to all sorts of events
- Easier to personalize to match the wedding theme
- Available in a wide range of [different styles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-are-the-different-wedding-suit-styles) and colors
- Pairs easily paired with accessories, such as pocket squares, ties, boutonnieres, and shirts
- Can be more comfortable
- Great for slightly-less formal or informal weddings

__Cons:__
- Expensive to purchase
- Certain colors and styles, such as light-colored suits, are not appropriate in all settings and seasons and thus aren’t as versatile
- Looks out of place at really formal weddings

### Tuxedos

__Pros:__
- Great for formal, black-tie weddings
- Can look more refined and polished
- Creates greater cohesion with less work for a large group of groomsmen
- Available in fewer styles, but cuts down on decision-making
- Most popular choice for grooms’ attire

__Cons:__
- Often not worn much after the wedding (unless the groom attends many formal, black-tie events)
- Very expensive to purchase
- Looks really out of place at informal weddings/events
- Requires a special type of dress shirt (typically white with black buttons)
- Though possible in other colors, black is the most widely available

![How to Choose Your Groomsmen ](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1Te9ZGkMK4ouILmKG8cPat/8e167e413d62828c75b2388b0b1060dc/Inline_Sonju_Photography.png)
*Photo Credit* // Sonju Photography

## Price Comparisons 
The price of a groom’s suit or tuxedo really depends on a combination of factors: 
- Where the groom lives
- The store(s) where he is shopping
- The suit or tuxedo design 
- The menswear designer
- Whether you decide to rent or buy
- How customized the details are
- The quality of the materials 

Because so many of these pricing factors are circumstantial, it’s best to shop around to compare prices in order to get a true comparison.

### Buying Vs. Renting
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- If buying, tuxes tend to cost more than suits. 
- If renting, suits tend to cost more than tuxes. 

And, of course, if you opt to forego a suit or a tux for something more informal, there’s a good chance you’re looking at a lower price tag. (For example, khakis and a linen shirt are likely going to cost less than buying a custom blue suit or renting a tux.)

## Formality Matters
The formality of a wedding will play a major role in whether a tuxedo, suit, or more laid-back attire is the right choice for a groom. Here’s some general advice to keep in mind when choosing groom's attire:

1. __Suits are better for less formal events.__ Suits come in all kinds of different styles and can usually be tailored to fit various levels of formality, including semi-formal and casual weddings—while tuxedos tend to look out of place at more laid-back events (for example, a beach wedding).
2. __Tuxes are better for more formal events.__ If the event has a formal dress code then the groom’s attire should be formal as well.
3. __It’s best to match your the dressiness of your partner’s attire.__ Finally, the extravagance of the your partner’s attire should be taken into consideration. If your fiancé(e) is wearing something very formal or very informal, choose a look to match.

### Religious and Cultural Attire
If your religious or cultural ceremony requires different formalwear beyond a traditional Western look, you will most likely be seeking out a specialty clothier or tailor who can craft the traditional wedding garments you need. These experts, along with any knowledgeable family and friends you might bring along, can help you select and get fitted for the outfit(s) you’ll wear on your wedding day.

### Military Attire
If you are a member of the military, you may wish to come to your wedding in your full military dress. Many branches of the military have various uniforms for different types of ceremonies, each with varying degrees of formality. If you decide to opt for military attire, choose the most formal uniform or military dress suitable for your rank to wear to your wedding.

### Suit Care Tips 
1. __Make Sure It Fits__ — As a first step when trying on your groom attire, make sure that your suit, tux, or other clothing choices are properly tailored to your body. 
2. __Take Care Of Wrinkles__ — Make sure you know how to take care of your ensemble. If your suit needs to be steamed or pressed to look its best, get it done ahead of time. Don’t forget to properly wash, store, and iron (if necessary) your shirts, ties, and other fabric accessories, too.
3. __Store Someplace Safe__ — Before (and after) the wedding, make sure that your groom attire is stored in a safe, secure place that’s free of moisture, extreme temperatures, or pests that can damage the fabric. 

![How to Choose Your Groomsmen ](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1Te9ZGkMK4ouILmKG8cPat/8e167e413d62828c75b2388b0b1060dc/Inline_Sonju_Photography.png) *Photo Credit* // Sonju Photography

## Styling and Details
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While it might seem that grooms’ attire is pretty straightforward, there are plenty of pieces to mix and match to create the perfect wedding look.

Here’s a breakdown of the different menswear elements that typically make up a groom’s wedding day look: 

### Jackets
- As a general rule, slimmer and shorter jackets are in fashion at the moment. Avoid baggy suits or jackets that are too long.

- Customization is easiest to pull off on a groom’s jacket. Whether choosing a funky print for the jacket lining, or choosing a jacket in a bright color or unique fabric like velvet, there are many possibilities here for adding a little flair. 

- Single- or double-breasted? This term simply refers to the way your suit buttons. 
  1. __Single-Breasted:__ A single-breasted suit has one row of buttons (usually no more than three) down the center. 
  2. __Double-Breasted:__ Double-breasted suits, as the name implies, double up, meaning you have four, six, or eight buttons in two adjacent rows.

Single-breasted jackets are more popular, as double-breasted jackets tend to look like they come from a very particular period in time—which might be handy if you’re having a retro-themed wedding.

- Don’t forget the lapels. There are three main types:
  1. __Notch:__ The notch lapel is the most common; it’s so named because there is a notch where the collar starts and the lapel ends. 
  2. __Peak:__ A peak lapel tapers into a point angled toward your shoulders. It’s a very formal, fashion-forward cut and can look out of place on the wrong suit. Suits with peak lapels tend to be more expensive because they’re more difficult to sew. 
  3. __Shawl:__ Shawl lapels are usually only seen on tuxedos and dinner jackets and feature a continuous curve. They’re very distinctive and also highly formal. 

- Even though they seem like small details, the type of buttons and cut of pocket that you choose will really affect the overall look of your suit. Don’t neglect these small, but impactful points of tailoring when choosing your wedding suit. 

### Waistcoats (or Vests)
- A waistcoat is usually the third part of a three-piece suit, or the star of a more dressed down shirt-tie-waistcoat ensemble. They button in the front and have a built-in cinch at the back so you can adjust how fitted the waistcoat is to your body. 

### Trousers
- Dress pants are available to you in all the same cuts as a normal pair of pants, and how they hang on you will really affect their look. The most crucial part of choosing the right trousers is making sure that they are the right length, revealing just the right amount of ankle. The area where your shoes touch the hem of your pants is called the break of the trousers. There are three main types: 
  1. __No Break:__ No break means the pants don’t actually touch your shoes, which has the effect of making your legs look a little longer. 
  2. __Half Break:__ Trousers with a half-break rest on the top of your shoes and are the most standard trouser length.
  3. __Full Beak:__ Finally, there’s the full break, which means the fabric folds all the way around the ankle where it hits your shoes. Trousers with a full break can be hard to pull off well, especially on shorter men, who run the risk of looking like they forgot to get their pants hemmed at all.

![How to Ask Someone to be Your Groomsmen](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4dh4v9FrffDQVtaAcBGqis/601fc717b833ceb89e9d28a8adbe4c6a/Inline_Christopher_Duggan_Photography.png) *Photo Credit* // Christopher Duggan Photography

### The Accents
Even if you go classic with the main aspects of your wedding day look, there’s room to personalize on a smaller scale with accessories. Whether it’s a patterned tie or a pair of heirloom cufflinks, these details can add sophistication and let your unique self shine. Here’s a breakdown of accessories to consider adding to your groom’s attire: 

#### Traditional Accessories
- A bowtie or tie
- A belt and/or suspenders
- A watch
- Cufflinks
- A tie clip
- A pocket square
- Socks
- Shoes

#### Additional Accessories
- Jewelry
- Sunglasses
- A hat
- A scarf
- A lapel pin

When it comes to your wedding day look, here are a lot of menswear choices to consider. To make the decision-making easier, start slowly by consulting experts at local shops and browsing through our collection of [Real Weddings](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search) for other groom looks. And remember—there’s no need to stress. This is about having fun and finding attire that makes you feel comfortable and confident. When all is said and done, you’ll look sharp while marrying the love of your life.

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Whether you’re aiming for Michelle Obama arms, an exaggerated waist-to-hip ratio, or you’re trying to get back to your college weight, the concept of the wedding diet is nothing new. We’ve heard “the photos last a lifetime” more times than we can count—and we know most brides have, too. 

In fact, a study from the [Journal of Health Psychology](https://journals.sagepub.com/page/hpq/wedding-collection) revealed just how much the #weddingdiet mentality pervades the planning experience. The study found that 75% of brides polled intended to exercise more and follow a healthy eating plan prior to their wedding and 35% planned to cut out fat or carbs from their diets entirely before their wedding day.

We understand the desire to “look your best” on your wedding day. However, we like to think that your best is actually you, happy and healthy, surrounded by your loved ones and marrying your partner. Does it get any better? That said, we know breaking the wedding diet urge is easier said than done. So, we talked to dietitians and mental health experts about the underlying issues of the wedding diet culture and how to focus less on weight and more on wellness.

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*Photo Credit* // Mantas Kubilinskas Photography

## Don't cave to pressure.
Social media is an accessible source for inspiration and an easy way to share your wedding planning journey with a wider circle. If you’re one for regular sharing, the pressure to impress your social media circle may feel heavy. You know how many eyes see your posts after all. Plus. if you’re active in any wedding communities or follow a lot of new brides on Instagram, you already know how easy it is to fall into the comparison trap. Comparison is the thief of joy, though. The key here is to apply blinders, as necessary.

Even though we know social media isn’t always reality, it’s hard to break out of that mental state. Fortunately, there are tools you can use when you’re feeling particularly triggered or down. Mute any accounts that distract you from your planning journey, unfollow anyone who you regularly compare yourself to in a negative way, and even take a full break from social media if you need it.

A good test that it’s time for a break? If you feel like you have to post or that you have to post certain things to live up to an ideal aesthetic, it’s time to step away from the screen.

## Avoid setting specific goals. 
One of the main rules of goal-setting is to “make it specific.” Well, allow us to unravel that thinking and recommend avoiding specificity as you can. Common specific wedding diet goals include:

- “I want to lose 10 pounds.”
- “I want to fit into my college size X.”
- “I want to eat Y amount of calories per day.”
- “I want to work out four times per week.”

While these goals create benchmarks you can work towards or can help you track clear progress, they can be damaging—especially as you take on planning a wedding. “Wedding planning can be financially and mentally stressful enough,” says Janis Isaman, owner of Calgary’s My Body Couture. “You don’t need to add more strain to your body by bombarding it with strenuous exercises [and food restrictions] that the body isn't used to.” 

## Use exercise to reduce stress
Isaman recommends prioritizing exercise that makes your body feel good while also reducing stress. “Add a block of time three or so days a week to your calendar so that you can balance [wedding planning] stress with feel-good, body-and-mind restorative activities.” She suggests riding bikes with your partner, going for a walk or hiking in the woods, and yin or restorative yoga.

## Nourish your mental wellbeing
One of the best ways to move away from so much focus on the body and weight is to focus on the mind. Living in a body-positive mental headspace can help alleviate feelings of inadequacy or that pull to perfect or change the healthy body you have.

## Approach wedding dress fittings from a positive perspective
Wedding dress shopping can be riddled with high expectations and a lot of focus being placed on your body. Unfortunately, it’s easy to slip into the mindset of the dress making you, when it reality, it’s you that makes the dress. What’s important, here, is that leading up to your wedding gown appointments you begin to build the right mindset. The best wedding dress is the dress that makes you feel beautiful and the most like you—in the body you already have. You don’t need to achieve a certain shape, size, or number in order to look incredible right off the bat. You already do.

We know, easier said than done sometimes. Even so, it’s paramount that you keep a few tips in mind while shopping and trying on wedding gowns. First being: Buy your current size (or whichever is nearest too, if not slightly bigger than, your current measurements). It’s easier for seamstresses to take in a garment than add fabric (that said, it isn’t impossible). 

Second being: Surround yourself with a supportive shopping posse. Whether you invite all of your bridesmaids or a select few friends and family members, ensure that your group is filled with people who are prepared to genuinely hype you up. Sometimes, it’s easier for others to see and appreciate your own beauty. If your body confidence isn’t at an all-time high, invite along those who will help make you feel as stunning as you are, wherever your shopping takes you.

## Understand different dress silhouettes
Another key aspect of wedding dress shopping is understanding the differences in wedding dress silhouettes. Wedding dress styles vary greatly, with different shapes and structures drawing attention to different parts of your body. While you can wear any type of wedding dress you please, regardless of body type, you may be on the lookout for one that especially accentuates something about your body that you love—be it your natural curves and hourglass figure or narrow hips and small bust. Whether you’re a petite bride, athletic bride, [plus-size bride](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/best-wedding-dress-styles-for-plus-size-women), or any kind of body in-between, you can celebrate your body shape with many different silhouettes.

In your search for the perfect wedding dress, we’ve ironed out—excuse the pun—a few different kinds of dress silhouettes and what features they often compliment. That said, these are merely the details of each silhouette. Don’t take them as law and do try on a bit of everything as you shop. You never know what you might fall in love with.

Below are the eight types of wedding dresses you should know the basics of.

### A-line
The a-line silhouette is fitted at the waist before flaring out into an “A” or triangle shape from the front. A-line gowns are considered to be universally flattering, with a softness in the skirt and contrasting structure in the bodice that brings attention to one’s waist. Because it doesn’t hug your hips or legs, it can even add the illusion of height. If you like the idea of showing off your shoulders and clavicle area, we highly recommend going strapless.

### Ball Gown
The ball gown, while similar in shape, tends to have a lot more volume in the skirt. Often described as looking princess-like, ball gowns are a style of fit-and-flare silhouette which is fitted at the waist before flaring outward. This style tends to compliment and balance out larger chests, while its voluminous skirt highlights one's hips.

### Mermaid and Trumpet
Mermaid and trumpet silhouettes are generally similar, but possess their key differences. Mermaid dresses contours to your chest, waist, hips, and knees, then flares outward from there. It’s a favorite of curvy brides, emphasizing and celebrating one’s curves.

Likewise, the trumpet silhouette draws attention to one’s curves, though the overall shape is a touch more toned down. Rather than flaring out at the knees, it does so a bit higher up, starting at the mid-thigh. It gains it’s namesake from its shape mimicking the bell of a trumpet horn.

### Slip and Sheath
Both of these styles tend to be exceptionally minimalist and chic. With little to no beading or embellishments, the attention is mostly—if not entirely—on its shape.

Slip dresses are less fitted than mermaid and trumpet dresses, often made with lightweight fabrics such as silk. That said, they’re still somewhat form fitting and figure-accentuating. Due to their simplicity, they can bring attention to your height. They also often possess details that can draw attention to other parts of your body, such as a cowl neck to show off your décolletage or a low back to bring attention to your back.

Sheath dresses are similarly minimal, with a silhouette that’s fairly snug on the body. However, it doesn’t define the waist as much as a more form-fitting dress. Rather, it gives the body a soft contour and can add definition and height.

### Column
Column gowns largely differ from the former two silhouettes in that they’re more structured. Created with fabrics such as brocade, taffeta, and crepe, they’re meant to give the appearance of long, straight lines. This allows them to compliment the sleek and more straight elements in one’s figure, such as more athletic or slender torsos and hips.

### Empire
Flowy, boho prides have long favored the empire silhouette for its romantic and soft appearance. The empire dress is fitted at the bust, then flows the rest of the way down the body. Typically constructed in light and airy fabrics, it softens and elongates the entire body. With the absence of a defined waist, the eye is drawn to one’s décolletage and neck. This also tends to be a favorite of [pregnant brides](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/embrace-being-a-pregnant-bride) who wish to either subdue or show off their bump without going form-fitting.

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*Photo Credit* // CMK Photography

## How to Feel More Body Positive
Dr. Nicole Siegfried, a leading psychiatrist and Chief Clinical Officer at Alsana, lays out actionable tips to practice body positivity as you wedding plan. See them below:

### Move to a place of gratitude
“Gratitude is the most powerful way to address negativity and is one of the only emotions that can be generated on command or demand,” Siegfried says. Practice latching onto gratitude in a variety of ways, especially when it comes to appreciating your body. “For instance, rather than focusing on the size of your stomach, think about why you are grateful for your stomach: [it provides] the ability to consume valuable nutrients.”

### Focus on function rather than appearance
“Shift your thinking to focus on what your body can do rather than what your body looks like,” she says. For example, instead of thinking, “my legs look huge,” try thinking about all of the activities you can do with your legs: walking your dog, going for a run, standing in line at the coffee shop, etc.

### Realize your body is a gift
“Our bodies are our friends that take care of us in a way we often misinterpret and don’t recognize,” she says. “When we develop an illness or injury, whether big or small, our bodies work to heal us.” Concentrate more on the marvel of your body than the mistakes.

### Silence the bully in your head
“Women are conditioned to think negatively about themselves due to negative influences in society. It’s time to break that cycle and silence internal bullies by shifting that language into words of encouragement and positivity,” Siegfried says. Practice pretending you’re talking to your little sister or daughter. If the words you’re telling yourself aren’t something you would say to them, then you shouldn’t say it to yourself.

### Power of self-compassion
“From gratitude comes the advanced emotion of compassion,” she says. Practice directing feelings of compassion to your relationship with your body. Apologize and begin making amends to your body for all the negative things you may have said or done to it.

### Eat to feel good, not to look good
Eating in a way that makes us feel good, without focusing on the number on the scale, is bound to cause less stress before the big day. According to Registered Dietitian Diana Gariglio-Clelland, not only can eating nutritious foods better our bodies physically, but it can also lead to wedding day benefits that go beyond what we imagine. So, basically, focusing on a balanced, nutritious diet can also have some attractive (pun intended) outward side effects, too.

Nutrient-dense food can help promote a healthy digestive system. This helps to reduce bloating and other digestive discomforts, which means you’ll feel fabulous during both your wedding planning and celebration. Additionally, avoiding inflammatory foods like processed carbs or sugar can reduce painful breakouts and other [skin related issues](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/sleep-night-before-wedding).

When it comes to changing your diet habits, don’t go too big too soon. Forget specific calorie counts. Instead, release the pressure of specific numbers and focus on more general wellness milestones. Cut back on soda, swap half of your spaghetti with zucchini noodles, and start your morning with a full glass of water. You’ll be surprised how small changes add up to make you physically feel better.

### Have fun planning your wedding day
If your wedding planning process is too fixated on looking a certain way or fitting into a certain outfit or gown, you won’t enjoy it. Take this time to be present with your partner, the person who reminds you how beautiful you really are. There are one million large and small details that go into a wedding. Don’t let an intense focus on a #weddingdiet or other absurd physical pursuit distract you from the actual point of it all.

There’s no denying that wedding planning comes with its share of stress points and difficult times—worrying about your appearance shouldn’t be one of them. If it is a little, that’s OK—again, it’s normal to want to look your best. Just stay aware of how much emphasis you’re really putting on looks. Engage in healthy mind and body practices and you’ll guarantee that a wedding filled with positivity and optimism.

How to Break Out of the #WeddingDiet Mentality

As you get ready for your wedding day, you’ve tried to guard against anything that can go wrong, from a rainstorm to tears of happiness that ruin your makeup. But, throughout the long day, you know your dress will be exposed to a number of potential hazards, and that it might get stained along the way.

No matter how careful you are when it comes to sipping your wine and keeping your train off the ground, there’s always the chance that you’ll get caught up in the moment and let your guard down. In fact, you should—you can’t let your dress-anxiety spoil your celebration. But, what should you do if something does stain your dress on the big day? To prepare yourself, read on for our top five tips on how to get a stain out of a wedding dress.

## Tip #1: Know Your Dress
Whether you’re wearing a white wedding gown, a red saree, or an eclectic jumpsuit, it’s always possible that you’ll end up with a stain on your outfit at some point on your wedding day. The first line of defense is your knowledge about your wedding garment. Before you take it out on the town, be sure to ask its seller:

- What fabric is the dress made of?
- What are the embellishments (lace, etc.) made of?
- Are there any care instructions?
- Are there any absolute no-nos when it comes to treating stains on the dress?

Knowing how to treat your dress’ specific fabric is important. While you may be able to pop a polyester wedding dress in the wash while finishing your makeup, the same isn’t true for a silk dress with intricate embroidery. Once you know the dos and don’ts of your specific fabric and embellishments, you can start taking steps to address the stain.

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*Photo Credit //* Sweet Alive Photography

## Tip #2: When in Doubt, Dab

So, you have a wedding dress stain—step one is to take a deep breath. It’s not as bad as you think it is. Keep calm, carry on, and start troubleshooting your stain. You’ve probably removed stains from clothes in the past, and the same basic principles apply to your wedding dress. The steps to removing a stain include:

__- Protect the garment’s other side.__ If you’re not wearing your dress yet, and, perhaps, even if you are, you want to isolate the affected segment so that it doesn’t make contact with other parts of the dress. Place a towel underneath the affected area.

__- Find a clean white napkin.__ While paper towels and toilet paper can be handy, you don’t want paper fibers sticking to your dress (especially if it has embellishments).

__- Blot the stain.__ Use a clean cloth to remove as much pigment or liquid as possible. Do not rub. Your goal is to gently, quickly remove whatever you can before it dries or settles into the fiber.

__- Test your cleaner.__ If you have a Tide stick, lemon juice, or other stain-removing cleaner, test it on a discreet part of the dress to make sure that it doesn’t cause any fading or discoloration. 

__- Blot to clean.__ Apply your cleaner of choice to another corner of your clean napkin. Blot to transfer it onto the stain. Continue blotting until the stain is removed.

__- Dry the area.__ You don’t want an odd wet spot showing up in your photos, so if there’s a hairdryer handy, spend some time drying the spot.

While these basic instructions can help deal with most stains, having a plan for any circumstance and stain might help you keep peace of mind on your big day. Read on to learn more about specific cleansing protocols for wedding dress stain removal. 

## Tip # 3: Assemble an Emergency Stain Kit
From your guests’ lipsticked kisses, your reception meal, and even the very ground you’ll walk on, your environment will be full of things that stain. It can be overwhelming to imagine all the perils your dress may face, but preparing ahead of time can help you stay grounded in the event that your dress is eventually stained. 

To guard against any possible stain, put together [an emergency kit](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-ultimate-wedding-day-emergency-kit-list) with the following:

- A stain stick
- A clean napkin
- Dish soap
- White vinegar or lemon juice
- Rubbing alcohol
- Hydrogen peroxide
- Cornstarch or baby powder
- Chalk in a color that matches your dress

To better understand how and when you can put these must-haves to use, let’s look at some common culprits for wedding dress stains.

## Tip #4 Treat Your Specific Stain
Different stains require different treatments. While it might be perfectly safe to dab a little water on the spot where you dropped cake icing, the same technique could cause an ink stain to spread and spread. Use your emergency kit wisely, depending on the kind of stain you suffer.

### Cosmetic Stains
Your own makeup and your guests’ are equally likely to stain your gown. Be sure to cover your dress when having your makeup done, and ask your makeup artist to use a setting spray to help you keep your game-day face on. Besides that, prepare for these specific types of cosmetic and personal care product stains.

### Lipstick and Makeup
Eye shadows, lipsticks, and foundations are made of a variety of different ingredients, and, unfortunately, none of them come with a stain removal guide. However, because most are oil-based, there are some common methods that should work. If your granny stains the sleeve of your dress during a long embrace, try out the following tricks:

- If there’s excess makeup, try to scrape it off with a spoon.
- Use a stain removal stick.
- Use the blotting instructions above with rubbing alcohol.

### Mascara
Formulated with oil, mascara often contains wax or other ingredients to make it waterproof—that means dabbing alone might not work. If you get a little teary and forget your sleeve is the last thing you should use to wipe your eyes, try:

- Using rubbing alcohol, as noted above.
- Creating a solution of dish soap and water to dab the stain.

### Deodorant
If your deodorant makes its way onto the armpits of your dress, leaving behind an unsettling white residue, use a dryer sheet or pantyhose to dab at the stains.

### Food and Drink
Beyond makeup, the most likely time that you’ll stain your dress is while eating your post-ceremony meal. You may have planned your entire menu to avoid such mishaps, but when all else fails, use the solution that best treats your stain.

### Oily Stains
If some stray salad dressing lands on your dress, start by trying to absorb the oil. Use the following instructions:

1. Place baby powder or cornstarch over the oil and let it sit as long as you can (we know, you have to circulate, too).
2. Follow up by dabbing with rubbing alcohol or a stain stick to remove the borders of the stain.
3. Dry the spot.

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*Photo Credit //* Manuel Montenegro Photography

### Red Wine and Other Dark Stains
Red wine is one of the most fearsome threats to a white dress, but coffee and other dark liquids are also cause for worry. Dab stains from dark liquids with a solution of lemon juice or white vinegar to remove the stain.

### Environment and Venue
If you’re having an outdoor wedding, be prepared against the common stain culprits in your environment.

- Dirt and grass stains. As with red wine and coffee, try a solution of vinegar or lemon juice. Mix in a drop of dish soap for extra stain-fighting power.

- Blood. Use hydrogen peroxide and water to blot blood and other protein-based stains (i.e. sweat).

- Smoke Bombs. Do smoke bombs stain wedding dresses? The answer is yes. If you’re looking to add drama to your wedding portraits, these are high reward, but also high risk. If you do stain your dress, use a vinegar and soap mixture to dab at the stain.

- Ink. If you have a small ink stain, try blotting with a dish soap solution. However, if it’s large, it’s better to leave it alone then end up accidentally spreading it. Try to cover it up, instead.

### Tip #5: If All Else Fails, Hide It
If a stain just won’t come out, don’t let it ruin your day. We promise, your guests aren’t paying nearly as much attention to it as you are. To cover up your stain during your big day, try any of the following:

- Cornstarch
- Baby powder
- Chalk in a color as close as possible to your dress

Take another deep breath, get back out there, and enjoy your day. You can take your garment to the cleaners later. Professionals may have more tools for getting your wedding dress back to its pristine form.

### Plan Your Wedding With Zola
Getting married can be stressful for any couple. From wedding dress stains, keeping track of RSVPs, to planning the [perfect registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry), all the steps involved leave you worrying about everything simultaneously. At Zola, our goal is to make planning your ceremony and reception easy so that you can enjoy your day and roll with the punches. After all, what’s a little stain when you’ve just spoken your vows to the person you love most in the world? 

5 Wedding Dress Stain Removal Tips 

Protect that gorgeous diamond engagement ring (and, eventually, your wedding ring) at all costs! Here are the top questions to ask when choosing an engagement ring insurance policy.

It may not sound very romantic to shop for jewelry insurance when all you want to do is show off your new engagement ring and plan the perfect wedding, but it should be an important task on your __[wedding to-do list](https://zola.app.link/jHihVjjt52)__. Your ring is not only a priceless symbol of love and commitment to your partner, but it’s also a major investment. Don’t overlook __[purchasing an insurance policy](https://zola.app.link/WwLaAGyN71)__ just because it’s unfamiliar.

Make sure your beautiful new ring is properly insured, as this exciting time in your life shouldn’t be ruined by a lost or stolen ring. Here, the experts at __[Lavalier](https://lavalier.com/)__ share how to make an informed decision about ring insurance. Read on to get answers to the most common ring and jewelry insurance questions.

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*Photo Credit* // Peter Togel Photography

## What to Keep In Mind for Engagement Ring Insurance
### How does jewelry insurance work?
It’s similar to other insurance policies, but it’s tailored to the needs of jewelry owners. Companies like Lavalier.com design a policy specifically for jewelry (including expensive wedding rings and engagement rings) and it typically offers more comprehensive coverage than your homeowner’s or renter’s insurance policy. 

### What type of jewelry can be insured?
You can insure any jewelry that is valuable to you. This can be an item with a high monetary value that you cannot afford to replace, or even an item with a high emotional value that you want to protect from damage. 

### If I need an appraisal, who can do that?
If you have a __[new piece of jewelry](https://zola.app.link/SKEa8jyN71)__, the jeweler you purchase it from will often provide an appraisal along with your item. If you are appraising something you already own, look for an appraiser with good reviews, advanced training in gemology, and who is a member of a national appraisal society. This ensures you’ll receive a complete and accurate appraisal.

### How much should jewelry insurance cost?
The price for a policy can vary based on your address, deductible, and any available discounts.  Generally, it should __only cost around 1-2% of the jewelry’s value__. 

### Does my homeowner’s policy cover my jewelry? 
It depends, but not always. Check with your insurance company as they may have a sub-limit for jewelry items or require you to schedule the jewelry.  

### How often should I get jewelry appraised?
Since the jewelry market is always changing, a good rule of thumb is to have it appraised __every 18 months__. 

### Do I need extra traveler’s insurance if I’m out of the country?
There is no need as long as your policy has worldwide coverage. Just be sure to check your policy before you travel. 

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*Photo Credit* // Paul Douda Photography

## Tips To Get Ring Insurance
### Insure Your Ring ASAP

You wouldn’t drive your car off the lot or buy a home without insurance. So why not also consider [insuring your ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/reasons-to-insure-engagement-ring)? [Jewelry insurance](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/specialty-jewelry-insurance-vs-protection-plans) companies offer insurance options and coverages against theft, loss, and damage from the get-go.

### Get a Diamond Certificate

A diamond certificate is a certificate that grades the quality of your engagement ring—and it’s a great step to take when insuring your token of affection. The diamond certificate uses the “Four C’s”—color, carat, cut, clarity—to determine the quality of your diamond, which can help you get a more accurate appraisal for your insurance policy.  

### Check For Proper Credentials
A trustworthy jewelry appraiser will be certified and titled by an organization such as the National Association of Jewelry Appraisers. When choosing an appraiser, make sure to look for credentials like a gemologist diploma from the GIA (Gemologist Institute of America), which is considered a minimum requirement for many jewelers.

### Choose Your Coverage Provider
There are a couple of options to consider when finding a coverage provider for your engagement ring. One option is get your ring insured through a jewelry insurance provider. [Jewelry specific insurance](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/specialty-jewelry-insurance-vs-protection-plans) companies offer insurance plans that strictly cover jewelry items, like engagement rings—and are considered standalone from other existing coverage plans. 

Another option is to go through your homeowners or renters insurance policy. Most homeowner’s plans offer coverage against lost or stolen jewelry (although coverage typically caps out a certain amount). If you do decide to go this route, one thing to consider is that, if a jewelry claim is filed, your homeowners or renters insurance policy rates could be raised and your renewal eligibility questioned.

### Get An Appraisal

If you’re wondering “how much does engagement ring insurance cost?”, finding out how much your ring is worth is the first step. Appraisers will look at every element of your engagement ring – including clarity, weight, color, and more. Jewelry insurance companies usually need an appraisal prior to insuring your ring. 

### Reappraise Every 2 to 3 years
Buying an engagement ring is one of the ultimate signs of love and affection. But,it's also a smart investment! Because the value of your ring will most likely continue to grow, getting an appraisal every two to three is a great way to make sure it’s priced correctly in the event of a claim.

Questions to Ask Your Ring Insurer

- In addition to theft, is my ring covered against damage and loss?
- Do I have to pay a deductible?
- Can I choose who would repair my ring if it is damaged?
- If I’m insured for a replacement ring (instead of a cash payout), may I use my preferred jeweler?
- What happens if a suitable replacement cannot be found?
- How do I need to prove loss if I make a claim?
- Are there any circumstances where I’m not covered?
- Does the policy adjust for inflation?
- How is a vintage or unique piece covered?
- What happens if there is an only partial loss (i.e. a lost diamond)?
- Do I have a choice of a cash payout and, if so, will I get the full amount of its value?
- What if an item is irreplaceable? Will we settle on an agreed value ahead of time?

## Best Engagement Ring Insurance Companies
### __[JIBNA](https://www.insure-jewelry.com/)__
Thanks to the company’s “All Risk” coverage, your diamond engagement ring is safe and secure with JIBNA’s personal jewelry insurance. . With $50 minimum premiums, your engagement ring is covered from loss, theft, and damage. 

### __[Zillion](https://www.myzillion.com/)__
Zillion offers a modern, quick, and easy solution to cover your engagement ring. Offering a “one-click” option for fast and easy coverage, signing up to cover your most prized jewelry pieces through Zillion is perfect for those in a hurry. With coverage costs of only 1-2% of the jewelry value annually, Zillion offers affordable, accessible coverage.

### [Jewelers Mutual](https://www.jewelersmutual.com/)
Jewelers Mutual has been insuring engagement rings for over 100 years, making them a trusted choice in the jewelry insurance industry.  Covering against loss, damage, theft, natural disasters, and more, Jewelers Mutual provides a wide variety of coverage options and limits, including plans with a $0 deductible

### [Chubb](https://www.chubb.com/us-en/individuals-families/products/valuables/jewelry.html)
One of the best reasons to consider Chubb as your engagement ring insurer is for their automatic coverage for new jewelry items. If you already have a jewelry itemized policy with their company, newly acquired jewelry pieces will be covered for up to 90 days for 25 percent of the itemized coverage. Knowing that your existing and new engagement rings and jewelry are covered for repair and replacement with their extensive ring protection plan is worth the peace of mind.

### [Gemshield](https://www.gemshield.com/)
Gemshield’s jewelry insurance policy offers a broad range of insurance coverage for your engagement ring –Including: theft, damage, loss, disappearance, and more. They also offer coverage worldwide So,if you’re planning any international travel (a honeymoon, perhaps?) Gemshield could be the perfect option to cover your engagement ring.

### [Lavalier](https://lavalier.com/)
With plans that are designed for each unique piece of jewelry you need coverage for, Lavalier’s jewelry insurance may be the right fit for you. Their plans cover your item in cases such as damage, loss, and theft—beyond what your standard homeowners insurance might cover. With plans that are both comprehensive and affordable, Lavalier provides the coverage you need to keep your engagement ring secure—and at a reasonable price. 

## [USAA](https://www.usaa.com/inet/wc/jewelry-insurance)

USAA is one of the most trusted names in insurance and property protection. Part of their Valuable Personal Property (VPP) Insurance covers many types of jewelry, including engagement rings. With a blanket policy that covers up to $2,500, or scheduled policies that extend past the aforementioned coverage, you can custom tailor your policy based on your needs and the full value of your jewelry.

In order to get the best policy for your new sparkler, it’s good to know exactly what you are purchasing and what type of jewelry coverage you’ll receive. Since you never know what your future holds, it’s best to start out your new life together on the right foot. Being prepared with jewelry insurance to cover your ring—[wherever you wear it](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring)—will give you peace of mind that the symbol of your love is well protected.

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Brides often think about the different hairstyles they can wear as they say their “I do’s.” But while men, of course, have to think about [wedding hair](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-hair-tips-for-men), in addition to choosing their [groom hairstyle](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-hairstyles-for-men), they also have to think about facial hair styles—and, if they have a beard, what beard styles they should rock for their big day. Should you go with just a bit of scruff—or embrace a full beard? Is a short or a long beard the best look for you? Should you go for a hipster look or keep it classic with a groomed beard? And, whatever beard style you choose, how do you take care of it to ensure you look your best on your big day?

Let’s take a look at everything you need to know about how to groom your wedding beard—as well as 10 of the best beard styles to consider for your wedding:

## 10 Beard Styles For Your Wedding Day
Looking for some beard inspiration?  Let’s take a look at 10 different beards you should definitely consider to look and feel your best on your wedding day, whatever your look and style:

#### 1. Full beard
If you’re going to rock a beard for your wedding day, consider fully embracing the look—and going with a full beard.

#### 2. Boxed beard
If you prefer a tighter, more groomed look, a box beard might be a good option.

#### 3. Just a bit of scruff
If you’re not great at growing a beard—or just want a bit of facial hair for your wedding day—grow out a few day’s worth of scruff for a rugged (but still polished) look.

#### 4. Chin strap
A chin strap beard is a great option if you want to highlight your jawline.

#### 5. Goatee
Goatees are a classic beard look that work on a variety of face shapes.

#### 6. Balbo beard
If you like a goatee—but want to do something slightly different—consider a balbo beard, which features a floating mustache.

#### 7. Long beard
If you’ve been growing your beard hair out for quite some time, a long beard can be a great wedding look. Just make sure to use the right products to keep it groomed and in place during your nuptials.

#### 8. Mutton chops
Mutton chops (which favor fuller sideburns that connect to the rest of your facial hair) can be a fun, hipster-inspired beard look.

#### 9. Mustache
Want to have facial hair for your wedding—but can’t grow a full beard? Consider just rocking a mustache.

#### 10. Dyed beard
This look isn’t for every groom, but if you really want to have fun with your wedding look (and it vibes with your [groom wedding attire](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-grooms-attire?_branch_match_id=link-861577124775035459)) consider dying your beard in a fun color or range of bright, vibrant colors.

## How To Groom Your Wedding Beard
If you’re a groom with a beard, you want to make sure your facial hair (and the face underneath it) looks its best for your big day. When your partner looks on as you say your __[wedding vows](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-write-wedding-vows)__, you don’t want them thinking “wow...he needs a beard trim.” We talked to men’s grooming experts to learn exactly how to make your wedding day beard look and feel its best.

The key to looking your best on your big day? Putting in plenty of time and effort to care for your skin and beard hair in the weeks leading up to the wedding. “Treating the skin underneath a beard is just as important as treating the beard itself, but honestly, skin prep and beard prep easily go hand in hand when it comes to care,” says Bryan Welfel, CEO of __[The Beard Club](https://thebeardclub.com/?gclid=Cj0KCQiA-4nuBRCnARIsAHwyuPpvACw37LLbm19QTwhIpFmzcbcyCwMXWpIJSkKJ2LcW8nP10wUBrz0aApMBEALw_wcB)__.

Don’t worry—the prep doesn’t need to be too extensive. Here’s exactly what you need to do, starting one month out, to get your skin and beard in their best shape for your wedding.

#### One Month Out
One month out is when your wedding prep goes into overdrive—and if you want your wedding day beard to look its best, that means starting to work healthy habits (including a regular skincare regimen) into your routine.

“Diet, hydration, and consistent exercise are essential for nourishing your skin, inside and out—especially for your upcoming wedding,” says Vaughn Acord, men’s grooming expert and founder of __[V76 by VAUGHN](https://www.v76.com/)__. “Make sure you dial that in a month before your big day, and also treat yourself to a cleansing facial with extractions to help skin cells turnover and look refreshed.”

#### Bring in your barber.
This is also the perfect time to visit your barber to talk about exactly how you want your beard to look on your wedding day—and to do a “trial run.”

“At the 30-day mark, [the groom] should go visit a barber and get his hair and beard to his liking, so he knows exactly what he’s looking for,” Welfel says. “This is particularly important if the beard is too long and unruly. Shaping it well before the wedding day will help guide him to his intended look.”

Your barber can also help guide you in the right direction for your particular beard. “Your stylist can help assess the shape, the best way to clean up the edges and sideburns, and recommend the right product for your skin and beard,” Acord says.

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*Photo Credit* // Audra Jones Photography

### One Week Out
With a week left to go, you want to give your skin and your beard everything they need to look their best on the big day. “One week out, continue to feed your skin with light exfoliation, consistent moisturization and lots of water,” Acord says. “A little sun and vitamin D will help perk up your skin so you look awake and flushed.” Just make sure not to overdo it on the sun. The last thing you want is to walk down the aisle with a bright red sunburn or peeling skin. Make sure to use a daily moisturizer with SPF.

This is also the time to really give your beard all the extra love it deserves. “Every day leading up to [the wedding] should focus on getting the beard to be as strong and healthy as possible,” Welfel says.

“Oils, creams, balms, beard shampoos, whatever products [you] like should be used to make that beard feel fresh by keeping it clean, hydrated, and smelling great.” He also recommends regular brushing or combing to keep things smooth.

You might be tempted to cut your beard, but hold off—at least for now. “The occasional trim or shape-up is fine, but nothing drastic should be done unless absolutely necessary,” Welfel says.

### The Day Before
OK, now you can cut your beard. Getting your beard cut and groomed the day before the wedding will ensure that the way you look when you walk out of the barber is the way you’ll look when you walk down the aisle.

“A groom may think that it’s time to go back to the barber at seven days out before the wedding, but we would advise staying the course,” Welfel says. “The day before is actually when the groom should make time to visit the barber for both his hair and his beard.” Cutting too early, he says, could result in the final look not being completely up to par.

### Wedding Day
You’ve done a lot of skincare, grooming, and maintenance work in the weeks leading up to the wedding. On your wedding day, though, it’s all about keeping it simple. “The day of your wedding is all about simplicity and low maintenance,” Acord says. “After your shower, moisturize, comb your beard, and then add a beard oil for extra hydration and control.”

If you have a particularly long, thick, or unruly beard (or you want your beard to hold a specific shape throughout the day), then you’ll want to take your wedding day beard grooming a step further.

“There are plenty of shaping products that will keep even the thickest and strongest beards nice and straight,” says Welfel. “If you’re looking for an easy shape and aren’t worried about the exact look, a balm will get the job done. Waxes will achieve a more intense hold—perfect for if the beard is supposed to have a certain ‘look’ other than just sitting on the groom’s face.”

![INLINE JuliaKinnunenPhotography 1080x720 Melissa&Nic (1)](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7l4Js14ebJUFKAqFRvHIcW/16aa971e75d738c7662c0494f71f0ded/INLINE_JuliaKinnunenPhotography_1080x720_Melissa_Nic__1_.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Julia Kinnunen Photography

### How To Deal With Ingrown Hairs
Ingrown hairs can throw a serious wrench into your pre-wedding skin care and beard grooming routine—and make your face look bumpy and red on your big day. That’s why it’s so important to take the proper steps to prevent ingrown hairs before they happen.

“Exfoliation is key to helping the skin turnover and gets rid of dead skin cells before you shave,” Acord says. “Be sure to use beard oil to help the razor glide smoothly across the skin and to mitigate pulling of the skin.” He recommends an electric razor for areas prone to ingrowns.

#### Do not pick.
If you do find yourself dealing with an ingrown hair, resist the urge to pick at it. “The temptation to hack at an ingrown hair until the blemish is gone needs to be ignored because giving in only makes the trouble spot worse,” Welfel says. “Make sure to carefully pluck or pull ingrown hairs out with tweezers or something similar, without making too much of a mess out of your chin, neck, [or other areas of the face].”

Also, avoid shaving too close to your wedding day. That way, if you do find yourself with a stubborn ingrown hair, you have the time and space to deal with it before the wedding.

### Wedding Beard Grooming Tips
Here are a few additional expert tips to make sure your [wedding day](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-grooms-attire) beard grooming is on point:

#### Use the right tools and techniques.
Every beard is different—and every beard needs different tools and techniques to look its best. “Depending on the length of your beard, you’ll need the right tools to trim, shape, and clean it up,” Acord says.

“If your beard is on the long side, cut it back a bit with sheers before using a trimmer with attachments to get the shape just right. If your beard is short-to-medium in length, a trimmer with attachments will do the job just right. And if you are rocking the stubble, let this grow in for a week or so, and then clean up the edges so it looks fresh.”

#### If you’re in that awkward “growing out” phase, make sure to nourish your beard…
If you’re growing out your beard for the wedding, use nourishing products that will help foster beard growth. “When you’re in that middle area, where it’s not stubble anymore but you’re not a mountain man either, that would be a good time to introduce oils or sprays for beard nutrition,” Welfel says.

#### ...And keep itching at bay.
That growing out phase is often an itchy one—so make sure you have the right products on hand to keep all that under-beard itching at bay. “Beard cream is also a great way to combat that itchy phase that most guys face at this time,” Welfel says.

Get that beard your partner loves so much right. Talk to your barber early on to decide the best look and care plan for your wedding day beard.

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Let’s get this out of the way: You’re going to [sweat on your wedding day](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/diy-wedding-makeup-tips). It’s true. Whether you’re hosting an outdoor ceremony in the middle of August or you’re throwing the winter wonderland wedding of the year, expect to feel that familiar dampness at some point. You can thank the heat and humidity or your general nerves and anxious excitement. You’re *getting married after all*—your stress receptors will be firing.

So, don’t just expect sweat, plan for it. You can take preventative steps so it doesn’t get the best of you on your big day. Here’s how to keep your cool from head to toe and fight sweat on your wedding day.

## Head/Hair
Head and scalp sweat is pretty common, especially if you’re getting married outdoors with the sun beaming down. Keep your hair in check and your forehead matted with a few easy tricks.
 
### Brides
- Getting married outside on a warmer day, [consider an up-do](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/diy-wedding-hair-tips) that keeps your hair off the nape of your neck. 
- If you want to wear your hair down, go for a natural, beach-wave style that’s light on product. These can make hair appear slick if you start to sweat. 
- Finish any style—up or down—with an extra-strong hold hairspray designed to withstand sweat and humidity.
 
### Grooms
- If you don’t have hair (or much of it) and your head tends to sweat, after showering, apply a small amount of baby or talcum powder to your scalp and rub it in. 
- Swipe a clear antiperspirant directly on your scalp and forehead, especially along the hairline. This may seem odd—but trust us. It’s effective and will get you to the altar sweat-free. 
- For guys with hair that tends to sweat, lightly apply a pomade, wax, or other product that’s are water-resistant. 
 
## Face
We’re guessing melting makeup and glistening (potentially dripping) foreheads are probably not the look you’re hoping to achieve. Well, maybe you are. If not, though, here’s how to keep that face dry and in place.
 
### Brides 
- Apply (or ask your [wedding makeup artist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/9-great-bridal-makeup-tips-by-charlottesville-makeup-artist) to apply) an oil-free primer on everything, including your lips and eyelids. This will stop makeup from sliding off if you start to sweat. 
- Use all waterproof makeup, if possible, too. 
- Finish your look with a setting powder or spray to hold it in place.
- Designate a wedding party member to keep oil-absorbing blotting sheets on-hand to dull any unwanted shine
- Stash a bag of backup makeup products at the reception venue, too, if you think you’ll want to reapply anything throughout the night. 

### Grooms
- Clear deodorant swiped along the hairline should help keep your forehead dry. 
- Stash a small moister-absorbing microfiber towel in a pocket to dab away sweat, too. It will prove more effective than a standard cloth handkerchief.  
 
## Underarms
Ideally, pit stains aren’t part of your wedding day look. Here’s how to stay sweat-free in your armpit region, even as you dance the night away.  

### Brides
- Be careful with deodorant around your dress—it can stain!
- Apply an aluminum-free, unscented formula (look for "invisible dry" on the label).
- Better yet, pick out an antiperspirant spray that will actually absorb sweat versus just stopping odor. 

### Grooms
- Choose a breathable tux or button-down shirt in a light material such as cotton or bamboo, if possible. 
- If you’re worried about sweating through your shirt, consider an undershirt that will help sop up sweat. We recommend a thin, tight (think muscle-tight) V-neck that won’t show or distract from your look. 
- Apply extra-strength antiperspirant (go clinical-grade, if necessary.) Allow it to dry completely before dressing. 

## Breasts
The struggle is real. You spent so much time selecting the perfect wedding outfit, don’t let slippery boob sweat ruin your moment.
 
- Apply a bit of aluminum-free deodorant or deodorant spray directly on the underside of your girls. Let it dry completely while you get ready. 
- If you plan ahead, you can order a [special cream](https://www.freshballs.ca/product/1/fresh-breasts) designed to keep your girls chafe-free and dry. (Apply it well in advance of when you put your dress on to let it set.) 
- Keep baby wipes close by at the reception if you want to freshen up quickly in the bathroom *(with the help of a good girl friend!)*.

## Upper Body/Back
Back sweat happens, especially if you are out in the sun all day taking photos. It’s easy enough to prevent, though. 

### Brides
- Spray antiperspirant on your back as a preventative measure, but make sure it’s aluminum-free (remember: “invisible dry”) so it doesn’t leave a yellow stain. 
- Apply it the night before your wedding day and you’ll be set.

### Grooms
- Spray antiperspirant directly on your back. Allow it to dry for a few minutes before putting any clothing on. 
- Stash an extra undershirt at the reception venue, too. Swap out your ceremony undershirt for the fresh one ahead of the party.

## Hands and Feet
Clammy hands are understandable but definitely uncomfortable. And sweaty feet can lead to nasty blisters that leave you limping around your reception. 

### Hands 
- Keep a travel-sized hand sanitizer nearby—it’ll dry out those wet palms.
- In a pinch, skip out to the bathroom and press down your palm onto a few sheets of toilet paper, which will act as a blotting device to soak up that excess sweat.

### Brides
- Prevent slipping around in your heels by spraying the insoles with hairspray before sliding your foot in. Keep a travel-sized hairspray nearby, too, for touch-ups.
- Sprinkle talcum powder directly into your shoes to help absorb any residual moisture before reapplying hairspray.

### Grooms 
- Wear socks made of a breathable, cotton material (and gift the same to your wedding party). 
- After breaking in your shoes, spray them with an antiperspirant or sprinkle them with talcum powder a few days ahead of the ceremony. Rub any excess in to avoid clumping.

Remember, sweat is your body’s way of naturally cooling you down, so if you start feeling warm or dehydrated, your first defense is to drink a lot of water. If you are going to be drinking alcohol throughout the day, drink even more water. Those [signature cocktails](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/choosing-signature-wedding-cocktail) can be dehydrating, after all. 

How to Fight Sweat On Your Wedding Day

Whether you’re enjoying a shorter than average engagement, you’re suddenly eloping, or something happened to your [chosen wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what's-your-wedding-dress-style) (it’s ruined, it’s not arriving on time, [it doesn’t fit after alterations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-dress-doesnt-fit-after-alterations), whatever!), you need a new dress ASAP.

First of all, as with all wedding planning turns of event, stay calm. There is a solution. There are plenty of ways to secure a wedding dress quickly in a time crunch. If you find yourself looking for a last-minute gown, here are some options. 

## Shop for your wedding dress online.
Ah, the Internet. Just like you can order makeup and groceries online, you can shop for new and gently used wedding dresses, too. 

- __Buy new.__ [Online retailers like Zola](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/bridal-dresses-gowns) and many others stock [wedding dress collections in a variety of sizes and styles](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/bridal-dresses-gowns)—typically at lower price points. Many of these online shops offer express shipping, meaning you can count on getting your outfit in time for your big day. 
- __Look for pre-owned.__ There are also websites dedicated to reselling previously loved wedding dresses. Sites like Preowned Wedding Dresses and Nearly Newlywed carry a selection of designers and sell gently worn or new gowns up to 60% off retail price. Sometimes, you’ll get lucky and score a dress with its original tags still attached for a fraction of its original cost. 
- __Use social media.__ You likely turn to social media for wedding advice and inspiration, so why not use it to find a dress? Many brides will resell their dresses on [Facebook wedding groups](https://www.facebook.com/groups/zolacommunity/?ref=bookmarks) or through Facebook Marketplace, meaning you can see how the gown looks at a real wedding and ask the seller any questions you may have. If a seller lives nearby, ask to try on the dress first. 
- __Borrow your dress.__ If you don’t want to commit to an online purchase or aren’t sure about the fit, consider renting a wedding dress. Sites like Rent the Runway charge a relatively affordable fee to borrow a wedding dress for a set period of time, allowing you to rent a few options to try on at home. Plus, rental sites typically feature customer photos and reviews so you can see what other people thought of the dress. The best part? Rental dresses often ship within a few days. 

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*Photo Credit* // Haleigh Nicole Photography

## Visit vintage or consignment stores.
If you want a one-of-a-kind dress, shop vintage. Search online for local vintage dress shops in your area, or see what an online retailer’s shipping policies are. 

While vintage gowns are great because they’re unique, keep in mind that sizing varies depending on when the dress was made. A silhouette from the 1950s, for example, may fit very differently than a gown from the 1990s. You also want to [consider any alterations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-dress-alterations) or handy work a vintage gown may need and factor that into your timeline. 

Consignment stores are great places for scoring designer deals—and last-minute wedding dresses. Upscale resale boutiques often accept wedding dresses in mint condition and sell them at a discounted price. Because consignment stores’ stock changes regularly, call ahead to see what they have in at the moment. It will save you time from jetting around town. 

## Search sample sales or off-the-rack wedding dresses.
If you’re not an online shopper and want to try on a wedding dress in-person, think about heading to a retailer. Many big box stores like Nordstorm and Macy’s carry off-the-rack wedding dresses, and brands like Anthropologie even have in-house wedding lines. 

Even if a store doesn’t stock wedding dresses per se, a white number can often be styled into a wedding dress with some accessories that will give you that desired bridal look. 

Don’t pass by bridal boutiques either. While it’s true that you need time for a custom-ordered gown, many bridal stores have sample dresses for sale, and you can often score a great deal on them. Bridal designers also often exhibit at wedding shows or host pop-up events where they sell off-the-floor models. Scan online for wedding shows in your area. 

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*Photo Credit* // Brett Brooner

## Keep an open mind.
If you’re shopping for a last-minute wedding dress you’ll need to be a bit [flexible when it comes to styles](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what's-your-wedding-dress-style). While you should never buy something you don’t like or feel comfortable in, you may need to be open to a design or silhouette you previously didn’t consider. 

If you end up [buying a dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tips-wedding-dress-shopping) that wasn’t what you originally pictured you’d wear on your big day, keep in mind that your wedding dress is only one part of your bridal look: consider your shoes, hair, makeup and accessories. All of these elements can help bring out your personality.

Because no matter if you buy your wedding dress a year or a week in advance, the important thing is you’re marrying your best friend—and your happiness will look fantastic on you. 

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Weddings are emotional, period. Even those who don’t tend to tear up at every heart-gripping commercial or sentimental moment find themselves crying even a little on their wedding day. So your [wedding makeup](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/test-your-wedding-makeup) should be prepared. Light criers can usually get by with an eye dab here and there without too much damage to their look. For those among us who do cry regularly—happy tears and sad tears—it’s a whole other story. 

If your type of tear up lends itself to less of a single water bead running down your face and more of full-on ugly cry [a la Kim Kardashian](https://www.usmagazine.com/entertainment/news/top-8-reality-tv-ugly-cries-kim-kardashian-and-more/), read on. We talked to professional wedding makeup artists and got their best tips on how to cry-proof your wedding makeup. Let the good tears roll! 

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*Photo Credit* // L. Hewitt Photography

## Application
Wedding makeup that can stand a few rounds of tears starts with a strong base and application with the proper products.

### Use cream-based products.
When it comes to foundation, blush, contour, and shadows, cream-based is the way to go. “Tears can roll right over them, as opposed to powder-based products,” says [Maryelle O’Rourke of Maryelle Artistry](https://www.maryelleartistry.com/), a Boston based team of wedding and celebrity makeup artists. “Powder doesn’t work as well, because it tends to run off and show tear marks. Cream-based products create a smooth surface and are more binding onto [the base].” 

It comes down to consistency. Powders, which are dry, sit on the surface of your skin (and each other). Creams, on the other hand, blend and buff right in.

Professional [makeup artist Elena Miglino](https://www.elenamiglinomakeup.com/) says to consider a liquid eyeliner versus a pencil liner. “Because a pencil is softer, it’s forgiving if you need to smudge. A liquid liner is there to stay. It’s so hard to blend out a powder blush once it’s been placed, but again, cream is forgiving,” she says.

### Choose the right type of lashes for you.
For some, their wedding day is the first (and maybe last) time they’ll apply fake lashes to enhance their look. With so many options—strips, individuals, extensions, lash lifts—it’s not always easy to determine what’s your best option. In fact, O’Rourke and Miglino have differing favorites. Let’s break both down.

- __Strip Lashes:__ “I find that strip lashes work better,” O’Rourke says. “You’re putting glue on from one end of the strip to the other (hopefully, with waterproof glue). So, you have a long strip that’s supporting itself to stay on.” If you’re worried about the lash strip corners lifting after hours of wear, she adds that the strip should maintain the shape that your makeup artist formed. So, if corners start to rise, all you need to do is add a little more glue and press it down. This method of re-application is easier than attempting to reapply individual lashes.

- __Individual Lashes:__ Lash strips lifting is the exact reason Miglino prefers individuals. “They won’t take flight during an emotional ceremony. Many makeup artists use a latex-based glue, which isn’t waterproof,” she says. “Individuals definitely give you a little more wiggle room if you’re a crier. If you lose one or two throughout the day, it’s not a big deal.”

Basically, your lashes come down to your preference. Strip lashes are ideal if you’ve used them before and feel comfortable gluing one back down if necessary. On the other hand, individuals are great if you’re confident that you won’t lose too many. In either case, don’t forget a good waterproof mascara! If neither option eases your worries, take Miglino’s advice and consider getting lash extensions or a lash lift.

## During The Ceremony
The wedding ceremony is where most of the crying tends to happen. Save your face by cleaning up your emotional outpour the right way.

### Catch tears before they fall.
The easiest way to avoid streaks is by preventing tears from making contact with your makeup in the first place. Luckily, there’s an easy way to catch them without [removing or smearing any](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/9-great-bridal-makeup-tips-by-charlottesville-makeup-artist). “If you start to tear up, grab a tissue, wrap it around your index finger, and hold it right underneath your lash line to catch tears before they start rolling,” O’Rourke says. 

Just remember to dab gently. If you’re wearing mascara on your bottom lashes, do your best to avoid pressing them down onto your skin. “If for some reason a tear gets away, just pat it dry. Never rub or wipe it,” O’Rourke adds.

### Avoid rubbing around the eyes.
It probably goes without saying but it’s paramount that you avoid rubbing around your eyes. This may seem like common sense, but it’s something you might forget amid an emotional bout of tears. “Never rub your eyes, always pat dry,” O’Rourke says. “It’s amazing that people do it and don’t realize it!” Rubbing is a natural reaction to feeling tears build, but can smear your makeup and make it difficult to touch-up.

Keep this comparison of O’Rourke’s in mind: “When you have makeup on, your face is like a piece of artwork. Something that you’d hang on the wall in your house. You would never take a tissue and rub it if you spilled something on it. You would dab it, you’d be so gentle.”

If tears begin to gather beneath your eyes, use the previous tip to try and catch them. If a few escape you (it happens), gently dab your cheeks—or let them fall and touch up once the ceremony is over.

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*Photo Credit* // Fat Chix Inc.

## How to Touch Up Wedding Makeup After Crying
We’re big proponents of letting it out. So, if some (or many) tears escaped, you may need a touch-up or even a reapplication. 

### Re-blend your makeup.
One of the advantages of using cream-based products is that they’re incredibly easy to blend back in. “A beauty blender will be your best friend on the day of your wedding,” Miglino says. “It helps to blend and press the product back into the skin and aid in eliminating any streaks. A powder brush, on the other hand, might pick up some wetness and end up streaking you in random places.” Beauty sponges are meant to mimic your skin texture, which helps to create an even blend—even after tearing up.

### Keep some key items on hand.
A large part of touching up is, well, having necessary items on hand to touch-up. Here are some major players you’ll definitely want on hand for quick and efficient reapplying. Ask your maid of honor, best man, mother, or other trusted confidant to keep a pouch filled with these products close by.

- __Beauty Blender:__ For reasons stated above.
- __Concealer:__ O’Rourke highly suggests carrying a concealer, since it can be used anywhere on the face. If a tear happens to slip past you and leaves a streak, you can use a concealer to quickly cover it right up. Not to mention, they’re typically much smaller than foundation bottles, so they’re easy to toss into a small purse.
- __Blotting Papers:__ Both Miglino and O’Rourke agree that these oil-absorbing sheets are a must-have. Use them instead of reapplying setting powder. When you do the latter, it tends to cake up with each application.
- __Lipstick:__ Your first application of lipstick will probably involve several products—an exfoliant, hydrating balm, lipstick or gloss, and liner. Luckily, you only need one of these things on hand for the rest of your wedding. “When first applying, use a lip brush. It fills in all the fine lines and crevices that we barely notice. Once you’ve done that, you can just reapply with the tube of lipstick and it stays on much longer,” O’Rourke says. 
- __Setting Spray:__ Using a setting spray after your makeup is first done is a must, O’Rourke tells us. (“They just seal the deal.”) It’s also beneficial, though, to have a mini version in your bag to top off touch-ups. “It can be a pain to carry, but if you can get a small one, use it after each touch-up,” she adds. 

Follow these professional makeup tips to keep your [wedding makeup](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-hair-and-makeup-costs) intact (or touch it up) after crying—as much as you want for as long as you want.


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A Guide to Wedding Rings

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9 Tips for Great Bridal Makeup From a Makeup Artist  

How to Ugly Cry and Keep Your Makeup Intact

Maybe you’ve known what [style of wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what's-your-wedding-dress-style) you’ve wanted since you were a child, or maybe you serendipitously stumbled upon The One. Either way, you said yes to the dress and now you’re on cloud nine. Suddenly, there’s a glitch: At some point after the fact, you or your parents aren’t in love with your choice. Don’t fret. We know this can feel disappointing and overwhelming, but you have options. Read on to discover why it is you (or your parents) might no longer adore your dress. Plus, what can be done about it. 

## I Don’t Love My Wedding Dress, Now What?
A-line, ball gown, [simple](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/simple-wedding-dresses-that-are-elegant-and-timeless), strapless, long sleeves—dress regret can happen regardless of the beautiful dress your originally choose for your wedding day. What’s more, there are a plethora of reasons why you might be feeling this way about your choice, even if you don’t realize it initially. Comparisons to other dresses on social media, snide comments made by a bridesmaid or member of the bridal party, feeling money conscious, or just no longer being a fan of how your wedding dress looks can all cause you to fall out of love with it.

### Avoid panicking.
We’re aware that this is much easier said than done. On top of regret and disappointment, you may be feeling anxious, embarrassed, afraid to tell your loved ones, or dreadfully backed into a corner. First thing: Know that what you’re feeling, regardless of the reason, is justified and likely not an overreaction. Now, take a nice, steady deep breath and try to avoid panicking or falling into a spiral. While all hope may seem lost, it isn’t. In most cases, you have options and actions that you can take to repair the situation (more on that below). Even in the rare case that you don’t, you need to remind yourself that your dress isn’t all bad. Chances are, you ended up with it at this point for a reason. It made it through your appointment, hopefully because of a fondness you had for it. Breathe slowly one more time and let’s look at some things you can do next.

### Know your options.
As soon as you can, research your options. In most cases, there’s at least one thing (if not two or three) that you can do. Be calm, be quick, be thorough, and seek out some of the following.

- __A return policy__. If you purchased your wedding dress from a [bridal shop or online retailer](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-to-find-your-perfect-wedding-dress), there’s a high likelihood that you can get a full or partial refund. Read through your contract, the brand’s or designer’s website, or reach out via phone call or email for more specific information as to what you can do.

- __Resale websites__. With a little online searching, you can find several websites that allow people to resell their used and brand new wedding dresses. Keep an eye out for Stillwhite, Nearly Newlywed, PreOwned Wedding Dresses, and even Tradesy, just to name a few.

- __Advice online__. Your situation might feel unique, but it’s likely that someone else—if not several people—out there have also experienced this. Type your situation into a search engine, followed by “advice” or “reddit” (a form of discussion social media) to seek out others who’ve been through this, as well as their next steps.

### Act fast.
One reason you need to remain calm is so that you don’t waste too much time. Take a little bit to settle your anxieties and look into your options, but try not to sit in your sorrows too long. Doing so can affect the options you have going forward (from return policies to options for a different dress). If possible, enlist a close friend or family member to help you look into what you can do and contact your seller.

### Remind yourself of the bigger picture.
We know that this is important to you and your overall wedding day. That said, sometimes it helps to remind yourself of what this is: A dress. An at-least-decent dress, if it lead you to say yes to the dress and all. Regardless of what you wear, your partner will be honored to walk down the aisle with you—and your loved ones will be honored to witness it. You will look stunning, because you’ll be happy. Remind yourself that this is still something major to celebrate, bumps along the way and all.

## My Parents Don’t Love My Wedding Gown, Now What?
Your parents aren’t into your wedding dress. In fact, they hate it. For many of us, our [parents’ approval](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-should-i-invite-wedding-dress-shopping) is important during the wedding planning process. But that’s not happening here—now, what?

## Figure out why your parents don’t love your wedding dress. 
Take a pause and let’s think about the reason why your parents aren’t into your wedding dress. Defining the reason behind the disapproval is the first step to making everyone happy (or at least as happy as you can make everyone).

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*Photo Credit* // Kristen Giles Photography

### Your parents are more conservative.
For many brides and their parents, the divergence in wedding dress choices often has to do with style choices. Some parents might have something more traditional and conservative in mind and can be a little shell shocked if you end up picking something that shows more skin or has a more modern silhouette.

There may also be other specific reasons they prefer a more conservative appearance. For example, if your parents don’t approve of your tattoos to begin with, then they might have also wanted something that covered up your ink. 

### Your parents want you to wear a family dress. 
While picking out your own dress to suit your personal taste was always your dream, maybe your parents want you to don your grandmother’s wedding dress or [traditional cultural](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/multicultural-wedding) attire on your big day. 

### The dress is too expensive.
To you, your perfect dream dress is a must-have, no matter the cost. Maybe you even knew how much you’d want to spend going into it. To your parents, the price tag just isn’t justified. Despite how much you personally love it, sometimes your parents just won’t think it’s worth throwing down that much on your dress.

## Stand your ground.

We’re not saying to outright defy your parents but since it is your wedding day, you may have a very valid reason to stick to your guns on what you’re wearing. Here’s when to stand firm on your wedding dress choice. 

### Give and take.
If this isn’t the only part of the wedding your parents haven’t approved of—i.e. your parents want you to have the ceremony in a church while you’d rather, well, not—then this might be an opportune moment for a good ol’ fashioned trade-off. 

Offer to compromise on one part of the wedding that your parents have a strong opinion on if you can wear the dress you want in return. It’s about deciding what’s worth the fight and whats, frankly, not. 

### Pay out of your pocket.
If you’ve [budgeted for your dream dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-set-your-wedding-budget) and are going to pay for its entirety then you should try your best to convince your parents that this is the dress you should wear. Your case is even stronger if you’re paying for most of the wedding—if not all of it—on your own as well. 

### Your parents are overdoing it.
If your parents have been overbearing and nitpicky for the entire wedding planning process then it might be fair to stand firm on your wedding dress choice. It could be that it’s not just about the dress itself but your parents could have an entire vision of your own wedding that differs from your own. 

If this is the case then it might be too difficult to appease them in every which way and you should (calmly!) advocate for the dress you’re madly in love with—and stick with it. 

## Or decide to keep the peace.
Sometimes your wedding dress style is not the hill you want to die on, especially if your parents are chipping in for the wedding—or maybe even buying the entire dress.

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*Photo Credit* // Sarah Cramer Shields

### They want you to wear a family dress.
Does your family have a tradition of passing down a wedding dress or other family heirloom on someone’s wedding day? Even though your style may be the complete opposite of your great grandma’s own wedding dress, it could be worth compromising in order to keep the tradition alive. Talk to your parents about this to see if you could alter the dress or have two dresses for your wedding.

### You’re splitting the cost.
If your parents are being generous and paying for a [big chunk of your wedding or wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-should-pay-for-wedding) and are really not feeling your dress then you might have to bend a little on this. 

Sit your parents down to hear out their concerns with your dress choice and reevaluate from there. (Don’t forget to express gratitude and say thank you for their financial support during this conversation.)

### You were impulsive.
We know, we know, moms know best, right? Sometimes they really do. It could be that you’re caught up in the rush of wedding dress shopping and said yes a little too soon. Try to take a breath, listen to your parents and hold off on purchasing the dress for a little bit to make sure it’s what you really want and that you’re not just being impulsive. We get it though, wedding dress shopping can be stressful AF.

Your [wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tips-wedding-dress-shopping) is undeniably a big part of your wedding day. That said, it’s important that you’re feeling happy, comfortable, and beautiful in your outfit. If you’ve found yourself in a situation where you or your parents are no longer in love with your [first choice](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/choosing-your-wedding-dress), that’s okay. At the end of the day, you have options and steps that you can take to make things better. Take some time (but not too much), have any necessary conversations, and check out the options available to you.

My Parents (and I) Hate My Wedding Dress. What Do I Do?

By now, you’ve been wedding planning for awhile. The venue is picked, the menu is set, and you hit the bridal boutiques for [wedding dress shopping](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-should-i-invite-wedding-dress-shopping), [purchased that perfect wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-soon-should-i-buy-my-wedding-dress), and scheduled alterations. Now, it’s time to try the dress on post-alterations and … wait, was it always bunching like that? Isn’t it a little too long? And now the buttons won’t close either? Is this even the right dress size?!

Basically, your wedding gown doesn’t fit after alterations.

Deep breath! While it’s understandably stressful, it’s also actually a pretty common issue. Fortunately, it’s also a fixable problem. The solution, however, will depend on your timeline. Let’s break it down. 

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*Photo Credit* // NST Pictures

## If you have at least two months: 
Relax and go back to your seamstress to request more alterations to get the perfect fit. Here’s what to ask for: 

- __Is your dress two small?__ Two months is plenty of time to let the seams out, says Leah Weinberg, wedding planner and founder of [Color Pop Events](https://www.colorpopevents.com/). “There’s extra fabric intentionally built into the seams for this exact purpose,” she explains. Zipper just won’t budge? Ask your tailor to take it out and sew in a corset back, which will give you more breathing room (literally). 
- __Are you swimming in fabric when you zip it up?__ Simply have the seamstress take it in a little more. 
- __Is the dress shorter than you remember?__ Many dresses come with extra fabric sewn into the hem that can then be let down, Weinberg says. 

Now is the time to be polite but firm. “If you've had one or two alterations appointments and still don't love how the dress feels on you, then keep at the alterations person,” Weinberg says. “There should still be a few weeks left to get everything fitting perfectly.”

Wedding planner Irene St. Onge, founder of [Soiree Special Events](http://www.soireespecialevents.com/), agrees. “Speak up and don’t take no for an answer,” she says. “Sometimes we are afraid to be our own advocate … but this is your dress and wedding day and it should be perfect.”

## If you have one month: 
You still have a little wiggle room. At this point, if you’re not happy with your dress, St. Onge advises finding a new seamstress, stat. Not sure where to turn? “Enlist all the help you can get–ask friends, family, Facebook groups, coworkers,” she says. “You would be amazed at the community out there who will want to help a bride in need.”

## If you’re less than two weeks away:
It’s crunch time–but the pros still have some tricks up their sleeve. If your dress is too long: Try taller shoes, Weinberg suggests. If that’s not an option, duct tape can work miracles to “shorten” the hem, she adds. Don’t try this one at home if your dress is extremely delicate or sheer (fashion tape may be a better option in that case), but for gowns of a sturdier material, this can be a lifesaver. 

- __If your dress is too short:__ Switch to flats, Weinberg recommends. 

- __If your dress is too big:__ Safety pins will be your best friend. Weinberg recommends pinning your dress in at the armpits. “This is the least noticeable area,” she says. St. Onge also suggests packing a day-of emergency kit with a needle, thread, fashion tape, safety pins, and asking your mom, wedding planner (if you have one), sister, or anyone else who might be with you the day of to be on hand for any last-minute emergencies. Another tip: Your florist will most likely have some white ribbon on hand the day of your wedding to tie the bouquets, St. Onge says. In a pinch, the same ribbon can be used to cinch in your waist if you find that your dress is still just a little too big. 

- __If your dress is too small:__ Both Weinberg and St. Onge recommend shapewear as your best bet. “The great thing about shapewear is that, these days, it comes in all sorts of shapes, sizes, colors, and strengths so you will have plenty of options to choose from,” Weinberg adds. 

## If you are less than a week away: 
If, a few days out, you are just not happy with the fit of your dress, take another deep breath and think about how you feel. “The most important thing is that you feel your best and you feel comfortable,” Weinberg says. 

Can you walk down the aisle in your dress as is and feel okay or will you feel self-conscious and fidgety? If you know in your heart of hearts that you won’t feel good in your dress, you may want to consider going nuclear and buying something off the rack. “Sometimes you have to do whatever it takes to feel good,” Weinberg says. 

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*Photo Credit* // Andrea Bibeult

## If your dress is too tight on the day of your wedding:
Once your wedding day hits, there isn’t much you can do in terms of changing your dress (for example, adding a gusset or letting out the side seams). But if you feel like your wedding dress is a little tight as you’re getting ready to walk down the aisle, there are steps you can take, including:

- __Don’t panic__. If you try to put on your dress and immediately get the panicked thought, “my wedding dress is too small!” take a deep breath. Wedding dresses can be tricky to get on—and just because it feels a bit tight when you first get into it doesn’t mean it won’t ultimately fit. So don’t panic!

- __Ask for help__. If your wedding dress is feeling a little snug, it’s time to ask for help. Ask your bridal party or family members to help you get into the dress—ideally with one at the front of the dress, one at each side of the dress, and one at the back of the dress. Have them shimmy the dress up to your natural waist, then have them push the fabric towards the back of the dress to give as much space as possible for the person in the back to clasp the dress. (Just make sure they’re gentle; you don’t want to rip or damage your dress!) The more help you have, the easier it will be to get your wedding gown on, fit, and fastened. 

- __Try shapewear__. If your dress is feeling tight (and if you’re not already wearing it), try shapewear. The material can help your wedding dress slide on more easily—which can be the solution you need to get into a slightly too-tight dress on your wedding day. 

- __Swap your bra__. If you’re struggling to fit your wedding dress over your bust area, try swapping out your bra for something with less padding.

## Wedding Dress Alteration Tips
For many people, a wedding dress is the biggest clothing-related purchase they’ll ever make, and the alterations process can be emotional, time-consuming, expensive, and confusing. To lower the chances that you’ll find yourself wearing a dress you hate, here are a few tips to keep in mind while you’re shopping for your gown: 

- If possible, __[start shopping for your dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tips-wedding-dress-shopping) around 10-11 months out__ and make your purchase by eight to nine months out. This should give you plenty of time for alterations. “It normally takes around three or four fittings, but I’ve had brides who’ve done eight or nine,” St. Onge says. 
- Before you sign on the dotted line, ask the bridal salon if alterations are done in-house. If so, how much will they cost? If not, __can the salon recommend a couple of reputable seamstresses for you?__
- For each fitting, __try on your dress exactly as you would wear it on the big day__: the same [wedding shoes](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-choose-your-wedding-shoes), the same underwear—the same everything. This will give you a detailed idea of just how your dress will look and fit on the big day. 
- __Make sure the seamstress is the one pinning you at every fitting.__ “I find sometimes the small tweaks made at appointments get lost in translation, and I’ve had instances where the bridal salesperson doesn’t communicate to the seamstress and vice versa,” St. Onge says. 
- Lastly, remember that you’ve got a lot on your mind, and your memory is fallible. If you want something specific changed, __take pics at every fitting__. At your next fitting, you’ll remember exactly how the dress fit when it was last pinned, *and* you’ll minimize the chance of any confusion between you and the seamstress. 

## What to keep in mind during fittings
Part of getting the perfect fit on your wedding dress is knowing how to navigate the wedding dress shopping, fitting, and alteration process. Here are a few things to keep in mind during the dress shopping and fittings to ensure your dress fits exactly how you want it for your big day:

- __Choose the right dress__. Some dresses are easier to alter than others. If you’re concerned that your size or shape will change between buying your dress and your wedding day, make sure to [choose a wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what's-your-wedding-dress-style) that lends itself to easy changes and updates (for example, a dress with a lace up corset is easier to adjust than an intricately beaded mermaid gown). 

- __Talk to your seamstress__. The first time you meet with your seamstress, talk to her about your concerns. For example, if you’ve recently experienced weight loss that you’re concerned is temporary, she might suggest a certain dressmaker or encourage you to size up.

- __Recreate your wedding look at each fitting__. When you go to a fitting, you want to wear exactly what you’ll be wearing on your wedding day—including shoes, undergarments, and jewelry. That way, your seamstress can adjust your dress appropriately.

There's usually a solve for a wedding dress alteration mishap. The first step is always to breathe and then get in touch with your alterations specialist.

23 Wedding Dresses Under $1000 For Every Bridal Style

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My Wedding Dress Doesn't Fit After Alterations. What Do I Do?

Your mom likes classic A-line cuts, your best friend votes for lace, and your little sister is texting in the corner. You’re wedding dress shopping and *everyone* has a say (well, almost everyone). 

Finding the [right wedding dress](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tips-wedding-dress-shopping) is an incredibly fun—but sometimes overwhelming—process. It’s important to feel special on your big day, so it’s only natural to seek out the opinions of those who matter most. It’s not always easy to decide who should join you while you shop and who’s better left at home. Here are some things to consider as you decide who to bring [wedding dress shopping](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/wedding-shop).

## How To Decide Who To Bring 

### Put yourself first.
First things first: wedding dress shopping is about you. It’s important to only invite people who you’re close to, and who will support you no matter what dress you pick. Of course, the point of bringing your family and friends along for the experience is to hear them out. Respect their opinions, but don’t invite anyone who will bring you down, or make you feel bad about what you like. [Weddings can be stressful](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/5-effective-ways-to-fight-wedding-planning-stress) as is, so it’s important to minimize potential conflict wherever possible. 

### Think about personalities.
You also want to consider personalities. Is your cousin notoriously outspoken and hard to get along with? Does your high school best friend have amazing taste in fashion? You want a good mix of opinions, but keep it to those with opinions that inherently support you. By that we mean, invite people who know you, your partner, your style, and your personality. 

Avoid bringing people who push your buttons or easily upset you. Anyone who tends to speak just to be heard and doesn’t listen well is probably not a great pick. Think about the people in your life that will add to your shopping day, and make it more enjoyable—not less. 

### Don’t go overboard.
While there’s no magic number for how many people you should bring wedding dress shopping, it’s important to remember that some bridal stores have guest limits, so check before sending out invites. Plus, if you’re someone who gets overwhelmed by groups, consider limiting your invites to three or four people. Consider the mix of the group, too, and if they’ll get along with each other.  Experiences are defined by the kind of people you bring, not how many. 

![Alyssa Rachel Photographer InlineImage 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1UcHqSTGgd56uXGirCxusr/ffae8b87f657f8c94bb2fb5b19753212/Alyssa_Rachel_Photographer_InlineImage_1080x720.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Alyssa Rachel Photography

## Who to Invite Dress Shopping

### Immediate Family 
Traditionally, the mother of the bride, sisters, and the closest friend (or friends) are involved in the dress hunt. Your future mother-in-law can be invited, too, if you’re tight with her and you want her to take part.  

If your mom is part of your life, letting her watch you try on wedding dresses can be a really special experience. She has likely watched you grow up, and seeing you as a bride may make her emotional. Plus, she arguably knows you better than most people, so she can tell if a dress really reflects your personality. Likewise, sisters can be an invaluable sounding board, too. (They also know how to read your reactions and can act as mediators if things get a bit tense.) 

While it’s nice to have cousins included in your [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/your-wedding-planning-to-do-checklist), bringing them dress shopping isn’t always necessary. Again, if you’re super tight with them and want their level-headed advice, invite them along. Otherwise, cousins can lead to aunts and second cousins, and well, that’s a lot. If your extended family really wants to be involved in your wedding dress shopping, designate someone to send them photos so they still feel included. You can also FaceTime them in your chosen dress so they still see it before the wedding. 

### Close Friends 
Friends make shopping more enjoyable so having your besties watch you try on wedding dresses can make the day more fun. It’s also helpful to have people around your own age who appreciate current styles and trends.

If you’re a bit indecisive and have a friend who offers great advice, bring her along. Having someone help you make a decision and give objective feedback is important. On the flip side, if one of your friends is notoriously judgy and negative, she may be best at home. The important thing to remember is you’re inviting the friends who will help you make a decision and feel good about it. 

![Garden State Wedding Photo InlineImage 1080x720](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4oA7EjVnq3iuX1shBW485r/42d574c83969a14b453fea42e7a86911/Garden_State_Wedding_Photo_InlineImage_1080x720.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Garden State Wedding Studio

### Wedding Party 
Some brides may feel inclined to bring all the [members of their wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one), but too many cooks in the kitchen can mean too many varying opinions. You want people who [know your style](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what's-your-wedding-dress-style) and personality so they can ground you and give you honest answers (in a nice way, of course). If one or two people from your wedding party fit the bill, ask them to join. 

If you’re not sure who to bring or are afraid of offending someone by not inviting them, only ask your maid or man of honor. This person may turn out to be your sibling anyway, depending on your wedding party. You can also include others at different points of the process, like dress fittings, so they’re not completely left out. 

### No One
Some people prefer shopping for clothes alone, and wedding dresses are no exception. Shopping alone offers you a judgment-free space to really think about how you feel in a dress, without any outside opinions. While it’s great to have others chime in, sometimes emotions run high, and you need a solo shopping trip to determine if something is right for you. 

You can always do a preliminary shop alone, and then once you’ve narrowed it down to a few dresses, ask some family and friends to tag along. 

While you love your family and friends, you’re the one wearing your wedding dress—not them. It’s important that you choose positive people to come wedding dress shopping with you who will make the experience more enjoyable. Listen to your gut, hear loved ones out, but in the end, go with a dress that you really love. 

Who Should I Invite Wedding Dress Shopping?

Rustic weddings are all about emphasizing the natural beauty of the Earth. They typically feature muted colors, soft florals, and natural elements, such as wood, greenery, and sand. Picture whimsical woodsy venues, lakeside vows, and dancing under starlight (or market lighting that looks like starlight). These especially ethereal settings call for an equally ethereal, romantic hairstyle. If you are saying “I do” under a canopy of trees, either in your backyard or at a venue where the natural elements are the highlight, consider one of these rustic wedding hairstyles.

## Rustic Wedding Hairstyles
Similar to how the décor highlights the natural beauty of the venue, your wedding day hair should complement your natural beauty. Face framing curls, loose braids, feminine accessories, and floral blooms are a few ingredients that you can incorporate into your wedding day hairstyle to enhance your natural hair color and texture. 

### Braids 
Braids are the first thing that comes to mind when we think of rustic wedding hairstyles. They can be bohemian, country, or trend-setting in style, and they always add a unique touch to a hairdo. Here are a few standout styles to try for your wedding day.

<h4> Halo Braid </h4>
This wrap-around [wedding braid hairstyle](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-hairstyles) is totally eye-catching. The unique hairdo will keep your strands in place if you’re saying “I do” on a windy bluff or waterfront, and keep you cool if you’re getting married in the heat of the summer. This isn’t the easiest style to do on yourself, so be sure to recruit a hairstylist who is a whiz at braiding to make sure that it comes out just right. 

![Whimsical Hairstyles for a Rustic Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1Op0uzydeVkmrVbxTvqqob/2a0ed570d2a49d88a29815a951d26dc7/INLINE2_WhimsicalHairstylesforaRusticWedding___.jpg)*Photo Credit //* Unsplash

<h4> Fishtail </h4>
A fishtail braid with face-framing curls, whether you have bangs or not, is an effortless way to tie your hair back. It works best on hair that has a lot of texture or is particularly thick. This look is understated, yet elegant and will match a rustic venue that is too. 

<h4> Petite V-Shaped Braids </h4>
This cute style features two tiny braids that start at the front of your hair and are braided back forming a slight V along your part. This style requires a center part, but, beyond that, your hair can be short, long, or somewhere in between for the style to work. Add in a few curls to the rest of your hair for a soft style that is perfect for a woodsy wedding. In fact, we feel like a fantasy character would surely don this ’do.  

<h4> Long and Loose With a Twist </h4>
This braided hairstyle has multiple parts. A voluminous twist leads into a chunky French braid and is finished with a loose strand wrapped-around the ponytail. The intricate style is whimsical and fun. With all its details, it will beautifully complement a simple gown.  

### Florals 
You can never go wrong with florals in your hair for your wedding day, but they are an especially appropriate addition to rustic wedding hairstyles. Plus, you can choose the blooms that match the rest of your wedding florals so that your hairstyle will be even more in sync with your décor.

<h4> Soft Updo Hairstyle With Florals Tucked In </h4>
All that this romantic low updo needs is a few flowers tucked into the twist to make it truly whimsical. This style works well with flowers big or small, but the smaller the blooms the softer the overall look, and the more of them you can use. This bridal updo hairstyle also emphasizes the wedding dress, since none of your hair will be covering your dress.

<h4> Curly Ponytail With a Floral Comb </h4>
A long ponytail is a chic and modern way to style your hair on your wedding day, but throw in a bounty of bouncy, loose curls and a floral comb and it instantly feels softer and more classic. Curl your hair all over before gathering the ponytail at the nape of your neck and then let shorter strands fall out around your face. Add the floral comb right above the hair tie and voilá, you’ve got a wedding day ready pony. 

<h4> Wispy Bun With Florals on the Side </h4>
A messy bun will complement any rustic wedding theme with its “woke up like this” essence. Give it an elegant touch by throwing in a few curls, and add a bit of whimsy with colorful blooms of all hair clip shapes and sizes. Go heavy on the texturizing spray with this one to really make you look like you’re a part of the garden.  

<h4> A Hair Bouquet </h4> 
There’s no need to choose just a couple of blooms when you can have a whole bouquet. This updo gets a wedding day touch that is rustic and chic with an assortment of blooms that blend together beautifully. Have your florist and hairstylist tag team this style to achieve the bouquet that matches both your wedding flowers and hairstyle.

<h4> Flower Crown </h4>
Embrace your inner boho flower-child with a tried and true flower crown hair accessory. This wedding day hair is youthful, fun, and never overdone. You can make your own crown alongside your bridesmaids for a fun pre-wedding activity, or leave it to a florist for a more uniform style. Additionally, carry extra bobby pins around just in case. Bonus: This hairstyle can be done for short hair or long hair.

<h4> Baby’s Breath </h4>
If whimsy was a flower it would be baby’s breath. Incorporate this floating flower into your hairstyle with a full, floral crown or with just a few branches tucked into your braid. For an extra dose of whimsy, get inspired by runway looks, which took it one step further by choosing colorful variations of baby’s breath instead of traditional white. 

### Loose 
Simple, everyday styles, such as beachy waves and soft curls, or even wearing your hair natural, have become popular choices for wedding day hair. If you want an easy and effortless hairstyle (or one that at least looks that way) choose one of these relaxed styles for a rustic wedding. 

<h4> Windswept Waves </h4>
Don’t be afraid to embrace your natural texture on your wedding day, especially if you’re having a relaxed, outdoor ceremony. Natural waves will blow in the wind and add a candid feel to your wedding photos that is fun and whimsical.

<h4> A Simple Twist </h4>
Sometimes all you need is a simple twist to take your hairstyle from everyday to wedding day. If long beachy waves are your go-to, don’t shy away from them now. Add a twist from your part and pin it back for a perfect, rustic [beach wedding hairstyle](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-hairstyles).

<h4> A Deep Side Part </h4>
Introduce a deep side part to shake up your hairstyle for your wedding day. This simple change turns your everyday waves into a romantic wedding-ready hairdo fit for a rustic celebration.

<h4> Soft and Romantic Waves </h4>
When your venue is full of stunning nature scenes and rustic decor, sometimes a simple wedding day style stands out best. Throw in some soft, loose waves for a no-fail hairstyle that will always look great in photos and will last all night long. Plus, you’ll feel like you, which is important in order to feel comfortable and relaxed. 

### Accessorized 
The difference between a rustic wedding hairstyle and any other wedding hairstyle is, sometimes, simply the hair accessory. These accessories bring out the theme in the hairdos they adorn. From a headpiece to a hair clip, see how you will turn your dream rustic wedding style into a reality with just your look.

<h4> Simple Updo With a Soft Veil and Floral Comb </h4>
If you fall in love with an accessory that matches the style and theme of your day just right, go ahead and build your entire hairstyle around it. The floral comb is the star of this wedding hairstyle, all it needs is a simple low updo to truly shine. 

<h4> Half-Halo </h4>
A half-halo offers a delicate surprise when you turn your head. This one is dotted with beads and baby metal flowers that together create an ethereal piece that will add just the right amount of sparkle to your wedding day hairstyle. 

<h4> Messy Bun With Floral Clips </h4>
Loose topknots have the ability to look both elegant and effortless. This particular style is fitting for a rustic wedding by the undone bun alone, but add in a few dainty floral clips and it practically begs to be on a bride saying “I do” in a rustic setting, such as a garden or meadow.   

<h4> Voluminous Updo With a Comb </h4>
Achieve a glamorous rustic hairdo with a voluminous low updo that is a bit tousled. You will need a lot of hair to make this look picture-perfect, so consider adding a clip in extension just in the back that matches the hue of your hair. To help build the volume that this style requires, add big curls and a lot of texturizing spray, then form the updo in layers of hair on top of one another. Complete the look with a sparkly comb that will peek out from the updo.   

<h4> Metallic Flower Crown </h4>
Short-haired brides can have just as much fun with accessories as the rest of them. Add a metallic flower crown to a pixie cut to make it sparkle. This dainty version is just the thing for a whimsical wedding—it’s delicate, yet glamorous, and small, yet it stands out.  

These styles are meant to complement both your natural beauty and the setting of your wedding. Whether you add a whimsical accessory or throw in a beautiful braid, you’ll be ready to walk down the rustic aisle on your big day.

![Whimsical Hairstyles for a Rustic Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/MLdD3bcWM5Xr2I5sZy1sE/8d821ff169922b0cc69989117269a4c1/INLINE_WhimsicalHairstylesforaRusticWedding___.jpg)*Photo Credit //* Unsplash

For more wedding ideas, count on the wedding experts at Zola. We want you to achieve the exact wedding style you’re aiming for. See some of our other wedding hair articles below:

- [How to Wear Your Hair Down With a Veil at Your Wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-hairstyles)
- [Wedding Hair Type Tips & Tricks](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/diy-wedding-hair-tips)
- [How to Find Beauty Services For Your Wedding](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/search/wedding-hair-makeup)


Whimsical Hairstyles for a Rustic Wedding

If your left hand has suddenly become a lot more sparkly all of a sudden, then congrats—you must be the proud new owner of an engagement ring! Your excitement and pride in your new piece of jewelry (and fine jewelry it is, indeed!) is understandable, not only because it’s undoubtedly beautiful, but because a [diamond engagement ring represents a pretty huge investment](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-finance-an-engagement-ring)—both financially and emotionally. To make sure you invest back in your sparkler’s looks and longevity, it’s important to treat it carefully to prevent loss, damage, or unnecessary wear and tear.

Here are our expert tips for how to care for your engagement ring. 

## How to Properly Take Care of Your Engagement Ring
The biggest element of taking care of your engagement ring is knowing how to keep your ring clean.

Here’s a step-by-step process or cleaning your ring at home:

- __Step 1:__ Fill a small bowl with warm water and add a drop or two of mild dish soap. Stir the solution to combine.

- __Step 2:__ Take off your engagement ring and submerge it in the soapy water.

- __Step 3:__ Let the ring to rest for at least 10 minutes and up to overnight, depending on how dirty the ring is. (The water and soap solution will help to break down any oil, dirt, and grime, making it easier to clean.)

- __Step 4:__ Remove the ring from the water and soap solution.

- __Step 5:__ Scrub the ring gently with a soft-bristle toothbrush, taking care to brush both sides, the back, and the edges of the ring.

- __Step 6:__ If you think your ring needs additional cleaning, place it back in the water and soap solution and scrub off any additional dirt, grime, or debris from the surface of the ring.

- __Step 7:__ Plug the drain in your kitchen or bathroom sink.

- __Step 8:__ Rinse your engagement ring with clean water from the faucet.

- __Step 9:__ Dry your ring gently with a soft cloth that won’t snag prongs.

## Tips for Your Engagement Ring

Understanding how to effectively clean your ring is a must—but it’s not the only part of properly caring for your sparkler!

Let’s take a look at a few additional tips for taking care of your engagement ring in a way that will allow you to enjoy it for decades to come:

### 1. Get Your Engagement Ring Insured
You want your ring to last for generations, so insure it as soon as you can. You can either add a rider to your existing homeowner’s or renter’s policy, or purchase a separate policy through a jewelry insurance company. It’s a good idea to get your ring appraised every few years, as its valuation will go up over time—be sure the replacement cost outlined in your policy actually matches what your ring is worth.

### 2. Don’t Take It Off in Public
While it might be tempting to remove your new bling every time you wash your hands, try to resist the urge when you’re in a public restroom. It’s too easy to forget and orphan your rings on the sink countertop, or worse, accidentally drop them down the drain. 

### 3. Remove Your Engagement Ring Occasionally
That being said, there are [certain occasions when you should take off your engagement ring](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/where-you-can-and-cant-wear-your-engagement-ring). Everyday tasks like cooking, cleaning, or showering can expose your ring to buildup and grime (think oils, grease, lotions, and makeup) that can cloud your rock’s gleam and/or dull your metal. Activities like gardening, exercising, and swimming are also good times to safely store your ring—cold water can shrink your fingers and make it easier for your ring to accidentally slip off, while exercise or heavy lifting can put extra strain on its settings. 

### 4. Store It Safely
When you do take off that precious item, be sure to have a dedicated spot (or two) to store it for safekeeping. Keep a few of these ring storage ideas around your house in high-use areas like your kitchen, your bathroom, and your bedside table:  

- A ring dish
- A ring box with a soft interior
- A soft jewelry pouch If you do have to drop your ring on the fly, avoid ledges or counters (particularly near sinks). Opt for a drawer or a closed space that you can easily remember. 

### 5. Avoid Harsh Chemicals
Along similar lines, be sure to protect your ring from chemicals and other harsh substances (like bleach or abrasive cleaning products). Take off your ring (or wear gloves) when doing things like cleaning with abrasive cleansers, painting, or doing any other home remodel or DIY projects. Chemicals and abrasive solutions can erode metal, dull finishes, and even damage porous colored gemstones such as emerald.

### 6. Clean Your Engagement Ring Regularly
While jewelry experts recommend professionally steam cleaning your ring a few times a year (many shops will even do this for you for free, or at a small charge), you can keep your precious jewels sparkly in between pro cleanings by following the steps above.

### 7. Keep The Diamonds Protected
Diamonds may be a girl’s best friend, but they don’t always play well with others. Since they are nature’s hardest material, diamonds might scratch other gemstones or metals, so keep diamond rings stored separately from other jewelry. Yet diamonds are far from impervious, so protect them from chips or cracks by making sure you don’t knock them against other hard surfaces. 

### 8. Take Care Of Your Setting
The diamond in your ring isn’t the only thing that needs your attention. Precious metals can tarnish over time—so if you want to keep your ring looking its best, you’ll need to regularly take care of your setting as well.

How—and how often—your setting needs attention will depend on what type of precious metal your ring is crafted from. If your ring is made from yellow gold or platinum, plan to bring your ring to a jeweler every year or two to have the setting polished. If your ring is made from white gold, you’ll need to have your jeweler replace the rhodium plating about once per year.

### 9. Schedule Yearly Engagement Ring Maintenance
Jewelry experts agree that regular maintenance is as critical for the long-term health of your engagement ring as dentist’s visits are for your teeth. Take your heirloom to the jeweler once or twice a year to have it checked for loose prongs, which can lead to chipped, loose—or worse, missing—stones.

### 10.  Celebrate The Ring You Have
Your engagement ring is just that—yours. Don’t waste time comparing your rings to other people’s or wishing you had a different carat size.  Instead, celebrate your engagement ring as a unique symbol of you and your soon-to-be-spouse’s love, devotion, and commitment to each other. Remember: your partner gave you that ring because they love you and want to spend the rest of their life with you—so celebrate that every time you look down and see that ring on your finger. (And get excited thinking about the next ring that will be on your finger—your [wedding band](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-wedding-rings), courtesy of an adorable [ring bearer](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-does-the-ring-bearer-give-the-rings-to)...and your partner, of course!)


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