The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in New York

Lincoln Hill Farms is a picturesque 95-acre escape in the heart of the Finger Lakes, offering an authentic farm wedding experience that feels both natural and elevated. Just minutes from Canandaigua, this historic property features hand-built gathering spaces, sweeping countryside views, and lush gardens. Whether you’re dreaming of a sunset ceremony by the pond or a sophisticated tented reception, the farm blends rustic charm with modern amenities. With on-site glamping, farm-to-table catering, and a unique "bridal safari" tent, it is an unforgettable destination for weddings and all the celebrations in between.

Finding a wedding venue that's both beautiful and affordable can be a challenge—but your search ends here. Welcome to Stratton Creek Inn, a charming, rustic barn venue that feels like a home away from home. Located in the stunning Finger Lakes region, our venue is the perfect place to share your most special day. The beautifully detailed barn offers a unique blend of rustic charm and luxury, with ample space to host over 200 guests. It's an ideal setting for a celebration filled with laughter, dancing, and unforgettable moments with your family and friends. Turn your wedding day into a remarkable Finger Lakes experience at Stratton Creek Inn.

The Hillcrest Estate is a historic mansion with incredibly unique style, located in the countryside between Rochester and Buffalo, New York. The estate boasts over a hundred acres of pristine land and quite a few famous visitors. Two main areas are available for your wedding party at The Hillcrest Estate. The ballroom, accented with vintage decor and two massive fireplaces, antique furniture, hardwood flooring, and chandeliers, can accommodate up to 125 guests. Then, looking outside, the veranda features a tiered terrace and reflecting pool along with impeccably maintained lawn space for your ceremony and reception. The outdoor space with a tent can host roughly 200 guests. Services Offered We offer endless services including: onsite manager throughout your entire wedding weekend, bridal suite access before the event, the carriage house and carriage house lounge for the bridal or grooms party to get ready, decor rentals, catering and bar service, onsite accommodations for up to 22.

Full Moon Resort, located in the Catskill Mountains of Upstate New York, is a rustic, yet sophisticated, full-service, destination facility, featuring over 100 acres of meadows, forests, and streams, a year-round heated pool, a range of lodging options for your entire group, exquisite on-site catering and world-class event management.

Blenheim Hill Farm is a heavenly wedding destination in the Catskills Mountains. Our capacity is from 70-200 guests. We grow the food and cook it for you in ​our ​own kitchen. You don't have to worry about outside catering, rentals, or even a planner. Our in-house team helps you every step of the way, and everything is included. Our historic farmhouses ​ ​are gorgeously appointed sanctuaries for you and your family, sleeping up to 40 guests. With over 15 years in farm-to-table dining and destination weddings, we are committed to hosting your best-day-ever with extraordinary attention to detail, making it a very personal experience.

Located just south of the Catskill Mountains where the Esopus Creek meets the Hudson River and 100 miles North of NYC, Diamond Mills in beautiful Saugerties NY is one of the most flexible, modern and beautiful facilities in all of the Hudson Valley. Whether you’re looking to host an elegant wedding reception in our traditional Grand Ballroom, or have cozy gathering in mind, Diamond Mills has the innate ability to tailor our venues to your unique style. With 30 boutique hotel rooms and a full-service restaurant on-site, we are the perfect destination to celebrate all weekend long in Upstate, New York. Our Event Professionals understand and truly appreciate the importance of your event and work with you each step of the way throughout your planning process. From start to finish, we customize and coordinate each little detail to ensure you the best day ever on your wedding day!

Vanderbilt Lakeside offers thoughtfully curated stays and events in a welcoming gathering space, with custom in-house food and bar packages. Charming, versatile, and ideal for group getaways, retreats, and celebrations of all sizes—from intimate dinner parties, to large scale gatherings and bespoke weddings. ​ The space itself is a newly redesigned, large (6000 SF) house. It was originally built in the 1800s. The outdoor areas can also be incorporated for your event--our deck and yard are completely open-air; you would be welcome to work with a third-party rental company to have a tent set up, if of interest. Including the outdoor areas, we have the following approximate Capacity for Events: *Seated Dinner with a Ceremony: 100 guests *Seated Dinner without a Ceremony (or with a ceremony that has fewer guests in attendance): 130 *Cocktail Party with or without a Ceremony: up to 150 guests

Imagine a collection of historic inns, restored to luxury, with beautiful balconies and porches overlooking pristine Cayuga Lake. Picture sweeping lawns that roll down to the water’s edge, where the sun sets each night in a riot of golden hues. Add exquisite artwork, from-scratch meals, and all of the on-site assistance you never knew you needed. Visit and see why we’ve been hailed by BRIDES as the “perfect place for a weekend wedding” and by Country Living as “America’s best-kept secret.”

Brookledge is a 60 acre, magical oasis set in the rolling hills of Saratoga, NY. We offer a serene space for weddings and private events, as well as cabins and glamping tents for rent. Brookledge is for the nature loving couple who wants to get married amidst the elements - think running streams, moody woods, sunshine, and crackling brooks. Located only 10 miles from Saratoga Springs, couples choose Brookledge for their weddings based on the location, privacy, and on-site lodging in a beautiful and serene setting.

As seen on HGTV's Frozen in Design, The Mod House is a wedding venue located 90 minutes from Manhattan in Ellenville, New York. Celebrate your big day at a luxurious midcentury modern retreat in the Catskill Mountains with a secret speakeasy inside it. The 4200-square-foot Mod House is an architectural gem built in 1959 by a follower of the renowned architect Frank Lloyd Wright. The open-plan layout and floor-to-ceiling windows connect the spacious interior to the natural world outside. You can tie the knot on the lawn with a lush forested backdrop. After the ceremony, revel with your guests in Love, Velma, an underground speakeasy and dance club within the venue. The speakeasy comes fully equipped with a bar, projector, stage, and lights. Love, Velma is wheelchair accessible and can host up to 100 guests, with parking available for up to 40 cars. Four bedrooms are available if you prefer to stay on-site on the wedding night. A large open kitchen can accommodate caterers.

Nestled in the heart of the Hudson Valley, Kismet House was brought to life as the perfect venue for your dream wedding and next event. With housing for 24 onsite it's an amazing local destination wedding weekend. The Kismet property spans 62 acres, anchored around our centerpiece, an original classic Red Barn. Surrounded by acres of apple orchards, a secretly nestled pond amidst the trees, meandering walking trails. — Kismet House is a memorable and escape close enough to find a wooded paradise less than two hours from New York City.

A Stunning Venue With Everything On-Site Tailwater Lodge offers well-appointed accommodations, a full-service spa, award-winning dining, and beautiful event spaces—perfect for weddings year-round. Say “I do” at The Barn at Tailwater Lodge, a rustic-yet-refined venue nestled along the Salmon River. Host your entire weekend with rehearsal dinners, welcome receptions, and farewell brunches all on-site. Enjoy upscale rooms, outdoor activities, and spa treatments without ever leaving the property. With a dedicated wedding specialist to guide you and customizable packages tailored to your vision, every detail is handled with care. Contact us today to start planning your unforgettable celebration!

Visit our Fifth Annual Wedding Expo Sunday, March 29th—no need to be getting married at Windham Manor to attend. Celebrate in Catskills luxury. Your vision, our venue, creating a beautiful, stress-free celebration in the heart of the Catskill Mountains. Rent Windham Manor for your wedding weekend and the possibilities are endless. Our events team keeps everything running smoothly, provides a list of preferred vendors, and creates a personalized package. Pricing is included in our Zola photo gallery. On 45 private acres with sweeping Catskill Mountain views, Windham Manor offers complete privacy for unforgettable celebrations. The House, our Victorian mansion, has 12 guest suites and accommodates 28+ guests—perfect for wedding parties, rehearsal dinners, farewell breakfasts, and after-parties. The Barn, built in 2019, hosts 300+ guests. The Lawn overlooks the mountains and pond. The Enchanted Forest features benches, a brook, and towering pines.

✨ Planning Your Perfect Event? We've Got You! ✨ Looking for a seamless, no-stress vibe for your ceremony? We’re all about making it easy—ceremonies are on the house! 🎉 Keep the party going with music until 11 pm (yep, gotta respect those town rules) and wrap up your event on time, but don’t worry—we’ve got after-party options in Hudson or Rhinebeck! 🌃 Bars stay open ‘til 3 am, and food’s served ‘til 1 am, so you can keep the energy high. 🍕🍸 Bonus: Get rehearsal time the day before AND clean-up time the morning after. More time to make it perfect, less stress on the big day. ✨ We don’t do catering, but no sweat—we’ve got a lineup of awesome vendors we recommend. Plus, we require a wedding coordinator (because organization = peace of mind) and wedding insurance to keep things covered. ✅ Let’s make your event one for the books! 📖

View our weekend wedding package pricing on our website. Wedding weekends at The Maples Estate typically begin around $100,000, with your overall investment shaped by your guest count, design vision, and the experience you want to create. A Wedding Weekend Built Around You The Maples Estate is a private estate wedding venue in Upstate New York where weddings unfold over four days instead of one. We believe life is too short to rush through the moments that matter most, so every celebration is designed to give you the time and space to slow down, gather with the people you love, and truly experience your wedding. As your venue owner, planner, and creative director, Katie guides you from your first conversation through your wedding weekend, creating a celebration that reflects who you are while our team quietly manages every detail behind the scenes so you can simply be present.

Download our Wedding Packet on our website! THE MANOR HOUSE ESTATE WEDDING EXPERIENCE YOU HAVE MANY OPTIONS…HERE IS YOUR ‘LUCKY 7’ THAT SEPARATES US FROM THE REST! IT’S ALL ABOUT YOU! 1) YOU are the only wedding for the entire weekend. 2) CUSTOMIZATION! YOU get to choose so many things that typically aren’t options elsewhere. 3) LOCATION! ON the Wine Trail. AMAZING lakeview. 4) COST SAVINGS! Once you dig into the cost of a Manor House Estate wedding, you’ll quickly realize the bargain you are getting. 5) INCREDIBLE FOOD! Our exclusive Vendor is special in many ways. 6) CONVENIENCE! 16 of you can stay onsite and, if you choose, an additional 30 guests can stay in our amazing homes right down the road! 7) PHOTO OPS! From beautiful gardens, unique interior accents, broad lakeview and so much more…we have plenty! You get all of this with local, helpful and accessible ownership that truly cares!

Set at the end of this Catskill Mountain Hollow in Roxbury, NY, this 64 acre farm estate is surrounded on 3 sides by 2,000 acres of forever wild land. It is a magical place. With a country house, flower farm and historic dairy barn it is the perfect backdrop to a outdoor wekeend long celebration. When visitors arrive at the property, it’s immediately apparent that this is an exceptional place. The property is ideally situated “off the beaten path" with magnificent views of the Catskill Mountains stretching endlessly to the south, enveloping guests with a feeling of true serenity. Our guests come to relax, celebrate and create memories that last a lifetime.

Spillian is a place of dreams. An exquisite mountain great camp built in 1888 by the Fleischmann's Yeast Family, Spillian evokes the rustic elegance of the Gilded Age with original, unique historic oil murals, furnished with antiques, a Steinway piano, a concert harp, all on thirty two acres in the magical Catskill mountains. Eight enchanting rooms, each differently appointed, a grand dining room with a huge table for feasting, antique furniture, silver, art, and oriental rugs, 2 wood burning fireplaces, a porch to die for, claw foot tubs in every bath, a pond, an utterly romantic Victorian era rustic gazebo, and forests to explore, filled with moss covered rocks, hemlocks. Intimate, completely private, charming, and elegant with superb in-house catering. Spillian is a four season wedding location and was built for family and for celebrations. Come and see what memories it can create for you!

Celebrate your love story at Hotel Lilien, a cozy boutique hotel and cocktail bar nestled in the Catskill Mountains. This artfully restored estate offers an intimate setting for your upstate New York wedding. Take over our 18 guest rooms and sprawling grounds for an exclusive wedding weekend experience. From a welcome reception by the wood-burning stove to a romantic ceremony and lively after-party, our estate becomes your private home base for every memorable moment of your celebration in the Hudson Valley.

Experience the wedding of your dreams on the shores of Lake George, in a turn-of-the-century castle. Onsite accommodations, lakeside ceremony sites, onsite catering and coordinators help to make your wedding day exactly how you envision.

We are not just a venue, we are a full wedding weekend experience! From welcome drinks and rehearsal dinners to your wedding day and farewell brunch, your entire celebration unfolds on one private property, so your guests stay together and the energy never drops. Our pricing is designed to be straightforward and inclusive, with tables, chairs, and on-site lodging all built in. You’ll also have hands-on planning support throughout the process, helping coordinate rentals, catering, and every detail that brings your vision to life. We offer in-house bar services to keep things seamless, so you can focus on celebrating and not managing logistics. Host your ceremony and reception in our elevated barn, then transition seamlessly into late-night fires, after-parties, and next-day recovery with your closest friends and family!

We are a traditional summer camp that runs weekend long wedding packages in August and September! Our camp weddings are beautiful, unique, and full of amazing memories for you and your guests. We will work with you to create a custom package that fits your vibe!

The restored dairy barn built in 1828 on a 100 acre, family ran, historic venue with modern-day amenities is nestled in the Hudson Valley, NY. It can host up to 150 guests comfortably inside the barn, with additional space on the deck for cocktail hour and an adjacent lawn area for your ceremony. There is also an additional lounge seating area if some of your guests would like to relax with a bit of quiet time. Antique chandeliers accent the hardwood floors, walls and beams providing the rustic character that compliments the temperature controlled AC and heat to enable us to provide year-round events. In addition to the barn, deck, and ceremony space, the onsite 4 bedroom (7 queen beds) restored farmhouse is included in the venue for the weekend. A Friday check in enables you to prepare yourself for the big day and set up the space in the barn with any decor. The house is yours for the entire weekend for up to 8 guests. It works perfectly as a bridal suite for everyone to get ready.

New Park is a stunning and inspirational wedding venue and retreat center with several special spaces to accommodate overnight guests. New Park can host large and small gatherings - weddings, reunions, anniversaries, memorials, wellness retreats, corporate retreats, etc. New Park's incredible dog-friendly suites and cottages have stonework, stained glass, and details that make a romantic and special place to stay. New Park is located in Ithaca, just north of the city and just south of Taughannock Falls, in the stunning Finger Lakes region of upstate New York. There are many things to do in the Finger Lakes to satisfy your wanderlust, including wine tasting, hiking, boating, and hot air ballooning. ​

With its views over the Hudson River Highlands, Fort Hill was a key lookout post for George Washington and his army during the Revolutionary War; in 1902, it became home to a convent and chapel, established by the Episcopal Sisters of Saint Mary. The abbey and its chapel have been converted into The Abbey Inn & Spa – a luxury hotel with 42 rooms and suites, a Michelin recommended farm-to-table restaurant, a luxurious spa, an outdoor pool, and over 65 acres to explore. The chapel offers a unique venue for important occasions, and a peaceful English garden provides s gorgeous background for photos. Lovingly restored and meticulously designed, our hotel pays homage to its historic heritage while offering contemporary amenities and world-class service to each and every guest. All of us at The Abbey Inn and Spa are thrilled to be part of this exciting transformation, and we’re eager to share it with you.

Gilbertsville Farmhouse is a 125-acre, resort-style luxury farm in the mountains of central New York, hosting weddings of up to 200 guests. We specialize in 3-day weekend weddings, with 30 designer lodging suites and a 2-story treehouse-inspired Sweetheart Glamping Safari Tent. We are known for our laid-back vibe and luxurious and chic spaces. Gilbertsville Farmhouse has 4 spectacular barn spaces, including a stunning chandelier-filled reception barn and an after-party lounge that rivals and NYC cocktail bar. Our free-roaming farm animals set a majestic backdrop to a unique and fun-filled weekend, and add character and beauty to an already scenic mountainside setting. We are home to the famous NY Goat Yoga goats and our resident beer burros, Frida and Chico! Gilbertsville Farmhouse is a top destination venue - a favorite of musicians, actors, and other creatives. Celebrate like celebrities and plan the "best weekend ever" at a venue that has no comparison anywhere in the world.

When you decide to celebrate your wedding with us, you will have a 823-acre property, 25 acre private lake, 20 miles of private hiking and biking trails, the athletic fields and all camp buildings exclusively available to you and your guests, you also have the beauty and majesty of the Adirondack Park surrounding you. Located an hour north of Albany and just a 10 minute drive from either the south or north exit on I-87 we are perfectly located for your guests to find but also hidden away at the end of a private road, giving you a secluded, private experience. Plus you have the opportunity to design how you will spend your time on the property.

The Black Barn is where the forest will write your love story. A stunning black barn surrounded by 45 acres of old world forest. A rustic gathering pavilion, three glamping sites and luxury RV. Moss, Firefly's and wildflowers just add to the experience.

Perched above the hamlet of Pine Hill, Belleayre Lodge is a collection of 11 vintage-modern cabins and studios accommodating up to 44 guests. Our pricing includes accommodation , the ceremony, dinner, dancing, and bar.

From the minute you arrive at Upstate New York’s finest farm and vineyard venue, you will be enamored by the historic charm and rustic elegance that defines Stablegate Farm and Vineyard. Fall in love with the 19th-century Stablegate Barn filled with charming antique decor and ambient market-street lighting. For more intimate gatherings, our Stablegate Lodge provides guests with a warm, inviting atmosphere to celebrate. Choose from a private vineyard, a hilltop view of the Catskill mountains, a 200-year-old Dutch barn door, or a fossil stone fireplace for your Upstate New York ceremony.