The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Lexington, NY

The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Lexington, NY

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23 Wedding Venues in Lexington, NY

Farms, barns, ranches
250-300 guests
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Timber Lake 

5.0

Shandaken, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Nestled in the valley of Saddle Mountain, overlooking two private, spring-fed lakes, and featuring an outstanding facilities, rustic, climate-controlled cabins and sumptuous cuisine, Timber Lake is one of the most sought-after wedding venues in the Catskills. We are available for weddings for the middle of May until early-June and then again from mid-August through September. Camp weddings are a fast-growing trend in the United States and Timber Lake offers the use of the one of the most beautiful and heralded summer camp properties in the country for your special day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Feels like a getaway
  • Provides catering services
  • Promotes a party atmosphere

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
From the moment we pulled up to Timber Lake Camp and saw the mountain views we knew we wanted our wedding there. The views and grounds are absolutely beautiful. We knew we wanted to be able to have time to spend with all of our family and friends and TLC allowed us to do just that. Meredith was AMAZING throughout the entire planning process, always answering our emails in a timely fashion and willing to schedule a call for us. She helped us coordinate visits to the camp before our big day so we could plan accordingly. We were able to arrive (with family) on Thursday to start setting up everything for the weekend, which was great because it allowed us to have some time on Friday to relax before all our guests started to arrive. One of the great things about TLC is you can make the wedding into anything you would like it to be, granted it takes a lot of extra work, planning, and coordination, but I would not have changed a thing. Our guests have not stopped raving about how thoughtful all of the details we put into the wedding were and how much the venue represented us a people and a couple. The TLC staff were absolutely incredible the weekend of our wedding. From the moment guests arrived, they were greeted at the front gate, given directions on parking, and then provided transportation via golf cart to their cabins. Everyone had such a great time at the camp. Reggie and Sheila (and other staff) made us DELICIOUS meals throughout the weekend that everyone enjoyed! Scott was amazing in helping coordinate all of the events for the weekend and making sure everything ran smoothly. Special shout out to Willow for his support and assistance with everything and anything that came up during the weekend! At all points there were golf carts around to transport our guests anywhere they needed to go, whether it was to the bonfire Friday and Saturday nights, the golf course, the kickball game Saturday morning, to/from ceremony, or just getting around the camp, someone was there to help. We chose to open the waterfront for Saturday (an extra fee), but was so worth it. Our guests had the best time going down the water slide, kayaking, and using the pool before the wedding. We cannot recommend TLC for your wedding weekend enough!
Berkeley G., 10 months ago
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Adena Orchard 

5.0

Jewett, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,000

AUTHENTIC & ROOTED. Adena Orchard is a family-run & community-centered events venue on a rare piece of land in the heart of Catskill State Park in New York State. Adena represents deep roots, natural beauty, and organic connection. Every wedding we host is a reflection of our core values combined with the remarkable individuals who book with us. Your unique visions, cultures, personalities, traditions, and stories are woven into our foundation. Surrounded by mountains, fields, & forests, we are a gathering place for unique weddings, retreats, farm-to-table suppers, family reunions, birthday parties & retreats.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Combines timeless elegance with history

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • No in-house catering options
My wife and I came to them on short notice and with a lot of stress due to the time/money expenses of planning the big day. Renee was unfailingly kind, endlessly patient and always upbeat. Putting it simply, the crew at Adena are wonderful people who are very good at their job. The day itself went off without a single hiccup. Every typical issue that we encountered - such as delays on our part, or things I forgot- was handled before I even fully aware of it. They did their jobs calmly and joyfully, and helped reassure my anxious wife (and my surprisingly anxious self). The location is absolutely beautiful, maintained expertly and decorated perfectly. Our reception was elegant and rustic, with clear views of the blue sky outside making a very pretty backdrop to celebration. The Wooded Cathedral was where we had our reception, and I highly recommend it to anyone who’s dreamed of an outdoor wedding in the country. My wife and I are so happy that we switched venues to Adena. We’re thrilled that they’ve left us with these memories, and we are so happy to call the team at Adena friends. Thank you guys for helping us start a marriage on the highest possible note.
Ryan, 4 months ago
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Windham Manor 

5.0

Windham, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $11,000

At Windham Manor, we provide the charm—you bring the vision. Set on 45 private acres in the Catskills, our estate features stunning views, a Victorian mansion with 12 guest suites, a spa, gym, fireplaces, and more. The Barn, built in 2019, holds over 300 guests and offers rustic elegance for unforgettable celebrations. Outdoor spaces include the Lawn, overlooking a pond and mountains, and the magical Enchanted Forest, complete with benches, a brook, and towering pines. Our experienced events team offers a list of trusted vendors and personalized planning support to bring your wedding weekend to life. Looking for pricing information? We've included it in our photo gallery here on Zola! You can also visit our website for our pricing.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Caters to out-of-town guests

Venue considerations

  • No venue-provided food services
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Does not allow pets
Awarded Best of Zola
Windham Manor was everything we could have wanted. Susan and Barry are amazing! We got married outside in the enchanted forest in Nov ‘24 and it was beautiful. The barn was a fantastic place to host our 200 guests for our reception. The house that you can rent right next to the barn fits 33 people and is perfect for your wedding party to stay. We hosted our rehearsal dinner and after party right at the house as well. Karen, the house manager went above and behind to assist us throughout our stay.
Erin B., a year ago
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The Farm at Abeel House 

5.0

Catskill, NY
  • Up to 1000 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,000

Welcome to The Farm at Abeel House, a unique wedding venue in the heart of the Catskills, where rustic charm meets natural beauty! Our stunning, spiraling outdoor space features a barn, a serene stream, vibrant flowers, and a picturesque meadow, providing the perfect backdrop for your dream wedding. Celebrate your love story in a way that's uniquely yours, free from the ordinary and predictable. Our barn accommodates intimate gatherings of up to 50 people for seated dinners and 75 for dancing, while the expansive outdoor space can host larger celebrations. With the flexibility to configure any area of the property to fit your vision and the option to bring in tents for outdoor festivities, every detail can be tailored to create a memorable experience that stands out. Together, we are committed to making your wedding day a remarkable celebration filled with love, beauty, and creativity. Our in house food team is lead by led by Stephanie Skiadas, formerly Chef du Cuisine at Gaskins.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Provides catering services
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • Not wheelchair accessible
When we started planning our wedding, we knew that we wanted our guests to truly experience the simple beauty of the Hudson Valley. That is what led us to the Abeel House. Our entire day was magical. I walked down the aisle on a little pebble path, surrounded on both sides by wildflowers. Our wedding guests were seated on hay bales in the prairie, the sun on their backs and the stream behind them. After our ceremony, we celebrated in the restored barn behind the historic Dutch stone house. We split the barn into three sections — one to seat our guests for dinner, one for the dance floor, drinks, and dessert tables, and one for the local bluegrass band we hired. As evening came, we turned on the twinkle lights in the barn and danced the night away. You could see the stars through the open windows.
Jennifer, 10 months ago
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Diamond Mills Resort & Blackbarn 

4.9

Saugerties, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $175

Located just south of the Catskill Mountains where the Esopus Creek meets the Hudson River and 100 miles North of NYC, Diamond Mills in beautiful Saugerties NY is one of the most flexible, modern and beautiful facilities in all of the Hudson Valley. Whether you’re looking to host an elegant wedding reception in our traditional Grand Ballroom, or have cozy gathering in mind, Diamond Mills has the innate ability to tailor our venues to your unique style. With 30 boutique hotel rooms and a full-service restaurant on-site, we are the perfect destination to celebrate all weekend long in Upstate, New York. Our Event Professionals understand and truly appreciate the importance of your event and work with you each step of the way throughout your planning process. From start to finish, we customize and coordinate each little detail to ensure you the best day ever on your wedding day!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic seating dinner
  • Dressing room available
  • Caters to out-of-town guests

Venue considerations

  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
We had the most amazing time at Diamond Mills Hotel! The venue is BEAUTIFUL, and the staff is wonderful to work with. My husband and I also loved exploring Saugerties! Planning a wedding in two months was challenging, but booking Diamond Mills for our wedding venue was the best decision ever! We loved working with Stephanie, Carrie, and Brianne. They are highly organized and professional. Our wedding day was truly magical! Our guests had a wonderful time! We also really appreciate how the staff working on the day of our wedding ensured that my husband and I ate well (and remembered to eat as we interacted with our guests). The food served was delicious and we loved our wedding cake! Another great thing about booking the wedding at Diamond Mills is that the hotel is attached to the wedding venue - it was very convenient for us and our guests! We received a good discount for our hotel block. The wedding package they offer at Diamond Mills Hotel is truly well-rounded! Beautiful venue with indoor and outdoor spaces, catering, open bar, wedding cake, and supportive and amazing staff to help you plan your wedding and ensure that everything runs smoothly during the day of the wedding all for a reasonable price! I used some rental decorations, and the staff made sure to carefully pack everything at the end of the night, so shipping and packing up the following day was easy! We highly recommend Diamond Mills!
Marichelle P., a year ago
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A Private Estate Events LLc 

5.0

Germantown, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $12,000
  • Offer

✨ Planning Your Perfect Event? We've Got You! ✨ Looking for a seamless, no-stress vibe for your ceremony? We’re all about making it easy—ceremonies are on the house! 🎉 Keep the party going with music until 11 pm (yep, gotta respect those town rules) and wrap up your event on time, but don’t worry—we’ve got after-party options in Hudson or Rhinebeck! 🌃 Bars stay open ‘til 3 am, and food’s served ‘til 1 am, so you can keep the energy high. 🍕🍸 Bonus: Get rehearsal time the day before AND clean-up time the morning after. More time to make it perfect, less stress on the big day. ✨ We don’t do catering, but no sweat—we’ve got a lineup of awesome vendors we recommend. Plus, we require a wedding coordinator (because organization = peace of mind) and wedding insurance to keep things covered. ✅ Let’s make your event one for the books! 📖

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Rustic yet refined style
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No in-house catering options
Awarded Best of Zola
We were so lucky to celebrate our wedding at A Private Estate, and it truly exceeded all of our expectations. When we were searching for a venue, we visited A Private Estate in the depth of winter during a snowstorm, but even then, we immediately knew it was the perfect place for us. Ripley, the owner, was friendly and direct, and it was clear she genuinely cared about making sure people had an amazing experience. The property was beautifully maintained, and the convenience of having the Carriage House accommodation along with the barn for the reception made it a much better value than most other venues we considered. We chose to have our ceremony outside, overlooking the Hudson River, which created a breathtaking and peaceful setting for our vows. The manor house made for a stunning backdrop for our family photos, adding a touch of elegance to the day. We held our reception in the barn, which we highly recommend to other couples. The rustic charm of the space, combined with the elegance of the estate, created the perfect atmosphere for our celebration. Our mid-August wedding was made even more memorable by the beauty and ambiance of the setting. The property manager, Jack, went above and beyond to ensure our day was perfect. Not only did he assist us with practical matters, like putting up blinds in the Carriage House to help our family members' kids sleep, but he also saved the day when a special bottle of wine we had intended to keep was accidentally thrown out by the caterers. Jack took it upon himself to dig it up and return it to us—an act of kindness we won’t forget. We are incredibly grateful for the hospitality and attention to detail from both Jack and Ripley. If you're looking for a venue that combines beauty with exceptional service, we wholeheartedly recommend A Private Estate.
Eliot J., a year ago
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Fortune Valley Manor 

5.0

Saugerties, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $35,000
  • Offer

They say a picture is worth a thousand words, let Fortune Valley Manor be the barn venue for those beautiful words. A private 35 acre manor nestled in the Hudson Valley offering a 5,000 square foot barn or outdoor tented reception, cocktail hour, and wedding reception sites. The barn offers a beautiful rustic yet elegant feel with black iron chandeliers, white draping, and bistro lights around the property. When you combine stunning ponds, plush green meadows, and a natural wooded backdrop, the options for your special day become endless. We are located 10 minutes off of the NYS Thruway exits Saugerties/KIngston NY Offering hotels within 5 minutes from our venue for the ease and convenience of your out of town guests. FVM prides itself on offering a stress free and fun wedding planning process. We look forward to working with you to create your picture perfect dream wedding

Why you'll love this venue

  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Scenic vineyard views

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • No on-site bridal suite
  • No on-premises lodging options
Awarded Best of Zola
Fortune Valley Manor was the perfect venue for our wedding. From the beginning, the team's communication was detailed, fast, and extremely organized. The gorgeous barn and property were exactly what we were looking for to blend our Tamil Brahmin (Hindu) wedding traditions with an Upstate New York barn feel. The wedding planning process was thorough, and Kerri and her team made sure our special day went smoothly, even studying our customs ahead of time. While wedding planning can be overwhelming at times, Fortune Valley Manor exceeded all of our needs and expectations to make our dream wedding a reality.
Justine B., 4 months ago
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Rustic Ridge View Farm 

5.0

Kerhonkson, NY
  • Up to 450 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $5,800

Come get married on a horse farm! You and your guests will never forget it. Speak to the couples who have been married on our special farm and who have danced the night away under the glowing paper lanterns in the covered, weather-proof pavilion. It’s a magical experience with stunning 360 degree mountain views, grazing horses and curious Guinea hens! Summer / Fall.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Venue is completely outdoors
  • Dressing room available
  • Allows pets

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Additional event staff required
  • No on-site guest accommodations
What an incredible venue! I was the wedding coordinator for a wedding at Rustic Ridge recently, and my goodness! The views are stunning, the pavilion is decorated just perfectly for any style wedding, and the hospitality is above and beyond! Wally and Jack were so attentive to every little detail. It was such a pleasure working with them. They coordinated with me for the ceremony bringing guests back and forth by golf cart so they didn't have to walk far. They were accommodating to every electrical need that came up. They even offered to run to Walmart for marshmallows for the smores station (the marshmallows were found in time!). The guests were not pleased with a local hotel they were staying at, and Wally rearranged his own home to accommodate them so they could get a restful night's sleep in a loving environment. I absolutely cannot say enough wonderful things about the level of hospitality at Rustic Ridge! As a wedding planner, I hope to bring many more couples to this incredible venue.
Sarah B., 6 days ago
Noble Point at Stonewall Pastures 

5.0

Delhi, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $18,000

Noble Point sits atop the highest elevation in the area. Boasting 260 degree- unobstructed-panoramic views. With several options for ceremony site for 25-300+ guests. Sitting just below the ceremony site is the reception area all set up for the tent of your choice. We offer the most unique experience. Our team will help you plan the wedding of your dreams!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Surrounded by nature
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Dance floor not included
A 360 view of amazingness, absolutely beautiful. Also just as great home to get ready in and the food was also great! A photographers dream!
Kristin, 5 years ago
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Stonewall Estate 

5.0

Delhi, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Set against the majestic backdrop of the Catskill Mountains, Stonewall Estate passionately crafts once-in-a-lifetime moments. Our mission is simple: to create unforgettable experiences with exceptional service and meticulous attention to detail. We seamlessly blend timeless natural beauty with modern amenities, offering an unparalleled setting for life's most cherished moments. Stonewall Estate is a weekend destination for your dream wedding. From Friday to Sunday, the property is exclusively yours. Our 9,564 sq ft event barn can accommodate up to 300 guests and is complemented by a bluestone patio perfect for cocktail receptions. Our outdoor ceremony site offers an unobstructed panoramic view of the breathtaking Catskill Mountains. Additionally, we offer on-site accommodations for up to 24 guests, for your wedding party to stay & celebrate. We further enhance the experience with a cozy honeymoon cottage, offering a secluded retreat for the couple’s first night together as newlyweds.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Allows pets

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Getting married at Stonewall Estate was truly the best decision we could have made. From the very beginning, Melanie and her team went above and beyond to ensure that every single detail was accounted for. Their care, professionalism, and warmth made the entire planning process smooth and on the wedding day itself, they made magic happen. The setting is nothing short of breathtaking. The mountains surrounding the property created a picture-perfect backdrop, and the barn… absolutely stunning. Elegant, cozy, and full of charm…it was everything we hoped for and more. One of the greatest gifts of Stonewall Estate was being able to stay for the whole weekend. My Husband’s family is from overseas and this was the first time everyone was going to be together in years. Having our families and bridal party gather together in one place was the biggest blessing. It transformed our wedding from just one quick day into a full, joyful, unforgettable weekend. We were able to take in every moment, celebrate without rushing, and truly soak up the love all around us. We would get married here a thousand times over. If you’re dreaming of a venue that’s both beautiful and deeply meaningful where every detail is handled with care, and where you can create not just a wedding day but a weekend to remember Stonewall Estate is it!!
Sona & M., 3 months ago
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Cadillac Ranch Event Barn 

5.0

Davenport Center, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $4,700
  • Offer

Cadillac Ranch Event Barn is a countryside wedding venue located in Davenport Center, New York. This rustic retreat is a wonderful place for couples seeking a tranquil setting for their I do moment. Tucked away in the Catskills, this property has been renovated and transformed into a romantic event venue that attracts soon-to-be newlyweds, and revelers alike. We also host class reunions, corporate meetings, retreats, graduations, and proms. Whatever your event may be, you are bound to be impressed by this barn's numerous amenities, delightful event spaces, and scenic charm. A range of additional features are available including a full bar service, a champagne table, private restrooms, Wi-Fi, and fire pits near the pond.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides event staff
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • No built-in audiovisual options
The Cadillac Ranch Event Barn was the perfect venue for our rustic wedding. The communication with the staff was easy, simple and timely throughout the planning process, which made things very smooth for us. The venue itself is beautiful, clean and unique with its vintage barn feel. The quality and value were fantastic, especially considering they helped with set up and clean up and made sure our guests were comfortable and had everything they needed during the reception. We couldn't have asked for a better venue to host our special day!
Traci H., a year ago
Red Maple Vineyard 

5.0

West Park, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Red Maple Vineyard is a beautiful vineyard and farm, located on 143-acres of vibrant and diverse property which over looks the historic Hudson River. The land is composed of a renovated cow barn from the 1800's, stone foundation ruins, horse paddock, chicken coop, expansive lawns, forests, vineyards, fruit & vegetable, herb and floral gardens. Our property provides endless opportunities for pictures, and sets an incomparable scene for your ceremony and reception. Red Maple Vineyard wants to bring you a wedding experience you will remember for the rest of your lives. We look forward to hearing from you and helping you dream, create, and experience the wedding of your dreams. All catering and event planning is done in-house.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Surrounded by beautiful vineyards
  • Dressing room available
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
This was the first venue we looked at and we knew right away we needed to get married here. Truly one of the most beautiful ceremony locations I have ever seen. The team was amazing! We forgot the plug for our neon sign and they ran to the store to find a plug that worked. It poured 45 minutes before our ceremony, and the staff let us wait, and then dried everything off at the last minute, which gave us a rainbow at our ceremony. They were so flexible in making the timeline work due to our weather delay. The food was amazing, from the cocktail hour stations, to dinner, and the food at the after party. The venue felt so intimate and personal, we could not have picked a better place. 10000000% recommend!
Jen W., a month ago
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Locust Hill Barn 

5.0

Ghent, NY
  • Up to 299 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,500

A newly constructed event barn based in the Hudson Valley. This one floor event space offers gorgeous neutral tones that allow customization for any wedding or keep it simple for a more natural look.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Provides event staff
  • Both indoor and outdoor options

Venue considerations

  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Awarded Best of Zola
As a wedding photographer I have been to an incredible number of venues and Locust Hill Barn is a complete stand out. The barn is a bright airy space, with beautiful grounds. Everything you need is right there with little effort. You have a ceremony site, woodlands, farmland, pond, and space outside for guests to roam around. The cocktail hour outside is beautiful, I especially love the lounge area under the tree shade. It also helps that this barn can house large weddings. I would highly recommend!
Amber Bauhoff, 4 years ago
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The Outlier Inn 

5.0

Woodridge, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $15,000
  • Offer

Nestled in the tranquil Catskill Mountains, just 90 miles from bustling NYC, lies The Outlier Inn—a serene 14-acre property. Here, amidst nature's embrace, we offer a haven from the city's hustle and bustle. Our versatile space serves as a retreat center, event venue, workshop hub, and even boasts a fiber and vegetable farm alongside a top-tier recording studio. We offer a variety of on-site accommodations which are included in our weekend Wedding Package. Whether your vision is an intimate gathering or a lavish celebration, we're dedicated to crafting your dream wedding into reality.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Has a fun and festive vibe

Venue considerations

  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • No venue-provided food services
The Outlier Inn is truly one-of-a-kind, offering so much more than your typical wedding venue. From the start, we knew it was something special. One of our favorite aspects was being able to bring all of our loved ones together in one place for the entire weekend, creating a unique experience where our family and friends were “trapped” in the best way—celebrating and bonding without distractions. If you’re someone who loves to party under the stars, and you enjoy envisioning and creating fun, personalized spaces, this is the venue for you. The property itself is a hidden gem, full of surprises at every turn. There’s so much to explore, from the charming tiny houses scattered throughout, to the inviting homemade hot tub and peaceful sauna, to the quirky hidden thrift shop/barn. We held our ceremony in the newly added amphitheater nestled in the woods—an intimate space surrounded by towering trees, creating a perfect natural backdrop for our vows. We were lucky with beautiful September weather, and the sound of our friends laughing and exploring the grounds will forever be a cherished memory. Josh, the owner of The Outlier, truly made the entire experience unforgettable. From the moment we met him, we knew this was “our” place. He is warm, welcoming, and incredibly accommodating. During our first tour of the property, Josh even let us bottle-feed his adorable baby goat, “Frip”—a moment that will forever hold a special place in our hearts. Leading up to the wedding, Josh was always available to offer guidance and advice, and throughout the weekend, his calm presence was a steady source of reassurance. Whether he was setting up bonfires, handling speakers and microphones, or just checking in on us, Josh ensured everything ran smoothly, allowing us to fully immerse ourselves in every moment of our celebration. The only downside to having our wedding at The Outlier Inn is that we almost want to keep it a secret—it’s so magical, we’d love to keep it all to ourselves! But in all honesty, The Outlier Inn is an extraordinary venue, and we can’t imagine getting married anywhere else. Thank you, Josh, for making our weekend so unforgettable!
Eric and C., 10 months ago
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Birch Hill Catering & Estate 

5.0

Castleton On Hudson, NY
  • Up to 400 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

With over 80 years of experience, Birch Hill Catering continues to be one of Upstate New York’s most memorable wedding destinations. From a formal sit-down dinner in a ballroom setting to casual outdoor BBQ style wedding or even a rustic barn wedding; any one of the venues at Birch Hill Estate or Stablegate Farm is sure to capture your imagination.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
A wonderful venue run by outstanding people. 5 stars is not enough of a rating. Serena and her staff did an amazing job for my daughters wedding. She even handled an issue that was not hers. We can't say enough about her. I highly recommend Birch Hill Estate.
Tim Q., a month ago
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Kismet House 

5.0

Clintondale, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Nestled in the heart of the Hudson Valley, Kismet House was brought to life as the perfect venue for your dream wedding and next event. With housing for 24 onsite it's an amazing local destination wedding weekend. The Kismet property spans 62 acres, anchored around our centerpiece, an original classic Red Barn. Surrounded by acres of apple orchards, a secretly nestled pond amidst the trees, meandering walking trails. — Kismet House is a memorable and escape close enough to find a wooded paradise less than two hours from New York City.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • On-site parking not available
Awarded Best of Zola
Kismet House was the perfect venue for our wedding. From the moment we booked the space, the owners were incredibly helpful and efficient in their communication, answering all of our questions promptly. Their suggestions for the setup and use of the space were amazing and really helped make our day less stressful. The quality of their work and the overall value was worth every cent - the barn, pond, and every corner of the property provided a dreamlike backdrop that all of our guests raved about. From the ceremony to the sunset and evening by the fireplace, it was magical. I cannot recommend Kismet House enough to any couple looking for a perfect wedding venue.
Alex R., 9 months ago
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Seminary Hill 

5.0

Callicoon, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $13,000

Seminary Hill is an all-season flexible space that offers a distinctive venue to host your weekend wedding. Located 2 ½ hours northwest of NYC, our holistic apple and pear orchard and working cidery provide breathtaking views of the Catskills and the Delaware River Valley. We offer both indoor and outdoor settings. You may stage your ceremony on a high ridge overlooking the Delaware River or nestled among the apple and pear trees. You may serve lunch or dinner in our award-winning Tasting Room or our elegant Wedding Tent. Our Executive Chef Jack Tippett has created seasonal catering menus that pair perfectly with our ciders.Included in the wedding package are the Mountain House and Cottage, sleeping ten guests. Additional lodging for 50 guests is available at the Boarding House and two houses in Callicoon, the small town just down the hill that is listed on the National Register of Historic Places. Seminary Hill’s warm professionalism makes this the ideal setting for your wedding!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Scenic vineyard views
  • Has onsite accommodations

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
We had a Fall wedding at Seminary Hill and I couldn't recommend this venue more! The view is STUNNING. The house is perfect. The guest house is an absolute bonus (we invited close friends to stay next door). And the folks at Seminary Hill are a pleasure to work with, especially the property manager Bill. He was beyond helpful and extremely friendly. He helped us wrangle vendors before the wedding, he helped with setup and when any issues arose the day before, and he was just all-around a pleasure to work with. He made our experience so enjoyable and he was also instrumental to ensuring the weekend ran smoothly. We really couldn't recommend this venue more.
Meg., 6 years ago
RIVERS BEND FARM 
Jefferson, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $8,500

Nestled in the hills of the beautiful Catskill Mountains, Rivers Bend Farm is set back in our own valley on 100 acres of private land surrounded by unparalleled natural beauty. With our vast yet intimate landscape, Rivers Bend Farm is the Catskills newest hidden gem of upstate New York. Our family run and owned property offers a genuine one on one experience unique to what you envision for your wedding day. Check out our website for more info on us and to set up a site visit!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Flexible event spaces
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Dance floor not included
Columbia County Fair Grounds 
Chatham, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $500

Let the historic Columbia County Fairhouse and its surrounding buildings create the perfect backdrop for your unique country wedding. Decorate with hanging lanterns from the barn rafters or hay bales with wildflower bouquets to create the rustic charm and atmosphere you dream of for your special day. While your bridal party has photos taken by the barns, pond and fountain, your guests will enjoy cocktails and hors d’oeuvres on adjacent lawns and in the show ring among the whiskey barrels of summer flowers and shade trees. Complete your celebration with a champagne toast beside a split-rail fence and you have a wedding to remember.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Historic touches
  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
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Thompson Ridge View Farm 
Pine Bush, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $10,000

A family run farm nestled in the hills of the Hudson Valley, Thompson Ridge View Farm provides an unforgettable location for your beautiful countryside wedding. Located just 90 minutes from NYC, the stunning 134-acre property - consisting of fields, meadows and mountain views - creates an amazing setting for you and your guests. Say "I Do" with a romantic mountain backdrop with panoramic views of the Thompson Ridge. The barn has been re-imagined as a romantic, elegant rustic space to host weddings and events of all kinds. Newly renovated and designed with your wedding photos in mind, the cottage is the perfect getting ready space for you and your wedding party.

Venue considerations

  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
  • Does not have a dance floor
  • On-site parking not available

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Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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