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Call us biased, but we’re in the business of believing that creating a [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) is one of the most exciting tasks for engaged couples. As you add registry items, your wedding registry becomes a one-stop-shop for the gifts you really want—whether that’s gorgeous dishes for dinner parties or that’s money towards a dream honeymoon or another cash registry. If you’re creating your registry, read on. Here’s everything you need to know about wedding registries, from the most popular registry items to how to really get everything you want to start your married life together.

## What Is a Wedding Registry? 
A wedding registry is a personalized list or collection of gifts that engaged couples have specifically chosen for their guests to shop from in order to make the wedding gifting experience simpler, easier, and more satisfying for everyone. 

Wedding registries traditionally existed in brick and mortar retailers like a department store, which couples and their guests were required to visit in order to handpick (or purchase) their desired wedding gifts. Nowadays, registries more frequently exist online, such as [Zola’s Wedding Registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry). An online registry company such as [Zola](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) allows couples to easily choose from an enormous assortment of gifts from the comfort of their living room (or anywhere from their phone), add them to their registry, and then share their registry link with their guests.

## How Does a Wedding Registry Work?
1. An engaged couple first selects where they would like to register. The store(s) they select should have abundant options for all of the gifts that they like and need, at a variety of different price points. Ahem, Zola … 
2. The couple researches and browses the store’s offerings, then makes their selections for wedding gifts and adds them to their registry. They should spend time thinking about [wedding registry ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-registry-ideas) and use a [Registry Checklist](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) to make sure they select all of the essentials they’ll need for their newlywed home. 
3. After they have added the recommended number of gifts at different price points, the couple makes their registry public and shares it with their guests in multiple ways: on their [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website), on engagement party or wedding shower invitations, or through word of mouth. For example, if guests know a couple is registered at Zola, they can search for their names on Zola’s website to find their registry. 
4. Once guests know where a couple is registered and/or have access to their registry link, they shop the couple’s registry on their own time.
5. Guests select the wedding gift(s) off the registry that they would like to give and ship the gift(s) directly to the couple’s address. Guests can also choose to ship the gift to themselves, or to shop for it in person, if they’d rather hand-deliver the gift. This can often be the case when giving gifts for a bridal shower or engagement party.
6. As gifts are purchased off the registry, they are marked as unavailable to preventing couples from receiving duplicate gifts or more items than they wanted.
7. The couple receives their wedding gifts from their registry as guests purchase and ship them. Usually gifts arrive before the wedding day, but sometimes might arrive later. Couples should be sure to write thank-you notes as they receive gifts to acknowledge their guests’ thoughtful gestures. 

## Why Should You Register With Zola

### Everything in One Place
Zola is a universal registry and also the only place where you can register for gifts (from over 500 top brands), experiences, gift cards, donations to charities, and honeymoon or cash funds, [everything in one place](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry). This means your options for gifts are more varied, interesting, and well-suited for a diverse array of couples than any other registry destination. You can really create a perfectly curated selection.

### Controlled (and Free) Shipping
Zola notifies couples when a gift has been purchased off their registry and allows them to decide whether the gift should be shipped to them right away, or saved for later. This feature i.e. [Controlled Shipping](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) can be enormously helpful for couples who might not be ready or able to receive tons of packages in the weeks leading up to their wedding date, or who plan to move post-nuptials. 

### Exchange Wedding Gifts Online
If you get a gift you don’t love, or change your mind about a gift you actually registered for, there’s no stress when it comes to [exchanges on Zola](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry). When couples are notified that a gift has been purchased for them, they have the option to exchange it for something else or convert it to Zola credit before it even ships. 

### Personalized Notes
Make your case for why you need that Vitamix, or how those Sonos wireless speakers will amp up your Netflix and Chill game, with [personalized notes](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry). Zola lets you personalize your wedding registry with these thoughtful insertions directly from you to your guests, who will love the personal touch and be more inclined to contribute.

### Group Gifting
Zola’s [group gifting](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) feature lets your guests contribute a specific amount towards an expensive, big-ticket item or go in on a gift together. Couples are able to turn on Group Gifting for any gift on their registry, including cash funds and even charity funds. Since Zola handles all the logistics, there is no hassle or extra coordination on your guests’ part. 

### Registry Planner
All couples will have guests with a range of financial backgrounds. Zola’s simple [Registry Planner](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) can help you determine just how many gifts you’ll need in each price range based on the number of guests attending your wedding—so everyone will be sure to find something on your registry that fits their budget. 

### Cash Funds (With Lowest Cash Fee)

At Zola, you can set up [cash funds](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) for absolutely anything—your honeymoon, a new home, a new set of skis, etc. Breaking up your larger goals into specific funds (an amazing dinner during your honeymoon, for example) adds a personal touch. And since Zola has the lowest fee on cash funds, you and your guests will be spared extra transactional charges.

### Price Matching
Zola will [match the price](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) if you find the same item at an approved online retailer for less. This means that you, and your wedding guests, will be getting exactly what you want for the best value. 

### 20% Post-Wedding Discount
Receive a [20% post-wedding discount](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) on all your remaining wedding gifts on your registry for six months after your wedding date. With this kind of significant discount working in your favor, it really pays to add as many gifts as possible to your Zola registry ahead of time! 

### Registry Advisor
Zola’s [Registry Advisor](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) program puts couples directly in touch with a Zola registry expert who’s on call to help couples get started with building their registry, choose the right amount of gifts at the right price points, and answer any and all questions along the way. 

## How to Build The Perfect Registry
Some aspects of wedding planning, like dress shopping and cake tasting, are all fun and games. But creating your wedding registry can seem a bit more, well, daunting. How are you supposed to know what you need, how much you need, or where to even begin?

That’s where we come in. Zola has got the art of helping you create your wedding registry down to a science. Read on for our simple tips and tricks on how to build the perfect registry for the two of you, so you can keep your sanity intact and focus on the big picture.

### 1. Register for What You Really Want 
Remember, it’s okay to change your mind! Chances are, everyone will have an opinion about what you should register for. Our advice? Listen to your loved ones, but ultimately go with your gut. With over [500 brands](https://www.zola.com/shop/brands) and 50,000 products to choose from, chances are you’ll find something you love on Zola. 
Have your eye on something particularly pricey from another store? You can add anything from any site with our [Add to Zola](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) button and turn on the Group Gifting option so multiple guests can contribute. And if you already have all the kitchen appliances you need, try registering for [cash and honeymoon funds](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry/how-cash-gifts-work), or an [experience](https://www.zola.com/shop/brands) you can enjoy together—from massages to hiking, we have something for everyone. 
Having commitment issues about the items on your registry? Don’t give it a second thought. Zola lets you [virtually exchange](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) your gifts before they even ship, and you can control when your gifts are sent to you. So take your time mulling it over.

### 2. Let Zola Inspire and Guide You 
We get it—it’s tough figuring out what it is you want. That’s why we created our [Starter Collections](https://www.zola.com/shop/brands). Carefully curated by the Zola team, they’re the perfect place to get some design inspiration and feel out the look you’re going for. Combined with the Zola [Planner](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) and [Checklist](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/checklist/your-ultimate-wedding-planning-checklist), which help you decide how many and which gifts you need, you’re on the road to registry success. 
Still uncertain? Touch base with our [Registry Advisor](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) who can not only help you select your gifts but also import external registries, provide assistance for your guests, and ensure you have the best experience possible.

### 3. Personalize, Personalize, Personalize
With Zola, you can truly make a one-of-a-kind registry that speaks to you as a couple. Choose one of our lovely designs, or upload your own custom cover photo. Include a photo of the two of you and write a personal welcome note for your guests. Add notes with your gifts to let guests know why each one is special. You’ll even have you own URL to share with your loved ones so they can easily find your registry.

### 4. Let Technology Do The Hard Work 
Keeping tabs on normal life is tough enough, so we created a Gift Tracker that helps you stay on top of who’s given you what, and when. By tracking which guests gave you which gifts, your thank-you note writing just got a whole lot simpler. 
And don’t forget about the app! The Zola [App for iOS](https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/zola-wedding-registry-gifts/id852691916) (or for [Android](https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.zola.android.wedding&hl=en)) lets you register for gifts on-the-go, and mobile alerts ensure you’ll always be up-to-date when it comes to your registry. The app even includes a barcode scanner in case you see something you like while out and about—talk about registering made simple!

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wedding gifts from a Zola registry including copper Kitchen Aid stand mixer, Le Creuset turquoise ramekins, and a copper Vitamix blender

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Essentials to Put on Your Wedding Registry 

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So you included a [cash fund](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds) as part of your [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) and now you’re sitting on a bunch of money. Good for you! While a lump sum sounds wonderful, it can be daunting, too. You and your spouse may be worried about spending it on the wrong things or missing the opportunity to spend it on the right things. To take some of that pressure off, might we suggest [investing your cash fund](https://www.sofi.com/zola/) into your first joint bank account? It might not sound as sexy as using that money for a vacation, but investing is almost never a bad idea—especially if you’re investing in your future as a couple. Here’s more on how to and why to invest your cash fund into a joint account.

## Why would we have cash fund money leftover?
When you created your cash fund (or funds!) you probably assigned each fund to a certain item or experience. For example, many couples create cash funds to cover costs such as honeymoon airfare and lodging, cooking classes or other lessons, new pets, home renovations, and even a date night fund. When you cash out your funds, however, you just receive the money. How you choose to allocate it post-wedding is totally up to you. 

So, if you asked for $500 for a new puppy, but you just started a new job and can’t take the time off to train it right now, then you have a free $500. If your honeymoon came and went and you didn’t get to take those $250 horseback riding lessons or skipped the $300 spa day, well, there’s more loose cash. 

You may also have received monetary gifts via checks or actual cash. This is what we mean when we say leftover cash funds. 

## Why do we need a joint bank account?
You don’t need a joint bank account, or joint investment account—but you may want one eventually. Joint accounts function just like standard accounts, except that both you and your partner own the account. A joint account can simplify basic expenses household expenses—think: mortgage, car payments, and groceries. It can also help you save toward shared goals, such as a new home or a future child’s college fund. Very simply: A joint bank account can help you lay the foundation of your financial future together.

Opening a joint account may also come with smaller advantages that may not be available to individual account holders. These could include things like waived maintenance fees, a higher interest rate, or other rewards. In terms of financial returns, investing together could potentially pay dividends. When you reinvest large returns, they accumulate. It’s better to have one big portfolio than two small ones.

That said, [merging finances](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-set-your-wedding-budget) is a huge post-wedding step. Be open and honest with your partner about expectations for the account and express any concerns. Many couples choose to maintain separate accounts in addition to their joint bank account.

## How To Invest Your Cash Fund 
So, you and your partner decided to invest some (or all) of that cash fund. Smart move! The great news is that, while investing sounds complex, it doesn’t have to be. Before you do anything, though, make sure you and your partner on the same page. To do that, consider these tips for opening a joint investment account.

- Settle on your investment goals upfront. What are you saving this money for—a house renovation, retirement, a vacation? You can, of course, invest for a number of different things, but make sure that your money plans are set in stone and you both agree.
- Use automatic contributions. After you and your partner start your account with your cash fund money, decide how much you both will set aside each month or paycheck for each of your goals. Then, set up automatic contributions to put away money so that you don’t forget and fall short of your goals.
- Establish a resolution plan. When it comes to merging finances or joint investments, disputes are bound to pop up. Money is a top cause of relationship problems after all. So, it’s best to be realistic and stay prepared with a plan to diffuse and resolve any unrest that may come up along the way.

## This seems like a lot. Help!
Investing together is a big step and even the calmest, the coolest, and the most collected couples may benefit from some professional guidance. We’re talking about the ever-changing financial market here after all. This is where a financial advisor can come in handy even just to provide an outside perspective on various investment strategies. Our friends at [SoFi](https://www.sofi.com/zola/) can help you decide if a joint bank account is right for you—and help you set one up.

You’re starting your life together with a financial cushion–consider investing to set you and your partner on the right path to lifelong financial security (or at least a major vacation down the line).

How to Invest Your Cash Fund

What is a wedding registry? How do they work? What should you put on your registry? We guide you through getting your wedding registry set up, go over can't miss registry essentials, and give unique and practical tips to creating the best wedding gift registry.

### 88. Canvas basket tote
![canvas-backpack-tote](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/FeP1VABXbSc2Be0OF5xh5/1bd0b48a5f16362cc0546fc109b356df/canvas-backpack-tote.jpeg)

Seek out adventure at your next picnic or outdoor excursion with this spacious, lined tote in hand. High quality wedding gift options like this add a bit of fun to your registry.

__Zola rating:__ 4.6/5 

__Favorite review:__ "So much cuter in person, the bottom is an actual basket, the top is canvas and it has plenty of room for a perfect picnic lunch!"

[Picnic Time Coronado Basket Tote](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/picnictime_coronado_basket_tote_khakigreenwithbeigeaccents), $49.99 

### 89. Baking dish set
![45](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6d3GnjJ2r7B8l8dRZxELfs/892bddcbf92909db9c5b034f4325382c/54-dish.jpg)

Don’t mess with this baking dish set! It’s elegant, yet durable, withstanding oven temperatures of up to 572°F. As a result, it’s also microwave and dishwasher safe. Even if you don't have baking sheets, you can use this set in a pinch.

__Zola rating:__ 4.9/5 

__Favorite review:__ "Amazing quality. Very easy to clean. Immediately added another larger one to my registry once I saw how high quality they are!"

[Staub Rustic 2-Piece Rectangular Baking Dish Set](https://bit.ly/2RRSQjM), $89.99

### 90. Classic toaster
![81](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1WeAM2sEke7pPY3K2kyl15/84ed16ec84da9a8edf50fa233aa1d9c9/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-97-cuisinart-toaster.jpg)

Defrost and toast your bread simultaneously with this brushed stainless steel toaster.

__Zola rating:__ 3.9/5 

__Favorite review:__ "Extremely well-made and I LOVE IT! I am so happy I purchased this!"

[Cuisinart Two-Slice Metal Classic Toaster](http://bit.ly/2LQaWyX), $49.99

### 91. Measuring cup set
![82](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2WJx3cyHZb3TKo05QqeFDQ/03999fd1607b7344bf7daba3b5014e9d/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-98-all-clad-measuring-cup-set.jpg)

You might mistake these measuring cups for mini saucepans. The stainless steel measuring cups are stylish and functional and even contain the rare two-thirds cup measure. These wedding registry items promise to delight couples who love to bake.

__Zola rating:__ 4.9/5 

__Favorite review:__ "Such good quality, and a million times better than the plastic cups I had been using since college."

[All-Clad 5-Piece Measuring Cup Set](http://bit.ly/2t4tqoP), $59.99

### 92. Cast iron pizza pan 
![86](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4TxfEPiiARFfNxGvy0AImz/67cb2693708f0730955976bde562468f/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-102-lodge-pizza-pan.jpg)

Treat yourself to pizza night with your partner. Cook an irresistible, golden-brown pizza crust with this large cast iron baking and pizza pan.

__Zola rating:__ no reviews yet (you could be the first!) 

[Lodge Cast Iron Baking & Pizza Pan, 15" Seasoned](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lodge_cast_iron_pizza_pan), $49.99

### 93. Nonstick straining saucepan
![87](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5fk5npNMBKWZaMZUsG61YW/2a58b055581f7d3074f8eb1ed7ab2c42/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-103-anolon-straining-saucepan.jpg)

Stop reaching for the colander! Strain your veggies and pasta easily with this nonstick straining saucepan.

__Zola rating:__ 4.8/5 

__Favorite review:__ "I absolutely love this pot! The size is perfect and it is the best quality pot I have ever owned. I recommend this for everyone!"

[Anolon Copper Luxe Onyx Covered Straining Saucepan](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/anolon_nouvelle_copper_luxe_onyx_straining_saucepan), $79.99

### 94. 3-Blade spiralizer 
![88](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2aSrRTqYDt5bBCrOhewdSE/a27ed95afae965afdee0e5d6a9b904eb/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-104-oxo-spiralizer.jpg)

Zucchini noodles are all the rage right now. Crank them out in your kitchen with this quick three-blade spiralizer.

__Zola rating:__ 4.8/5 

__Favorite review:__ "The kitchen gadget I didn’t know I needed until I had it!"

[OXO Good Grips 3-Blade Spiralizer](http://bit.ly/2M3HvtB), $47.99

### 95. Cheese board
![89](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3WIZ2l9p6Iw7E0Va175Ggr/8cdfe8c8db8882da6028513410dfad0c/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-105-brooklyn-slate-cheese-board.jpg)

Label your finest Morbier or aged Gouda right on this beautiful slate board with soapstone chalk.

__Zola rating:__ 5/5 

__Favorite review:__ "We absolutely love this cutting board, we will be purchasing another. Beautiful and dishwasher safe!"

[Epicurean Modern Slate Cheese Board](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/epicurean_modern_slate_cutting_board) , $33.95

### 96. Pizza cutter
![91](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5FlNCNs8A7eoFPoMLkxCUI/c69bdedb0b4a77341181cc39cf48622c/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-107-epicurean-pizz-cutter.jpg)

It may be one of the most underrated kitchen tools out there. This pizza cutter slices through a tough crust in seconds.

__Zola rating:__ 4/5 

__Favorite review:__ "It’s lightweight and does a great job cutting! Highly recommend!"

[Epicurean Pizza Cutter](http://bit.ly/34fYOh8), $27.99

### 97. Faux sheepskin rug
![92](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3GZCCn6qBcacbdMOwz4G55/9720585be9c2627e4dff1fd20f3a38f2/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-108-nuloom-faux-sheepskin.jpg)

This beautiful faux sheepskin area rug will glam up your bedroom or living room instantly, and your toes will thank you!

__Zola rating:__ 4.6/5 

__Favorite review:__ "It is an unusual find and an excellent accent to a room."

[NuLOOM Rugs Hand Tufted Double Pelt Faux Sheepskin](http://bit.ly/2PI69AZ), $51.99

### 98. Aroma diffuser 
![Smart Diffuser Zola Registry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4YCRRI3GXnkMJBcWPwkAxC/61d417aed7745661240ce4e87fcc5ae8/Smart_Diffuser_Zola_Registry.jpg)

Create the perfect mood in your bedroom with this discreet aroma diffuser. It comes as a complete set for ease of beginning your diffusing journey.

__Zola rating:__ 4.6/5 

__Favorite review:__ "Not only does it allow me to have a soft refreshing fragrance, but it also serves as a low-lit night light."

[Pura 3-Piece Diffuser Starter Set](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/pura_3pc_diffuser_starter_set_pacificaqua), $77.99

### 99. Slippers
![slippers](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/50f4pbsOWxmUhh6lj9Gnzm/caf1a3e06a3abd201e9112ab3382a8fd/slippers.jpeg)

Walk around in style and comfort with these lightweight slippers. This footwear features non-slip soles to avoid any accidents.

__Zola rating:__ 3.5/5 

__Favorite review:__ "This slipper will probably last a while because of the sturdy sole."

[Hawkins New York Simple Waffle Slippers](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/hawkinsnewyork_simple_waffle_slippers_peacock), $27.99

### 100. Candlewick trimmer
![candlewick-trimmer](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/GQv8auGBVsSobARANg8XQ/1ea0f6813b6d7bf9175fa0420194c1db/candlewick-trimmer.jpeg)

Get the most out of your candles and create a longer, cleaner burn with this handy wick trimmer. This is something you might not find on a sample [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/registry-gifts/wedding-registry-basics), but it’s a gift that you’ll almost definitely need at some point.

__Zola rating:__ 5/5 

__Favorite review:__ "Sturdy and perfect for all of our Homesick candles. Definitely helped for cleaner burn and keeping our candles looking new!"

[Homesick Wick Trimmer](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/homesick_wick_trimmer), $18.99

### 101. Heated massage pillow
![Heated Massage Pillow Registry Zola](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2nDysh3kfHXcUEpc0KnjzH/4bcfc3ab686944de6d753f5388aad568/Heated_Massage_Pillow_Registry_Zola.jpg)

This heated pillow massager, with its 3D massage technology, can go a long way toward rejuvenating you after a difficult day.

__Zola rating:__ 3.9/5 

__Favorite review:__ "Using this massage pillow at night has helped tremendously. LOVE the heat feature."

[HoMedics 3D Shiatsu & Vibration Massage Pillow with Heat](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/homedics_3d_shiatsu_vibration_massage_pillow_with_heat), $64.99

### 102. Cotton jar holder
![100](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/717b5mHdu4ZnnTgV4EwAWL/26972be71d3a1a52ce19c9966f071efb/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-119-kassatex-cotton0jar.jpg)

This cotton jar features a unique ribbed texture with a rich ivory color on the outside and a contrasting black interior.

__Zola rating:__ no reviews (but you could be the first!)

[Kassatex Fillmore Cotton Jar](http://bit.ly/38A0wNw), $24.99

### 103. Grilling tool set
![102](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3pFAhd5E3NB4qAxauocU9L/7d52701eede02691e5f342f28e2f5342/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-121-cuisinart-grilling-tool-set.jpg)

Before grilling season rolls around, stock up on these must-haves. Each tool is cut from durable stainless steel and includes an insulated wooden handle.

__Zola rating:__ 4.5/5 

__Favorite review:__ "Based on my first grilling session with these beauties, the tools to be durable, well-constructed, and easy to clean. They were a joy to use!"

[Cuisinart Grill Wooden Handle 13-Piece Grilling Tool Set](http://bit.ly/2PATu2y), $39.99

### 104. Outdoor string lights
![103](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5gKrGT6BzifY2FXqteMsK7/3fe6a80599383f81d55aa9273b92d887/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-122-bulbbrite-string-light.jpg)

Spruce up your patio with these crystal clear string lights. The modern bulb shape offers a contemporary twist on a classic design.

__Zola rating:__ 3.5/5 

__Favorite review:__ "Perfect and durable lights to hang outside around the backyard firepit!"

[Bulbrite 14' Incandescent String Light](http://bit.ly/2smzatE), $47.99

### 105. Outdoor picnic blanket
![104](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6nzZVHtneRjqIZbA3rKU2A/fc6839f7ca2c1dbc8edc37f7027333f4/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-123-oniva-picnic-blanket.jpg)

Spread out 38 square feet of sitting space with this oversized picnic blanket and relax on soft polyester fleece.

__Zola rating:__ 4.8/5 

__Favorite review:__ "This blanket is awesome and I am pleasantly surprised with its size. I highly recommend this XL blanket for outdoor activities as it is thick and durable."

[Oniva Blanket Tote XL Outdoor Picnic Blanket](http://bit.ly/38zZhxS), $45.99

### 106. CharityChoice gift card 
![120-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2021-1-charity-choice-giftcard](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7aoORMrwDGHDne0qXvKoJK/7ec61d49d11c64ff2dcd385873596f3e/120-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2021-1-charity-choice-giftcard.jpg)

Use this card to give back to causes that are meaningful to you by donating to three important charities of your choice.

__Zola rating:__ no reviews yet (but you could be the first!)

[CharityChoice Gift Card](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/charitychoice_charitychoice_giftcard), $50

### 107. 450-Piece puzzle
![114-jiggy-universe-puzzle](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6D5yEatVcRj4ej0zwp84qk/1038a95ab99e5e21254f6cde51a47b6a/114-jiggy-universe-puzzle.jpg)

This beautifully-illustrated, 450-piece puzzle will keep you occupied on a rainy day. It even includes puzzle glue if you want to display your creation after putting it together.

__Zola rating:__ no reviews yet (you could be the first!)

[JIGGY Narwhal Puzzle](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/jiggy_narwhal_puzzle), $39.99

### 108. Mixologist bar tool set
![108](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1KbUCsi7yFOvpDoaObIYjc/b0703e34ab3c58ecf7eb7e96c7a11738/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-127-libbey-bar-tool-set.jpg)

Channel your inner mixologist with this nine-piece set. It even includes a mixing glass with delicious recipes printed right on it.

__Zola rating:__ 4.6/5 

__Favorite review:__ "I can do parties at home and create more delicious cocktails using shaker ,strainer, spoon to creat layers. Very satisfied with this set."

[Libbey Cool Cocktails 9-Piece Mixologist Bar Tool Set](http://bit.ly/36yqorz), $39.99

### 109. Pet chill pad
![109](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5Mpfwk0ThQBCpvIsx5d3Oe/94bb2161b21b07795414cf4a78e519e0/130-excellent-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2020-129-chill-pet-bed.jpg)

Allow your furry friend to relax in comfort with this soft, yet durable, pad. If you’re looking for wedding gift registry ideas that you and your four-legged children can use, this pet pad is a great shout. 

__Zola rating:__ no reviews yet (you could be the first!) 

[P.L.A.Y. Pet Lifestyle and You Chill Pet Pad](http://bit.ly/2RNmgQa), $58.99-$98.99

### 110. Travel iron
![Travel Iron Wedding Registry Idea](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Kqlzcrl4x6PD1KBTlm2JW/dc1d07f5a189f5ecd32d38267f2b17e2/Travel_Iron_Wedding_Registry_Idea.jpg)

Pack this compact steam iron in your suitcase for a powerful wrinkle remover.

__Zola rating:__ 4.7/5 

__Favorite review:__ "Within seconds it’s ready to go, it quickly and efficiently smooths wrinkles and it’s shape makes it easy to handle."

[SALAV, Quicksteam Travel Garment Steamer](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/salav_quicksteam_travel_garment_steamer_peri), $49.99

### 111. Wireless speaker
![wireless-speaker](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/p5RECMVG0FlmIncGuKsSV/10f242104f21f6b218686acbeda757c8/wireless-speaker.jpeg)

Weighing a mere 3.5 pounds, this portable Bluetooth speaker is the perfect travel companion for tailgates, weekend getaways, and more.

__Zola rating:__ 4.6/5 

__Favorite review:__ "Love this speaker. The best bluetooth speaker I ever had. I use it at all my family functions."

[ILive Wireless Tailgate Party Speaker](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/ilive_bluetooth_tailgate_speaker), $51.99

### 112. LED grill light
![121](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5HRT7XN70hQP7bxJmA36ZR/48f3b6d1b4bd787dfae64feb4f8c284e/120-wedding-registry-ideas-for-2021-14-led-grill-light.jpg)

This durable, waterproof, and heat-resistant light is bright enough to let you keep cooking long after the sun goes down. What to put on a registry when you already have everything? Elevated versions of what you’ve already got. And this grill light is a perfect example.

__Zola rating:__ no reviews (but you could be the first!) 

[Outset LED Grill ight](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/outset_led_grill_light), $26.99

## Final thoughts

Now that you’re armed with some great wedding registry ideas, it’s time to build your dream gift list! Customize your own with Zola’s [free wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) for an easy-breezy process. Also, create a free, beautiful [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website), shop [wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/paper), and lean on us to [find local wedding vendors](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors) to simplify your planning from start to finish!

## FAQ About wedding registries
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### 1. Is it okay to keep adding to your registry?
Yes, of course! Not only will different guests take a look at your registry at different times, but they’ll also appreciate a wider range of wedding registry ideas to scroll through as time passes. If you think of something you’d love closer to the big day, add it to your online wedding registry!

Check out this article for more info on [how a wedding registry works](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-does-a-wedding-registry-work-the-experts-guide).

### 2. What should you not put on your wedding registry?
Your wedding registry should include items you know you and your partner will use for years to come. Avoid adding highly personal gifts that are specific to just one of you. Instead, opt for things you can share with your partner as you begin your new life together.

### 3. Is it ok to ask for money instead of gifts?
Absolutely. Cash-specific funds are becoming increasingly popular, and guests can still feel excited about contributing to a designated fund rather than handing you an envelope of cash. This works even better when you tell your guests what you’re saving for, like your honeymoon or home improvements.

Expert Advice: If you’re wondering exactly how to ask for money instead of gifts for your wedding, look no further than the [Cash Funds feature](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry/how-cash-gifts-work) on Zola Registries!

__TLDR:__
- Beyond wondering what to put on a wedding registry if you already live together, you may be curious about IF you should even do one. Zola experts say yes!
- Guests will still want to buy you gifts, and you can also register for items for your home that suit both of your tastes.
- Items from [experiences and gift cards](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/local-experiences?tags=LOC_NATIONAL) to photo albums and cash funds are great ideas.

## Now, let's chat about what to put on your registry if you're already living together
Older generations stocked their hope chests with items ready for their wedding day, after which partners would move in together and begin their new life. However, today, families look different. Couples live together, have [second marriages](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/5-non-traditional-second-wedding-ideas), and even blend families, which is all ok! If you find yourself in a situation where you are already living together, you might be wondering if a wedding registry is appropriate. To which, we here at Zola say—absolutely! 

Many couples live together for years before tying the knot. This means many of you already have tons of dishes, several sets of bedding, all the kitchen appliances you need, and rooms full of lovely décor. But if from where you sit (in your fully stocked home) you think you don’t need a [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry), think again.

![Happy couple](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7gTzB6vyLwODv314XmpqLJ/2a9f21aa5d5daea1e3acf125bec4d800/pexels-anna-pou-9451221.jpg)

## 5 Types of registry gifts for couples who already live together
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When it comes to building a wedding registry for couples that already live together, there are four types of gifts you should focus on: 
1. Everyday-item upgrades
2. Memorable pieces to collect 
3. Unique experiences and gift cards
4. Cash funds for future expenses
5. Charitable donations

Stay tuned for Zola's best ideas in each of the above categories.

## What to put on a wedding registry if you already live together
Based on the five registry gift categories above, here are some of our top suggestions for what couples should put on their wedding registry if they already live together:

### Everyday-item upgrades
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#### 1. Le Creuset cookware
Even if you have everyday pots and pans, you should register for a few pieces of [Le Creuset](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/le-creuset?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) cast iron cookware. These items are simple, beautiful, high-quality, and will last you a lifetime. Upgrade by registering for a classic Dutch oven or a few baking dishes and donate any old cookware that’s scratched or stained. 

__Why our couples love Le Creuset:__ The pots and pans (and many other items) produced by Le Creuset last a lifetime. It's truly a one and done purchase.

#### 2. Prep bowls
Start off your life as newlyweds by decluttering your home: throw out all of those mismatched plastic bowls you have lying around and register for [Duralex’s Lys Nesting Prep/Mixing Bowls](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/duralex_lysprep_10pc?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777). Whether you’re making a salad, beating eggs, or need something to hold a dipping sauce, these are versatile and classic.

__Why our couples love glass prep bowls:__ Not only are these bowls perfect for measuring out ingredients in addition to mixing. In a pinch, they are also ideal for serving. Chips and salsa, anyone?

#### 3. Fancy wine glasses
Think practical. Wine glasses are something you probably use often, and you can never have enough of these for when you host parties. Get beautiful white, red, and champagne glasses that all match with [Schott Zwiesel’s Forte Collection](https://www.zola.com/shop/kit/schott-zwiesel-forte-glassware-collection).

__Why our couples love glass prep bowls:__ Whether a casual wine drinker or a connoisseur, these glasses are a hit. They're reinforced at both ends of the stem and rim to ensure that they endure—just like your love.

#### 4. Chef-worthy pans
If you cook at home regularly, do yourself a favor and upgrade your cooking experience with a set of premium pots and pans. This [Nouvelle Copper 10-Piece Cookware Set from Anolon](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/anolon_nouvelle_10piece_cookwareset?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) not only looks attractive, but cooks foods quickly and evenly thanks to its stainless steel and copper construction.

__Why our couples love copper pots and pans:__ The outside of this cookware has a brushed finish. Although scratches are inevitable, the finish does a great job at hiding them. 

#### 5. Linen sheets
How many hours of your life do you spend in your bed? We aren’t going to do the math, but we know it’s a lot. Improve your sleeping environment with a light and airy [Linen 4-Piece Sheet Set from Parachute](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/parachute_linensheetset_bundle_white), which is made from 100% Portuguese linen that will only improve with time.

__Why our couples love linen sheets:__ Couples sleep at different temperatures, but airy, natural fabric sheets have a cozy, cooling effect. Perfect for newlyweds!

![Le Creuset Wedding Registry Items](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5lGk29HlJ01xz79kq3oxQL/832d111d8c3e927e47428b4b62e8bcae/Le_Creuset_Wedding_Registry_Items.jpg)

### Memorable pieces to collect
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#### 1. Classic china
Registering for china is a classic wedding tradition. You might have cups and plates in your home, but owning a set of beautiful, special occasion china from your wedding is something you will cherish forever. We love [Wedgwood’s Arris 5-Piece Place Setting](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/wedgwood_arris_5pc_placesetting?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777). These plates and bowls are detailed and ornate as well as clean and timeless, making them a perfect addition to your registry. 

__Why our couples love classic china:__ Entertaining is making a big comeback, which many don't already have a set. A wedding registry is the perfect opportunity to stock up on beautiful pieces.

#### 2. Custom wedding photo albums
Your gorgeous new wedding photos deserve a home as beautiful and enduring as they are. Register for your own [Zola wedding album](https://www.zola.com/wedding-albums/shop) with customizable options from thick, luxe paper to beautiful foils, linens, leathers, and more. And we can't forget this [Float Frame](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/artifactuprising_float_frame?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) for displaying one of your favorite shots from the day. 

__Why our couples love surrounding themselves with photos:__ From a coffee table wedding album to a favorite photo displayed in a frame, what's not to love? Zola's couples love putting their big day on display.

#### 3. KitchenAid stand mixer
One of the most popular wedding gifts on Zola for good reason, the KitchenAid stand mixer has stood the test of time as a high-end appliance that looks gorgeous on your countertop and takes care of all your baking needs, forever. Go big with any of our [KitchenAid Stand Mixers](https://www.zola.com/search/gifts?q=kitchenaid%20stand%20mixer).

__Why our couples love their stand mixers:__ From daily meals to entertaining at the holidays, nothing gets the job done in a pinch like a KitchenAid. Plus, they're a registry staple!

#### 4. Cut crystal vase
A timeless piece of crystal, especially made by renowned brand Waterford, is a gift you’ll use and treasure forever (and maybe even pass on to future generations). Start your crystal collection off with the [Waterford Lismore Bud Vase](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/waterford_lismore_vase_7), which is the elegant, year-round solution for a simple handful of blooms.

__Why our couples love crystal vases:__ Newlyweds love romance, which is often shown in flowers. Plus, fresh blooms create a sense of life and freshness, just like a new marriage will.

#### 5. Artwork
Begin your art collection as a married couple with a print from famous [New York photographer](https://www.zola.com/inspire/search/wedding-photographers/new-york-ny) Gray Malin. Register for a [Gray Malin art gift card](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/graymalin_giftcard_100?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) to use online at the artist’s website, where you can choose something that speaks to you as a couple, and will always remind you of your newlywed days. 

__Why our couples love artwork:__ Zola's couples enjoy infusing unique touches into their wedding days and their lives—even on their walls. Skipping the big box store and having a striking photo on the wall can make a statement.

![Zola Wedding Photo Album](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/7tMcOMRcXmzqVoVoK1gWVr/9afbdb83a3233a38ebfae45b98640a03/Zola_Wedding_Photo_Album.jpg)

### Experiences and gift card ideas 
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#### 1. Exercise membership
Need motivation to get in shape before the big day (no pressure from us!)? Try a 12-month [running club membership](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cloud9_twelve_month_virtual_running_club_membership) from Virgin. Feel camaraderie and have the power to keep going by joining a group. Having accountability is a big motivator for many. 

__Why our couples love exercising:__ The couple that plays together, stays together. So, working out is a great way for Zola's newlyweds to connect and work towards a common goal.

#### 2. Travel gift cards
Jet off to exotic destinations thanks to your wedding guests, who can buy you gift cards to major airlines like Southwest or [Delta](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/delta-air-lines?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) in specific cash increments from $100 up to $500. Travel by sea more your thing? Zola’s got gift cards to [Royal Caribbean](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/royal-caribbean?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777), [Celebrity](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/celebrity-cruises?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777), and [Carnival](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/carnival?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) cruise lines as well.

__Why our couples love travel cards:__ Honeymoon fund, anyone? Travel gift cards are a fabulous way to help pay off a big trip or have extra fun while you're there.

#### 3. Airbnb gift cards
You’ll need a comfy home base once you arrive at your destination. Register for [Airbnb gift cards](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/airbnb?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) (again in specific cash increments) to enjoy a home away from home for your far or near adventures. Or register for gift cards to [Hotels.com](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/hotels-com?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) or [Mr & Mrs Smith](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/mr-mrs-smith?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) if rental homes aren’t your style. 

__Why our couples love a gift card from Airbnb:__ Airbnb offers unique stays, which make weekend getaways and honeymoons a truly memorable time. Plus a regular stay can turn into a splurge with a gift card.

#### 4. Winc monthly wine club
You’re going to need something to pour into all of those new wine glasses. Register for a 1-, 3-, or 6-month subscription to [Winc’s monthly wine club](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/clubw_monthly_wineclub?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777), where you’ll be able to handpick bottles of superb vino from top winemakers to be sent directly to your door. 

__Why our couples love Winc:__ It's hard to look forward to getting mail anymore as all that seems to arrive are bills and sales flyers. When wine arrives, it can change around an entire day. 

![Mr and Mrs Smith Gift Card Wedding Registry](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1oI5fGykE8C8jeiNOHWV1m/86396fced92c116fe049c1ecbb6dfe86/Mr_and_Mrs_Smith_Gift_Card_Wedding_Registry.jpg)

### Cash funds
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Whether it’s for a general honeymoon fund, specific honeymoon upgrades like a top-end resort or surfing lessons, or any other big-ticket expenses you want to start saving for now, register for [cash funds](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) on Zola. 

We’ve come up with tons of cash fund ideas—from a home renovation fund to a puppy fund to a fund for ballet tickets—or you can customize your own. Add specific cash increments or allow guests to contribute whatever they wish towards your total goal (you still get to keep however much you’re gifted, even if you don’t hit the total). 

__Why our couples love cash funds:__ Save up for the fun stuff with a cash fund. Folks can give a particular amount that suits their needs, which makes Zola couples feel at ease by putting less pressure on their guests.

### Charitable donations
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For the well-established couple who would rather give back to their communities and their world, there’s nothing classier than asking your guests to make charitable donations to your favorite non-profits and chosen causes in lieu of actual gifts. 

We’ve made it easy at Zola to register for donations to [GlobalGiving](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/globalgiving?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777) and [Charitable Choice](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/charitychoice?_branch_match_id=749683797404546777), which will direct your guests’ cash gifts towards charities working for an end to world hunger, disease prevention, disaster recovery, and those that help children, education, the environment, human rights, and many other causes.

__Why our couples love charitable donations:__ Some couples are minimalists or truly have everything. Zola's couples who aren't in need of anything love choosing a cause for folks to give a feel-good donation instead of just collecting more stuff in their homes.

## Why cohabitating couples still need a wedding registry
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### 1. To create your "together" home
This is your chance to build the home of your dreams together, filled with things that bring you joy—not just the random assortment of stuff you’ve combined from past living quarters. Is your cookware a hodgepodge of scratched pans you used in college? Is your couch a relic from your SO’s first apartment (that’s seen it’s fair share of house parties)? 

Your [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-registry-tips) is the perfect opportunity to upgrade old, worn, or not particularly special objects with items you two can pick out together—items that match your lifestyle, your interests, and your tastes as a couple. 

### 2. Because guests want to buy you gifts
Your guests will want to buy you gifts to celebrate your big day no matter what, so why not give them a little guidance to ensure you wind up with gifts you actually want? 

There’s nothing sweeter than thinking of a favorite loved one when you use his or her [wedding gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-to-spend-on-a-wedding-gift) on a regular basis. Allowing your friends and family to gift you special keepsakes (or luxe upgrades) means you’ll be surrounded by reminders of love and support in your newlywed home. 

### 3. To register for your future
[Wedding registries](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/eloping-wedding-registry) have evolved beyond standard gifts. If you feel as though you already have all the necessities you and your partner could possibly want, register for intangibles to help set up your married life. 

At Zola, couples can register for cool experiences (like cooking classes), gift cards for airlines and hotels for use on your honeymoon or other future travel, and cash funds for major expenses like a home down payment or a new car.

## Ready to register?
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Of course, Zola's expertise lies in wedding registries, so if you haven't taken the plunge yet, we encourage you to do so. Not only will your guests know what to give you, but you can receive everything from small kitchen appliances to the fun stuff (like travel cards!) as wedding gifts. Click below to get started today.

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Shopping for items for your wedding is fun, but putting together your wedding registry to outfit the space where you and your honey will spend the most time is on another level. But the question is: Do you also need a wedding shower registry? 

The wedding shower registry is different from your wedding registry, but you can still have both if you prefer. Zola is here to help you navigate which one will 
serve you best. Here’s what to consider when moving forward. 

__Table of contents:__

- <a href="#1">What Is a Wedding Shower Registry?</a>
- <a href="#2">What Is a Wedding Registry?</a>
- <a href="#3">How to Build the Ultimate Registry for Your Shower and Your Wedding</a>
- <a href="#4">Where Should I Register?</a>

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## What Is a Wedding Shower Registry?

One of the biggest differences between a shower and a wedding registry is the type of gifts that are on it. Couples typically will ask for smaller and more personalized gifts on their wedding registry, such as lingerie or even home decor items, and leave the bigger items for their new home together for the wedding registry.

The wedding shower registry is the best time to receive small gifts from the wedding party and close friends and family. 

### Organizing Your Wedding Shower Registry

Every individual and couple has their own style of organizing every part of their wedding day, but there are some key things to consider when setting up a wedding shower registry.

#### Make a List
You and your partner can sit down and create a wish list of what you both want for your wedding. Then you can divide the registry item list up into two parts and decide which items you would like for the wedding wedding shower, and which ones you’d like to receive as a wedding gift. Be mindful not to duplicate items on the list, because after all, what will you do with 2 of everything?

#### Keep the Gifts Personal and Affordable
When it comes to the wedding party or shower gift, guests tend to lean towards purchasing more personalized items, such as picture frames, books, wine, and even lingerie. Not everyone can afford to purchase big ticket items, so try to ask for items at various price points.

#### Create an Online Registry 
Decide where you’re going to host your registry. If you do it online and through a wedding website like [Zola](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website), there’s a variety of items that’s easy for people to access and purchase from. 

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## What Is a Wedding Registry?
Wedding registries are the wish list for your wedding gifts. A wedding registry is a quick and accessible way for guests to see everything you desire to kick start your life as a married couple. 

A wedding registry is usually where you’ll put big ticket items that you want. The wedding registry list also gives insight to guests if the gift they intended to purchase has already been bought, and what else is still up for grabs. The registry checklist allows your guests to find the perfect gift that fits their personal budget. 

### Organizing Your Wedding Registry
Just like a wedding registry, a wedding registry works best when you’re committed to the process. That means you are constantly picking out registry items that have a special place in your heart. Daily registry checks to add things and create your wish list or remove gifts that have already been purchased are a highlight of engaged life. Here are a few things to consider when creating your wedding registry. 

### Timing
It’s become more common for couples to begin a registry even before they are officially engaged. However, it’s also acceptable to create it immediately after you are engaged. A [wedding registry checklist](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/checklist) is the ultimate guide to help your loved ones figure out what to get you. It also makes it easier for guests who want to purchase a gift for any pre-wedding festivities as a way to say congratulations. 

### Stay True to Who You Are as a Couple
Whether you’re a minimalist couple or you both steer clear of the kitchen but love the great outdoors, it makes sense to register for camping tents instead of dinnerware. But the key is to remain flexible, because your tastes may change, and you just may decide you’ll need dinnerware to host the in-laws during the holidays. It’s important to take some time to think about your lifestyle presently, but also what the future may hold, and choose gifts that reflect both.

### Aim High and Personalize Your Registry
This is the perfect time to ask for everything you have always wanted—there is no limit to what you can put on your registry. If you already have everything you need for your home or if you are combining households, then it’s okay to think out of the box for your registry. 
Ask for cash to help you save towards that new backsplash in the kitchen or ask for gift cards to home improvement stores, your favorite restaurants, or even for couple experiences like cooking classes or dance lessons. 

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## What Items Should You Include on Your Registries?
When it comes time to register for bridal shower and wedding gifts, it can be difficult to know where to start. Traditional gifts for the bridal shower can ultimately be items for the bride to use. This will differ from the wedding registry, where gifts are intended for the couple to share in their new married life.

Of course, that’s not to say your significant other can’t enjoy the family recipe book you received at the bridal shower. As you decide what to register for your bridal shower, keep your wedding registry at the forefront of your mind. You’ll receive the smaller gifts at the shower, so you don’t want to duplicate your wedding registry. 

### Create the Wedding Registry First, Then Keep Updating It
The bridal shower will take place before the wedding, so you should include anything on the bridal shower registry that you may want and need immediately. Once those gifts have been purchased, you can replenish the list as your wedding gift registry and direct guests there. 

### What Goes on the Registry?
Deciding what to put on which registry can be daunting, so here are a few tips to help you narrow it down. 

#### Take Stock
See what items you already have and what you are missing. You and your partner may already have some household items, so assess what you already have. And remember: It’s okay to ask for multiples in sets such as wine glasses if you are a couple that likes to entertain. 

#### Upgrade What You Have
If you have double of certain items, asking for another will just add to the list of things you don’t need. If you have some older items, then consider asking for an upgrade or nicer version of something you have had your eye on. Once you take stock of what you and your partner already have, then you can adjust the list to include any items for upgrades. Now is a great time to get rid of any old household items you’ve had for a long time and ask for the newer version. 

#### Be Realistic
You may have your eye on that camera that costs $300, but not everyone can afford to splurge for your wedding gift. Make sure you have a variety of items on the list in various price ranges. 

#### Be Specific
A registry works best if you are specific about what you really want. The more specific you are, the better chances you have of getting what you asked for. Don’t feel like you have to include items that you don’t really want because of their price point. Adding filler items that you don’t want will result in you having to return and exchange items ater. There’s no need to compromise what you want, so be sure to ask for exactly what you want. 

### Do You Really Need a Wedding Shower Registry and a Wedding Registry?

The short answer is no, you don’t need two separate registries for your shower versus your wedding. That said, you might want different things for your wedding than you want for your shower, and there’s a good chance you might need to do a little refreshing after your wedding shower since many gifts likely got purchased, leaving fewer options for wedding guests. 

The good news is you don’t actually have to make two separate registries—which is good, because planning alot of these events will keep you busy. [With Zola](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry), you have the opportunity to use your registry for both your shower and your wedding. To make things easier for your guests, start by registering for gifts you’d like at your shower, such as smaller appliances or bridal accessories. Then after your shower, simply log back into your Zola account and add some more gifts to fill in the gaps. Ahead of your wedding, you’ll want to make sure you have a wide variety of gift options ranging in price to fit everyone's budget and gift-giving preferences. 

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## Where to Create the Registry
There are so many options to register for bridal shower and wedding gifts, whether it’s inside a store or online. Consider the following when deciding on where to create your registries. 

### Use Zola’s Online Registry
[Zola’s online registry](https://www.zola.com/registry/) offers couples an easy, convenient way to get their lists up and a ton of resources to help you every step of the way with the wedding planning process. From features such as group gifting, price matching, virtual exchanges, and more, Zola offers a convenient place to put your bridal shower and wedding registries in one place. 

Whether you opt to go the more traditional route and do an in-store registry or publish it online on your [wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website), keep in mind what you as a couple want and what your style is, because that will help you decide which registry option works best for you. It’s also helpful to make sure you have an option for the wedding guests to shop online. 

Another bonus is your Zola registry will even help you remember to [send thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop). Zola helps with every part of the registry process to make it as seamless and fun as possible. 

### Universal Registry
Consider a universal wedding gift registry. It brings together all of your registry gifts on one page for easy one-stop shopping. It also helps you keep track of everything, including what gifts have been purchased, what’s still available, and who you need to send a thank you card to. At Zola, you can register for gifts, experiences, cash funds, and add gifts and registries from other stores. 

### Get Set Up for Success and Gifts
Ultimately, it’s your decision on whether you want both a wedding shower registry and a wedding registry. Having both will help ensure that you receive all of the gifts you need as newlyweds. 

Creating your registry is the fun part of the [wedding planning](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning) process, and [Zola](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) can help ensure you are set up for success and help ease the stress.

Zola offers a variety of tools to help make it easier for you and your guests. The best part is our registry resources are free. Everything can be set up in a matter of minutes, and we’re here to help you every step of the way.

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The Top 13 Do's & Don'ts When Creating Your Wedding Registry

Do I Need a Wedding Shower Registry and a Wedding Registry?

25 Most Forgotten Wedding Registry Items You Need to Know

For some engaged folks, walking down the aisle just isn’t part of their [wedding day vision](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/top-10-wedding-reception-ideas-to-surprise-your-groom). Maybe the thought of planning a ceremony and reception is overwhelming and unnecessarily expensive to you and your partner. Or, maybe you don’t want to wait so long to get married. Enter elopement! Eloping can mean forgoing all wedding traditions or it can mean only including those which matter most to you and your partner. 

Maybe you want a small wedding party but can skip the fancy attire. Maybe you don’t want the crowd but would like a registry—and maybe you’re wondering if that’s OK. It’s not black and white. Here’s everything to consider before making a [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) for your [elopement wedding](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/real-weddings/elopement).

## Is it acceptable to create a wedding registry if we’re eloping?
A wedding registry is a way for couples to outline what [wedding gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bedroom-items-add-wedding-registry) they’d like to receive from their wedding guests. If you’re eloping, you may not really be having much of a ceremony—at least in the traditional sense. 

Truthfully, if you’re completely forgoing a celebration or ceremony of any kind (e.g. you and your partner get married at city hall and go to brunch afterward), you should skip the traditional wedding registry, too. 

If you’re hosting some kind of celebration—something as small as a dinner with your close friends and family or something as large as an actual party a few days later—then it’s OK to create a registry. There is, however, a right and wrong way to make a registry if you’re eloping, which we’ll get to below.

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*Photo Credit* // Angelica Radway Photography

## What if our loved ones want to give us gifts?
If you’re having a private elopement but your friends and family have specifically asked you about gifts or a wedding registry, that’s great. You can absolutely offer gift suggestions or even request money a la a [cash fund](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/50-fun-and-useful-ways-to-use-your-wedding-cash-fund). You’ll really only be skipping the formality of sharing your gift selections with an extended group.

Rest assured that if your loved ones want to gift you something for your elopement, they definitely will—with or without a registry.

## How should I share my elopement registry?
Since you’re not having an all-out wedding, you probably aren’t [sending save-the-dates or invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/when-should-you-send-out-your-wedding-invitations). If you are having a celebration of some kind, however, you can include a link to your registry on a paper or digital invite. Note: Only share your registry info with people invited to whatever celebration you have planned. 

If you’re having a particularly small elopement party (either directly after your elopement or down the line), an email with a call-out to your registry is fine. Basically, a wedding website isn’t necessary.

## What should I put on my elopement registry?
Now that you’ve decided to go ahead with a registry, you’re probably wondering if you should be following the same etiquette as those who have more [traditional weddings](https://www.zola.com/inspiration/real-weddings/traditional). The answer is no, not really. Your elopement registry should mirror your wedding style: low-key and simple. Here’s how to build it out.

### Stick to the necessities.
Try to only ask for items you really need (and that are reasonably priced). While you may want the full set of gorgeous barware, you may want to skip it in favor of something more necessary. Think about what items you’ve been meaning to purchase or that feel patently necessary to your home or life, like a vacuum.

### Add experiences.
We don’t want to make any assumptions, but if you’re skipping a traditional wedding, you may want to skip the traditional registry, too. If you don’t want or need any specific physical items, fill your registry with experiences or cash funds. Make your requests specific. So, instead of making a general [cash fund](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/register-cash-in-tasteful-way), make a few small ones that you dedicate to certain expenses. For example, make a cash fund for any personal loans, travel desires, or date nights.

![INLINE LoganRoquemorePhotography 1080x72 Luciana&Guillermo](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1YF9biYTJcyU7tic9cKYMe/d456918c5bf5a2dc9bdb18f3ac20c825/INLINE_LoganRoquemorePhotography_1080x72_Luciana_Guillermo.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Logan Roquemore Photography

### Keep it private.
As we said, only people invited to your celebration should know about your wedding registry. If there are people who reach out when they hear the news and want to send something, then you can share your picks with them. Otherwise, keep it to yourself. 

### Keep it short, too.
Try to keep your elopement registry short and sweet. If you’re having a smaller celebration, you don’t want to overwhelm your friends and family with a ton of gift ideas or with too many expensive items. You’re more likely to receive the things you want if you keep a curated registry. 

### Be OK with not receiving gifts.
At the end of the day, remember that you’re nixing a traditional wedding for a reason—again, that’s fine. That may also mean, however, that you’re also relinquishing other certain classic wedding benefits like gifts.

Some guests may not find it appropriate to get you a gift even if you’re still hosting a celebration of some sort. It’s not super likely, but it’s definitely possible. At the end of the day, you’re marrying your partner in an intimate and unique way. That’s what matters. 

We're Eloping—Can We Still Make a Wedding Registry?

We’re not in the business of pretending that gifts aren’t one of the best parts of weddings. And, while we love traditional gifts and registry staples like [kitchen appliances](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) and [crystal barware](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds), there’s no denying the appeal of cold hard cash. It may sound a bit unrefined but you wouldn’t be the first couple to make money a major part of their [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry). 

In fact, gifting money in lieu of gifts for weddings isn't a new concept. It's common at Indian, Italian, Jewish, Muslim, and Chinese weddings. However, the cash registry trend is still technically newer (but seriously gaining popularity) in America. It started with honeymoon funds and has since grown to accommodate all of a new couple’s wants and needs—*literally*. Onboard? Here's why you should have a [wedding cash fund](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds)—and how to use it. 

## How to Use Your Wedding Cash Fund

### Honeymoon Expenses

As we said, this concept really picked up steam thanks to the honeymoon fund. This can cover everything from your airfare and your lodging to your meals and excursions. Break these funds down into a few different categories to make it easy for guests to contribute to your specific needs. It’s even easier if you have an idea of the activities you and your spouse want to do during your honeymoon. 

__Honeymoon Cash fund ideas: __
1. “Honeymoon Round Trip Airfare”
2. “Day Trip to Amsterdam for Two”
3. “Chef-Hosted Sushi Dinner for Two”
4. “Snorkeling Lessons for Two”

### [New Home Fund](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/to-dos-after-you-get-engaged) or Home Renovations 

Your guests will be happy to help pay for an eventual new home or help make your current home one that you love. Plus, many of them already probably know how expensive home care can be. 

__New Home Cash fund ideas:__
1. “Kitchen Remodel Expenses”
2. “Upgrade to Hardwood Floors”
3. “New Kitchen Appliances” 
4. “New Entertainment System”
5. “New Washer and Dryer”
6. “New Window Replacements”
7. “Monthly Landscaping Costs”

### New Car Fund

If you and your partner already know that buying a new family car is part of your [long-term planning](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-wedding-on-a-budget), ask for a cushion to get you started on saving.

### New Pet Fund

Whether you want a puppy, kitten, or something more exotic, pets don’t come—or stay—cheap. 

__New Pet Cash fund ideas: __
1. “New Puppy Fund”
2. “Veterinary Expenses”
3. “Year Supply of Cat Food”
4. “Dog Treats Monthly Subscription Box”

### Hobbies and Culture

You may have a hobby that you already love to do together as a couple or you may be looking to try something new. Use your cash funds to help support the cost of your new ventures or your old favorites. 

__Hobby and Cultural Cash fund ideas:__
1. “Cooking Classes for Two”
2. “Weekly Dance Lessons”
3. “New Camping Gear”
4. “Monthly Yoga Membership Fees”
5. “Museum Membership”

### Romantic Ventures

The love doesn’t stop once the wedding is over. Ask for cash to keep your weeks full of events to spend quality time together. 

__Romantic Cash fund ideas:__
1. “Date Night Fund”
2. “Wine Tasting for Two”
3. “Concert Tickets for Two”
4. “MLB Season Tickets”
5. “Monthly Couples Massage”
6. "Broadway Tickets for Two"

### Subscription Services

Make cash funds to cover all those monthly fees for anything from hobbies to streaming services. 

__Subscription Services Cash fund ideas:__
1. “Beer of the Month Club”
2. “Book of the Month Club”
3. “Netflix Subscription”
4. "Monthly Snack Box"

### Collections

Build upon established collections or finally become the collector of your dreams with a cash fund dedicated to your favorite things to save. 

__Collection Cash fund ideas:__
1. “Wine Collection”
2. “Art Collection”
3. “First Edition Book Collection”

### Pre-Wedding Appointments

Yes, you can even ask for money to cover any beauty or grooming appointments ahead of your wedding. Use these funds as bonding and relaxation time with your soon-to-be-spouse. 

__Pre-wedding Appointment Cash fund ideas:__
1. “Wedding Mani & Pedi”
2. “Couples Facial”
3. “Couples Acupuncture”
4. “Wedding Hot Shave”
5. “Private Trainer Appointments”

### Wedding Vendor Fee

This one may feel a little less couth than other expenses, but anyone who’s thrown a wedding knows just how expensive they can become. If you feel comfortable, ask your guests to help you cover any of your wedding expenses or services. 

__Wedding Vendor Cash fund ideas:__
1. “Wedding Photographer”
2. “Wedding Venue Fund”
3. “New Custom Tuxedo”
4. “Dream Wedding Heels”
5. “Custom Wedding Centerpieces”

### Charity

Using your wedding registry cash fund as a way to give back to those in need is a popular and wonderful route to take. You can collect money to donate to a particular charity (or charities) of your choice. Your guests will be more than happy to know their money is going to support the causes dear to you. 

__Charity Cash fund ideas:__
1. “ASPCA Donation”
2. “Support for NAACP Fund”
3. “GLAAD Fund”
4. “United Way Donation”

### Investing

Your cash funds don’t need to be attached to physical gifts or experiences—you can also direct your money to future financial goals. Use your cash funds to help set you and your partner up for long-term success. 

__Investment Cash fund ideas:__
1. “Our First Joint Bank Account”
2. “[Our First Joint Investment Account](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-set-your-wedding-budget)”
3. “Refinancing Our Student Loans”

The point is that you can *literally* use your cash funds however you and your partner decide. It’s essentially fundraising but for your life—accept those donations! Zola makes it easy to customize your cash funds just about any way you want. Don’t feel weird about requesting money. Weddings, experiences, and life are all expensive. Your guests will be happy to support your new life together however they can.

### Why should I have a wedding cash fund?
Wedding cash funds are a great option for anyone but they’re especially beneficial for couples in the following situations:

- You and your fiancee [already live together](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-create-a-registry-if-you-already-live-together) and have most of the home and decor items you need or want.
- You live in a small space—with no plans to expand soon—and simply don’t have the room for a lot of physical gifts.
- You have an ambitious business plan, project, or new hobby that you want to invest in.
- You want to make a large impact by donating funds to a charity of your choice.
- You simply want to raise money for your honeymoon or new life together.

### I still feel strange asking for money as a wedding gift.
That’s super normal. The cash fund wedding gift trend is gaining in popularity, but it’s still a relatively new concept, especially for older wedding guests. That said, there’s no shame in the cash registry game—you should feel good asking for the gifts that work best for your lifestyle. If you’re still feeling a little off about it, here are some cash fund etiquette tips.

- __Make cash an option, not a mandatory gift.__ And by that we mean, pair your cash fund with a traditional wedding registry. Create a standard registry filled with more traditional home, decor, and travel items—even if it’s just a few things. Then, add a few cash fund options to round it out. __With Zola, you can easily blend your physical gifts and your cash fund gifts into one easy-to-use registry.__ 
- __Consider all budget sizes.__ One of the best things about traditional registries is that they typically include large- and small-ticket items. This is ideal because it allows guests the freedom to really give what they can. So, when you’re creating your wedding cash fund, be cognizant of this. Incorporate both expensive items and experiences (honeymoon airfare) and items that fall in line with standard registry gift prices (cooking class). 
- __Create fixed amounts for your cash funds.__ An easy way to account for the above is to divide your cash funds into set amounts that multiple guests can purchase. __With Zola, you can easily divide up a higher-end gift to create a handful of smaller more affordable gifts.__ For example, if you have a cash fund for a new puppy estimated at around $500, you can ask for five fixed amounts of $100 instead of the lump sum. This makes your cash fund registry more [accessible for all of your guests](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/everything-you-need-to-know-about-group-gifting).
- __Tell your guests upfront.__ Be sure to include links to your honeymoon fund or other wedding cash funds on your wedding website and consider shouting it out on your wedding invitations too (the same way you might mention a standard registry). On your wedding website, you can include a few sentences about why you chose a cash registry that may help wedding guests better understand your thinking. For example, you want to raise money for an emergency fund, you have educational or personal loans to pay off, or you just want to prioritize a dream honeymoon.

### OK, I’m in. How should I use my cash gift?
The beauty of cash funds is that they’re yours to do with whatever you please. In theory, you could just make one large fund without any decided upon purpose. However, your wedding guests probably prefer to have a tangible idea of where their money is going (again, cash funds are still a newer concept for many). So, it’s nice to give your monetary gifts some direction. Here are just some wedding fund ideas on how to use your cash gifts.

When it comes to your [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry), be glad you live in the digital age! Once upon a time, engaged couples preparing for marriage used to go to the mall to set up their wedding registry. It would take all day, in crowded stores, sometimes at multiple malls or store locations.

You used to have to walk into a brick and mortar shop and use a scanner to register all the items you wanted. Most of the time, you would have to walk around the whole store searching, like some sort of adult easter egg hunt! 

A day of registration would end with couples over scanning, not scanning the right things, or worse, just giving up on the process altogether. Thankfully the internet has put an end to the antiquated way of setting up your registry, and [Zola](https://www.zola.com/) is at the forefront of making your wedding registry process as easy as possible.

## What Is a Wedding Registry and How Does it Work?
To put it simply, a wedding registry is the master wish list for your wedding gifts. A registry is a quick and easy way for your wedding guests to see all the things you’d love as you start married life.. And yet, a registry is so much more! 

A registry tells your guests if the gift they intend to purchase has already been bought, where it can be purchased, and it can even offer alternatives depending on budget. A wedding registry lets your guests match your perfect gift and their budget. 

Plus, a wedding registry prevents your guests from double buying. That means no returns, no worrying about gift receipts, and generally less work for you! 

## It Works If You Work It!
A wedding registry works best when you are committed to the process. Don't let this scare you off, this is a fun process where you are constantly picking out items that mean something to you. The wedding registry is one of the great treats of planning a wedding , and many Zola couples will tell you that daily registry checks are one of the highlights of being engaged! 

We recommend updating your registry as often as possible to ensure you are maximizing your registry's potential. Checking your registry often will allow you to remove a gift that’s been purchased, add a new gift that you recently discovered, or simply replace one item with another if you see something you like better! 

Your Zola registry can even help you stay on top of sending out [thank you cards](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop)! Zola helps with every part of the registration process to make your life as easy as possible. Our registry is built to be user friendly, easy to navigate, and fun to boot! Understanding your registry has never been easier, and Zola is making your registry process less work and more enjoyable than ever!

![How Does a Wedding Registry Work?:](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/eEOydUm8ScMYHu2tkSMGZ/b24062299ec1b42154c2777f01e1917e/inline_HowDoesRegistryWork.jpg)
*Photo Credit //* Zola

## Where To Register
 Companies that specialize in things like home goods, cookware, and other popular wedding gifts would have you believe that you need to register in person at a brick and mortar store. This outdated version of registering for [wedding gifts](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry/benefits/widest-selection) has all but been eliminated with Zola.

No longer do you and your spouse need to spend all day at a handful of different stores scanning items for your registry. With Zola, you can choose from thousands of items and hundreds of brands to craft the perfect registry for you. 

Registering with individual companies is time-consuming for you and confusing for your guests. The more individual companies you register with, the more information you have to relay to your friends and family about where to shop. Zola's registry offers a one-stop shopping experience that can update your guests on your behalf!

## A One-Stop-Shop
Without the need to go to a store, there’s less chance that your guests will be overwhelmed with the gift buying process. By  giving your guests a single shop experience, they’re treating you to a gift that they know you’ll love. And you won’t have the task of returning items that don’t fit your home or style. 

Zola is all about keeping it simple. We have top name brands for you to choose from when building your registry. And Zola makes it easy for your guests by offering deals, discounts, and a one-stop-shop experience.  We make it fun and hassle-free for you and your guests.

## When To Register
Here's a quick quiz to determine whether or not it's time to [set up your wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry):

Q: Are you engaged?

If you answered "Yes" when your SO popped the question, and you answered "Yes" to our quiz question, then the only other question we have is why haven't you registered yet!?

You should start your wedding registry as soon as you get engaged. An engagement is big news, and people want to celebrate with you! Creating a registry with Zola is simple, and it can be done in minutes 

It’s become common practice for couples to begin a registry even before they are officially engaged. A wedding registry is not just for wedding gifts, it is your all-encompassing gift guide for the people in your life. 

A best practice is to set up a wedding registry as soon as possible after the engagement. If you plan on sending out engagement announcements, you should include the registry on the card. Having a registry is especially important if you are going to have some sort of engagement party as people will want to bring a wedding gift.

## Gifts Galore!
One of the biggest questions young couples have regarding how wedding registries work is, "how much should we register for?" The easy answer to this question is, "the sky's the limit!" Now is your opportunity to ask for exactly what you have always wanted. 

At no other time in your life will people be willing to get you the kinds of registry gifts they are willing to get you as you begin your new life as a couple. Remember, you are starting a life, and that means that you need some items you have never owned before.  

Many couples often make the mistake of under registering rather than over-registering. Some couples believe that having too many gifts on a registry will make them seem greedy, but that is not the case. Gifts are always optional, so don't feel like you can't shoot for the moon when selecting registry gifts. If someone wants to treat you to something nice, let them!

There are people in your life who will want to spend up on a nice wedding gift, so don't be afraid to include those big-ticket items. We suggest including registry items at different price points so all your friends and family can find the perfect gift at their budget. Include that super fancy blender you've been saving for, and add that industrial mixer you've always wanted! 

![How Does a Wedding Registry Work?:](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/559sB9PWGbnqQfhqjI0zx7/cae5e21ab52cf989289e8567c41fe452/inline2_HowDoesRegistryWork.jpg)
*Photo Credit //* Zola

## Ask and You Shall Receive
A wedding registry works best when you are specific about what you want. The more specific you are about the gifts you want, the better your chances of getting what you ask for.

Don't feel obligated to include items you don't want. Many couples get caught in the trap of including small filler items that they don't necessarily want. One of the great things about the way Zola's registry works is that we will help your guests find the best gift for their budget. No need for you to compromise on what you really want, we’re here to help you get the most out of your registry.

## What If You Prefer Money?
When it comes to your guests, money is going to be a popular gift choice. The way wedding registries have worked in the past, it would have been tacky to simply ask for money, but Zola has you covered.

With Zola, you can ask for money without actually asking for it. For example, Zola allows you to set up designated uses for the money people give like "massages on the honeymoon," or "savings for a house." Your guests will be elated to know the money they are giving is going toward a specific purpose, and Zola makes it easy for you to cash in.

## Less Work and More Play!
Zola is here to help you create the perfect registry. Your wedding registry is the first step on one of the most exciting journeys you and your spouse will ever embark on. A registry is more than just a list of gifts, it is an outward expression of the love and support your friends and family have for your budding relationship. 

With Zola, your wedding registry works because we work hard on your behalf. Zola eliminates all the worry and stress, so you can enjoy your engagement and have fun registering! Leave the hard work to us, it's time for you to have some fun. Set up your Zola wedding registry today and let the fun begin!

How Does a Wedding Registry Work?: The Expert’s Guide

Whether you're looking for advice on wedding registry basics, unique gift ideas for a newly-engaged couple, wondering how much to spend on a gift, or bridesmaid and groomsmen gift ideas we've got you covered. Get all your wedding registry and wedding gift questions answered!

Whether you're a guest look for wedding gift inspiration or a bride looking for bridesmaid gift ideas, you're in the right place! Find the latest trends and timeless gift inspiration, plus get advice on questions like how much to spend on a wedding gift and if you should buy a gift for the wedding shower.

It’s always exciting to get invited to a wedding. Someone you love is getting married and they want you there to celebrate. If you’re particularly close with the couple, you may get a few more invitations along the way to various pre-wedding events, including the wedding shower. You’re probably prepared to buy a wedding gift off the couple’s registry, but what about a [wedding shower gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers)? You might be wondering if you even need to buy both. Gift etiquette isn’t always straightforward. Let’s break it down.

## Do I need to buy a gift for the shower and the wedding?
__In short: Yes.__ We definitely recommend purchasing a gift for both the wedding and the wedding shower. That’s the simplest way to layout the basic gift etiquette. However, there are a few stipulations such as price, size, and more that come with that advice.

![INLINE PhotobyStarNoirPhotography](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1AJjZuw8TOa2IAOwj2OlgJ/ee2177f21d8f17f9cdaeb2905ebe973d/INLINE_PhotobyStarNoirPhotography.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Star Noir Photography

### Wedding Shower Gifts vs. Wedding Gifts 
Not all gifts are created equal—or at least they don’t have to present as if they are. Yes, you should purchase both a wedding gift and a wedding shower gift, but they don’t have to be of equal value. In fact, you can (and should) feel free to spend less on a shower gift than you do on a wedding present.

Traditional wedding etiquette says that your wedding gift should [cover the cost of your meal and drinks](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-to-spend-on-a-wedding-gift) at the wedding—which can fall somewhere between $50 and $200. It’s a big range, but all weddings are different so you’ll know best where your gift should fit into that. Typically, you’ll select something from the couple’s registry anyway, which makes the whole wedding gift situation pretty straightforward.

As far as a wedding shower gift goes, the same rules do not apply. Giving a gift in the $25-$75 price range is completely acceptable. If it’s your best friend since childhood’s shower and you want to spoil her/him, by all means, go for it. Just know that you don’t have to.

### Should I buy the wedding shower gifts and wedding gifts off the registry?
Simply put: You should buy your wedding gift off the [couple’s wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry). These are the gifts they specifically chose because they want or need them. So, definitely choose from there for the wedding gift. 

Additionally, you can buy the wedding shower gift from that same registry. And why wouldn’t you? Here’s a [selection of gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/essentials-to-put-on-your-registry) that you know the couple will be happy to receive. If you can find something in your budget, it’s a win-win.  

If you’re particularly close with the host or couple (or you can’t find anything on the registry within your budget), it’s OK to stray from the registry. Your wedding shower gift can be a great opportunity to give something a little more sentimental and personal. Is the bride a bit of a product junkie? Get her a monogrammed makeup bag to hold her wedding day makeup. Does the couple love to try new wines? Try a wine subscription box. Is a dog or cat the center of their lives? Gift a custom pet portrait. 

The point is if you decide to shop for your own wedding shower gift, make sure it’s something he or she will love.

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*Photo Credit* // Procopio Photography

### Should I show up with my gifts or send them directly? 
The etiquette fun continues! When it comes to delivery, wedding shower gifts and wedding gifts also have a different set of rules.

- __For wedding gifts__, it probably makes more sense to send your gift directly to the couple via their registry. There are a few reasons for this. First, the couple has a lot going on. Tracking and transporting their gifts isn’t a task you necessarily want to contribute to. Also, couples with Zola wedding registries can actually choose when their wedding gifts are shipped to them. This control allows couples the freedom to tackle their wedding gifts (and thank you notes!) when they’re ready. 

- __For a wedding shower__, it’s up to you! Typically, these showers have gift-opening moments so, if you’d prefer to be involved in that, definitely show up gift in hand.

Of course, there are exceptions. If the shower is taking place in a city where the host or couple doesn’t currently live (a hometown, for example), he or she may ask that any shower gifts be sent to a certain address to avoid traveling with them. If the couple is hosting a super intimate wedding, you may, in that case, prefer to show up with your physical gift instead of sending it directly. 

You’ll know what’s best for each individual situation. Generally, though, plan to arrive at the wedding shower with your gift and plan to send your wedding gift in the mail.

The bottom line: Get both gifts. You don’t need to break the bank in order to give something the couple will truly appreciate. 

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Do I Have to Buy a Wedding Shower Gift and a Wedding Gift?

Every wedding guest list is unique, but we're willing to bet that the list for your special day features guests with a range of budgets. Some guests can afford to splurge on lavish gifts for the newlyweds, while others may be a bit more conservative in choosing the best wedding gift within their budget for the happy couple. Keep this in mind when it comes to adding items to your __[wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry)__. 

When creating a registry for your wedding day—and your life as a married couple—we always recommend adding smaller- and larger-ticket items so there's something for all budgets. There's no need to skip expensive gifts, though. Just make it a group gift! From gift ideas for your new home to unique wedding gift experiences for your [honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-fund-101) and beyond, here's how it works—and why you should do it.

## What Is Group Gifting?
Group gifting is a win-win situation for the couple and the guest. It allows the couple to choose whatever great wedding gifts they want, in whatever price range they want. At the same time, the guests stay in their budget, contributing what they wish to an extra special wedding present. We handle all the logistics for your guests so there’s no unnecessary back and forth…and ensure you receive the most perfect wedding gifts.

## Why Should I Use Group Gifting?
Well, like we said, it makes your registry experience completely accessible to all budget levels. Plus, it's a Zola secret that making an expensive item a group gift actually increases your chances of receiving that gift. Guests are less likely to simply skip over it if they can't afford the entire thing.

## What Counts As A Group Gift?
Anything you want! Really, anything. At Zola we offer an extremely wide range of registry items—from expensive barware to whole furniture pieces to keepsakes and experiences you'll remember forever. Usually group gifts are on the more expensive end but, with your Zola registry, you can make anything a group gift.

## Do Guests Have To Go In On A Group Gift Together?
Nope! You can get that swanky bar cart from your coworker, great aunt, and friend from high school without any stress or coordination on their part (or yours, of course). We'll keep track of who contributed to what, though, so you can be sure to thank everyone when it's time.

## How Do I Do It?
When you register at Zola, you can turn on the group gifting feature for any item on your registry. This includes big-ticket items for the home, newlywed cash funds, and even charity funds. Just select group gifting as you're adding the item to let your friends and family know the deal.

## 26 Best Group Wedding Gift Ideas for Your Registry!
Now that you've decided to use our group gifting feature, we figured we'd offer some recommendations and [wedding gift ideas for your registry](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-registry-ideas). How you choose to employ group gifting is entirely up to you! Go big or go home on big-ticket items or set up a __[fund](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds)__ for the charity of your choice or your __[honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds)__. Here are a few fun physical items that work well as group gifts.

### 1. Quality Cookware
![lecreuset braiser flame A 750](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4AMZs0ayYapg5aX2knILRW/0cf074133fbe197a818ecf0f946e856c/lecreuset_braiser_flame_A_750.jpg)
*Le Creuset – $285*

Group Gifting really comes in handy when you want to add high-quality brands to your wedding registry like [Le Creuset](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lecreuset_braiser_flame). This brand is known for durability and timelessness, making it a guest favorite wedding gift–the only catch is the high price tag. Turn on group gifting and voila! The only kitchenware you’ll ever need is yours—with the help of a few guests. To shop all Le Creuset, click [here](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/le-creuset).

### 2. Cozy New Couch
![59dba909c268e9639fa01cc4 A 1600](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6acF81K0YKlKiE4Q9Ctgm/280e313c1d1d85f3138bb44eed53c573/59dba909c268e9639fa01cc4_A_1600.jpeg)
*Baxton Studio - $1099.99*

Fill your new space (or upgrade your current one) with comfy furniture fit for the happy couple. Your guests will be happy to contribute to your home—especially if you invite them over to enjoy it, too. We love this [mid-century sectional](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/baxton_midcentury_sectional_sofa_grey) in a neutral hue.

### 3. Couples Massage
![zeel couples massage nyc A 750](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/sFA4la2wmRFPP4Lois4Yp/1af941046b93827410d3db42573f98c0/zeel_couples_massage_nyc_A_750.jpg)
*Zeel – $100-$318, depending on location*

Who could resist a [couples massage](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/zeel) leading up to your big day? Or perhaps save it for a time when all the wedding festivities have died down and you two are still looking to celebrate. Either way, turn on [group gifting](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) and let your guests contribute to an afternoon of sheer bliss…which might just be the best wedding gift of all!

### 4. A Weekend Adventure
![5a43faf1c268e921c9efce18 A 1600](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5cUanq0u3jvExwRyu3nqa2/8452eaa0bd6cc3f3a9f810797b64d79d/5a43faf1c268e921c9efce18_A_1600.jpeg)
*Cloud 9 Living - $250*

Sure, you're planning your honeymoon, but that won't be the last getaway you take as a couple. Get a jumpstart on weekend planning with a gift card (yes, you can register for gift cards!) to [Cloud 9 Living](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cloud9_250_experience_giftcard), an experience gift company. Use it towards a skydiving adventure, a luxury camping weekend, a sunset cruise for two, or any of the company's many other large and small adventures.

### 5. In-House Entertainment
![56e0722ee4b000338fbfa420 A 1600](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3vAvgKr5fSlqoIKaiaHYhU/609feb3325c586d6d310770086efebaf/56e0722ee4b000338fbfa420_A_1600.jpeg)
*Sonos - $699*

We really mean it when we say you can [make anything a group gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-shower-gifts). Receive the [wedding gifts you really want](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-registry-tips) with the group gifting feature that will make your guests as happy as you.

### 6. Wine Glasses
A wedding is all about upgrading what you already have—so if you've been sipping out of a mismatched set of wine glasses since you moved in together, go ahead and register for a full-scope set. Because, yes, there are differently shaped glasses for reds and whites—and a full set can be a great option for a group gift.

[Zwiesel Glas Sensa Mixed Red & White Wine Glasses](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/schott-zwiesel-vivid-senses-wine-glasses/), $120, Williams Sonoma

### 7. Bottle of Wine
Yes—you can register for a bottle of wine! Choose a splurge-worthy bottle of bubbly or a case of wine for a group gift. Better yet, you can even register for a wine club membership or subscription box for a gift that keeps on coming all year.

[Dinner Party Bundle](https://www.brightcellars.com/products/dinner-party-bundle), $151, Bright Cellars

### 8. Champagne Flutes
Nothing says "celebration" quite like Champagne! Toast to your life together as newlyweds and register for a pair of luxurious champagne flutes—perfect for a few friends to go in on.

[Waterford Love Forever Flute Pair](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/waterford-love-forever-flute-pair-7.1-oz), $210, Macy's

### 9. Premium Blender
If you're still using the same blender you had in your first post-college apartment, you're definitely due for an upgrade—and your registry is the perfect opportunity to add a professional-level blender to your kitchen. And because high-end blenders can have a high price tag, they make for great group gifts. 

[Vitamix Professional Series 750 Blender](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/vitamix-pro-750-blender), $629.96, Williams Sonoma

### 10. Cast-Iron Cookware
A cast-iron grill pan makes a great addition to any wedding registry. Choosing one from a premium brand, like Le Creuset, makes for a great group gifting option.

[Le Creuset Signature Cast Iron Grill Pan](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/le-creuset-signature-square-grill-pan), $225, Williams Sonoma

### 11. Coffee or Espresso Maker
Whether you're looking to replace your tired drop coffee maker or want to level up your at-home latte game, a nice coffee machine is one of our favorite registry gifts. Plus, it makes a great group gift—since, as a thank you, you can host all the gift-ers at your place for coffee. 

[Breville Barista Express Espresso Machine](https://www.crateandbarrel.com/breville-barista-espresso-machine/s267619), $749.95, Crate+Barrel

### 12. Date Night Experiences
If you're looking for wedding registry gift ideas that aren't physical objects, adding a few experiences or activities is a great idea. It could be a cooking class at a nearby culinary school, or a chef's table experience at a fine dining restaurant.

[San Francisco Wine Country Tour](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cloud9living_2tixfor_winecountrytour_sanfran), $598, Virgin Experiences Gift at Zola

### 13. Cashmere Throw Blanket
Snuggle up in luxury and register for a cashmere blanket—whether you keep it on your sofa or on your bed, we have a feeling this will be one of your most-used wedding gifts. Since cashmere is a splurge, it makes a great group gift option.

[Sferra Dorsey Throw](https://www.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/sferra-cashmere-dorsey-throw?), $664, Bloomingdale's

### 14. Dutch Oven
From Sunday sauces to hearty soups, Dutch ovens are kitchen workhorses—and can be on the pricey side, making them a great group gift. Plus, they come in practically every color of the rainbow! A wedding registry is the perfect place to ask for one from a premium brand like Staub or Le Creuset. 

[Staub 7-Qt. Dutch Oven](https://www.crateandbarrel.com/staub-7-qt.-eucalyptus-round-dutch-oven/s178699), $299.95, Crate+Barrel

### 15. Home Gadgets
If you've had your eye on an electronic gadget for your home (for example, a wireless security camera), add it to your wedding registry! Since electronics are typically on the more expensive side, this is a great opportunity to utilize the group gifting feature. 

[Blink Outdoor Wireless Security Camera](https://www.bestbuy.com/site/blink-outdoor-3rd-gen-wireless-1080p-security-camera-with-up-to-two-year-battery-life-black/6427060.p?skuId=6427060&ref=212&loc=1), $99, Best Buy

### 16. Home Decor
Are you looking for an item of home decor to commemorate your wedding, or want to splurge on a one-of-a-kind accent piece? Or, maybe you just really want a custom painting of your fur baby. Whatever you choose, this is a gift that a group will love to give. 

[Brindley Illustration Custom Painting](https://www.etsy.com/listing/589299676/animals-in-clothes-pet-portraits-funny), $245, Etsy

### 17. Patio Furniture

Maybe you recently bought a home with your fiance—and whether you have a sprawling backyard or a petite patio, go ahead and register for some outdoor furniture. This is an ideal option for a group gift—as the group can come over and enjoy the patio furniture after they gift it (along with some backyard cocktails!).

[Outdoor Dining Set](https://www.crateandbarrel.com/outdoor-dining-set-abaco-dining-table-stackable-dining-chair-and-regatta-dining-bench/f1010700), $249+, Crate+Barrel

### 18. Pizza Oven
Speaking of backyards, if you and your fiance love pizza, why not add a Neapolitan-worthy outdoor oven to your registry? And if a group ends up gifting you the oven, make sure to invite them over for pizza night!

[Ooni Koda 16 Pizza Oven](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/ooni-koda-16-pizza-oven/), $479.96, Williams Sonoma

### 19. Bouquet Preservation
Preserving your wedding bouquet is more popular than ever—and adding this service to your registry is a wonderful gift idea to commemorate your big day. 

[White Poppy Presses Wedding Bouquet Preservation](https://www.etsy.com/listing/860293642/wedding-bouquet-preservation-wedding), $195+, Etsy

### 20. KitchenAid Stand Mixer
KitchenAid stand mixers are another longtime registry staple—but they’re also a more expensive item, making them an ideal choice for a group gift. Plus, with a rainbow of colors to choose from, you can register for one that reflects your kitchen style. 

[KitchenAid Artisan 5-Qt. Stand Mixer](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/kitchenaid-artisan-5-qt.-stand-mixer-ksm150ps?ID=77589), $449.95, Macy's

### 21. Robot Vacuum
Use group gifting on your wedding registry as an opportunity to upgrade your vacuum game! These expensive gadgets are perfect for multiple guests to contribute to.

[iRobot Roomba 13+ Evo Robot Vacuum](https://www.amazon.com/iRobot-Roomba-Vacuum-Automatic-Disposal/dp/B08C4LC7TG/ref=sr_1_12?c=ts&keywords=Robotic+Vacuums&qid=1685234569&s=vacuums&sr=1-12&ts_id=3743561), $499.99, Amazon

### 22. Luggage Set
Jet off to your honeymoon in style with a set of matching luggage—register for one set for you and your fiance to share, or pick out separate sets for each of you.

[Ambeur 3-Piece Luggage Set](https://www.calpaktravel.com/products/ambeur-3-piece-luggage-set/black), $715, Calpak

### 23. Fire Pit
If you love to entertain and have outdoor space, a fire pit makes a great wedding gift idea for your registry—and a great gift option for a group.

[Solo Stove Bonfire Smokeless Outdoor Fire Pit](https://www.crateandbarrel.com/solo-stove-bonfire-smokeless-outdoor-fire-pit-with-stand-2.0/s387672), $344.99, Crate+Barrel

### 24. Knife Block Set
Just like your tired-out cookware, we're guessing your cutlery needs an upgrade. Add a set of professional chef-worthy knives to your registry (which tend to be on the pricier side!) so a couple of guests can contribute. 

[Wusthof Classic Knife Block Set](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/wusthof-classic-9-piece-knife-block-set-acacia/?sku=7658717&cm_ven=PLA&cm_ite=7658717_14932288941&cm_cat=Google&cm_pla=Local&gclid=CjwKCAjw1MajBhAcEiwAagW9MRiJ6wAJBnmPhO1rmg_TT0rQG00bVT2VVxXLTmua_tjIxbUQ7ywvpRoCHRIQAvD_BwE), $665, Williams Sonoma

### 25. Cooler
For a gift you'll use again and again, a high-end cooler makes a great group gifting choice. 

[YETI Tundra Haul](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/yeti-tundra-haul/), $450, Williams Sonoma

### 26. Sheet Set
You might never have splurged on a set of sheets for yourself, but using group gifting makes it easy for a few friends or family members to contribute to a dreamy set on your registry. 

[Casper Super Soft Sheet Set](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/casper-super-soft-sheet-set-collection?ID=14282903&CategoryID=9915), $215, Macy's

## Zola, Your Best Wedding Registry Option
From zero-fee cash funds to group gifting, Zola is the best wedding registry option out there. Within the Zola registry, you'll find a wide variety of gift options, including gift cards and experiences.   Plus, it's  easy to add registries from external brands. So, if you create separate registries at retailers like [Amazon](https://www.amazon.com/), [Crate & Barrel](https://www.crateandbarrel.com/), [Etsy](https://www.etsy.com/), [Macy's](https://www.macys.com/), [Pottery Barn](https://www.potterybarn.com/), or [Williams Sonoma](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/), you can easily link them to your Zola registry. This way, everything is conveniently on your wedding website, making for a better guest experience. You and your guests will enjoy free shipping and returns, too—just in case something doesn't work out. And if there are some gifts left over after the big day, you can buy them for yourself and save 20% off with Zola's post-wedding discount (which applies for 6 full months after you say your “I do’s.”) 

When you use Zola for your wedding website, you'll be able to use it to manage RSVPs and give guests all of the information they need for your wedding day. Plus, you can order your wedding invitations directly from Zola, too—there are hundreds of stunning designs to fit every wedding theme. 

Wherever you are in your wedding planning process, get started with a [customizable Zola wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website) and [gift registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry).