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Your honeymoon is the perfect time to get away and chill with your new spouse. But in today's culture of 24/7 connectivity (texting and emails and #hashtags) unplugging and feeling truly [chill on your honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-planning-mistakes) can feel seriously challenging.
 
Challenging—but not impossible. Here’s how you can unplug, unwind, and have a truly chill honeymoon with your partner.
 
## Prep your friends/family/work ahead of time.
One of the biggest keys to unplugging and having a truly chill honeymoon happens long [before your honeymoon actually starts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tasks-before-honeymoon). If you don’t want to spend your honeymoon fielding phone calls, text messages, and work emails, it’s important to prep everyone before you leave.
 
- Let your friends, family, boss, and colleagues know you’re going off the grid for your honeymoon. 
- Let them know [the dates you’ll be taking off](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/request-time-off-for-wedding) and ask them not to call, text, or email—and if they do, tell them not to expect a response. 
- Give them as much advance notice as possible and try to wrap up any loose ends (like sending your boss any key project deliverables)
- Touch base with your parents to give them the details of where you’ll be staying before you head out. 
 
The more steps you take to let them know you’re truly going to be out of pocket, the less likely it is they’ll try to reach you. And the easier it will be for you to disconnect and relax on your honeymoon.

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## Keep everything you need in one place.
Chances are, you have a lot of things you need for your honeymoon stored on your phone, tablet, or laptop (like your reservation confirmations, for example). If you have to search through your email every time you need something, though, you’re more likely to get sucked into distractions, like work emails or social media notifications.
 
Instead, organize everything you’ll need for your honeymoon in one, easy-to-access place. You can create a folder on your phone—or, if you really want to avoid the phone trap, you can print out any necessary documents and keep them in a folder in your luggage. 
 
Old school? Yes. Effective? Also yes.
 
## Turn off notifications.
You don’t need to know every time someone sends you an email, comments on one of your photos, or invites you to a game of Candy Crush. It’s going to be hard to unplug, chill, and be present for your honeymoon if your phone is pinging every five minutes.
 
So, turn off all your notifications. It might feel uncomfortable at first *(what if someone comments on one of our [wedding photos](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-photo-list)?!)* Don’t worry—all those texts, emails, social media comments, and game invites will be there when you pick back up your phone. You just don’t need them to pull you out of the moments you’re enjoying on your honeymoon with your partner.

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## Minimize distractions on your phone.
Turning off notifications is a great start. But the truth is, your phone has plenty of other ways to take you out of the moment on your honeymoon—if you let it.

If you know you’re prone to digital distractions, take precautionary steps to remove as many of those distractions from your phone as possible: 
- Turn your phone on airplane mode when you’re relaxing with your partner, out enjoying a delicious meal, or having fun on an excursion. 
- Temporarily disable your web browser. 
- Set time limits for any time or attention-sucking apps, or, better yet, delete them altogether. 

The fewer distractions on your phone, the less you’ll be tempted to look at it—and the more you’ll be able to relax, unwind, and enjoy your trip.

You only get to take one honeymoon with your spouse, and you want to be as present as possible. Now that you know how to truly unplug, all that’s left to do? Get out there, unwind, and enjoy the truly chill honeymoon you both deserve. 

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Ah, the honeymoon. After saying, “I do,” couples look forward to spending time together relaxing after a busy time of planning. Although many newlyweds head to resorts, [cruises](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/cruise-lines), and snowy chalets, the rise in road trip honeymoons is nothing to ignore. And don’t let your thoughts turn to mishaps portrayed on the big screen in National Lampoon and Thelma and Louise. Rest assured that it’s possible to [plan a memorable](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-planning-101-what-you-need-to-know)—and romantic—honeymoon on the road. Here’s how. 

### What is a road trip? 

Essentially, a road trip involves using a vehicle to travel from place to place. It’s as simple as that! So, why are road trips increasing in popularity with honeymooners? Taking an RV trip ensures that you have a clean, romantic space wherever you go. Plus, they are unique and can be [easy on the budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-fund-101).

## How to Choose Where to Go on a Road Trip Honeymoon

![Zola: How to Plan a Memorable RV Honeymoon](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/EQK99liyyxWuSTaEO5b9q/285175dc89f9544a56e3826ffb14c06f/inline_shutterstock.jpg)
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Some couples decide to start and end their journey near their home. If you’ve always wanted to explore the next state over, that’s entirely possible. You can even use your vehicle to do so. However, if you live on the east coast and have always had Colorado on your bucket list, then do it! It’s common to [fly to a destination](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/airline), rent a vehicle, and then take a road trip.

Also, road trips can be diverse, depending on where you stay. Some road trippers like to choose a route and stay in a different place each night. Others enjoy using a single location as their home base for a few days. That way, they can fully explore an area before moving on to the next locale.

Either option is acceptable. However, decide what type of road trip you have in mind and what to do at a destination. These elements will factor into the amount of time you need to spend in an area. 

It’s also highly recommended that you book your overnight stops ahead of time. Wandering from place to place at your leisure seems romantic. Consequently, if you can’t find a site for your vehicle for the night, it can be anything but ideal.

Also, be sure that it’s legal to stay where you wish. Instagram abounds with images captured from campervans by the beach, but do your research. It may not be permitted to park your vehicle in some locations for the night. A late-night knock to receive a ticket or move your RV isn’t what honeymoons are about, either. 

## What types of RVs are good for road trips? 
How you get around is determined by your budget and the type of trip you have in mind. Nonetheless, the term RV is a broader term that encompasses a whole host of transportation underneath. Instead of getting bogged down with specific classifications, here are a few styles of RVs for your honeymoon road trip. 

- __Motorhome__ Breaking down the term motorhome into its two parts—motor and home—defines RV type. Motorhomes have an engine and allow the passengers to be in the living quarters while on the road. 
- __Travel Trailer__ A travel trailer is pulled by an SUV, pickup truck, or another vehicle rated for the trailer’s specific weight. A modification is the fifth wheel, which is the trailer style that hooks into a pickup truck bed. Fifth wheels often have sleeping quarters over top of the truck’s cabin. 
- __Campervan__ Sleepervans are roughly the same size as a traditional van, although some are taller and longer. Campervan rentals are like mini hotel rooms on wheels. They have all of the necessities included in an easy to drive vehicle.

A word of note is that although you don’t need a particular driver’s license to operate an RV, having some experience goes a long way in having a successful honeymoon. Larger vehicles and trailers, which can jackknife, can be challenging to maneuver, park, and back into campsites. Don’t add extra stress to your trip by renting an RV that you or your partner can’t handle with ease. 

## Things to Consider When Planning a Road Trip

### Determine how long you will be on the road.
Perhaps the most significant factor in planning your trip will be the [amount of time](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/requesting-time-off-for-a-honeymoon) you have to spend. Flying to Arizona to see the Grand Canyon may not be worthwhile for only a few days. If you can only allot a short time, consider staying close to home. Whether you have time for a cross country road trip honeymoon or only have the weekend, a journey is possible. 

### Consider where you want to go.
A road trip honeymoon is a perfect time to immerse yourself in a [region of the country](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-planning-101-what-you-need-to-know) you haven’t explored. For example, a west coast road trip itinerary can include surf in San Diego, sight-seeing in Los Angeles, wine-tasting in Santa Barbara, trekking hiking trails in a national park, and experiencing the beautiful Cannon Beach along Oregon Coast. Some of the most romantic road trip ideas include beaches, [mountains](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/mountain-honeymoon-destinations), and beautiful scenery. However, including culture, history, and a few major cities can add variety to your trip. Think about what you and your partner like to do, and build a journey from there. 

### Choose your type of vehicle. 
As far as ease of driving, the smaller, the better—especially since it will just be the two of you. Save the big RV for when you have a family in tow. Therefore, take the opportunity to do a campervan rental or pull a small, vintage-style travel trailer. 

### Plan rest days.
Think about it. You’ve spent months perfecting minute details for your wedding, and you will finally be on vacation with your significant other. Although you want to see sights and experience a new area, don’t get bogged down by filling every moment. Get some much-needed rest, and incorporate some downtime to read, relax, and do other honeymoon-centric activities. *ahem*

### Pack light and plan to re-wear items. 
Are you one of those people that has to wash their jeans with every wear? If so, get ready to let go a little bit on your road trip! One good thing about moving from place to place is that you will only encounter your spouse multiple times. Wearing clothes twice or washing them in the RV and hanging them to dry can help you pack light. Plus, chances are you won’t be doing much that requires dressing up. Although you may want to take one outfit for a nice dinner out. 

### Divvy up your duties. 
Before you leave, decide on who will do what. Figuring out little things ahead of time, such as who pumps gas and who keeps track of toll money, will help your trip go more smoothly. Although one spouse will likely do most of the driving, talk about when—and if—the other will take over. You may also want to factor in a bit of nap time when you switch drivers, too. 

### Have a road trip kit.
Your RV will come with a few emergency supplies, such as a spare tire, which you hopefully won’t need. However, pack other things, such as snacks and drinks, so that you can stay nourished. Packing other essentials, such as a first aid kit, flashlight, and ibuprofen can help avoid unnecessary stops. 

## Fun Things for Couples to Do on a Road Trip

![Zola: How to Plan a Memorable RV Honeymoon](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/67L8PVcVyoZSrSXr5djEUu/1ae4c3302815f4f41ac4896128a20a14/inline_shutterstock2.jpg)
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- __Save money by cooking.__ Many RVs have stoves, or you can always [grill over the open fire](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cuisinartgrill_3piece_grilling_tool_set_black) at a campsite. Whether it’s breakfast or post-dinner s’more’s, create memories by making a few meals together.
- __Come up with a playlist.__ Curate your own unique road trip playlist, or have your wedding party contribute songs for one. Not only will you have tunes to jive to, but you’ll think of your honeymoon when you hear the songs. 
- __Play a game of road trip bingo.__ Games may seem silly. However, if you drive a long distance between stops, it can help the time go faster. Make a list of road signs, unique sights, or photos you want to take. Have fun crossing them off of your list while you travel. 
- __Plan a surprise.__ While you’re planning your free time, come up with a surprise for your spouse. Each of you can come up with an unexpected element for the other. Mix their favorite cocktail by the campfire or arrange for a private tour of a historic site. You know your partner best, so be creative by planning a “wow” moment.
- __Take turns picking restaurants.__ You may have your stops, campsites, and itinerary planned ahead of time. Nonetheless, leave some of [the restaurants](https://www.zola.com/shop/category/restaurants) and coffee shops up to chance. Divide choosing by days or meals, and test out various cuisines while you’re on the road.

Road trip vacations for couples can be one of the most romantic around. Set your schedule, see whatever you want, and take the time you need to enjoy your honeymoon. Your trip may not inspire a crazy RV trip movie. However, it will help you create a memorable trip with your love. 


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The excitement of your wedding is over, and now it’s time to abandon the real world and go off the grid, right? Well, not just yet. Unfortunately, wedding planning isn’t over the second you say ‘I do.’ Between paying vendors, cleaning your attire, and [writing thank-you cards](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/thank-you-cards/shop), there are tasks that need to be done before going on your much-deserved honeymoon. Based on how much time you have between your wedding and vacation, here are things you should do before going on your honeymoon.  

## If you have a week or less before your honeymoon...

### Gather all your items from the venue. 
Any decor, personal items, or [rental pieces](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-rent-for-wedding) should be picked up at the venue the day after your wedding. If you are unable to gather your stuff yourself, ask the maid of honor and best man to help clean up. You don’t want the venue to throw away anything of yours—especially if you need to return it to a vendor. 

Also, be sure to take your leftover wedding cake! If you take part in the tradition of enjoying a slice on your one-year anniversary, it’s important to preserve it properly. 

### Collect gifts and cards.
While you may not have time to figure out who gave you what, you want to ensure all presents have safely been transported from the venue to your home, or the home of a family member. If a member of the wedding party was responsible for collecting and storing gifts, arrange for them to be dropped off to your house while you’re away or upon your return. 

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### Get your dress cleaned and return suits.
The sooner you get your dressed cleaned, the better—especially if there are sweat or food stains on it. If you’re leaving on your honeymoon right away, pass your dress to a family member or maid of honor to take to the cleaners. Depending on the design of your dress, you may need a speciality cleaner, so do your research before the wedding to determine where you want it dropped off. The last thing you want is to return home to a dirty wedding dress.

Don’t forget about menswear, either. If groomsmen rented suits, make sure they are all returned on time. The best man can take care of this task.

### Pay your vendors.
Vendors held up their end of the deal, so be sure to settle any outstanding charges before your honeymoon. Make sure everyone is paid and all contracts are settled. It’s also common practice to [tip certain vendors](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-tipping-wedding-vendors), so keep that in mind, too, if you haven’t already. 

## If you have two weeks to a month before your honeymoon…

### Write thank-you cards.
While sitting down to write out possibly hundreds of cards may not sound like your idea of newlywed fun, it’s important to take the time to thank everyone for coming to your wedding. The sooner you cross this item off your to-do list, the better. [Write thank-you cards](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-word-wedding-thank-you-cards) while people’s presents are fresh in your mind and before your brain has switched to vacation mode. Not only is it poor etiquette to wait months before thanking folks, but it’s also a great feeling knowing thank-yous are taken care of. 

*If you’re overwhelmed by the idea of writing all your thank you notes, let us do it for you. Now with Zola, you can type messages for any of your guests or customize our suggested notes. Yes, you can write individual messages to individual guests or families—it's still super personal. Then, we'll print whatever you write in a beautiful font. Find this feature when you select any thank you card style on Zola. You have the option to write your custom message on the inside step of your customization process.*

### Upload some photos or video.
If a few photos are ready or you had a videographer capture your special day, uploading highlights to your wedding website or social media is a nice way for people to relive the magic. Many photographers take a few weeks to a couple of months to return wedding photos, but some will send couples a few teaser shots beforehand.

### Return or exchange unwanted gifts.
Sometimes guests go off course and buy things you already have, or items not listed on your [registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry). While all presents are appreciated, it’s OK to exchange unwanted gifts. Because most stores have 30-day return policies, you’ll want to bring back gifts as soon as possible. That way, you have a better chance of swapping something you don’t need for something you do. You can also discreetly return anything you received off your Zola registry and exchange it for something else if you changed your mind.

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## If you have more than a month before your honeymoon...

### Review your vendors.
While the experience is fresh in your mind, take some time to write reviews for your vendors—especially if you had an exceptional experience. Not only do online reviews help out future brides and grooms, but positive public-facing comments are also a great way to thank vendors for making your wedding day so special.

### Purchase any gifts you didn’t get.
Hopefully, you got all the items you [really wanted on your wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry), but there are times when guests will get you three out of four towels in a set, or only five place settings when you actually need six. Use any wedding money received to purchase those items after your big day. 

### Rest!
Your wedding is over, now you can unwind! Use this time to get back into routine and relax from the busy nature of wedding planning. Catch up on sleep, run the errands you’ve been putting off for months, and spend quality time with your new husband or wife. You’ll be in good shape to enjoy your honeymoon. 

Don't leave work to come back to after your relaxing honeymoon. Get even a few of these tasks out of the way ahead of time (if you can) and feel free to luxuriate in your newlywed bliss.

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When it comes to budgeting out your wedding, things can get a bit tricky. Between engagement celebrations, bachelor and bachelorette parties, and the wedding itself, it can be difficult to iron out exactly who pays for what. This can also trickle over into the honeymoon planning. While you may be [daydreaming about the when and where](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/choose-beach-honeymoon-destination), it’s also paramount that you figure out the how. 

## Who Pays for the Honeymoon?
Traditionally, the groom and his parents would pay for the honeymoon while the bride’s family pays for the wedding ceremony and reception. With modern celebrations, many couples pay for their own honeymoon. 

Many couples also pay for their honeymoon with help from a few different sources including their friends and family. So, basically, there’s no definitive answer to who pays for the honeymoon. Let’s take a look at all of the different routes couples can take to pay for their honeymoons.

### The Couple
As we said, newlywed couples often will [pay for their honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/when-should-we-go-honeymoon) themselves. This is especially the case if one or both sets of parents foot the bill for the wedding. Luckily, because this situation is solely between the couple, it can be approached in any manner of ways. 

An engaged couple may start a joint savings account while wedding planning so they can save up for the occasion together. On the other hand, one partner may cover honeymoon expenses while the other pays for another aspect of the wedding. Regardless of rhyme or reason, if you’re in this boat, find a situation that works for the two of you and your financial situation.

Here are some simple ways you can start saving for your honeymoon now:

- Open a dedicated savings account.
- Put cash and checks you receive as wedding gifts towards your trip.
- Open a travel or airline credit card to start [accruing points and rewards](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/save-money-on-honeymoon) (many offer generous sign-on bonuses when you spend a certain amount).
- Do your research—know how to [book on a budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/save-money-on-honeymoon).

if you’re funding your own honeymoon find your budget and make a plan ASAP. The more time you have to save, the less stress will surround your celebration.

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*Photo Credit* // Scott Drexler - Photos On Maui

### Your Parents
Old etiquette states that the groom and his parents fund the honeymoon. That’s because, traditionally, the bride’s family paid for the wedding ceremony and reception. Things have changed but it’s still possible that your parents are traditionalists (or, frankly, just extremely generous). 

In that case, one or both sets of parents might offer to largely contribute to or gift you a honeymoon. Again, we know this generosity seems out of the question for a lot of couples, but it does happen. Sometimes families will even get together to plan out parts of the honeymoon and surprise the couple before they start planning.

### Everyone (Via Your Cash Fund)
Instead of (or in addition to) your wedding registry, you can create a [cash fund](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds). This is an online way to receive cash gifts from friends and family who are invited to your wedding. These funds can then be seamlessly transferred to your bank to be used towards your honeymoon. This is especially ideal for couples who are already living together or don’t necessarily need household items.

Asking for money outright might not be appealing to you, but with Zola, you can [create several individual cash funds](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/50-fun-and-useful-ways-to-use-your-wedding-cash-fund) that allow your loved ones to feel like they’re contributing to something specific and special. In other words, rather than making a general Honeymoon Fund (which you totally can do), you can break it up into smaller moments. Think airline tickets, expeditions, and dinners. Anything you may need money for where your trip is concerned.

*Pro tip: Before publishing your cash fund, attach a photo of you and your partner. It’s far more personal than a generic vacation stock photo, making guests more likely to contribute.*

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*Photo Credit* // Alison Turcotte Photography

### Your Family and Friends (Via Cash)
Beyond your honeymoon or cash fund, your grandparents, other family members, friends—you never know who—might step up and offer you even a portion of your getaway costs. Whole groups of loved ones may come together to crowdfund and raise money to cover the expenses. If this is the case, you’ll probably know early on in the wedding and honeymoon planning process. 

That’s not always the case, though. If some time has gone by and you aren’t aware of any surprise donors, begin saving for your own honeymoon. That way, if someone doesn’t come out and offer (which is completely OK), you’ll be prepared to pay the bill yourself. And if they just so happen to, that saved money can then be contributed to another aspect of the wedding or your newlywed life.

When it comes to who pays for the honeymoon, there is no wrong answer. Whether it’s yourselves, a family member, or some close friends, be grateful for the time spent together as newly-minted spouses. That’s what truly makes the trip one to remember.

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Couples spend months, hours, and days curating the perfect wedding, and there’s nothing better than being whisked away with your love the day after. However, sometimes [circumstances](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/guests-weddings-and-vaccines-what-you-need-to-know), such as schedules and finances, don’t allow for traveling right away. That’s where a staycation honeymoon comes into play. Staycations are economical and can be filled with memories. So get ready to channel your creativity as you learn how to plan the perfect staycation honeymoon. 

## What Is a Staycation Honeymoon? 
Many honeymooners travel and get to know a faraway destination inside and out. With itineraries in hand, they test out local restaurants, visit historic sites, peruse art galleries, and explore the great outdoors. A staycation is essentially doing all of those things in your own area.

A staycation honeymoon is the perfect opportunity to enjoy a romantic getaway as a tourist in your hometown. You can finally cross off places you’ve always meant to go, but haven’t had the opportunity to yet. Does it sound lackluster? It’s not—a staycation can generate just as much excitement and plenty of memory-making opportunities.

## What Are the Different Types of Staycation Honeymoons?

![How to Plan the Perfect Staycation Honeymoon](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/Z4l81cBbqcnFuBOE0eFTv/18d4589ff211b501330d5ff873ee5630/inline_shutterstock.jpg)
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Staycations can take on several forms, and which you choose is up to you. Linger at home, use your house as a home base, or get to know a town nearby. Here are a few different combinations you may want to consider: 

- __Stay home and stay in.__ Treat your dwelling as a resort. You may not have an ocean view or poolside bar service, but you can pretend. Stock up on food and drinks, order out, and watch movies. You can even hire a service to perform deep tissue couples massages at home for a truly relaxing retreat.
- __Sleep at your home and explore your town.__ Use your house or apartment as your home base. Next, plan your itinerary within a 20 to 30 minute radius of your home. You may be amazed at all of the things there are to do close by. 
- __Book a hotel or Airbnb in your area.__ Romantic hotel staycation ideas can be even better than sleeping at home. Find a place with a cozy bed that’s within walking distance to shops, sights, and restaurants. Of course, you could always stay in the room and enjoy the amenities that the hotel offers. 
- __Discover a new town within an hour radius.__ When your area lacks options or you’ve already explored every bit, it’s time to take a short road trip and discover somewhere new together for the first time as a married couple. Doing so still counts as a staycation, because you’re remaining nearby. Plus, you can thoroughly take in a nearby town this way.

## Why Plan a Staycation Honeymoon? 

- __A staycation can be less stressful to plan.__ Wedding planning decisions can be a stressor, especially if both of you are making them together. You may not have the mental space to devote to a full vacation right away. Instead, stay at home and relax.
- __You can’t take the time right away.__ Whether it’s due to work schedules or other factors, sometimes it’s not possible to take a full vacation. If this is the case, honeymoon-at-home ideas are the perfect compromise. Stockpile those vacation days and save time off for a future date.  
- __Budgeting for a wedding and honeymoon isn’t possible.__ Weddings can be expensive, and honeymoons can cause additional financial strain. Exploring nearby won’t [tap your budget](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-fund-101) as much. Save now, so you can experience a big trip for your first, fifth, or tenth anniversary. 
- __You can’t decide where to go.__ You want to stay at a rustic ski lodge, but your partner envisions a traditional resort honeymoon by the sea. [Compromise](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/cant-agree-on-honeymoon-location) by having a romantic staycation until you can think about where you want to spend time away from home.
- __Exploring your area is a priority.__ Some couples genuinely want to get to know where they live. A staycation is a fabulous option for couples moving to a new place after their wedding. It’s a great way to accomplish two things simultaneously—familiarize yourself with your new location while spending time together.

## How to Plan the Perfect Staycation Honeymoon 

### Determine Your Interests.
Just as with a long-distance honeymoon, it’s best to chat about what you want to do. Narrowing down your interests will help you decide where you want to explore. From sports and artisan shops to history and [spa treatments](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/conair_dual_jet_bath_spa), figuring out where your interests lie can help you curate your perfect honeymoon.

### Decide How Far You Want to Go.
Figuring out how [far you want to travel](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-planning-101-what-you-need-to-know) may be determined by your list of interests. Not everything may be available in your hometown. Is going for a hike a must to get out of the busy city? If so, you’ll have to factor in driving time to where you want to hike.

### Figure Out Where You Want to Stay. 
Determining where you want to stay goes back to what type of staycation you’re craving. Will you stay at home, book a hotel downtown, or head to an Airbnb in the next town? The choice is yours, but you need to make a reservation to set your schedule. 

### Establish a Length of Time. 
No matter your plans, don’t feel that you have to plan an entire week for a staycation. You won’t have long travel times to and from your destinations. Therefore, you may only need a few days, depending on your itinerary. 

### Be Creative About Your Activities. 
Incorporate some of your favorite things into your staycation. Wine lovers can do a tasting at home, as many wineries offer samples to savor at home. (Hint: [try Winc](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/clubw_monthly_wineclub)!) If you enjoy a particular destination, such as France, build off of the theme. Cook Parisian cuisine and watch a documentary about traveling the French countryside. 

### Come Up With a Budget. 
A staycation should be more economical than that snowy ski chalet you wanted to book. However, if you’re [saving up for a future trip](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/save-money-on-honeymoon), don’t blow through your budget too quickly. Figure out what you have to spend, then allocate amounts towards food, lodging, activities, and even a souvenir if you so choose.

### Focus on Each Other. 
The purpose of the honeymoon is to soak up time together before life goes back to normal. Take advantage of the time, but don’t forget to include relaxation. Sleep in, make time to talk, and—for heaven’s sake—[turn off those cell phones](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/unplug-on-your-honeymoon). There is plenty of time to focus on work and social media after your staycation. 

### Treat It Like a Real Honeymoon (Because It Is!)

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Though a honeymoon doesn’t typically involve sleeping in your own bed, town, or sometimes even your state, going far away doesn’t define what a honeymoon is. It’s your honeymoon, so make the best of it. Dress up for dinners out, buy those little somethings that will wow your partner each night, pop open an expensive bottle of bubbly. Even if you spend the entire honeymoon in your own home, you can still have honeymoon-style experiences. 

No matter what your post-wedding trip looks like, remember that it’s a time to connect, reflect, and plan for the future. A staycation honeymoon can be perfect for those looking to savor time together without traveling far from home. Choosing to stay close rather than opt for a traditional honeymoon is a good investment in your town and each other as you start your life together.

24 City Hall Wedding Ideas for Your Perfect Day 

Here’s a newsflash: During the wedding planning process, a time will come when you and your SO disagree on something. Sometimes that something is small like deciding your wedding invitation font. Other times it turns out to be bigger like deciding your honeymoon destination. You want a lazy, luxurious beach retreat. Your partner wants an [adventurous locale](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-planning-101-what-you-need-to-know) with ski slopes. What’s a couple to do? Read on for everything you need to know about how to deal when you and your partner can’t agree on the [best honeymoon destination](https://zola.com/expert-advice/best-honeymoon-destinations).

## Compromise.
You know what they say, happy relationships are all about compromise! If you and your partner both have two very different ideas of a perfect honeymoon then it’s time to find a middle ground. For example, you could go with one of your trip ideas for the honeymoon and then you could take the other’s trip idea for an occasion like your first marriage anniversary trip. 

While a honeymoon is definitely something to look forward to as you end your wedding festivities, it’s not the end-all, be-all of trips you’ll take together as a couple. 

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## Find a middle ground.
Make a list of the reasons why you chose your ideal honeymoon destination. You want to visit Paris for architecture, history, and museums, for example. Your SO should make a list of their reasons, too.

After you both have your respective lists, compare them together and see if there’s a place that embodies both of your lists. If your partner wrote that he or she wants to go to Mexico for the sunshine and food, maybe you could go to a destination such as Buenos Aires. There you get the rich architecture and history, as well as the desired weather. 

## Go half-and-half.
If you want a few days spent [relaxing oceanside](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/choose-beach-honeymoon-destination) but your SO wants an exciting weekend in the city, don’t fret. There are ways to do both. No, we don’t mean booking two extravagant trips. Instead, split one big trip into two mini-moons. A [mini-moon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-mini-moon) is a shorter (oftentimes less expensive) trip that many couples take after their wedding and ahead of a planned honeymoon.

Spend two or three days at a beach town before packing up the rental car and driving into the city. Of course, this idea isn’t feasible for all honeymoons. If you’re staying domestic, though, you can likely find a great spot that incorporates the peace you need and the energy your partner wants. 

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*Photo Credit* // Unsplash

## Take a poll.
If, after much discussion, list-making, and debating, you still can’t decide on a honeymoon location, it’s time to use a lifeline and phone a friend. You can gather your closest friends and family to help you review the options and make a decision. They may even think of a solution that you haven’t considered. 

Alternatively, if you’re really brave (and social media savvy), take it to Instagram and post a poll. Your followers may like the opportunity to weigh in and, again, may offer some resolution. 

Ultimately your honeymoon location should be decided between you two. However, you may gain some valuable insight to help you narrow it down.

## It’s all about you as a couple.
While it’s easy to get swept up in going on the perfect honeymoon, it’s important to remember that the honeymoon is an [escape for you and your partner](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/when-should-we-go-honeymoon) as newlyweds. Even if it’s not exactly how you pictured it in your own mind, it will still be an unforgettable time with your love.


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11 Dos and Dont’s for a Perfect Honeymoon

Can't Agree On a Honeymoon Location? Here's What to Do

Three words: *beach and chill*. If escaping to a [luxurious beachfront destination](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/cut-destination-wedding-costs) sounds exactly the right honeymoon to you, you’re not alone. The whole *‘no shoes, no shirt, no problem’* concept isn’t lost on many. Beach destinations are some of the most popular for honeymoons year after year. However, hitting the coast can have its setbacks—no, not sunburn. Hurricanes: common, but serious storms that occur with increasing regularity thanks to gradual shifts in our climate. While it’s statistically unlikely that a hurricane will interfere with your honeymoon, it’s important to know the risks and precautions as you plan.

If you’re planning or already planned a beach and chill honeymoon in a potential hurricane zone, read on. Here is your complete guide to planning a wedding during hurricane season.

## What You Need to Know About Hurricanes
Unless you’ve grown up along the coast or near the hurricane belt (a nickname given to a particular area in the Atlantic Ocean heavy with regular hurricanes), you may not know how a hurricane can develop and evolve. Before booking a beachy honeymoon, get to know the ins and outs of hurricane lingo and behavior.

### What categorizes a storm as a hurricane?
Hurricanes begin as tropical disturbances created when rain clouds compile over bodies of warm water. These clouds can intensify to create a tropical depression, tropical storm, and eventually escalate into a hurricane. According to [NASA](https://www.nasa.gov/audience/forstudents/k-4/stories/nasa-knows/what-are-hurricanes-k4.html), hurricanes are broken up into five categories, each elevating in severity of mph wind gust. You’ve probably heard “category 4 storm,” for example. Category 1 starts at 74 mph.

### Where do hurricanes hit?
Typically, hurricanes occur by/in the Carribean, Gulf of Mexico, and southern east coast of the US. However, technically the hurricane belt runs as a boomerang from the northwest African coast across the Atlantic ocean to the Eastern Coast of the United States and the Caribbean, following back up across the Atlantic to northern Europe (Azores, Ireland, UK, and Iceland).

### When is hurricane season?
Hurricane season starts June 1st and ends November 30th. August, September, and October are the peak months for hurricane activity. If you can, it’s best to avoid traveling to coastal locations near the hurricane belt during these months. 

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*Photo Credit* // Allison Hanson Photography

## How To Avoid A Hurricane On Your Honeymoon
If it feels impossible to avoid locations with hurricane regularity (or if you’ve always wanted to honeymoon in the Caribbean, for example), so be it. But plan and book your trip smart.

### Book inland.
If you and your partner plan to book your honeymoon between the months of June and November, try to book a location more inland and not directly on the beach. Many coastal towns or cities have inland resorts or hotels that provide shuttles to and from the coast. The further away from the coast, the less likely you’ll have to evacuate in a hurricane. 

### Try these islands.
Good news: There are islands that technically aren’t part of the hurricane belt. Visit the inhabited Caribbean islands to ensure safety from hurricanes. These include Barbados, Saint Vincent and the Grenadines, Grenada, Trinidad and Tobago, Bonaire, Curaçao, Aruba, Providencia Island, and the San Andrés. 

### Avoid booking during hurricane season.
If you’re dying to hit a location near the hurricane belt, that’s OK. Just push the honeymoon out of peak hurricane season. Simple enough if your schedules allow.

### Have a plan B.
If there’s no extra cost, what’s the harm of a backup plan? We know planning a honeymoon, in general, isn’t the easiest thing. Most people are limited by PTO days, blackout days at work, or other schedules that are relatively inflexible. If you can, though, develop some kind of backup plan that you can lean on. Many travel experts recommend booking through companies with zero-cancellation policy hotels that require (only) 48 hours notice to cancel or change.

Flights are certainly a different story, but it’s not impossible to score deals on last-minute flights. Ideally, your backup location has regular or direct flights from your local airport.

### Purchase travel insurance.
Travelers insurance is a great tool to secure your funds when your travel plans change out of your control. Whether it’s through the airline, hotel, or a third-party vendor, purchasing traveler’s insurance guarantees your money back in case of an emergency (like, say, a hurricane).

## What To Do If You Already Booked
If you’ve already planned (and booked) your honeymoon somewhere on the belt during hurricane season, don’t worry! Again, it’s statistically unlikely that a hurricane will third-wheel your honeymoon. However, knowledge is power and thanks to modern technology, you can stay as informed as possible and foresee projections. Here’s what you need to know.

### Check the forecast.
It may sound obvious, but many couples leave for their honeymoon the day after their wedding. In the beautiful chaos of getting a wedding ceremony and reception together, checking the weather for your honeymoon location may fall to the wayside. Try to keep an eye on the weather for your destination for two weeks ahead of your departure. Alternatively, ask a friend or family member to watch it for you if you’re busy getting last-minute wedding details together. Typically meteorologists can predict a storm path a week in advance.

### Understand the parameters for cancelations.
If you booked without securing travel insurance, you may still be in the clear if a hurricane is projected to hit. Some airlines or resorts have guidelines in place that provide refunds or rebookings when faced with natural disasters. Contact each and see how they handle these logistical matters a few weeks before you’re scheduled to leave.

### Is there a sister property elsewhere? 
If you’re unable to get a full refund, some resorts may transfer your stay or credit to a sister property in another location. This is an adventurous turn of events for a honeymoon, as you may get to visit a surprise location. Additionally, airlines may transfer your flight to a new location, especially if they can’t fly into a specific area due to a storm. 

### Make the call.
Meteorologists and weather experts can only predict where and when a storm is going to hit. If it looks like a storm is about to hit your honeymoon location, you and your partner need to make the call on whether or not to risk it and go, or stay local and cancel. 

### Secure traveler’s health insurance.
Whether you’re traveling to the hurricane belt in-season or off, having traveler’s health insurance every time you visit a new place is crucial. For a severe storm like a hurricane, you never know what may happen, so be prepared with coverage or emergency retrieval funds. It can be a life-saving step. 

### Call your credit card company.
Did you know that your credit card may have travel benefits? For example, some companies provide you with cancelation fee coverage or international health insurance. Additionally, your credit card may come with a concierge service that has access to information that you may need when a hurricane is approaching your honeymoon destination.  

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## What To Do If A Hurricane Is Coming
Some locations (like Bermuda or the Azores) can have as little as two days notice before a storm makes landfall. So, if you’re already on-site in a place like this, you need to be prepared. First and foremost, don’t panic! With planned guidance from officials in the area and prior knowledge, you can stay safe.

### Find a way back home.
As soon as you get word of hurricane landfall, look into transportation services out of the impacted area. While a direct flight home would be the ideal situation, remember that your priority is safety and not comfort. If there are only flights left to another safe location, book those and worry about getting home later. 

### Locate emergency services. 
On the off chance you can’t get out of the hurricane’s path, contact the nearest embassy or consulate in that country. They’ll have a system set in place for the safety of their citizens. Additionally, premium travel credit cards or international insurance programs have concierges set in place to assist you in manners such as these. 

### Learn the hotel or resort’s response system.
It’s extremely likely that your hotel or resort has established and practiced responses to a severe storm like a hurricane (particularly if they’re located on the hurricane belt). Learn and listen to your hotel staff for potential next steps. 

### Be respectful.
Remember, while it may seem like a vacation to you, you’re visiting another person’s home. Whether you’re being instructed by the hotel staff or an emergency response team, these are human beings trying to help you with storm care. It absolutely sucks that your honeymoon is being sidetracked by a hurricane, but it also sucks for everyone else involved, especially if their homes or families are in danger. Be mindful of these realities and keep your cool.

### Prepare for yourself.
Yes, it’s crucial to listen to the advice and knowledge of your resort staff or emergency response team. However, you and your partner are solely responsible for your welfare. Before the storm hits, make sure to have access to bottled water, sustainable food, and external batteries. 

Preparation is everything when it comes to planning a honeymoon during hurricane season. It’s unlikely that a hurricane will make landfall during your getaway, but there’s still a chance that it could happen. Give your itinerary the extra padding—and your mind the proper knowledge. You and your partner are sure to have one incredible honeymoon, storm or no storm.

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Destination Wedding Cost + Tips to Cut Costs

Your destination for honeymoon planning. Find money saving tips, guides on what to pack for your trip, advice on how to unwind, and more. Here's all the information you need to plan the post-wedding vacation of your dreams.


__Table of Contents:__

- <a href="#1">Part 1: Proper Honeymoon Fund Etiquette: Everything You Need to Know</a>
- <a href="#2">Part 2: Create Your Honeymoon Fund</a>
- <a href="#3">Part 3: Your Wedding Website: The Complement to Your Honeymoon Fund</a>
- <a href="#4">Part 4: 5 Ways to Personalize Your Honeymoon Fund</a>

# 1. The Complete Guide to Proper Honeymoon Fund Etiquette<a id="1"> </a>
Whether you already live together and have all the household appliances you need to start your life as newlyweds, prefer to forego traditional registry items, or want a mix of both money and tangible gifts, a honeymoon fund is a practical option. Here’s what to keep in mind when crossing “creating your honeymoon registry” off your wedding planning to-do list.

### What Information Should You Include?
On your online honeymoon registry, include:

- The place(s) you're traveling to

- The month of the trip

- Any activities or excursions you're planning to do

- The reason you picked the location(s)

### Should You Put Your Honeymoon Fund Information on Your Invitations?
It’s never proper etiquette to include registry information on a wedding invitation or save the date. That being said, most guests do want to know where you’re registered/how to give a wedding gift for the big day. So, include a link to your honeymoon fund on your wedding website so guests can easily find it. 

Loved ones will want to start contributing once you get engaged, so set up a honeymoon fund or registry ASAP. In addition to wedding presents, people (especially gift givers!) like to give gifts to celebrate your engagement and wedding shower—so having a registry set up makes it easy for them to get gift ideas find a gift you actually want. While you don’t need to have your honeymoon fund completed hours after the proposal, get started sooner rather than later. That way, you won’t end up with four toasters—instead of the plane tickets that you *really* wanted.

### Should You Have a Traditional Registry in Addition to Your Honeymoon Fund?
While plenty of guests will happily contribute to your honeymoon fund, some will prefer to get you tangible gifts instead. So, add a few items in case someone would rather wrap up a present instead of donate to your trip. This is especially important for wedding showers, since a main part of the festivities usually involves watching the bride-to-be open gifts. Luckily, Zola makes it easy to register for both a honeymoon fund as well as gifts, all in the same place. Even if you’d prefer a cash gift, add gifts that guests can purchase (20 or so items is a good target).

What’s great about honeymoon funds is that you’re not forced to spend the money on anything in particular. While guests donate to different aspects of your trip (such as airfare, lodging, dining, and activities), they’re not actually purchasing those items.

Instead, the money can be withdrawn by the couple to be used for their honeymoon. This way, if you discover that the hotel you were going to stay at is closed or the museum you wanted to visit is too crowded, you won't lose out on any funds. When you write them a thank you note, just make sure to let them know [what you used the cash fund for](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/50-fun-and-useful-ways-to-use-your-wedding-cash-fund) instead!

### What Happens If Your Trip Is Cancelled?
Even though we hope your dream honeymoon goes according to plan, life happens. Perhaps you opted to change destinations, had to reschedule your trip, or decided to use the money for something else, like a home down payment. Whatever the reason, if the original trip is no longer happening, you won’t lose the money you were gifted.

## 2. Creating Your Honeymoon Fund<a id="2"> </a>

The first step in creating your honeymoon fund is deciding where you’d like to go. Not only will this determine what sort of activities and items you request, but it will help your guests feel involved. With so many amazing places to see, it can be hard choosing where to go to celebrate your marriage. So, sit down as a couple and turn the decision into a fun date night! Make a list of places that you both want to go, and after selecting a date that works, narrow down your options.

### Plan/Budget Your Trip

Once you've picked a dream honeymoon destination, take some time to map out your trip itinerary. You’ll need to decide how long you want to travel for, where you want to stay, and what you want to do. In order to do that, you’ll want to [create a budget.](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-set-your-wedding-budget)

Once you have a budget, it’ll be easier to figure out what hotels you’d like to stay in and how many lavish dinners you can afford. Be sure to budget for things like pet sitters, travel gear, and potential fees, such as passport renewals, checked bags, or transportation from the airport.

### Add Items/Experiences
Now, it's time to decide what you want to do while you're away! Since guests will be donating to specific activities (like going to a museum or taking a cooking class), you’ll want to get an idea of the activities available and how much these experiences cost. While you don’t need an exact number, a ballpark will help ensure that you budget properly.

Instead of just asking for a large, lump sum of money, we recommend splitting funds up into smaller, more personalized gifts. Guests will love contributing to [specific honeymoon experiences](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-types-of-experiences-should-i-add-to-my-registry), such as a wine tasting in Italy or a couples massage in Cabo.

### Add A Gift Registry
While you might prefer a cash registry contribution, some guests would rather give you something tangible. Even if you hint that you want donations to your honeymoon fund, there will be a few people who head to the store to get something you can unwrap. To avoid being gifted unwanted items, register for a few gifts in addition to your honeymoon fund. Think about things you might use on your trip, such as travel pillows, luggage, plug converters, or even gift cards. 

Chances are that there are a few items you’ll need to purchase before jetting off. Register for them, and give guests the chance to purchase something tangible—while still supporting your honeymoon goals. At Zola, you can register for both a honeymoon fund and actual gifts in one convenient location. 

### Withdrawing the Cash
What makes a honeymoon fund so simple and flexible is that your guests aren’t actually purchasing the items, but rather giving you money to use toward your honeymoon. Whenever you decide, you can transfer the funds to your bank account. While the first transfer usually takes up to 10 business days, following transfers shouldn’t take more than two to four.

### Additional Fees
Creating a honeymoon fund is easy and cost-effective. Since all credit card companies charge a transaction fee to transfer money online, you can expect whatever company you utilize to charge a service fee. At 2.4 percent, Zola’s is officially the lowest, and we never take anything extra (or make money off your funds)—it’s all yours to keep! You can either have guests pay the fee with their contribution or you can absorb it on their behalf. Either way, rest assured that you're getting the best rate around at Zola. 

## 3. Wedding Website and Honeymoon Fund<a id="3"> </a>

Your wedding website is one of the best tools at your disposal. Not only does it make all the information about your wedding accessible, but it’s a great way to help your guests learn more about you. 

__Tell Your Guests How You Met__

While some guests probably know your love story, others might not know the details. Whether it’s parents’ friends or distant family members, giving guests the chance to read more about your partnership is a wonderful way to personalize your wedding experience. Outline how you met, touching upon anything funny or out of the ordinary (just be sure to keep it clean—even grandparents know how the internet works) that will make your guests smile. 

### Tell Your Guests How You Met

While some of your guests probably know the story of how you met, others might not know all the details. Whether it’s parents’ friends or estranged family members, giving guests the chance to read more about how your partnership came to be is a wonderful way to personalize your wedding experience. Outline how you met, touching upon anything funny or out of the ordinary (just be sure to keep it clean—even grandparents know how the internet works) that will make your guests smile.

### Explain Your Love Story
What do you love about each other? What makes you thankful to be marrying your SO? How did the proposal happen? Outline what your journey has been like together and what you hope your future looks like. Your guests will feel much more connected to you after learning why they should be so excited that you’re tying the knot. 

### Talk About Your Honeymoon
Deciding where to go on your honeymoon is a big deal, and your guests are likely eager to learn more about your trip. If you’re setting up a honeymoon fund, giving friends and family the details will help them feel included. Plus, they’ll be much more likely to donate if they know where you’re going and why you want to go there, so don’t hold back.

Did you two talk about going to Hawaii on your first date? Do you both have a passion for Mexican food? Explain how you decided on your honeymoon destination and what you’re looking forward to doing while you’re there. Chances are, there will be a few people who have already traveled there and would be happy to donate to certain experiences and/or give some must-know advice. Others might want to donate so you can experience something that they loved or always wanted to try.

## 4. 5 Ways to Personalize Your Honeymoon Fund <a id="4"> </a>

Make your honeymoon fund special! By adding specific details, giving your wedding guests insight as to why you’re so excited about the trip, and showing them just how much their contributions mean to you, you’re more likely to get donations to enjoy on your vacation. 

### 1. Add Specific Experiences
You don’t have to know every single thing you’re going to do on your honeymoon, but you should have an idea of a few key activities or attractions. In addition to admission to must-see spots, add things like boat rides, plane tickets, and lodging to your fund. Your guests will enjoy feeling like they’re gifting you a specific experience versus just handing you a check. The more specific you are with what you’re doing, the better your odds of people contributing.

### 2. Write Descriptions
Zola makes it super simple to create a honeymoon fund, and depending on where you’re going, there’s a good chance we already have a template laid out for you. That being said, making your trip and descriptions even more personal will help your guests understand the importance of your honeymoon. Have you always dreamed about dining under the Eiffel Tower? Is your SO a wine connoisseur and can’t wait to tour a vineyard? Insert your personality into the descriptions to better encourage your guests to donate. 

### 3. Explain Your Trip
Where are you going? When are you going? Why are you going? Give your guests the details surrounding your trip. Is this a way to relax after the wedding, or is this an exciting adventure before having children? The more personal and honest you are, the better your friends and family will feel about contributing to your honeymoon fund. 

### 4. Add Photos
A picture is worth a thousand words, and engaging photos in your honeymoon fund will help draw friends and family to the page. While you might not have destination photos (especially if you’re honeymooning somewhere new!), Zola has a large selection of stock images to choose from. Additionally, for things such as walking tours, dining, or even bottles of wine with dinner, try to find photos of you and your SO together to make your registry more personal.

### 5. Keep Your Guests Updated
Your guests want to know that you’re actually using the funds for what they contributed, so keep friends and family updated as you plan your trip. In your thank you notes, tell them when you booked your flights, or go out of your way to ask for dining or lodging suggestions. Additionally, if something comes up and the trip has to be postponed or canceled, be upfront about it. Chances are that your contributors will understand if you decide to use the money for a down payment on a house instead of a honeymoon, but it’s better that they hear it directly from you.

## 4 Best Honeymoon Funds

### 1. Honeyfund
[Honeyfund](https://www.honeyfund.com/) is a popular cash fund option where you can register for contributions to a home down payment, charitable donations, and, of course, your honeymoon plans. There aren't any setup fees, but you will get hit with a fee for automatic deposits. Honeyfund is exactly what it says it is—a fund for your dream honeymoon. So, you'll need to find another provider to host your actual wedding website.

### 2. Traveler's Joy
This online registry site is very user-friendly and makes it possible to set up a honeymoon fund registry in a matter of moments. The downside? [Traveler's Joy](https://www.travelersjoy.com/) charges fees for any credit card gifts.

### 3. Joy
[Joy](https://withjoy.com/honeymoon-registry/) is one of the newer honeymoon registry sites, and they market themselves as a zero-fee honeymoon fund option. You can receive monetary gifts through PayPal, Venmo, or Cash App, as well as traditional registry gifts from brands like Cuisinart and KitchenAid. Joy also has a partnership with Spur Experiences that makes it easy to find excursions and activities in various locations and add them to your registry.

Deciding to have a honeymoon fund is a personal decision. While the concept is still fairly new, more and more modern couples are opting to create a cash wedding registry, as opposed to (or in addition to) a traditional [wedding registry.](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-registry-checklist) 

### 4. Zola
While there are plenty of honeymoon funds on the market, there’s one that stands about the rest—and that’s Zola.

[Zola is a great option for your honeymoon fund registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard/registry) because it's a one-stop-shop. You can use Zola to create a customized wedding website, as well as set up both your honeymoon fund and traditional gift registry. From there, you can link everything together, making it easy for guests to not only get the details for your big day and RSVP to your wedding, but also contribute to your honeymoon fun—all in one place. 

Ready to get started? [Try Zola’s Wedding Registry and Honeymoon Fund today](https://www.zola.com/wedding/onboard/registry)!

Zola also makes it easy to create a honeymoon fund that truly works for you and your partner, whether that means creating a cash registry (which can be deposited directly to your Venmo account) or adding your dream honeymoon adventures and activities—like jet ski rentals, surf lessons, or wine tasting.

Whether you decide to forego tangible items all together or select a mix of both, Zola makes it easy to register for everything—from gifts and experiences to travel—in one convenient location. From trips around the world to staycations nearby, as long as you’re together, it’ll be a honeymoon to remember.

4 Best Honeymoon Funds + Tips4 Best Honeymoon Funds + Tips

From lay-flat seats, elevated cuisine (and drink), as well as premier service, the experience in the front of an airplane can be one of complete luxury. However, those lavish travel accommodations (read: business and first-class seats) come thanks to some serious dough—and [after the wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/whats-the-average-cost-of-a-wedding), dishing out top dollar for a plane seat to your honeymoon destination might not be in the budget. 

What if we told you there are ways to cut corners and score business class flight seats for a cheaper price. Keep reading as we unpack six tricks of the airline trade that may lead to a serious upgrade for your honeymoon travels. 

## Never buy your business class ticket upfront. 
Unless your mindset is one hundred percent, ‘I’m not flying economy on my honeymoon.’ Or you [successfully budgeted](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/5-ways-cut-wedding-costs) anywhere from $5,000-20,000 to fly to your destination, don’t buy business class tickets right away. There’s no downgrading after that and it’s better to explore your options before committing to such significant spending.

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*Photo Credit* // Nappy - Pexels

## Find the cheapest fare, then upgrade.  
Usually, the bulk price of the business class seat includes the price of an inflated (standard economy) flight ticket. So, instead of finding the most expensive economy seat and tacking on the extra charges for business class, flip the logic.

Find the [cheapest economy fare](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/save-money-on-honeymoon) flight and work backward to upgrade that ticket to business class. Why? The price difference to upgrade an existing ticket to business is substantially less than purchasing a business class fare upfront. 

Note: For this exercise, __avoid buying flights on third party sites__ like Booking.com or Expedia. Oftentimes airlines do not work with third-party vendors to upgrade the ticket, and legally the tickets are not theirs to manipulate. 

## Upgrade with points.
Airline points (or miles) are like a magical currency to exchange for the vacation of your dreams. So, they’re perfect for upgrading your honeymoon travel. If you are loyal to a certain airline or travel rewards program, be sure to ask if they take points for seat upgrades. 

Of course, each airline handles the process differently. So, you’ll want to be aware of your airline’s particular policy ahead of time. This way, you can start accruing points/miles early on and reach a more elite status that’s more likely to lead to an upgrade.

Not sure how to collect or redeem points? Read [How to Use Points to Save on Your Honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/save-money-on-honeymoon).

## Bid your price.
Imagine playing, ‘what are the odds’, but instead of a silly dare, you’re bidding on how much you’re willing to pay to fly business class on your honeymoon? Believe it or not, it’s a real thing, and airlines like United (and their partners), Hawaiian Airlines, and Virgin like to take part in it. 

Here’s how it works: After you purchase a flight ticket directly from the airline, you’ll get a ‘bid an upgrade’ email a few weeks later. The email will basically ask how much you’re willing to spend to fly business class. 

While this might sound fun and exciting—and it really can be effective—there are a few drawbacks. First, this doesn’t guarantee a ticket for both you and your partner. Second, once you bid a price, there’s no way to go back and alter your number. If the airline accepts your bid, your money is taken directly from your account or credit card on file. So, be sure that you’re sure about your amount and that you have the money available to front the cost if you do get lucky.

## Check prices 24 hours beforehand. 
If business class is looking a little lonely, airlines may dramatically dip their prices for flight tickets. In the company’s mind, a flight is taking off whether or not business class seats are filled. To hopefully avoid the sunken cost, though, airlines will sometimes reduce the price of business class seats to earn some extra money last minute.

Check your flight’s seat availability (on the seat option map) and then also check ticket prices for the open business class seats on that same flight. An upgrade may only mean a small (relatively speaking) fee. 

There are a few downsides to checking just 24 hours ahead of takeoff. For one, it doesn’t guarantee business class seats at all. Alternatively, you may only be able to upgrade your seat and not your partner’s. It’s possible that you can only score business class one way or leg of your journey (instead of round trip). 

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*Photo Credit* // Skitter Photo - Pexels

## Check prices at the gate. 
If you’re really in it for the thrill (or just really don’t mind economy), you can try asking for an upgrade at the gate. If upgrades or seats are available, you could get a business class seat for a fraction of the original price (or even for free, depending on your status with the airline).

To help your case, check-in early and in person. Business-class upgrades are typically awarded to loyalty members in the order they check-in. 

When it comes to travel logistics, it pays (literally) to learn the savvy tricks that can earn you and your partner perks like business class seats. So relax, lay-flat your chair, and enjoy the start of a fantastic honeymoon.

When Should We Go On Our Honeymoon?

What is a Mini Moon?

As the wedding celebrations wind down and you hug the last of your guests’ goodbye, you’re probably more than ready to spend some time alone with your new spouse. Hence why some couples choose to leave for their honeymoon immediately after the last glass of the champagne is poured. Enjoying a relaxing trip together right after [the hard work of the wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/tasks-before-honeymoon) is complete is certainly tempting, but it’s not for everyone. 

A delayed honeymoon—waiting a few days, weeks, or even months post-wedding—is another popular option. It can give you more time to save up again after endless wedding spending depletes your funds. It can also give you something else to look forward to after the excitement of your nuptials is over. 

Here’s are the [honeymoon planning](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-planning-101-what-you-need-to-know) tips you need to know to decide when the best time to go on your honeymoon.

## Should we leave right after the wedding?
Annie Banks-Mackenzie did it in *Father of the Bride*—and you can, too! If you want to make a grand exit, going straight to the airport as the wedding ends is certainly a luxe way to start your honeymoon. 

### The Good
An immediate start to your honeymoon means you can rest and recuperate post-wedding without worrying about reality (your messy apartment, work, etc.). Instead, you start married life enjoying your partner’s company in a beautiful destination (and hopefully with room service for a few days) 

That’s exactly why Mitch Glass, founder of the travel blog, [__Project Untethered__](https://www.projectuntethered.com/), chose to take his honeymoon right after his wedding last year. “I think from a relationship standpoint, the perfect time for a honeymoon is right after the wedding,” he says. “My wife and I were exhausted after weeks of stressful wedding planning, and our honeymoon gave us time to unwind, re-connect, and kick off our marriage with something special.” 

If you want to extend the bliss of your wedding celebrations, take off for your honeymoon ASAP. 

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*Photo Credit* // God's Wedding Photographer

### The Bad
On the other hand, leaving for your honeymoon immediately after the reception can be challenging, too. On top of all the last-minute details that take place in the week before the wedding, it’s stressful to even think about packing and planning for the honeymoon, too. 

That’s what happened when Analisa Jolley, founder of the honeymoon blog, [__The Honeymoon Vagabonds__](https://thehoneymoonvagabonds.com/), took her honeymoon right after the wedding. “We thought it would help us decompress after the stressful months of planning our wedding. I was dead wrong,” she says. “Not only did this make planning that much more stressful, but since we left the day after the wedding we also didn’t get to open any wedding gifts and some of the gifts we could have used while on our honeymoon like money and gift cards.” 

Giving yourselves a week after the wedding to rest up at home and take time to pack and regroup before the fun of the honeymoon starts may be your best bet, she thinks. That way, you won’t have to worry if your partner has their passport and swimsuit packed while you’re in the middle of your vows.

## Should we wait a couple of days?  
If leaving directly after your big day sounds overwhelming—but you don’t want to postpone your perfect honeymoon for too long—you could opt to wait to leave for your trip until a few days after your wedding. 

### The Good
Let’s be real—the ceremony and wedding reception can be exhausting. And for some couples, the thought of taking off for a big trip directly after such an exhausting day—even if it is the trip of a lifetime!—just does not sound like much fun.

By waiting a couple of days to leave for your honeymoon, you give yourself (and your partner!) a time to rest and recharge after all the wedding day-busyness. This can give you the energy that you need to feel fully present and engaged in your honeymoon—which is especially important if you’re planning a more active trip (for example, a hiking trip in Hawaii).  

![INLINE SimpsonPhotography 1080x720 Lindsey&Kyle](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/1qhDeX3ZczEJFlb3fdOrJd/975380a5050b62a8407de06b530fcc7f/INLINE_SimpsonPhotography_1080x720_Lindsey_Kyle.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Simpson Photography

### The Bad
If you choose to postpone your honeymoon for even a few days, you’ll have to contend with reality and the normal grind of your day-to-day life. For example, you may have to go back to work for a few days—or, at the very least, you’ll have to deal with household responsibilities. While you can certainly continue to revel in wedded bliss together with your spouse, the excitement may wear off more quickly once you’re back to your regularly scheduled programming—which means that you may head into your honeymoon less excited and “on a wedding high” than you would if you took off the morning after your wedding night.

## Should we few months—or even a year?
There’s no hard and fast rule that says you need to go on your honeymoon right after your wedding—or even soon after your wedding. In fact, many couples choose to postpone their honeymoon for months (or even up to a year!).

### The Good
There are a lot of pros to significantly postponing your honeymoon trip—starting with scheduling. Many people take time off for their weddings—which may include a few days before the wedding (for setup and pre-wedding events like the rehearsal dinner) and after (to rest and recharge after all the wedding festivities). Many people don’t have the flexibility or PTO to take off an additional chunk of time for their honeymoon right after their wedding—in which case, it would make sense to postpone.

Another perk of pushing your honeymoon back a few months is that your [honeymoon destinations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/best-honeymoon-destinations) aren’t limited to the time of year you get married. For example, let’s say you’re getting married in July—but your idea of a dream honeymoon is a week skiing the slopes in Colorado. If you didn’t postpone your trip, you wouldn’t be able to make your honeymoon dreams a reality (not much snow in Colorado in July!). But by pushing your honeymoon to December or January, you could have the honeymoon that you want—no compromises necessary.

The final reason you may want to consider waiting a few months (or a year!) for your honeymoon is financial. Weddings are expensive—and many couples don’t have the financial resources to pay for their weddings and a big trip immediately after. Postponing the honeymoon a few months will give you plenty of time to replenish your savings account—which will put you in a position to actually enjoy your honeymoon (instead of worrying about the costs). 

### The Bad
There’s one major downside to scheduling your honeymoon months (or a year) after your wedding. And that downside is that, by the time the trip rolls around, it may not feel like a honeymoon anymore.

The longer you wait to take your honeymoon, the further removed you are from your wedding day. Months (or a year) into your marriage, you’re not necessarily going to feel like newlyweds; you’re going to feel like a married couple. And as more time passes—and you settle more into your marriage—the more you run the risk of your honeymoon feeling like just a normal vacation.

## What else should we consider?
Realistically, the best time to take your honeymoon may come down to a few different factors. Here are a few more to consider.
- __When can you get the best deal?__ To keep the budget realistic, consider when you can get the best deal on flights and hotels and travel then. If you get married on a Saturday evening, you might get a better deal on a hotel and flight if you wait until Tuesday to leave. Set up Google flight alerts and book well in advance to get the best deals. If you’re traveling to a trendy destination, you may save money by avoiding its busy season and visiting a few months later.
- __How's the weather?__ You may have chosen September on the East Coast for a gorgeous fall wedding, but it’s now [__hurricane season__](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/plan-a-honeymoon-hurricane-season) in the Caribbean. Waiting a few months for peace of mind may work best in cases like this. 
- __How much time can you take off work?__ You and your partner may have already taken a few days (or a week) off to prepare for the wedding. You may want to delay your trip until you’re both free to set aside a longer [amount of time for the honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-long-should-a-honeymoon-be). You can always take a mini-moon or a weekend road trip together in the meantime. 
- __What do the actual travel logistics look like?__ The honeymoon should be something you look forward to, not another thing to stress over. If you’re having a destination wedding, getting married in a remote location, and it’s going to take three hours to drive to the airport post-reception, it’s fine to go home for a few days and regroup before heading out. 
- __What do you actually prefer?__ Go on your honeymoon when it works best for both of you—not because your mom thinks it’s cute to make a grand exit for the airport post-reception. 

As per usual, the best time to take your honeymoon is whenever works best for you as a couple. Take your destination, goals for the trip, and any other logistical details in to account before making your decision.!

*Looking for more insights on all things honeymoon? Make sure to check out [Zola’s Expert Advice on Honeymoons](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/honeymoon)!*

How to Plan an Outdoor Wedding: 32 Tips to Avoid Hitches

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25 Small Wedding Details You Don't Want to Forget

Though it’s one of the most important aspects of your [honeymoon planning](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-planning-101-what-you-need-to-know), asking for time off from work is often an overlooked detail that’s frequently left to the last minute. Instead, [requesting time off](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/requesting-time-off-for-a-honeymoon) from work should be one of the first steps you take toward planning for your honeymoon. Upon having this conversation with your supervisor, you’ll have a more concrete idea of how much time you’ll have to be away. So, it’s best to have this conversation as soon as possible. More importantly, there’s certainly a right and wrong way to make your time off request. Check out our top tips for [how to request time off from work ](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/requesting-time-off-for-a-honeymoon)for your honeymoon. 

![Requesting Time Off for a Honeymoon](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5VApADGZqqMcUaL8YbmaeG/ca3b2d37cf9f2e5506c49be52bdbe927/inline_stocksy_mountaincouple.jpg)
*Photo Credit //* Stocksy

## When Should You Make the Ask? 
While there is no definitive rule for how far in advance you should speak to your boss about your honeymoon vacation, it’s best to give them as much time as possible. In some cases, you may not be able to formally submit the request form for your time off with human resources until closer to the trip, but it’s still a good idea to clear your chosen dates with your boss. 

Oftentimes, deciding when to ask your boss for time away is more about the circumstances of your unique situation, rather than a particular timeline. For example, you’ll want to have this discussion before booking any of your arrangements. While most companies and supervisors are more than understanding when it comes to weddings and honeymoons, it could prove challenging to adjust your plans, should anything go wrong. It’s also best to consider the time of year you plan to travel and what will be happening in your company at that time. For instance, if your employer puts on a large conference every fall, that may not be the best time for you to be away for two weeks. 

Similarly, it is also beneficial to consider the time of day you choose to have your conversation with your boss. If you know she is usually busy in the mornings, don’t try to talk to her right when she walks in the door. Instead, wait for a time when she is free and able to process your time off request. 

## How Much Time Can You Ask For? 
Unfortunately, this is a question with no clear answer. The amount of time you are permitted to take away from the office and [how to request time off](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/requesting-time-off-for-a-honeymoon) for your honeymoon will primarily depend on your company and its paid time off policy. If you work for an organization with a traditional paid leave policy, you’ll most likely be permitted to take as much time as you have accrued by the date you leave. So, if you have one week, you can take one week. However, if you want more time, you may be able to ask for, or negotiate, additional unpaid leave. 

If your company has a more contemporary leave policy, such as unlimited or flexible time, it may not be as clear what you can expect. In this case, consider what the norm seems to be within your organization. If you have “unlimited” time, but most employees only take a week or two off at most, consider that when determining how much time off you’ll request. 

If you plan to travel immediately or shortly after your wedding, consider the total amount of time you’ll want to be away during that period. It may be difficult for your manager to approve a vacation request of two weeks off for your wedding, and then, only a short later, three weeks off for your honeymoon. For this reason, many couples choose to delay their honeymoons at least three to six months after the wedding. Plus, by delaying your trip, you can save up your vacation days over an extended period. 

So, when you’re planning, ask yourself [how long should a honeymoon be,](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-long-should-a-honeymoon-be) and determine the appropriate amount of time you should request off. 

## What Should You Say? 
Once you have decided what to ask for and when to have the discussion, it’s time to actually make your request. Thankfully, this should be a relatively straightforward process, and it’s highly unlikely that your boss will deny your request if you have carefully thought through the two questions above. However, just because you’re likely to receive approval, doesn’t mean there’s nothing you should do to make the conversation easier. This can be done by putting yourself in your boss’s shoes and considering the questions that she will have so that you can ensure that she has a clear understanding of what steps you’ll take to guarantee things run smoothly while you’re away. Explaining how the operations of your department will not be impacted by your absence and knowing which employee(s) will cover you while you’re out will increase your chance of having an approved request. 

For example, if you’re managing a critical project team, you might say, “I would like to request two weeks off in October. I have already discussed coverage of my project management responsibilities with Tanya on the team, and she is prepared to step in while I am away.” The key is to show your manager that you have considered how your trip may impact the business, and you have taken the appropriate steps to minimize disruption. If she knows everything is taken care of while you’re gone, she will feel more at ease approving your request. While it can be tempting to submit your request via email, it’s best to have your initial conversation in-person. This allows your boss the opportunity to ask any clarifying questions, and makes the leave request feel more like a discussion that is open for schedule adjustments, such as shifting your days off earlier or later, if needed. 

![Requesting Time Off for a Honeymoon](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5h3BctL576eR3qVyw4gvEW/cf0646b462de6620e449a816b52f21e1/inline_unsplash_boss.jpg)
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## How Can You Prepare for Your Absence? 
First, breathe a sigh of relief that the hard part of [requesting time off](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/requesting-time-off-for-a-honeymoon) is over. But, don’t relax just yet! Preparing for your time off is key to ensuring that you are able to relax while you are away. Start by setting expectations with your colleagues, manager, and anyone helping to cover you while you’re gone. This may include training another employee on certain aspects of your job, such as making sure that he or she knows where to access specific information or paperwork, and understands pertinent details for any customer-facing projects or work. 

The more care you take in making these preparations, the more you’ll be able to unplug while you’re away. Think about everything you do throughout your workday and write down information as you go. In some cases, it may be worthwhile to create a document to house all of the details of your daily schedule. Start taking these notes a few weeks prior to your departure so that you can review them with relevant colleagues closer to your leave time. 

Once you have set all expectations and shared all relevant information and paperwork, the last thing you need to do is put up an out-of-office reply on your email and/or phone line. This helps you, and those covering you, by notifying anyone who tries to contact you of your absence. A key element of this away message should be sharing whom people should contact while you are gone. In addition, stating when you’ll be responding to messages is a great way to continue setting expectations. For example, your out-of-office reply may look something like this: 

*Thank you for your email. I am away on my honeymoon from October 14 to 29. During this time, I will not be responding to any messages, and you can expect a response upon my return on October 30. If you require assistance in the meantime, please reach out to colleague@company.com.* 

This short message clearly sets the expectation that you will not be responding to emails during your honeymoon, while also redirecting anyone who needs help before you return. 

Hopefully, you found these tips on requesting time off to be helpful. Remember, every company is different, so be sure to review your request policy in the process. Then, once your pending request is approved, visit [Zola](https://www.zola.com/) to find great honeymoon deals for your upcoming trip!

Requesting Time Off for a Honeymoon

While [planning a wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-plan-a-wedding) is an exciting time, it can also cause a great deal of stress. So, it’s no wonder so many couples look forward to a honeymoon escape after their nuptials. Not only can this time help you relax and unwind after your wedding day, but it’s a chance for you, as a couple, to spend time together before launching back into daily life. That said, [honeymoon planning](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-planning-101-what-you-need-to-know) can sometimes be nearly as stressful as coordinating the wedding itself, especially when trying to answer a key question: how long should a honeymoon last?

## How Long is the Average Honeymoon?
The average honeymoon lasts between 7 to 10 days. While some newlyweds may decide to extend their honeymoon to two weeks and beyond, others might decide to skip their honeymoon celebration altogether. It all depends on the couple’s vacation time, budget, and destination. In reality, there is no one-size-fits-all answer to that question, because honeymoons are as unique as the couples who plan them. Maybe your dream is a month spent backpacking through Europe, or perhaps a quiet weekend retreat in the mountains is more your style. If you’re having a tough time figuring out your ideal honeymoon duration, we have some tips for you. 

## How Long Does It Take for You to Relax? 
Honeymoons are primarily designed for you to spend uninterrupted quality time together, focusing on making memories as newlyweds and enjoying each other’s company. For that reason, the length of your honeymoon doesn’t really matter, as long as you’re disconnecting from the rest of the world and enjoying married life. However, another important role of the honeymoon is to help you relax after what may have been over a year’s worth of wedding planning. Considering this, think about how long it usually takes you to feel relaxed on vacation. For you, maybe that’s a few days, a week, a month, or even longer. Once you have an estimate, discuss the same question with your partner to figure out how long you both need to unwind and de-stress after the big event. This gives you a starting point, or goal length, to consider while you continue your planning. 

![How Long Should a Honeymoon Be?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6mtnvexxLhyke4ELpmIHux/b3106160eff619f8f35c425d3961ab6e/inline_elkincardonaphotography.jpg)
*Photo Credit //* Elkin Cardona Photography

## How Much Vacation Time Do You Have?
The next question you need to answer is how much time you can take away from work. Most Americans are only allotted two to three weeks’ paid time off; however, if you’re planning far enough in advance, you may be able to stock up your vacation days to accommodate a longer honeymoon. Alternatively, you can attach your honeymoon travels to a national holiday, thus allowing you to use fewer paid vacation days. In some cases, due to workplace time-off limitations, couples decide to delay their honeymoons from a few weeks to a year after their wedding, so that they can have their ideal honeymoon when time permits. It’s worth noting that, depending on the type of company you work for, you may find that you’re permitted to take a few extra days off as a wedding gift, but have this conversation with your superior before you start making plans. 

## What Can You Afford?
It’s easy to start dreaming about all of the exotic and beautiful locations you’d like to visit on your honeymoon. But, before you think about your destination, you must determine a [realistic budget for your honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-fund-101). Not only will this keep you from overspending, but you can use it as a guide when researching your ideal vacation spot, considering only those locations that you can afford. To create an accurate honeymoon budget you must look at anticipated costs, including: transportation to and from your destination, travel expenses for the duration of your stay, accommodation, food and beverages, additional activities, and emergencies or unexpected expenses. Bonus: Making a budget can also help you determine the ideal length of your honeymoon, as it pertains to your finances. 

If you don’t think you’ll be able to afford your dream honeymoon on your own, make sure to plan ahead; creating a honeymoon registry can help offset some of your trip costs. You can pick out activities, hotel accommodations, or even plane tickets for your guests to purchase or contribute towards. 

##  Where Do You Want to Go?
Now that you have a budget in mind, you can start to think about the places you’d like to travel to on your honeymoon. If you’ve determined that you can only use a few vacation days away from work, traveling to a remote [island honeymoon destination](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/best-honeymoon-destinations) may not be feasible, given the amount of time you’d spend in transit. Rather, for shorter honeymoons, consider destinations closer to your home or a short plane ride away. If, however, you’re able to take multiple weeks off for your honeymoon and you have the finances to enjoy extended travel, an excursion across Europe or a far-flung [adventure honeymoon destination](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/best-honeymoon-destinations) may be the perfect choice for you.  

![How Long Should a Honeymoon Be?](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5Aeefx8pemEJzjob6tWe7u/44682d9550bd26e494c413523b6c731f/inline_unsplash.jpg)
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## When Will You Go? 
You’ll want to consider the time of year that you’ll be taking your honeymoon, as it pertains to both weather and tourism. The summer months in Europe are a peak season, which means that your expenses will be higher and your budget will not go as far. Similarly, planning a trip to the Caribbean or South Pacific during hurricane or monsoon season could severely disrupt your travel plans or leave you relegated to indoor activities throughout your trip. 

## Other Planning To Dos 
Now that we’ve answered how long a honeymoon should be, there are a number of other tips to help you plan the perfect post-wedding getaway. 

__Start Early__. As tempting as it might be to push off your honeymoon planning until after you’ve made all your wedding arrangements, it’s best to consider your travel and accommodations well in advance. Not only can booking early help you get a better price for other honeymoon expenses, but it can help ensure that you secure the hotel or resort of your choice, especially if your ideal honeymoon destination is popular at your chosen time of travel.

__Do It Together.__ If you’re like most couples, chances are that one of you tends to do more of the planning and logistics than the other. While it may be easier for that person to take control and plan the entire trip, your honeymoon is supposed to be about experiencing things together and creating shared memories. So, take this time to discuss what you’ll each value doing while you are away together on your dream vacation. This ensures that the trip doesn’t end up filled with activities that only one of you wants to do. 

__Make It Your Own.__ With so many pre-planned itineraries available online, it’s tempting to copy someone else’s vacation; however, this would do a disservice to you, as a newlywed couple. Your honeymoon should be as unique as you are. While it’s fine to take ideas from online platforms or advice from friends and family, make sure that you’re stopping to discuss and consider what will work best for you as a couple. 

__Consider a Travel Agent.__ With insider knowledge on deals and discounts, using a travel agent to help plan your honeymoon can save you both time and money. Be sure to find someone interested in cultivating a personal relationship with you in order to provide the best service possible. Plus, travel agents will typically be available for questions or emergencies while you are traveling, giving you someone to call for help if things go wrong. 

__Surprise Each Other.__ While most of your honeymoon should be planned together, carve out some time for each of you to plan a surprise for the other. Focus on making full-day or expensive plans as a couple, but sneak in a special dinner date night or relaxing couple’s massage to add excitement and romance to your trip.

Ready to plan your dream getaway? By following these top tips, you'll ensure that you and your partner will experience a truly amazing vacation, wherever you decide to go. For even more honeymoon planning tips, contact our experts at Zola today. 

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How Long Should a Honeymoon Be?

As your wedding weekend comes to a close, there’s nothing more romantic than jetting off on your [honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/topic/honeymoon) with your new spouse. Whether you’re off to the mountains, the beach, or a chain of islands, you’re probably more than ready to soak in the beautiful sights and activities of your [location](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/when-should-we-go-honeymoon?_branch_match_id=990864557735024639&_branch_referrer=H4sIAAAAAAAAA8soKSkottLXr8rPSdRLLCjQy8nMy9aPjHB3LvCq9DM3BAAjuaaJIAAAAA%3D%3D). 

In all the excitement of the wedding planning, though, you may not have given too much thought to what to bring beyond the basics. With that in mind, we've put together the ultimate honeymoon packing list. It covers all the essentials you’ll need for the plane ride, dinners at the resort restaurant, exciting adventures, romantic nights in your suite, and more. 

Below is everything you’ll need to pack in your checked luggage and carry-on for throughout your getaway. Plus, checklists inspired by [different locations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/best-honeymoon-destinations) and honeymoon activities.

*Note: Be sure to adjust the amounts of each item depending on the [length of your stay](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-long-should-a-honeymoon-be). Also, consider the style of your accommodation and check for any dress code requirements.*

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## Tips for Making Your Packing List
Before diving head-first into our pre-made packing list, there are a few things you should be reminded of. We know, packing is generally very straightforward. However, since your honeymoon will likely take place soon after your wedding, planning and packing for it can end up being a bit more stressful. To ensure that you're best prepared, review the following before making your packing list.

- Start by __looking at a comprehensive honeymoon packing list__. Lucky for you, we've created that just below! You'll find packing essentials not only for your carry-on and checked luggage, but for specific locations and activities.

- That being said, __try not to go overboard__. You probably won't require every single item on this (or any other) packing list. Treat this packing list as a jumping off point, meant to be personalized and trimmed down for you and your trip.

- __Pack items that are versatile__. Rather than packing multiple outfits per day (or even one per day) to be worn once, most of your clothing should be able to be washed and worn at least a couple times. This should prevent some hassle and save you a decent amount of luggage space.

- __Triple check that you included crucial items__. Especially things that can't be easily replaced when you reach your destination. We're talking any and all medications (including over-the-counter), personal hygiene products, contact lenses, and the like.

- Although it's probably the part you're least looking forward to, __get your documents in order early__. We recommend doing this before your wedding, so nothing gets lost in post-party exhaustion or the flurry of packing everything else you'll need. Don't forget copies of important documents and cards, all of which are listed just below.

## Important Documents<a id=“first”> </a>  
Whether you're planning on traveling domestically or internationally, there are at least a couple important documents you're going to need. Try to start getting these together a few months before you're set to leave for your honeymoon (new passports take around 18 weeks to receive). As you put them together, keep them in a special folder that you'll be able to fit in your carry-on.

- Airline tickets (printed or mobile boarding pass)
- Driver's licenses (and printed copies)
- Passports, if necessary (as well as printed copies), visas, REAL-ID, or other [TSA-accepted document](https://www.tsa.gov/travel/security-screening/identification)
- Car rental, hotel, restaurant, theatre,  and other reservation confirmations (plus printed copies)
- Travel insurance card
- Important wallet contents (ID or driver’s license, ATM card, credit card, cash, traveler's checks)
- Photocopies of all cards, travel documents, vaccination documents, health insurance card, prescriptions, and similar
- Calling cards with the phone numbers of emergency contacts, your doctor(s), and your bank
- List of prescribed medications in case of emergencies, preferably documented by your doctor

## In Your Carry-On (All Destinations)
Your carry-on bag should contain small items you may want to access while on the plane (or train, or automobile), as well as medications and valuables you want on-hand. This lowers your chances of losing them in transit and ensures you're comfortable on the way to your vacation spot.

- Hand sanitizer, antibacterial wipes
- Prescription medications (in original containers)
- Contraception (birth control, condoms)
- Over the counter medications (Tylenol or Advil, anti-histamines, antacids, etc.)
- Brush or comb
- Small skincare or makeup bag (if desired)
- In-flight reading/entertainment (books, magazines, Kindle, iPad, laptop)
- Chargers (phone, iPad, Kindle, camera, etc.)
- Adapters/converters (if needed)
- Headphones
- Camera (plus film, memory cards)
- Any valuables you want on hand (jewelry, etc.)
- A light jacket, cardigan, or sweater
- A change of clothing (underwear, top, bottoms)
- Travel pillow and blanket
- Eye mask
- Travel sewing kit

## In Your Checked Luggage (All Destinations)
Your checked luggage should include everything else you want and need to pack for your trip. This includes clothing and shoes, as well as hair tools, guidebooks, toiletries (more specifics on those after), and more.

- Luggage tags
- Packing cubes (if you prefer to pack using them)
- Underwear (multiple pairs of underwear, bras, etc.)
- Lingerie
- Swimwear
- Comfortable socks (multiple pairs)
- Pajamas and loungewear
- Slippers
- Casual tops (tank tops, t-shirts)
- Dressy tops (blouses, button-downs, etc.)
- Casual bottoms (jeans, leggings, shorts, etc.)
- Dressy bottoms (trousers, dress pants, skirts, etc.)
- Other outfit options (dresses, jumpsuits, etc.)
- Outerwear (wrap, jacket, coat, raincoat)
- Activewear
- Shoes - multiple pairs, broken in (flats, sandals, sneakers, boots, etc.)
- Backpack or purse (plus evening bag or clutch, if needed)
- Travel umbrella or rain poncho/parka
- Hair tools (curling iron, straightening iron, hair dryer, etc.)
- Translation dictionary, guidebook(s), maps (if needed)

## In Your Toiletries Bag (All Destinations)
Arguably, this is the hardest bag to pack. There's a lot to remember that—if you do end up forgetting—can be quite the bummer. Triple check this list as you create your own, then take special care to make sure you packed all you need.

- Travel med kit (band-aids, antihistamines, antacids, bandages, etc.)
- Toothbrush, toothpaste, floss
- Tampons or other favorite hygiene products
- Skincare (face wash, cleanser, moisturizer, lotion, etc.)
- Makeup bag
- Makeup remover
- Travel fragrances (body spray, perfume, cologne)
- Hair products (hairspray, dry shampoo, etc.)
- Hair elastics
- Lip balm
- Sunscreen
- Aloe Vera
- Insect repellent
- Deodorant
- Shampoo, conditioner
- Mouthwash
- Body wash or soap
- Small bathroom tools (tweezers, nail clippers, etc.)
- Razors, shaving cream, aftershave
- Contact lenses, contact solution, eye glasses
- Eye drops
- Cotton balls or swabs (disposable or reusable)
- Tide pen
- Re-sealable ziplock bags in varying sizes
- Massage oil (optional)
- Bubble bath or salts (optional)

## What to Pack According to Location<a id=“local”> </a>  
Your packing list should be highly curated around your honeymoon destinations. Below we add some extras that will come in handy at the beach, in the snowy mountains, and out on adventures.

## Beach Vacation
- Aloe vera, after-sun cream
- Sunglasses
- Hat (sunhat, baseball hat, etc.)
- Beach bag or tote
- Flip-flops, water shoes
- Bathing suits (bikinis, one-pieces, swim trunks)
- Swimsuit cover-ups
- Over-swimwear outfit (tank top, shorts, sundress)
- Beach towels (if not provided by accommodations)

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## Snowy Cold Weather Trip
- Thick, waterproof socks (multiple pairs)
- Waterproof boots
- Ski goggles
- Gloves, mittens
- Winter hat, beanie, warm headband, earmuffs
- Scarves, neck warmers
- Underlayers (long underwear, leggings, other thermal layers)
- Turtlenecks, heavy sweaters, and other warm layers
- Ski apparel (waterproof ski pants, ski jacket, snowsuit)
- Winter sports equipment (consider mailing ahead or renting)
- Ski bag, ski lock
- Hand/foot warmers
- Rich face and body moisturizer or cream
- Rich lip balm

## Adventurous Getaway
- Comfortable walking shoes
- Hiking boots
- Athletic socks (multiple pairs)
- Hats (safari, sunhat, baseball cap)
- Activity-appropriate clothing (sports bra, short- and long-sleeves, shorts, long outdoor pants, wetsuits, activewear, etc.)
- Binoculars
- Hiking or wildlife guides

## What to Pack According to Activity<a id=“act”> </a>  
Last, but not least, we've gathered some essentials for various activities you may partake in while on your honeymoon trip. Take a look (or three) in preparation for all of the fun you have lined up.

## For Everyday
- Weather-appropriate clothing
- Loungewear
- Comfortable shoes
- Slippers

## For Outdoors
- Band-aids
- Bug spray
- Sunscreen (waterproof, if needed)
- Sunglasses
- Goggles
- Appropriate shoes (hiking boots, water shoes, etc.)
- Activewear (plus layers)
- Athletic socks
- Wetsuit or swimwear
- Headbands, hair ties
- Athletic or waterproof bag
- Waterproof phone case

## For Nights Out
- Outing-appropriate clothing (sundress, formal dress, button-down shirts, blazer or sport coat, dress pants, suit, coat or jacket)
- Accessories (belt, tie, 
- Nice shoes (heels, flats, dress shoes)
- Evening bag or clutch
- Favorite jewelry and accessories

## For Intimate Nights In
- Contraception (condoms)
- Lubricant
- Lingerie (bonus points if they're kept in a lingerie or laundry bag to prevent rips)
- Alternatively, sexy underwear
- Robes (silk, plush)
- Massage oil (or massage oil candle)
- Bath salts
- Toys, if preferred (though some countries don't allow them, so check with your destination)

## What to Leave Behind<a id=“leave”> </a>  
Last, but not least, you need to prepare a few key things to leave behind. This may seem counterintuitive, but trust us, each makes perfect sense. These ensure that you stay safe and loved ones can get in contact with you during your trip, if need be.

- List of emergency contacts and contact information
- Photocopies of driver's licenses and passports, confirmation numbers, travel documents, traveler's check receipts, bank information
- Documents with the name, phone numbers, and addresses of where you will be staying, complete with check-in and check-out dates
- Optional: Consider leaving your engagement ring at home. This may prevent you from losing it throughout your travels. Many newlyweds opt to wear just their wedding bands or purchase a less valuable, faux engagement ring to wear when traveling.

We may sound repetitive, but it's worth noting once more: Be sure to keep your honeymoon's specific location, accommodations, trip duration, and any other important travel details top of mind as you pack for your honeymoon. Consider the places you'll be going, activities you'll be taking part in, and what you'll spend your time doing when putting your luggage together.

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## What is the average honeymoon cost? <a id="average"> </a>

The average cost of a honeymoon is $4,500 per couple in 2023. Estimates range anywhere from about $2500 to $8000, depending on whether you're traveling domestically or internationally, as well as the duration of your trip, and whether you choose self-catering, all inclusive, or something in-between. 

__Expert Advice__: Add a [honeymoon cash fund](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds) to your wedding registry and get honeymoon costs covered as wedding gifts! 

Now that you’ve started thinking about where to have your dream honeymoon, it’s time to start planning! Check out our [Guide to Honeymoon Planning](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-planning-101-what-you-need-to-know) for tips and tricks on how to plan an unforgettable trip.

## FAQs about honeymoon destinations <a id="faqs"> </a>

### What are the best honeymoon destinations in the US?

The best honeymoon locations tend to be beaches, as many newlyweds are after a relaxing escape that involves little more than lounging and pampering. While there are countless beach honeymoon options, Maui, Hawaii, is a long-time favorite for many couples, as it can suit both affordable and luxe vacation budgets.

### What is the most popular honeymoon destination?

There are certain destinations that are known for their popularity among honeymooners—top honeymoon destinations include the Maldives, Fiji, Hawaii, Costa Rica, Aruba, and the Italian Amalfi Coast, all of which boast some of the best honeymoon beaches. Other romantic honeymoon destinations include Thailand, Alaska, Bali, and Greece.

### What are the best honeymoon destinations on a budget?

Deciding where to honeymoon on a budget is easier than you’d think. While the best way to save may be opting for honeymoon places within your own country to avoid expensive airfare, you can score some serious deals by looking for all-inclusive travel packages on sites like [Travelzoo](https://www.travelzoo.com/). You can also save by traveling during a location’s down season, as flights and accommodations are significantly cheaper. Be sure to research ahead of time to score the best deals.

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