The Best Small Wedding Venues in Pawling, NY

The Best Small Wedding Venues in Pawling, NY

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7 Wedding Venues in Pawling, NY

Historic estates, mansions
Up to 50 guests
Available on September 13, 2026
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The Wedding Foundry Hudson Valley 

5.0

Highland, NY
  • Up to 75 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

We include coordination and staff, photography, officiant, florals, catering, desserts and more. Say "I do" to a stress-free wedding experience with The Wedding Foundry. Let us handle the details while you focus on what truly matters – celebrating your love in a setting that's as unique and unforgettable as your relationship. We host perfect Micro Weddings up to 75 guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Allows pets
  • Exudes old-world charm

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
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Booking with The Wedding Foundry at Liberty View Farm is the best thing my husband and I have ever done. We were looking to have a small intimate wedding, but every venue tour we did still had a 75-100 person minimum and required a large cost requirement for catering. Then I happened upon The Wedding Foundry when researching micro weddings. We had one phone call with Billiam and immediately signed the contract, without even viewing the venue first. As a bride, the fact that they were including the venue, the officiant, photography, florals and catering was the best thing ever. It took so much stress off of me while planning this wedding, as I did not have to run around to different vendors. Billiam and Erica were extremely communicative and really took the time to learn what we were looking for. Day of, Billiam and his day of coordinator Cathy made sure the day ran perfectly. We were absolutely blown away from how beautiful our venue was. The florals they created made our wedding look like a fairy tale. Our guests said it was the most beautiful wedding they have ever been to. Erica was an absolute pro with photography, really taking her time with my husband and I for our portraits. Throughout the night she made sure to capture every moment. Erica sent teasers to us within a week of our wedding and the photos are beautiful. The officiant, Michele, was amazing. She created the most personalized and beautiful ceremony that fit us perfectly. We loved how she included a hand-fasting ceremony as well. Multiple guests approached us to let us know that there was not a single dry eye during our ceremony. The Wedding Foundry truly created our perfect day. We are so happy with our intimate wedding, we had 46 of our closest friends and family and everyone truly enjoyed the day. I highly recommend booking The Wedding Foundry at Liberty View Farm for your intimate wedding.
Courtney P., 8 months ago
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Mountainville Manor 

5.0

Mountainville, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Mountainville Manor ensures that your wedding day is a merging of natural beauty and award winning, world class cuisine. The Victorian details and beautiful grounds offer a timeless backdrop for your special day, where you can say your vows in front of the charming gazebo. There is also an inside ceremony option, in our ballroom. Cocktail hour is enjoyed in the “home” part of the Manor with access to the wrap around porch and courtyard area with fire pit. The Manor provides two areas for a spectacular reception - an elegant setting with windows on several sides of the main ballroom to accommodate up to 150 guests or a tented reception on our lush landscaped grounds accommodating up to 250 guests. You may arrive four hours before your ceremony and get ready in our spacious bridal party suites. Hosting only one wedding a day, we pay special care and attention to every detail, making the wedding planning process stress-free and the event flawless for you and your guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Versatile for various event styles
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Words cannot even begin to describe how wonderful Mountainville Manor is. We got married there November of this year (2020) and we’ve been planning with them since the summer. Every step of the way Lauren and James have been so helpful. They try to accommodate every part of your dream wedding. You can’t beat their all inclusive microwedding packages! So much is included leaving you with much less to plan and much less stress! The food is amazing and the chef will accommodate your food allergies and preferences. (My husband still talks about how amazing the salmon was.) The chef even made a delicious special vegan dish for me for the big day. The cake was beautiful and tasty. It looked better than we envisioned. Waitstaff and bartender were so attentive and nice. Everything was perfect. Thanks to Lauren, James, and their team. I couldn’t be happier. Thank you so much!
Delia G., 4 years ago
Akindale Farm 
Pawling, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor

Akindale Farm is one of a kind. Situated on 310 picturesque acres on Quaker Hill in the center of the Hudson Valley, Akindale offers a backdrop of rolling hills, herds of stunning racehorses, incredible vistas, and a wealth of different locations on the property to suit your special event. Akindale is not a typical wedding venue; but it is an exceptional place for your wedding. Our core mission is to rescue and care for retired Thoroughbred racehorses and we have over 120 on site. We are working farm, not a manufactured showplace. Therein lies our natural beauty. We welcome all types of ceremonies, and respect individual creativity. As a nonprofit, we are able to fund our work with the horses through offering our spaces and as such, your location fee will be completely tax-deductible. We hope you consider our space and invite you to come visit!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor

Venue considerations

  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Does not provide event staff
  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
The Bykenhulle House 

5.0

Hopewell Junction, NY
  • Up to 85 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,500

The Bykenhulle House is the perfect setting for a country chic wedding located in the heart of Hudson Valley, New York. Our historic estate boasts a formal ballroom, perennial gardens, a manicured lawn, and multiple stone patios to stage your event.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a glamorous vibe
  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • Not wheelchair accessible
The Bykenhulle House is a hidden gem hidden in the countryside in Dutchess County. The Bykenhulle has been hosting weddings for over 10 years, the setup is unique and beautiful. The ballroom speaks volumes with the perfect lighting. The gardens are perfect and offer those most beautiful of ceremonies. The Bykenhulle has great relationships with their preferred caterers and sought-after wedding vendors from the Hudson Valley.
Stacey Gillette Rogan, 4 years ago
Curry Estate 

5.0

Hopewell Junction, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,300

We'd love to help you if your wedding has been postponed or rescheduled. We have dates available and are ready to work with brides. Let's sit down and plan a new date for your special day! Le Chambord at Curry Estate is one of the most elegant and romantic wedding venues in the Hudson Valley. We know you have a unique vision for your wedding and this ten-acre beautifully treed and gardened property, with 1863 historic Georgian Colonial estate, ballroom, covered outdoor pavilion, four-star restaurant, conference center and overnight accomodations is the perfect setting to make that dream come true.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides catering services
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
The Curry Estate was the absolute best experience my husband and me could have imagined. They went above and beyond to make sure our expectations were met and exceeded. They make you feel at home and bring every element of elegance, fun, and beauty to the one of the most important days of a couples lives. They also accommodated us by letting us get some wedding photos retaken that were missed at our wedding. They are truly an incredible team!
Makenzi C., a month ago
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The Acre 
Brewster, NY
  • Up to 80 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $1,000

Magical home on private acerage overlooking field, lake and forest, one hour from NYC. Perfect for small familty weddings throughout the year or with up to 80 guests. This listing is venue only and I can assist with recommendations for tent and table rentals, catering, parking (for more than 18 vehicles) etc. Wedding party weekend stays and dining room for 12, cocktail party for up to 75. For group stays, 10 beds sleep 12 in 6 rooms with 4 bathrooms. (Airbnb The Acre) The house and property were featured in weddings, Vouge Italia, concerts, music videos, model shoots and film.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • Does not allow pets
  • Lighting and sound are not included
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19Main 
New Milford, CT
  • Up to 130 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $6,000

Constructed soon after the Great Fire of 1902, The United Bank Building was built to house two banks whose previous buildings had been destroyed, New Milford Savings Bank and the New Milford First National Bank. The two banks immediately organized to rebuild, quickly agreeing in principal to build a joint facility on the site of the New England House, a locally well known tavern and inn located at the corner of Bank and Main Street. For most of its life, the building had been used in some form of a bank, but had been largely under-used in recent decades, and had fallen into disrepair. The building was listed on the National Register of Historic Places in 1982 and taken over by Village Green Investments in 2015. After 9 months of renovations, the building became 19Main. Throughout renovations, we strived for modern amenities with historic elegance; three vaults remain from the building’s former bank days.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • Raw space for complete customization
  • Classic seating dinner

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
  • Additional event staff required

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About wedding venues in Pawling, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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