The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Flanders, NJ

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Flanders, NJ

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4 Wedding Venues in Flanders, NJ

Historic estates, mansions
150-200 guests
Available on May 30, 2026
The Meadow Wood 

5.0

Randolph, NJ
  • Up to 700 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

Featuring our gorgeous garden are and a reception venue to take your breath away, we offer every amenity that you could desire to create and ensure your special day is perfect. From classical European to contemporary design, the breathtaking décor at The Meadow Wood captures the essence of the most amazing places on Earth. Each of five exquisite rooms - unique and remarkable in their own right - set the stage for your fairy-tale event. Every ballroom has its own cocktail room, private outdoor and a bridal suite for pre-wedding preparation or a brief escape from the limelight. With packages customized to reflect your style and personality, you can sit back and relax while you watch your dream day become a reality.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-premises lodging options
We cannot put into words how incredible our daughter and son in law’s wedding was this past Saturday night. The entire event was way beyond what we even imaged it would be. The Meadow Wood is an absolutely beautiful, elegant venue (inside and outside) with every detail accounted for. That theme continues from start to finish with all they do. The food was not only delicious but was presented in such a way you couldn’t help but simply just say “Wow". We are happy we took a moment to pause and take it all in - from cocktail hour displays, to main course plating, to desserts that went on forever …. – “Amazing!!”. We appreciate all the work, professionalism and hands on attentive approach from the staff (a special shout out to Juan and Becky!!). None of this could have been accomplished without them working together in the same manner. It was seamless. Thank you, George, John, Tim, Charlie, Frank and all at the Meadow Wood for making our daughter and son-in-law’s wedding “the best day ever “as they begin their new life together as a married couple
Laurie and G., 2 years ago
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Waterloo Village 

5.0

Stanhope, NJ
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $19,000

Featuring a working mill, blacksmith shop, active church, and several beautiful historic houses, Waterloo Village is a time capsule surrounded by an air of tranquil beauty. With its rich history, Waterloo Village is the perfect setting for weddings. Boasting two spectacular indoor event spaces—the newly-renovated meeting house and the rustic pavilion—in addition to its spacious outdoor compound, Waterloo has the resources and ambiance to make your special occasion a memorable success. As a remarkably well-preserved example of a 19th-Century canal town and the site of a 400-year-old Lenape Indian village, Waterloo Village is an incredibly valuable piece of New Jersey history. Waterloo is open to the public as part of Allamuchy Mountain State Park and home to many events and educational programs to teach and inform visitors about the past. When you choose Waterloo Village as the setting for your event, a portion of proceeds will go towards the preservation and restoration of the site.

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Dressing room available
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • No free parking
Awarded Best of Zola
Waterloo Village is a truly magical venue, and we couldn’t be happier with our experience there. We first visited for a wedding and were immediately captivated by the rustic charm and historic atmosphere. After seeing how seamlessly everything ran that day, we knew it was the perfect place for our own wedding. The staff at Waterloo Village is outstanding—extremely friendly, helpful, and refreshingly low-pressure. They genuinely focus on making your day special without pushing you to spend beyond your budget. Their professionalism and warmth made the planning process enjoyable and stress-free. One of the highlights is their catering partner, JAM. Their commitment to farm-to-table dining is evident in every dish. Many of the ingredients are sourced fresh, some even from their urban garden, which adds a special touch. The food is not only fresh but absolutely delicious. If you’re looking for a beautiful venue with incredible staff and top-notch food, Waterloo Village is a fantastic choice!
Jordan G., 6 months ago
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The Mansion at Mountain Lakes 

5.0

Mountain Lakes, NJ
  • Up to 375 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Discover timeless elegance at The Mansion. Our renovated rustic venue blends classic charm with modern luxury, offering versatile spaces for events of all sizes. Experience impeccable service and award-winning cuisine at one of New Jersey’s top event venues. Your wedding at The Mansion is an embodiment of elegance and grace. Picture your special day amidst our luxurious ballrooms or tranquil gardens, each setting radiating sophistication. Our dedicated team is committed to bringing your vision of an elegant celebration to life, ensuring that your wedding is not just an event, but a cherished memory treasured by you and your guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Historic touches
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Allows pets

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
Awarded Best of Zola
We got married at The Mansion on Aug 10th and there are insufficient characters in this review box to capture our gratitude for what an impeccable place this was to get married. We initially chose the venue for ease of the location (we live a few blocks away). I hoped the food would be good, since we couldn't do a tasting, and just trusted it would all work out. THESE PEOPLE BLEW ME AWAY. The staff is awesome, from the Matre D, to the Bridal Attendant, to all the ways Jim and Nancy helped us tend to ever detail of the event, it was the most perfect day. The food was so delicious. Our guests are still talking to us about it weeks later. The cocktail hour was incredible. The main course was the best piece of meat I've ever had in my life. Everything was so fresh, and so delicious. My only regret of my wedding was that I didn't eat more than just a few bites of everything. I woke up the next morning craving the rest of my filet mignon, lol. We went with the "minimum" of everything included because we were on a budget, but it was all so abundant, generous and tasty. Even the dessert platters that came with the meal were amazingly delicious. The space itself is luxurious and beautiful. We had the whole venue to ourselves and the whole thing was just magical.
Emiliya Z., 10 months ago
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Rutherfurd Hall 

5.0

Allamuchy, NJ
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $800

Rutherfurd Hall is a historic Tudor style mansion build in 1904. The original woodwork, fireplaces, and grand stairs coupled with the amazing exterior views make for a beautiful backdrop for your wedding, bridal shower, party, or corporate event.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Raw space for complete customization
  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Dance floor not included
We had the pleasure of hosting our wedding at Rutherfurd Hall earlier this year, and we can't speak highly enough of the experience. From start to finish, everything was absolutely perfect. The venue itself is breathtaking—elegantly designed with gorgeous views, and it has an atmosphere that feels both luxurious and intimate. It was everything we dreamed of and more. Especially when we had a lot of challenges finding a venue for an Indian wedding to fit all your needs! A huge part of what made our day so unforgettable was the incredible service provided by the Director, Nick Serraino. From our very first meeting, Nick went above and beyond to ensure all your requests were accepted. He was incredibly kind, and always available to answer questions (which we had many of) or offer help! His professionalism and warm personality made the entire planning process smooth and stress-free. We can’t thank him and his team enough! If you’re looking for a venue that not only offers stunning surroundings but also a team that genuinely goes the extra mile to make your day perfect, look no further than Rutherfurd Hall. Our wedding is always a topic of fond memories at all other family gatherings! We will forever be grateful for the incredible experience and the kindness of Nick!
Pooja and M., 6 months ago

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About wedding venues in Flanders, NJ

Why Choose New Jersey for Your Wedding Day?

New Jersey gives you four distinct regions with unique wedding settings and styles to match any vision. September tops the charts for wedding inquiries here, so you'll want to plan ahead if you're eyeing a date during peak season. The varied landscapes mean you can find everything from waterfront elegance to historic charm without traveling far.

What Types of Wedding Venues Can You Find in New Jersey?

The venue scene in New Jersey covers just about every style imaginable. Luxury estates like Park Chateau in East Brunswick offer stunning French-inspired architecture with gorgeous European gardens that make for incredible photo backdrops. If water views are your thing, places like Liberty House showcase breathtaking NYC skyline panoramas right alongside the water. History buffs fall in love with venues like Pleasantdale Chateau in West Orange with its historic grounds and Mediterranean gardens. Modern couples gravitate toward industrial spaces such as The Art Factory in Paterson where contemporary design meets character and uniqueness.

How Much Should You Budget for a New Jersey Wedding?

Wedding venues in New Jersey typically run between $8,600 and $10,600, which falls right in line with the national range of $6,500-$12,000. Your overall costs will scale with your guest count. A 50-person celebration averages around $25,059 while stepping up to 100 guests pushes that to $41,588. Mid-sized weddings with 150 guests come in around $57,123 and larger gatherings of 200 reach about $71,002. Going bigger? Expect to invest around $84,881 for 250 guests or $98,761 for 300 guests. These figures help you set realistic expectations as you start planning.

Which Budget Categories Matter Most for New Jersey Celebrations?

Knowing where your money typically goes helps you allocate your budget effectively. Venues take the biggest slice at about 17% of your total budget or $9,599 for a 150-guest wedding. Florals follow at 14% costing around $7,821 while catering represents 13% at approximately $7,679. Bar services run about $6,143 or 11% of your budget. Photography investments average $5,674 (10%) with planning services at $4,622 (8%). Videography accounts for 7% at $4,051 and entertainment like bands or DJs takes 4% at $2,370. Sweet treats like cakes and desserts are surprisingly affordable at just $960 (2%) with hair and makeup coming in at $450 (1%).

ServiceAverage Cost% of Total (150 guests)
Venue$9,59917%
Florists$7,82114%
Catering$7,67913%
Bar Services$6,14311%
Photographers$5,67410%
Planners$4,6228%
Videographers$4,0517%
Bands and DJs$2,3704%
Cakes and desserts$9602%
Hair & Makeup$4501%

Where Can You Find Exceptional Culinary Experiences in New Jersey?

The Manor in West Orange houses one of America's most acclaimed kitchens with multiple ballroom options to match your party size. You'll love Liberty House in Jersey City where farm-to-table cuisine comes with those incredible NYC skyline views we mentioned earlier. Hudson House brings Italian influence through Executive Chef Matteo Limoli's creative menu designs. The Rockleigh adjusts their menus seasonally and can customize dishes to match your personal tastes. Food quality varies dramatically between venues so tastings are essential.

What Options Exist for Accessible Wedding Venues in New Jersey?

The Rockleigh can accommodate massive celebrations with up to 850 guests while offering both grand ballrooms and beautiful outdoor garden settings. Bridgewater Manor features elegant chandeliers a grand staircase and beautifully maintained grounds that photograph wonderfully. Always reach out directly to venues about specific accessibility features you need. Most have wheelchair ramps and accessible restrooms but details matter when creating an inclusive celebration for all your guests.

How Can New Jersey Venues Accommodate Remote Guests?

Crystal Springs Resort in Sussex County offers virtual tours that can be adapted for remote guest experiences. Liberty House and Hudson House provide scenic settings that work perfectly with advanced audiovisual systems to bring your ceremony to distant loved ones. Bonnet Island Estate offers unique backdrops that videographers can capture creatively for those who can't attend in person. More venues now offer hybrid options after the pandemic changed how we think about celebrations.

What Makes Your New Jersey Wedding Uniquely Yours?

You'll find your perfect match in New Jersey whether you're drawn to waterfront venues with Manhattan skyline backdrops historic estates with classical architectural details or modern spaces with industrial charm. The state's diverse regions offer venues across many price points and styles. Your wedding should reflect who you are as a couple and New Jersey's venue landscape gives you plenty of options to create that personalized celebration regardless of your budget or aesthetic preferences.

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