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You've chosen your people — now comes the fun part: finding wedding party gifts they'll actually love. Whether you're shopping for your bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girl, or the friend who's officiating your ceremony, the right gift says "thank you" in a way that feels genuine. This guide covers every role in[ your wedding party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-is-a-wedding-party-and-do-you-need-one), with real data from Zola's 2026 Registry & Gifting Survey, budget tips, timing advice, and ideas that go beyond the usual matching robes and flasks.

## **Who do couples actually give gifts to?**

Before diving into the what and how much, it helps to know the full picture of who couples are shopping for. According to Zola's 2026 Registry & Gifting Survey (n=656), gifting goes well beyond just the wedding party. Here’s a look at who couples, who are giving gifts, plan to give them to:

| **Recipient** | **Couples who gave (or plan to give) a gift** |
| --- | --- |
| Wedding party (bridesmaids, groomsmen, etc.) | 61% |
| Their own parents or family members | 43% |
| Partner's parents or family members | 31% |
| Officiant | 24% |
| Flower girl(s) / ring bearer(s) | 23% |
| Day-of coordinator or planner | 8% |

_Source: Zola's 2026 Registry & Gifting Survey (n=656)_

About 1 in 10 couples skipped gifts entirely — and that's completely valid too. But for the majority, gifting is a meaningful part of the wedding experience, and it extends to more people than most couples initially plan for. Building this into your budget early makes the whole process a lot less stressful.

## **How much to spend on wedding party gifts**

Before you start shopping, it helps to set a budget. According to Zola's 2026 Registry & Gifting Survey, nearly two-thirds of couples who gave wedding party gifts spent between $25 and $99 per person — with the largest share landing in the $25–$49 range.

| **Spend per person** | **Wedding party** | **Family** |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Under $25 | 10% | 12% |
| $25–$49 | 32% | 27% |
| $50–$99 | 31% | 30% |
| $100–$149 | 17% | 19% |
| $150–$199 | 5% | 6% |
| $200 or more | 4% | 6% |

_Source: Zola's 2026 Registry & Gifting Survey; post-wedding couples who are gift givers_

The ranges are similar across both groups, though family gifts skew slightly higher — more couples pushed into the $50–$99 range and above. Either way, the sweet spot for most couples lands between $25 and $99 per person regardless of who they're shopping for.

Here are some general ranges to guide you by role:

* **Bridesmaids and groomsmen:** $25–$99 per person
* **Parents & parent-in-laws:** $50–$99 per person
* **Officiant:** Dependent on whether they're a friend or a professional
* **Flower girls and ring bearers:** $15–$30 for something age-appropriate and fun

These are guidelines, not rules. If you're already covering expenses like hair, makeup, hotel rooms, or attire, a more modest gift is perfectly appropriate. The thought behind it matters more than the price tag.

One practical tip: build your gift budget into your overall wedding budget from the start. That way you won't feel squeezed at the last minute. Zola's free[ budget tool](https://www.zola.com/wedding-budget) can help you track every line item, including gifts.

## **When to give wedding party gifts**

There's no single "right" moment to hand over gifts, but a few popular options stand out:

* **The rehearsal dinner** is the most common choice. Your whole wedding party is together, and the mood is relaxed and celebratory.
* **The morning of the wedding** works well for a small, sentimental gesture — a handwritten note tucked into a gift bag with something they can use while getting ready.
* **When you ask someone to be in your party,** a small "proposal" gift is a nice touch. Check out these[ bridesmaid proposal ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/bridesmaid-proposal) for inspiration. Keep in mind that this is separate from your thank-you gift later on.

Choose the moment that feels natural to you and your partner. Some couples split it up — a fun ask-gift early on, then a heartfelt thank-you at the rehearsal dinner.

## **What do couples actually give their wedding party?**

Not sure where to start? Here's what couples most commonly chose, according to Zola's 2026 Registry & Gifting Survey:

| **Gift type** | **Couples who chose it** |
| --- | --- |
| Personalized accessories (bags, robes, etc.) | 62% |
| Getting-ready items (eye masks, skincare, etc.) | 55% |
| Jewelry, including personalized jewelry | 51% |
| Custom keepsakes or sentimental items | 45% |
| Matching sets or coordinating items | 42% |
| Alcohol or specialty food/drink | 15% |
| Cash or gift cards | 8% |
| Experiences (dinner, spa, etc.) | 3% |

_Source: Zola's 2026 Registry & Gifting Survey, wedding party gift givers_

Personalized accessories, getting-ready items, and jewelry dominate the list — which makes sense. They cover the wedding day itself (robes and skincare for getting-ready photos) and give your wedding party something lasting to keep. Custom keepsakes and matching sets round out the top five for couples who want everything to feel connected.

Notably, experiences like spa days or dinners came in last — chosen by less than 3% of couples. That doesn't make them a bad idea, but it does reflect how most couples think about this: something tangible that can be wrapped, handed over, and kept.

## **Bridesmaid gifts they'll actually use**

Your bridesmaids have shown up for you in a big way — from dress shopping to bachelorette planning to emotional support on the hard days. A great bridesmaid gift shows you noticed.

### **Think beyond the matching set**

Matching robes and tote bags are the most popular category in our survey data, but your bridesmaids may appreciate something they'll reach for long after your wedding. Consider gifts that fit their individual style and daily life:

* **Jewelry they'll wear again:** A simple gold necklace, a pair of studs, or a bracelet that works with more than just their bridesmaid dress
* **Custom momento:** A photo of you guys in a nice frame, or even an illustration
* **Practical luxury:** A quality cosmetic bag, a really nice candle, an engraved lipstick case

### **Getting-ready gifts vs. lasting keepsakes**

More than half of couples in our survey gave getting-ready items like eye masks and skincare — and it's easy to see why. They're useful on the day itself, show up beautifully in photos, and feel special without requiring a huge budget. But you don't have to choose one or the other. Many couples give a small getting-ready gift plus a separate keepsake that's more lasting. If your budget allows, this two-part approach covers both the fun of the day and a meaningful thank-you.

### **Make it personal**

A monogrammed item or an engraved piece adds a personal touch, but the most impactful addition is free: a handwritten note. Tell each bridesmaid what they mean to you and why you wanted them by your side. That note will matter more than any gift in the box.

If your wedding party includes people of all genders, don't feel locked into traditional "bridesmaid" or "groomsmen" gift categories. Pick what fits each person, regardless of which side of the aisle they're standing on.

## **Groomsmen gifts they actually want**

The groomsmen gift aisle has been stuck in a rut for years — flasks, cigars, and bottle openers on repeat. If those fit your groomsmen's vibes, great. If you're looking for something more personal, think about what each person actually enjoys and go from there.

### **Experience gifts**

Some of the best groomsmen gifts aren't things at all. Consider:

* Tickets to a game, a concert, or a comedy show
* A round of golf or a whiskey tasting experience
* A group outing you can do together after the wedding

### **Practical gear they'll keep**

If you want to give something tangible, aim for quality over novelty:

* A leather wallet or cardholder they'll use every day
* A nice watch at whatever price point fits your budget
* A pocket knife or multi-tool for the outdoorsy groomsman

### **Group gifts for the wedding day**

Matching ties, cufflinks, or socks are a fun way to unite the crew on the day itself. Browse our[ groomsmen accessories guide](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/groomsmen-accessories-a-comprehensive-guide) for ideas. These work well as a complement to a more individual gift, not as the main event.

### **The best man and maid of honor**

Your best man or maid of honor has probably gone above and beyond — planning the bachelor(ette) party, keeping the rings safe, and giving a toast. Consider stepping up the gift a notch. A nicer version of whatever you're giving the rest of the wedding party, or an entirely separate gift, is a thoughtful way to acknowledge the extra effort.

Explore Zola's[ bridesmaid and groomsmen gift collection](https://www.zola.com/shop/collection/bridesmaid-groomsmen-gifts) for options you can order and ship directly.

## **Gifts for flower girls and ring bearers**

The youngest members of your wedding party deserve a gift too — just keep it age-appropriate and fun. These are kids, not adults, so skip anything too formal or fragile.

### **Flower girl ideas**

* A charm bracelet or a simple necklace she can wear on the big day
* A stuffed animal or a doll she'll love long after the wedding
* A custom coloring book or activity set to keep her busy during the reception

### **Ring bearer ideas**

* A superhero cape or a fun costume accessory he can wear at the rehearsal
* A toy set or building kit tied to his interests
* A backpack with his name or initials on it

### **For older kids and teens**

If your flower girl or ring bearer is a teenager, think more like a gift card to their favorite store, a pair of headphones, or tickets to something fun. A card from you and your partner explaining why they matter to you is a nice addition at any age — and their parents will appreciate it too.

## **Gifts for the parents**

Parents are easy to overlook in the gift-planning process, but they've often played some of the biggest roles in getting you to this day — and the data reflects that. According to Zola's 2026 Registry & Gifting Survey, 43% of couples gave  — or plan to give  —  gifts to their own parents, and nearly 1 in 3 did the same for their partner's family.

Here's what couples actually chose — or planned to give:

| **Gift type** | **Couples who chose it** |
| --- | --- |
| Custom keepsakes or sentimental items | 72% |
| Experiences (dinner, spa, etc.) | 46%\* |
| Personalized accessories (bags, robes, etc.) | 46% |
| Jewelry, including personalized jewelry | 36% |
| Alcohol or specialty food/drink | 16% |
| Getting-ready items (eye masks, skincare, etc.) | 15% |
| Matching sets or coordinating items | 7% |
| Cash or gift cards | 2% |

_Source: Zola's 2026 Registry & Gifting Survey, family gift givers_
_\*Experiences were among the top planned gifts pre-wedding but dropped significantly in post-wedding reports — suggesting couples often swap this for something more tangible closer to the day._

Custom keepsakes top the list by a wide margin, which tracks: parents tend to cherish sentimental items over anything practical. A few ideas by role:

### **Mother of the bride / mother of the groom:**

* A piece of jewelry she can wear on the wedding day — a bracelet, a necklace, or earrings engraved with the date
* A custom keepsake box or frame with a photo from your engagement
* A getting-ready gift like a robe or a monogrammed tote for the morning of

### **Father of the bride / father of the groom:**

* A custom keepsake — an engraved watch, a personalized leather wallet, or a framed photo
* A bottle of his favorite spirits with a heartfelt note
* Cufflinks engraved with the wedding date or your initials

For both, a handwritten letter goes further than anything you can buy. If your parents contributed financially to the wedding, the gesture matters more than the dollar amount — what they'll remember is that you took the time.

## **Gifts for your officiant**

Nearly 1 in 4 (24%) couples give a gift to their officiant, according to Zola's 2026 Registry & Gifting Survey. Whether it's a close friend, a family member, or a hired professional, a thoughtful thank-you is always appropriate:

* A nice bottle of wine or spirits
* A gift card to a great restaurant
* A donation to a cause they care about, made in their name

For a friend or family member who's officiating, lean personal. For a professional officiant, lean traditional. Either way, a[ thank-you card](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/paper) should always be part of the package.

## **How to make any wedding party gift feel personal**

You don't need to spend a fortune to give a gift that feels special. The difference between a generic present and a meaningful one usually comes down to a few small details.

**Write a real note.** Not a greeting card platitude — an actual handwritten letter that references your relationship, a specific memory, or an inside joke. This is the single most impactful thing you can add to any gift, and it costs nothing.

**Match the gift to the person, not the role.** Your outdoorsy bridesmaid doesn't need a spa set. Your groomsman who loves to cook would appreciate a nice knife more than a flask. Think about who each person is, then shop accordingly.

**Presentation matters.** A simple box with tissue paper and a handwritten card can make a $25 gift feel like a $75 one. You don't need elaborate packaging — just a little care.

**Consider the two-gift approach.** A small, fun gift when you ask someone to be in your wedding party, followed by a heartfelt thank-you gift closer to the big day. This way each moment feels intentional, and you spread the cost over time.

Staying organized helps too. Add gift planning to your[ wedding checklist](https://www.zola.com/wedding/manage/checklist) so you're not scrambling the week before the rehearsal dinner.

## **Frequently Asked Questions**

### **What gifts do you give to your wedding party?**

The most popular choices, according to Zola's 2026 Registry & Gifting Survey, are personalized accessories like bags or robes (chosen by 62% of couples), getting-ready items like skincare and eye masks (55%), and jewelry including personalized pieces (51%). Custom keepsakes and matching sets round out the top five. The best gift ultimately depends on the person and the role — but personalized and practical consistently outperform generic.

### **How much should you spend on wedding party gifts?**

Most couples spend between $25 and $99 per person, with the largest share landing in the $25–$49 range, according to Zola's 2026 Registry & Gifting Survey. Your flower girl or ring bearer can be less — $15–$30 is typical. If you're covering other expenses like attire or hair and makeup, a more modest gift is completely appropriate.

### **Should bridesmaids and groomsmen get the same gift?**

There's no obligation to give matching gifts. Many couples keep the value range similar across the wedding party but choose different items based on individual preferences. Your book-loving bridesmaid and your golf-obsessed groomsman will both appreciate a gift chosen with them specifically in mind.

### **Is it okay to give experience gifts instead of physical gifts?**

Absolutely — though it's worth knowing that experiences are chosen by fewer couples than you might expect (less than 3% in Zola's 2026 Registry & Gifting Survey). That doesn't mean they're a bad idea. If you want something tangible for the wedding day itself, pair the experience with a small gift or a handwritten card.

### **Do you give wedding party gifts if you're also paying for their outfits?**

Covering expenses like attire, hair, or makeup is generous and your wedding party will notice. A small thank-you gift still goes a long way — it doesn't need to be expensive. A heartfelt note and a small, thoughtful item is more than enough.

Four women's hands displaying elegant diamond tennis bracelets and rings, wearing floral dresses in purple and pink hues.

The Best Wedding Party Gifts for Every Role in Your Wedding

Whether you're a guest look for wedding gift inspiration or a bride looking for bridesmaid gift ideas, you're in the right place! Find the latest trends and timeless gift inspiration, plus get advice on questions like how much to spend on a wedding gift and if you should buy a gift for the wedding shower.

As the resource for all things [wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry), we get a lot of questions here at Zola from guests looking to pick out the perfect wedding present. The question we get most often is, “How much should I spend on a wedding gift?” 

The answer varies depending on a few factors, such as how well you know the couple and how many different wedding events you’re invited to. Some of you may even be wondering if you need to purchase a wedding gift at all. Read on for our complete guide on wedding gift etiquette.

## How much should you spend on a wedding gift? <a id="spend"> </a>

These days, where cost-per-plate (explained below) does not factor into your choice of a wedding gift, exactly how much you should spend on a [wedding gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-expensive-is-too-expensive-for-my-registry) depends on various factors. 

Here are some general guidelines to follow:

- According to [Zola's 2026 First Look Report](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-first-look-report-2026), the average wedding gift spend is $130, with most guests spending between $100 and $150. That's a useful benchmark — but more importantly, choosing a wedding gift isn't about hitting a number. It's about giving the couple a meaningful acknowledgment of this moment that they'll carry into their new life together. And here's something worth knowing: 49% of couples are intentionally adding more lower-priced options to their registry this year, mindful that guests are managing real costs just to show up. There's almost certainly something on their list that fits your budget.
- Try to [find a gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/everything-wedding-guests-need-to-know-about-gift-giving-right-now) that has both special significance to you and fits within what you can comfortably spend.
- Most couples register for gifts at a range of prices, so while big-ticket items might be exciting, couples also want smaller gifts that hold just as much meaning, purpose, or joy in their daily lives.

If you’re still itching for dollar amount suggestions, follow these very loose guidelines for how much to spend on wedding gifts:

- If you’re a coworker, acquaintance, or distant relative: $75-$100
- If you’re a friend or relative: $100-$150
- If you’re a close friend, immediate family, or part of the wedding party: $150-$200+
- If you received a +1 on your invitation: 1.5-2x more on the gift

## What’s the “cover your plate” rule? <a id="coveryourplate"> </a>

Once upon a time, it was considered good etiquette to purchase a wedding gift with a price tag comparable to the cost per plate (i.e., your meal) at the reception. Although it’s outdated, this sneaky piece of advice still gets passed around by wedding attendees like wedding gospel.

Here’s why you should leave it behind:

- Following this guideline means having to ask around (or ask the couple directly) how much they’re spending per plate at their wedding, which is a pretty uncomfortable question to circulate.
- It implies that you, as a guest, must spend a certain amount on a wedding gift regardless of your budget (which isn’t true).
- Attending someone’s wedding isn’t a food-for-gift exchange. It’s about celebration and coming together.
- This practice indicates to the couple that you’re only interested how much to spend on a wedding gift while giving them a gift that matches their wedding catering budget.

![Wedding Card and Gift Table](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5glq0I26rQAjxyOfjH5813/8ce9ccd8d67313f238bd760ad3251819/Wedding_Card_and_Gift_Table.jpg) Photo by [Cameron & Madalyn](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/cameron-madalyn)

## 10 popular questions wedding guests ask about gifts
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### 1. Is it OK to give a cash wedding gift?

Cash gifts are not only totally acceptable, they’re becoming increasingly requested by modern couples who are getting married later in life and have already outfitted their homes. If the couple is using Zola, they may have even registered for [cash funds](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds) to help them save for the honeymoon, a new home, a puppy, or even a lifetime supply of avocados (yes, it happened). 

However, there are a few best practices you should follow when contributing to a cash fund and wondering how much money to give as cash wedding gifts:

- Make sure you contribute an appropriate wedding gift amount through the [couple’s registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) if their list provides that option.
- If you write a check, mail it before the wedding day. Giving cash or checks on the big day isn’t necessarily wrong, but it does risk being lost in the chaos of the day.
- If writing a check as a wedding gift, make sure to write it out to one person and use pre-married names. Couples don’t always share joint accounts or change their names after the nuptials, which can lead to the bank refusing to accept the funds.

### 2. Should I contribute to a honeymoon fund as a gift?

Those from former generations may consider a [honeymoon fund](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds) an oddity, but if the couple has one, by any means, utilize it. If you’re wondering, “What is a good wedding gift?” adding a massage, helping pay for a hotel, or contributing to the overall honeymoon fund can be a lifesaver.

### 3. Is it OK to give a group wedding gift?

Yes! If you want to give the couple a big ticket item you can’t afford on your own, it’s a great idea to go in on a [group gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/everything-you-need-to-know-about-group-gifting) with other guests. Zola’s group gifting feature can make this process extremely easy. 

Two pieces of advice here:

- Make sure that everyone contributes the same wedding gift amount they would have spent on smaller gifts purchased on their own. When wondering how much to spend on wedding gifts, don’t skimp as a group.
- If you are attending a wedding as a large family, it’s a good rule of thumb that all adults (or each household) give their own gift.

![Outdoor Wedding Gift Table](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/2iXLj665Jm4EC0B7CWzKll/1657930ea25025e4f6f905e8b8f7ea15/Outdoor_Wedding_Gift_Table.jpg) Photo by [Carson Lillard Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/carson-lillard-photography)

### 4. Can I buy wedding gifts that aren’t on the wedding registry?

As wedding gift etiquette, it’s always best to purchase a gift on the couple’s wedding registry. That way, you can ensure they like (and need) the item. 

If all of their registry items have been purchased by the time you get around to buying a gift, you have a few options:

1. Ask the couple if there’s anything else their hearts desire.
2. Contribute to a cash fund (or give them cash or a check directly).
3. Opt for an off-registry gift you’re 100% confident they’ll love. If you go with this option, make sure to get a gift receipt so that the couple can easily return duplicate or damaged items without hassle.

### 5. Do I need to buy a gift if I can’t attend the wedding?

In short, yes. But there is some flexibility here depending on how well you know the couple and your personal financial situation. If you’re close friends, it’s best to send a gift and a personalized note with warm wishes. Your mom’s boss’s daughter that you’ve never met? While it’s always polite to send a gift if you can, in impersonal circumstances, you’re less on the hook.

### 6. Should I buy a gift for a destination wedding?

Yes again. However, the travel and lodging costs that come with a destination wedding can put a big strain on your budget. It’s likely that the happy couple views your presence as a gift in itself, but if you want to get technical about it, purchasing a wedding gift is proper, even in the case of a [destination wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/destination-wedding-checklist). 

If you’re shelling out quite a bit to attend the wedding, then feel free to spend less than you typically would for a local celebration. With a [destination wedding](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/cut-destination-wedding-costs), there is a little leeway with how much cash to give for a wedding present.

### 7. What is gifting wedding etiquette for a plus-one?

First of all, be sure that [your plus-one](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/should-my-plus-one-sign-the-wedding-card) is cleared with the couple, either via the address on the invitation or by chatting with the couple beforehand. A surprise guest can really be a burden if they aren’t accounted for in the catering, seating arrangement, and other plans. That being said, when giving a gift, it’s best to double the amount you’d normally spend on the gift, therefore accounting for a present from both you and your guest.

![Indoor Wedding Gift Card Table](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6HW7vQWB23do9IdthbhVJa/039578bb7d7d460a05bb433657cfd51f/Indoor_Wedding_Gift_Card_Table.jpg) Photo by [Kristen Hope Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/kristen-hope-photography)

### 8. Do I need to buy a gift for every wedding event that I’m invited to?

Yes. However, we know it can cause anxiety over how much to spend on a wedding gift. Buying this many gifts can be tough. If you are invited to the [engagement party](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/who-hosts-an-engagement-party), shower, and wedding, we suggest planning ahead and setting a [budget for gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/do-i-have-to-buy-a-wedding-shower-gift-and-a-wedding-gift) in advance. To make things easier on your wallet, follow the 20-20-60 rule, which dictates that you spread out your spending like so:

- 20% on the engagement gift
- 20% on the bridal shower
- 60% on the wedding

Breaking down the expenses and knowing how much to give as a wedding gift percentage-wise can be a big help. 

### 9. Should I ship my wedding gift or bring it with me?

Follow these rules to determine if you should physically bring a gift with you to any wedding-related festivities:

- If you attend a shower, engagement party, or purchase a gift that isn’t on the registry, take the wrapped gift along with you to the event.
- If you bought a gift on a registry or are giving cash/check, gifts should be mailed to the couple before the big day.

__Zola perk:__ Couples with a [Zola registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) have the option to ship your gift whenever is convenient for them. Whether that’s before the wedding, after they return from the honeymoon, or months later. Spreading out the gifts can alleviate some of the cost of how much to spend on a wedding gift.

### 10. How late can I give a wedding gift?

Speaking of the timeline, some say you have up to a year to purchase a wedding gift. However, the best practice is always to buy and send gifts before the wedding day or within 3 months of the nuptials. Any longer, and you’re likely to forget. 

Plus, it’s more convenient for the couple to manage receiving gifts (and writing thank you notes) sooner rather than later. When wondering how much do you give for a wedding gift, waiting until after the big day can help. 

![Card Table at Wedding](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4QEWoeiNaWA9Yp1ATKoewy/481be8bf09176e4d5b0466f36dffa01f/Card_Table_at_Wedding.jpg) Photo by [Lexi Wyatt Photography](https://www.zola.com/wedding-vendors/wedding-photographers/lexi-wyatt-photography)

Find out more about registries or find a couple’s wish list in a snap on [Zola’s wedding registry section](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry).

## Frequently Asked Questions <a id="place"> </a>
### What can I do in place of a gift on the big day?

If finances are truly a hardship, don’t skip the special day due to gift-giving. The couple invited you and wants you to be a part and not stress over how much money to give at a wedding. That being said, if you can’t budget for a gift, it’s time to get creative! 

If you know the couple well, think about any services you could offer to help them out. Here are a few examples (hint: these also make fun [last-minute wedding gift ideas](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/21-last-minute-wedding-gifts)):

- __Have a beautiful garden?__ Gift the couple a monthly arrangement of fresh-cut flowers from your own garden during the peak season.
- __Are you handy?__ Offer to help the couple get their new home ready. Hang photos, help paint rooms, install sound systems, and change light fixtures. Whatever is within your skill set works and will help them save instead of hiring someone.
- __Love animals?__ If the couple has pets, offer pet-sitting services during their honeymoon or annual family vacation. Go the extra mile and spend extra time with their feathered, fur, or fish babies while they’re out of town.

### Is it ever appropriate to ask the couple how much to spend on a wedding gift?

Unless you’re especially close to the couple—say, a sibling or BFF—avoid this question and take cues in other ways. Look at their registry and see what they have listed. Also, follow the general rules given above. The couple has so many things to plan for their big day, and they shouldn’t be asked what amount to spend on them. 

### So, how much should I spend on a wedding gift?
Ultimately, it's up to you — and how well you know the couple. According to Zola's 2026 First Look Report, the average wedding gift spend is $130, with most guests landing between $100 and $150 per person. If that feels like a stretch, you're not alone — and couples know it. Nearly half (49%) are purposefully adding more affordable options to their registry this year, so don't be afraid to shop the lower end of their list. A thoughtful gift at any price point beats a stressful one. 


Guests gifting young ethnic newlyweds during wedding celebration with confetti

How Much to Spend on a Wedding Gift as a Guest

Wedding planning has a way of making even the simplest things seem complicated. Take [plus-one](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-word-wedding-invitations) etiquette, for example. Whether you’re the couple on the inviting end or on the receiving end of an invitation, it can be tricky to know what’s considered appropriate when it comes to plus-ones. For that reason, we’ve compiled our best tips and etiquette for both engaged couples and guests regarding plus-ones. If you aren’t sure of the standard protocol, read on.

## Plus-One Etiquette for the Couple
While there aren’t any hard and fast plus-one rules, wedding plus-one etiquette can ensure that everything runs smoothly for you and your guest. Keep some best practices in mind, such as:

### Who should get a plus-one?
While compiling your guest list, you might begin to go back-and-forth on who should get a plus one. Deciding on your own can be a daunting task. To ease any stress and resolve confusion, familiarize yourself with who traditionally is allowed a plus-one at a wedding.

- Wedding guests who are __married, engaged, and living together__ traditionally receive a plus-one. That being said, “living together” is interchangeable for those in serious and long-term relationships. 

- __Members of the wedding party__ should receive a plus-one. Allowing your bridesmaids and groomsmen to bring their significant others is a show of appreciation for their commitment and support throughout your engagement and wedding.

- That being said, couples may be willing to extend a plus-one to guests in __specific situations__. For example, if only a few single people are invited and would greatly benefit from having a date at their side. Or, your best friend is traveling across the country to attend and doesn’t know anyone outside of the couple.

### Who shouldn’t get a plus-one.
Though plus-ones can be a comfort to guests and gesture of appreciation, not everyone can or should have one. Additional guests mean additional costs (more on that below) and, really, not every guest needs one. Below are individuals you shouldn’t feel pressured to allow an additional guest on your big day.

- __Single guests who are casually dating.__ Traditional etiquette also says that, if someone hasn’t been in a relationship for over a year, allowing them to bring their partner isn’t a priority. That being said, consider special circumstances the ones mentioned above, here. If you have the budget to extend an invite to your close friend’s significant other of ten months, consider doing so. Use your best discretion.

- __Single people who will know other guests.__ Siblings, cousins, close friends, and others who aren’t in a serious relationship, but will know a decent amount of other guests, don’t need a plus-one. Because they’re close to or familiar with other attendees, they’re sure to be comfortable and have a good time.

- __Coworkers.__ This is often the case, because, if one coworker is allowed to bring a guests, all of them should be able to. This can quickly drive up costs and your guest count. That being said, if you’re close with your boss and invite them, it’s good etiquette to offer them a plus-one.

![INLINE ChrisKoeppenPhotography 1080x720 James&Lily](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/672dzBFg87BhXxOA8I3zXF/56681f13b955c932a401e6600b91d061/INLINE_ChrisKoeppenPhotography_1080x720_James_Lily.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Chris Koeppen Photography

### How can a plus-one affect the cost of the wedding?
One of the more meticulous aspects of wedding planning is deciding on and sticking to a wedding budget. And, simply put, the number of guests in attendance can drastically effect your bottom line. That’s because, most often, venues and other vendors (notably, caterers and bartenders) will charge you per-person. A plus-one means another favor, plate of food, several drinks, and a literal seat at the table, adding to your set-up, catering, and bar expenses, at least. This makes offering someone a plus-one incredibly generous, since you’ll be footing the bill for their attendance.

## Tips for making a plus-one invitation list
Putting together your [wedding invitations](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-to-word-wedding-invitations-with-no-plus-one) and deciding on invited guest can be quite the task, in and of itself. Add the prospect of plus-ones and it’s easy to become overwhelmed. To avoid much of the stress and ensure you’re following good etiquette, consider these tips.

- __Know (and use) every plus-one’s name.__ If you know the specific guest someone is going to bring, look up or confirm the spelling of their name (as well as their title, if applicable). This way, it’ll be spelled and they’ll be addressed correctly on any save the dates, invitations, and seating signage or escort cards. Plus, it looks much more formal than “guest.”

- __Include their name on the RSVP response card.__ Again, if a specific individual is expected to be an additional guest, provide their name on the RSVP cards (or in your online RSVP system). This will prevent guests from extended the invitation to someone else or trying to bring multiple people.

- __Know and stick to your guest list limit.__ Whether your venue or budget only allows for a certain amount of people, be aware of or figure that number out and stick to it. Be realistic, even if it means not giving out many plus-ones—or any at all. Better to be safe than have to retract anyone’s plus-one due to inviting too many people.

## Plus-One Etiquette for Guests
Guests, too, should be respectful of the engaged couple and aware of proper plus-one etiquette, such as:

### If your invitation doesn’t list a plus-one, you can’t bring a guest.

This may seem obvious, but many guests have been tempted or even gone through with [asking the couple if they can still bring a plus-one](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/is-it-ever-ok-to-ask-for-a-1-to-a-wedding). While some cases may be for good reason, most often this can be stressful and awkward for both you and the engaged couple. Simply put, if your invitation only lists your name, you’re being invited alone. You can’t bring an added guest—and shouldn’t push for one, either. Don’t try to RSVP with a plus-one and definitely don’t show up with one on the day of.

### Bring a date, unless a friend is okayed.
Typically speaking, a plus-one is a formal date. Having one doesn’t often mean that you can bring anyone of your choosing. If you were given a plus-one, but don’t have a date to bring, don’t assume it’s okay to substitute with a friend. Of course, you can always reach out to the couple and ask if doing so is alright. Sometimes, they won’t mind. Others, however, will find it rude. If you feel strange asking, err on the side of caution and attend alone.

### If you do get a plus-one, RSVP with care.
RSVPing seems simple enough, but has its own set of etiquette when it comes to plus-ones. If you were generously given a plus one, keep the following in mind when it comes to sending in your RSVP.

- If your guest was named on your invitation, __don’t substitute them with someone else__. They are your plus-one and aren’t exchangeable. If they can’t attend, RSVP for yourself alone.

- If you were given a non-specific plus-one, __use their name when submitting your RSVP__, whether that’s online or via RSVP card. It’s only polite to let the couple know ahead of time who you plan on bringing.

- Don’t RSVP with a plus-one unless __you’re certain they can and will attend__. If you or they aren’t sure, play it save and RSVP for only yourself.

- Don’t RSVP with a plus-one under the assumption that you’ll find someone. The couple of hosts of the wedding pay for each individual that’s said to be coming to the wedding. If you RSVP with a plus-one and end up not bringing someone, the money that went towards their plate is wasted.

### Give a gift as a couple.
Generally, wedding gifts are given as part of a unit, whether that unit is a family of four or a couple. In other words, no, your plus-one doesn’t have to purchase his or her own gift. It’s perfectly acceptable to purchase one gift from the two of you.

It’s also acceptable for your date to contribute to the gift in some way. However, like most wedding guidelines, this isn’t a hard and fast rule. It depends on how close your date is to the happy couple.

If your cousin is getting married, and your date has literally never met him, consider picking up the full cost of the gift yourself. If your date has met the bride here and there, he or she may offer to contribute or split the cost with you in some way. Ultimately, if your date is a near stranger to the couple getting married, you may want to just plan on taking care of the gift yourself. Since your date is coming as your guest, it’s a thoughtful gesture.

![INLINE EicharPhotography 1080x720 Monica&Emir](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5ql2boFrsVdzStUhfzhgxr/86b81fd5fbb25a1343fb14f66b71d637/INLINE_EicharPhotography_1080x720_Monica_Emir.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Eichar Photography

### Give a gift that reflects that you have a guest.
Generally, yes. However, you’re not obligated to spend a certain amount of money on the gift, and you’re definitely not required to spend enough to “[cover your plate](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-to-spend-on-a-wedding-gift).” (This is the wedding etiquette myth that won’t die!)

A good rule of thumb is to double whatever you were planning on spending if you’re bringing a date. For example, if you’re comfortable spending $75 when you fly solo, plan on spending around $150 if you’re inviting a plus-one.

Think about your budget and what you can reasonably spend, but don’t sweat the dollar signs too much. The most important thing to remember is that you’re giving a gift because you love the couple.

### Have your plus-one sign the card if...
There are a couple of instances when your date should always sign the card, including when:

- __He or she is your long-term partner__—and you both know the couple. Perhaps you’re not married, but you’ve dated or lived together for several years. This one’s a no-brainer. Both your names should be on the card, even if one or both of the couple is more “your friend” (or family) than your partner’s.

- __You’ve been dating for at least a year__—and your partner has met the couple at least a handful of times. Maybe your plus-one doesn’t know your childhood bestie or sorority sister or cousin as well as you do, but if the two of you have been together seriously for at least a year and the soon-to-be-married couple has met your partner at least three times, put his or her name down.

- __You’re bringing a family member who knows the couple well__. For example, you’re bringing your mom or sister as your date to your old neighbor’s nuptials.

### Don’t have your plus-one sign the card if...
Likewise, there are a few instances in which your date doesn’t need to sign the card, including when:

- __Your relationship is brand new__—or you’ve only been on a few dates together before the wedding

- __He or she has never met the soon-to-be-married couple__

- __You’re bringing a friend who doesn’t know the couple__

What if your relationship to your plus-one doesn’t fit neatly into one of the above categories? First of all, don’t fret. Feel free to use your best judgment: If your plus-one and the couple are complete strangers who couldn’t pick each other out in a crowd, you can leave his or her name off. If you think it might hurt your plus-one’s feelings if he or she is excluded from the card? Go ahead and sign for the both of you. Chances are, the married couple won’t be offended by your plus-one’s good wishes. In fact, they’ll probably appreciate them!

At the end of the day, don’t let traditional etiquette stress you out too much. If you’re the engaged couple, make the decisions you think are best for your wedding day (including your space and budget). If you’re the guest, do your best to abide by etiquette and the couple’s wishes. If there’s any confusion, don’t hesitate to start a well-intentioned conversation.


Group Gifting 101: 26 Group Wedding Gift Ideas + Tips

wedding table full of guests and plus-ones

Do I Have to Buy a Wedding Shower Gift and a Wedding Gift?

Wedding Plus-One Etiquette You Need to Know

It’s always exciting to get invited to a wedding. Someone you love is getting married and they want you there to celebrate. If you’re particularly close with the couple, you may get a few more invitations along the way to various pre-wedding events, including the wedding shower. You’re probably prepared to buy a wedding gift off the couple’s registry, but what about a [wedding shower gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-showers)? You might be wondering if you even need to buy both. Gift etiquette isn’t always straightforward. Let’s break it down.

## Do I need to buy a gift for the shower and the wedding?
__In short: Yes.__ We definitely recommend purchasing a gift for both the wedding and the wedding shower. That’s the simplest way to layout the basic gift etiquette. However, there are a few stipulations such as price, size, and more that come with that advice.

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*Photo Credit* // Star Noir Photography

### Wedding Shower Gifts vs. Wedding Gifts 
Not all gifts are created equal—or at least they don’t have to present as if they are. Yes, you should purchase both a wedding gift and a wedding shower gift, but they don’t have to be of equal value. In fact, you can (and should) feel free to spend less on a shower gift than you do on a wedding present.

Traditional wedding etiquette says that your wedding gift should [cover the cost of your meal and drinks](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/how-much-to-spend-on-a-wedding-gift) at the wedding—which can fall somewhere between $50 and $200. It’s a big range, but all weddings are different so you’ll know best where your gift should fit into that. Typically, you’ll select something from the couple’s registry anyway, which makes the whole wedding gift situation pretty straightforward.

As far as a wedding shower gift goes, the same rules do not apply. Giving a gift in the $25-$75 price range is completely acceptable. If it’s your best friend since childhood’s shower and you want to spoil her/him, by all means, go for it. Just know that you don’t have to.

### Should I buy the wedding shower gifts and wedding gifts off the registry?
Simply put: You should buy your wedding gift off the [couple’s wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry). These are the gifts they specifically chose because they want or need them. So, definitely choose from there for the wedding gift. 

Additionally, you can buy the wedding shower gift from that same registry. And why wouldn’t you? Here’s a [selection of gifts](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/essentials-to-put-on-your-registry) that you know the couple will be happy to receive. If you can find something in your budget, it’s a win-win.  

If you’re particularly close with the host or couple (or you can’t find anything on the registry within your budget), it’s OK to stray from the registry. Your wedding shower gift can be a great opportunity to give something a little more sentimental and personal. Is the bride a bit of a product junkie? Get her a monogrammed makeup bag to hold her wedding day makeup. Does the couple love to try new wines? Try a wine subscription box. Is a dog or cat the center of their lives? Gift a custom pet portrait. 

The point is if you decide to shop for your own wedding shower gift, make sure it’s something he or she will love.

![INLINE PhotobyProcopioPhotography](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/76I3hdQXt8pAeZwyi9vlnS/4feffa18c209d68376cb8b6bab6bb73c/INLINE_PhotobyProcopioPhotography.jpg)
*Photo Credit* // Procopio Photography

### Should I show up with my gifts or send them directly? 
The etiquette fun continues! When it comes to delivery, wedding shower gifts and wedding gifts also have a different set of rules.

- __For wedding gifts__, it probably makes more sense to send your gift directly to the couple via their registry. There are a few reasons for this. First, the couple has a lot going on. Tracking and transporting their gifts isn’t a task you necessarily want to contribute to. Also, couples with Zola wedding registries can actually choose when their wedding gifts are shipped to them. This control allows couples the freedom to tackle their wedding gifts (and thank you notes!) when they’re ready. 

- __For a wedding shower__, it’s up to you! Typically, these showers have gift-opening moments so, if you’d prefer to be involved in that, definitely show up gift in hand.

Of course, there are exceptions. If the shower is taking place in a city where the host or couple doesn’t currently live (a hometown, for example), he or she may ask that any shower gifts be sent to a certain address to avoid traveling with them. If the couple is hosting a super intimate wedding, you may, in that case, prefer to show up with your physical gift instead of sending it directly. 

You’ll know what’s best for each individual situation. Generally, though, plan to arrive at the wedding shower with your gift and plan to send your wedding gift in the mail.

The bottom line: Get both gifts. You don’t need to break the bank in order to give something the couple will truly appreciate. 

Every wedding guest list is unique, but we're willing to bet that the list for your special day features guests with a range of budgets. Some guests can afford to splurge on lavish gifts for the newlyweds, while others may be a bit more conservative in choosing the best wedding gift within their budget for the happy couple. Keep this in mind when it comes to adding items to your __[wedding registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry)__. 

When creating a registry for your wedding day—and your life as a married couple—we always recommend adding smaller- and larger-ticket items so there's something for all budgets. There's no need to skip expensive gifts, though. Just make it a group gift! From gift ideas for your new home to unique wedding gift experiences for your [honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-fund-101) and beyond, here's how it works—and why you should do it.

## What Is Group Gifting?
Group gifting is a win-win situation for the couple and the guest. It allows the couple to choose whatever great wedding gifts they want, in whatever price range they want. At the same time, the guests stay in their budget, contributing what they wish to an extra special wedding present. We handle all the logistics for your guests so there’s no unnecessary back and forth…and ensure you receive the most perfect wedding gifts.

## Why Should I Use Group Gifting?
Well, like we said, it makes your registry experience completely accessible to all budget levels. Plus, it's a Zola secret that making an expensive item a group gift actually increases your chances of receiving that gift. Guests are less likely to simply skip over it if they can't afford the entire thing.

## What Counts As A Group Gift?
Anything you want! Really, anything. At Zola we offer an extremely wide range of registry items—from expensive barware to whole furniture pieces to keepsakes and experiences you'll remember forever. Usually group gifts are on the more expensive end but, with your Zola registry, you can make anything a group gift.

## Do Guests Have To Go In On A Group Gift Together?
Nope! You can get that swanky bar cart from your coworker, great aunt, and friend from high school without any stress or coordination on their part (or yours, of course). We'll keep track of who contributed to what, though, so you can be sure to thank everyone when it's time.

## How Do I Do It?
When you register at Zola, you can turn on the group gifting feature for any item on your registry. This includes big-ticket items for the home, newlywed cash funds, and even charity funds. Just select group gifting as you're adding the item to let your friends and family know the deal.

## 26 Best Group Wedding Gift Ideas for Your Registry!
Now that you've decided to use our group gifting feature, we figured we'd offer some recommendations and [wedding gift ideas for your registry](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-registry-ideas). How you choose to employ group gifting is entirely up to you! Go big or go home on big-ticket items or set up a __[fund](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds)__ for the charity of your choice or your __[honeymoon](https://www.zola.com/shop/honeymoon-cash-funds)__. Here are a few fun physical items that work well as group gifts.

### 1. Quality Cookware
![lecreuset braiser flame A 750](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/4AMZs0ayYapg5aX2knILRW/0cf074133fbe197a818ecf0f946e856c/lecreuset_braiser_flame_A_750.jpg)
*Le Creuset – $285*

Group Gifting really comes in handy when you want to add high-quality brands to your wedding registry like [Le Creuset](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/lecreuset_braiser_flame). This brand is known for durability and timelessness, making it a guest favorite wedding gift–the only catch is the high price tag. Turn on group gifting and voila! The only kitchenware you’ll ever need is yours—with the help of a few guests. To shop all Le Creuset, click [here](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/le-creuset).

### 2. Cozy New Couch
![59dba909c268e9639fa01cc4 A 1600](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/6acF81K0YKlKiE4Q9Ctgm/280e313c1d1d85f3138bb44eed53c573/59dba909c268e9639fa01cc4_A_1600.jpeg)
*Baxton Studio - $1099.99*

Fill your new space (or upgrade your current one) with comfy furniture fit for the happy couple. Your guests will be happy to contribute to your home—especially if you invite them over to enjoy it, too. We love this [mid-century sectional](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/baxton_midcentury_sectional_sofa_grey) in a neutral hue.

### 3. Couples Massage
![zeel couples massage nyc A 750](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/sFA4la2wmRFPP4Lois4Yp/1af941046b93827410d3db42573f98c0/zeel_couples_massage_nyc_A_750.jpg)
*Zeel – $100-$318, depending on location*

Who could resist a [couples massage](https://www.zola.com/shop/brand/zeel) leading up to your big day? Or perhaps save it for a time when all the wedding festivities have died down and you two are still looking to celebrate. Either way, turn on [group gifting](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry) and let your guests contribute to an afternoon of sheer bliss…which might just be the best wedding gift of all!

### 4. A Weekend Adventure
![5a43faf1c268e921c9efce18 A 1600](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/5cUanq0u3jvExwRyu3nqa2/8452eaa0bd6cc3f3a9f810797b64d79d/5a43faf1c268e921c9efce18_A_1600.jpeg)
*Cloud 9 Living - $250*

Sure, you're planning your honeymoon, but that won't be the last getaway you take as a couple. Get a jumpstart on weekend planning with a gift card (yes, you can register for gift cards!) to [Cloud 9 Living](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cloud9_250_experience_giftcard), an experience gift company. Use it towards a skydiving adventure, a luxury camping weekend, a sunset cruise for two, or any of the company's many other large and small adventures.

### 5. In-House Entertainment
![56e0722ee4b000338fbfa420 A 1600](//images.ctfassets.net/77l22z9el0aa/3vAvgKr5fSlqoIKaiaHYhU/609feb3325c586d6d310770086efebaf/56e0722ee4b000338fbfa420_A_1600.jpeg)
*Sonos - $699*

We really mean it when we say you can [make anything a group gift](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/a-guide-to-bridal-shower-gifts). Receive the [wedding gifts you really want](https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/wedding-registry-tips) with the group gifting feature that will make your guests as happy as you.

### 6. Wine Glasses
A wedding is all about upgrading what you already have—so if you've been sipping out of a mismatched set of wine glasses since you moved in together, go ahead and register for a full-scope set. Because, yes, there are differently shaped glasses for reds and whites—and a full set can be a great option for a group gift.

[Zwiesel Glas Sensa Mixed Red & White Wine Glasses](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/schott-zwiesel-vivid-senses-wine-glasses/), $120, Williams Sonoma

### 7. Bottle of Wine
Yes—you can register for a bottle of wine! Choose a splurge-worthy bottle of bubbly or a case of wine for a group gift. Better yet, you can even register for a wine club membership or subscription box for a gift that keeps on coming all year.

[Dinner Party Bundle](https://www.brightcellars.com/products/dinner-party-bundle), $151, Bright Cellars

### 8. Champagne Flutes
Nothing says "celebration" quite like Champagne! Toast to your life together as newlyweds and register for a pair of luxurious champagne flutes—perfect for a few friends to go in on.

[Waterford Love Forever Flute Pair](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/waterford-love-forever-flute-pair-7.1-oz), $210, Macy's

### 9. Premium Blender
If you're still using the same blender you had in your first post-college apartment, you're definitely due for an upgrade—and your registry is the perfect opportunity to add a professional-level blender to your kitchen. And because high-end blenders can have a high price tag, they make for great group gifts. 

[Vitamix Professional Series 750 Blender](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/vitamix-pro-750-blender), $629.96, Williams Sonoma

### 10. Cast-Iron Cookware
A cast-iron grill pan makes a great addition to any wedding registry. Choosing one from a premium brand, like Le Creuset, makes for a great group gifting option.

[Le Creuset Signature Cast Iron Grill Pan](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/le-creuset-signature-square-grill-pan), $225, Williams Sonoma

### 11. Coffee or Espresso Maker
Whether you're looking to replace your tired drop coffee maker or want to level up your at-home latte game, a nice coffee machine is one of our favorite registry gifts. Plus, it makes a great group gift—since, as a thank you, you can host all the gift-ers at your place for coffee. 

[Breville Barista Express Espresso Machine](https://www.crateandbarrel.com/breville-barista-espresso-machine/s267619), $749.95, Crate+Barrel

### 12. Date Night Experiences
If you're looking for wedding registry gift ideas that aren't physical objects, adding a few experiences or activities is a great idea. It could be a cooking class at a nearby culinary school, or a chef's table experience at a fine dining restaurant.

[San Francisco Wine Country Tour](https://www.zola.com/shop/product/cloud9living_2tixfor_winecountrytour_sanfran), $598, Virgin Experiences Gift at Zola

### 13. Cashmere Throw Blanket
Snuggle up in luxury and register for a cashmere blanket—whether you keep it on your sofa or on your bed, we have a feeling this will be one of your most-used wedding gifts. Since cashmere is a splurge, it makes a great group gift option.

[Sferra Dorsey Throw](https://www.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/sferra-cashmere-dorsey-throw?), $664, Bloomingdale's

### 14. Dutch Oven
From Sunday sauces to hearty soups, Dutch ovens are kitchen workhorses—and can be on the pricey side, making them a great group gift. Plus, they come in practically every color of the rainbow! A wedding registry is the perfect place to ask for one from a premium brand like Staub or Le Creuset. 

[Staub 7-Qt. Dutch Oven](https://www.crateandbarrel.com/staub-7-qt.-eucalyptus-round-dutch-oven/s178699), $299.95, Crate+Barrel

### 15. Home Gadgets
If you've had your eye on an electronic gadget for your home (for example, a wireless security camera), add it to your wedding registry! Since electronics are typically on the more expensive side, this is a great opportunity to utilize the group gifting feature. 

[Blink Outdoor Wireless Security Camera](https://www.bestbuy.com/site/blink-outdoor-3rd-gen-wireless-1080p-security-camera-with-up-to-two-year-battery-life-black/6427060.p?skuId=6427060&ref=212&loc=1), $99, Best Buy

### 16. Home Decor
Are you looking for an item of home decor to commemorate your wedding, or want to splurge on a one-of-a-kind accent piece? Or, maybe you just really want a custom painting of your fur baby. Whatever you choose, this is a gift that a group will love to give. 

[Brindley Illustration Custom Painting](https://www.etsy.com/listing/589299676/animals-in-clothes-pet-portraits-funny), $245, Etsy

### 17. Patio Furniture

Maybe you recently bought a home with your fiance—and whether you have a sprawling backyard or a petite patio, go ahead and register for some outdoor furniture. This is an ideal option for a group gift—as the group can come over and enjoy the patio furniture after they gift it (along with some backyard cocktails!).

[Outdoor Dining Set](https://www.crateandbarrel.com/outdoor-dining-set-abaco-dining-table-stackable-dining-chair-and-regatta-dining-bench/f1010700), $249+, Crate+Barrel

### 18. Pizza Oven
Speaking of backyards, if you and your fiance love pizza, why not add a Neapolitan-worthy outdoor oven to your registry? And if a group ends up gifting you the oven, make sure to invite them over for pizza night!

[Ooni Koda 16 Pizza Oven](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/ooni-koda-16-pizza-oven/), $479.96, Williams Sonoma

### 19. Bouquet Preservation
Preserving your wedding bouquet is more popular than ever—and adding this service to your registry is a wonderful gift idea to commemorate your big day. 

[White Poppy Presses Wedding Bouquet Preservation](https://www.etsy.com/listing/860293642/wedding-bouquet-preservation-wedding), $195+, Etsy

### 20. KitchenAid Stand Mixer
KitchenAid stand mixers are another longtime registry staple—but they’re also a more expensive item, making them an ideal choice for a group gift. Plus, with a rainbow of colors to choose from, you can register for one that reflects your kitchen style. 

[KitchenAid Artisan 5-Qt. Stand Mixer](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/kitchenaid-artisan-5-qt.-stand-mixer-ksm150ps?ID=77589), $449.95, Macy's

### 21. Robot Vacuum
Use group gifting on your wedding registry as an opportunity to upgrade your vacuum game! These expensive gadgets are perfect for multiple guests to contribute to.

[iRobot Roomba 13+ Evo Robot Vacuum](https://www.amazon.com/iRobot-Roomba-Vacuum-Automatic-Disposal/dp/B08C4LC7TG/ref=sr_1_12?c=ts&keywords=Robotic+Vacuums&qid=1685234569&s=vacuums&sr=1-12&ts_id=3743561), $499.99, Amazon

### 22. Luggage Set
Jet off to your honeymoon in style with a set of matching luggage—register for one set for you and your fiance to share, or pick out separate sets for each of you.

[Ambeur 3-Piece Luggage Set](https://www.calpaktravel.com/products/ambeur-3-piece-luggage-set/black), $715, Calpak

### 23. Fire Pit
If you love to entertain and have outdoor space, a fire pit makes a great wedding gift idea for your registry—and a great gift option for a group.

[Solo Stove Bonfire Smokeless Outdoor Fire Pit](https://www.crateandbarrel.com/solo-stove-bonfire-smokeless-outdoor-fire-pit-with-stand-2.0/s387672), $344.99, Crate+Barrel

### 24. Knife Block Set
Just like your tired-out cookware, we're guessing your cutlery needs an upgrade. Add a set of professional chef-worthy knives to your registry (which tend to be on the pricier side!) so a couple of guests can contribute. 

[Wusthof Classic Knife Block Set](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/wusthof-classic-9-piece-knife-block-set-acacia/?sku=7658717&cm_ven=PLA&cm_ite=7658717_14932288941&cm_cat=Google&cm_pla=Local&gclid=CjwKCAjw1MajBhAcEiwAagW9MRiJ6wAJBnmPhO1rmg_TT0rQG00bVT2VVxXLTmua_tjIxbUQ7ywvpRoCHRIQAvD_BwE), $665, Williams Sonoma

### 25. Cooler
For a gift you'll use again and again, a high-end cooler makes a great group gifting choice. 

[YETI Tundra Haul](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/products/yeti-tundra-haul/), $450, Williams Sonoma

### 26. Sheet Set
You might never have splurged on a set of sheets for yourself, but using group gifting makes it easy for a few friends or family members to contribute to a dreamy set on your registry. 

[Casper Super Soft Sheet Set](https://www.macys.com/shop/product/casper-super-soft-sheet-set-collection?ID=14282903&CategoryID=9915), $215, Macy's

## Zola, Your Best Wedding Registry Option
From zero-fee cash funds to group gifting, Zola is the best wedding registry option out there. Within the Zola registry, you'll find a wide variety of gift options, including gift cards and experiences.   Plus, it's  easy to add registries from external brands. So, if you create separate registries at retailers like [Amazon](https://www.amazon.com/), [Crate & Barrel](https://www.crateandbarrel.com/), [Etsy](https://www.etsy.com/), [Macy's](https://www.macys.com/), [Pottery Barn](https://www.potterybarn.com/), or [Williams Sonoma](https://www.williams-sonoma.com/), you can easily link them to your Zola registry. This way, everything is conveniently on your wedding website, making for a better guest experience. You and your guests will enjoy free shipping and returns, too—just in case something doesn't work out. And if there are some gifts left over after the big day, you can buy them for yourself and save 20% off with Zola's post-wedding discount (which applies for 6 full months after you say your “I do’s.”) 

When you use Zola for your wedding website, you'll be able to use it to manage RSVPs and give guests all of the information they need for your wedding day. Plus, you can order your wedding invitations directly from Zola, too—there are hundreds of stunning designs to fit every wedding theme. 

Wherever you are in your wedding planning process, get started with a [customizable Zola wedding website](https://www.zola.com/wedding-planning/website) and [gift registry](https://www.zola.com/wedding-registry).

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