The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Wilmington, DE

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Wilmington, DE

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7 Wedding Venues in Wilmington, DE

Historic estates, mansions
100-150 guests
HOTEL DU PONT 

5.0

Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 275 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $30,000

Elegant. Timeless. Iconic. HOTEL DU PONT sets a beautiful stage for your wedding in Wilmington, Delaware. Celebrate your love story in the storied elegance and rich traditions of one of the most prestigious hotels in the world. HOTEL DU PONT features more than 25,000 square feet of event space, including two event ready ballrooms. From glittering chandeliers and gilded rosettes to soaring ceilings and dramatic handcrafted staircases, every detail highlights Wilmington's rich past and cosmopolitan present. With stunning architecture dating back to 1913 and a reputation for impeccable service, the HOTEL DU PONT offers a dramatic, historic location that is truly unforgettable. We'll turn your vision into the celebration of your dreams.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Offers full-service amenities

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
“Shellie and the Hotel Du Pont team are total pros. They were very accommodating throughout the process and were always willing to work with us to make our day as special as possible. The food and drinks were all terrific and the service was exceptional. We were attracted to Hotel Du Pont as a venue because of the opportunity to host a “Wedding Weekend” and not only did we get to pull that off, but Hotel Du Pont made it a better experience than we could have hoped for. Great food, beautiful ballrooms and accommodations, and a professional and friendly staff made this a home run wedding venue for us.”
Bayley S., a year ago
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The Carriage House In Rockwood Park 

4.0

Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 225 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,500
  • Offer

Spectacular setting on the grounds of a 19th century country estate Indoor and outdoor ceremony locations amidst lush gardens or a captivating Carriage House Extensive and exquisite menu selections Personal event coordinator for impeccable service Over 40 years experience of culinary excellence

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Classic seating dinner

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No on-premises lodging options
Awarded Best of Zola
“We had the most incredible experience hosting our wedding at the Carriage house! It has been taken over by Prime Hospitality catering who did an amazing job from start to finish! Our guests raved over the food, waitstaff, and bartenders! Katie and her team took care of every single aspect of our wedding which allowed my husband and I, our families, and our bridal party to be stress free and enjoy the day! I could go on and on about how amazing our wedding day was! Not a single thing went wrong, Katie and her team decorated the venue beautifully, the service was fantastic, and our guests continue to reach out about how beautiful the wedding venue was. It was better than I could’ve ever expected! I hope that the Carriage House starts to see an increase in weddings at their venue because they are truly amazing at their job! Katie coordinated and helped me with planning the wedding out from day 1. She worked relentlessly behind the scenes to ensure we had a great day. The food was the best wedding meal I have ever had and I’m not just saying that because I had my wedding here. The restaurant associated with the caterers “Brandywine Prime” makes amazing food. I will admit when initially wedding planning I was unsure of the carriage house due to the lack of online presence and photos of recent weddings. It is truly a hidden gem and definitely worth considering for your wedding day!!”
Rachel and T., 10 months ago
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Dupont Country Club And Brantwyn Estate 

5.0

Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

The DuPont Country Club and Historic Brantwyn Estate are located in the picturesque Brandywine Valley in Wilmington, Delaware. The DuPont Ballroom is an ideal site for your lavish wedding reception with accommodations up to 250 guests. The Upper Terrace provides a grand view of our breathtaking golf course for your guests to enjoy during cocktail hour. Brantwyn Estate is located on the grounds of The DuPont Country Club. It is a former du Pont family residence and is a perfect example of Georgian charm situated on 60 acres of wooded landscape full of photographic opportunities. The estate's cultured country manor setting with its lush formal gardens offers a splendid backdrop any time of the year. Feel free to visit our website and take a virtual tour at DuPont Country Club. com

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Designed for grand celebrations

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • No on-premises lodging options
Awarded Best of Zola
“There is no disconnect between the timeless beauty and charm this venue offers and the professionalism provided by the staff. From the perspective of an event planner as well as a client, their managing team is wonderful to work with and Erin is fantastic! The building has preserved the historic architectural features and the grounds of the property are impeccably maintained; guaranteeing beautiful pictures and lasting memories.”
Erica Razze, 4 years ago
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Bellevue Hall 

5.0

Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

This notable estate is truly a one-of-a-kind property at which to host your wedding celebration. The mansion was built in the 1850’s and is the former home of William DuPont Sr. and his family. Your ceremony can be held on the sprawling lawn alongside a charming gazebo and gorgeous perennial garden. An elegant reception then follows beneath a pristine clear outdoor tent or, for a more intimate crowd, in one of the mansion’s luxurious indoor rooms. Bellevue Hall features stylish dining rooms, elaborate marble fireplaces, a sophisticated wood-paneled library, and an enormous central foyer with a grand staircase. Celebrate your happy occasion at Bellevue Hall. It’s sure to be a memorable event!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not allow pets
“Bellevue Hall is an extraordinary wedding venue, and we are so excited to have our wedding there! The staff have been incredibly helpful and attentive, ensuring that all details are addressed. The gardens for the ceremony are absolutely gorgeous, and the permanent tent means that we avoid needing to rent a tent, which is so expensive. We love the mansion's history and that we're supporting Delaware State Parks with our wedding!”
Ellen P., 10 months ago
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The Farmhouse 

5.0

Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 190 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,500

Conveniently located in Wilmington, Delaware, The Farmhouse is family owned and operated and hosts one event per day. The historical estate boasts a beautiful outdoor ceremony site underneath romantic willow trees & four acres of manicured grounds and gardens. Hosting up to 190 guests, the Farmhouse offers numerous indoor spaces for your event including the bright and open main terrace hall, indoor lounge and bar, dressing suites and more. Outside, a large wrap around deck and patio overlook the gazebo bar & gardens. The Farmhouse is proud to be a women-owned business, still managed by the fourth generation of the Murray family. As a small family-run business, the Farmhouse provides a personal touch and flexibility in hosting your dream wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Lush gardens
  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
Awarded Best of Zola
“We had a wonderful experience with the Farmhouse for our October 2024 wedding. Anna, our coordinator, was extremely helpful and responsive, and really put us at ease knowing that things would be taken care of. Our guests raved over the venue and really enjoyed the food and drinks. Plus, the landscaping is beautiful and we got some great photos!”
Lauren M., 7 months ago
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Hagley Museum And Library 
Wilmington, DE
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Hagley Museum and Library is an historic wedding venue in Wilmington, Delaware. The venue is located on the property of a nineteenth-century estate, the original home of the du Pont family, now home to Hagley Museum. With 235 acres of grassy meadows, towering trees, and historic heirloom gardens along the banks of the Brandywine River, you're sure to capture incredible photos of your special day. The property features three distinct event facilities for hosting weddings, the capacity varying from an intimate gathering of 20 guests or fewer, to an outdoor celebration with 200 guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • Not wheelchair accessible
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Terrain at Styer's 

5.0

Glen Mills, PA
  • Up to 110 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,000

Terrain at Styer's, is located on the historic site of J. Franklin Styer's nursery, a Philadelphia landmark for over 100 years. With over five acres of everchanging blooms and greenery combined with a variety of historic spaces, the property serves as a stunning setting for celebrations of all kinds for up to 110 people. In addition to our bespoke event spaces, Terrain at Styer’s boasts a terrain retail store and Terrain Cafe. Terrain at Styer's is located just 40 minutes outside of Philadelphia at 914 Baltimore Pike Glen Mills, PA 19342.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Wheelchair accessible

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
Awarded Best of Zola
“Our wedding at Terrain at Styer's was nothing short of magical. From start to finish, the venue coordinators were consistent, reliable, and organized in their communication, making planning a breeze. The venue itself provided excellent value, with an intimate, naturally beautiful setting that required little decoration to make a statement. Guests raved about the farm-to-table cuisine and relaxing atmosphere. The staff was friendly, genuine and provided high quality service that exceeded expectations. We appreciated the monthly questionnaires that allowed us to think through details in a structured way. Our wedding day went off without a hitch thanks to the seamless planning process and unmatched level of service. We couldn't give a higher recommendation for couples looking for a venue that combines stand-alone beauty, with exceptional service.”
Lauren K., 10 months ago

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Why Choose Delaware for Your Wedding Celebration?

Delaware packs exceptional wedding venues into its compact size, giving you access to stunning waterfront settings along the Chesapeake Bay, historic mansions with roots in the 18th century and charming rural farm estates featuring centuries-old barns. You'll appreciate Delaware's strategic location that makes it easy for your guests traveling from Philadelphia, Baltimore and Washington DC to attend without you having to pay the premium prices these metropolitan areas command.

What Does a Typical Delaware Wedding Cost?

Planning a wedding with 150 guests in Delaware? You'll want to budget around $38,281 with venue costs averaging $4,622 which represents about 12% of your total wedding budget.

Here's what you can expect to spend based on guest count:

  • 50 guests (small wedding): $17,057
  • 100 guests: $27,995
  • 150 guests: $38,281
  • 200 guests: $47,482
  • 250 guests: $56,683
  • 300 guests (large wedding): $65,884

Where Can You Find Delaware's Most Beautiful Venues?

You'll discover Delaware's wedding venues clustered in three main regions across the state. In Northern Delaware and the Wilmington Area you can celebrate at Hotel Du Pont with its ornate chandeliers European-inspired architecture and century-old craftsmanship or choose Winterthur Museum & Country Estate featuring 60 acres of breathtaking naturalistic gardens. The Delaware Beaches offer perfect settings for couples dreaming of waterfront celebrations with panoramic bay views and beachfront ceremony spaces. If you head to Southern Delaware you'll find The Farmhouse with its 1800s architecture massive timber beams and multiple outdoor ceremony sites nestled within lush gardens.

Which Delaware Venues Offer Accessibility Features?

You can count on Hilton Wilmington/Christiana for wheelchair accessibility throughout all spaces along with stylish event rooms and customizable packages that fit your vision. The Clubhouse at Baywood gives you wheelchair-accessible pathways connecting all ceremony sites to reception spaces and accommodates up to 250 guests with both indoor and outdoor options so everyone in your party can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Delaware Venues Enhance Remote Participation?

Juniper by Tonic in Wilmington offers you contemporary design with floor-to-ceiling windows creating an ideal backdrop for incorporating interactive live streaming and digital platforms that bring distant loved ones into your celebration. At Hagley Museum you'll enjoy historic charm with lush gardens where virtual attendees can experience 360-degree views of your special day. Winterthur Museum & Country Estate can help you integrate virtual tours of its vast gardens and galleries for remote guests making them feel included in all aspects of your wedding day.

Which Delaware Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You'll love Juniper by Tonic's famous seafood and steak options served in a chic dining atmosphere that impresses even the most discerning guests. Deerfield Golf Club near White Clay Creek State Park delivers refined catering options and comprehensive culinary experiences that can be tailored to your preferences. Hotel Du Pont provides you with luxurious dining experiences in a prestigious setting where every detail is crafted to enhance your celebration.

When Should You Book Your Delaware Wedding Venue?

You need to book Delaware venues about 16 months (484 days) before your wedding date with October being the most competitive month requiring even earlier planning. If you're eyeing prime Saturday dates in May June September or October you should move quickly as these book first especially at historic properties with limited weekend availability.

What Seasonal Considerations Matter for Delaware Weddings?

Spring weddings let you showcase Delaware's flowering landscapes while fall ceremonies feature dramatic foliage creating vibrant backdrops for your photos. Summer beach weddings give you extended daylight for stunning sunset photography opportunities. Winter celebrations benefit from existing holiday décor at venues like Hotel Du Pont and often come with attractive off-season pricing at waterfront properties that might otherwise be beyond your budget.

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