The Best Rehearsal Dinner & Bridal Shower Venues in El Cajon, CA

The Best Rehearsal Dinner & Bridal Shower Venues in El Cajon, CA

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7 Wedding Venues in El Cajon, CA

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The Headquarters by Wedgewood Weddings 

5.0

San Diego, CA
  • Up to 280 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $12,215

The Headquarters by Wedgewood Weddings stands in iconic Seaport Village, San Diego, just steps from the bay. Originally built in 1939 as the city's police headquarters, this historic landmark is being thoughtfully renovated into a luxury wedding and event venue while preserving its rich heritage. The complete renovation showcases art deco elegance with modern sophistication, featuring a dramatic cocktail lounge with a speakeasy ambiance. Inside, you'll find an impressive built-in bar with stunning tilework, plush velvet bench seating, and on-trend chandeliers. Celebrate your love story against this one-of-a-kind historic backdrop in San Diego's most iconic waterfront setting.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations
My rating is in reference to my experience in the planning & booking phase so far - My fiancé and I just booked our wedding for 2026 and Janae has been an amazing help guiding us through it all. She's thorough with giving all necessary info and responsive with any questions that arise. I'm looking forward to working with her as we continue the process! Will be updating this review as the venue will be complete soon! :)
Andrelli O., 6 months ago
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Carlsbad Windmill by Wedgewood Weddings 

5.0

Carlsbad, CA
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,540
  • Offer

An Iconic Carlsbad Landmark Completely Reimagined. San Diego’s newest 5-star wedding venue. With flower fields on one side and the ocean waves on the other, The Carlsbad Windmill by Wedgewood Weddings combines a quirky Danish-style building with luxe modern amenities and a trendy locale. It's all topped off with spectacular event spaces, expert staff, raved-about service, a dressing suite fit to spoil you, and standout decor that feels both grand and grounded.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Natural elegance with open spaces
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
We did not use The Knott to find this venue but we had such an amazing experience we had to share. The venue itself, the first thing you see is a modern foodhall / full bar with a large variety of restaurants. If youre staying at the hotel connected, it was such a great place to hangout with your bridal parties before everything starts. Moving along to the even areas, the ceremony room gives off a modern barn yard style venue and it's such a pleasant contrast from what you initially see when first walking in which really adds to the "wow" factor when entering the room. The cocktail hour area is amazing as well and after we gifted some of our items, they will now have Cornhole and a beer cart available! The area itself is wide open with great seating areas as well. The reception is another instance where the contrast is such a difference from the food hall downstairs, it once again adds so much to that jsw drop reaction. We were approached multiple times complementing how "cool" this venue was and it was definitely a true compliment. Now the venue wouldn't be anywhere with out the staff and I can not say enough great things about them. The entire time was courteous, professional and really give they sense that they want to make sure you have your special day as one to remember. Specifically wanted to shout out our amazing coordinator - Brianna, banquet captain - Lee j and Dj - Rhy's. These three went above and beyond for us and it seemed like that was just their normal demeanor. Brianna made sure we had nothing to worry about and made every part of the planning process a breeze. Lee J was also always checking in appropriately often to ensure we were never left wanting, thirsty or hungry. Rhy's was also great to work with, we had a very specific request with music which ended up having my wife and I take part in a lightsaber fight to two different versions of starwars music - Duel of the Fates, and he handled it masterfully. All in all, 10/10 can not recommend enough.
Mike M., 10 months ago
Brick + Laurel 

5.0

La Mesa, CA
  • Up to 45 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $596

Couples looking to celebrate their bridal shower, rehearsal dinner, reception, and/or baby shower each find Brick + Laurel to be a perfectly fitted, styled space for their gatherings. With no vendor/food restrictions, you can plan your event the way you'd like. BRICK + LAUREL is an intimate warehouse space in La Mesa, CA. Designed for Gatherings, workshops, and photoshoots. Under 50 people fit this space best. You will have access to 1 farm table, lounge area, a full-sized bar built into the space for your use with space rental. We have no restrictions on food or catering giving you the freedom to plan the event that is perfect for you! Our rental rate is $135/hr or $1795 for all day access (8a-12a). We have 4 dining tables and 45 chairs that can be included for an additional $150 (these are included on the all day $1795 package).

Why you'll love this venue

  • Creates a sense of togetherness
  • Raw space for complete customization
  • Perfect for a micro-wedding

Venue considerations

  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • Additional event staff required
  • No on-premises lodging options
I've been working With Brick and Laurel for several years and man, I can't recommend this spot enough. I've work with Pat for years now and from the start of our relationship he has been nothing but an ease to work with. The venue is amazing and has all that you need to pull off your event or wedding. Pat is the BEST!!
Kevin Thornton, 3 years ago
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Mission Trails Regional Park Foundation 

5.0

San Diego, CA
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

The 14,000-square-foot Mission Trails Regional Park Visitor and Interpretive Center is a stunning venue for weddings. Located in the heart of the park and just 10 miles from downtown San Diego, the facility boasts award-winning architectural design and a panoramic view of the park's peaks and mountain ridges as well as a unique view of the San Diego River running through Mission Gorge that is accentuated by gorgeous sunsets.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Requires outside catering services
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not allow pets
Mission Trails Regional Park Visitor Center is the best kept secret and absolute jewel of a location for an event. I had my wedding here and you have access to the whole building, terrace, movie theater and amphitheater. It was a JOY working with Janet (operations manager). Perfect venue for amazing views and unique setting great for nature lovers. Maybe the best part is that what you pay to rent the facility goes to the MTRP Foundation to support the park- it's like making a donation! We loved that so much. Thank you for a beautiful venue for our wedding- it was a SUPERB experience from start to finish!
Camilla Posthill C., 8 months ago
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The Fowler House 

5.0

Jamul, CA
  • Up to 50 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,500

Nestled in the Jamul hills of Fowler Canyon, The Fowler House has been a long-time, family-owned property. Now for the first time, this hidden gem is open to the public for privately hosted events. Reminiscent of a coastal Hampton's style property, the venue sits on a little over eight acres of land and hosts multiple location options for your next event. Ask about renting the whole house for the weekend! https://airbnb.com/h/thefowlerhouse We specialize in smaller more intimate events. The house sleeps up to 12 comfortably. The Fowler House offers a tranquil stay for you and your guests! Located 25 minutes from downtown, you get seclusion as well as the San Diego Charm. We look forward to hosting you and your guests for a night or more under the stars.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Perfect for a micro-wedding
  • Feels like a getaway

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Better for more intimiate events
  • No built-in audiovisual options
The Fowler House is a beautiful place. Surrounded by lush greenery this place is a must see.
Liz Creagan, 4 years ago
Steel Canyon Golf Club 
Jamul, CA
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,500

Steele Canyon Golf Club: Your Dream Wedding Venue! Overlooking Rancho San Diego's canyons, Steele Canyon offers a stunning setting for your wedding. Enjoy our sunset deck, ceremony arbor, and bridal suite. Experience our quality, service, and atmosphere. Attend our open houses or schedule a consultation. Create unforgettable wedding memories at Steele Canyon.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Designed for grand celebrations
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Dance floor not included
Rustic Ridge Vineyards 
Jamul, CA
  • Up to 50 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor

In 2002, Rusty discovered the Jamul Valley. He found the granitic soils, warm days and cool nights to be ideal for grape growing. Rusty added an orchard of pomegranates, tangerines, lemons, plums, oranges and apples. Enjoying wine and the fun-ness that comes with it, Rusty was taken by Kerri's love of the vine and together they embarked on planting wine grapes. Life as they had known it changed forever. Kerri's southern Texas hospitality and Rusty's ingenuity have created Rustic Ridge - a very special place. Gardens, fountains, and our warm and inviting tasting room welcome wine enthusiasts with an authentic hospitality. Also ready to welcome our guests are vineyard dogs ChaCha and Coco (husky rescue dogs).

Why you'll love this venue

  • Scenic vineyard views
  • Surrounded by nature
  • Has an intimate feel for a small guest list

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not provide event staff
  • Better for more intimiate events

Location flexible? Discover venues near El Cajon, CA

About wedding venues in El Cajon, CA

California offers an incredible 840 miles of coastline, 3,000+ wineries and ancient redwoods for your wedding day. When you choose the Golden State, you're getting exceptional natural lighting for your ceremony across diverse settings from Mediterranean coastal zones to alpine mountain backdrops. Each region has its own distinctive character that can perfectly match your vision.

What Makes California Wedding Venues So Special?

Northern California's Napa Valley welcomes you with rolling vineyards and Spanish colonial architecture where intimate wine cave ceremonies create unforgettable moments. Head to Southern California and you'll find oceanfront venues like Duke's Malibu where you can exchange vows with the Pacific stretching out behind you while enjoying fresh coastal-inspired cuisine. Palm Springs offers dramatic desert venues with mountain backdrops and striking midcentury modern architecture that photographs beautifully.

How Much Do Wedding Venues in California Cost?

Wedding venues in California typically run between $9,600 and $11,700 which aligns nicely with the national range of $6,500-$12,000. This represents about 18% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on guest count:

  • 50 guests: $26,190
  • 100 guests: $43,692
  • 150 guests: $60,141
  • 200 guests: $74,836
  • 250 guests: $89,530
  • 300 guests: $104,224

Which California Venues Are Fully Accessible?

The Griffith House features wheelchair-accessible pathways throughout its Spanish-style grounds including the private ceremony lawn and separate preparation spaces for couples. You might also consider Holman Ranch Sunstone Winery and Villa del Sol d'Oro though you'll want to directly confirm their specific accessibility features when you visit. Accessibility options have improved greatly across California venues in recent years.

When Should You Book Your California Wedding Venue?

October leads venue inquiries in California with couples typically booking venues about 13 months (400 days) before their wedding date. If you're dreaming of a Northern California wine country wedding during peak season you'll want to book up to 18 months in advance. Southern California venues offer more flexibility especially during winter months when you can still enjoy beautiful weather while potentially securing better rates.

Where Can You Find Exceptional Culinary Experiences in California?

La Valencia Hotel in La Jolla delivers impeccable service with menu options from lobster bisque to perfectly prepared steak. You'll love Vibiana in Los Angeles with its chef-driven menus served in a stunning restored cathedral setting. Rosewood Sand Hill in Menlo Park offers Michelin-star fine dining while Bali Hai Restaurant serves authentic Polynesian cuisine with breathtaking views overlooking San Diego Bay. California's culinary scene truly elevates the wedding experience.

How Do California Wedding Costs Break Down?

VendorAverage Cost% of Total (150 guests)
Venue$10,66518%
Catering$8,53214%
Florists$7,82113%
Bar Services$6,82611%
Photography$4,7648%
Wedding Planners$4,8358%
Videography$4,3097%
Hair & Makeup$6001%
Cake & Desserts$8181%

Which California Venues Offer Enhanced Remote Participation?

Parq Event Center in San Diego features state-of-the-art sound LED screens and projection walls that support advanced streaming capabilities for guests who can't attend in person. You'll find Exchange LA and Wing Tip in San Francisco offer flexible spaces that adapt beautifully for innovative tech integration. These can include virtual reality experiences interactive live streaming and 360-degree cameras that make remote guests feel like they're right there with you. Technology has transformed how we can include loved ones from anywhere in the world.

California offers an incredible 840 miles of coastline, 3,000+ wineries and ancient redwoods for your wedding day. When you choose the Golden State, you're getting exceptional natural lighting for your ceremony across diverse settings from Mediterranean coastal zones to alpine mountain backdrops. Each region has its own distinctive character that can perfectly match your vision.

What Makes California Wedding Venues So Special?

Northern California's Napa Valley welcomes you with rolling vineyards and Spanish colonial architecture where intimate wine cave ceremonies create unforgettable moments. Head to Southern California and you'll find oceanfront venues like Duke's Malibu where you can exchange vows with the Pacific stretching out behind you while enjoying fresh coastal-inspired cuisine. Palm Springs offers dramatic desert venues with mountain backdrops and striking midcentury modern architecture that photographs beautifully.

How Much Do Wedding Venues in California Cost?

Wedding venues in California typically run between $9,600 and $11,700 which aligns nicely with the national range of $6,500-$12,000. This represents about 18% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on guest count:

  • 50 guests: $26,190
  • 100 guests: $43,692
  • 150 guests: $60,141
  • 200 guests: $74,836
  • 250 guests: $89,530
  • 300 guests: $104,224

Which California Venues Are Fully Accessible?

The Griffith House features wheelchair-accessible pathways throughout its Spanish-style grounds including the private ceremony lawn and separate preparation spaces for couples. You might also consider Holman Ranch Sunstone Winery and Villa del Sol d'Oro though you'll want to directly confirm their specific accessibility features when you visit. Accessibility options have improved greatly across California venues in recent years.

When Should You Book Your California Wedding Venue?

October leads venue inquiries in California with couples typically booking venues about 13 months (400 days) before their wedding date. If you're dreaming of a Northern California wine country wedding during peak season you'll want to book up to 18 months in advance. Southern California venues offer more flexibility especially during winter months when you can still enjoy beautiful weather while potentially securing better rates.

Where Can You Find Exceptional Culinary Experiences in California?

La Valencia Hotel in La Jolla delivers impeccable service with menu options from lobster bisque to perfectly prepared steak. You'll love Vibiana in Los Angeles with its chef-driven menus served in a stunning restored cathedral setting. Rosewood Sand Hill in Menlo Park offers Michelin-star fine dining while Bali Hai Restaurant serves authentic Polynesian cuisine with breathtaking views overlooking San Diego Bay. California's culinary scene truly elevates the wedding experience.

How Do California Wedding Costs Break Down?

VendorAverage Cost% of Total (150 guests)
Venue$10,66518%
Catering$8,53214%
Florists$7,82113%
Bar Services$6,82611%
Photography$4,7648%
Wedding Planners$4,8358%
Videography$4,3097%
Hair & Makeup$6001%
Cake & Desserts$8181%

Which California Venues Offer Enhanced Remote Participation?

Parq Event Center in San Diego features state-of-the-art sound LED screens and projection walls that support advanced streaming capabilities for guests who can't attend in person. You'll find Exchange LA and Wing Tip in San Francisco offer flexible spaces that adapt beautifully for innovative tech integration. These can include virtual reality experiences interactive live streaming and 360-degree cameras that make remote guests feel like they're right there with you. Technology has transformed how we can include loved ones from anywhere in the world.

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