The Best Rehearsal Dinner & Bridal Shower Venues in El Cajon, CA

The Best Rehearsal Dinner & Bridal Shower Venues in El Cajon, CA

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7 Wedding Venues in El Cajon, CA

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The Headquarters by Wedgewood Weddings 

5.0

San Diego, CA
  • Up to 280 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $12,215

The Headquarters by Wedgewood Weddings stands in iconic Seaport Village, San Diego, just steps from the bay. Originally built in 1939 as the city's police headquarters, this historic landmark is being thoughtfully renovated into a luxury wedding and event venue while preserving its rich heritage. The complete renovation showcases art deco elegance with modern sophistication, featuring a dramatic cocktail lounge with a speakeasy ambiance. Inside, you'll find an impressive built-in bar with stunning tilework, plush velvet bench seating, and on-trend chandeliers. Celebrate your love story against this one-of-a-kind historic backdrop in San Diego's most iconic waterfront setting.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Although our wedding hasn’t happened yet, we couldn’t wait to share how thrilled we’ve been with our experience so far with The Headquarters! From the very beginning, the team has been phenomenal, Taylor and Janae’s professionalism and communication has made the entire process smooth and stress-free thus far. A special shoutout to Taylor, who played a huge role in helping us feel confident about booking a venue still under renovation. Her years of experience with Wedgewood and new venue openings reassured us that their blueprints and mock-ups are always spot-on with the final product—and it’s easy to see that this space is going to be stunning. We were specifically looking for a venue that felt unique and special, something fresh that none of our friends or family had used before. Choosing The Headquarters was a leap of faith, but the team’s attention to detail and their ability to keep us in the loop has us beyond excited for our big day. If you’re considering booking a new venue, don’t hesitate—Taylor, Janae, and the team at The Headquarters will make the process seamless. We can’t wait to see it all come together and celebrate in this beautiful space!
Haley C., 6 months ago
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Carlsbad Windmill by Wedgewood Weddings 

5.0

Carlsbad, CA
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,540
  • Offer

An Iconic Carlsbad Landmark Completely Reimagined. San Diego’s newest 5-star wedding venue. With flower fields on one side and the ocean waves on the other, The Carlsbad Windmill by Wedgewood Weddings combines a quirky Danish-style building with luxe modern amenities and a trendy locale. It's all topped off with spectacular event spaces, expert staff, raved-about service, a dressing suite fit to spoil you, and standout decor that feels both grand and grounded.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Natural elegance with open spaces
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
I could not recommend Wedgewood Carlsbad Windmill more highly. For half of what we would be paying at any other venue, I feel that we received top-notch service, aesthetics that matched who we are as a couple, thoughtful coordination, and worry-free execution. Our coordinator, Brianna, went above and beyond to give us the wedding of our dreams. We loved our DJ, Noah (with DJ Maestro), who was coordinated through the venue. It was a seamless experience that I genuinely feel saved us a ton of money and gave us MORE value than a traditional venue.
Marianne H., 2 months ago
Brick + Laurel 

5.0

La Mesa, CA
  • Up to 45 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $596

Couples looking to celebrate their bridal shower, rehearsal dinner, reception, and/or baby shower each find Brick + Laurel to be a perfectly fitted, styled space for their gatherings. With no vendor/food restrictions, you can plan your event the way you'd like. BRICK + LAUREL is an intimate warehouse space in La Mesa, CA. Designed for Gatherings, workshops, and photoshoots. Under 50 people fit this space best. You will have access to 1 farm table, lounge area, a full-sized bar built into the space for your use with space rental. We have no restrictions on food or catering giving you the freedom to plan the event that is perfect for you! Our rental rate is $135/hr or $1795 for all day access (8a-12a). We have 4 dining tables and 45 chairs that can be included for an additional $150 (these are included on the all day $1795 package).

Why you'll love this venue

  • Creates a sense of togetherness
  • Raw space for complete customization
  • Perfect for a micro-wedding

Venue considerations

  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • Additional event staff required
  • No on-premises lodging options
I've been working With Brick and Laurel for several years and man, I can't recommend this spot enough. I've work with Pat for years now and from the start of our relationship he has been nothing but an ease to work with. The venue is amazing and has all that you need to pull off your event or wedding. Pat is the BEST!!
Kevin Thornton, 3 years ago
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Mission Trails Regional Park Foundation 

5.0

San Diego, CA
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

The 14,000-square-foot Mission Trails Regional Park Visitor and Interpretive Center is a stunning venue for weddings. Located in the heart of the park and just 10 miles from downtown San Diego, the facility boasts award-winning architectural design and a panoramic view of the park's peaks and mountain ridges as well as a unique view of the San Diego River running through Mission Gorge that is accentuated by gorgeous sunsets.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Requires outside catering services
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not allow pets
Mission Trails Regional Park Visitor Center is the best kept secret and absolute jewel of a location for an event. I had my wedding here and you have access to the whole building, terrace, movie theater and amphitheater. It was a JOY working with Janet (operations manager). Perfect venue for amazing views and unique setting great for nature lovers. Maybe the best part is that what you pay to rent the facility goes to the MTRP Foundation to support the park- it's like making a donation! We loved that so much. Thank you for a beautiful venue for our wedding- it was a SUPERB experience from start to finish!
Camilla Posthill C., 8 months ago
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The Fowler House 

5.0

Jamul, CA
  • Up to 50 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,500

Nestled in the Jamul hills of Fowler Canyon, The Fowler House has been a long-time, family-owned property. Now for the first time, this hidden gem is open to the public for privately hosted events. Reminiscent of a coastal Hampton's style property, the venue sits on a little over eight acres of land and hosts multiple location options for your next event. Ask about renting the whole house for the weekend! https://airbnb.com/h/thefowlerhouse We specialize in smaller more intimate events. The house sleeps up to 12 comfortably. The Fowler House offers a tranquil stay for you and your guests! Located 25 minutes from downtown, you get seclusion as well as the San Diego Charm. We look forward to hosting you and your guests for a night or more under the stars.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Perfect for a micro-wedding
  • Feels like a getaway

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Better for more intimiate events
  • No built-in audiovisual options
This is an awesome spot for any type of event! We did our wedding here with a small group (40 of us) and it was truly magical. The Fowler House team was really easy to work with and even went above and beyond to make our day special. We are thinking of renting the house for our baby shower next :)
Jessica Sharp, 4 years ago
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Bonita Golf Course 

5.0

Bonita, CA
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $5,500

Facilities and Capacity: Nestled in the Bonita Valley, experience the alluring setting, comfort and culinary creations of Bonita Golf Course for the wedding of your dreams! An outdoor ceremony site looking onto manicured fairways and beautiful sunsets is the perfect backdrop for an unforgettable event! The newly renovated event space features old California mission-style architecture, vaulted ceilings, and neutral colors giving you a venue fit for occasions of every style. From small gatherings of 80, to large parties of up to 300 guests, Bonita Golf Course is perfectly suited to host your next event! Services Offered: Bonita Golf Course offers traditional and international menu options curated by our executive chef. From bartenders to servers, the professional event staff takes pride in every detail of your special day! Your wedding isn't complete without a dedicated event manager. From touring , pricing , booking to recommendations - our event team is ready to help!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-premises lodging options
Awarded Best of Zola
Definitely, recommended if you’re on a tight budget. Our wedding theme was Simple Elegant. We’re both minimalist. We drive down from AZ, great thing we managed to pack light for the decor etc., our friends helped too. Hands down! Working with Keli for 9 months has been rewarding. She is great a communicator, a team player, attentive to details, visionary, flexible and supportive. She is not a typical salesman. You will not burnt out your wallet with this venue. No hidden fees. This don’t happen all the time, surprisingly, we paid less than what we originally budgeted for. That alone is a blessing! On the wedding day, her team was so kind to working with us during the ceremony, we were 30 mins delay and had to push back the lunch schedule as well. We did not get extra charged. They took care of my high anxiety with their patience. The food was 100% amazing. Great choice ordering the lemon chicken and beef brisket buffet style. Our wedding guests could not stop talking about the delicious meal. The space was indeed what we asked for any sizes of 50-300 guests. We had 120 guests attended on a Saturday afternoon (paid for 150 people), there were still plenty of space inside and available seatings. The outside was stunning. People love the Mountain View background and greenery golf grass. I enjoy the easy access to the parking lot and clubhouse. We brought our own desserts which saved us a ton of money. They provided microphones, iPhone adapter for our iPhone Spotify playlist songs, a podium, refrigerator, table cloths, easel, and extra outside set up tables all for free of charged. I can go on and on! Bottom line I don’t have bad news to say about this venue. Give her a call, be up front what you’re looking for, she’ll work with your budget.
NuDrew, 2 years ago
Rustic Ridge Vineyards 
Jamul, CA
  • Up to 50 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor

In 2002, Rusty discovered the Jamul Valley. He found the granitic soils, warm days and cool nights to be ideal for grape growing. Rusty added an orchard of pomegranates, tangerines, lemons, plums, oranges and apples. Enjoying wine and the fun-ness that comes with it, Rusty was taken by Kerri's love of the vine and together they embarked on planting wine grapes. Life as they had known it changed forever. Kerri's southern Texas hospitality and Rusty's ingenuity have created Rustic Ridge - a very special place. Gardens, fountains, and our warm and inviting tasting room welcome wine enthusiasts with an authentic hospitality. Also ready to welcome our guests are vineyard dogs ChaCha and Coco (husky rescue dogs).

Why you'll love this venue

  • Scenic vineyard views
  • Surrounded by nature
  • Has an intimate feel for a small guest list

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not provide event staff
  • Better for more intimiate events

Location flexible? Discover venues near El Cajon, CA

About wedding venues in El Cajon, CA

California offers an incredible 840 miles of coastline, 3,000+ wineries and ancient redwoods for your wedding day. When you choose the Golden State, you're getting exceptional natural lighting for your ceremony across diverse settings from Mediterranean coastal zones to alpine mountain backdrops. Each region has its own distinctive character that can perfectly match your vision.

What Makes California Wedding Venues So Special?

Northern California's Napa Valley welcomes you with rolling vineyards and Spanish colonial architecture where intimate wine cave ceremonies create unforgettable moments. Head to Southern California and you'll find oceanfront venues like Duke's Malibu where you can exchange vows with the Pacific stretching out behind you while enjoying fresh coastal-inspired cuisine. Palm Springs offers dramatic desert venues with mountain backdrops and striking midcentury modern architecture that photographs beautifully.

How Much Do Wedding Venues in California Cost?

Wedding venues in California typically run between $9,600 and $11,700 which aligns nicely with the national range of $6,500-$12,000. This represents about 18% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on guest count:

  • 50 guests: $26,190
  • 100 guests: $43,692
  • 150 guests: $60,141
  • 200 guests: $74,836
  • 250 guests: $89,530
  • 300 guests: $104,224

Which California Venues Are Fully Accessible?

The Griffith House features wheelchair-accessible pathways throughout its Spanish-style grounds including the private ceremony lawn and separate preparation spaces for couples. You might also consider Holman Ranch Sunstone Winery and Villa del Sol d'Oro though you'll want to directly confirm their specific accessibility features when you visit. Accessibility options have improved greatly across California venues in recent years.

When Should You Book Your California Wedding Venue?

October leads venue inquiries in California with couples typically booking venues about 13 months (400 days) before their wedding date. If you're dreaming of a Northern California wine country wedding during peak season you'll want to book up to 18 months in advance. Southern California venues offer more flexibility especially during winter months when you can still enjoy beautiful weather while potentially securing better rates.

Where Can You Find Exceptional Culinary Experiences in California?

La Valencia Hotel in La Jolla delivers impeccable service with menu options from lobster bisque to perfectly prepared steak. You'll love Vibiana in Los Angeles with its chef-driven menus served in a stunning restored cathedral setting. Rosewood Sand Hill in Menlo Park offers Michelin-star fine dining while Bali Hai Restaurant serves authentic Polynesian cuisine with breathtaking views overlooking San Diego Bay. California's culinary scene truly elevates the wedding experience.

How Do California Wedding Costs Break Down?

VendorAverage Cost% of Total (150 guests)
Venue$10,66518%
Catering$8,53214%
Florists$7,82113%
Bar Services$6,82611%
Photography$4,7648%
Wedding Planners$4,8358%
Videography$4,3097%
Hair & Makeup$6001%
Cake & Desserts$8181%

Which California Venues Offer Enhanced Remote Participation?

Parq Event Center in San Diego features state-of-the-art sound LED screens and projection walls that support advanced streaming capabilities for guests who can't attend in person. You'll find Exchange LA and Wing Tip in San Francisco offer flexible spaces that adapt beautifully for innovative tech integration. These can include virtual reality experiences interactive live streaming and 360-degree cameras that make remote guests feel like they're right there with you. Technology has transformed how we can include loved ones from anywhere in the world.

California offers an incredible 840 miles of coastline, 3,000+ wineries and ancient redwoods for your wedding day. When you choose the Golden State, you're getting exceptional natural lighting for your ceremony across diverse settings from Mediterranean coastal zones to alpine mountain backdrops. Each region has its own distinctive character that can perfectly match your vision.

What Makes California Wedding Venues So Special?

Northern California's Napa Valley welcomes you with rolling vineyards and Spanish colonial architecture where intimate wine cave ceremonies create unforgettable moments. Head to Southern California and you'll find oceanfront venues like Duke's Malibu where you can exchange vows with the Pacific stretching out behind you while enjoying fresh coastal-inspired cuisine. Palm Springs offers dramatic desert venues with mountain backdrops and striking midcentury modern architecture that photographs beautifully.

How Much Do Wedding Venues in California Cost?

Wedding venues in California typically run between $9,600 and $11,700 which aligns nicely with the national range of $6,500-$12,000. This represents about 18% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on guest count:

  • 50 guests: $26,190
  • 100 guests: $43,692
  • 150 guests: $60,141
  • 200 guests: $74,836
  • 250 guests: $89,530
  • 300 guests: $104,224

Which California Venues Are Fully Accessible?

The Griffith House features wheelchair-accessible pathways throughout its Spanish-style grounds including the private ceremony lawn and separate preparation spaces for couples. You might also consider Holman Ranch Sunstone Winery and Villa del Sol d'Oro though you'll want to directly confirm their specific accessibility features when you visit. Accessibility options have improved greatly across California venues in recent years.

When Should You Book Your California Wedding Venue?

October leads venue inquiries in California with couples typically booking venues about 13 months (400 days) before their wedding date. If you're dreaming of a Northern California wine country wedding during peak season you'll want to book up to 18 months in advance. Southern California venues offer more flexibility especially during winter months when you can still enjoy beautiful weather while potentially securing better rates.

Where Can You Find Exceptional Culinary Experiences in California?

La Valencia Hotel in La Jolla delivers impeccable service with menu options from lobster bisque to perfectly prepared steak. You'll love Vibiana in Los Angeles with its chef-driven menus served in a stunning restored cathedral setting. Rosewood Sand Hill in Menlo Park offers Michelin-star fine dining while Bali Hai Restaurant serves authentic Polynesian cuisine with breathtaking views overlooking San Diego Bay. California's culinary scene truly elevates the wedding experience.

How Do California Wedding Costs Break Down?

VendorAverage Cost% of Total (150 guests)
Venue$10,66518%
Catering$8,53214%
Florists$7,82113%
Bar Services$6,82611%
Photography$4,7648%
Wedding Planners$4,8358%
Videography$4,3097%
Hair & Makeup$6001%
Cake & Desserts$8181%

Which California Venues Offer Enhanced Remote Participation?

Parq Event Center in San Diego features state-of-the-art sound LED screens and projection walls that support advanced streaming capabilities for guests who can't attend in person. You'll find Exchange LA and Wing Tip in San Francisco offer flexible spaces that adapt beautifully for innovative tech integration. These can include virtual reality experiences interactive live streaming and 360-degree cameras that make remote guests feel like they're right there with you. Technology has transformed how we can include loved ones from anywhere in the world.

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