The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Whately, MA

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Whately, MA

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6 Wedding Venues in Whately, MA

Historic estates, mansions
250-300 guests
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Farm Road Estate 

5.0

West Dover, VT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Picture cozy evenings under string lights, farm-to-table flavors, and your favorite people gathered for a relaxed weekend celebration in Vermont. Farm Road, just minutes from Mount Snow in West Dover, is a 39-acre retreat designed for authentic, memorable weddings. Say “I do” beside tranquil ponds, on a beautiful bluestone terrace, in the enchanted forest, or by a peaceful riverside patio. Host your reception outdoors in one of two tented spaces or indoors in our rustic-industrial barn or the restored 18th-century Great Room—featuring wood beams, chandeliers, and a cozy fireplace. With two pools, eight pickleball courts, lush gardens, fire pits, and miles of trails, your guests will have plenty to explore. On-site lodging for up to 150 guests across private suites, cottages, and luxury homes means everyone stays close and comfortable. From chef-driven menus to expert event planning, Farm Road Estate is more than a venue—it’s a full Vermont experience. Reach out to schedule your tour!

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
From beginning to end, our experience at Farm Road Estate was absolute perfection. Even the planning process was enjoyable thanks to Kelly and her incredible team, who went above and beyond every step of the way. From setting up Guitar Hero in the speakeasy for our welcome party, to making sure our grandmas walked down the aisle smoothly, to making sure we were always fed during every little gap of the day—the attention to detail and genuine care were unmatched. The venue itself is breathtaking, and every guest couldn’t stop raving about how comfortable the rooms and bedding were. And the food… wow. I had friends telling me they literally licked their plates (politely, of course). Everything was phenomenal. It truly felt like we had all our loved ones together for the most beautiful sleepaway weekend, eating, drinking, laughing, and celebrating. We wish we could go back and relive it all over again. Hearing people talk about our wedding gives us the chance to do just that, and it fills our hearts every single time. To Kelly, Mike (the Guitar Hero master), Lauren, Giselle, Chef Joe, Theresa, Steven, Meg, and every single staff member who worked tirelessly to make our weekend so special. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts. We will cherish these memories forever. If you’re on the fence about having your wedding here, do it. You will not regret it.
Hannah R., 8 days ago
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The Ruins at Sassafras Museum 

5.0

New Lebanon, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

The Ruins at Sassafras Museum is the home of the former Shaker Second Family on Mount Lebanon. (See our reviews on Google.) We call ourselves a boutique museum because unlike other Shaker Museums that replicate the past, we have interpreted the past and creatively restored each location on the property. You can have your ceremony in the ruins of an English garden, the stone foundation of a barn alongside a meandering creek, or under a willow tree overlooking our pond. Enjoy cocktails on the terrace of our Moroccan Bar or Stone House as the sunsets over the Taconic Mountains. Choose from eight unique sites to customize your wedding day. We can host 18 guests in our luxury accommodations and only 15 minutes away are many hotels and inns.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Flexible event spaces
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • No free parking
  • No venue-provided food services
The Ruins at Sassafrass Choosing The Ruins at Sassafrass as our wedding venue was a decision that exceeded our wildest dreams. I could write pages about all the amazing things that this venue boasts, but I will highlight the points that future brides should understand when they go to book The Ruins. Being a DIY bride, the Ruins at Sassafrass provided the enchanting backdrop to bring my Pinterest board dreams to life. The rustic charm and natural beauty of the venue complemented my vision perfectly, creating a magical setting for our special day. The flexibility of the space allowed me to add personal touches, turning it into a unique and unforgettable experience. Even in late October the landscape of the mountains in the distance were breathtaking; our guests are still talking about how mesmerizing the views were. What makes our wedding story even more special is that we chose The Ruins before it was even finished. It was a leap of faith based on the vision and promises from Carol, the owner. When we did our initial tour, the venue was still in its beginning stages of completion; even then we were captivated by the potential and the unique charm it promised. What sealed the deal for us, however, was Carol's infectious enthusiasm, passion, and stylistic eye. Her vision and commitment assured us that the venue would be the perfect location for our special day, and it absolutely was! Being part of the journey from the early stages allowed us to witness the Ruins’ transformation, and it added an extra layer of excitement to our wedding planning. Despite the venue's newness and the inevitable growing pains, Carol, Lara (the on site coordinator), Jerome (Carol’s partner in life and business), and the rest of the team made sure our decision to trust them from the beginning was more than worthwhile. Being a newer venue, Carol and the team were still in the process of ironing out a few kinks. Despite some last minute hiccups, what truly stood out was Carol, Jerome, and Lara’s commitment to addressing these challenges in real-time. Their proactive approach and dedication to ensuring our day was perfect more than made up for any set backs in the planning process. This was a HUGE relief when planning such a momentous event. On our actual wedding day, when challenges arose with our day-of coordinator (that we hired separately and was not affiliated with The Ruins), Lara stepped in as our saving grace. Her quick thinking, attention to detail, and unwavering professionalism turned what could have been a stressful situation into a seamless and unforgettable celebration. Her ability to coordinate with our vendors and recalibrate the timeline on the spot showcased her experience and dedication. Without Lara's intervention, the day could have taken a different turn, and we are immensely grateful for her expertise and her willingness to step up and save the day. Her creative touch also helped transform the venue into a dreamlike setting, exceeding our expectations. Lara's dedication and experience truly showcased the exceptional team at The Ruins at Sassafrass, if you get the chance you should ABSOLUTELY hire Lara to help plan your event. The Ruins at Sassafrass, with its evolving charm and an outstanding team led by Carol, Jerome and Lara, made our wedding day an absolute masterpiece. We are forever grateful for their passion, dedication, and the magical memories they helped us create.
Marja M., 2 years ago
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The Mount 
Lenox, MA
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Exchange vows and mingle with loved ones against the backdrop of The Mount’s colorful, award-winning formal gardens and the elegant interior of Edith Wharton’s historic mansion. Spanning nearly 50 acres, the gracious, spectacular estate is the perfect setting for an unforgettable wedding. For your ceremony location, choose from the exquisite French Flower Garden, inspired by the gardens at Versailles, or the intimate Italian Garden, inspired by renaissance architecture. After your ceremony you can host cocktails on the expansive terrace overlooking The Mount’s meticulously manicured property and the mountains beyond. With a variety of locations available, the estate and gardens can accommodate weddings of varying sizes depending on your needs. We will provide ideas, but encourage you to make creative choices to individualize your reception.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Venue is completely outdoors

Venue considerations

  • Requires outside catering services
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
Columbia County Fair Grounds 
Chatham, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $500

Let the historic Columbia County Fairhouse and its surrounding buildings create the perfect backdrop for your unique country wedding. Decorate with hanging lanterns from the barn rafters or hay bales with wildflower bouquets to create the rustic charm and atmosphere you dream of for your special day. While your bridal party has photos taken by the barns, pond and fountain, your guests will enjoy cocktails and hors d’oeuvres on adjacent lawns and in the show ring among the whiskey barrels of summer flowers and shade trees. Complete your celebration with a champagne toast beside a split-rail fence and you have a wedding to remember.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Historic touches
  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe

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About wedding venues in Whately, MA

Massachusetts offers an unparalleled backdrop for your wedding day with historic mansions in Boston's Beacon Hill, lighthouse-dotted shores of Cape Cod and rustic barns nestled in Western Massachusetts' Berkshire mountains. The state's rich colonial heritage gives you venues in buildings dating back to the 1700s while modern spaces showcase innovative architecture and contemporary design that can make your celebration truly unique.

What Makes Massachusetts Wedding Venues So Special?

The Bay State combines distinct regional characteristics to create unique ceremony experiences for your special day. In Boston and Greater Boston you'll find historic landmarks like Boston Public Library where you can exchange vows in elegant reading rooms then celebrate with receptions offering harbor views at the Boston Harbor Hotel. Cape Cod, Martha's Vineyard and Nantucket feature oceanfront estates like Wychmere Beach Club with direct beach access and sunset ceremony opportunities that create magical memories. Western Massachusetts offers converted tobacco barns featuring original beam architecture and mountain backdrop photography locations perfect for couples seeking rustic charm.

How Much Do Massachusetts Wedding Venues Cost?

Massachusetts wedding venues average $9,954 which typically represents about 17% of your total budget compared to the national range of $6,500-$12,000. Prices vary significantly by region; Boston and North Shore venues command premium prices while Western Massachusetts and South Shore offer more affordable options that might better fit your budget.

For a Massachusetts wedding expect total costs around $26,015 for 50 guests, $43,197 for 100 guests, $59,346 for 150 guests, $73,773 for 200 guests, $88,200 for 250 guests and $102,626 for 300 guests. Planning ahead helps you accommodate these costs in your overall wedding budget.

Which Massachusetts Venues Are Fully Accessible?

The Commons 1854 in Topsfield stands out with accessible parking ramps and a chairlift for wheelchair users accommodating up to 200 guests comfortably. Kimpton Marlowe Hotel in Cambridge offers stunning Boston skyline views while Renaissance in Haverhill provides a scenic golf course setting for your celebration. Always contact venues directly to confirm specific accessibility features that meet your needs and those of your guests.

What Budget Items Should You Consider for Your Massachusetts Wedding?

ServiceAverage Cost% of Budget (150 guests)
Florists$8,17714%
Venue$9,95417%
Bar Services$6,37111%
Catering$7,96313%
Photographers$4,9848%

When Should You Book Your Massachusetts Venue?

Massachusetts couples typically book venues 15 months before their wedding date with September bookings requiring even earlier commitment due to popularity. Boston venues frequently book earlier for prime Saturday dates while Sunday or Friday weddings offer more immediate availability if you're planning on a shorter timeline. Reaching out to venues early gives you the best chance to secure your preferred date.

Where Can You Find Outstanding Food in Massachusetts Wedding Venues?

Hampshire House in Boston offers exceptional well-plated cuisine with stunning views of Boston Public Gardens perfect for intimate weddings up to 75 guests who appreciate fine dining. The Barn at Gibbet Hill in Groton serves outstanding creatively crafted dishes with delectable hors d'oeuvres and mouthwatering main courses in a rustic yet magical setting your guests will rave about. Avenir in Walpole provides in-house catering with personalized service in an elegant ballroom setting that creates a memorable experience.

Book your tastings early and ask about seasonal menu options to experience Massachusetts' renowned culinary scene on your special day and create a menu that perfectly complements your celebration.

Massachusetts offers an unparalleled backdrop for your wedding day with historic mansions in Boston's Beacon Hill, lighthouse-dotted shores of Cape Cod and rustic barns nestled in Western Massachusetts' Berkshire mountains. The state's rich colonial heritage gives you venues in buildings dating back to the 1700s while modern spaces showcase innovative architecture and contemporary design that can make your celebration truly unique.

What Makes Massachusetts Wedding Venues So Special?

The Bay State combines distinct regional characteristics to create unique ceremony experiences for your special day. In Boston and Greater Boston you'll find historic landmarks like Boston Public Library where you can exchange vows in elegant reading rooms then celebrate with receptions offering harbor views at the Boston Harbor Hotel. Cape Cod, Martha's Vineyard and Nantucket feature oceanfront estates like Wychmere Beach Club with direct beach access and sunset ceremony opportunities that create magical memories. Western Massachusetts offers converted tobacco barns featuring original beam architecture and mountain backdrop photography locations perfect for couples seeking rustic charm.

How Much Do Massachusetts Wedding Venues Cost?

Massachusetts wedding venues average $9,954 which typically represents about 17% of your total budget compared to the national range of $6,500-$12,000. Prices vary significantly by region; Boston and North Shore venues command premium prices while Western Massachusetts and South Shore offer more affordable options that might better fit your budget.

For a Massachusetts wedding expect total costs around $26,015 for 50 guests, $43,197 for 100 guests, $59,346 for 150 guests, $73,773 for 200 guests, $88,200 for 250 guests and $102,626 for 300 guests. Planning ahead helps you accommodate these costs in your overall wedding budget.

Which Massachusetts Venues Are Fully Accessible?

The Commons 1854 in Topsfield stands out with accessible parking ramps and a chairlift for wheelchair users accommodating up to 200 guests comfortably. Kimpton Marlowe Hotel in Cambridge offers stunning Boston skyline views while Renaissance in Haverhill provides a scenic golf course setting for your celebration. Always contact venues directly to confirm specific accessibility features that meet your needs and those of your guests.

What Budget Items Should You Consider for Your Massachusetts Wedding?

ServiceAverage Cost% of Budget (150 guests)
Florists$8,17714%
Venue$9,95417%
Bar Services$6,37111%
Catering$7,96313%
Photographers$4,9848%

When Should You Book Your Massachusetts Venue?

Massachusetts couples typically book venues 15 months before their wedding date with September bookings requiring even earlier commitment due to popularity. Boston venues frequently book earlier for prime Saturday dates while Sunday or Friday weddings offer more immediate availability if you're planning on a shorter timeline. Reaching out to venues early gives you the best chance to secure your preferred date.

Where Can You Find Outstanding Food in Massachusetts Wedding Venues?

Hampshire House in Boston offers exceptional well-plated cuisine with stunning views of Boston Public Gardens perfect for intimate weddings up to 75 guests who appreciate fine dining. The Barn at Gibbet Hill in Groton serves outstanding creatively crafted dishes with delectable hors d'oeuvres and mouthwatering main courses in a rustic yet magical setting your guests will rave about. Avenir in Walpole provides in-house catering with personalized service in an elegant ballroom setting that creates a memorable experience.

Book your tastings early and ask about seasonal menu options to experience Massachusetts' renowned culinary scene on your special day and create a menu that perfectly complements your celebration.

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