The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Stanley, NY

Lincoln Hill Farms is a picturesque 95-acre escape in the heart of the Finger Lakes, offering an authentic farm wedding experience that feels both natural and elevated. Just minutes from Canandaigua, this historic property features hand-built gathering spaces, sweeping countryside views, and lush gardens. Whether you’re dreaming of a sunset ceremony by the pond or a sophisticated tented reception, the farm blends rustic charm with modern amenities. With on-site glamping, farm-to-table catering, and a unique "bridal safari" tent, it is an unforgettable destination for weddings and all the celebrations in between.

The scenic Bristol Mountain estate spans over 200 acres with a 1200' vertical summit for stunning views, private celebrations, and unparalleled experience. With multiple outdoor ceremony locations and two indoor reception locations, couples can choose the space that speaks to their vision.

Imagine a collection of historic inns, restored to luxury, with beautiful balconies and porches overlooking pristine Cayuga Lake. Picture sweeping lawns that roll down to the water’s edge, where the sun sets each night in a riot of golden hues. Add exquisite artwork, from-scratch meals, and all of the on-site assistance you never knew you needed. Visit and see why we’ve been hailed by BRIDES as the “perfect place for a weekend wedding” and by Country Living as “America’s best-kept secret.”

Download our Wedding Packet on our website! THE MANOR HOUSE ESTATE WEDDING EXPERIENCE YOU HAVE MANY OPTIONS…HERE IS YOUR ‘LUCKY 7’ THAT SEPARATES US FROM THE REST! IT’S ALL ABOUT YOU! 1) YOU are the only wedding for the entire weekend. 2) CUSTOMIZATION! YOU get to choose so many things that typically aren’t options elsewhere. 3) LOCATION! ON the Wine Trail. AMAZING lakeview. 4) COST SAVINGS! Once you dig into the cost of a Manor House Estate wedding, you’ll quickly realize the bargain you are getting. 5) INCREDIBLE FOOD! Our exclusive Vendor is special in many ways. 6) CONVENIENCE! 16 of you can stay onsite and, if you choose, an additional 30 guests can stay in our amazing homes right down the road! 7) PHOTO OPS! From beautiful gardens, unique interior accents, broad lakeview and so much more…we have plenty! You get all of this with local, helpful and accessible ownership that truly cares!

The Snug, Pavilion and patio offer a large 4000 sq ft location with stunning backdrops of Seneca Lake and the surrounding countryside. Nestled in the grounds of our brewery and pub (Seneca Lake Brewing Company & The Beerocracy) we offer the perfect setting for your wedding or event with amazing view of Seneca Lake as a backdrop. Inside The Snug infinity windows and doors provide that indoor/outdoor feel, while full audio/visual equipment allow you to enjoy different levels of sound inside or out. Our covered pavilion provides the perfect space for your reception, dance floor, bar area while the patio offers the perfect setting during the reception for your guests to relax on one of our sectional couches around one of many fire tables. The expansive lawn area provides the perfect space for many lawn games like cornhole, ladder ball and our fire pit provides the perfect warmth for guests as the sun sets. Visit our microsite for info, gallery, FAQ's & more.

Imagine yourself celebrating with family & friends at one of the most picturesque locations in the Finger Lakes, where exquisite catering and meticulous service combine to create magical, memorable events. Host an intimately-scaled outdoor wedding on our lushly landscaped waterfront patio with the sun setting over Seneca Lake as your backdrop. Or celebrate in sophisticated style in our elegant Harbor Ballroom. Our professional wedding consultant will make sure that no detail is overlooked and will advise on the array of delicious dining options, from plated sit-down dinners to elaborate buffets. A professional wedding consultant guides the process every step of the way, from choosing the perfect blooms to selecting from various priced menu options. The hotels' expansive landscaped waterfront grounds and elegant interiors lend themselves to on-site ceremonies and extended celebrations making for true destination weddings.

Dutch Harvest Farm sits on 50 picturesque acres along the east side of the Cayuga Lake Wine Trail (Route 34B) in Lansing, NY. The Farm is bordered by tall mature trees that create a wooded-wonderland but not to be out done by the cascading falls running the length of the property into Cayuga Lake. We are conveniently located only 15 minutes from downtown Ithaca, the Ithaca Tompkins Regional Airport (ITH) and an hour from Syracuse Hancock International Airport (SYR). ​ Our 7,000+ square foot event barn offers many layout options that let you design the event your way. The barn can comfortably seat 280+ people inside for a reception and there is no need for a tent with plenty of ceremony options such as the enclosed loft, attached porches, custom pavilion or our lavish gardens. You have plenty of layout options - it's your day, plan it your way!

New Park is a stunning and inspirational wedding venue and retreat center with several special spaces to accommodate overnight guests. New Park can host large and small gatherings - weddings, reunions, anniversaries, memorials, wellness retreats, corporate retreats, etc. New Park's incredible dog-friendly suites and cottages have stonework, stained glass, and details that make a romantic and special place to stay. New Park is located in Ithaca, just north of the city and just south of Taughannock Falls, in the stunning Finger Lakes region of upstate New York. There are many things to do in the Finger Lakes to satisfy your wanderlust, including wine tasting, hiking, boating, and hot air ballooning. ​

Allyn Lodge is a premier wedding venue in the heart of the Finger Lakes, located just outside the charming village of Skaneateles, New York — now part of the Skaneateles Fields Resort & Spa. The largest freestanding timber structure in the state, Allyn Lodge features dramatic floor-to-ceiling windows, a private deck overlooking a tranquil pond, a roaring stone fireplace, and twinkling string lights — creating a warm and memorable setting for your celebration. Directly across the street, Skaneateles Fields Resort & Spa — part of the Curio Collection by Hilton™ — offers 89 beautifully appointed rooms and suites, exceptional dining, a full-service spa, and year-round activities, making it the perfect overnight option for your guests.

The Hillcrest Estate is a historic mansion with incredibly unique style, located in the countryside between Rochester and Buffalo, New York. The estate boasts over a hundred acres of pristine land and quite a few famous visitors. Two main areas are available for your wedding party at The Hillcrest Estate. The ballroom, accented with vintage decor and two massive fireplaces, antique furniture, hardwood flooring, and chandeliers, can accommodate up to 125 guests. Then, looking outside, the veranda features a tiered terrace and reflecting pool along with impeccably maintained lawn space for your ceremony and reception. The outdoor space with a tent can host roughly 200 guests. Services Offered We offer endless services including: onsite manager throughout your entire wedding weekend, bridal suite access before the event, the carriage house and carriage house lounge for the bridal or grooms party to get ready, decor rentals, catering and bar service, onsite accommodations for up to 22.

Finding a wedding venue that's both beautiful and affordable can be a challenge—but your search ends here. Welcome to Stratton Creek Inn, a charming, rustic barn venue that feels like a home away from home. Located in the stunning Finger Lakes region, our venue is the perfect place to share your most special day. The beautifully detailed barn offers a unique blend of rustic charm and luxury, with ample space to host over 200 guests. It's an ideal setting for a celebration filled with laughter, dancing, and unforgettable moments with your family and friends. Turn your wedding day into a remarkable Finger Lakes experience at Stratton Creek Inn.

A elegantly rustic newly built barn situated in the heart of the Fingerlakes of NY with breathtaking views. The private 22 acre property has a beautiful landscape, modern farmhouse style barn, outdoor patio and bar, a framed tent, large 1 acre pond and more.

Plum Point Lodge is an exceptional lakefront hideaway on the Western shore of Seneca Lake in the literal heart of the Finger Lakes, steps from the Seneca Lake Wine Trail. We offer 25 guest rooms, 6 glamping yurts, a restaurant, bar, lounge, pool, dedicated events building, and 300 feet of accessible lakefront with a stunning view.

Cayuga Nature Center provides a rustic, natural setting to host weddings. Our historic 1930’s Lodge, and 120 acres of woods, trails, gorges, and waterfalls, offer the perfect setting for a beautiful and memorable celebration.

Escape to The Nunda Ranch, a premier 50-acre horse ranch offering an "elevated rustic" wedding experience just miles from Letchworth State Park. Whether you envision a sunset ceremony overlooking the rolling hills of Livingston County or a lively reception in our beautifully remodeled barn, this scenic property provides a breathtaking backdrop for every "I do." With on-site equestrian activities, a luxury vacation home featuring an indoor pool, and panoramic mountain views, we offer more than just a venue—we provide a private, country-style retreat for your entire wedding weekend.

Rising out of the heart of the Genesee River Valley, Swain Resort is a magnificent treasure of Western NY and a wonderful escape. Existing in its own culture, Swain will make you feel right at home as soon as you enter the lodge, making it a perfect destination for your wedding day. With three dining areas plus a main lodge, there is plenty of space for even the largest wedding party. Host your ceremony inside our spacious facility, at the base of the mountain or at the top of the mountain for memories that will last a lifetime. As you navigate through the emotions and excitement that this time brings, we would love to partner with you to help you create the ultimate dream wedding. Our team will walk you through every step of the way to ensure your vision is realized and your day runs smoothly from start to finish.