The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Southern Pines, NC

The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Southern Pines, NC

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9 Wedding Venues in Southern Pines, NC

Farms, barns, ranches
250-300 guests
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Grant Gables Venue 

5.0

Ellerbe, NC
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

We are a Christian based, family owned wedding venue located in our hometown of Ellerbe, NC! The venue was built for our daughter and son-in-law's wedding in the fall of 2023. It was built as an act of love between an extremely close family.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Offers full-service amenities

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Does not allow pets
  • No all-inclusive dining options
Awarded Best of Zola
I grew up in Ellerbe, NC the town where Grant Gables is located. When my parents heard that the Grant family was building a venue, we knew we needed to see what it was. We fell in love with Grant Gables before construction was completed. It meant so much to me to be able to have the wedding of our dreams right where I grew up at. Lana and Lexi made sure that we had the best day. People from all over the state will soon be coming to Grant Gables to host their event.
Hannah W., a year ago
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The Carolina Barn 

5.0

Spring Lake, NC
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,500

Say “I do” at The Carolina Barn, where golden sunsets, and sweeping countryside views create the perfect backdrop for your wedding day. Enjoy elevated indoor and outdoor spaces, thoughtfully designed bridal suites, and the warm hospitality North Carolina is known for, all in one unforgettable destination.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
This place is absolutely beautiful! The staff was so friendly and helpful during my tour. I can’t wait to have my wedding here!
Kylie, 3 months ago
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Suenos by Casa JK 

5.0

Lillington, NC
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $4,500

We believe that celebrating life and hosting is one of the greatest joys imaginable. Our lives take us in so many different directions, that finding the time, much less the space to be together feels impossible. When events can be firmly put on the calendar, you have achieved an amazing feat. Gathering so many people with different lives and schedules for one night is a monumental task. We have an incredibly large family ourselves so every birthday and holiday feels like a massive event. Once you nail down the date, we want to be the space where you can host your loved ones. Where you can share food and drink, and create a memory that will stay with them for a lifetime. We would be honored if you could create those memories with us. We created this space with our family in mind and we hope we can share it with yours

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Does not provide event staff
  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
**Attention Future Brides** This is THE hidden gem you've been looking for! Suenos by Casa JK was the perfect venue for our wedding! Every inch of the venue is a masterpiece of design, with incredible thought put into every beautiful detail. The bridal suite has ample room for bridesmaids to get hair and makeup done. Although it rained on our wedding day, none of our plans were disrupted due to the well covered spaces. The endless string lights are nothing short of magical! I could go on for hours. You don't want to pass up this venue!! Thank you for making our wedding day nothing short of extraordinary!
Callaway K., 6 days ago
Oakland Farm 
Bear Creek, NC
  • Up to 350 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $4,500

Welcome to the Farm! We’re happy to have you explore Oakland Farm’s beautiful property showcasing one of the Sandhills’ charming barn wedding and event venues. Centrally located in Chatham County, our venue is easily accessible from the Greensboro, Raleigh, and Fayetteville areas. Just minutes from the historic Camelback Bridge and downtown Sanford, guests can escape the sounds of the city as they celebrate an evening on the Farm. Whether you’re planning a classic wedding, an intimate gathering, corporate holiday party, or non-profit event, your guests will enjoy getting away for an unforgettable day at Oakland Farm.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Harvest House And Catering 
Ramseur, NC
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,000

Needing a breathtaking location for a monumental event in your life? Let Harvest House and Catering transform your vision into a reality. For weddings, events, and more, we offer our beautiful rustic farmhouse, barn, and scenic fields to host the most significant occasion in your life. At Harvest House and Catering, we strive to create an unforgettable wedding experience through our signature venue and amenities. With full decor that is included and catering options available, you can enjoy a magical day you won’t soon forget.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Both indoor and outdoor options

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • No on-premises lodging options
Het Landhuis 
Pittsboro, NC
  • Up to 500 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Initially, the 62-acre Het Landhuis Estate was part of a 1,000-acre farm owned by the Henderson family who operated a tanyard in the area, making saddles and other leather items. One day a future bride drove past Het Landhuis; she stopped in the main driveway and asked if she could get married there. That conversation changed the course of the estate, and Het Landhuis had its Grand Opening in 2010. Het Landhuis is not your ordinary location for a wedding; this becomes obvious once you visit the grounds and look at the eight different venues the estate offers. Het Landhuis presents you with a magical setting for your storybook wedding!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Dressing room available
  • Rustic-chic setting

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • No venue-provided food services
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FlakeHaven Wedding and Events Venue 
Wadesboro, NC
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $6,000

FlakeHaven is a modern, industrial, chic wedding and event venue sitting in the middle of 250 acres overlooking a beautiful pond, cattle filled pastures and open farm land surrounded by natural wooded areas. The venue features lofty ceilings with extravagant industrial chandeliers and rough cut pine boards that line the walls.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Flexible event spaces
  • Unique barn setting
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Requires outside catering services
  • Lighting and sound are not included
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Lavender Oaks Farm 
Chapel Hill, NC
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $14,500

Imagine all your favorite people in the most beautiful setting of 60 private acres located less than 5 miles to downtown Chapel Hill, NC, very close to all the hotels, restaurants, only 30 minutes to RDU Airport, and yes, Uber/Lyft and shuttles come to our farm.  We include all your Wedding Planning, a Day of Coordinator, all your décor, tables, chairs, centerpiece items, graphic design services, and we're here every step of the way to bring your wedding vision to life!  Our Barn is 7,000 sq. ft., rustic, yet refined, and includes an elegant and spacious Dressing Suite, a separate modern Log Cabin for a secondary dressing suite, gourmet kitchen, spacious restrooms, and a 1,000 sq ft loft. Enjoy our 3,000 outdoor patio with our stone fireplace, wrought iron gazebo, all overlooking our 4,000 lavender plants. Our covered outdoor Pavilion Barn is a beautiful setting for your ceremony, cocktail hour, or as a rain plan.  We would love the opportunity to make your wedding day spectacular!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Provides event staff
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available

Location flexible? Discover venues near Southern Pines, NC

About wedding venues in Southern Pines, NC

North Carolina offers an impressive wedding venue landscape with everything from historic plantations to rustic barns, elegant urban spaces and coastal retreats. You'll find architectural diversity throughout the state; from colonial-era mansions in Charlotte to converted textile mills in the Triangle region. Mountain venues give you breathtaking panoramic views of the Blue Ridge Mountains that your guests won't forget.

What's the Average Cost for North Carolina Wedding Venues?

Wedding venues in North Carolina typically run between $6,400 and $7,800, making up about 16% of your total wedding budget. That's actually quite reasonable compared to the national average of $6,500-$12,000 or 25% of total costs. For a complete North Carolina wedding you can expect these total costs based on your guest count: A small wedding with 50 guests averages $19,707. With 100 guests you're looking at $32,695. For 150 guests the typical cost reaches $44,906. Larger celebrations with 200 guests average $55,823 while 250 guests pushes to $66,740. A large wedding with 300 guests typically costs $77,657.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in North Carolina?

Alexander Homestead in Charlotte offers ADA-accessible parking and restrooms in a beautiful historic setting with a rustic barn and gorgeous gardens. You'll appreciate the inclusivity without sacrificing style. The Mint Museum features various rooms and terraces that can accommodate different needs, making it a solid choice for accessible events with an artistic backdrop. Nantahala Weddings & Events is fully ADA-compliant while giving you stunning mountain views on a secluded estate. They even have nearby lodging options for your guests.

Which North Carolina Venues Support Remote Participation?

The Barn on New River in West Jefferson gives you a picturesque setting with modern amenities that can be customized for interactive remote elements. Your virtual guests won't miss a thing. River Landing near Wilmington features elegant spaces and grand ballrooms that support technical capabilities for streaming and live Q&A sessions. The Maxwell in Raleigh, with its contemporary design and abundant natural light, adapts beautifully to technology integration for virtual wedding experiences that feel intimate even from afar.

How Much Should I Budget for Wedding Services in North Carolina?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget (150 guests)
Venue$7,08916%
Catering$5,67113%
Flowers$5,54612%
Bar Services$4,53710%
Photographers$4,2669%
Planners$4,0249%
Videographers$3,7688%
Bands/DJs$1,3903%
Cakes/Desserts$9602%
Hair & Makeup$6351%

Where Can Foodies Find Outstanding Wedding Cuisine in North Carolina?

The Farm - A Gathering Place in Candler offers amazing farm-to-table dining with customized menus just west of Asheville. You'll love having multiple ceremony sites to choose from and the convenience of on-site lodging for your guests. The Carolina Inn in Chapel Hill is known for classic Southern cuisine with elegant event spaces right on UNC's campus. Their beautiful outdoor courtyards create a magical setting for your special day. Polanco Venue by Chef Carrasco in Asheville specializes in mixed cuisine with excellent service from experienced staff who can help create your perfect culinary experience.

When Should I Book My North Carolina Wedding Venue?

September is North Carolina's most popular inquiry month for weddings, so you'll need to book earlier if you're planning a fall celebration. Don't wait too long or your dream venue might be taken. Focus your venue tours on spaces that specifically accommodate your guest count to save time and avoid falling in love with locations that won't work for your party size. This targeted approach helps you find the perfect match faster.

North Carolina offers an impressive wedding venue landscape with everything from historic plantations to rustic barns, elegant urban spaces and coastal retreats. You'll find architectural diversity throughout the state; from colonial-era mansions in Charlotte to converted textile mills in the Triangle region. Mountain venues give you breathtaking panoramic views of the Blue Ridge Mountains that your guests won't forget.

What's the Average Cost for North Carolina Wedding Venues?

Wedding venues in North Carolina typically run between $6,400 and $7,800, making up about 16% of your total wedding budget. That's actually quite reasonable compared to the national average of $6,500-$12,000 or 25% of total costs. For a complete North Carolina wedding you can expect these total costs based on your guest count: A small wedding with 50 guests averages $19,707. With 100 guests you're looking at $32,695. For 150 guests the typical cost reaches $44,906. Larger celebrations with 200 guests average $55,823 while 250 guests pushes to $66,740. A large wedding with 300 guests typically costs $77,657.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in North Carolina?

Alexander Homestead in Charlotte offers ADA-accessible parking and restrooms in a beautiful historic setting with a rustic barn and gorgeous gardens. You'll appreciate the inclusivity without sacrificing style. The Mint Museum features various rooms and terraces that can accommodate different needs, making it a solid choice for accessible events with an artistic backdrop. Nantahala Weddings & Events is fully ADA-compliant while giving you stunning mountain views on a secluded estate. They even have nearby lodging options for your guests.

Which North Carolina Venues Support Remote Participation?

The Barn on New River in West Jefferson gives you a picturesque setting with modern amenities that can be customized for interactive remote elements. Your virtual guests won't miss a thing. River Landing near Wilmington features elegant spaces and grand ballrooms that support technical capabilities for streaming and live Q&A sessions. The Maxwell in Raleigh, with its contemporary design and abundant natural light, adapts beautifully to technology integration for virtual wedding experiences that feel intimate even from afar.

How Much Should I Budget for Wedding Services in North Carolina?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget (150 guests)
Venue$7,08916%
Catering$5,67113%
Flowers$5,54612%
Bar Services$4,53710%
Photographers$4,2669%
Planners$4,0249%
Videographers$3,7688%
Bands/DJs$1,3903%
Cakes/Desserts$9602%
Hair & Makeup$6351%

Where Can Foodies Find Outstanding Wedding Cuisine in North Carolina?

The Farm - A Gathering Place in Candler offers amazing farm-to-table dining with customized menus just west of Asheville. You'll love having multiple ceremony sites to choose from and the convenience of on-site lodging for your guests. The Carolina Inn in Chapel Hill is known for classic Southern cuisine with elegant event spaces right on UNC's campus. Their beautiful outdoor courtyards create a magical setting for your special day. Polanco Venue by Chef Carrasco in Asheville specializes in mixed cuisine with excellent service from experienced staff who can help create your perfect culinary experience.

When Should I Book My North Carolina Wedding Venue?

September is North Carolina's most popular inquiry month for weddings, so you'll need to book earlier if you're planning a fall celebration. Don't wait too long or your dream venue might be taken. Focus your venue tours on spaces that specifically accommodate your guest count to save time and avoid falling in love with locations that won't work for your party size. This targeted approach helps you find the perfect match faster.

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