The Best Hotel & Resort Wedding Venues in Selden, NY

The Best Hotel & Resort Wedding Venues in Selden, NY

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16 Wedding Venues in Selden, NY

Hotels, inns, resorts
250-300 guests
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Canoe Place Inn & Cottages 

5.0

Hampton Bays, NY
  • Up to 325 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $35,000

Congratulations! We would be honored to host your special day and look forward to discussing your vision. Our dedicated team is here to assist you in planning everything from a stunning outdoor ceremony in our lush garden to a beautiful reception in our iconic ballroom. We’ll help with every detail, including your rehearsal dinner, first look, wedding after-party, and farewell brunch, crafting a personalized experience just for you from start to finish. Let’s make your dream day unforgettable!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Provides event staff
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Does not allow pets
  • No free parking
The team at Canoe Place Inn & Cottages was exceptional in helping us plan our perfect wedding day. Their communication throughout the process was incredibly helpful, clear, and timely, which put us at ease every step of the way. On the day of, the venue itself was simply stunning - clean, beautiful, and so intimate and welcoming for our guests. The staff was extremely kind and thoughtful in all aspects, from the beautiful decor and seamless setup to the delicious food and attentive drink service. They were incredibly accommodating for any special guest needs, ensuring everyone felt comfortable and well taken care of. We are so grateful to the Canoe Place Inn team for making our wedding day truly unforgettable.
Theresa C., 12 days ago
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The Mansion At Glen Cove 

4.0

Glen Cove, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

Marry Me At The Mansion From the moment you turn onto the winding driveway of this glorious Gold Coast landmark Georgian estate, it becomes easy to envision exchanging your vows and celebrating your wedding day here, at The Mansion. Nestled on 55 sprawling acres of landscaped grounds, magnificent surroundings, both inside and out, the possibilities are as limitless as your imagination…and our experienced wedding professionals are unsurpassed in their ability to ensure that your vision becomes a reality. Grand or intimate, formal or casually elegant, your wedding and the preparation leading up to it should be easy and carefree, allowing you, your family and friends to celebrate this most memorable milestone of your life. We vow to make that happen. Experience the New Era in Gold Coast Luxury.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Bridal suite on site
  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • No free parking
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Overall, we are happy with our wedding day. The Mansion is in the process of being renovated/restored and so far it is looking beautiful! The hotel rooms were recently updated and guests were happy with them. The food was also FANTASTIC! (All of our guests were raving about all of the food). They clearly are a well oiled machine when it comes to throwing weddings. We also had our welcome dinner there the night before, which went amazingly and there was so much food everyone was happy! However, there were a few hiccups that bothered us considering how much money is put into having a wedding & how this venue does weddings all.the.time. so expectations are high. In the planning process, the event coordinator position was replaced 3 times in the year we were planning our wedding with them, the last replacement being the week before our wedding. The final replacement did not have any of our vendor info or cake selections and called me 4 days before my wedding about it (...scary). It must've been a miscommunication from the coordinator prior to her, as that girl never responded to any of our emails; I'm sure she did not keep any notes. The current coordinator also could not answer simple questions our friends/family asked her and was very pushy. On our wedding day, I was paired with a Maitre D who was very sweet, but I'm not sure about her "years" of experience that she claimed to have. While taking photos with our photographer she wasn't paying attention and wasn't fixing my dress/veil every time wind blew it out of place so the photographer had to leave his place each time to fix it himself (it was a windy day so this happened a lot). The photographer also asked her to assist in a "veil toss" shot and she ripped the veil from my head, yanking my head back, when she was just supposed to toss it up in the air. It hurt and pulled on my hair style that was supposed to last all night. I mentioned before the food was excellent, and the Chef is incredible. However, when we booked our venue last year, we were adamant about wanting a real wedding cake--not a fake one you cut one slice into for pictures. We were told by one of the event planners there that all tiers were going to be real cake, but during our cake cutting, we cut into styrofoam...it was disappointing. The cake they served was delicious, but we thought we were paying for a real cake because we were told it would be 100% real. We probably would not have booked this venue had we known we'd get a fake cake; it was something my dad made sure to ask at every venue we checked out, it was important to him. Additionally, some rude comments were overheard by our guests made by various staff members about our wedding. As a business owner whose business is to also provide a service, that is absolutely unacceptable, especially while on the job where people can hear you. Jazmin, the Chef, and the front desk ladies were very pleasant and professional to work with, but no one else there seemed to know what they were doing. It ended up working out but again, with how many weddings this place throws, you'd expect a better level of professionalism.
Siena B., 3 months ago
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The Garden City Hotel 

5.0

Garden City, NY
  • Up to 425 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,500

The Garden City Hotel enjoys a longstanding tradition of hosting many of Long Island’s most magnificent weddings and celebrations. From festive engagement parties to gala wedding receptions (and every celebration in between), you can count on us to deliver flawless service and attention to detail and exceptional dining for your magical day. As the recipient of some of the industry’s most coveted bridal awards, we know what it takes to create an event you’ll treasure. Our dedicated Catering Directors work with the Executive Chef and culinary team to create the celebration you’ve always dreamed of – from imaginative menus and creative wine pairings to custom wedding cakes and more.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
The team at the Garden City Hotel was an absolute pleasure to work with for our wedding. From the moment we first spoke with them, they were easy to communicate with and very responsive to all of our questions and requests. The space itself was absolutely stunning - the ballroom was beautifully decorated and the outdoor gardens provided a lovely backdrop for our photos. But what really made the day special was the outstanding service we received. The bridal attendant, Nang, was with me from the moment I put on my dress until the very end of the night, ensuring I had everything I needed and helping to make the day run smoothly. The events directors, Paul, Merril, and Jose, were also incredibly helpful, working tirelessly behind the scenes to make sure the wedding went off without a hitch. We and all of our guests had an absolutely wonderful experience, and we can't thank the Garden City Hotel team enough for helping to make our special day so memorable.
Mary Ellen C., a year ago
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TWA Hotel 

4.5

New York, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $30,000

Fully restored to its original glory, the TWA Flight Center offers 200,000 square feet of flexible space including outdoor terraces. Original details — the Vulcain clock, sparkling white penny tile and plush Chili Pepper Red carpets — exude Jet Age glamour. Saarinen’s iconic Flight Tubes (made famous by the 2002 film Catch Me If You Can) lead to guestrooms and museum exhibits, as well as provide a premium photo opp. The nostalgic clacking sound of two authentic Solari split-flap boards — and the view of the 1958 Lockheed Constellation on the tarmac just outside — fully transport visitors back to the golden age of travel.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Provides catering services
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
My husband and I had a combination event at the TWA hotel ballroom. We celebrated our wedding reception and my husband's 50th birthday there and had a blast! Francisco Taveras is the best!
Adelle H., a year ago
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Water's Edge Resort and Spa 

4.8

Westbrook, CT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000
  • Offer

If you imagine a waterfront venue on your wedding day, then look at what the Water’s Edge Resort & Spa offers. Less than two hours from New York and Boston and under forty-five minutes from Hartford, Water’s Edge has been hosting the most memorable bridal showers, rehearsal dinners, ceremonies by the beach, and receptions in our ballrooms for decades. Traditional or unconventional, festive or formal – a view of the water complements any wedding. With the one-of-a-kind backdrop provided by the views of the water, it’s easy to see why Water’s Edge is a perennial wedding destination in Connecticut.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No built-in audiovisual options
From the moment we booked our wedding at Water's Edge Resort and Spa, their team was fantastic at communicating with us every step of the way. They have a great event space that was perfect for our wedding, and they were extremely accommodating to all of our requests leading up to the big day. When rain threatened to put a damper on our outdoor cocktail hour, the staff worked quickly to put together a beautiful backup plan indoors so we could still have the wedding of our dreams. The level of service we received from the entire team at Water's Edge was truly outstanding, and we are so grateful for all their hard work in making our special day a huge success.
Danielle B., 3 months ago
Ethan Allen Hotel 

5.0

Danbury, CT
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $8,000

Whether you envision a night of black-tie dinner and dancing or a casual family affair, a wedding at The Ethan Allen Hotel will be a tailormade celebration down to the very last detail. At each stage of the planning process, your personal Banquet Manager will be available for one-on-one consultation to ensure that nothing is left to chance. We also offer wedding packages and catering menus customizable according to budget, with group rates for wedding attendees staying at the hotel.

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Classic elegance
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
Working with the team at the Ethan Allen hotel was so easy. They made our special day as stress free as possible. Joseph was so responsive and helped with all of my questions throughout the process from start to finish. Minnie also was so great with getting the hotel room block set. The banquet manager Greg made everything run smoothly the day of. The space really transformed for our wedding and was so affordable for amazing quality. Food also was delish! Our photographer was also able to get some really beautiful photos inside and outside of the hotel for some really unique shots that we love! The Ethan Allen is your one place for everything !!
Tiffany R., a year ago
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Ravel Hotel/The Penthouse 

5.0

Long Island City, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor

Ravel Hotel's Penthouse offers a rooftop venue with panoramic Manhattan skyline views. The space includes a modern design with luxurious amenities, providing both indoor and outdoor options for ceremonies and receptions. Guests enjoy the high-quality service and versatile layout. The experienced event team ensures seamless execution, making it an ideal choice for a memorable wedding celebration. The Penthouse also features a spacious dance floor and customizable lighting to enhance the evening festivities.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Our wedding day was the best day of our lives. So much of that sentiment is due to the amazing setting we had, but more importantly all the people who made it possible. From day one, Eman stood out as a trusted advisor and throughout the process turned into a friend. The staff on the day of our wedding was unbelievable. Everyone made us feel like royalty, especially our bridal assistant, Jadelyn. The views, the FOOD, the service... ALL incredible. We chose Ravel because we planned our wedding from LA and needed as much help as we could get. Eman was an incredible partner throughout the entire process. I cannot recommend Ravel enough for anyone's wedding or celebration. We just might have to do it again next year..
Jordan S., a year ago
The Box House Hotel 

4.4

Brooklyn, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor

The Box House Hotel has a unique venue space located on the rooftop. Their rooftop event space has a retractable roof awning to give you a flexible indoor and outdoor space. The rooftop space features a large marble bar, wood floors, a retractable rooftop awning, insulated glass sliding doors, four bathrooms, and stunning views of NYC that are unobstructed. The rooftop can accommodate 293 guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
Our guests were enchanted by the skyline views and the delicious bites and drinks. Everyone was very impressed by the turnover from ceremony space to reception. It was incredibly quick and smooth. The team was a well oiled machine, They handled every transition and any small hiccup with precision and grace. The personal attention given to the couple throughout the reception was greatly appreciated. The attention to detail day of was a wonderful contrast to their more hands-off approach to the pre-planning. The front desk staff at the hotel provided exceptional service from handling questions about the room block to tracking down and setting up a pack and play for the littlest guest. Every staff member that we encountered was professional, warm, and welcoming.
Colleen B., a year ago
Stamford Marriott Hotel & Spa 
Stamford, CT
  • Up to 800 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $4,800

Travel with peace of mind. At the Stamford Marriott we are committed to providing you with a clean and safe experience by following expert protocols for working to defeat COVID 19. Located in the heart of downtown Stamford, our Hotel embodies a unique mix of New York energy and New England charm while providing a memorable hotel experience for your business, leisure, meeting, and celebration needs. As a hotel in Stamford that is ready for business or social occasions, we also offer 18 deluxe meeting rooms totaling 27,000 square feet of function space.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Has a warm and cozy vibe
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
Omni New Haven Hotel at Yale 
New Haven, CT
  • Up to 475 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $12,000

Omni New Haven Hotel at Yale offers a sophisticated and romantic setting for your wedding in the heart of downtown New Haven. Just steps from Yale University and the historic New Haven Green, this elegant hotel features the stunning Grand Ballroom for large celebrations, as well as the Harbour Room with breathtaking rooftop views for more intimate gatherings. With refined décor, exceptional catering, and personalized planning services, Omni New Haven ensures a seamless and unforgettable wedding experience.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Has a glamorous vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No free parking
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Royal Regency Hotel 
Yonkers, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

At the Royal Regency Hotel, we are committed to bringing a unique and memorable event experience to everyone who walks through our doors. After undergoing an intensive redesign and interior transformation, we completed a multi-million dollar renovation that is truly spectacular. If you’re looking for a beautiful space for your wedding, bridal shower, or other celebration, look no further than Royal Regency Hotel. Our three gorgeous ballrooms can accommodate 50 to 450 guests, providing flexibility and a stunning backdrop for any event. And if you’re looking to take advantage of natural sunlight for your wedding, we also host ceremonies and receptions on our gorgeous patio. Whatever you have dreamt up for your big day, we’re more than happy to accommodate! Our experienced staff of professionals will work with you and your chosen vendors to coordinate the perfect celebration!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
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Intercontinental New York Barclay 
New York, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

Whether you’re planning an intimate wedding or a big dazzling celebration, at The Barclay the event will be an unforgettable experience. Allow The Barclay to bring your wedding day vision to life and create a stunning and romantic ambiance for your memorable occasion. Our Manhattan wedding venues include newly designed ballrooms, which offer the perfect backdrop for an elegant wedding celebration, bridal shower or brunch. The grand staircase creates a luxurious setting ideal for photo opportunities meant to last a lifetime. Our experts will guide you through the planning process and ensure all is taken care of, so you can relax and enjoy the moment.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • On-site parking not available
  • Does not allow pets

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About wedding venues in Selden, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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