The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Ruby, NY

The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Ruby, NY

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39 Wedding Venues in Ruby, NY

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Blenheim Hill Farm 

5.0

  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $30,000

Blenheim Hill Farm is a heavenly wedding destination in the Catskills Mountains. Our capacity is from 70-200 guests. We grow the food and cook it for you in ​our ​own kitchen. You don't have to worry about outside catering, rentals, or even a planner. Our in-house team helps you every step of the way, and everything is included. Our historic farmhouses ​ ​are gorgeously appointed sanctuaries for you and your family, sleeping up to 40 guests. With over 15 years in farm-to-table dining and destination weddings, we are committed to hosting your best-day-ever with extraordinary attention to detail, making it a very personal experience.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Unique barn setting

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No free parking
Awarded Best of Zola
Our wedding at Blenheim Hill was nothing short of amazing. From the moment we went on our first venue tour to wedding weekend, the staff of Blenheim Hill was communicative, professional and organized. The roadmap they use is a great resource that helps keep you organized through the wedding planning process. We loved having a full weekend at the farm. The service, hospitality, food and drinks were amazing. We dealt with a rainy wedding day and the staff worked with us to ensure a perfect ceremony and reception. We could not have asked for more!
Meaghen D., a year ago
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Adena Orchard 

5.0

  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,000

AUTHENTIC & ROOTED. Adena Orchard is a family-run & community-centered events venue on a rare piece of land in the heart of Catskill State Park in New York State. Adena represents deep roots, natural beauty, and organic connection. Every wedding we host is a reflection of our core values combined with the remarkable individuals who book with us. Your unique visions, cultures, personalities, traditions, and stories are woven into our foundation. Surrounded by mountains, fields, & forests, we are a gathering place for unique weddings, retreats, farm-to-table suppers, family reunions, birthday parties & retreats.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Combines timeless elegance with history

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • No in-house catering options
Awarded Best of Zola
My wife and I came to them on short notice and with a lot of stress due to the time/money expenses of planning the big day. Renee was unfailingly kind, endlessly patient and always upbeat. Putting it simply, the crew at Adena are wonderful people who are very good at their job. The day itself went off without a single hiccup. Every typical issue that we encountered - such as delays on our part, or things I forgot- was handled before I even fully aware of it. They did their jobs calmly and joyfully, and helped reassure my anxious wife (and my surprisingly anxious self). The location is absolutely beautiful, maintained expertly and decorated perfectly. Our reception was elegant and rustic, with clear views of the blue sky outside making a very pretty backdrop to celebration. The Wooded Cathedral was where we had our reception, and I highly recommend it to anyone who’s dreamed of an outdoor wedding in the country. My wife and I are so happy that we switched venues to Adena. We’re thrilled that they’ve left us with these memories, and we are so happy to call the team at Adena friends. Thank you guys for helping us start a marriage on the highest possible note.
Ryan, 7 months ago
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Fortune Valley Manor 

5.0

Saugerties, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $35,000
  • Offer

They say a picture is worth a thousand words, let Fortune Valley Manor be the barn venue for those beautiful words. A private 35 acre manor nestled in the Hudson Valley offering a 5,000 square foot barn or outdoor tented reception, cocktail hour, and wedding reception sites. The barn offers a beautiful rustic yet elegant feel with black iron chandeliers, white draping, and bistro lights around the property. When you combine stunning ponds, plush green meadows, and a natural wooded backdrop, the options for your special day become endless. We are located 10 minutes off of the NYS Thruway exits Saugerties/KIngston NY Offering hotels within 5 minutes from our venue for the ease and convenience of your out of town guests. FVM prides itself on offering a stress free and fun wedding planning process. We look forward to working with you to create your picture perfect dream wedding

Why you'll love this venue

  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Scenic vineyard views

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • No on-site bridal suite
  • No on-premises lodging options
Awarded Best of Zola
I get emotional thinking about how perfect our wedding day was. First off fortune valley manor is absolutely stunning inside and out! For our wedding we had a big guest list and were struggling to find a venue that fit that count comfortably will also pulling in the outdoor elements that felt most like us—fortune valley manor was perfect! Kerri the wedding owner/planner if phenomenal. She is extremely detail oriented and is running a well oiled machine! Absolutely nothing was amiss the entire day! The staff was so incredible, kind, and attentive! Shelia the bridal attendant is the sweetest human and made sure we had everything we need day of! Our guest could not stop and still continue to compliment us on the venue, the food (seriously THE FOOD, unreal!!) , the incredible staff..etc! I truly don’t think our wedding would have been the day it was had we not chosen fortune valley manor—they are the full package!! We would have our wedding here 100 times over and will be forever grateful we made the choice to have it here!
Micaela B., 19 days ago
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The Barn at Black Walnut Farm 

5.0

Saugerties, NY
  • Up to 199 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $13,000

If you're seeking a charming, rustic, vintage venue that looks like it's straight out of the pages of a fairytale storybook, look no further than The Barn at Black Walnut Farm! Our 19th-century barn has been meticulously renovated and restored to its original glory… with a few added bells and whistles. We offer air-conditioning, heating, and a 4-foot disco ball, among other modern amenities. The property is a hidden gem set amidst 34 acres of breathtaking grounds with open meadows, forests, winding nature trails, and gardens, offering an idyllic backdrop for events of up to 200 guests. We specialize in creating unforgettable celebrations filled with heart. Accommodations for 8-10 are included in our premium long-weekend packages, along with a suite of amenities for a resort-style feel. Reach out for our Pricing Guide!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • On-site parking not available
Awarded Best of Zola
Black Walnut Farm will always hold a special place in our hearts. It was the first venue we saw, and the moment we stepped on the property, we knew it was where we were meant to get married. From the start, Sara, Jim, and their team cared for us with such warmth and attention. Their online planning portal made everything simple, but what we loved most was how personally they got to know us. They listened to our vision and brought it to life in a way that felt truly meaningful. Throughout the weekend, every detail was handled with so much thought. Our guests felt welcomed, we felt supported, and even when the weather forced last-minute changes, the team stayed calm and kept everything running beautifully. Our wedding was everything we dreamed of and more. Black Walnut Farm isn’t just a stunning venue, it’s a place filled with people who genuinely care about making your day unforgettable. We couldn’t imagine having our wedding anywhere else.
Nicholas T., a month ago
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Diamond Mills Resort & Blackbarn Hudson Valley 

4.9

Saugerties, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $5,400

Located just south of the Catskill Mountains where the Esopus Creek meets the Hudson River and 100 miles North of NYC, Diamond Mills in beautiful Saugerties NY is one of the most flexible, modern and beautiful facilities in all of the Hudson Valley. Whether you’re looking to host an elegant wedding reception in our traditional Grand Ballroom, or have cozy gathering in mind, Diamond Mills has the innate ability to tailor our venues to your unique style. With 30 boutique hotel rooms and a full-service restaurant on-site, we are the perfect destination to celebrate all weekend long in Upstate, New York. Our Event Professionals understand and truly appreciate the importance of your event and work with you each step of the way throughout your planning process. From start to finish, we customize and coordinate each little detail to ensure you the best day ever on your wedding day!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic seating dinner
  • Dressing room available
  • Caters to out-of-town guests

Venue considerations

  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
We had the most amazing time at Diamond Mills Hotel! The venue is BEAUTIFUL, and the staff is wonderful to work with. My husband and I also loved exploring Saugerties! Planning a wedding in two months was challenging, but booking Diamond Mills for our wedding venue was the best decision ever! We loved working with Stephanie, Carrie, and Brianne. They are highly organized and professional. Our wedding day was truly magical! Our guests had a wonderful time! We also really appreciate how the staff working on the day of our wedding ensured that my husband and I ate well (and remembered to eat as we interacted with our guests). The food served was delicious and we loved our wedding cake! Another great thing about booking the wedding at Diamond Mills is that the hotel is attached to the wedding venue - it was very convenient for us and our guests! We received a good discount for our hotel block. The wedding package they offer at Diamond Mills Hotel is truly well-rounded! Beautiful venue with indoor and outdoor spaces, catering, open bar, wedding cake, and supportive and amazing staff to help you plan your wedding and ensure that everything runs smoothly during the day of the wedding all for a reasonable price! I used some rental decorations, and the staff made sure to carefully pack everything at the end of the night, so shipping and packing up the following day was easy! We highly recommend Diamond Mills!
Marichelle P., 2 years ago
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Red Maple Vineyard 

5.0

West Park, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Red Maple Vineyard is a beautiful vineyard and farm, located on 143-acres of vibrant and diverse property which over looks the historic Hudson River. The land is composed of a renovated cow barn from the 1800's, stone foundation ruins, horse paddock, chicken coop, expansive lawns, forests, vineyards, fruit & vegetable, herb and floral gardens. Our property provides endless opportunities for pictures, and sets an incomparable scene for your ceremony and reception. Red Maple Vineyard wants to bring you a wedding experience you will remember for the rest of your lives. We look forward to hearing from you and helping you dream, create, and experience the wedding of your dreams. All catering and event planning is done in-house.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Surrounded by beautiful vineyards
  • Dressing room available
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
Red Maple Vineyard was the perfect venue for our wedding day. Their communication style was effective, open, clear, and awesome - they were on top of everything, helping coordinate with other vendors and always keeping a drink in our hand. The venue itself was spacious, beautiful, and truly magical. Amy could not have been a more amazing point person, and Melissa was such a helpful day-of wedding coordinator. We are so grateful to the entire Red Maple Vineyard team for making our special day absolutely perfect.
Kat & P., 6 months ago
Inn at Bellefield 

5.0

Hyde Park, NY
  • Up to 130 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Our flexible event space is perfect for bridal showers, bridal ready rooms, reception dinners and social gatherings. Treat your guests to local farm-to-table catering and bring the tales of Hyde Park, NY to life!

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Unique barn setting
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
We had the pleasure of having our daughter’s reception at the Inn. We were forced to relocate to their venue because of a gas leak at our original location. 5 hours before the wedding! The entire staff, especially Mary the manager and Matt the bartender went over and above to make sure our reception went well. Everyone enjoyed the beautiful grounds and venue space. If they can do what they did for us in 5 hours. I can only imagine what would have been with 5 months of planning! Thanks again for your attention to detail and hospitality, you saved the day….
Mitch L., 2 years ago
The Farm at Abeel House 

5.0

Catskill, NY
  • Up to 1000 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,000

Welcome to The Farm at Abeel House, a unique wedding venue in the heart of the Catskills, where rustic charm meets natural beauty! Our stunning, spiraling outdoor space features a barn, a serene stream, vibrant flowers, and a picturesque meadow, providing the perfect backdrop for your dream wedding. Celebrate your love story in a way that's uniquely yours, free from the ordinary and predictable. Our barn accommodates intimate gatherings of up to 50 people for seated dinners and 75 for dancing, while the expansive outdoor space can host larger celebrations. With the flexibility to configure any area of the property to fit your vision and the option to bring in tents for outdoor festivities, every detail can be tailored to create a memorable experience that stands out. Together, we are committed to making your wedding day a remarkable celebration filled with love, beauty, and creativity. Our in house food team is lead by led by Stephanie Skiadas, formerly Chef du Cuisine at Gaskins.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Provides catering services
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • Not wheelchair accessible
This was the perfect setting for our wedding! With a flowing brook, hay bales, a magnificent barn, beautiful trees, and a sprawling, lush field, it offered even more than we ever envisioned. The stunning location was easily accessible for vendors and guests, providing ample space to create our ideal ceremony and reception. Its proximity to charming hotels and Airbnbs also made it convenient for out-of-town guests! We wanted a joyful, natural celebration that reflected our unique vision, and your property provided the perfect canvas. Our hosts were incredibly responsive and helpful, readily answering all of our questions. Our guests were captivated by the beauty of the setting, and we're so, so grateful to have shared our special day in such a remarkable place.
Jessica O., a year ago
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The Wedding Foundry Hudson Valley 

5.0

Highland, NY
  • Up to 65 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

We include coordination and staff, photography, officiant, florals, catering, desserts and more. Say "I do" to a stress-free wedding experience with The Wedding Foundry. Let us handle the details while you focus on what truly matters – celebrating your love in a setting that's as unique and unforgettable as your relationship. We host perfect Micro Weddings up to 65 guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Allows pets
  • Exudes old-world charm

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
Awarded Best of Zola
If I could give more than 5 stars, I would. Hosting our wedding at Liberty View Farm / The Wedding Foundry was the best decision we made. From start to finish, the entire team made the process and the day itself absolutely seamless. Billiam has created something truly magical here. Erica, who guided us through planning, answered our questions, and captured our wedding through her photography, was such a calming, helpful presence throughout. And Magic Cathy, our day-of point person, made sure everything flowed perfectly. I can’t overstate how much peace of mind they gave me, I literally had NOTHING to worry about. The staff was so thoughtful and attentive, periodically checking in to make sure I was enjoying myself and didn’t need anything, which made me feel so cared for. The attention to detail was next-level. Multiple guests told me it was the most beautiful wedding they’d ever been to. The food was phenomenal, the music (courtesy of The Music Boutique) kept the energy alive, and the flowers and décor were breathtaking. The gardens were lush, blooming, and absolutely stunning. It was beyond anything I could have pictured. The flower bar was also such a unique touch and a huge hit with our families. I felt so comfortable, cared for, and even beautiful, thanks to the way every single person treated us. I asked all of the staff their names so I could remember them here, but of course, in the excitement of the day, I forgot, but what I won’t forget is how they treated us. It was, truly, the best day of my life, and that’s thanks to everyone at Liberty View Farm / The Wedding Foundry. I could not recommend them highly enough.
Nicki D., 4 months ago
Foxtrot Farm & Flowers 

5.0

STANFORDVILLE, NY
  • Up to 80 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor

PLEASE REACH OUT TO US DIRECTLY THRU FOXTROT FARM & FLOWERS WEBSITE: Foxtrot Farm & Flowers is a woman-owned regenerative flower farm and event space located in the heart of NY’s Hudson Valley. Our small farm is nestled into 600-acres of protected land making it an idyllic setting for any special occasion or celebration. Whether you want to gather for outdoor dining in our flower fields, stay in our relaxing and cozy tiny house, or dance the night away in our historic barn, there are plenty of charming spots for you and your guests to explore at Foxtrot. As a working flower farm, Foxtrot is able to provide a unique, memorable, and beautiful setting for any experience. We specialize in curating the space for intimate gatherings and can accommodate up to 80 guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Provides event staff
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No in-house catering options
Foxtrot Farm & Flowers was an absolute pleasure to work with as a wedding vendor. Their communication throughout the planning process was reliable, courteous, and accommodating, putting our minds at ease every step of the way. The quality of their work was truly beautiful, creating a magical and memorable atmosphere for the couple and all of their guests. Having worked a variety of weddings in the Hudson Valley, I was struck by the calmness and serenity that the Foxtrot staff and venue transmitted, it was unlike anything I've experienced before. It was the perfect setting to celebrate our special day.
Alix D., a year ago
Plan Bee Farm Brewery 

5.0

Poughkeepsie, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor

A home to Hudson Valley food + bev adventure seekers since 2013, Plan Bee Farm Brewery proudly brews 100% NYS beer. Our beers go from ground to glass within measurable feet of their origins. At Plan Bee Farm Brewery, our beers are created by the limitation of local resources. From the yeast we cultivate from our honeycomb, to the grain and hops in our fields, if it isn’t in our community it doesn’t enter our beer. Weddings at Plan Bee Farm Brewery are relaxed, romantic, and environmentally conscious. Nestle in with your closest family and friends for a garden ceremony and cocktail hour, followed by dinner, dancing, and sweeping sunset views in our brand new hilltop pavilion. We would be so thrilled to host your special day on the grounds of our whimsical woodland farm, where we proudly grow the ingredients for our 100% NYS Farm Beer. With us, the natural world is never too far away.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • No on-premises lodging options
Plan Bee is tremendous to work with! The environment is very welcoming with lovely and dedicated staff/ownership. They are great to work with, organized, and hardworking. Plan Bee provides the epitome of a family-friendly, farm wedding.
Rossis Alimentari, 2 years ago
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Kismet House 

5.0

Clintondale, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Nestled in the heart of the Hudson Valley, Kismet House was brought to life as the perfect venue for your dream wedding and next event. With housing for 24 onsite it's an amazing local destination wedding weekend. The Kismet property spans 62 acres, anchored around our centerpiece, an original classic Red Barn. Surrounded by acres of apple orchards, a secretly nestled pond amidst the trees, meandering walking trails. — Kismet House is a memorable and escape close enough to find a wooded paradise less than two hours from New York City.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • On-site parking not available
Awarded Best of Zola
Kismet House was the perfect venue for our wedding. From the moment we booked the space, the owners were incredibly helpful and efficient in their communication, answering all of our questions promptly. Their suggestions for the setup and use of the space were amazing and really helped make our day less stressful. The quality of their work and the overall value was worth every cent - the barn, pond, and every corner of the property provided a dreamlike backdrop that all of our guests raved about. From the ceremony to the sunset and evening by the fireplace, it was magical. I cannot recommend Kismet House enough to any couple looking for a perfect wedding venue.
Alex R., a year ago
Ryan Family Farm 

5.0

Lagrangeville, NY
  • Up to 165 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $300

The restored dairy barn built in 1828 on a 100 acre, family ran, historic venue with modern-day amenities is nestled in the Hudson Valley, NY. It can host up to 150 guests comfortably inside the barn, with additional space on the deck for cocktail hour and an adjacent lawn area for your ceremony. There is also an additional lounge seating area if some of your guests would like to relax with a bit of quiet time. Antique chandeliers accent the hardwood floors, walls and beams providing the rustic character that compliments the temperature controlled AC and heat to enable us to provide year-round events. In addition to the barn, deck, and ceremony space, the onsite 4 bedroom (7 queen beds) restored farmhouse is included in the venue for the weekend. A Friday check in enables you to prepare yourself for the big day and set up the space in the barn with any decor. The house is yours for the entire weekend for up to 8 guests. It works perfectly as a bridal suite for everyone to get ready.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • No venue-provided food services
  • Does not allow pets
My husband and I love this place so much and not only because of how beautiful the space truly is but how helpful and extraordinary the Ryan Family Farm staff was in helping us through every step of coordinating our wedding. We had originally planned for a 2020 wedding and when COVID came we knew it would be a challenge to re envision our dream wedding. They went above and beyond what was expected in helping us get it done and in a seemingly effortless way. We loved the cleanliness and comfort of the farmhouse. The proximity to the Barn was extremely beneficial. Tom Ryan accommodated us in many ways and most importantly our families had a great experience. If you are considering the idea of a barn wedding with a touch of class this is the perfect venue. You can put your trust in the staff and assistants at the Ryan Family Farm.
Wendy and J., 4 years ago
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Lippincott Manor 

5.0

Wallkill, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Starts at $9,550
  • Offer

Lippincott Manor features one of the most beautiful country rustic settings in the Hudson Valley. This unique site; situated on 15 charming acres, offers breathtaking views of the Wallkill River and Shawangunk Mountains. A family owned and operated catering facility, Lippincott Manor specializes in outdoor weddings and provides individual planning and customized packages hosting only one event a day. Offering their very popular "all inclusive package," they do it all for you in one step and one price ensuring a successful, stress-free event.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
Awarded Best of Zola
Our wedding was this past September, and it was everything we could’ve asked for and more. Tricia and Marty both made it so easy during the entire process from booking and planning to the day of, they were so helpful, and took care of everything for us. The day flowed so smoothly with absolutely no issues whatsoever. All we had to do was show up and enjoy ourselves, and her and her crew ( who were also incredible!) handled everything for us and made for an amazing night. The landscape, flowers and decorations were beautiful, made for some very very nice pictures! We got a nothing but positive feedback about the location, the views, the food, everything. the bridal suite was perfect to get ready and hide in prior to the ceremony. She also took some incredible photos for us. They were an absolute pleasure to work with, and I hope we see them again for another wedding!
Kayla E., a year ago
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Windham Manor 

5.0

Windham, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $11,000

At Windham Manor, we provide the charm—you bring the vision. Set on 45 private acres in the Catskills, our estate features stunning views, a Victorian mansion with 12 guest suites, a spa, gym, fireplaces, and more. The Barn, built in 2019, holds over 300 guests and offers rustic elegance for unforgettable celebrations. Outdoor spaces include the Lawn, overlooking a pond and mountains, and the magical Enchanted Forest, complete with benches, a brook, and towering pines. Our experienced events team offers a list of trusted vendors and personalized planning support to bring your wedding weekend to life. Looking for pricing information? We've included it in our photo gallery here on Zola! You can also visit our website for our pricing.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Caters to out-of-town guests

Venue considerations

  • No venue-provided food services
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Does not allow pets
Awarded Best of Zola
Windham Manor was everything we could have wanted. Susan and Barry are amazing! We got married outside in the enchanted forest in Nov ‘24 and it was beautiful. The barn was a fantastic place to host our 200 guests for our reception. The house that you can rent right next to the barn fits 33 people and is perfect for your wedding party to stay. We hosted our rehearsal dinner and after party right at the house as well. Karen, the house manager went above and behind to assist us throughout our stay.
Erin B., a year ago
L'Orangerie 

5.0

Greenville, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $25,000

Discover the enchanting charm of L'Orangerie, a Victorian greenhouse nestled in the picturesque Hudson Valley. Our unique venue, with its European-inspired design and lush surroundings, offers a magical setting for your wedding day, where every moment feels like a fairytale. Our beautiful Victorian greenhouse provides an ethereal backdrop for your ceremony and reception. With its stunning glass architecture and abundant greenery, L'Orangerie effortlessly combines old-world sophistication with the beauty of nature. Set beside a tranquil pond and surrounded by sprawling fields and serene woods, our venue offers a variety of breathtaking settings for your special day. Thank you for considering L'Orangerie. We look forward to being a part of your love story. We are a raw space and do not offer any services other than the rental of the event spaces. Nothing else is included in the rental fee and all vendors must be brought in. One day rental price is $10,000, full weekend rental is $15,000.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Natural elegance with open spaces
  • Allows pets

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
Not only is this venue stunning with great amenities, the hosts are very accommodating and flexible.
Ariel, 2 years ago
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Pleasantly Devine Stables 

5.0

Rock Tavern, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $18,000

Welcome to Pleasantly Devine Stables. We're dreamers, but even in our wildest dreams, we never expected to own a farm and host a special event venue. We purchased the 104-acre farm property in 2016, as a place to begin our future and pursue our passion and love of farming. Since purchasing the farm, several guests found our property to be so serene, fell in love with its natural beauty, and persuaded us to open our family farm for others to experience. We are a family that genuinely cares about you and the details of your big day, and a venue that will consistently go above and beyond. We believe firmly you aren't a "number" or a "package". We host celebrations because we love sharing our farm with couples and families who love it too. At Pleasantly Devine Stables, we put great emphasis on FAMILY: our family, your family, and the greater family of the Hudson Valley.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Rustic charm with elegance

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Pleasantly Devine Stables provided an exceptional experience for our wedding day. Their communication was flawless, outstanding, and incredibly quick, which allowed us to feel at ease throughout the entire planning process. The venue itself was absolutely beautiful, with a chic, natural landscape that created the perfect backdrop for our special day. The staff made the day run so smoothly that we never had to worry about a single detail - they truly went above and beyond to ensure our wedding was perfect in every way. We are so grateful to the team at Pleasantly Devine Stables for helping to make our wedding day an absolute dream come true.
Fred M., a month ago
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The Outlier Inn 

5.0

Woodridge, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $15,000
  • Offer

Nestled in the tranquil Catskill Mountains, just 90 miles from bustling NYC, lies The Outlier Inn—a serene 14-acre property. Here, amidst nature's embrace, we offer a haven from the city's hustle and bustle. Our versatile space serves as a retreat center, event venue, workshop hub, and even boasts a fiber and vegetable farm alongside a top-tier recording studio. We offer a variety of on-site accommodations which are included in our weekend Wedding Package. Whether your vision is an intimate gathering or a lavish celebration, we're dedicated to crafting your dream wedding into reality.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Has a fun and festive vibe

Venue considerations

  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • No venue-provided food services
The Outlier Inn is truly one-of-a-kind, offering so much more than your typical wedding venue. From the start, we knew it was something special. One of our favorite aspects was being able to bring all of our loved ones together in one place for the entire weekend, creating a unique experience where our family and friends were “trapped” in the best way—celebrating and bonding without distractions. If you’re someone who loves to party under the stars, and you enjoy envisioning and creating fun, personalized spaces, this is the venue for you. The property itself is a hidden gem, full of surprises at every turn. There’s so much to explore, from the charming tiny houses scattered throughout, to the inviting homemade hot tub and peaceful sauna, to the quirky hidden thrift shop/barn. We held our ceremony in the newly added amphitheater nestled in the woods—an intimate space surrounded by towering trees, creating a perfect natural backdrop for our vows. We were lucky with beautiful September weather, and the sound of our friends laughing and exploring the grounds will forever be a cherished memory. Josh, the owner of The Outlier, truly made the entire experience unforgettable. From the moment we met him, we knew this was “our” place. He is warm, welcoming, and incredibly accommodating. During our first tour of the property, Josh even let us bottle-feed his adorable baby goat, “Frip”—a moment that will forever hold a special place in our hearts. Leading up to the wedding, Josh was always available to offer guidance and advice, and throughout the weekend, his calm presence was a steady source of reassurance. Whether he was setting up bonfires, handling speakers and microphones, or just checking in on us, Josh ensured everything ran smoothly, allowing us to fully immerse ourselves in every moment of our celebration. The only downside to having our wedding at The Outlier Inn is that we almost want to keep it a secret—it’s so magical, we’d love to keep it all to ourselves! But in all honesty, The Outlier Inn is an extraordinary venue, and we can’t imagine getting married anywhere else. Thank you, Josh, for making our weekend so unforgettable!
Eric and C., a year ago
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Kirby Hill Farm 

5.0

Pawling, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

“The Quintessential Hudson Valley Farm Wedding Venue” Nestled in Quaker Hill, a small hamlet northeast of Pawling, NY, Kirby Hill Farm offers a rustic-styled wedding backdrop on a sprawling countryside. Kirby Hill farm is a unique and beautiful equestrian farm just an hour north of New York City. It offers horse enthusiasts the finest boarding, training & recreational options for nearly every discipline and skill level. The estate is complete with indoor riding arenas, horse barns, paddocks, riding trails, an outdoor event field with observation pavilion and clubhouse. With over 250 majestic acres, you will find yourself surrounded by beautiful outdoor landscapes, a few breathtaking ceremony sites to choose from, and newly renovated barn overlooking our pristine grounds. From intimate celebrations to large formal occasions, Kirby Hill Farm couples farm elegance and modern celebration in a country setting with many picture-perfect spots to capture your special moments.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Allows pets

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • No on-site bridal suite
Kirby Hill Farm is a magical experience. By far my most favorite venue to flower and the most gracious hosts to work with. There is a beauty and authenticity about the farm. Surrounded by rolling hills and wide skies this gem has many perfect backdrops for gorgeous photo ops (think majestic horses grazing in the background and beautifully landscaped grounds to meander). The thoughtfully appointed farmhouse is the right size to accommodate most bridal parties and is also a stellar option for hosting intimate rehearsal dinners in front of the fireplace. The club house is loaded with character: warm wood, stone, and the original barn doors. The barn stands in contrast, industrial in feel with soaring ceilings and oversized glass doors that open up to cocktails on the pavilion overlooking the polo field below. I found tons of inspiration for my design vision right at the farm and the team there was flawless in facilitating my execution. If you love BBQ or beautifully prepared delectable food experiences you should definitely check out the farms exclusive caterer Odeens when you visit the site. Overall just sublime!
Studio Nectar, 4 years ago
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M&D Farm 

5.0

Westerlo, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $16,500

M&D FARM: FALL IN LOVE... GET INSPIRED. Tucked away on 58 acres of pastoral beauty in Upstate New York, M&D Farm is a romantic escape for intimate garden and barn weddings. Where the Hudson Valley meets the Catskills and Capital Region, our property blends rustic elegance with timeless charm—featuring a gently preserved 1940s barn (complete with its own bar area), European-inspired gardens, a serene pond, open meadows, and lush woodlands—all anchored by a lovingly restored 1800s farmhouse. At M&D Farm, we believe your wedding should be as unique as your love story. That’s why we host only a limited number of weddings each year—ensuring an experience that feels exclusive, authentic, and entirely yours. With us, affordable luxury means understated elegance, where every detail whispers romance, not excess. Stroll through our gardens and let each space unfold like a hidden world—whimsical, intimate, and utterly unforgettable. Contact us today! We can’t wait to bring your vision to life.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Rustic charm with elegance

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
  • No in-house catering options
My husband Chris and I were married at M&D Farm this weekend and are now soaking up the afterglow radiating from the happiest day of our lives. To exchange our vows in the lushest, most romantic and lovingly tended gardens, surrounded by our friends and family was a dream come true. We visited M&D Farm as a newly engaged couple in June 2023 and knew it would be a perfect fit from the start. From that point, Daniel and Mario worked with us every step of the way to bring our vision to life. We appreciated their attention to detail and clear communication, but most of all, we were delighted by their passion to celebrate the unique love of every couple they work with. Two years later (down to the day), all of our hard work and collaboration with Mario and Daniel paid off. It was truly a flawless weekend, from the ceremony rehearsal to the final squeeze goodbye at the end of our wedding night. Chris and I were able to truly LIVE our day, thanks to Mario and Daniel's kind, steady presence, working expertly in the background to ensure the perfect experience for us and our people. After 12 years together, Chris and I couldn't imagine a more meaningful place to make our commitments to forever. We will cherish our wedding at M&D Farm, each day, for the rest of our days.
Francesca D and C., 7 months ago
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The Inn at West Settlement 

5.0

Roxbury, NY
  • Up to 185 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $14,500

Set at the end of this Catskill Mountain Hollow in Roxbury, NY, this 64 acre farm estate is surrounded on 3 sides by 2,000 acres of forever wild land. It is a magical place. With a country house, flower farm and historic dairy barn it is the perfect backdrop to a outdoor wekeend long celebration. When visitors arrive at the property, it’s immediately apparent that this is an exceptional place. The property is ideally situated “off the beaten path" with magnificent views of the Catskill Mountains stretching endlessly to the south, enveloping guests with a feeling of true serenity. Our guests come to relax, celebrate and create memories that last a lifetime.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • No all-inclusive dining options
Awarded Best of Zola
I had my wedding at the Inn at West Settlement a little under a month ago and to say they made all my wedding dreams come true would be an understatement. The owner/coordinator, Kim, has this incredible calming energy that she brings to every part of the planning process and the day. She’s also an incredible master gardener and the flowers she did for our wedding (included with the venue) were breathtaking. Her staff is professional, attentive, and happy to do anything to make a perfect day. I don’t have enough wonderful things to say about this gorgeous property and grade A team!
Jen G., 5 months ago
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Birch Hill Catering & Estate 

5.0

Castleton On Hudson, NY
  • Up to 600 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

With over 80 years of experience, Birch Hill Catering continues to be one of Upstate New York’s most memorable wedding destinations. From a formal sit-down dinner in a ballroom setting to casual outdoor BBQ style wedding or even a rustic barn wedding; any one of the venues at Birch Hill Estate or Stablegate Farm is sure to capture your imagination.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
A wonderful venue run by outstanding people. 5 stars is not enough of a rating. Serena and her staff did an amazing job for my daughters wedding. She even handled an issue that was not hers. We can't say enough about her. I highly recommend Birch Hill Estate.
Tim Q., 4 months ago
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Bellavista Country Estate 

5.0

Old Chatham, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $10,000
  • Offer

Your wedding at Bellavista Country Estate will include a two night or longer stay at the beautiful 12,000 square foot estate for up to 16 guests. The property is located on 60 private acres in picturesque Hudson Valley. Amenities include nearly 2,000 square feet of beautifully appointed bridal & groom men’s suites. Perfect for photo ops, the estate also includes a game room with air hockey, pinball, card table, home theater, an in-house gym, library, five full bathrooms, library and fully stocked kitchen .. all for the wedding couple, family and friends to enjoy during their stay.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic yet refined style
  • Surrounded by nature
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Requires outside catering services
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
We had our small wedding at Bellavista Country Estate this past fall and couldn’t be happier with how it turned out! The Bellavista Team were super helpful throughout the entire process and made sure to fulfill our wishes to their best ability. The property was just breathtaking around this time of the year. Already thinking about coming back for our anniversary!
Freda Z., 2 months ago
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Blooming Hill Farm 

5.0

Monroe, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $30,000
  • Offer

Blooming Hill Farm is a farm-to-table wedding venue in the heart of New York’s Hudson Valley. For over 30 years, our family-owned farm has grown the organic produce that inspires the fresh, seasonal menus served at every celebration. Couples love the natural beauty: wildflower fields, rolling hills, cozy fire pits, a timeless green barn, and our premium sailcloth tent overlooking the farm. Indoor and outdoor spaces flow easily, creating a relaxed, idyllic atmosphere for you and your guests. Our on-site team guides every step, from early planning conversations through the final toast, letting you fully enjoy each moment. With full-service catering, on-site floral design, and a thoughtful collection of included décor, Blooming Hill Farm delivers a complete, curated celebration rooted in simplicity, beauty, and unforgettable food. For those dreaming of a wedding away from the bustling city, this organic and quaint farm could be the setting you’ve always dreamed of.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
Awarded Best of Zola
My now-husband and I will never be over our wedding at Blooming Hill Farm. It will be hard to condense all the gushing I want to do into a succinct review, but I'll try. I remembered seeing pics of the farm and thinking it looked cool, but visiting in person last August was a gamechanger. It's so magical in person - beautiful blooms everywhere, the little babbling brook, the dreamy cocktail barn, the general views. My partner, who was in London at the time, had joined via FaceTime and even over the phone he knew immediately after that it was the one. We knew we wanted to get married when the farm was exactly as we saw it, so did our wedding toward the end of August. We lucked out with absolutely beautiful weather and it made for an unforgettable day. In addition to loving on the space ('gorgeous' was used a lot), our guests couldn't stop raving about the food (no surprises here, BHF is a working farm with a popular farm-to-table restaurant). Without a doubt, the best wedding food we've ever had. The tasting was a highlight :) In addition to all of this, rather than having to separately source and pay a kajillion dollars for all of the linens, tables, etc, this is all included and BHF works with you to execute your vision to a T. The reception tent was sneakily one of the most beautiful parts of our wedding day - I couldn't stop ogling everything. Special shoutout to Nadine, BHF's florist who worked with our non-existent knowledge of flowers and delivered an absolute dream setting. Finally, I've fully been burying the lead because on top of all this, the ultimate perk of doing your wedding at Blooming Hill Farm is you get to work with a coordinator like our girl Kate - who we are still not ready to say goodbye to. While we experienced light concern from a few folks over not hiring a planner, with Kate we never needed one. From the venue tour to detailed planning sessions to literally cueing us all down the aisle, she held our hand every step of the way and managed to be equally warm and fun while supremely on top of her sh*t (and ensuring we were on top of ours). She overdelivered in the way a stereotypically Type A wedding planner would, while managing to be...chill?! It truly felt like working with a friend. (WE LOVE YOU, KATE, PLEASE CALL US WHEN YOU'RE IN BROOKLYN?!?) The rest of the staff were also so notably warm, wonderful and on point as well. Truly, if there was a way to Black Mirror ourselves and relive this day over and over, we definitely would. Please have your wedding here, ok?
Lauren O., 5 months ago
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The Sugarhouse 

5.0

Chester, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $15,000

The Sugarhouse is a historic wedding estate nestled in the heart of New York’s Hudson Valley. Spanning 280 private acres and opening to the public for the first time since the mid-1800s, The Sugarhouse offers a rare blend of rustic elegance, natural beauty, and refined hospitality. Couples may exchange vows in our romantic outdoor garden, celebrate beneath the beams of our restored barn, and enjoy sunset views across rolling pastures and wooded landscapes. With exclusive use of the property, no noise ordinances, and over 3,000 square feet of luxurious bridal suites, weddings at The Sugarhouse unfold seamlessly from morning preparations through the final dance. As a chef-owned and operated venue, The Sugarhouse is known for its elevated culinary experience, thoughtfully crafted menus, and warm, attentive service. The Sugarhouse is an unforgettable setting for couples seeking a timeless, elegant wedding rooted in natural beauty and impeccable hospitality.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations
We love Sugarhouse, Doug was amazingly helpful and friendly, the venue had wonderful rustic vibes but still had a nice bridal suite for everyone to get ready. Highly recommend.
Jessie G., 6 months ago
Falkirk Estate And Country Club 

4.0

Central Valley, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $179

Our Venue is conveniently located approximately 3 miles north of the Woodbury Common Premium Outlets, New York State Thruway and Route 17 in Central Valley, NY. Nestled in the foothills of the Ramapo Mountains, Falkirk Estate and Country Club can accommodate any size affair, from Grand Weddings and Social Galas to more intimate Cocktail Receptions. Lush landscaping, waterfalls and an elegant white wrought iron Gazebo are all options for the perfect backdrop to your outdoor ceremony as well as memorable photographs at our Rustic Barn and Historic Stone Gate House. Guests will marvel as the sunsets behind the Ramapo Mountains, illuminating the late afternoon sky above your ceremony. Your special day should be as wonderful as you have always imagined.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Blends luxury with trendiness
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
We started the wedding planning process by starting to look at venues. Falkirk was the first venue we had toured and immediately fell in love with it. From seeing the golf course, the waterfall, the gazebo, and incredible views, it was breathtaking and we imagined ourselves getting married there immediately. We met with Andrea during our tour, and had the pleasure of getting to work with her throughout our planning process, and was absolutely incredible on the day of our wedding! She made herself available to answer our (many) questions, going over timelines, and ensuring that our vision and dreams for the day came true. They had it all, from phenomenal staff to incredible food, not to mention the stunning views. We could not have asked for better! They truly make you feel like a VIP throughout the entire wedding weekend. Andrea was an absolute gem to work with, and made sure everything we dreamed of came true. And when we got the opportunity to have fireworks during our reception?! To this day, we have friends and family still talking about the firework show. Andrea worked seamlessly with other vendors and the firework staff to make sure it was a surprise show that no one would forget. Our wedding day was a dream, and we are so glad we had it at the Falkirk Estate and Country Club. We are so incredibly happy we got the pleasure to work with them, and would recommend any couples that are starting the wedding planning process, to reach out to them.
Juliette N., a year ago
Inn at Mount Pleasant 

5.0

Torrington, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,200

Welcome to the Inn at Mount Pleasant! We have a barn for a rustic wedding, an inn for 10 guests, and beautiful New England views. We offer numerous scenic ceremony locations, a firepit, bistro lighting and chandeliers, farm tables, and much more!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Does not provide event staff
  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
Nestled in the Torrington valley, this unique venue is one of our favorites. This careful maintained and expertly run facility offers the best of indoor venues with the great outdoors all in one location. Always a pleasure working with the owners and the event planning team of EngagedCT. Well organized and extremely professional.
engagedct@gmail.com, 4 years ago
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Stablegate Farm & Vineyard 

5.0

Castleton On Hudson, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $14,500

From the minute you arrive at Upstate New York’s finest farm and vineyard venue, you will be enamored by the historic charm and rustic elegance that defines Stablegate Farm and Vineyard. Fall in love with the 19th-century Stablegate Barn filled with charming antique decor and ambient market-street lighting. For more intimate gatherings, our Stablegate Lodge provides guests with a warm, inviting atmosphere to celebrate. Choose from a private vineyard, a hilltop view of the Catskill mountains, a 200-year-old Dutch barn door, or a fossil stone fireplace for your Upstate New York ceremony.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Rustic yet refined style
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
Awarded Best of Zola
I don’t even know where to begin. At the beginning of our wedding journey, finding a venue was the hardest thing we could’ve done. My husband and I had a specific vision in mind and had an incredibly difficult time finding a place that we loved that was also within our budget. We’re from the LI area but knew we wished to get married upstate. We must have visited at least 10 venues. Then on our way home from one, my husband found Stablegate on a whim. We looked everything over and it had the barn that I wanted, and the catering included that my husband wanted and I said “if we visit and we like it, I’m putting a deposit down the next day.” And that’s exactly what we did. Birch Hill is an incredible family owned company with so many aspects attached to it, it was hard not to fall in the second we saw it. Over 2.5 years, I never once regretted that decision and once the wedding day came and went I knew it was the right choice for us. The food is amazing and a ton of different options (including catering to my vegan guests), the staff are incredible, and the vibes are immaculate. Our wedding coordinator Jared was really the star of the show. He was super accommodating to all of our needs, organized, and just all in all a ridiculously sweet and funny guy. When our wedding day ended up getting rained out, he came up with backup plans right on the spot that honestly fit our vibe so much more than our original plan and I really truly have Jared to thank for that. Jared treated us like we were old friends that he was just helping throughout the day. He is someone I will truly forever be the most grateful for to have on my wedding day. I have heard so many horror stories about venues, and I can honestly say this is not one of them. Stablegate Barn and the Birch Hill Catering Company have my highest recommendation. And if you need a coordinator, ask for Jared. Really truly from the bottom of my heart, thank you for an amazing wedding day.
Ariella P., a year ago
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The Ruins at Sassafras Museum 

5.0

New Lebanon, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

The Ruins at Sassafras Museum is the home of the former Shaker Second Family on Mount Lebanon. (See our reviews on Google.) We call ourselves a boutique museum because unlike other Shaker Museums that replicate the past, we have interpreted the past and creatively restored each location on the property. You can have your ceremony in the ruins of an English garden, the stone foundation of a barn alongside a meandering creek, or under a willow tree overlooking our pond. Enjoy cocktails on the terrace of our Moroccan Bar or Stone House as the sunsets over the Taconic Mountains. Choose from eight unique sites to customize your wedding day. We can host 18 guests in our luxury accommodations and only 15 minutes away are many hotels and inns.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Flexible event spaces
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • No free parking
  • No venue-provided food services
The Ruins at Sassafras is not just a breathtakingly beautiful wedding venue, it is an experience shaped by a truly extraordinary team. My husband and I celebrated our entire wedding weekend here, including our Welcome Party at The Ruins, Ceremony at Deere Pond, Cocktail Hour on the Moroccan Terrace and Bar, Reception in the Chair Factory, and Afterparty back on the Moroccan Terrace. Our immediate family also stayed on site at the Stonehouse and Caretakers Cottage, which made the weekend feel intimate, immersive, and unforgettable. Carol and her team pour their heart and soul into every celebration. From the moment we began planning, it was clear how deeply invested they are in making your day perfect. The stunning landscaping, thoughtful flow of each space, and impeccable guest experience reflected their vision and attention to detail at every turn. Dee, the bar manager, ran an exceptional operation: no lines, seamless service, and truly delicious specialty cocktails that guests are still talking about. Overflowing with history and curated with such intention, The Ruins is unlike any place we’ve ever encountered. With sweeping views of the Berkshires and a setting that feels both magical and deeply personal, we feel incredibly lucky to have celebrated such a meaningful weekend here. We cannot recommend The Ruins at Sassafras highly enough.
Kelly Sennott & J., 2 months ago
South Farms 

5.0

Morris, CT
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

South Farms' features a premier farmland destination in Litchfield County and our award-winning events venue, The White Barn at South Farms Conveniently located between NYC and Boston in the Litchfield Hills of Connecticut, The White Barn at South Farms is a state-of-the-art events venue creatively constructed within the iconic Sam Paletsky Barn. South Farms boasts a working farm, stunning pastoral views, and all the amenities you would expect with a premier venue.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Has an energetic and exciting atmosphere

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
We had our wedding at South Farms on the most beautiful day in August 2025 (August 23rd), and we could not have asked for a more seamless, enjoyable, and memorable experience. From start to finish, everything felt effortless thanks to the incredible staff—especially our planner, Sam Blick. Her expertise, attention to detail, and excellent communication made the entire process so easy for us. Sam and the team went above and beyond to bring our vision to life. They supported us with décor decisions, room layout, and the day-of flow, and even made the week leading up to the wedding stress-free by letting us drop off décor items early. In fact, Sam even started unboxing and decorating for us the day before (well outside of her job description!), which was such a kind and thoughtful surprise. They even hosted a “decor trial,” allowing us to mock up flowers, tablescapes, and other details in advance—which was a huge help in visualizing the day. And then there’s the venue itself—absolutely stunning. Our guests (and us!) were in awe of the rolling hills, the wildflowers in bloom, and of course, the iconic White Barn, which truly feels like a centerpiece on its own. The setting gave us the perfect mix of elevated elegance and intimate charm—we didn’t need to add much to make the day feel beautiful and special. We also have to talk about the food. This is not your typical “wedding food.” The executive chef is unbelievably talented and flexible, serving dishes that highlight thoughtful, locally sourced ingredients. It felt like dining at a true farm-to-table restaurant. Weeks later, we’re still getting texts from guests raving about the lobster rolls and filet mignon! We’ve been to weddings where the food was cold or forgettable—South Farms was the complete opposite. Yes, the price point is higher, but if food is important to you, it’s absolutely worth it. We left feeling confident that we got every bit of value out of our investment. We are so grateful we chose South Farms as our wedding venue. It gave us the most perfect day, and we cannot wait to come back for their socials and events to relive memories of our favorite day at our favorite place.
Aileen Casmano B., 5 months ago

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About wedding venues in Ruby, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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