The Best Select Services Wedding Venues in Patchogue, NY

The Best Select Services Wedding Venues in Patchogue, NY

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8 Wedding Venues in Patchogue, NY

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Chops Steakhouse 

5.0

Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 50 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Chops Steakhouse in Patchogue Village is a premier steakhouse and event-friendly venue located in the heart of downtown Patchogue. With a prohibition-inspired atmosphere, upscale menu featuring dry-aged steaks, fresh seafood, creative cocktails, and a world-class bourbon selection, Chops offers an elegant backdrop for celebrating special occasions.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has an intimate atmosphere
  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • On-site parking not available
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
We had my bridal shower at Chops Steakhouse and it truly exceeded every expectation. The space was stylish and intimate, the speakeasy vibe set the tone for such a fun day, and the food had everyone raving. It felt special, elevated, and full of great energy—exactly what you want for a once-in-a-lifetime celebration!
Rebecca, 2 days ago
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VIP Room Catered Events 

5.0

Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 125 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

VIP Room in Patchogue is an elegant private event venue on Main Street that’s perfect for weddings, parties, and special occasions, offering a beautiful space with a full bar and attentive staff to make every celebration memorable. We combine modern style with personalized service and delicious catering options, ensuring your event feels both special and seamless from start to finish!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides catering services
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
Christine and her staff at the VIP Room are absolutely amazing. From the moment I viewed the space, through booking, the night before, setup, and all the way to the very last second of my event, everything was handled flawlessly. I didn’t have to worry about a single thing anything I thought of was already taken care of. They truly went above and beyond. Christine makes you feel like family and I truly could not thank her enough for making my wedding day so special… Cannot wait to plan my next event here!!
Tashilee S., 25 days ago
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The Better Man Distilling Company 
Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

The Better Man Distilling Co is a one-of-a-kind venue packed with personality and charm. Our mid century modern tasting room and outdoor patio and grass areas provide numerous different backdrops for guests to mingle and make memories. The distillery is worlds away from the typical no-personality event venue. Our mid century modern decor, outdoor patio and pergola, and grass area make this the perfect place for any kind of event. Plus, lots of amazing photo spots!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Has an energetic and exciting atmosphere

Venue considerations

  • Additional event staff required
  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-premises lodging options
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Lombardi'S On The Bay 
Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $99

Cited by the New York Times as a location where “The food is as good as the views,” experience the Lombardi Family tradition of fine cuisine at Lombardi’s on the Bay. A property of Lombardi Caterers, a renowned entity in Long Island Hospitality, Lombardi’s on the Bay continues Lombardi’s 40-year-tradition of quality cuisine and service. With breathtaking views of the Great South Bay, Lombardi’s on the Bay offers a legendary elegance exclusive to this venue. Whether dining in our restaurant, enjoying a catered event in our banquet hall, or having your dream wedding where you are the only bride, Lombardi’s on the Bay is your choice for perfection and class.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Designed for grand celebrations
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
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Windows on the Lake 

3.5

Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $90

Windows on the Lake is the The Most Romantic Waterfront Venue on Long Island. See what couples are raving about with our award winning wedding venue. Some of The Unique Features: • Catering to Only “One Wedding At A Time", so we can focus all our attention on your wedding. • Beautiful Waterfront Setting with spectacular sunsets create memorable weddings. • Majestic Gardens complete with palm trees for a tropical setting, (in -season). • Beautiful waterfront wedding chapel available for your On-Site Ceremony. • Outdoor patio for an on the water cocktail hour with Fabulous Food Stations. • Elegant Ballroom with floor-to-ceiling windows providing panoramic water views. • Our one-of-a-kind lighting and in-house sound system can make your event special. • International Menus and Presentations to impress your guests. • Special Ethnic, Halal and Kosher menus can be accommodated. • Experienced In-House Event Specialist to make your event "Stress Free".

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Realmente fue mi sueño hecho realidad.me sentí princesa en el cuento de hadas,todo estuvo bello espectacular,la atención desde que comienzas tus preparativos hasta el final ,Luis es un ser espectacular y La persona que estuvo al pendiente de mi el día de la boda.ella Es maravillosa Vickie gracias
Ana V., 2 years ago
GemHidden gem
Tiki Boat Long Island 

5.0

Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 29 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $1,769

At Tiki Boat Long Island, our mission is to create fun, enjoyable, and memorable experiences for all our guests. We are dedicated to ensuring that every cruise is not just a trip, but a celebration of life and camaraderie. Tiki Boat Long Island offers Unique Long Island Booze Cruises. Complete with Full-service bar, Spacious dance floor, VIP seating, Restroom, Sound System, Lighting System, USB ports and Misters (for hot days or nights). This vessel is perfect for bachelorette parties or any other celebration. Create one-of-a-kind memories that last for a lifetime. Catering is available upon request. Included is a USCG Master Captain, Bartender, and Host/Hostess to serve your needs. We accommodate from groups of 2 people up to 29 guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Provides catering services
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Does not allow pets
My Fiancé and I had the best time on the water! We did not except this to be so spectacular. We will definitely be booking this again next summer!
Alissa and B., 2 years ago
GemHidden gem
Rockefellers Kitchen & Cocktails 

5.0

Lake Grove, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $1,300

Rockefellers Kitchen and cocktails offers our Gatsby room for a private event in our timeless space, known for its Old New York charm, elegant atmosphere, and thoughtfully curated menus. Whether you’re envisioning an intimate gathering or a lively celebration, our experienced events team is here to help bring every detail together seamlessly.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
I just hosted the most amazing private party at Rockefeller’s Kitchen and Cocktails, and I’m still buzzing from it! From start to finish, everything was perfect the venue really knows how to make an event special. The space was absolutely beautiful, with the perfect balance of stylish and cozy. We had the whole area to ourselves, and the ambiance was just right for our group. The private space gave us the freedom to have fun without worrying about the crowd, and the staff was super accommodating.
Aly, 10 days ago
Courtyard by Marriott Long Island MacArthur Airport 
Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor

Celebrate your special day in style at our Long Island hotel wedding venue. With flexible spaces and expert assistance from our dedicated team, your dream wedding is within reach. Treat your guests to spacious accommodations and the convenience of our hotel's prime location. Choose from our elegant boardroom venue, boasting natural lighting, a beautiful oak table, and ergonomic chairs for maximum comfort. Let us take care of every detail, ensuring a seamless and unforgettable experience for you and your loved ones. Say "I do" to the perfect wedding at our Long Island hotel.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Provides event staff
  • Versatile for various event styles

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
  • No free parking

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About wedding venues in Patchogue, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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