The Best Restaurant & Brewery Wedding Venues in Patchogue, NY

The Best Restaurant & Brewery Wedding Venues in Patchogue, NY

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6 Wedding Venues in Patchogue, NY

Restaurants, breweries
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Chops Steakhouse 

5.0

Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 50 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Chops Steakhouse in Patchogue Village is a premier steakhouse and event-friendly venue located in the heart of downtown Patchogue. With a prohibition-inspired atmosphere, upscale menu featuring dry-aged steaks, fresh seafood, creative cocktails, and a world-class bourbon selection, Chops offers an elegant backdrop for celebrating special occasions.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has an intimate atmosphere
  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • On-site parking not available
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
We hosted our rehearsal dinner at Chops Steakhouse and couldn’t have asked for a better experience! The speakeasy-style space felt warm and intimate, the food was outstanding, and the atmosphere made the night feel truly special. It was the perfect setting to kick off our wedding weekend with family and friends.
Samantha, 13 days ago
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VIP Room Catered Events 

5.0

Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 125 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

VIP Room in Patchogue is an elegant private event venue on Main Street that’s perfect for weddings, parties, and special occasions, offering a beautiful space with a full bar and attentive staff to make every celebration memorable. We combine modern style with personalized service and delicious catering options, ensuring your event feels both special and seamless from start to finish!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides catering services
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
Christine and her staff at the VIP Room are absolutely amazing. From the moment I viewed the space, through booking, the night before, setup, and all the way to the very last second of my event, everything was handled flawlessly. I didn’t have to worry about a single thing anything I thought of was already taken care of. They truly went above and beyond. Christine makes you feel like family and I truly could not thank her enough for making my wedding day so special… Cannot wait to plan my next event here!!
Tashilee S., a month ago
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Drift82 

5.0

Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 175 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $12,000

Drift 82 is a waterfront wedding venue located on the Patchogue River, offering sweeping views of the Great South Bay. With flexible indoor and outdoor spaces, coastal charm, and a relaxed yet refined atmosphere, Drift 82 provides a stunning setting for ceremonies and receptions designed to feel personal, effortless, and unforgettable!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • No free parking
Drift 82 was the perfect setting for our wedding. The water views were stunning, the space was beautiful and well maintained, and communication throughout planning was easy and stress free. The staff was attentive and welcoming, making the entire day feel seamless. Our guests loved the atmosphere, and we couldn’t have asked for more!
Kathleen, 22 days ago
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The Better Man Distilling Company 
Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

The Better Man Distilling Co is a one-of-a-kind venue packed with personality and charm. Our mid century modern tasting room and outdoor patio and grass areas provide numerous different backdrops for guests to mingle and make memories. The distillery is worlds away from the typical no-personality event venue. Our mid century modern decor, outdoor patio and pergola, and grass area make this the perfect place for any kind of event. Plus, lots of amazing photo spots!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Has an energetic and exciting atmosphere

Venue considerations

  • Additional event staff required
  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-premises lodging options
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Rockefellers Kitchen & Cocktails 

5.0

Lake Grove, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $1,300

Rockefellers Kitchen and cocktails offers our Gatsby room for a private event in our timeless space, known for its Old New York charm, elegant atmosphere, and thoughtfully curated menus. Whether you’re envisioning an intimate gathering or a lively celebration, our experienced events team is here to help bring every detail together seamlessly.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
I just hosted the most amazing private party at Rockefeller’s Kitchen and Cocktails, and I’m still buzzing from it! From start to finish, everything was perfect the venue really knows how to make an event special. The space was absolutely beautiful, with the perfect balance of stylish and cozy. We had the whole area to ourselves, and the ambiance was just right for our group. The private space gave us the freedom to have fun without worrying about the crowd, and the staff was super accommodating.
Aly, 22 days ago
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Insignia 
Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

At Insignia, every wedding is a wonderful creation that’s as refreshingly different as your love together. Our elegant, modern décor both indoors and out is a beautiful departure from typical wedding halls. Combining the look and feel of a Hamptons-style mansion with a chic, upscale Manhattan restaurant, it sets the stage for a truly memorable experience.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a glamorous vibe
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
  • Does not allow pets

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About wedding venues in Patchogue, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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