The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Old Tappan, NJ

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Old Tappan, NJ

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10 Wedding Venues in Old Tappan, NJ

Historic estates, mansions
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Mountainville Manor 
Rating: 5.0 (13 reviews)
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Mountainville Manor ensures that your wedding day is a merging of natural beauty and award winning, world class cuisine. The Victorian details and beautiful grounds offer a timeless backdrop for your special day, where you can say your vows in front of the charming gazebo. There is also an inside ceremony option, in our ballroom. Cocktail hour is enjoyed in the “home” part of the Manor with access to the wrap around porch and courtyard area with fire pit. The Manor provides two areas for a spectacular reception - an elegant setting with windows on several sides of the main ballroom to accommodate up to 150 guests or a tented reception on our lush landscaped grounds accommodating up to 250 guests. You may arrive four hours before your ceremony and get ready in our spacious bridal party suites. Hosting only one wedding a day, we pay special care and attention to every detail, making the wedding planning process stress-free and the event flawless for you and your guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Versatile for various event styles
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Awarded Best of Zola
“We could not be happier with how our wedding turned out at Mountainville Manor. The venue is beautiful, but the real magic is Lauren and James and the rest of the Mountainville Manor team. They were so accommodating and hard working, making our day feel personal and stress free. It was a huge help to have their vendor recommendations as a starting point, and all of the vendors were great too! I have had so many of our guests tell me how much they enjoyed the wedding, especially the food. Someone even told me that the steak was the best they ever had! All of the food was so good. I only hope someone I know decides to get married there so I can experience Mountainville Manor as a guest. It was special to have all of our family and friends in a place that made us feel like family. The day felt easy and fun for us and our guests. Thank you Mountainville Manor!”
Edana C., 4 months ago
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Bello Giorno Estate 
Rating: 5.0 (11 reviews)
Belvidere, NJ
  • Up to 125 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Bello Giorno Estate is a modern interpretation of a romantic Italian villa in Tuscany. The grounds were inspired by and seek to emulate the villas of Tuscany's countryside. Situated alongside the scenic and historic Pequest river in Belvidere New Jersey, our Estate personifies an intimate natural elegance. Our grounds are carefully curated with a grand entrance gate, flowing gardens, and seasonal designs that provide the perfect accompaniment to our three outdoor ceremony spaces. Bello Giorno Estate also offers a separate 'Grooms Room' and Bridal Cottage for the wedding couple. Both spaces serve as the perfect place for your groomsmen and bridesmaids to privately enjoy pre-ceremony drinks and appetizers. Our riverside rock walls complement the outdoors and provide a place to sit quietly with your loved one and enjoy a specialty cocktail as you watch the river flow and native fauna pass by.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Surrounded by beautiful vineyards

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Awarded Best of Zola
“We cannot say enough amazing things about Bello Giorno Estate. The location of the estate is adjacent to a small river, which made for absolutely spectacular wedding photos. Think Secret Garden meets Italian Villa! We also loved the intimate feel of the banquet hall, which was the perfect fit for our wedding size. Our guests loved the food and service. Even though we planned our wedding remotely, working with Monica and Stephanie was incredibly easy, as they were very responsive to both email and phone calls. We felt like they went above and beyond to accommodate us and tailor our wedding so it would be perfect. We couldn't have asked for a better venue to hold our wedding. Thank you Bello Giorno!”
Adam & M., 2 years ago
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The Estate at Florentine Gardens 
Rating: 5.0 (6 reviews)
River Vale, NJ
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $40,000

Established for over three decades, Florentine Gardens has never stopped improving to keep up with the times, the trends and ever-evolving needs of our customers and our guests. Our chic, meticulously cared for estate recently underwent extensive additions and renovations with the goal to allow our customers more flexibility in the wedding experience and the ability to really maximize the customization factor and up the “wow” factor. You’ll find attention to detail in everything we do, from the intricate design of our gardens to how we care for our sparkling clean facility, and bring in special touches that make you and your guests feel pampered on this perfect day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • On-site parking not available
Awarded Best of Zola
“From our first conversation with The Estate at Florentine Gardens, we knew we had found our venue. The team's communication was phenomenal—they stayed on top of every detail and we never had to ask twice for anything we needed. The space itself is timeless, and on our wedding day, the grounds and staff proved to be top tier. Our guests still rave about the food, which was honestly the best we've ever had at a wedding. Every moment felt special because the team genuinely cared about making our day perfect. If you're looking for a venue, don't waste time looking anywhere else.”
Michael L., 7 days ago
The Old '76 House 
Rating: 5.0 (2 reviews)
Tappan, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

The 76 House is America’s oldest tavern. Built with the founding of Tappan (1686) and expanded in 1755 to accommodate the town’s need to provide hospitality to stagecoach travelers, it is here that the Dutch town fathers, a group naturally predisposed to separate themselves from England, gathered to draft and sign The Resolutions of Orangetown on July 4, 1774. This document stands as one of America’s first declarations of independence and is often given as the reason we celebrate July 4. The ‘76 accommodates up to 150 guests in 3 distinctly styled dining rooms, each one graced with a glowing fireplace. Whether you’re planning a corporate luncheon for two dozen guests, a family celebration for fifty or a glamorous wedding, personal assistance from our experienced events staff ensures a flawlessly executed occasion to be remembered for years to come. Small one room wedding beginning at $5,000 Buy out weddings begin at $25,000 Price varies with your custom package.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides catering services
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • No on-site bridal suite
  • On-site parking not available
“Our vision for our wedding was for all our favorite people having a night out at a bar and the 76 house more than delivered! We loved the historical aspect of the restaurant and they even had little pamphlets our guests could take that shared the history of the venue. This is a bit of an untraditional wedding venue (as it is a restaurant) but that didn’t stop anyone from dancing and having a great time. From the moment we started working with Elisa (our “wedding planner” aka the woman who runs the show) she was detail oriented while willing to work with us throughout the whole process. Whether it was from payment, table arrangements, food, getting the vendors set up, etc. anything we needed, she helped. The food tasting she set up for us was amazing allowing us to try various options for the dinner. We are both laid back people so we let the chef go with any appetizers he wanted. You are able to request anything you want and they will likely be able to do it for you. The chef did not disappoint, ALL of the apps were incredible. We had one guest mention he ate 20 meatballs they were so good. There was chicken, steak skewers, lamb chops, meatballs, hummus/veggie spread (that wasn’t even all that was served). We had eaten at the restaurant a few times so we knew the food was good. However, having to serve 120 people and still make it delicious is tough but they did it well (we went with the chateaubriand, amish chicken, mahi mahi, and vegetable risotto). We requested no pork or nuts for the whole wedding. We had a wedding cake through a bakery they recommended and they also put plates of small desserts out on the tables. Aside from the food, the service was amazing. All the waiters and waitresses were attentive and extremely professional. For us, we constantly had our champagne filled and asked whether we needed something. They were on top of water refills, drink requests, clean up, etc. We really appreciated the service given to us and our guests. We heard so many times during cocktail hour that every time someone turned around they had a food option. While we did not have to go up to the bar, our guests said the bartenders were awesome, quick, and generous! Elisa worked great with our other vendors as well, making sure they had everything they needed and that things were kept on schedule (food, dances, cake, etc). We had a completely stress free evening which allowed us to have the time of our lives. She ensured that our tables were set with the centerpieces, the florals were set up, and she created a menu for us (which is great to have something taken off our plate). Elisa also, set up our various signs and ensured everything was where we had discussed. We were able to drop everything off ahead of time and not have anything to worry about the day of. Our biggest concern going to this venue was the fact that the front room was partially separated from the rest of the restaurant. We decided to sit people there who we knew would be a bit rowdier and on the dance floor so it wasn’t an issue for us at all. It did get pretty toasty in there but we were dancing the whole time and it’s an older building. The air tried its best and while sitting for dinner it was more than comfortable! We are a crazy group so I’m not surprised we were sweating lol. This was the best day and a HUGE part of that is thanks to Elisa and her whole team at the 76 house. Food, service, people are TOP NOTCH. We could go on and on but ran out of space :)”
Jenna & A., 2 years ago
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Red Hat On The River 
Rating: 5.0 (2 reviews)
Irvington, NY
  • Up to 165 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor

For your next social or corporate event, Red Hat on the River invites you to share in our exquisite views and award winning cuisine. We welcome private and semi-private groups for dining in our loft or main floor. For larger affairs, the unique two story layout, along with our riverside patio, provides many options for creating a truly custom event. Michelle VanNess, Red Hat Director of Special Events, has over a decade of experience with Red Hat creating innovative private events ranging from small corporate dinners to elaborate weddings. Her particular skill is understanding that for some, party planning is a chore to be left to others, while for others it is a joy that requires expert assistance and support.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Allows pets
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • On-site parking not available
“As a wedding planner I have worked with Red Hat on multiple rehearsal dinners and welcome parties with partial and full buyouts. I have always had a great experience working with Michelle in the planning process. She is always responsive, helpful and accommodating. On the day of the event, the team is so welcoming and work hard to create a wonderful experience for my clients and their loved ones. The food is delicious and the views are outstanding!”
Tzo Ai A., 10 months ago
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The Treasury at Felina Ridgewood 
Rating: 4.7 (12 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Ridgewood, NJ
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

Dramatic, Art Deco Located in the heart of the historical Village of Ridgewood, NJ. Amenities include critically acclaimed culinary programming, a stunning bridal suite, our signature hospitality and much more… Let us make your memories of a lifetime! The Treasury at Felina is a neoclassical bank space that features marble columns, soaring windows, towering ceilings, and a wraparound mezzanine for cocktail hour. Elements of brass, marble, the iconic Bank Vault Door and the floating chandelier sculpture combine to impress and delight the scenes, promising celebrations never to be forgotten.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
“We cannot say enough great things about our wedding at Felina. Beyond it being a beautiful and unique space that gave us the most amazing photos, the food was impressive; every one of our guests could not stop talking about the raw bar, the sushi bar, the filet; many said it was the best food they've had at a wedding! The most important part of having our wedding at Felina was the people working there. From the start of the day, everyone was so kind and attentive. Carissa is amazing to work with and made us feel so special. Riccardo was beyond incredible the day of our wedding, keeping us hydrated and making sure we were taken care of the entire day. We had our dream wedding and have Carissa, Riccardo and the rest of the staff at Felina to thank for it!”
Jacqueline F., 7 months ago
Lyndhurst Castle 
Rating: 5.0 (2 reviews)
Tarrytown, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $40,000

Lyndhurst is the ideal venue for dramatic, fairy tale weddings large or small. From the moment your guests enter the estate they will be immersed in the beauty, history and solitude of Lyndhurst, which is set on sixty-seven acres on the widest part of the Hudson River, only thirty-five minutes from New York City and easily accessible from multiple transportation hubs. Whether your wedding is elegant and formal, or simple and rustic, Lyndhurst will make you feel like true royalty in our unique castle setting with the Mansion as your backdrop and a variety of flexible, customizable event spaces and tenting areas.

“THE FOOD WAS DELICIOUS! OUR GUESTS ARE STILL TALKING ABOUT IT. PAUL WAS ABLE TO ACCOMMODATE OUR SPECIAL REQUESTS AND PICKY GUESTS, AND WHEN WE WERE A FEW PEOPLE SHORT ON OUR GUEST COUNT THEY WERE ABLE TO MAKE UPGRADES SO WE WEREN’T JUST WASTING MONEY. SERVICE WAS SEAMLESS AND WE LOVED THE DUET STYLE MAINS. IT ALLEVIATED STRESS NOT HAVING TO ASK EVERYONE WHAT THEY WANTED TO EAT. PAUL MADE SURE OUR SPECIAL DAY WAS PERFECT. HE WAS AROUND ALL DAY TO MAKE SURE EVERYTHING WAS CORRECT AND HE HANDLED ALL THE VENDORS AS THEY ARRIVED AND WE WERE ABLE TO RELAX AND ENJOY THE WEDDING! We didn’t need a planner. The bridal attendant was not as good as I’d hoped but my friends and family stepped in to help where needed. Aside from that everything went perfectly.”
Alexa E., a year ago
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Tarrytown House Estate 
Rating: 4.9 (11 reviews)
Tarrytown, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Every love story deserves a setting as enchanting as the tale itself. Nestled in the scenic embrace of the Hudson River Valley, Tarrytown House Estate weddings seamlessly intertwine historic elegance with modern luxury. Revel in the stunning ambiance of our legendary estate as you step into the next chapter of your story—and cherish the memories that linger long after the last dance. Bring your vision to life across more than 30,000 square feet of stunning event space. Whether planning a romantic elopement or the most lavish of celebrations, the perfect venue for every moment of your wedding weekend is here at Tarrytown.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No all-inclusive dining options
“From the moment we started planning with Tarrytown House Estate, Jenna and the team showed they genuinely cared about making our day special. Over several months, Jenna went above and beyond to handle every detail, and it showed on our wedding day—nothing was out of place and everything ran smoothly. The venue itself is gorgeous, with a charming and intimate feel that made our celebration feel personal. What really stood out was how organized and kind the entire TTHE team was; they took care of us and our guests so well that we could actually enjoy the moment instead of worrying about logistics. We honestly can't imagine having celebrated with anyone else, and we're grateful they were such a huge part of making our wedding weekend amazing. Five stars to the whole crew!”
Nicolette S., 6 days ago
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Tappan Hill Mansion 
Rating: 5.0 (6 reviews)
Tarrytown, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

Tappan Hill Mansion is located on the former estate of Mark Twain in the scenic Hudson Valley. Just 45 minutes from midtown Manhattan, the Mansion is easily accessible from the entire tri-state area. Nestled on a hilltop overlooking the Hudson, this stunning stone structure features luxurious rooms and garden terraces ideal for weddings, meetings, gala fundraisers, product launches or any occasion you can imagine. Tappan Hill is perfect for hosting a wide range of events from intimate gatherings to mansion-wide celebrations. With views of a stunning, newly renovated garden, The Hudson Room is perfect for small weddings, rehearsal dinners, anniversaries and meetings, while the Pavilion Room hosts larger gatherings. Both rooms have expansive glass, stunning views and all the requisite amenities. Whatever the occasion, this historic setting is the perfect backdrop for the most special events.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-premises lodging options
“Our wedding at Tappan Hill Mansion was everything we dreamed of and more. From the stunning grounds and beautiful indoor spaces to the incredible food and impeccable service, every single detail exceeded our expectations. The staff was truly exceptional from start to finish. Every member of the team was professional, attentive, kind, and always one step ahead. They made sure everything ran seamlessly, allowing us, our families, and our guests to relax and fully enjoy the day. We never had to worry about a thing because they had everything under control. The service throughout the entire evening was absolutely top-notch. Our guests are still talking about how attentive the staff was, how delicious the food was, and how beautiful the venue is. Every detail was executed flawlessly, and the team made us feel like we were their only wedding that day. If you’re looking for a venue that combines breathtaking scenery, outstanding food, and an incredible team that truly cares about making your day perfect, Tappan Hill Mansion is it. We couldn’t have imagined a better place to celebrate our wedding, and we would choose it again in a heartbeat. Thank you for giving us the most unforgettable day. 10/10!”
Alexis B., 4 months ago
Clarkstown Reformed Church 
West Nyack, NY
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,000

Steeped in rich history and timeless charm, Clarkstown Reformed Church offers an enchanting setting for couples seeking a deeply meaningful, traditional wedding ceremony. Serving the community with warmth and hospitality since 1750, this historic West Nyack venue provides a breathtaking backdrop for your sacred vows. The majestic Main Sanctuary surrounds your celebration with a beautiful atmosphere of faith, friendship, and enduring devotion as you embark on your journey together, making it an elegant canvas for your special day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Classic elegance
  • Both indoor and outdoor options

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • On-site parking not available

About wedding venues in Old Tappan, NJ

Why Choose New Jersey for Your Wedding Day?

New Jersey gives you four distinct regions with unique wedding settings and styles to match any vision. September tops the charts for wedding inquiries here, so you'll want to plan ahead if you're eyeing a date during peak season. The varied landscapes mean you can find everything from waterfront elegance to historic charm without traveling far.

What Types of Wedding Venues Can You Find in New Jersey?

The venue scene in New Jersey covers just about every style imaginable. Luxury estates like Park Chateau in East Brunswick offer stunning French-inspired architecture with gorgeous European gardens that make for incredible photo backdrops. If water views are your thing, places like Liberty House showcase breathtaking NYC skyline panoramas right alongside the water. History buffs fall in love with venues like Pleasantdale Chateau in West Orange with its historic grounds and Mediterranean gardens. Modern couples gravitate toward industrial spaces such as The Art Factory in Paterson where contemporary design meets character and uniqueness.

How Much Should You Budget for a New Jersey Wedding?

Wedding venues in New Jersey typically run between $8,600 and $10,600, which falls right in line with the national range of $6,500-$12,000. Your overall costs will scale with your guest count. A 50-person celebration averages around $25,059 while stepping up to 100 guests pushes that to $41,588. Mid-sized weddings with 150 guests come in around $57,123 and larger gatherings of 200 reach about $71,002. Going bigger? Expect to invest around $84,881 for 250 guests or $98,761 for 300 guests. These figures help you set realistic expectations as you start planning.

Which Budget Categories Matter Most for New Jersey Celebrations?

Knowing where your money typically goes helps you allocate your budget effectively. Venues take the biggest slice at about 17% of your total budget or $9,599 for a 150-guest wedding. Florals follow at 14% costing around $7,821 while catering represents 13% at approximately $7,679. Bar services run about $6,143 or 11% of your budget. Photography investments average $5,674 (10%) with planning services at $4,622 (8%). Videography accounts for 7% at $4,051 and entertainment like bands or DJs takes 4% at $2,370. Sweet treats like cakes and desserts are surprisingly affordable at just $960 (2%) with hair and makeup coming in at $450 (1%).

ServiceAverage Cost% of Total (150 guests)
Venue$9,59917%
Florists$7,82114%
Catering$7,67913%
Bar Services$6,14311%
Photographers$5,67410%
Planners$4,6228%
Videographers$4,0517%
Bands and DJs$2,3704%
Cakes and desserts$9602%
Hair & Makeup$4501%

Where Can You Find Exceptional Culinary Experiences in New Jersey?

The Manor in West Orange houses one of America's most acclaimed kitchens with multiple ballroom options to match your party size. You'll love Liberty House in Jersey City where farm-to-table cuisine comes with those incredible NYC skyline views we mentioned earlier. Hudson House brings Italian influence through Executive Chef Matteo Limoli's creative menu designs. The Rockleigh adjusts their menus seasonally and can customize dishes to match your personal tastes. Food quality varies dramatically between venues so tastings are essential.

What Options Exist for Accessible Wedding Venues in New Jersey?

The Rockleigh can accommodate massive celebrations with up to 850 guests while offering both grand ballrooms and beautiful outdoor garden settings. Bridgewater Manor features elegant chandeliers a grand staircase and beautifully maintained grounds that photograph wonderfully. Always reach out directly to venues about specific accessibility features you need. Most have wheelchair ramps and accessible restrooms but details matter when creating an inclusive celebration for all your guests.

How Can New Jersey Venues Accommodate Remote Guests?

Crystal Springs Resort in Sussex County offers virtual tours that can be adapted for remote guest experiences. Liberty House and Hudson House provide scenic settings that work perfectly with advanced audiovisual systems to bring your ceremony to distant loved ones. Bonnet Island Estate offers unique backdrops that videographers can capture creatively for those who can't attend in person. More venues now offer hybrid options after the pandemic changed how we think about celebrations.

What Makes Your New Jersey Wedding Uniquely Yours?

You'll find your perfect match in New Jersey whether you're drawn to waterfront venues with Manhattan skyline backdrops historic estates with classical architectural details or modern spaces with industrial charm. The state's diverse regions offer venues across many price points and styles. Your wedding should reflect who you are as a couple and New Jersey's venue landscape gives you plenty of options to create that personalized celebration regardless of your budget or aesthetic preferences.

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