The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in New Durham, NH

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in New Durham, NH

How do we sort results, including Sponsored Ads and personalized results?


8 Wedding Venues in New Durham, NH

Historic estates, mansions
250-300 guests
Quick responder
The Barn at Flanagan Farm 

5.0

Buxton, ME
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $13,500
  • Offer

Flanagan Farm hosts exquisite events year round. With two magnificent barns set on 66 acres, the property is versatile and accommodating—designed to take advantage of Maine’s four seasons. Flanagan Farm offers an unforgettable backdrop to host your event, whether it is an intimate gathering, an all out bash, or the wonderful options in between. Weddings at Flanagan Farm include use of the entire property, including overnight accommodations in the farmhouse for 10-12 guests from Thursday through Sunday. You are welcome to host your ceremony and reception on site, as well as rehearsal dinner, welcome drinks, and even a farewell brunch if you'd like. Additionally, Flanagan Farm is among the closest wedding venues to Portland, at just 25 minutes drive, so many couples love that they can combine the best of Portland (including hotels or rental homes for guests) with the natural beauty of an elevated outdoor setting for their wedding weekend.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Dressing room available
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Requires outside catering services
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
The Barn at Flanagan Farm was an incredible venue for our wedding. From the very beginning, the communication with the team was thorough, professional, and friendly. They were extremely helpful in walking us through all the details and ensuring everything was taken care of. The grounds and farmhouse/barn provided a beautiful, clean slate for us to transform into our dream wedding. The rehearsal dinner skating on their private rink could not have been more perfect - everything was communicated ahead of time and Mike was onsite to assist us if needed. I truly do not have enough good things to say about Flanagan Farm. The grounds are stunning, the barn is fit to transform however you choose, and the farmhouse was the perfect place for our wedding party to stay. We are so grateful to the team at Flanagan Farm for helping make our special day so magical.
Emmy M., 9 months ago
Quick responder
NHC Events at Searles Castle 

5.0

Windham, NH
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

If you’re searching for a setting with an elegance and style all its own, consider a Searles Castle Wedding. Imagine your wedding here at our authentic English Tudor castle nestled in the New Hampshire woods, high atop a 175-acre estate. You will begin your day with Bridal preparations in our Master Bedroom Bridal suite followed by a spectacular Courtyard Ceremony. Guest will enjoy a cocktail hour with passed Hors-d’oeuvres inside the castle and in the courtyard. The festivities will continue with a Reception in our climate controlled Palladium-style Euro tent. Searles Castle at Windham offers that truly unique setting, and we’re conveniently located 30 miles north of Boston, less than five minutes from Rte.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
From the moment we first inquired about hosting our wedding at Searles Castle, the team was responsive, attentive, and flexible in accommodating our needs. The venue itself is absolutely beautiful, with a unique and well-appointed space that felt both spacious and intimate for our special day. Shawn and his team went above and beyond to ensure our wedding day went smoothly - they were super accommodating of our guests with mobility issues and I never found myself worrying as the bride, confident that the entire day would flow seamlessly. No request felt too big, and the team was very helpful when we needed direction on what to do. Having the day of coordinator included here is such a big benefit, and they rock at it. While booking we were reading all the five-star reviews for Searles, we knew we were choosing a great venue, but experiencing it firsthand was even better than we could have imagined. I've heard so many horror stories from other brides about their venues, but Searles was organized, attentive, and truly professional throughout the entire process. Not a single thing went wrong. We couldn't have asked for a better wedding day at this beautiful and unique space! Thank you!
katie a., 18 days ago
The Portland Club 

5.0

Portland, ME
  • Up to 275 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor

The 1805 Ballroom, located in the heart of Portland, is a timeless venue for your next event. Featuring a newly renovated 3,500-square-foot ballroom on the first floor of the Hunnewell-Shepley house, this luxe mansion is the perfect blend of old-world opulence and modern city comfort.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Historic touches
  • Creates a sense of togetherness

Venue considerations

  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • On-site parking not available
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
I can not say enough about the Portland Club. I love the Ballroom renovations! The ease of set up is great for our staff. Location, location, location. If you are looking for a venue that is walking distance to nearby hotels this is the place for you! Laurie Andrews Design
Olivia G., a year ago
Quick responder
State Theatre Portland 

5.0

Portland, ME
  • Up to 500 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $8,000

The State Theatre, located at 609 Congress Street in the heart of Portland, Maine’s Arts District was originally built as a first-run movie house in 1929. The historic building recently underwent a multi-million dollar renovation to restore its glory. The bi-level venue has an ornate period lobby, amazing sight-lines from any seat in the house and ample green rooms. Flexible seating plans, comfortable bar areas and a renovated kitchen make the State Theatre an excellent choice for a wide range of events. From weddings, receptions & private special celebrations, the State Theatre can easily transform for a wide range of events!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
From the very beginning, the team was incredibly communicative, responding promptly to all of our questions and guiding us through the planning process. Meg ensured that everything ran smoothly, allowing us to simply enjoy the celebration without having to worry about any logistics. The team's attention to detail and commitment to excellence truly made our wedding day unforgettable. We are so grateful to them for helping to make our vision a reality.
Cat S., 7 months ago
Quick responder
Bear Mountain Inn + Barn 

5.0

Waterford, ME
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $12,500

Nestled at the base of Maine’s picturesque White Mountains in the serene lakes region of Waterford, Bear Mountain Inn + Barn is the ultimate wedding destination. Our modern farmhouse offers an exclusive buy-out and a stunning lakefront event venue that seamlessly blends heritage and luxury with the modern amenities today's couples desire. Just one hour from Portland and 2.5 hours from Boston, it's the perfect spot for your special day. We take care of every detail with our comprehensive services, including setup and breakdown, expert wedding venue coordination, comfortable lodging, cozy fire pits, and beautiful ceremony sites. Create the perfect lifetime memory with us, uniquely tailored to your vision. We host elegant barn receptions for up to 150 guests year-round and tented outdoor weddings for up to 250* guests from May through November. Intimate elopements and micro weddings are also available through the winter months.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Private area for the wedding party

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
I couldn’t imagine getting married anywhere else than the Bear Mountain Inn. It is a very magical place and the owners and employees made you feel like apart of the family. Everything is so clean and they make you feel really special the entire time! My close friends and family got to spend 3 full days with us as we celebrated the best weekend of our lives! I highly recommend this venue, 10/10!
Sarah C., 10 months ago
The Venue at Portwalk Place 
Portsmouth, NH
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Signature Portsmouth, NH Seacoast weddings are a specialty at The Venue at Portwalk Place. Our charming wedding venues marry classic coastal elegance with versatile event space that is certain to provide the perfect backdrop for your special celebration in Portsmouth, NH. Our understated elegance can be easily customized to reflect your unique style, creating a personalized experience for you and your guests. With over 4,600 square feet of flexible event and pre-function space, our New Hampshire wedding venue can effortlessly build an event that brings your vision to life and comfortably accommodates 15 – 250 guests. Our experienced and attentive staff takes care of the details so you can enjoy every moment of your special day. We’ll work with you to create an unforgettable experience based on your budget, style and guest needs. The Venue at Portwalk Place offers a variety of Wedding Packages to accommodate your wedding vision.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
The Hawthorn Portsmouth NH 
Portsmouth, NH
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Our story begins in 1858 when Frank Jones arrived in Portsmouth with a dream of brewing ale. Within three decades, The Frank Jones Brewery became the largest ale producer in the country. As ale production expanded, the brewery added a cooperage and scald house to clean the barrels. Workers used scalding hot rocks to sanitize barrels because soap and water would cause them to warp. Once cleaned, the barrels were filled with Jones’ signature ales. The Hawthorn now occupies this Scald House, retaining its original red-brick walls, towering beams, and industrial windows. “Cheers,” then, has a whole new meaning at The Hawthorn. When you raise your glass at your event, you’ll be toasting in a place that’s positively brewing with Portsmouth ale-making heritage and local history.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Additional event staff required
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
First Religious Society Unitarian Universalist 
Newburyport, MA
  • Up to 500 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $800

This iconic 1801 meetinghouse, known for its Federalist style architecture, is located within the historic district of downtown Newburyport, Ma. Its steeple, a renowned symbol of this quaint New England town, is visible from miles around. Atop the steeple sits a bell crafted by the Paul Revere & Sons foundry in 1816. Inside the meeting house, your guests will sit in the original box pews surrounded by 41 large pane glass windows which illuminate the sanctuary with natural light all year round. The meetinghouse also houses the 1834 Joseph Alley organ and an 1898 Steinway model A grand piano. The space is also set up for live streaming.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Does not have a dance floor
  • On-site parking not available
  • No on-premises lodging options

Location flexible? Discover venues near New Durham, NH

About wedding venues in New Durham, NH

Getting married in New Hampshire gives you authentic New England charm with settings you won't find anywhere else. The Granite State surrounds you with majestic White Mountain peaks, crystal-clear lakes like Winnipesaukee and historic properties dating back to the 1700s. You'll enjoy a perfect backdrop for celebrations that blend rustic elegance with natural splendor; exactly what makes New Hampshire weddings so special.

What Makes New Hampshire Wedding Venues Unique?

Each region of New Hampshire delivers a completely different wedding experience. In the White Mountains you can say "I do" against dramatic 4,000-foot peak backdrops with alpine meadows perfect for outdoor ceremonies. The Lakes Region offers venues with private docks where you can host waterfront celebrations or even arrive by boat. Southern New Hampshire venues give you proximity to Manchester Airport making transportation convenient for your out-of-state guests while Seacoast venues like Wentworth By The Sea combine stunning Atlantic Ocean views with historic Colonial-era architecture.

How Much Do Wedding Venues in New Hampshire Cost?

Wedding venue costs in New Hampshire typically range from $9,900-$12,100 compared to the national average of $6,500-$12,000.

For different guest counts, expect total wedding costs around:

  • 50 guests: $25,260
  • 100 guests: $42,178
  • 150 guests: $58,078
  • 200 guests: $72,284
  • 250 guests: $86,489
  • 300 guests: $100,694

Which Accessible Wedding Venues Serve New Hampshire Couples?

The Bedford Village Inn provides fully accessible spaces with gentle illumination systems that benefit guests with sensory sensitivities. You'll find wheelchair-friendly pathways throughout the estate and dedicated coordinators specially trained in accessibility needs to ensure everyone at your celebration feels comfortable and included.

Where Can You Find Remote-Friendly Wedding Venues in New Hampshire?

Mountain View Grand Resort in Whitefield offers advanced remote participation features with state-of-the-art facilities against a stunning mountain backdrop. Wentworth By The Sea Country Club in Portsmouth provides sophisticated settings with interactive virtual elements so distant loved ones can truly participate. At Steele Hill Resorts in Sanbornton you'll enjoy panoramic lake views while the venue integrates advanced virtual participation tools for your remote guests.

Which New Hampshire Venues Offer Exceptional Culinary Experiences?

Inn at Pleasant Lake stands out as an award-winning venue known for exquisite culinary offerings in New London. Flag Hill Distillery & Winery provides unique wine pairings in a picturesque vineyard setting you and your guests will love. Gunstock Inn & Resort offers state-of-the-art dining experiences with historic charm in Gilford. Rivermill at Dover Landing gives you flexibility to bring your own chefs for custom culinary experiences tailored exactly to your taste.

How Should You Budget for Wedding Vendors in New Hampshire?

Beyond venue costs understanding vendor expenses helps you create a comprehensive budget plan:

ServiceAverage Cost% of Total (150 guests)
Venue$11,02119%
Catering$8,81715%
Bar Services$7,05312%
Florists$6,04410%
Planners$5,2339%
Videographers$4,5368%
Photographers$4,2667%
Bands/DJs$1,8003%
Hair & Makeup$7001%
Cakes$7111%

Getting married in New Hampshire gives you authentic New England charm with settings you won't find anywhere else. The Granite State surrounds you with majestic White Mountain peaks, crystal-clear lakes like Winnipesaukee and historic properties dating back to the 1700s. You'll enjoy a perfect backdrop for celebrations that blend rustic elegance with natural splendor; exactly what makes New Hampshire weddings so special.

What Makes New Hampshire Wedding Venues Unique?

Each region of New Hampshire delivers a completely different wedding experience. In the White Mountains you can say "I do" against dramatic 4,000-foot peak backdrops with alpine meadows perfect for outdoor ceremonies. The Lakes Region offers venues with private docks where you can host waterfront celebrations or even arrive by boat. Southern New Hampshire venues give you proximity to Manchester Airport making transportation convenient for your out-of-state guests while Seacoast venues like Wentworth By The Sea combine stunning Atlantic Ocean views with historic Colonial-era architecture.

How Much Do Wedding Venues in New Hampshire Cost?

Wedding venue costs in New Hampshire typically range from $9,900-$12,100 compared to the national average of $6,500-$12,000.

For different guest counts, expect total wedding costs around:

  • 50 guests: $25,260
  • 100 guests: $42,178
  • 150 guests: $58,078
  • 200 guests: $72,284
  • 250 guests: $86,489
  • 300 guests: $100,694

Which Accessible Wedding Venues Serve New Hampshire Couples?

The Bedford Village Inn provides fully accessible spaces with gentle illumination systems that benefit guests with sensory sensitivities. You'll find wheelchair-friendly pathways throughout the estate and dedicated coordinators specially trained in accessibility needs to ensure everyone at your celebration feels comfortable and included.

Where Can You Find Remote-Friendly Wedding Venues in New Hampshire?

Mountain View Grand Resort in Whitefield offers advanced remote participation features with state-of-the-art facilities against a stunning mountain backdrop. Wentworth By The Sea Country Club in Portsmouth provides sophisticated settings with interactive virtual elements so distant loved ones can truly participate. At Steele Hill Resorts in Sanbornton you'll enjoy panoramic lake views while the venue integrates advanced virtual participation tools for your remote guests.

Which New Hampshire Venues Offer Exceptional Culinary Experiences?

Inn at Pleasant Lake stands out as an award-winning venue known for exquisite culinary offerings in New London. Flag Hill Distillery & Winery provides unique wine pairings in a picturesque vineyard setting you and your guests will love. Gunstock Inn & Resort offers state-of-the-art dining experiences with historic charm in Gilford. Rivermill at Dover Landing gives you flexibility to bring your own chefs for custom culinary experiences tailored exactly to your taste.

How Should You Budget for Wedding Vendors in New Hampshire?

Beyond venue costs understanding vendor expenses helps you create a comprehensive budget plan:

ServiceAverage Cost% of Total (150 guests)
Venue$11,02119%
Catering$8,81715%
Bar Services$7,05312%
Florists$6,04410%
Planners$5,2339%
Videographers$4,5368%
Photographers$4,2667%
Bands/DJs$1,8003%
Hair & Makeup$7001%
Cakes$7111%

What types of wedding venues are in New Durham, NH?

What other New Durham vendors will I need?

What other wedding venues are nearby?

What other wedding services are nearby?