The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Herkimer, NY

We believe that every love story is beautiful and deserves the perfect setting for its most special day. With multiple ceremony sites to choose from, 700 private acres, a 740-acre lake, meadows, woods, gardens, mountain views, accredited culinary and service staff, dedicated wedding planners, luxury lodge, cabin & guest house accommodations, on-site spa and floral/décor services, an extensive list of seasonal activities – and breathtaking scenery all four seasons of the year – we believe that our resort just might be the right place for you.

We are not just a venue, we are a full wedding weekend experience! From welcome drinks and rehearsal dinners to your wedding day and farewell brunch, your entire celebration unfolds on one private property, so your guests stay together and the energy never drops. Our pricing is designed to be straightforward and inclusive, with tables, chairs, and on-site lodging all built in. You’ll also have hands-on planning support throughout the process, helping coordinate rentals, catering, and every detail that brings your vision to life. We offer in-house bar services to keep things seamless, so you can focus on celebrating and not managing logistics. Host your ceremony and reception in our elevated barn, then transition seamlessly into late-night fires, after-parties, and next-day recovery with your closest friends and family!

When you get married at Ashling, you get the entire property to yourself. From your rehearsal to your day-after brunch, it's all yours. We handle the tent, tables, chairs, and bathroom trailer. Plus we have a wedding coordinator on-site for you, along with unique accommodations for 20 people. You choose your caterer and DJ, and we make it happen.

A family-owned haven nestled in the rolling hills of Upstate New York, Heritage Barn blends historic charm with modern natural elegance for a full wedding weekend. From sweeping valley views and cozy on-site lodging to thoughtful care and heartfelt hospitality from our dedicated team, every celebration feels personal, joyful, and deeply meaningful... a home away from home where loved ones gather, reconnect, and create memories that last a lifetime.

Gilbertsville Farmhouse is a 125-acre, resort-style luxury farm in the mountains of central New York, hosting weddings of up to 200 guests. We specialize in 3-day weekend weddings, with 30 designer lodging suites and a 2-story treehouse-inspired Sweetheart Glamping Safari Tent. We are known for our laid-back vibe and luxurious and chic spaces. Gilbertsville Farmhouse has 4 spectacular barn spaces, including a stunning chandelier-filled reception barn and an after-party lounge that rivals and NYC cocktail bar. Our free-roaming farm animals set a majestic backdrop to a unique and fun-filled weekend, and add character and beauty to an already scenic mountainside setting. We are home to the famous NY Goat Yoga goats and our resident beer burros, Frida and Chico! Gilbertsville Farmhouse is a top destination venue - a favorite of musicians, actors, and other creatives. Celebrate like celebrities and plan the "best weekend ever" at a venue that has no comparison anywhere in the world.

View our weekend wedding package pricing on our website. We most often work with couples investing between $100,000 and $300,000+ in their wedding experience, though your total investment will depend on your vision, guest count, and personal priorities. A Wedding Experience as Unique as Your Love Story The Maples Estate is more than just a wedding venue—it’s an immersive, weekend-long experience where you can relax, connect, and celebrate in nature. Nestled in Upstate New York’s Hudson Valley, our historic private estate offers thoughtfully designed spaces, sweeping landscapes, and a seamless planning experience to bring your dream wedding to life. With three nights of exclusive lodging in our charming farmhouse, the freedom to choose your own vendors, and expert wedding planning support included, your wedding weekend will feel effortless, joyful, and truly one of a kind. Escape the ordinary and create unforgettable memories with the people you love most.

Blenheim Hill Farm is a heavenly wedding destination in the Catskills Mountains. Our capacity is from 70-200 guests. We grow the food and cook it for you in ​our ​own kitchen. You don't have to worry about outside catering, rentals, or even a planner. Our in-house team helps you every step of the way, and everything is included. Our historic farmhouses ​ ​are gorgeously appointed sanctuaries for you and your family, sleeping up to 40 guests. With over 15 years in farm-to-table dining and destination weddings, we are committed to hosting your best-day-ever with extraordinary attention to detail, making it a very personal experience.

The Lounge offers an intimate nature inspired design that is perfect for your dinner on Friday night and rearrange the furniture to operate as a bar and lounge during the reception. The Kempwick Commons Hall was renovated to accommodate your perfect nature inspired reception. With a unique feature wall, wood beams, polished concrete floors, a wall of windows looking out to the forest, and a built in photobooth wall its the ideal place to celebrate. We are dedicated to creating unique experiences through our elevated food and exquisite hospitality. We do offer preset menu options for your convenience. However, we really enjoy spending time to learn about what you love so we can craft the perfect menu and level of service to complement you as a couple the uniqueness of Vanderkamp.

You are making your way down the aisle. All eyes fall upon you as you approach your spouse-to-be. You take your vows on the shores of the lake – the setting sun dancing off the waters just for you or in the gazebo with the classic buildings in the backdrop for the romantic moment – and the ring slides down your finger. Hundreds of your closest family and friends smile at you. They’ve never seen someone so lovely, or more elegant. Now, it is time to celebrate your life-long journey with a top-of-the-line wedding experience like no other. Whatever your wedding dreams may be, at The White Eagle Banquet & Conference Center, we specialize in making them all come true.

Build in 19th century, Catskill Ranch welcome you to a place where rustic charm, natural beauty, and timeless elegance converge to create your perfect wedding venue. Located in Catskill, NY on a 30.6-acre property, the venue highlights a lakeview with the still water reflecting the sky and surrounding landscape. With its rich history, the farmhouse adds a sense of character and warmth to your experience. Beyond the farmhouse lies an open meadow where the vibrant wildflowers blooming creates a stunning contrast while filling the air with their delicate fragrance. Forest trails weave through the property, offering moments of quiet beauty, ideal for intimate walks and private photos with your loved one. Our venue is the perfect place for an outdoor ceremony, where nature becomes an extension of your celebration. The 10,000 sqft welcome area is a vast open space with a stunning rose garden with flowers. The massive barn is lovingly renovated to blend the best of rustic elegance & comfort.

Located in the picturesque hills of Chittenango, The Ridge (1281 Salt Springs Rd) is a versatile "homegrown" event venue known for its laid-back atmosphere, live music, and scenic views. Once a golf course, it has evolved into a dedicated space for community gatherings and private celebrations.