The Best Wedding Venues in Durham, NH

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8 Wedding Venues in Durham, NH

Beaches, waterfront settings
Farms, barns, ranches
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Attean Lake Lodge 
Rating: 5.0 (3 reviews)
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Offer

Located on Attean Lake, "the most beautiful lake in Maine", we offer all inclusive lakeside cabin rentals on a 24-acre island just outside of Jackman, Maine. Our secluded lodge is the perfect place to unplug and enjoy nature's escape. Our lodge does have solar power and wifi 24/7. Attean Lake Lodge boasts many activities, and entertainment to provide a fun, stress-free venue where you can unplug and relax! 4th Generation owners, Barrett and Josie Holden strive to keep the lodge all that it is- a family getaway where you can disconnect to reconnect.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Private area for the wedding party

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
“This June my husband and I were married at Attean Lake Lodge. It truly was an amazing experience from beginning to end. The entire staff were professional, down to earth, and genuine. The island, amenities, and cabins were clean and comfy with picturesque views that made the weekend surreal. Not to mention the food was out of this world. We couldn’t have been happier to have been wed on the island and we look forward to having family reunions to come back there!”
Maddie, 2 years ago
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Hardy Farm c.1750 
Rating: 5.0 (28 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
  • Up to 180 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor

Established in 1750 as an English land grant in the picturesque White Mountains of Maine (then the “Massachusetts Bay Colony”), Hardy Farm remained in the same family for ten generations prior to being purchased by Greg and Deborah Link in 2001. After a The Links transformed Hardy Farm into a very special and unique “rustic elegant” venue for weddings and events offering an authentically historic feel, with a distinctly unique ambiance of contemporary yet rustic elegance featuring all of today's modern amenities. Hardy Farm accommodates up to 32 people overnight and the property encompasses 13 acres with beautiful gardens and stone patios, fire pit, the farmhouse, barn, lodge, woodland chapel, and their own 103’ sailcloth tent. Guests at Hardy Farm enjoy the beautiful rural New England setting with convenient proximity to North Conway, NH, and the Mt. Washington Valley, offering a myriad of year-round outdoor activities.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Feels like a getaway

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • No built-in audiovisual options
“From the moment we first reached out to Hardy Farm, the communication was quick, thorough and detailed. The event manager was incredibly responsive and flexible, catering to any last minute changes with ease to ensure our day went off without a hitch. The venue itself provided an intimate, inclusive atmosphere that felt perfectly accommodating for our wedding. The optional onsite lodging was perfect for our bridal party, out-of-town friends and family, and allowed everyone to fully enjoy the celebration. Hardy Farm's attention to detail and seamless execution made our special day truly unforgettable.”
Amber P., 2 years ago
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Emery Farm Stays 
Rating: 5.0 (2 reviews)
Durham, NH
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $12,800
  • Offer

Welcome! Nestled amid 130 acres of rolling fields and tranquil woodlands in Durham, NH, Emery Farmstay offers you and your partner a breathtaking blend of history, charm, and rural elegance on your wedding day. Built in 1803, The Big Barn is at the heart of the property, and its fabulous post-and-beam structure provides a welcoming space for both intimate and lavish affairs. You and a select group of guests will enjoy the luxurious on-site accommodations, thoughtfully appointed for this exact occasion. A Little Bit of History Repeating Founded in 1660 by Joseph and Mary Smith, Emery Farmstay proudly holds the distinction of being America’s oldest family farm, now lovingly cared for by the eleventh generation, David and Catherine. Beautifully restored historic homes, surrounded by pastures, blueberry fields, and the gentle rhythm of farm life, combine to create an atmosphere that is both timeless and deeply personal, a truly one-of-a-kind backdrop for a bespoke wedding celebration.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Has onsite accommodations

Venue considerations

  • No venue-provided food services
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
“Emery Farm is an absolutely stunning wedding venue—full of charm, warmth, and vibrant character. The Big Barn feels truly special, where rich history blends seamlessly with the joy of creating new, unforgettable memories.”
Celie, 8 months ago
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The Envio 
Rating: 5.0 (3 reviews)
Portsmouth, NH
  • Up to 299 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Create the day of your dreams with stunning seacoast views & luxury spaces. Fabulous views of the Portsmouth waterfront sets The Envio as the premier wedding reception venue in downtown Portsmouth NH. The one-of-a-kind sightlines of the New Hampshire seacoast and Piscataqua River are complemented by a stylish and luxurious design to create an unforgettable backdrop for weddings of all sizes. Gather for cocktails and light fare on the outdoor terrace. The Envio Pre-Function Room offers a bright, airy space featuring floor-to-ceiling windows. Celebrate your reception in The Ballroom, a lavish space accommodating up to 300 guests. For smaller affairs, the ballroom can be divided into three smaller spaces.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Designed for grand celebrations

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • No free parking
  • Not wheelchair accessible
“Cannot say enough amazing things about the Envio in Portsmouth, NH!!!! Katryn and her team made our dream wedding come true this past NYE. Clear communication, new and beautiful space, and no details missed. Guests raved about the food, friendliness of the staff, the hotel location right downtown Portsmouth. They think of everything and ensure the bride and groom are very well taken care. I cannot recommend this venue and wonderful team of staff more, from signing the contract to the food tasting to arrivals /departures we were supported every step. Thank you, Katryn and The Envio!! We had the best day xoxo K & D”
Katie D., 9 months ago
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Moffatt-Ladd House & Garden 
Rating: 5.0 (5 reviews)
Portsmouth, NH
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $2,000
  • Offer

Nestled in the heart of historic Portsmouth, the Moffatt-Ladd House & Garden offers an intimate and enchanting setting for couples dreaming of a wedding that feels both timeless and personal. Built in 1763, this National Historic Landmark is defined by its lush formal gardens, brick pathways, and centuries-old charm—perfect for an elegant outdoor celebration. Exchange vows surrounded by seasonal blooms and classic New England beauty, then gather with your guests in a space that feels like a private garden estate. Every corner of the grounds offers a picturesque backdrop, creating an atmosphere that is warm, romantic, and effortlessly memorable. As a space-only venue, Moffatt-Ladd allows you the freedom to curate a wedding that reflects your vision and style, with trusted local vendor recommendations and thoughtful support along the way. Ideal for couples seeking a refined, romantic setting with historic character and natural beauty.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Natural elegance with open spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Dance floor not included
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
“Always a beautiful location for a wedding ceremony!”
Tammy B., a year ago
Martingale Wharf 
Rating: 5.0 (3 reviews)
Portsmouth, NH
  • Up to 140 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $1,750

Perched along the picturesque Piscataqua River, Martingale Wharf is Portsmouth’s premier waterfront destination. Featuring two private event spaces for up to 50 guests and the option for a full restaurant buyout accommodating up to 200, it offers a versatile setting for any occasion. Conveniently located within walking distance of hotels and parking garages, and just minutes from I-95, it provides a central yet serene riverside escape.

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Dance floor not included
“The team was great, responsive, helpful, anticipative. They made it a wonderful experience.”
Sonya, 2 years ago
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The Barn at Union Lake Orchard 
Rating: 5.0 (21 reviews)
Barrington, NH
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $2,500

Welcome to The Barn at Union Lake Orchard. This 3rd generation farm has been offering its farm fresh produce for 40 years. Our hand crafted, 3 story, timber frame event Barn provides you the beauty and timelessness of farmland in Barrington, NH. Framed by colorful flowers and rows of lush peach trees this event space will be one to remember. Our wedding season is late May through mid October. We have several options for outside ceremonies. And all of our couples enjoy the flexibility of hiring their own vendors to complement their style and stay within their budget.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Flexible event spaces
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Lush gardens

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
“Our day at The Barn at Union Lake Orchard was better than we could have expected. From our first conversation, they made us feel welcomed and answered every question we had without hesitation. The venue itself has a rustic charm that felt so genuine and full of heart, and every detail came together perfectly for our big day. Karen and Ryan went above and beyond to make sure everything ran smoothly, and their hospitality made both us and our guests feel truly cared for. The photos from our wedding capture exactly what we mean when we say it was a picture perfect venue! We would recommend them in a heartbeat to any couple looking for a special place to celebrate their love!”
Molly W., 2 months ago
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Saltonstall Farm 
Rating: 5.0 (2 reviews)
Stratham, NH
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

Historic, breath taking 4 story barn The farm and barn are about 200 years old, and the barn was originally used for cows. Over the years, it has been very well taken care of, so the original beams are still there, in sizes and shapes that you just can't get anymore! The owners are the third generation in their family to take care of the property and are very grateful to be the current stewards. The barn renovations completed in 2020 and it is all ADA compliant and up to code. In the barn, there is a full sound system, 14 chandeliers, a beautiful live edge bar top, two high end composting toilets (the flushing kind!), massive barn blue doors on each end, and a grand entrance staircase. The barn holds up to 200 people and is big enough that you don't have to rent a tent even with tables and chairs, a major benefit and money saver! In the event of rain, you can use the barn as a ceremony and reception space.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Unique barn setting
  • Wheelchair accessible

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • No all-inclusive dining options
“Sophie and Kyle are down to earth, caring, and a joy to work with. We planned a wedding for June of 2020 and had to postpone the reception by a year, which was no problem at all. The farm is a truly idyllic setting, and the 5-story newly renovated barn is astoundingly beautiful and fully equipped for multimedia experiences. Everyone who attended our party had a well-deserved blast after sheltering in place for so long. Thank you, Saltonstalls! Best wishes for your new adventures. <3”
Sean & H., 5 years ago

About wedding venues in Durham, NH

Getting married in New Hampshire gives you authentic New England charm with settings you won't find anywhere else. The Granite State surrounds you with majestic White Mountain peaks, crystal-clear lakes like Winnipesaukee and historic properties dating back to the 1700s. You'll enjoy a perfect backdrop for celebrations that blend rustic elegance with natural splendor; exactly what makes New Hampshire weddings so special.

What Makes New Hampshire Wedding Venues Unique?

Each region of New Hampshire delivers a completely different wedding experience. In the White Mountains you can say "I do" against dramatic 4,000-foot peak backdrops with alpine meadows perfect for outdoor ceremonies. The Lakes Region offers venues with private docks where you can host waterfront celebrations or even arrive by boat. Southern New Hampshire venues give you proximity to Manchester Airport making transportation convenient for your out-of-state guests while Seacoast venues like Wentworth By The Sea combine stunning Atlantic Ocean views with historic Colonial-era architecture.

How Much Do Wedding Venues in New Hampshire Cost?

Wedding venue costs in New Hampshire typically range from $9,900-$12,100 compared to the national average of $6,500-$12,000. For different guest counts, expect total wedding costs around: - 50 guests: $25,260 - 100 guests: $42,178 - 150 guests: $58,078 - 200 guests: $72,284 - 250 guests: $86,489 - 300 guests: $100,694

Which Accessible Wedding Venues Serve New Hampshire Couples?

The Bedford Village Inn provides fully accessible spaces with gentle illumination systems that benefit guests with sensory sensitivities. You'll find wheelchair-friendly pathways throughout the estate and dedicated coordinators specially trained in accessibility needs to ensure everyone at your celebration feels comfortable and included.

Where Can You Find Remote-Friendly Wedding Venues in New Hampshire?

Mountain View Grand Resort in Whitefield offers advanced remote participation features with state-of-the-art facilities against a stunning mountain backdrop. Wentworth By The Sea Country Club in Portsmouth provides sophisticated settings with interactive virtual elements so distant loved ones can truly participate. At Steele Hill Resorts in Sanbornton you'll enjoy panoramic lake views while the venue integrates advanced virtual participation tools for your remote guests.

Which New Hampshire Venues Offer Exceptional Culinary Experiences?

Inn at Pleasant Lake stands out as an award-winning venue known for exquisite culinary offerings in New London. Flag Hill Distillery & Winery provides unique wine pairings in a picturesque vineyard setting you and your guests will love. Gunstock Inn & Resort offers state-of-the-art dining experiences with historic charm in Gilford. Rivermill at Dover Landing gives you flexibility to bring your own chefs for custom culinary experiences tailored exactly to your taste.

How Should You Budget for Wedding Vendors in New Hampshire?

Beyond venue costs understanding vendor expenses helps you create a comprehensive budget plan:

ServiceAverage Cost% of Total (150 guests)
Venue$11,02119%
Catering$8,81715%
Bar Services$7,05312%
Florists$6,04410%
Planners$5,2339%
Videographers$4,5368%
Photographers$4,2667%
Bands/DJs$1,8003%
Hair & Makeup$7001%
Cakes$7111%

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