The Best Small Wedding Venues in Commack, NY

The Best Small Wedding Venues in Commack, NY

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17 Wedding Venues in Commack, NY

Up to 50 guests
Available on September 13, 2026
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Essex Club 

4.9

Brentwood, NY
  • Up to 220 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

With resplendent garden views, a picturesque gazebo and a magnificent ballroom, Essex Club sets the scene for an extraordinary wedding or special event. Set amidst 50-acres of rolling greens and perennial gardens, the quaint country club can be customized to the setting of your dreams no matter the occasion. Be it an al fresco cocktail hour, a sophisticated fundraiser or an exchange of vows at the edge of the sprawling lawn, your vision will come to life at Essex Club.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides catering services
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Awarded Best of Zola
Everyone at the Essex Club was amazing We hosted our wedding here in mid-November. We received countless compliments on the delicious cuisine and the wonderful, welcoming service. The venue had an amazing atmosphere, and Jessica was responsive and answered all of our questions. On the day of the wedding, Jancey, the bridal attendant, and Maitre d' were both attentive, and did a wonderful job and excellent customer service. At Essex Club, we experienced the wedding of our dreams. If you are considering holding your wedding here, I heartily recommend it.
Vane F., 6 months ago
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Muttontown Country Club 
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

One Wedding at a Time, No Membership Required Experience the elegance of a private country club without the need for membership. Whether you're envisioning an outdoor reception, a grand ballroom wedding, or a dazzling black-tie affair, The Muttontown Club will bring your dream celebration to life. Our expert chefs and acclaimed catering services will craft a memorable menu tailored to your desires. From elaborate dinners to receptions and al fresco lunches, every meal is executed with impeccable service and flawless flair. Make your special day unforgettable—contact us today to start planning your perfect wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
Hamlet Golf And Country Club 

5.0

Commack, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,100

Join us and experience the myriad advantages and privileges of Long Island country club living, alongside forging lifelong friendships and cherished memories. With its captivating Stephen Kay-designed championship golf course, exquisite indoor and outdoor dining options, tennis facilities, swimming amenities, private event spaces, and beyond, The Hamlet stands unmatched in its locale, service excellence, and array of offerings. Experience the epitome of luxury living at The Hamlet.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Does not allow pets
Our experience with Hamlet Golf And Country Club was absolutely wonderful from start to finish. Chris and Lisa, the coordinators, were consistently reliable, enthusiastic, and genuinely interested in making our wedding day as special as possible. The venue itself had a beautiful rustic-glam aesthetic that felt warm and inviting for our guests. Everything came together perfectly, creating the ideal setting for us to celebrate our love. We couldn't have asked for a better venue to host our special day.
Melanie Z., 7 months ago
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Stonebridge Country Club 

5.0

Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Stonebridge Country Club combines the natural beauty of its surroundings with exceptionally elegant settings for special events. Spectacular view of our meticulously manicured golf course, coupled with hands-on hospitality from our staff and the Lessing’s reputation, make Stonebridge the premier destination for any special occasion.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
Let me start by saying it’s been almost 2 weeks since our wedding at Stonebridge and Matt and I are still on a high! What made us love Stonebridge was the openness of the ballroom with all the beautiful windows. It didn’t feel like your typical ballroom, it felt open and airy. We started the planning process with the lovely Diana who made us feel so comfortable. Whether it was planning details or asking questions, we always left conversations with Diana feeling so excited! She really brings the energy and makes you feel so special. She has an eye for what works, what doesn’t and gives you the best tips and tricks. We are so grateful we had Diana throughout this process!! I HIGHLY recommend getting ready at Stonebridge’s beautiful, gigantic bridal suite the morning of the wedding. My mom, bridesmaids, flower girls and I were so obsessed with all the space to get ready, multiple bathrooms, bedrooms and the windows (they brought in so much light the pictures are amaaaaazing!) I had 3 girls doing our hair and 4 girls doing makeup, my mom and I, 14 bridesmaids, 1 MOH, and 2 flowers girls and we had more than enough room to get ready. Since we had an army of girls I loved that we were able to get there early. We were greeted by Dee the bridal attendant who made sure we had a smooth, fun morning. She was very attentive to us girls and ready with champagne whenever! Terrence is the MAN! Best maitre d hands down. He made sure everything ran smoothly with timing and always kept us hydrated with drinks and water on the dance floor. He truly brings the energy and makes sure you have the best day! We had so much fun with him! Diana, Terrence, Dee and the wait staff truly made our day feel like a dream! They went above and beyond and made sure every detail no matter how big or small was cared for. We are forever grateful for the most perfect day. Our family and friends raveddddd about the delicious food, cocktail room, ballroom and just overall how warm and beautiful Stonebridge was. THANK YOU STONEBRIDGE!
Victoria G., 5 months ago
Gala Event & Food Artistry At Temple Beth Torah 

5.0

Melville, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

Welcome. Gala Event & Food Artistry is a boutique kosher catering company offering personalized service and highly customized gourmet menus. As the exclusive caterer of Temple Beth Torah of Melville, Gala brings over 40 years of experience in producing unique and memorable celebrations. Gala's owners, Jack Hochman, Gayle Wilk and Robert Wilk understand that you aren't just throwing a party, you are celebrating a major life moment. With that in mind, we pride ourselves on delivering professional service with a deeply personal approach.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Has a chic vibe

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available
We had the absolute best wedding at Temple Beth Torah!! Cannot thank Gayle and Russ enough for helping to make our wedding dreams come true. The space itself is beautiful, and really came together so amazingly. The number one thing we were told from guests was how amazing the food was!! Truly such an incredible experience there. Thank you for everything!!!
Morgan S., 2 years ago
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Chateau at Coindre Hall 

5.0

Huntington, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Seemingly plucked from the south of France, this 80,000 square-foot medieval-style mansion provides a setting that is both timeless and historic. A majestic foyer greets guests upon arrival at this 40-room chateau; a stately circular stairway provides the perfect backdrop for photos, the grand ballroom and piazza offer two distinct settings. Your guests will appreciate being able to explore this 1912 mansion that is a point of pride for Huntington residents and a National Historic landmark.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Bridal suite on site
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Exudes old-world charm

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Awarded Best of Zola
My husband and I were thrilled with our wedding at the Chateau at Coindre Hall. The venue offers a beautiful, elegant, and one-of-a-kind setting that perfectly complemented our vision for the big day. The staff were fantastic to work with - communication was always quick, clear, and helpful in the planning process. They had faith that the rain would let up just in time for our outdoor ceremony, and we are so grateful we went for it because it truly did turn out perfectly. The delicious food and drinks had all our guests raving - we received so many compliments! Overall, we highly recommend Coindre Hall for couples looking for a unique and gorgeous wedding venue with wonderful staff.
Amy S., 10 months ago
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The Barn at Old Bethpage Village Restoration 

5.0

Old Bethpage, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Lessing’s newest event venue, The Barn at Old Bethpage Village Restoration, offers the unique combination of a rustic yet elegant barn setting with the personalized attention to detail and service that Lessing’s is known for. With over 8,000 square feet of indoor and outdoor event space, The Barn is fitting for a guest list of up to 300 for weddings, galas and more. The exposed wooden beams stretched across high ceilings, sprawling country fields and authentic farmhouse scenery are sure to delight your guests and have them talking for years to come.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-site bridal suite
The Barn gave us the wedding of our dreams. From the staff to the food to the space to the professionalism - everything exceeded our expectations. 10/10 recommend!
Jeanette F., 6 months ago
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The Mansion at Oyster Bay 

5.0

Woodbury, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Mansion at Oyster Bay stands majestically in the heart of 120 perfectly manicured acres in Woodbury, Long Island. The ambiance of this former magnificent Gold Coast estate is rich with elegance and hospitality, but updated with modern amenities. Come enjoy this experience of Long Island Gold Coast luxury, and share it with your guests in an unforgettable setting.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
We had the most amazing wedding at The Mansion at Oyster Bay in October 2024! We had our full wedding (ceremony, cocktail hour, reception, afterparty) all at the mansion and the day was flawless and our guests can't say enough about how amazing everything was! The food, drinks and atmosphere were all amazing and the staff was so kind, attentive and warm, not only to just us as the couple, but to all of our guests. The team at the mansion was very communicative throughout the entire wedding planning process, and on the day of they knew exactly how we wanted the day to run and they pulled it off without any hiccups or problems! Our wedding was outside and it was a gorgeous day, but I also would have been happy if we needed to do the ceremony inside because the decor is so stunning. All of my pictures look amazing because the mansion is such a stunning backdrop. I highly recommend you have your wedding here!!
MaryKate K., 7 months ago
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Insignia 
Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

At Insignia, every wedding is a wonderful creation that’s as refreshingly different as your love together. Our elegant, modern décor both indoors and out is a beautiful departure from typical wedding halls. Combining the look and feel of a Hamptons-style mansion with a chic, upscale Manhattan restaurant, it sets the stage for a truly memorable experience.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a glamorous vibe
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
  • Does not allow pets
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Meehan's of Huntington 
Huntington, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $2,500

Michael and Patrick Meehan along with their staff, welcome you to Meehan’s of Huntington! We hope you enjoy yourself whether you’re here for a cocktail or a delicious dinner. Our extensive menu offers more than enough to please a wide variety of appetites. If you’re planning a catered affair, please ask to see our private catering room. It’s the perfect setting for small corporate affairs, birthday parties, sweet 16’s, showers and much more.. Thanks for coming to Meehan’s of Huntington and we hope to see you again soon! Enjoy!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides catering services
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • No on-site bridal suite
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
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Blackstone Steakhouse 
Melville, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,000

At Blackstone, every wedding is a wonderful creation that’s as refreshingly different as your love together. Our elegant, modern décor both indoors and out is a beautiful departure from typical catering halls. An architectural masterpiece featuring quarried stone, rich natural wood and warmly glowing chandeliers and fireplaces, Blackstone’s incredible décor sets the scene and mood for an unforgettable experience. But it’s our cuisine and service that make us even more remarkable. Enriched with exciting cuisine and complemented by the perfect wines and signature cocktails, your event will be remembered for a lifetime.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Does not allow pets
  • Lighting and sound are not included
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Knights of Bayshore Catering 
Bay Shore, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $1,500

No matter what you're celebrating; Birthday, Anniversary, Christening, Bridal Shower, Baby Shower, First Communion, Graduation, Retirement or Wedding, our spacious ballroom combined with our fine cuisine and professional staff makes an excellent combination to turn your special event into fond memories that will last for many years.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Does not allow pets
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The Halston 
Melville, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,000

Choose The Halston for your special day and enjoy exclusive access where the entire venue is dedicated to your celebration. Enriched with exciting cuisine and complemented by the perfect wines and signature cocktails, your event will be remembered for a lifetime.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Flexible event spaces
  • Space for a large guest list
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No built-in audiovisual options
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One10 
Melville, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,000

Take your wedding in a refreshingly different and unexpected direction at One10. A unique departure from the ordinary, One10 offers a textured, elegant design that has a distinct flavor all its own, as does our Modern Italian Steakhouse menu. Choose One10 for your special day and enjoy exclusive access where the entire venue is dedicated to your celebration. Enriched with exquisite cuisine and complemented by the perfect wines and signature cocktails, your event will be remembered for a lifetime.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides catering services
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Provides setup and cleanup

Venue considerations

  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
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Beach Club Estate 
Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $89

We offer a private, secluded, hideaway tucked away on the Secluded 3 mile round Glazier Lake of Long Island’s largest freshwater lake, the Beautiful Lake Ronkonkoma. Coupled with our breathtaking views, you become enveloped in the calm and serene beauty of the countryside Look. Our 5 star Chefs Superb Cuisine and exceptional service combine to offer you memories of a lifetime. Featuring a on the lake chapel, romantic sunsets, amazing water views, beautiful natural gardens, and waterfalls & antique fountains — there are plenty of splendid photo opportunities for you. This is a Newly Renovated Beautiful Mansion on the Water is a One of Kind Place on Long Island with its has Caribbean vibe surrounded with palm trees and breathtaking views for memorable pictures.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Has a luxe vibe

Venue considerations

  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • No free parking
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Three Village Inn 
Stony Brook, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $4,300

Our Master and Signature Suites are the ideal getaway retreat for that perfect occasion. In an effort to ensure that our guests enjoy their stay, we offer luxury accommodations, complimentary high-speed internet access, and courtesy discounts towards the Stony Brook Village Shopping Center.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Creates a sense of togetherness
  • Exudes old-world charm

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available

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About wedding venues in Commack, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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