How To Choose Your Wedding Month

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groom holding a bride in front of a field with a tree with orange flowers

Choosing your wedding month and date is a crucial first step in the wedding planning process, along with choosing your venue, photographer, and caterer. The time of year in which you decide get married will dictate a lot of your subsequent planning, and will stick with you for the rest of your life (hello, anniversary). In most parts of the country, the late spring through early fall months are typically thought of as “wedding season,” but there is so much more to it than that. Let’s walk through the year and look at the pros and cons of each potential wedding month.

Note: Keep in mind that while season matters greatly, geography is a factor as well. We have broken the seasons down very generally below, but even still, a winter wedding in the Florida Keys is going to differ drastically from a winter wedding in Lake Tahoe, where the cold weather and snow hazards will be much greater. Be sure to factor in your location when picking your perfect wedding month.


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March, April, May

March comes in like a lion and out like a lamb. April showers bring May flowers. These are the traditional sayings that correlate with the spring months that we love so dearly. Emerging from the cold of winter, spring is such a welcoming time to host your special day. Without many calendar conflicts (St. Patrick’s Day, Passover, and Easter are the only holidays in the spring), your spring wedding should see good attendance. And after the drab, loneliness of winter, your friends will probably be busting at the seams to get out and celebrate with you.

A spring wedding is a gamble, though, simply because the weather is so unpredictable. Will it be sunny and warm, or is a cold snap going to hit? Even still, the gamble may pay off if you can land one of those quintessential warm, flowery days. In April and May especially, you might begin to encounter increased pricing and competition with other brides for vendors and venues as “the season” set in. We’re talking: wedding season.

bride and five bridesmaids in pink dresses standing in front of blooming redbud tree

Photo Credit || Colin Lyons Photography

wooden handwritten wedding directional sign in front of ceremony chairs

Photo Credit || Pauline Conway Photography

bride and groom in a field with green trees holding a purple bouquet

Photo Credit || Sarah and Rachel

wedding farm table with pink and blue flowers, pink candles, and place setting

Photo Credit || onelove photography

bridesmaid in lavender dress holding white and green small bouquet

Photo Credit || MIchelle Jones Photography


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June, July, August

Wedding season is in full swing by mid-May, with June being traditionally the most popular wedding month. These hot months offer long days and vacation time. Many of your wedding guests will be able to get away from their lives to attend your wedding thanks to more relaxed work schedules and school breaks. Far removed from the winter holidays, your guests are more likely to have a little extra room in their budgets for travel and wedding gifts. An abundance of flowers and fruits are in season in the summer, so you will have countless floral options and your pick of delicious produce.

However, these sunny wedding months are not quite that simple. Rising temps is definitely something to take into account. While it may look like a glorious day outside, if it is 100 degrees, you are going to be one sweaty bride with a bunch of hot and sticky guests. You can also just go ahead and count on venues and vendors being harder to book with steeper prices because of seasonal competition. Finally, vacation plans or other weddings may conflict with yours when it comes to your guests’ attendance.

cocktail glass filled with red drink and topped with berries on skewer

Photo Credit || Sera Petras Photography

bride and bridesmaids in gold walking with greenery filled bouquets

Photo Credit || JoPhoto

bright and colorful wedding table decor with hot pink menu and napkin, white china, gold flatware, and yellow and pink and green flower arrangement

Photo Credit || Loved Memories Photography & Videography

ring bearer holding a turquoise just married sign in front of a couple kissing on the beach

Photo Credit || Limelight Photography


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September, October, November

Oh fall weddings, how loved you are! There is something so magical about the changing of the leaves and the cool, crisp air. A fall wedding month will make for cooler temperatures, happier party guests, and less bugs. And with a plethora of pumpkins, there are some very festive and unique wedding themes to embrace.

In these wedding months, possible conflicts include the beginning of a new school year, Halloween, and Thanksgiving. There are also fewer flowers in season, so you may have to be willing to re-imagine your ideal floral arrangements. And if you and your partner are football fanatics, a fall wedding month might prove difficult to schedule around big game days. What if you accidentally plan your wedding for the most important match-up of the season?

white chairs with handwritten wooden signs next to a wedding aisle with a mountain view

Photo Credit || Nick Davis Photography

bride and groom in front of a creek with bouquet

Photo Credit || JoPhoto

Groom in gray three piece suit wearing yellow sunflower bouttoniere

Photo Credit || B. Dembowski Photography

Fall wedding farm table with green vegetables and orange flowers

Photo Credit || Suzanne Karp Photography

bride and groom with a dog standing in front of fall vineyard landcscape

Photo Credit || Meghan Rolfe Photography


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December, January, February

A winter wedding month can be a hidden gem. Gleaming fireplaces, evergreen trees, snowy winter landscapes, less wedding competition (and thus the ability to negotiate prices), and more vendor/venue availability make a winter wedding very appealing for couples. There is something so romantic about wrapping up in warm blankets in front of an early sunset and clinging to each other for warmth.

But for all of the pros, there are still some cons to a winter soirée. Depending on the location of your wedding, getting snowed in (or out) could be a factor. There is less green outside, making for less picturesque landscapes that might force your wedding photo session indoors. And… Hanukkah, Christmas, and New Years. While these holidays are considered “the most wonderful time of the year,” they can create many conflicts for your special day. Traveling can be more expensive and difficult around the holidays, not to mention that money will most likely be a bit tighter for people, too.

winter tablescape with pinecones greenery and pink and red flowers

Photo Credit || Jennings King Photography

bride wearing fur coat and groom in a cowboy hat hugging in a snowy landscape

Photo Credit || Dana Widman Photography

Winter bridal bouquet of red roses, red berries, and greenery

Photo Credit || Heather Erson Photography


winter bride with bridesmaids in fur capes and gold dresses holding bouquets

Photo Credit || Modern Wedding Photography

bride in fur cape and groom kissing in the snow

Photo Credit || Heather Erson Photography

Have you fallen in love with your perfect wedding month yet? Once you make a decision, be sure to put the date into your Zola Weddings Checklist so you can get a whole bunch (or just a few) customized planning reminders up until the big day. Happy planning!

Featured Photo Credit || Christine Magee Photography


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