Tend Task

I'm Felicia, a feminist officiant and relationship ritualist. I write ceremonies for couples who want their wedding day to reflect the partnership they're actually building, not a script inherited from a system that assumed one partner would lead and the other would follow. My work is grounded in graduate-level training in evidence-based coaching and ongoing graduate study in relationship education and gender equity. Every ceremony starts with a real conversation about who you are together, then gets built from there.

My work lives at the intersection of feminist liberation coaching and ritual craft. I hold a Master's in Social Sciences with a specialization in Relationship Education and Gender Equity, built on a simple premise: most wedding traditions were written for a version of marriage where roles got assigned by gender instead of chosen on purpose. I help you see what patriarchy handed you by default, then write vows and rituals for the marriage you're actually choosing. Some of what I do looks like ceremony. Some of it looks like spellwork. I only take a limited number of couples a year.

In three words: Creative, Honest, Organized