Question 1

Describe your experience. How many weddings have you planned, and what are they like? Any specialties?

Accepted Answer

Silk & Shadows has planned and coordinated dozens of weddings, from intimate elopements and micro-weddings to full-day celebrations. We specialize in unconventional, whimsical, and highly personalized events, often featuring dark Victorian, moody, romantic, or non-traditional aesthetics. What sets our work apart is how we bring strong visual design and hands-on planning together, ensuring the wedding not only looks distinctive and intentional, but also runs smoothly and stress-free for our couples.

Question 2

Are you part of a team? Who will we be working with?

Accepted Answer

Yes. While Silk & Shadows is led by Ava and Sasha Mereu, we work closely with a trusted network of local vendors we’ve built strong relationships with over time. These are collaborators we genuinely trust, not commission-based referrals. We prioritize local, sustainable businesses and value mutual respect, clear communication, and teamwork. When we recommend vendors, it’s because we know their work, their professionalism, and how well they collaborate, which helps create a smoother, more thoughtful experience for our couples.

Question 3

Do you also plan other events, like showers or rehearsal dinners?

Accepted Answer

Yes. In addition to weddings, Silk & Shadows plans and designs a wide range of events, including rehearsal dinners, welcome parties, showers, birthdays, celebrations of life, and other meaningful gatherings. We approach these events with the same care we bring to weddings, focusing on thoughtful planning, distinctive design, and smooth execution so each event feels intentional and well put together.

Question 4

How much time should we expect to spend with you?

Accepted Answer

The amount of time you’ll spend with us depends on the level of planning support you choose, but regardless of the package, we’re very hands-on. Full planning involves ongoing check-ins and collaboration throughout the process, while partial planning and day-of coordination focus on more defined touchpoints as the wedding approaches. No matter the scope, we’re deeply involved, easy to reach, and fully invested in your experience. By the end, most couples say it feels less like working with a vendor and more like having trusted friends in their corner.

Question 5

Do you take on multiple weddings in a day or weekend?

Accepted Answer

No. We intentionally limit the number of weddings we take on so we can be fully present and focused on each couple. Silk & Shadows is a small, hands-on team with a very personal approach, and we don’t believe in stacking multiple weddings in a day or weekend. We’d rather take on fewer events and deliver thoughtful, attentive service than stretch ourselves thin.

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Day-of coordination / wedding management

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Frequently asked questions

Describe your experience. How many weddings have you planned, and what are they like? Any specialties?

Are you part of a team? Who will we be working with?

Do you also plan other events, like showers or rehearsal dinners?

How much time should we expect to spend with you?

Do you take on multiple weddings in a day or weekend?

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