The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Sterling, NY

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13 Wedding Venues in Sterling, NY

Farms, barns, ranches
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The Rosemary at Spano Lake 
Rating: 5.0 (10 reviews)
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $6,000

Discover The Rosemary at Spano Lake - the latest addition to Upstate New York's stunning outdoor wedding and events venues. Just a short drive from the historical town of Cooperstown, The Rosemary offers a picturesque setting for your special occasion. Encompassing a vast expanse of 325 acres, this private waterfront location is surrounded by breathtaking natural beauty, making it the perfect choice for your wedding or private gathering. Experience the magic of a secluded and intimate celebration beside the tranquil waters of our private lake, creating unforgettable moments that will be treasured forever.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Requires outside catering services
  • No on-premises lodging options
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The Rosemary at Spano Lake was the perfect venue for our wedding. From the moment we first reached out, Jackie and Danny were quick to respond, knowledgeable about their offerings, and easy to work with in planning all the details. On the day of the wedding, they were attentive and went the extra mile to ensure our vision came to life. The venue itself is intimate and naturally beautiful, creating the perfect backdrop for our special day. We couldn't have asked for a more perfect wedding location and highly recommend The Rosemary at Spano Lake to any couple looking for an exceptional venue experience.
Maggie C., 10 months ago
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Defiance Hall by War Cannon Spirits 
Rating: 5.0 (5 reviews)
  • Up to 125 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $2,999

Defiance Hall is a 10,000 sf, authentically restored historic building with reaching mountain views built in 1820. We focus our venue on weddings for up to 125 guests, allowing the event to flow inside and outside the property with arrival cocktail receptions on our outdoor terrace & creekside area or inside in a welcoming space. Dining typically takes place in the main hall, while wedding vows, dancing, and afterparties are held upstairs in The Loft. We offer a full suite of amenities, including liquor and commercial kitchen licenses. We offer in-house or third-party catering. Included are: - Two full bars - Kitchen for caterers - Tables, chairs, ceramic plate settings, metal cutlery, and cloth napkins for 125 people - Dance floor - Folding tables and chairs for an additional 125 people - Staffed cash bar - Projector - Wired and wireless microphones - Two PAs - DJ booth - Outdoor seating for 125 people - Outdoor creek side receptions - Parking - Optional stage with light and sound.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Creates a sense of togetherness
  • Rustic yet refined style

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
  • Additional event staff required
Defiance Hall at War Cannon Spirits hosted our annual awards events as well as several other smaller events. The team is fantastic to work with and their attention to detail is exceptional. We cannot say enough good things about the venue and our experience. The food was exceptional and the site perfect. You will not be disappointed!
AARCH, 4 months ago
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Curtis Manor Oswego NY 
Rating: 5.0 (1 review)
Oswego, NY
  • Up to 275 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,500

Curtis Manor is a rustic barn venue located in Oswego, New York. This newly renovated dairy homestead offers everything you'll need for a picturesque, nature-inspired event. With a young apple orchard, pond, and several elegant indoor spaces from which to choose, it is an ideal place for family reunions, weddings, community events, corporate meetings, or team-building events both large and small. The relaxed environment and accommodating spaces fit both formal events and casual get-together events. No matter what your event vision may be, choose Curtis Manor to make it come to life.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
Throughout the whole wedding process Sharon Abbi and Erin have been amazing to work with. Every question I’ve had they had answered within a reasonable time frame. They have such beautiful decorations to choose from. They also set up and break down most things. The staff is just as fun. One server was dancing with us while working and it was a blast. They definitely made my wedding process and wedding everything i could have asked for. If you are looking for a barn style wedding this should be on your list.
Haley C., 2 years ago
Izzo's White Barn Winery 
Rating: 5.0 (3 reviews)
Cayuga, NY
  • Up to 135 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,000

Izzo's White Barn Winery is a family owned and operated, New York State licensed farm winery. We are located in beautiful Upstate New York, between Syracuse and Rochester in the award-winning Finger Lakes Wine Region. At Izzo's you have the benefit of holding your private event not only at a winery but also in our rustic one-hundred-year-old barn. The “White Barn” is a blank canvas and flourishes between late May and early October. With the options that we offer we have the flexibility and staff to meet your unique needs. We're excited to work with you and help bring your vision to life.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Surrounded by beautiful vineyards
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
We had our wedding at Izzos this past weekend and it was absolutely perfect. Emily helped us plan for over a year, answered every question I had and recommended a lot of my local vendors. We arrived the day before and she let us set up the whole barn/ space to our liking. She let us customize everything and worked with our timeline. She really went above and beyond for our 100 person wedding. Our guests say it was the most fun they have ever had. She really took care of us and i would highly recommend Izzos for your wedding... also the wine is REALLY good.
Julie C., 2 years ago
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Springdale Weddings and Events 
Rating: 5.0 (2 reviews)
Victor, NY
  • Up to 26 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,000

Springdale Weddings and Events is a private small wedding venue in Victor, NY, just 20 minutes from Rochester, specializing in all-inclusive micro weddings, intimate celebrations, and elopement-style weddings for 2–26 guests. Our historic home setting is designed for celebrations that feel elevated, personal, and refreshingly easy to plan, with thoughtful coordination and custom details from start to finish. Serving Rochester and the Finger Lakes. Book a tour to explore the space and availability.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Perfect for a micro-wedding

Venue considerations

  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Requires outside catering services
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
Springdale was an absolute dream for our small wedding of 17 guests! Melanie's attention to detail and genuine care made our wedding feel truly special and so personal. The venue itself is stunning, and the atmosphere Melanie's created is so warm and welcoming. The floral arrangements Melanie hand-crafted were absolutely breathtaking, adding so much beauty to our day. The chef blew us away with food, curating a menu just for us, and we cannot recommend that you use Joey for the live music enough- all of our guests absolutely loved him (as with us!). Our family loved staying overnight and really enjoyed the morning breakfast. Our whole wedding (planning included!) went so smoothly and perfectly thanks to Melanie's touches. She is one of a kind. We tell everyone, come to Springdale!
Katy C., 5 months ago
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Gather In Victor 
Rating: 5.0 (3 reviews)
Victor, NY
  • Up to 50 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,750

Welcome to Gather, a boutique micro wedding and event venue in Victor, NY — 20 minutes from Rochester and the Finger Lakes. Built in 1836, our restored carriage house sits on a private Victorian estate, blending historic charm with elegant, modern touches. Gather specializes in all-inclusive micro weddings and intimate celebrations for up to 50 guests, with no minimum guest count required. Our team handles the details — planning, preferred vendors, and catering — so you can spend less time coordinating and more time enjoying your day. Whether you're planning an intimate wedding, bridal shower, baby shower, or private celebration, our carriage house and Victorian estate setting offers a picturesque, versatile backdrop. Gather proudly serves Rochester, Canandaigua, Pittsford, Fairport, and the greater Finger Lakes region. Explore Gather in Victor for your next intimate wedding or event.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Raw space for complete customization
  • Perfect for a micro-wedding

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Better for more intimiate events
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Gather in Victor was the perfect venue for our small intimate wedding reception. After our first meeting and tour of the space we knew it was exactly what we were looking for. The owner, Cara was exceptional to work with and went above and beyond to ensure every detail had been thought through. The space is cozy and beautifully kept, perfect for a small reception or shower. We were so pleased with our experience and highly recommend Gather in Victor!
Melissa S., 2 years ago
Arlington Acres 
Rating: 5.0 (2 reviews)
Lafayette, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,000

We're more than just a wedding venue. When you choose Arlington Acres, you're continuing the 150 year tradition of creating memories on our family farm. From your first tour, you'll notice the difference in the care, passion and personal attention we provide all our couples.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
We had our wedding at Arlington Acres and couldn't have been happier with the venue and staff. Katie and her team were extremely responsive throughout the planning process, answering all our questions thoroughly and creatively troubleshooting any issues that came up. Their communication style made wedding planning feel effortless. The rustic open space allowed us flexibility in decorating and arranging the event exactly how we envisioned. Katie went above and beyond day-of to make sure everything ran smoothly so my husband and I could relax and enjoy our special day. By the end, the Arlington Acres staff felt like family, contributing so much warmth and care. We highly recommend this venue for couples wanting a beautiful, rustic setting with accommodating, detail-oriented coordinators devoted to creating your perfect wedding.
Amanda C., 2 years ago
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Creekstone Farms Weddings & Events 
Rating: 5.0 (3 reviews)
Adams Center, NY
  • Up to 175 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,500

Welcome to Creekstone Farms, an authentic barn wedding venue with both the historic charm and modern conveniences. With over 8,000 sq ft. of climate controlled space, your guests can celebrate in comfort. All of our event spaces are ADA accessible, including a guest elevator and paving surrounding the venue. Our venue includes tables, chairs, and linens with set up included. Nestled beside the north branch of the Sandy Creek, it provides the spaces for picture-perfect memories. Bridal parties have access to a well-furnished bridal suite. *NEW* On-site renovated farmhouse accommodations that sleeps 6! Join us at the farm! Please check our availability before inquiring. Pricing is available on our listing and our other channels.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Wheelchair accessible

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Does not allow pets
We cannot say enough good things about Creekstone Farms. From start to finish, everything was extremely well coordinated, and Shannon and her team were beyond accommodating. We had a Christmas wedding in December, which meant both our ceremony and reception were held indoors. During cocktail hour, Shannon and her crew flawlessly flipped the entire upstairs space, and when we walked back in, it looked even better than we had imagined! The barn was breathtaking, and having a Christmas wedding there made it even more special. It felt cozy, romantic, and truly magical! We also stayed at the farmhouse the night before the wedding, and it was the perfect place to get ready. It was very clean, cozy, and had plenty of space for everyone. Shannon and her family were truly wonderful to work with. They were professional, kind, and incredibly attentive throughout the entire process. We could not have asked for a better venue or experience and would recommend Creekstone Farms to anyone without hesitation.
Taylor S., 8 months ago
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The Kester Homestead 
Memphis, NY
  • Up to 170 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $4,500

The Kester Homestead is a historic farm venue located on the cusp of Finger Lakes Region in Upstate NY. Enjoy access to the entire property for the duration of your gathering weekend. Stay in the 1854 House with your family and bridal party, wander the trails to our Woodland Cathedral for ceremony, head to our Wild Garden for cocktails then dine and dance in our Gambrel Barn. We have on-site coordination, an extensive prop closet and floral services which makes the planning seamless.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Both indoor and outdoor options

Venue considerations

  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Does not allow pets
  • No in-house catering options
The Orchards at Rocking Horse Farm 
Jamesville, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Orchards barn is set in picturesque Jamesville, New York - located just 10 miles south of downtown Syracuse, New York. The Orchards barn is at the heart of a beautiful valley and was built with barn weddings and farm weddings in mind. With 150 acres of breathtaking landscapes, The Orchards property offers scenic country views, a pond, a tree farm, apple orchards, a gazebo and plenty of friendly horses, alpacas and mini donkeys to create the perfect backdrop for your barn wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Provides event staff
  • Natural elegance with open spaces

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not have a dance floor
The North Farm 
Geneva, NY
  • Up to 240 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,000

The North Farm is a large, recently renovated wedding event venue located in Geneva, New York. Consisting of repurposed 19th century dairy barns, a large courtyard and a manicured ceremony location with gorgeous lake views, this venue is perfect for rustic wedding couples who are looking for something truly unique. With six different gathering spaces available, you’ll have an environment that is centered around sustainability and flexibility, allowing you to create a completely customized and memorable experience that you’ll cherish for a lifetime. The uniqueness of the space will provide a truly memorable wedding backdrop; you can also make use of the space for incredibly memorable wedding photos that you can cherish for years to come!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
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Lincoln Hill Farms 
Canandaigua, NY
  • Up to 400 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $12,000

Lincoln Hill Farms is a picturesque 95-acre escape in the heart of the Finger Lakes, offering an authentic farm wedding experience that feels both natural and elevated. Just minutes from Canandaigua, this historic property features hand-built gathering spaces, sweeping countryside views, and lush gardens. Whether you’re dreaming of a sunset ceremony by the pond or a sophisticated tented reception, the farm blends rustic charm with modern amenities. With on-site glamping, farm-to-table catering, and a unique "bridal safari" tent, it is an unforgettable destination for weddings and all the celebrations in between.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has onsite accommodations
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space

About wedding venues in Sterling, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue. Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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