Gather In Victor
All-inclusive venue
The venue takes care of it all - food and beverage, rentals, the works!
Full wedding (ceremony and reception) pricing
Starting at $8,750
Packages
Prices start at $8,750
Guest capacity
Up to 50 seated guests
About this venue
Welcome to Gather, a boutique micro wedding and event venue in Victor, NY — 20 minutes from Rochester and the Finger Lakes. Built in 1836, our restored carriage house sits on a private Victorian estate, blending historic charm with elegant, modern touches. Gather specializes in all-inclusive micro weddings and intimate celebrations for up to 50 guests, with no minimum guest count required. Our team handles the details — planning, preferred vendors, and catering — so you can spend less time coordinating and more time enjoying your day. Whether you're planning an intimate wedding, bridal shower, baby shower, or private celebration, our carriage house and Victorian estate setting offers a picturesque, versatile backdrop. Gather proudly serves Rochester, Canandaigua, Pittsford, Fairport, and the greater Finger Lakes region. Explore Gather in Victor for your next intimate wedding or event.
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Gather In Victor
A historic micro wedding venue in a restored 1836 carriage house in the Village of Victor, NY, just outside Rochester in the Finger Lakes region.
Gather is a boutique micro wedding venue in a historic 1836 carriage house on a Victorian estate in the Village of Victor, NY, just outside Rochester in the Finger Lakes region. This micro wedding venue features hand-hewn wood flooring, wooden dining tables, cross-back chairs, and a free-standing bar. A semi-commercial kitchen with prep tables and warming ovens supports catering. As a space-only micro wedding venue near Rochester NY, Gather offers flexibility to bring your own vendors.
Guest capacity
1-50 Seated
1-60 Standing
Ideal for
Wedding ceremony, Wedding reception, Rehearsal dinner, Wedding shower, Welcome party, Farewell brunch, Couples luncheon, Cocktail hour, Engagement party, Elopement
Guests often feel this space is
“Warm and cozy”
Included in this room:
Base rental is a space-only micro wedding & shower venue in Victor, NY with a semi-commercial kitchen and free-standing bar. Styled tablescape upgrades available: Bespoke ($1,600) adds elevated plasticware, table runners & candlelight; Heirloom ($2,000) adds antique mismatched china, gold chargers, silverware & linen napkins. Micro wedding packages include full tableware, linens & styling near Rochester and the Finger Lakes.
Room cost
$600 for 4-Hours, $150 for each additional hour
Gather In Victor
A historic micro wedding venue in a restored 1836 carriage house in the Village of Victor, NY, just outside Rochester in the Finger Lakes region.
Gather is a boutique micro wedding venue in a historic 1836 carriage house on a Victorian estate in the Village of Victor, NY, just outside Rochester in the Finger Lakes region. This micro wedding venue features hand-hewn wood flooring, wooden dining tables, cross-back chairs, and a free-standing bar. A semi-commercial kitchen with prep tables and warming ovens supports catering. As a space-only micro wedding venue near Rochester NY, Gather offers flexibility to bring your own vendors.
Guest capacity
1-50 Seated
1-60 Standing
Ideal for
Wedding ceremony, Wedding reception, Rehearsal dinner, Wedding shower, Welcome party, Farewell brunch, Couples luncheon, Cocktail hour, Engagement party, Elopement
Guests often feel this space is
“Warm and cozy”
Included in this room:
Base rental is a space-only micro wedding & shower venue in Victor, NY with a semi-commercial kitchen and free-standing bar. Styled tablescape upgrades available: Bespoke ($1,600) adds elevated plasticware, table runners & candlelight; Heirloom ($2,000) adds antique mismatched china, gold chargers, silverware & linen napkins. Micro wedding packages include full tableware, linens & styling near Rochester and the Finger Lakes.
Room cost
$600 for 4-Hours, $150 for each additional hour
Gather In Victor packages
The Close Knit Wedding Package
1-25 guests
Peak pricing $8,750-10,000
Off-peak pricing $8,750-10,000
An intimate wedding experience for up to 25 guests, thoughtfully designed so you can focus on what matters most. The Close Knit Wedding at Gather in Victor includes planning, photography, florals, ceremony setup, cake, elegant tablescapes, a private getting-ready suite, and an overnight stay—all in our beautifully restored Victorian estate just outside Rochester, NY.
- Custom Florals
- Custom Tablescape Design
- Fine Plateware & Linens
- Victorian Bridal Suite
- Officiant Services
- Professional Photography
- Wedding Cake
- Trusted Licensed Caterer Partners
The Gather Wedding
25-50 guests
Peak pricing $12,000-14,500
Off-peak pricing $12,000-14,500
The Gather Wedding is perfect for couples searching for an intimate wedding venue or micro wedding venue near Rochester, NY. Designed for up to 50 guests, our beautifully restored Victorian estate in Victor, NY offers a charming, customizable setting for small weddings, intimate receptions, and meaningful celebrations with your closest family and friends.
- Custom Florals
- Custom Tablescape Design
- Victorian Bridal Suite
- Officiant Services
- Professional Photography
- Wedding Cake
- Trusted Licensed Caterer Partners
Available services that can be provided by Gather In Victor
Services & amenities
- Catering services
- Dressing room / Bridal Suite
- Event coordinator
- Event rentals
- Event staff
- Lighting/Sound
- On-site accommodations
- Pet friendly
- Service staff
- Set up
- Wedding cake services
- Wifi
Transportation & access
- Self parking - free
Rentals
- Chiavari Chairs
- China
- Flatware
- Glassware
- Linens
- Sound / AV
- Standard Chairs
Accommodations
- Honeymoon suite
- Luxury suites
Reviews
Write a review5.0 out of 5
3 reviews
- MS
Melissa S.
Gather in Victor
Gather in Victor was the perfect venue for our small intimate wedding reception. After our first meeting and tour of the space we knew it was exactly what we were looking for. The owner, Cara was exceptional to work with and went above and beyond to ensure every detail had been thought through. The space is cozy and beautifully kept, perfect for a small reception or shower. We were so pleased with our experience and highly recommend Gather in Victor!
- K
Kristina
Spectacular Venue
We recently held a small celebratory dinner party at Gather following our civil ceremony. From the start, Cara and Mike were phenomenal to work with. They were responsive to emails and texts and attentive to all details. They are a truly talented couple who make event planning such an easy process! Aside from owning and managing the space, they know a great deal of history about the barn and are quick to share its story with guests. The event space itself is lovely! Cara and Mike have managed to update the space while still keeping its vintage charm. The space is open, bright, and meticulously clean allowing for a welcoming environment for guests. I cannot recommend this event space enough! Truly one of a kind.
- TJ
Tricia & J.
5 Stars All Around!
In May 2024, my husband and I had a civil ceremony and wanted to follow that with a large dinner for just our families to get together and celebrate us. We wanted to find a small spacious venue that would allow us to host 35 members of our family for a buffet dinner and just celebrate talk and enjoy each other‘s company. Gather exceeded all of our expectations when it comes to the actual venue. Everyone we spoke to after our wedding said how much they loved the space and all that it had to offer. The very best part of holding our celebration at Gather was working with Cara! Cara is so kind and knowledgeable, and took the time to help us decide on all the little elements that we would incorporate in our celebration that made the whole event so special. Our families noticed the exceptional service AND smile Cara had on her face when assisting and said how lucky we were to have found a venue and owner that were so great. Cara made many suggestions when it came to our set up and itinerary that we hadn’t even thought of and everything came out so nice. She also recommended Farmhouse Table catering to us after having worked with them in the past, and the two companies worked together seamlessly to make everything come together in such a great way. Clearly, I could go on and on about how wonderful of an experience we had hosting our wedding celebration at Gather!
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- Victor Planners
- Victor Cakes & Desserts
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- Victor Bar Services & Beverages
- Victor Officiants
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