The Best Engagement Party Venues in Smithtown, NY

The Best Engagement Party Venues in Smithtown, NY

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10 Wedding Venues in Smithtown, NY

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Westbury Manor 

4.8

  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

The Perfect Setting For Your Special Occasion Welcome to Westbury Manor, Long Island’s premier venue for weddings, corporate affairs, family celebrations, and social gatherings. When you plan an event at Westbury Manor, we are dedicated to creating a individualized experience. Our lush, sophisticated surroundings are the perfect backdrop to any occasion. Set upon 5 acres of meticulously landscaped gardens and grounds, our historic mansion is home to several ballrooms and cocktail rooms that can be adapted to any mood or celebration. Our professional staff is dedicated to creating a seamless experience for you and your guests. We are delighted to welcome your family and friends, and most of all, to help you make your event truly your own.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides setup and cleanup

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Westbury Manor was the perfect venue for our wedding. From the moment we first spoke with the team, their communication was detailed, professional, and so friendly and welcoming. The grounds were beautifully maintained, providing an incredible backdrop for our wedding photos. Our maitre d', Phil, was incredible. He orchestrated the day perfectly. Our bridal attendant, Claudia, was truly exceptional - we were able to turn off our brains and just enjoy the day thanks to them. Phil and Claudia were a huge reason why our wedding day was so wonderful and we cannot thank them enough. They are masters at their jobs. The food was amazing, and we felt we got great value for our money. We're so grateful to the entire Westbury Manor team for making our special day truly perfect.
Gabbie M., 9 months ago
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Watermill Caterers 

4.3

Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor

One of Long Island's best-kept secrets, our sprawling estate is nestled in the heart of Suffolk County and is surrounded by manicured landscapes, winding pathways and historic architecture. With an atmosphere of rustic elegance and timeless beauty, the Watermill is the perfect marriage of old-world charm and luxurious modern comforts—perfectly providing the finest amenities and endless enchantments at every turn. For more than 25 years, the Watermill has fostered joy and thousands of lasting memories through an unyielding commitment to providing unparalleled service, award-winning cuisine, and an unforgettable experience for each and every guest who walks through our doors.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a chic vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Watermill Caterers was an absolute pleasure to work with for our wedding. From the moment we first reached out, their communication was attentive, responsive, and respectful - they made the entire planning process feel easy and smooth. The quality of their work was truly amazing, with a stunning, modern, and updated event space that exceeded all of our expectations. They helped make all of our wedding day dreams come true, handling every detail with care and ensuring the day went off without a hitch. I would book with Watermill Caterers again in a heartbeat.
Amanda K., 5 months ago
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Stonebridge Country Club 

5.0

Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Stonebridge Country Club combines the natural beauty of its surroundings with exceptionally elegant settings for special events. Spectacular view of our meticulously manicured golf course, coupled with hands-on hospitality from our staff and the Lessing’s reputation, make Stonebridge the premier destination for any special occasion.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
Let me start by saying it’s been almost 2 weeks since our wedding at Stonebridge and Matt and I are still on a high! What made us love Stonebridge was the openness of the ballroom with all the beautiful windows. It didn’t feel like your typical ballroom, it felt open and airy. We started the planning process with the lovely Diana who made us feel so comfortable. Whether it was planning details or asking questions, we always left conversations with Diana feeling so excited! She really brings the energy and makes you feel so special. She has an eye for what works, what doesn’t and gives you the best tips and tricks. We are so grateful we had Diana throughout this process!! I HIGHLY recommend getting ready at Stonebridge’s beautiful, gigantic bridal suite the morning of the wedding. My mom, bridesmaids, flower girls and I were so obsessed with all the space to get ready, multiple bathrooms, bedrooms and the windows (they brought in so much light the pictures are amaaaaazing!) I had 3 girls doing our hair and 4 girls doing makeup, my mom and I, 14 bridesmaids, 1 MOH, and 2 flowers girls and we had more than enough room to get ready. Since we had an army of girls I loved that we were able to get there early. We were greeted by Dee the bridal attendant who made sure we had a smooth, fun morning. She was very attentive to us girls and ready with champagne whenever! Terrence is the MAN! Best maitre d hands down. He made sure everything ran smoothly with timing and always kept us hydrated with drinks and water on the dance floor. He truly brings the energy and makes sure you have the best day! We had so much fun with him! Diana, Terrence, Dee and the wait staff truly made our day feel like a dream! They went above and beyond and made sure every detail no matter how big or small was cared for. We are forever grateful for the most perfect day. Our family and friends raveddddd about the delicious food, cocktail room, ballroom and just overall how warm and beautiful Stonebridge was. THANK YOU STONEBRIDGE!
Victoria G., 6 months ago
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The Pavilion at Sunken Meadow 

5.0

Kings Park, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Beautiful North Shore Beach setting, overlooking the Long Island Sound. Host your ceremony in the sand, your cocktail hour on the boardwalk, and your reception in our ballroom. Wonderful cuisine and remarkable service, paired with a stunning setting will have your guests talking about your wedding forever.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
Guests: 165 Tables: 16 Date: August 2024 Weather: Sunny and 80s The Pavilion at Sunken Meadow was the perfect venue for our wedding. From the start, their communication was prompt, friendly, and informative, which put us at ease throughout the planning process. We used the Lessings package which made the coordination of all vendors so easy and everyone was wonderful. We really think the package is a great value for the money and would highly recommend others go that route to save both money and time in the planning process. On the day of, the venue's staff provided exceptional service, especially Anthony the maitre d', Cece the bridal attendant, and Maureen the coordinator. They were incredibly accommodating and helped ensure everything ran smoothly, from the beautiful beachfront ceremony to the delicious and plentiful dinner. We had approximately 165 people (16 tables) and fit very comfortably for dinner in the dining room. We were initially concerned about the size of the space but we easily could have fit several more tables in the dining room. We had the DJ and dancing under the large tent and there was plenty of space and the fans / sea breeze kept it perfectly cool. The overall vibe of the venue is understated and elegant. So many guests complimented the beauty of the venue. We offered to-go pizza at the end which was also a huge hit! We are so grateful to the team at The Pavilion for helping make our special day truly unforgettable. We would highly recommend anyone else to have their wedding here!
Lauren & C., 9 months ago
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Windows on the Lake 

5.0

Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $100

Windows on the Lake is the The Most Romantic Waterfront Venue on Long Island. See what couples are raving about with our award winning wedding venue. Some of The Unique Features: • Catering to Only “One Wedding At A Time", so we can focus all our attention on your wedding. • Beautiful Waterfront Setting with spectacular sunsets create memorable weddings. • Majestic Gardens complete with palm trees for a tropical setting, (in -season). • Beautiful waterfront wedding chapel available for your On-Site Ceremony. • Outdoor patio for an on the water cocktail hour with Fabulous Food Stations. • Elegant Ballroom with floor-to-ceiling windows providing panoramic water views. • Our one-of-a-kind lighting and in-house sound system can make your event special. • International Menus and Presentations to impress your guests. • Special Ethnic, Halal and Kosher menus can be accommodated. • Experienced In-House Event Specialist to make your event "Stress Free".

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Realmente fue mi sueño hecho realidad.me sentí princesa en el cuento de hadas,todo estuvo bello espectacular,la atención desde que comienzas tus preparativos hasta el final ,Luis es un ser espectacular y La persona que estuvo al pendiente de mi el día de la boda.ella Es maravillosa Vickie gracias
Ana V., a year ago
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The Meadow Club 

5.0

Port Jefferson Station, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

A Long Island gem, The Meadow Club of Port Jefferson has been serving your catering needs for generations with exceptional food quality and service. With three newly renovated unique ballrooms available, The Meadow Club ensures all of your needs and wishes are carried out with impeccable detail and expertise. Our in-house Event Planning Services will make the process effortless from beginning to end. Partnered with The Curry Club of East Setauket and SaGhar Indian Fusion Restobar in Port Jefferson, we offer a diverse menu including classic Italian, to exotic Indian. We are now offering Kosher Catering within our facility as well. We offer several different cuisines with add-on stations such as Asian, Mediterranean, and Spanish.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Very attentive and affordable venue. The staff was super friendly and even helped clean up afterwards. They worked well with every outside vendor we booked too.
Suzan Y., a year ago
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The Port Jefferson Country Club 

5.0

Port Jefferson, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled on the scenic North Shore of Long Island, Port Jefferson Country Club offers an exquisite setting for unforgettable weddings. Overlooking the shimmering Long Island Sound, this premier venue features a meticulously maintained 18-hole championship golf course that provides a stunning backdrop for your special day. The club’s elegant clubhouse boasts refined dining options, a state-of-the-art fitness center, and luxurious locker rooms—ensuring that every moment, from preparation to celebration, is steeped in comfort and sophistication.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Additional event staff required
We are absolutely in love with the Waterview, the staff, and the incredible evening they were able to create for us. We are so grateful for their attention to detail and professionalism. Our wedding was perfect thanks to Lynn & the team. The views were gorgeous, the food was to die for, and having our ceremony overlooking the Sound was so special.
Courtney K., a year ago
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Hamlet Golf And Country Club 

5.0

Commack, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,100

Join us and experience the myriad advantages and privileges of Long Island country club living, alongside forging lifelong friendships and cherished memories. With its captivating Stephen Kay-designed championship golf course, exquisite indoor and outdoor dining options, tennis facilities, swimming amenities, private event spaces, and beyond, The Hamlet stands unmatched in its locale, service excellence, and array of offerings. Experience the epitome of luxury living at The Hamlet.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Does not allow pets
Our experience with Hamlet Golf And Country Club was absolutely wonderful from start to finish. Chris and Lisa, the coordinators, were consistently reliable, enthusiastic, and genuinely interested in making our wedding day as special as possible. The venue itself had a beautiful rustic-glam aesthetic that felt warm and inviting for our guests. Everything came together perfectly, creating the ideal setting for us to celebrate our love. We couldn't have asked for a better venue to host our special day.
Melanie Z., 8 months ago
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Essex Club 

4.9

Brentwood, NY
  • Up to 220 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

With resplendent garden views, a picturesque gazebo and a magnificent ballroom, Essex Club sets the scene for an extraordinary wedding or special event. Set amidst 50-acres of rolling greens and perennial gardens, the quaint country club can be customized to the setting of your dreams no matter the occasion. Be it an al fresco cocktail hour, a sophisticated fundraiser or an exchange of vows at the edge of the sprawling lawn, your vision will come to life at Essex Club.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides catering services
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Awarded Best of Zola
Everyone at the Essex Club was amazing We hosted our wedding here in mid-November. We received countless compliments on the delicious cuisine and the wonderful, welcoming service. The venue had an amazing atmosphere, and Jessica was responsive and answered all of our questions. On the day of the wedding, Jancey, the bridal attendant, and Maitre d' were both attentive, and did a wonderful job and excellent customer service. At Essex Club, we experienced the wedding of our dreams. If you are considering holding your wedding here, I heartily recommend it.
Vane F., 7 months ago

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Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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