The Best Select Services Wedding Venues in Smithtown, NY

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7 Wedding Venues in Smithtown, NY

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Rockefellers Kitchen & Cocktails 
Rating: 5.0 (2 reviews)
Lake Grove, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $1,300

Rockefellers Kitchen and cocktails offers our Gatsby room for a private event in our timeless space, known for its Old New York charm, elegant atmosphere, and thoughtfully curated menus. Whether you’re envisioning an intimate gathering or a lively celebration, our experienced events team is here to help bring every detail together seamlessly.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
A service, staff and catering. We had an awesome time celebrating our reception and Rockefellers went out of their way to make it incredibly personal and special.
Erin B., 8 months ago
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Schooner Liberty Clipper 
Rating: 5.0 (43 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Port Jefferson, NY
  • Up to 125 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $5,100

Timeless. Memorable. Traditional. Elegant. Host an unforgettable event on our private sailboat charter with up to 125 guests. Enjoy stunning ocean views and a full bar - it’s an elegant and memorable way to celebrate. The Liberty Clipper is available for special events, whether you are hosting your company, friends, family, clients, or employees, the Clipper is the perfect venue. Bring up to 125 guests sailing with you onboard a magnificent tall ship for an unforgettable private sailing charter. With several catering and bar options, we are able to customize each occasion to fit your needs. Whether it is a corporate mixer, wedding, or a private party, come aboard with us to make some unforgettable memories.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not have a dance floor
We couldn't have asked for a better venue than the Schooner Liberty Clipper. From start to finish, the team was helpful, responsive, and genuinely kind—they made us feel taken care of every step of the way. They went out of their way to accommodate our older guests, helped us create a special cocktail, and even provided a quiet space for us to get ready before the big moment. The boat itself was absolutely gorgeous and looked exactly as described online. Our guests couldn't stop taking photos because the backdrop was just phenomenal, and honestly, it's such a unique experience being out on the water that everyone was talking about it for weeks after. We'd recommend the Schooner Liberty Clipper to any couple looking for something truly special.
Zoe, 13 days ago
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Windows on the Lake 
Rating: 4.6 (7 reviews)
Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $90

Windows on the Lake is the The Most Romantic Waterfront Venue on Long Island. See what couples are raving about with our award winning wedding venue. Some of The Unique Features: • Catering to Only “One Wedding At A Time", so we can focus all our attention on your wedding. • Beautiful Waterfront Setting with spectacular sunsets create memorable weddings. • Majestic Gardens complete with palm trees for a tropical setting, (in -season). • Beautiful waterfront wedding chapel available for your On-Site Ceremony. • Outdoor patio for an on the water cocktail hour with Fabulous Food Stations. • Elegant Ballroom with floor-to-ceiling windows providing panoramic water views. • Our one-of-a-kind lighting and in-house sound system can make your event special. • International Menus and Presentations to impress your guests. • Special Ethnic, Halal and Kosher menus can be accommodated. • Experienced In-House Event Specialist to make your event "Stress Free".

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Windows on the Lake is a perfect wedding venue! Beautiful views, amazing service, and everything was organized so well. The food was excellent and the whole atmosphere felt magical. Highly recommended for any special occasion!
Aaron H., 3 months ago
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The Port Jefferson Country Club 
Rating: 4.8 (33 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Port Jefferson, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled on the scenic North Shore of Long Island, Port Jefferson Country Club offers an exquisite setting for unforgettable weddings. Overlooking the shimmering Long Island Sound, this premier venue features a meticulously maintained 18-hole championship golf course that provides a stunning backdrop for your special day. The club’s elegant clubhouse boasts refined dining options, a state-of-the-art fitness center, and luxurious locker rooms—ensuring that every moment, from preparation to celebration, is steeped in comfort and sophistication.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Additional event staff required
My husband and I booked this venue before all of the renovations were completed, and it ended up being one of the best decisions we made during our wedding planning process. Our wedding was truly a dream come true. The venue was absolutely breathtaking, and the coastal wedding vibe we envisioned came to life perfectly. From the very beginning, the entire team was wonderful to work with, especially Mirian. She made the planning process incredibly organized, seamless, and stress-free. Mirian ensured that every detail was considered and went above and beyond to help us create our dream wedding. She coordinated with our vendors, accommodated our requests, and worked tirelessly to bring our vision to life. We are so grateful for everything she did for us and for making our special day possible. The food was outstanding. Our guests are still talking about it! The short rib was phenomenal, and the mashed potato station was a huge hit. From cocktail hour to dinner and dessert, every option was delicious and beautifully presented. We received countless compliments on the food and overall experience. The venue was also extremely accommodating, particularly when it came to dietary needs, which meant a lot to us and our guests. A special thank you to both Mirian and Joe for their dedication and genuine care throughout the entire process. We couldn't have asked for a more perfect venue or team to help us celebrate one of the most important days of our lives. We highly recommend this venue to any couple looking for a stunning location, exceptional service, and an unforgettable wedding experience.
Nicole O., 3 months ago
Hamlet Golf And Country Club 
Rating: 5.0 (1 review)
Commack, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,100

Join us and experience the myriad advantages and privileges of Long Island country club living, alongside forging lifelong friendships and cherished memories. With its captivating Stephen Kay-designed championship golf course, exquisite indoor and outdoor dining options, tennis facilities, swimming amenities, private event spaces, and beyond, The Hamlet stands unmatched in its locale, service excellence, and array of offerings. Experience the epitome of luxury living at The Hamlet.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Does not allow pets
Our experience with Hamlet Golf And Country Club was absolutely wonderful from start to finish. Chris and Lisa, the coordinators, were consistently reliable, enthusiastic, and genuinely interested in making our wedding day as special as possible. The venue itself had a beautiful rustic-glam aesthetic that felt warm and inviting for our guests. Everything came together perfectly, creating the ideal setting for us to celebrate our love. We couldn't have asked for a better venue to host our special day.
Melanie Z., 2 years ago
Courtyard by Marriott Long Island MacArthur Airport 
Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor

Celebrate your special day in style at our Long Island hotel wedding venue. With flexible spaces and expert assistance from our dedicated team, your dream wedding is within reach. Treat your guests to spacious accommodations and the convenience of our hotel's prime location. Choose from our elegant boardroom venue, boasting natural lighting, a beautiful oak table, and ergonomic chairs for maximum comfort. Let us take care of every detail, ensuring a seamless and unforgettable experience for you and your loved ones. Say "I do" to the perfect wedding at our Long Island hotel.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Provides event staff
  • Versatile for various event styles

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
  • No free parking

About wedding venues in Smithtown, NY

Why Is Smithtown a Perfect Choice for Your Wedding?

Smithtown sits beautifully along Long Island's North Shore, offering both luxury and more accessible wedding venue options for couples. You'll find everything from sprawling lawns to waterfront vistas and historic locations that create memorable backdrops for your special day. Stonebridge Country Club stands out with handicap-accessible spaces both indoors and outdoors, all set on meticulously manicured grounds you'll fall in love with. Just a short drive away in Stony Brook, The Estate at Three Village Inn provides a scenic and elegant environment perfect for couples needing accessibility features. If you're looking for upscale settings with accessible event areas, Essex Club in Brentwood offers stunning spaces across its 50-acre golf course.

What Types of Wedding Venues Can You Find in Smithtown?

Smithtown's venue selection caters to various wedding styles and preferences. The elegant ballrooms at Stonebridge Country Club feature Grand Ballroom spaces and charming outdoor gazebos for your ceremony or cocktail hour. If you're planning a larger celebration, Insignia offers beautiful mansion-styled settings with family-style rooms that can accommodate your extended guest list. You'll appreciate the historic charm at Three Village Inn while venues like Watermill Caterers provide more intimate atmospheres where you can expect attentive service throughout your celebration.

How Much Do Smithtown Wedding Venues Cost?

Wedding costs in Smithtown scale with your guest count, starting at about $32,316 for 50 guests and reaching $132,709 for 300 guests. Most couples planning for 150 guests spend around $76,011 for their complete celebration.

Guest CountAverage Total Budget
50 guests$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests$132,709
The average venue in Smithtown runs about $16,708 which makes up roughly 22% of your total budget for a 150-person wedding. This is noticeably higher than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 that typically represents 25% of wedding costs. You'll want to factor this premium into your planning process early on.

Where Can You Find Exceptional Culinary Experiences in Smithtown?

Insignia delivers some of the area's most impressive culinary offerings. You'll enjoy high-quality sushi, perfectly prepared steak, lobster and rack of lamb in an elegant mansion setting with both family-style rooms and outdoor options. Their fully staffed bars and dedicated event planners help accommodate large gatherings while maintaining that personalized touch you're looking for. Watermill Caterers at 711 Smithtown Bypass creates an intimate atmosphere that guests consistently rave about. Their cocktail hour selections and dinner service receive particularly high praise, and you'll benefit from experienced coordinators who ensure your celebration runs smoothly from start to finish.

Which Smithtown Venues Offer Remote Participation Options?

Stonebridge Country Club features an open-plan design with abundant natural light that supports high-quality video setups to engage your virtual guests. You can create truly immersive remote experiences by choosing venues with spacious layouts and strong internet connectivity. Look for places that welcome technical equipment and offer interactive platforms that transform passive watching into genuine engagement for those who can't attend in person.

When Should You Book Your Smithtown Wedding Venue?

Most couples secure their Smithtown wedding venues about 14 months (400 days) before their wedding date. August sees the highest number of venue inquiries, suggesting strong demand for fall and winter celebrations in this area. You'll want to start your venue search early if you're considering these popular seasons.

Which Venues in Smithtown Are Fully Accessible?

Accessibility matters for many couples planning their celebrations. Stonebridge Country Club offers handicap accessible spaces throughout their indoor and outdoor areas. The Estate at Three Village Inn provides accessible facilities too, though you should confirm specific details directly with them for your particular needs. Essex Club features accessible outdoor and indoor spaces that accommodate guests with mobility requirements while maintaining the elegant atmosphere you're looking for.

How Can You Maximize Value at Smithtown Wedding Venues?

You can stretch your wedding budget further by considering off-season dates from November through April when venues often offer discounts on their minimum spending requirements. Friday weddings typically save you about 10-20% compared to Saturday events. At some venues, daytime ceremonies actually include enhanced food options for the same per-person rate as evening events, giving you more culinary value for your investment.

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