The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Bethany, CT

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Bethany, CT

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56 Wedding Venues in Bethany, CT

Historic estates, mansions
50-100 guests
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The Mansion at West Sayville 
  • Up to 220 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Open house

Lavish glass enclosed patio, spectacular panoramic views of the Great South Bay.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
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The Woodwinds at The Blackstone Library 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 475 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

The James Blackstone Memorial Library, commonly known as the Blackstone Library, in Branford, Connecticut, is a historic and elegant venue perfect for weddings. Commissioned by Timothy Blackstone to honor his father, James Blackstone, the library was designed by renowned architect Solon Spencer Beman and completed in 1896. Its classic architectural features and serene ambiance make it an enchanting backdrop for wedding ceremonies and receptions. Woodwinds Catering enhances the wedding experience at the Blackstone Library with exquisite culinary offerings and impeccable service. Their attention to detail ensures that every aspect of the wedding day is flawlessly executed, from planning to the final toast. The library’s stunning exterior, with its intricate stonework and majestic columns, provides a picturesque setting for wedding photographs. Inside, the elegant interiors with high ceilings and rich woodwork create a warm and inviting atmosphere for guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Has an intimate atmosphere
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
Worked with the woodwinds at the library and they were so helpful. They showed me ahead of time where I was setting up, on arrival they had a table waiting for me. They even made sure I ate (the food is delicious!!!) I hope I get to work with them in the future!
Jay, 10 months ago
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Woodwinds 

4.5

Branford, CT
  • Up to 600 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $115

WoodWinds is one of the most sought after Connecticut wedding venues for wedding receptions, banquets, corporate events or any special occasion, in the Tri-State area. A wedding in our impressive European Country Manor will reflect your personal vision. Imagine a magical experience, enhanced by a unique ceremony and reception on the beautiful grounds of WoodWinds. Envision standing on a grand staircase under the twinkle of Austrian Crystal chandeliers, taking pictures in a magnificent garden and dancing the night away on a marble dance floor.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Bridal suite on site
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No free parking
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
The venue had a few hiccups, but overall we had a lovely reception there. The outdoor space was the highlight - truly gorgeous for photos. Communication on coordination was a bit spotty at times, but the maître d', Sergio, was a god send and stepped in to ensure things flowed smoothly. The food was phenomenal, as well! So many of our guests shared it was the best wedding food they’d ever had. We did have both our bridal attendants provided by the venue disappear on us shortly after we arrived, which was inconvenient since we would have paid for our own attendants if we knew that would be the case. While parts of the indoor space is dated, it worked out beautifully with some creative decor. When weighing everything in, the Woodwinds was a spectacular venue!
Negeena & M., 10 months ago
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Bill Miller's Castle 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,925
  • Offer

A magnificent, breathtaking landmark, Bill Miller’s Castle has served as an elegant venue for weddings, corporate events, and special occasions. Meticulous attention to detail, natural stonework, exposed reclaimed beams, an antique bronze bell weighing more than one ton, and rare antique furniture create a beautiful backdrop for any event or special occasion. Featuring five working field-stone fireplaces, three-story cathedral ceilings, ornate stained glass windows, crystal chandeliers, and a large dance floor; the grandeur of Bill Miller’s Castle will make your guests feel truly extraordinary from the moment they walk through the door.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Historic touches

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
If you have the means to, choose Bill Miller's as your venue! My now husband and I were treated like royalty from the first tour to our wedding day. We were never without a beverage and were well fed (almost too full!). Mary was our coordinator, and was never hard to reach. We chose this venue for a few reasons: we would have the venue for the whole day to ourselves, all-inclusive with fantastic food and great drinks, a solid indoor/rain option for the ceremony, and a coordinator was included. Bill Miller's really made our day seamless and everything was incredible. Thank you Mary and everyone at Bill Miller's for a wonderful stress-free day!
Bianca D., a year ago
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The Wadsworth Mansion At Long Hill Estate 

5.0

Middletown, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $30,000

The Wadsworth Mansion, a nineteenth-century Beaux Art style mansion, is the quintessential country estate. Graced by expansive lawns and surrounded by 103 acres of wooded parklands the Mansion reflects an era of grandeur and elegance. There are multiple locations for outdoor ceremonies and guests can enjoy cocktails and dance on the terrace under the stars. The Mansion can accommodate two hundred guests for a seated dinner reception and larger numbers for cocktail parties. Only one event is scheduled each day and couples can select from a list of approved caterers to create the wedding of their dreams.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Private area for the wedding party

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Weeks later, we're still absolutely gushing over the Mansion! It was the perfect venue for our wedding. They had it all, from phenomenal staff to luxurious facilities, not to mention the stunning views. We had the pleasure of working with Alexandra(Alex) we could not have asked for a better person! Alex knew all of our family members and bridal party’s names, and was extremely personable. She went above and beyond to make sure we were taken care of all night. She brought me a snack before the ceremony and continuously brought me my water all day and night (without me asking)They truly make you feel like a VIP throughout your entire day and their top notch team(along with our caterer David Alan) ensured that everything ran smoothly behind the scenes. In the early stages of planning we worked with Jessica Hess and she is extremely helpful and communicative. The mansion truly felt like home for the day. We hosted our ceremony on the vista , cocktail hour was on the terrace, and we had dinner in the East ballroom. Guests were in awe of the estate (we also lucked out with absolutely perfect weather), and how every detail was perfectly executed. Our special day was truly a dream and felt like it was out of a movie! We could not recommend the Wadsworth Mansion enough, and can't wait to return for future celebrations. It's definitely well-worth the investment and would 10/10 recommend hosting your special day here! Ps ask about the beautiful custom made bar (my stepdad built it) Our wedding Venue: The Wadsworth Mansion Photographer: Crystal Photography Second Shooter: Jenn Tee Photography Videographer: Jf3 Productions DJ: AMS - Mikey Tierney Caterer: David Alan Hospitality Group Bar: Cocktail Crusiers Gown: Grace Loves Lace Flower Girl Dress: Grace Loves Lace Tuxedo & Suits: Generation Tux Makeup: Upstyle Co. Autumn Starke Hair: The Hair Factory - Danielle Gagnon Getting Ready Suite: The Apiary Collective Cake: J Cakes MOB Dress: Camilyn Beth Bridal Bouquet & Boutonnière: Haworths Flower
Arianna C., a year ago
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The Spinning Wheel 

4.7

Redding, CT
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $7,000

As the embodiment of ‘Connecticut Charm’ with its 18th-century architectural design & rustic, New England inspired designs, The Spinning Wheel is the ideal destination for an intimate reception. Our venue, sitting on five acres of rolling countryside, offers both privacy and accessibility - with its picturesque location in quaint Redding, CT and its proximity to major thruways (I-95) and Manhattan (approximately an hour away). Our charmingly-appointed banquet room can accommodate weddings of up to 150 guests and features the original fireplace from 1742. The scenic garden gazebo is a favorite for nuptial exchange and the covered patio serves as a perfect setting for cocktails and outdoor receptions. Come meet our family and explore our beautiful grounds yourself – we can’t wait to meet you!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides setup and cleanup

Venue considerations

  • No on-site bridal suite
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Awarded Best of Zola
From the images I saw online to the reality- The Spinning Wheel was a dream come true! Katlyn, GM, is absolutely amazing at keeping things running and organized and she is excellent at anticipating needs before we even knew we needed anything!! Cannot say enough good things about this venue and HIGHLY recommend booking to anyone planning a wedding or other event.
Sarah, a month ago
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Riverbend 

4.2

Higganum, CT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $25,000

Welcome to Connecticut Wedding Group's latest jewel, Riverbend—a masterpiece poised to claim its title as the state’s foremost wedding destination, with an opening scheduled for 2026! Nestled in the heart of Higganum, this venue seamlessly blends the rich tapestry of the town's industrial history with a contemporary touch, resulting in an unmatched fusion of industrial charm and modern elegance. As you step through the entrance, prepare to be enchanted by a stunning architectural marvel nestled within a lovingly restored industrial gem. Towering, exposed-beam ceilings create an expansive atmosphere, and the weathered brickwork shares the timeless tales of a bygone era. Bathed in sunlight pouring through expansive windows, every corner is adorned with a soft, natural glow, ensuring that your celebration emanates with an undeniable warmth and inherent beauty. At Riverbend, history meets modernity to create the perfect backdrop for your special day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Riverbend is like nothing else we've experienced - the stunning buildings, winding river and peaceful sun-dappled property is just amazing. But the venue's beauty is just the beginning! The planning team at Connecticut Wedding Group is professional magic, orchestrating every detail with laser focus and contagious enthusiasm - you can't help but smile when you're with any of them. And don't even get us started on the food, it's literally the best that we've ever had. If you're dreaming of a wedding that's breathtaking, one of a kind and stress-free, you need to book Riverbend!
Daphne and Dean, a year ago
Glastonbury Theater 

5.0

Glastonbury, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $1,300

Nestled in the heart of Glastonbury, Connecticut, the historic Glastonbury Theater has been a cornerstone of community engagement since 1929. Originally a grange hall, this venue has been transformed over the years, keeping its unique charm intact while adapting to modern necessities. Today, the theater offers a blend of timeless elegance and state-of-the-art facilities, perfect for a variety of events, from intimate gatherings to large corporate functions. We can comfortably accommodate up to 100 guests seated, and up to 200 in a theater-style arrangement. At Glastonbury Theater, we craft memorable experiences with a deep commitment to excellence, celebrating the power of community and heritage. We're excited to invite you to become part of our rich history and create your own unforgettable moments on our storied stage.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides catering services
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Has a glamorous vibe

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Not wheelchair accessible
The event team is highly professional and goes the extra mile to ensure a successful event. Highly recommended for a unique and memorable wedding experience
Asana Crystal, 2 years ago
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The Lace Factory 

5.0

Deep River, CT
  • Up to 225 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $17,500

Even if one didn't put their own personal touches to this space it is still stunning. So much natural and creative lighting with a beautiful courtyard for reception or ceremony. Industrial history, attention to detail and location! Covid procedures and restriction apply.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Combines timeless elegance with history

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No on-premises lodging options
I honestly forget if I already wrote a review for The Lace Factory, but recently I was reflecting on our wedding day and a few things stuck out that had me so thankful we held our reception at The Lace Factory. From the beginning of the planning process the team is extremely clear and communicative. I love a checklist and theirs is one that ensures nothing will be forgotten. Our guests are still sharing how gorgeous the venue was, how incredible the food spread was, and one detail I was surprised by, from my cousin who has been to their fair share of large celebrations. "The food was not only delicious, but they managed to serve such a large group and the food was actually hot!" This speaks to the well-oiled machine that is The Lace Factory and it must be emphasized that this machine has heart. They accomplished another feat of having my family and I not worry about the severe allergy of my dad, as they adjusted the menu accordingly, without us having to miss out on all the options. This carried over to assist some guests who also had specific dietary needs. I realize this sounds boring, but it is wonderful to know your guests are safe and fed and focus on the celebrating! The Lace Factory is a venue that can transform your wedding into something beyond your dreams while holding true to your vision.
Annie S., 10 months ago
Essex Steam Train & Riverboat 

5.0

Essex, CT
  • Up to 230 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor

We make our beautiful facilities, equipment, and catering staff available for weddings, reunions, meetings, and other events. We have four beautiful indoor/outdoor event spaces to choose from, all different and unique in their own way!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Not wheelchair accessible
I have loved coming to the Essex Steam Train & Riverboat museum since I was a child so when my husband and I got engaged, we knew we had to get married here. It was such a magical venue and was reasonably priced. They truly don't try to nickel-and-dime you like a lot of other wedding venues, they just want you to have a good experience. The bridal suite was a beautifully decorated air-conditioned train car. We also decided to add on a roundtrip steam train ride down to the CT river and a steamboat cruise as our cocktail hour (honestly didn't cost as much as you'd think...). Our reception was inside the hall and was perfectly air-conditioned and decorated. We did a buffet option and the food was good! If you decide to get married outside, just remember that it IS an active train yard so make sure your officiant has a microphone. Meredith and Tyler were very easy to work with while planning the event. I highly recommend getting married here. Oh, and your photos will look INSANE.
Kayla M., 2 months ago
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Caramoor Center for Music and the Arts 

5.0

Katonah, NY
  • Up to 700 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $50,000

Although widely known for our weddings, many families have selected Caramoor to celebrate important milestones like special birthdays, anniversaries, family reunions, Bar and Bat Mitzvahs, and other significant life events. Our variety of unique venues will make your wedding day a one-of-a-kind experience for you and your guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Private area for the wedding party

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Dance floor not included
Caramoor magic is real! Surrounding nature, gardens, special spaces and treasures in the Rosen House, festive tented occasions, dining, and year round concerts all happen at Caramoor. With great pleasure, and for many years, I enjoy working with this lovely, personable, dedicated Caramoor staff.
Mary Lou Pappas, 5 years ago
Bank Street Events 

5.0

Stamford, CT
  • Up to 130 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $12,000

Bank Street Events is a historic wedding venue located downtown Stamford, Connecticut. Originally built in 1912 as a bank building, the venue features classic architecture, decorative detailed walls and a magnificent dome. Its stunning atmosphere and elegant ambience provides couples with a unique, contemporary space to host their once-in-a-lifetime celebration. Our professional staff will handle every detail and work alongside you every step of the way, assisting with everything from decor and details to menu selection and planning.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Classic, vintage atmosphere

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
  • No free parking
Couldn’t have asked for anything more. There is amazing value in Bank Street for a wedding. From the wedding planner (who we loved working with) to all the details she helped to plan. We had some specific ideas and everything came to reality. Our night was perfect & our guests would also say the same. Thank you to everyone at Bank Street who made it so special.
Mike + J., 5 years ago
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The Rams Head Inn 

5.0

Shelter Island Heights, NY
  • Up to 225 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

Please contact us directly to get more information, pricing and availability. Email corinna (a) the rams head inn . com, or text/call 6 3 1. 9 0 3. 2 3 5 5. Located on beautiful Shelter Island overlooking Coecles Harbor, The Ram's Head Inn has breath-taking water views. The hotel features 17 guest rooms, a private beach, hammocks and Adirondack chairs for our guests. The restaurant features the best in local fare with food coming almost exclusively from the east end of Long Island or from the Chef's garden. Website: the rams head inn .com

Why you'll love this venue

  • Historic touches
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Lighting and sound are not included
Rams Head Inn was an absolute pleasure to work with for my client's summer wedding! Their events manager was communicative and detail-oriented leading up to the wedding, and on the day of, the entire team was so on top of everything. The RHI staff is delightful and are great team players. I definitely felt like we were all working together to bring our clients' vision to life!
Leah W., 4 years ago
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Watermill Caterers 

4.3

Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor

One of Long Island's best-kept secrets, our sprawling estate is nestled in the heart of Suffolk County and is surrounded by manicured landscapes, winding pathways and historic architecture. With an atmosphere of rustic elegance and timeless beauty, the Watermill is the perfect marriage of old-world charm and luxurious modern comforts—perfectly providing the finest amenities and endless enchantments at every turn. For more than 25 years, the Watermill has fostered joy and thousands of lasting memories through an unyielding commitment to providing unparalleled service, award-winning cuisine, and an unforgettable experience for each and every guest who walks through our doors.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a chic vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Watermill Caterers was an absolute pleasure to work with for our wedding. From the moment we first reached out, their communication was attentive, responsive, and respectful - they made the entire planning process feel easy and smooth. The quality of their work was truly amazing, with a stunning, modern, and updated event space that exceeded all of our expectations. They helped make all of our wedding day dreams come true, handling every detail with care and ensuring the day went off without a hitch. I would book with Watermill Caterers again in a heartbeat.
Amanda K., 5 months ago
Curry Estate 

5.0

Hopewell Junction, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,300

We'd love to help you if your wedding has been postponed or rescheduled. We have dates available and are ready to work with brides. Let's sit down and plan a new date for your special day! Le Chambord at Curry Estate is one of the most elegant and romantic wedding venues in the Hudson Valley. We know you have a unique vision for your wedding and this ten-acre beautifully treed and gardened property, with 1863 historic Georgian Colonial estate, ballroom, covered outdoor pavilion, four-star restaurant, conference center and overnight accomodations is the perfect setting to make that dream come true.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides catering services
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
I couldn't have asked for a better venue and management from Curry Estate. The sisters that own this venue truly made my husband and I feel like a part of their family. There was constant communication from booking to wedding day, with a year and a half in between. The grounds are beautiful and everyone at Curry Estate acted with intention to make our day the most amazing day that it was. We would recommend this venue to anyone a million times over. The planning, food, staff and day of coordination couldn't have been better. Our guests continue to tell us how amazing the day was and it is without a doubt a result of the wonderful team that runs and owns this venue.
Jessica B., 3 years ago
The Bykenhulle House 

5.0

Hopewell Junction, NY
  • Up to 85 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,500

The Bykenhulle House is the perfect setting for a country chic wedding located in the heart of Hudson Valley, New York. Our historic estate boasts a formal ballroom, perennial gardens, a manicured lawn, and multiple stone patios to stage your event.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a glamorous vibe
  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • Not wheelchair accessible
The Bykenhulle House is a hidden gem hidden in the countryside in Dutchess County. The Bykenhulle has been hosting weddings for over 10 years, the setup is unique and beautiful. The ballroom speaks volumes with the perfect lighting. The gardens are perfect and offer those most beautiful of ceremonies. The Bykenhulle has great relationships with their preferred caterers and sought-after wedding vendors from the Hudson Valley.
Stacey Gillette Rogan, 4 years ago
Phelps-Hatheway House & Garden 

5.0

Suffield, CT
  • Up to 160 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $2,749

The Phelps-Hatheway House & Garden highlights the elegant lifestyle enjoyed by two 18th-century families on Suffield’s historic Main Street. From the grand staircase to the fine Connecticut furniture and Parisian wallpaper, the house showcases Federal period high style. The landscaped grounds feature formal flower beds and an herb garden. A historic barn and cozy summer house are perfect for weddings, meetings, and other special occasions.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
Perfect venue for our party size. The staff could not have been better to us
Mary Beth W., 3 months ago
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Chateau at Coindre Hall 

5.0

Huntington, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Seemingly plucked from the south of France, this 80,000 square-foot medieval-style mansion provides a setting that is both timeless and historic. A majestic foyer greets guests upon arrival at this 40-room chateau; a stately circular stairway provides the perfect backdrop for photos, the grand ballroom and piazza offer two distinct settings. Your guests will appreciate being able to explore this 1912 mansion that is a point of pride for Huntington residents and a National Historic landmark.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Bridal suite on site
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Exudes old-world charm

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Awarded Best of Zola
My husband and I were thrilled with our wedding at the Chateau at Coindre Hall. The venue offers a beautiful, elegant, and one-of-a-kind setting that perfectly complemented our vision for the big day. The staff were fantastic to work with - communication was always quick, clear, and helpful in the planning process. They had faith that the rain would let up just in time for our outdoor ceremony, and we are so grateful we went for it because it truly did turn out perfectly. The delicious food and drinks had all our guests raving - we received so many compliments! Overall, we highly recommend Coindre Hall for couples looking for a unique and gorgeous wedding venue with wonderful staff.
Amy S., 10 months ago
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Reid Castle Events 

5.0

Purchase, NY
  • Up to 180 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

Weddings at Reid Castle are truly special and memorable events. When you have your wedding here, all the Shakespearean décor rooms on the first floor will be yours to use as you wish. Our glorious garden terraces and patio that adorn the castle are also open to you and your guests. As our special guest, we only host one reception per day, which means you and your bridal party can arrive early to get dressed, take some pre-wedding photos, or simply relax for a while before the excitement begins.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
You wouldn’t know one of the most beautiful venue and chapel is hiding on Manhattanville College campus but wow does Reid Castle deliver. Every room is more beautiful than the next and the west wing where our reception was held is jaw dropping. If you love a vintage, dark wood and classic vibe- this is the venue for you. Shaun, who runs the show and executes perfection, is the BEST. From the first tour of the venue to the day of she made sure my vision came to life and I cannot thank her and her staff enough.
Amelia H., a year ago
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The Briarcliff Manor 

4.4

Briarcliff Manor, NY
  • Up to 180 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Located in the historic town of Briarcliff Manor, New York, the estate has been making memories and hosting lavish events for over 50 years. Under the new leadership of the DiNapoli family, the manor – a full service venue – has been renovated and remodeled to merge old-world charm and contemporary elegance. Hosting events of up to 180 guests, it is our mission to provide each and every one of our guests with a timelessly elegant experience. Dedicated to delivering events with delicious cuisine, exceptional service and meticulous attention to detail, it is our desire to make you and your guests feel like a part of our family in this historic manor that boasts charm with seven fireplaces, sweeping staircases, and a grand appearance. A non-exhaustive list of available services include: All-inclusive packages, Setup and cleanup, A decor specialist and planner, Event planning, Banqueting rentals, In-house bar and catering, Lighting and sound, Valet parking and wheelchair access.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Private area for the wedding party

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
The Briarcliff Manor MADE my wedding! My guests came back saying it was the best wedding they'd been to and I highly doubt it would have been that way without their incredible staff, beautiful venue, and great food! I also notably had a few crises throughout the day (by no fault of theirs or any of my other vendors) and they handled these issues with care and grace and made it so that none of my guests recognized an issue. Particularly big shout out to Kelsey, who was extremely transparent and helped us with everything big or small throughout the planning process (also a huge help on the day of); Perry, the owner, who helped with many of the bigger things along the way as well and was lovely on the day of; and Jen, the bridal attendant, who I only met for the first time on the day of, but truly proved to be my savior when things went wrong! Also highly recommend hiring Vincenza to do decor as our chuppah was even better than I imagined it being. Overall, I am absolutely thrilled with Briarcliff and would highly recommend them as a venue. They made a day that could have been really difficult into a dream come true and I could not imagine getting married anywhere else!
Maddy M., 14 days ago
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The Bird and Bottle Inn 

5.0

Garrison, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled in the hills of the beautiful Hudson Highlands, this one-time colonial stagecoach stop is over 250 years old and has been lovingly restored in 2021 with all of the modern comforts. Meticulously landscaped grounds, a peaceful brook with overlook bridge and 5 unique, beautifully appointed guest rooms make this the perfect weekend wedding destination.

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Lighting and sound are not included
The Bird and Bottle Inn was the perfect fairytale setting for our wedding. From the beginning, there were many emails back and forth to get all the details just right, but the staff was incredibly responsive and professional throughout the entire planning process. But they really shined the day of the wedding. The set-up and ceremony went so smoothly, they made sure everything was taken care of. Even last minute timeline switches like cutting the cake earlier in the night was made easy. We also were able to stay at the inn and get ready there which made things much easier on us. They had our signature drinks, champagne, and food ready and waiting for all the guests as soon as the ceremony was over. I have been to weddings where the entire cocktail hour we were just waiting on line to get a drink, this was perfectly set up. Drinks were also being continually poured and served at an inside and an outside bar, and if you couldn’t make it to the bar there was always a server nearby to help. There was even one server who was assigned just to us, he went above and beyond, always made sure we had anything we needed, always getting us drinks or more food, it was wonderful. And the food… the food was simply amazing - usually wedding food can be boring, or like it was just mass produced and pumped out of the kitchen, but their food was perfect. I am still thinking about the short rib and our guests are still raving about it over a month later. Literally one guest saying it was the best food they ever had at a wedding. And the space is so beautiful, there are so many lovely place for photos, and really makes it seem like you are in an enchanted place. The bridge over the little babbling brook for a first look, the garden ceremony by the pond, the cocktail hour on the patio, are just to name a few of the perfect spots on the property. And having our Photo Booth inside on the velvet couch was a unique touch guests really enjoyed! Not to mention getting our own private cottage to stay in! We also were able to move inside to the bar after the wedding was over with just the couple guests that were staying with us at the Inn and it was a lovely way to wind down after all the festivities were over. The entire team at The Bird and Bottle Inn truly went above and beyond to ensure our special day was everything we dreamed it would be. We couldn't have asked for a more magical venue to celebrate our love
Amy C., 8 months ago
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Bourne Mansion 

5.0

Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Open house

This historic Vanderbilt mansion is a turn-of-the-century work of art that offers a traditional and classic setting for the grandest black tie affairs. From lawn events hosting over 1,000 guests, to weddings and corporate affairs hosting 300 guests, Bourne Mansion personifies luxury and grandeur and the elaborate celebrations of yesteryear. Bourne Mansion is conveniently located, only 90 minutes from New York City, yet worlds away.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Classic elegance
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
We got married 1/5/25 but had been working with Miriam for probably a year and a half before our big day. She was always so personable with us a treated us like family. Words cannot describe the love and care we felt from Jake, our maître D and Samantha, our bridal attendant, on our wedding day. We were cared for tediously and effortlessly. We felt like at ease, happy and totally relaxed. I needed Samantha and didn’t even know it, I am forever indebted to her - she could not have been more attentive and wonderful. Comforting me, assuring me, getting me where I need to be and when. So friendly, kind and amazing. Thank god for Jake. He is so special and we’re so lucky we got him as our maître D. He deems himself as a “yes man” and he is not lying. Anything you could have ever wanted from him, he’d deliver. We wanted for nothing, had wonderful direction from him all night and he took care of EVERYTHING!  The night was flawless, amazing, perfect and all we could have ever hoped for. The staff at Bourne is unmatched, we made the right choice with this venue. Guests will be in awe of the venue and talk about the food for years to come. I wish I could do it all again. Thank you Bourne mansion & staff for the best night of our lives! I don’t have all my pics back yet!
Sara C., 5 months ago
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The Mansion at Oyster Bay 

5.0

Woodbury, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Mansion at Oyster Bay stands majestically in the heart of 120 perfectly manicured acres in Woodbury, Long Island. The ambiance of this former magnificent Gold Coast estate is rich with elegance and hospitality, but updated with modern amenities. Come enjoy this experience of Long Island Gold Coast luxury, and share it with your guests in an unforgettable setting.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
My husband and I met in a wedding band so we have been to more than 400 weddings, almost all of which were extremely high end, so we knew exactly what we wanted and had very high expectations (on much less of a budget than the weddings we play)! We are so thrilled to have chosen this venue for our wedding because they knocked it out of the park! My family is not from the NY area and they were blown away by the building, the amount and quality of food, the service, etc. My husband’s family IS from the NY area so they expected great things, and the MOB delivered. Emily was so amazing through the entire process, answering my incessant emails and questions quickly and kindly. Mike we got into contact with the week of the wedding and everything ran smoothly. They were patient while we figured out how to make my husband’s vision of a large king’s table for us and our large bridal party happen, and facilitated all of the coordinating. I still had my own month of coordinator, but they take care of so much there, she was able to focus on more minute details because they had everything handled. We did not use any of their recommended vendors. We had a friday wedding to ensure we were the only ones getting married there that day. Bridal and groom’s suite were excellent. Timeline followed to a tee. Could not be happier! And a little hint to future couples: don’t listen to people who say Lessings is bad because they do so many weddings; they are so good at weddings because they do them all the time. Take it from someone who has seen it all, you DO NOT want to go to a place that doesn’t really do weddings. And lastly, so many of the most expensive places we have played are very similar to the mid-tier places we play. Don’t worry if your wedding isn’t at the Pierre, it is upsettingly similar to have it elsewhere.
Carol-Anne D., 3 months ago
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The Abbey Inn & Spa 

5.0

Peekskill, NY
  • Up to 130 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $25,000

With its views over the Hudson River Highlands, Fort Hill was a key lookout post for George Washington and his army during the Revolutionary War; in 1902, it became home to a convent and chapel, established by the Episcopal Sisters of Saint Mary. The abbey and its chapel have been converted into The Abbey Inn & Spa – a luxury hotel with 42 rooms and suites, a Michelin recommended farm-to-table restaurant under the direction of Chef Peter X. Kelly, a luxurious spa, an outdoor pool, and over 65 acres to explore. The chapel offers a unique venue for important occasions, and a peaceful English garden provides s gorgeous background for photos. Lovingly restored and meticulously designed, our hotel pays homage to its historic heritage while offering contemporary amenities and world-class service to each and every guest. All of us at The Abbey Inn and Spa are thrilled to be part of this exciting transformation, and we’re eager to share it with you.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a chic vibe
  • Provides event staff
  • Combines timeless elegance with history

Venue considerations

  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
I was one of few original wedding photographers to capture Abbey Inn's grand opening commercial photo shoot. I was extremely impressed by not only the polite construction and staff at the facility, but also how they had EVERYTHING figured out for large scale weddings and events to take place at their location. They have stunning-luxury hotel rooms & suites, a restaurant, bar and lounge space, gorgeous views of the Hudson valley, a cathedral -aesthetic ceremony and reception hall, lush gardens and lawns, plenty of parking, JUST A PERFECT SPOT for weddings and events so travel isn't an issue. ONE STOP SHOP :D I highly recommend this wedding venue!
Miranda, 5 years ago
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Whitby Castle 

4.8

Rye, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,500
  • Open house

Whitby Castle boasts a striking similarity to the details of the original Whitby Abbey in England, including some of the original Abbey stones. From the charm and romantic details of the architecture to the delicious food and drinks, and exceptional staff and service, we want to exceed all of your expectations.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Both indoor and outdoor options

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Additional event staff required
Awarded Best of Zola
We couldn’t be happier with our experience at Whitby Castle for our wedding that just took place in October! From the breathtaking architecture to the stunning golf course and water views, every detail of this venue is picture-perfect. The castle’s charm created an unforgettable backdrop for our ceremony and reception, making our special day feel truly magical. The staff at Whitby Castle went above and beyond to ensure every detail was taken care of. They were incredibly attentive, professional, and genuinely made us feel like we were their top priority. We were so impressed by how seamless the entire day went, from the planning process to the actual event. The team was incredibly attentive by customizing our reception space to reflect our vision. Their attention to detail in every aspect, from the table settings to the lighting, made our special day feel uniquely ours. Our day-of coordinator worked with grace and precision, making sure everything unfolded effortlessly. We were also lucky to have a bridal attendant that ensured every detail was in place, and who was a lifesaver in every way—professional, calm, and always ready to lend a hand. The indoor spaces, with their rich history and elegant décor, perfectly complemented the outdoor beauty. We loved how the venue was versatile enough to host both our ceremony and reception in one place, while still offering distinct areas for guests to enjoy. Our guests couldn't stop raving about the delicious food and exceptional service. The banquet team really made the meal feel like an experience, and we loved that the venue offers a variety of menu options, allowing us to personalize the dining experience for our guests. We couldn’t have imagined a more magical place to celebrate our wedding day. We truly felt like royalty celebrating in such a beautiful, historic venue. If you're looking for a venue that combines elegance, charm, and outstanding service, Whitby Castle is the perfect choice. Thank you to the Whitby Castle team for helping create the wedding of our dreams!
Scotland R., 7 months ago
The Chapel Restoration 

5.0

Cold Spring, NY
  • Up to 99 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $850

The Chapel Restoration provides a beautiful and unique backdrop for your intimate wedding. Perched high on the banks of the majestic Hudson River in the quaint, historic village of Cold Spring, NY, the Chapel Restoration boasts spectacular views of the Hudson River and many amenities including nearby access to Metro-North and ample parking.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor
  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • No on-premises lodging options
My husband and I were married at The Chapel Restoration and it was the most magical setting for our intimate celebration. The chapel overlooks the Hudson River which makes it a fantastic location for photos. The chapel itself is historic and beautifully maintained. The staff is caring and attentive. We highly recommend you consider the chapel for your special day!
Albelisa Kemp, 4 years ago
Union Church Of Pocantico Hills 

5.0

Tarrytown, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,800

Union Church of Pocantico Hills is a quaint wedding venue located in Tarrytown, NY with plenty of parking. Ideal for newlyweds planning a wedding, this charming stone church, built by the Rockefeller family, has a classic aesthetic that wedding-goers are sure to appreciate. Our non-denominational church welcomes all couples regardless of religious background, gender or belief. You don't need to be a member! The church boasts the world-famous 9 Marc Chagall and Henri Matisse stained-glass windows. The only Chagall stained-glass windows in the U.S. Commissioned by the Rockefeller family and Henri Matisse’s last work, the Rose Window creates a dramatic combination of art, beauty, and spirituality. After you have exchanged your vows, you and your partner can walk down the aisle marveling at the eye-catching windows above. The beautiful Reception Hall provides style and comfort! This remarkable venue will provide a truly magical atmosphere as you leap into your new marital adventure.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has an intimate atmosphere
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Private area for the wedding party

Venue considerations

  • No venue-provided food services
  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-premises lodging options
The grounds are peaceful and serene, the church is simply majestic, it's feels intimate and takes you back to a time long forgotten and did I mention the church's Marc Chagall custom made stain glass windows? And working with Natasha is very easy and insightful, every detail and request is met with utmost importance and preciseness
Julia Celio, Petalwhimsy, a year ago
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Rare650 Prime Steak and Sushi 

5.0

Syosset, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,000

Each wedding at Rare 650 is one of a kind – everything you ever dreamed and more. Dine, dance and celebrate in our fantastic new Conservatory with gleaming atrium-style ceilings that soar into the sky like your love together, capturing late afternoon sunbeams or the twinkling stars of night. Anchoring the great room is a majestic 12-foot handcrafted mantle adorned with warm, flickering candlelight. While our lush surrounding gardens bring the vibrant colors and beautiful textures of nature indoors. Comfortably accommodating over 100 guests in a perfect temperature-controlled environment, our Conservatory is a true architectural triumph that your wedding guests will marvel at and you will always remember as the perfect setting for the most special day of your life.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Provides catering services
  • Provides setup and cleanup

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • On-site parking not available
We celebrated our wedding on June 29 with about 75 guests, and it was nothing short of magical. We exchanged our personal vows before the ceremony, which took place outside in front of a beatiful waterfall. The setting was absolutely beautiful and created the perfect backdrop for our special day. Cindy and the entire 650 crew were phenomenal! Their attention to detail and commitment to making our day perfect was evident in everything they did. I wish I had more time to give each of them a hug for their incredible work! The food and drinks were simply amazing — to say they were delicious would be an understatement. What truly set this venue apart was Cindy’s dedication to ensuring everything ran smoothly. She was on top of every detail, even those I wasn’t aware of, allowing me to fully enjoy my day without any worries. I am so grateful to Cindy and the entire team for making our wedding day unforgettable. If you’re looking for a venue that combines beautiful scenery, exceptional service, and outstanding food and drink, look no further!
Sileni M., 10 months ago
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Palace Theater 
Waterbury, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $5,500

Fully restored to its original 1920's splendor, the historically grand and architecturally breathtaking Palace Theater is one of Connecticut's most striking performance arts venues and distinctive reception facilities. Be the star of your show when renting our three ornate lobby spaces or give your guests the royal treatment with a dramatic wedding and reception on stage. Our venue's marble staircases, velvet curtains, gold leaf ceilings and crystal chandeliers provide the perfect backdrop for capturing your most memorable wedding moments.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a glamorous vibe
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • No on-site guest accommodations
The Estate 
New Haven, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $4,500

NOTE: For additional information about The Estate, please email us directly via our website. The Estate is a countryside wedding venue located in New Haven, Connecticut. Nestled near the flowing waters of the coastline, this historic property is located on 12 acres and provides a refined setting for couples wanting to celebrate their special day in style. To begin your day on the right note, you can use the wedding suites for pre-ceremony preparations. Receptions are held outside in our elegant sailcloth tent while the mansion is a wonderful choice for hosting the cocktail reception. For your big day, The Estate is exclusively yours, giving you and your loved ones the time to create unforgettable memories together. When selecting The Estate as your wedding venue, the in-house event coordinator will work with you to ensure that your dream celebrations become a reality. Contact us today to learn more!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Surrounded by beautiful vineyards

Venue considerations

  • Does not provide event staff
  • Does not have a dance floor
  • No on-site guest accommodations

Location flexible? Discover venues near Bethany, CT

About wedding venues in Bethany, CT

Connecticut creates a magical backdrop for weddings with its diverse landscape ranging from historic mansions to renovated barns, waterfront properties and lush gardens. You'll find venues that perfectly blend traditional New England charm with modern amenities while showcasing the state's distinct seasonal beauty - exactly what you need to create those perfect wedding memories.

What Makes Connecticut Wedding Venues Distinctive?

Architectural diversity really sets Connecticut wedding venues apart. Eolia Mansion features an incredible amphitheater ceremony space and lovingly preserved period details that transport you back in time. The Barns at Wesleyan Hills stands out with its Edison Light Wall that creates absolutely magical evening ambiance you and your guests will remember forever. Fall weddings between September and October deliver spectacular foliage colors for ceremonies while July offers perfect conditions for waterfront celebrations along the Connecticut shoreline with comfortable temperatures and stunning water views.

How Much Do Connecticut Wedding Venues Cost?

Wedding venue costs in Connecticut typically range from $8,300 to $10,200 and represent about 17% of your total wedding budget. This aligns nicely with the national average of $6,500-$12,000 or 25% of total wedding costs, so you're getting good value in Connecticut.

For different guest counts, your approximate total wedding budgets will look like:

  • 50 guests: $24,172
  • 100 guests: $39,982
  • 150 guests: $54,842
  • 200 guests: $68,120
  • 250 guests: $81,398
  • 300 guests: $94,676

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in Connecticut?

The Riverview in Weatogue accommodates up to 500 seated guests with complete accessibility features and packages starting at $10,000. You'll find The Waterview in Monroe offers beautiful lakeside event spaces for up to 300 guests with handicap-accessible indoor and outdoor areas that make movement easy for all your guests.

Eolia Mansion at Harkness Memorial State Park gives you accessible ceremony locations for up to 150 guests with pricing starting at $5,000, while The Glastonbury Boathouse welcomes 150 guests with wheelchair accessibility throughout its indoor and outdoor spaces so everyone can enjoy your special day without limitations.

Which Connecticut Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

The Omni New Haven Hotel at Yale showcases local ingredients through their upscale in-house catering that will impress even your foodie guests. Delamar West Hartford features the award-winning Artisan Restaurant offering refined cuisine in an upscale setting that perfectly complements your celebration.

The Pond House Cafe in West Hartford has earned serious praise for unique food options and stunning presentation that elevates your reception experience. Winvian in Morris delivers true 5-star farm-to-table dining with ingredients harvested from their on-site gardens; you'll taste the difference in every bite and your guests will be talking about the meal for years.

How Can Connecticut Venues Accommodate Remote Wedding Guests?

The Waterview offers cutting-edge virtual reality applications allowing your remote guests to explore venue grounds and interact with on-site attendees almost like they're physically there. Anthony's Ocean View provides dedicated event concierges who help integrate technology for seamless remote participation so no one feels left out.

Innovative venues now incorporate interactive video conferencing virtual reality experiences and personalized virtual engagement platforms that go far beyond simple streaming. These technologies create truly inclusive experiences for remote guests who can't make it in person but still want to share in your special day.

When Should You Book Your Connecticut Wedding Venue?

Connecticut venues typically need booking 16 months in advance with September generating the highest volume of venue inquiries. The peak wedding season spans September-October when fall foliage creates stunning natural decor driving serious competition for prime weekend dates at barn and outdoor venues. You'll want to secure your date early especially if you're dreaming of that perfect autumn wedding.

What Wedding Costs Should You Expect in Connecticut?

Key wedding expenses for a 150-guest wedding include:

  • Venue: $9,243 (17%)
  • Catering: $7,395 (13%)
  • Florists: $6,399 (12%)
  • Bar Services: $5,916 (11%)
  • Planners: $5,119 (9%)
  • Photographers: $4,977 (9%)

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