The Best Select Services Wedding Venues in Apex, NC

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9 Wedding Venues in Apex, NC

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The Oaks at Salem 
Rating: 5.0 (1 review)
Apex, NC
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor

The Oaks at Salem has everything you are looking for! As the premier venue for weddings, receptions, rehearsal dinners, and other Triangle functions, the property provides numerous options for both outdoor and indoor entertaining! ​ Combining centuries-old charm with the best of modern conveniences, the setting is designed to capitalize on the views from every vantage point. Situated on over eleven pastoral acres with mature hardwoods and beautiful landscaping, The Oaks at Salem provides a plethora of photo opportunities beyond your imagination. The main level of the house offers a cozy fireplace and over one thousand square feet of veranda overlooking our ceremony wall, serene, one-acre pond, and newly acquired rustic barn.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Promotes a party atmosphere
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • No venue-provided food services
  • No free parking
  • Best for events with big guest lists
The Oaks was everything I dreamed of and provided the absolute best back drop for our pictures. The house is gorgeous and plenty spacious! We are thrilled that’s where we got to say and celebrate our I Do’s!
Stephanie K., 2 years ago
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The Upchurch 
Rating: 5.0 (16 reviews)
Cary, NC
  • Up to 225 guests
  • Select services
  • Starts at $5,500

Combining historic charm with modern amenities, The Upchurch offers a versatile space for weddings. The venue features elegant interiors and beautiful outdoor spaces, providing a sophisticated backdrop for any celebration. Personalized service ensures a unique and unforgettable wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Our wedding at The Upchurch was truly everything we dreamed of and more. From the moment we arrived that morning to get ready, the day felt calm, joyful, and so thoughtfully planned. The venue itself is absolutely stunning. The historic home is full of charm and natural light, the Magnolia Lawn is breathtaking, and the Conservatory is bright, romantic, and timeless. Every part of the day flowed so naturally from the ceremony to cocktail hour and into the reception. It genuinely felt like a fairytale from beginning to end. Booking The Upchurch’s in-house wedding planning service was one of the best decisions I made. Melanie was incredible throughout the entire planning process. She was organized, reassuring, and truly cared about bringing our vision to life. On the wedding day, I worked closely with Heidi, Tara, and Melanie, and they were absolutely amazing. They handled every detail seamlessly, coordinated everything behind the scenes, and made sure the day ran perfectly. Because of them, I never once felt stressed and was able to be fully present and enjoy every moment. Our guests are still talking about how beautiful The Upchurch is and how perfect the entire day felt. The combination of a breathtaking venue and a team that genuinely cares about their couples is something truly special. Choosing The Upchurch was one of the best decisions we made, and we will always be grateful for the role they played in making our wedding day unforgettable.
Molly N., 6 months ago
Morris Peaceland Farm 
Rating: 3.0 (1 review)
Raleigh, NC
  • Up to 220 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor

Morris Peaceland Farm is a rare gem in the heart of Wake County, a destination venue that won’t disappoint. This refined-inspired 13-acre farm is owned and operated from the hearts of the family that made their dream a reality. Morris Peaceland Farm is just that, a peaceful setting, surrounded by nature, eager for your dreams to become reality as you celebrate that special day with friends and family.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Space for a large guest list
  • Rustic charm with elegance

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Dance floor not included
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Goels Plaza 
Rating: 5.0 (1 review)
Morrisville, NC
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $2,000

Goels Plaza provides a place for family, friends, loved ones, and coworkers to come together to celebrate the special moments in life. Host your events in one of the most prime and central locations of North Carolina: The Triangle. With five different ballroom options, no event is too big or too small. As a full-service venue, we can offer services from planning to entertainment to décor. Our team at Goels Plaza is honored to host events that have led to unforgettable memories. Allow us to become a part of your memory as well. Goels Plaza is the largest privately owned banquet facility in North Carolina.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not allow pets
We couldn't have asked for a better experience at Goels Plaza. From start to finish, the team was easy to work with and kept things straightforward without being stuffy. The event coordinator and management took so much stress off our shoulders, and we really appreciated their flexibility—we were able to bring in our own caterer, which made the day feel exactly how we wanted it. They made our event planner's life so much easier too, which honestly meant everything to us. Goels Plaza gave us the space and support to create our own vision, and we highly recommend them to any couple looking for a venue that truly listens.
Nora G., 2 months ago
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The Umstead Hotel and Spa 
Rating: 5.0 (2 reviews)
Cary, NC
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $21,500

Be welcomed into the only Forbes Five-Star Hotel in North Carolina and experience breathtaking views, stunning, art-filled interiors, exquisite dining and indulgent spa treatments in a setting where art, nature and wellness beautifully come together. As one of the most romantic and tranquil wedding venues near Raleigh, North Carolina, The Umstead Hotel and Spa features elegantly appointed function space, luxury suites and gourmet catering to ensure a wedding celebration and honeymoon to remember. Whether you're planning an intimate gathering or an extravagant wedding, our wooded grounds, lakeside terrace and elegant lawn are yours to fill with guests and loved ones for any social event.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Additional event staff required
We have been DJing at The Umstead Hotel and Spa since it opened. It is an exceptional wedding venue that exceeds every expectation. Their communication has always been fast and efficient. The quality of their work and attention to detail shines. They go above and beyond to serve their clients and their vendors. This is a fantastic space with amazing staff, period.
Joe Bunn, a year ago
Hyatt House RDU 
Rating: 5.0 (1 review)
Morrisville, NC
  • Up to 80 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $2,000

Hyatt House Raleigh Durham Airport hotel is beautifully located in the heart of Perimeter Park. It’s the perfect location to plan your special event and out of town accommodations. While in town, enjoy our complimentary shuttle service offering short drives to all points of the triangle and Raleigh Durham Airport. We make planning easy with our flexible F&B packages and convenient on-site amenities.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • Additional event staff required
My wedding was this past December, and I had been looking for a hotel to accommodate my family and friends. The Hyatt House in Morrisville was the perfect spot. The staff was extremely helpful and friendly and even handed out gift bags to our guests. The event coordinator, Brett, is absolutely fantastic to work with. He is not only professional, but extremely kind and responsive. I am a big fan of Hyatt in general, but this experience just really solidified everything about Hyatt I already like. The hotel lobby area/bar was the perfect spot for the family to informally gather during the wedding weekend and the variety in breakfast day to day was also an added bonus. If you area looking for a spot to host your family and friends then definitely consider this hotel!
Olympio + B., 3 years ago
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Mini Acres Farm 
Rating: 5.0 (4 reviews)
Raleigh, NC
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor

This a working family-owned farm. All of the wooden structures have been built with wood off this land. We also have a pick-your-own blueberry operation in June and July. We currently have an country setting venue just miles from downtown Raleigh.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Surrounded by nature
  • Rustic charm with elegance

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
  • No in-house catering options
Awarded Best of Zola
When I say best wedding ever I mean it! I lucked out finding the venue and I’m so happy I did. It’s a beautiful place. My husband and I will never forget our special day. The guests raved about how great the venue was. It really was perfect. Don’t miss a chance to book this special place bc I promise you won’t regret it. The groom and bride room are one of the great features of the venue. Both rooms have everything you could ask for to help relax and get ready for the big day. If you’re looking for an outdoor venue this is place! Soon will have an In door space as well. Thanks again to the venue for everything truly was a special day!
Katie M., 2 years ago
The StateView Hotel 
Raleigh, NC
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor

All you need for the perfect wedding day is to look into the eyes of your spouse-to-be and promise them forever love – with a gorgeous backdrop, impressive food and a charming reception space, artfully decorated with your specific tastes in mind. That’s exactly what you’ll find here at the StateView Hotel in Raleigh, NC. Imagine saying “I do” while standing in the sunshine on our sweeping green lawn with the glistening waters of Lake Raleigh in the background. After the ceremony, retreat to our beautiful ballroom, completely customized for you and your guests. Now it’s time to eat, drink and be merry – you’ve just tied the knot with the love of your life!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a glamorous vibe
  • Provides catering services
  • Caters to out-of-town guests

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Does not allow pets
  • Dance floor not included

About wedding venues in Apex, NC

North Carolina offers an impressive wedding venue landscape with everything from historic plantations to rustic barns, elegant urban spaces and coastal retreats. You'll find architectural diversity throughout the state; from colonial-era mansions in Charlotte to converted textile mills in the Triangle region. Mountain venues give you breathtaking panoramic views of the Blue Ridge Mountains that your guests won't forget.

What's the Average Cost for North Carolina Wedding Venues?

Wedding venues in North Carolina typically run between $6,400 and $7,800, making up about 16% of your total wedding budget. That's actually quite reasonable compared to the national average of $6,500-$12,000 or 25% of total costs. For a complete North Carolina wedding you can expect these total costs based on your guest count: A small wedding with 50 guests averages $19,707. With 100 guests you're looking at $32,695. For 150 guests the typical cost reaches $44,906. Larger celebrations with 200 guests average $55,823 while 250 guests pushes to $66,740. A large wedding with 300 guests typically costs $77,657.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in North Carolina?

Alexander Homestead in Charlotte offers ADA-accessible parking and restrooms in a beautiful historic setting with a rustic barn and gorgeous gardens. You'll appreciate the inclusivity without sacrificing style. The Mint Museum features various rooms and terraces that can accommodate different needs, making it a solid choice for accessible events with an artistic backdrop. Nantahala Weddings & Events is fully ADA-compliant while giving you stunning mountain views on a secluded estate. They even have nearby lodging options for your guests.

Which North Carolina Venues Support Remote Participation?

The Barn on New River in West Jefferson gives you a picturesque setting with modern amenities that can be customized for interactive remote elements. Your virtual guests won't miss a thing. River Landing near Wilmington features elegant spaces and grand ballrooms that support technical capabilities for streaming and live Q&A sessions. The Maxwell in Raleigh, with its contemporary design and abundant natural light, adapts beautifully to technology integration for virtual wedding experiences that feel intimate even from afar.

How Much Should I Budget for Wedding Services in North Carolina?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget (150 guests)
Venue$7,08916%
Catering$5,67113%
Flowers$5,54612%
Bar Services$4,53710%
Photographers$4,2669%
Planners$4,0249%
Videographers$3,7688%
Bands/DJs$1,3903%
Cakes/Desserts$9602%
Hair & Makeup$6351%

Where Can Foodies Find Outstanding Wedding Cuisine in North Carolina?

The Farm - A Gathering Place in Candler offers amazing farm-to-table dining with customized menus just west of Asheville. You'll love having multiple ceremony sites to choose from and the convenience of on-site lodging for your guests. The Carolina Inn in Chapel Hill is known for classic Southern cuisine with elegant event spaces right on UNC's campus. Their beautiful outdoor courtyards create a magical setting for your special day. Polanco Venue by Chef Carrasco in Asheville specializes in mixed cuisine with excellent service from experienced staff who can help create your perfect culinary experience.

When Should I Book My North Carolina Wedding Venue?

September is North Carolina's most popular inquiry month for weddings, so you'll need to book earlier if you're planning a fall celebration. Don't wait too long or your dream venue might be taken. Focus your venue tours on spaces that specifically accommodate your guest count to save time and avoid falling in love with locations that won't work for your party size. This targeted approach helps you find the perfect match faster.

North Carolina offers an impressive wedding venue landscape with everything from historic plantations to rustic barns, elegant urban spaces and coastal retreats. You'll find architectural diversity throughout the state; from colonial-era mansions in Charlotte to converted textile mills in the Triangle region. Mountain venues give you breathtaking panoramic views of the Blue Ridge Mountains that your guests won't forget.

What's the Average Cost for North Carolina Wedding Venues?

Wedding venues in North Carolina typically run between $6,400 and $7,800, making up about 16% of your total wedding budget. That's actually quite reasonable compared to the national average of $6,500-$12,000 or 25% of total costs. For a complete North Carolina wedding you can expect these total costs based on your guest count: A small wedding with 50 guests averages $19,707. With 100 guests you're looking at $32,695. For 150 guests the typical cost reaches $44,906. Larger celebrations with 200 guests average $55,823 while 250 guests pushes to $66,740. A large wedding with 300 guests typically costs $77,657.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in North Carolina?

Alexander Homestead in Charlotte offers ADA-accessible parking and restrooms in a beautiful historic setting with a rustic barn and gorgeous gardens. You'll appreciate the inclusivity without sacrificing style. The Mint Museum features various rooms and terraces that can accommodate different needs, making it a solid choice for accessible events with an artistic backdrop. Nantahala Weddings & Events is fully ADA-compliant while giving you stunning mountain views on a secluded estate. They even have nearby lodging options for your guests.

Which North Carolina Venues Support Remote Participation?

The Barn on New River in West Jefferson gives you a picturesque setting with modern amenities that can be customized for interactive remote elements. Your virtual guests won't miss a thing. River Landing near Wilmington features elegant spaces and grand ballrooms that support technical capabilities for streaming and live Q&A sessions. The Maxwell in Raleigh, with its contemporary design and abundant natural light, adapts beautifully to technology integration for virtual wedding experiences that feel intimate even from afar.

How Much Should I Budget for Wedding Services in North Carolina?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget (150 guests)
Venue$7,08916%
Catering$5,67113%
Flowers$5,54612%
Bar Services$4,53710%
Photographers$4,2669%
Planners$4,0249%
Videographers$3,7688%
Bands/DJs$1,3903%
Cakes/Desserts$9602%
Hair & Makeup$6351%

Where Can Foodies Find Outstanding Wedding Cuisine in North Carolina?

The Farm - A Gathering Place in Candler offers amazing farm-to-table dining with customized menus just west of Asheville. You'll love having multiple ceremony sites to choose from and the convenience of on-site lodging for your guests. The Carolina Inn in Chapel Hill is known for classic Southern cuisine with elegant event spaces right on UNC's campus. Their beautiful outdoor courtyards create a magical setting for your special day. Polanco Venue by Chef Carrasco in Asheville specializes in mixed cuisine with excellent service from experienced staff who can help create your perfect culinary experience.

When Should I Book My North Carolina Wedding Venue?

September is North Carolina's most popular inquiry month for weddings, so you'll need to book earlier if you're planning a fall celebration. Don't wait too long or your dream venue might be taken. Focus your venue tours on spaces that specifically accommodate your guest count to save time and avoid falling in love with locations that won't work for your party size. This targeted approach helps you find the perfect match faster.

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