Soco & Co

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Pricing

Prices start at $350

Packages

Prices start at $350

Offer from vendor

Two more vow writing workshops of 2026!

Join Officiants Anna and Sarah for a one-hour virtual vow writing workshop (sliding scale)! Only two dates left: Sept. 13 and Oct. 11. Grab tickets at our website or message for more info!


About Soco & Co

Anna Socolofsky

Officiant and Founder

Hi! My name is Anna Soco (she/her) and I'm the PNW's premiere Queer wedding officiant and believer in love. My work is rooted in the belief that love is alive, communal, and transformative - and because of that, your wedding ceremony should be, too! I work with soulmates of all kinds to create ceremonies that reflect what truly matters most to you. My clients (y'all!) are my "co" - each new client relationship is an opportunity to learn more about love, together. I adore, appreciate, and learn from each and every one of you. And I never quit rooting for my couples!

A student of world religions with a BA in Religious Studies and an MA in Teaching, I draw on my background as both educator and facilitator to create spaces of meaning, connection, and joy. I'm a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community and it is my honor to serve all healthy love stories with respect, intention, and a big hearty dose of Soco & Co. magic. My work has been recognized with two Best of Weddings Awards (2025 and 2026), features in Washington Wedding Day’s Best of 2025 and most recently, was voted Best Officiant in the PNW Weddings Magazine's 2026 Excellence Awards. I truly love what I do!

In three words: Nurturing, Positive, Whimsical


Services

Ceremony types

  • Civil Union
  • Commitment Ceremony
  • Elopement
  • Interfaith Ceremony
  • Legal License Signing
  • Multicultural Weddings
  • Non-religious Ceremony
  • Vow Renewal Ceremony

Religious affiliations

  • Interfaith
  • Other
  • Secular
  • Spiritual

Soco & Co packages

The Shoreline: An Intimate Beginning

Description

A ceremony rooted in the place where love first feels like home—your living room or that of someone who adores you. With up to eight guests gathered close, we create a simple, meaningful hour together. I’ll offer warm opening remarks, you’ll share your vows, exchange rings, say “I do,” and step into marriage wrapped in the presence of your people. This is wedding ceremony at its purest: homegrown joy, nothing extra. Offered on a sliding scale ($350-$750) because every love deserves celebration.

What’s included
  • Sweet and reverent ceremony script
  • The Soco & Co Vow Writing guide
  • Travel in the Portland, OR metro area
  • Marriage license filed accurately on your behalf

The Crossing: Beautifully Personal

Description

Designed for couples who want something personal, sweet, and full of ease—on the beach, in the woods, or in a cozy venue with a handful of loved ones. You’ll complete a love story questionnaire that helps me anchor your ceremony fully in your love’s joy and wisdom. You may choose an optional reading, and together we’ll move through your vows, ring exchange, “I do’s,” and a joyful pronouncement. Ideal for ~20-60 guests

What’s included
  • In-Depth Love Story Questionnaire
  • Personalized ceremony script
  • One custom unity ritual or reading
  • Vow writing support
  • Travel within 60 miles of PDX
  • Virtual Rehearsal
  • Marriage License filed accurately on your behalf

Open Waters: The Signature Experience

Description

This is where we go all in. Over multiple sessions (virtual or IRL), we settle into long-form conversation, and you get the chance to complete a thoughtful, story-rich questionnaire based on what I learn about you. From these touchpoints, I craft a ceremony that could only belong to each of you—deeply personal, woven from the heart of your relationship. Prepare to go off the beaten path!

What’s included
  • Fully custom ceremony script and structure
  • Priority communication and planning support
  • Love story exploration session (virtual or IRL)
  • Up to three unity rituals and unlimited readings
  • Vow writing support
  • Travel within 60 miles of PDX
  • Virtual rehearsal
  • Marriage license filed accurately on your behalf

Reviews

Write a review
Rating: 5.0

5.0 out of 5

23 reviews

  • RW

    Ryan Witt

    Rating: 5
    Google
    Aug 13, 2026

    Anna is such an incredible officiant. I cannot recommend her enough. From the time she takes to get to know you and your partner to the carefully crafted ceremony script, she really nailed it all. Most importantly, she makes an intentional effort to make sure that all parties feel welcome and safe and that she gets every detail just right. Thank you Anna for all of your hard work!

    Soco & CoAug 13, 2026

    And I would do it 100x over for you two!! Thank you both so much for including me in your special day. And for making me cry more than once!! I just adore you two and am wishing you a lifetime of happiness!

  • KG

    Krissy Govertsen

    Rating: 5
    Google
    Aug 13, 2026

    Anna really got to know us and our story. She did a great job of telling it. She was very helpful when it came to individual vow writing as well and helped make sure the was cohesion but not overlap. She was also very careful and considerate about making sure the language we liked was included and the language that we didn't like was excluded, which is important for this modern bride !

    Soco & CoAug 13, 2026

    Thank you so much, Krissy! Y'all knocked those vows out of the park. It was such a joy to get to know you and Nolan this year- congratulations on a beautiful marriage and a spectacular love story!!

  • DW

    Danni Wilson

    Rating: 5
    Google
    Jul 29, 2026

    My Wife and I’s experience with Anna and Soco & Co was nothing short of perfect. From the second we had our initial meeting, to the end of our ceremony, Anna brought wonderfully bright energy to our story. Working up towards our wedding, Anna was on top of it. Our initial meeting was organized, thoughtful, and a lot of fun. After the first few minutes, we knew she was the right officiant for us. She asked us all of the right questions, and we could just see her gears starting to turn as she pieced our love story together. That was our big goal; to share our love story with friends and family that maybe didn’t know it as well as our close friends. Anna hit the nail on the head. In just a short amount of time, she pieced our story together in a meaningful, poetic, and wonderful way. She gave us ample time to review the script and was very receptive to our edits. She even assisted us in writing our vows, giving incredible advice and prompts when either of us got stuck or didn’t know where to start. Living in a different state than Anna, we hadn’t met before the wedding. When she arrived (punctually) on the wedding day, she came with the biggest smile and excitement for our love. I was quite nervous going into the ceremony, and Anna’s presence was nothing short of calming. Once I got to the end of the aisle I was comfortable because I had full confidence that our ceremony was in good hands. Boy, was I right. The ceremony was PERFECT. Anna spelled out our love story start to finish in the most amazing way. She had the guests laughing, crying, and smiling ear to ear. We got endless comments on the ceremony, and I can’t imagine someone else filling that important role on our big day. If you’re stuck between officiants, choose Soco & Co! Anna will not disappoint.

    Soco & CoJul 29, 2026

    Danni! I would drive to WA any day for you two!! And I could not stop crying watching you and Mal walk down the aisle. Thank you for sharing your joy with me. Congratulations on a gorgeous and much deserved celebration!!

  • HB

    Hailey Brown

    Rating: 5
    Google
    Jul 26, 2026

    There are so many things we could say about Anna and her contribution to our wedding. Anna is a reliable and great communicator. We could feel the passion and joy of her work each time we emailed and spoke with her. Our wedding wouldn't have been the same without her presence and the beautiful ceremony she created for us. All our guests were in awe. Every time we've read through the ceremony we are both in tears. She paid attention to every detail and her process was easy to go through. Working with Anna was such a pleasure and we highly recommend hiring for your day. She made us both feel celebrated, comfortable, and excited (even during the stressful planning times.) Thank you so much, Anna! You're the best.

    Soco & CoJul 28, 2026

    Thank you, Hailey! Working with you and Nick was an absolute honor. Congratulations and hugs to you both!!

  • KM

    Kirstie Metz

    Rating: 5
    Google
    Jun 24, 2026

    I have never felt so incredibly comfortable, safe and supported quicker than how I felt meeting Anna for the first time. Her ability to make moments feel intentional, personal and important is absolutely astonishing. Seeing her officiate for my wedding clients was a magical and heartwarming moment that I’ll hold dearly for a very long time. I’m actually annoyed that I’m already married and can’t have her officiate my wedding. HIRE HER for your ceremony!! I promise, you and your community will feel so loved and seen by her and the words she writes.

    Soco & CoJun 24, 2026

    Thank you so much, Kirstie! It was a dream! And don't forget... There are always vow renewals 😘😍 Can't wait for next time!!


Absolutely! In fact, your entire ceremony will be completely, fully personalized. Throughout our process, I'll get to know your story and what matters most to you. I write each ceremony from scratch (no AI here!) based on everything that makes you unique. And once I send you the draft, I eagerly await your edits! Because the best art (to me) is made collaboratively. And your ceremony is about to be a work of art!
I've been in business since 2021, the year my son was born. This business has grown right alongside him. It's my (other) pride and joy!
Yes, yes, absolutely yes. The ceremony and the legal paperwork are entirely different things, and though I can certainly help you with both, the ceremony is the part that bonds you on an emotional and/or community level. It is a joy for me to perform commitment ceremonies and vow renewals, whether or not a marriage license is part of it!
Due to the busy nature of wedding season, I'm not always available to travel or to attend in-person rehearsals. Instead, I offer one virtual rehearsal to each of my couples. We meet the week before your big day, walk through the ceremony and ensure we have every last detail correct. You're welcome to invite important members of your team, too! That way, when you do gather for your rehearsal IRL, you and your planner can work off of the same*perfected* document we'll use on your wedding day. It'll be smooth as butter.
YES! I am a proud queer vendor myself and it is an honor for me to celebrate queer love. At Soco & Co, your identity and that of your guests is not only respected, but joyfully celebrated. You are welcome here!