Honey in the Heart Ceremonies


Pricing

Prices start at $500

Packages

Prices start at $1,400


About Honey in the Heart Ceremonies

Honey in the Heart Ceremonies

Wedding Officiant

I believe that on the day you say your “I do’s” more love is brought into the world! I craft authentic, heartfelt, and unforgettable wedding ceremonies in Santa Cruz, Monterey, Carmel, and Big Sur. Since 2010, I've blended cultural traditions and personal touches to elevate celebrations beyond the ordinary. All love is welcome here.

What truly sets me apart is my calm presence, flexibility, and extensive experience in creating deeply personal and resonant ceremonies. I don't just officiate; I co-create unique experiences that genuinely reflect your journey. My commitment to going beyond the typical ensures your ceremony is filled with authentic and unforgettable moments. I'm readily available to connect via phone, text, email, or Zoom, ensuring your wedding day is everything you've dreamed of.

In three words: Calm, Collaborative, Creative


Services

Ceremony types

  • Civil Union
  • Commitment Ceremony
  • Elopement
  • Interfaith Ceremony
  • Legal License Signing
  • Multicultural Weddings
  • Non-religious Ceremony
  • Vow Renewal Ceremony

Religious affiliations

  • Buddhist
  • Interfaith
  • Pagan
  • Secular
  • Spiritual
  • Wiccan

Honey in the Heart Ceremonies packages

Elopement Package

Description

For couples desiring an easy, sweet, and simple ceremony. We’ll discuss your beliefs, and I’ll perform a beautifully crafted pre-written ceremony straight from my heart. You may choose to bring your own vows or select from the samples I provide. Rebecca Stark,a Big Sur and Santa Cruz Wedding Photographer will capture your portraits for up to one hour covering your ceremony and the moments that follow. You’ll receive lightly edited photos in a downloadable format after your ceremony.

What’s included
  • Officiant and Professional Wedding Photographer

Reviews

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    Miles T.

    Rating: 5
    Zola
    May 22, 2026

    The most authentic and loving Officent out there!

    Working with Donna was one of the most loving and thoughtful parts of our ceremony experience. The care and attention she gave to truly getting to know us and curating a ceremony that felt deeply personal made such an impact every step of the way. We absolutely loved having her by our side throughout the process. If you have the opportunity to work with her, do it. We truly couldn’t imagine anyone else facilitating our ceremony and marriage. By the end, Donna felt like family. Lovingly carrying us across the threshold into this next chapter together.


Since 2010
Yes — your ceremony is about you, not me. I'm here to help you cross the threshold into marriage in a way that feels authentically yours. Depending on how involved you want to be, I can create your ceremony in Google Docs, which means you can be a real part of the process. You'll have access to the document so we can collaborate in real time, leave comments, swap out words that don't sound like you, and shape the whole thing together. If you want to write your own vows, I can can make keepsake Vow Booklets for you to read from. I also offer the option of adding your Bespoke Love Story for an even or unique ceremony!
Great question — and yes, rehearsals are included in certain ceremony choices that I offer. When we chat about what you're looking for, we'll figure out together which choice makes the most sense for you and whether a rehearsal is included. The best way to get the details sorted is to connect and chat through what you have in mind. I'd love to learn more about your day and find the right fit for you!
Absolutely — and honestly, you're in great company! More couples than you might think have already handled the legal side of things before their ceremony, whether it was a quiet courthouse moment, a practical decision, or just life moving faster than wedding planning. Whatever the reason, it doesn't change a thing about what we can create together. Here's the way I see it: the marriage license takes care of the legal part, but the ceremony? That's where the magic happens. No courthouse can replicate that moment. No piece of paper captures it either.
No, I don't require this.