The Best Wedding Venues in Shelter Island, NY

The Best Wedding Venues in Shelter Island, NY

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103 Wedding Venues in Shelter Island, NY

150-200 guests
Available on May 30, 2026
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Swan Lake Caterers 

5.0

Manorville, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Swan Lake is a new and unique destination in Long Island's East End for hosting your events. We are located on the award winning Swan Lake Golf Course which allows us to offer a unique backdrop on our beautiful greens. Swan Lake Caterers is a banquet hall wedding venue located in Manorville, New York. This event space is nestled within the Swan Lake Golf Course, offering beautiful grounds and picturesque views for your special day. Swan Lake Caterers aims to provide the perfect setting for your dream day, offering quality cuisine, elegant event spaces, and comprehensive rental packages to make your day unforgettable.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Highly recommend! From start to finish they made the entire wedding and planning experience incredible.
Erin B., 9 months ago
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Mansion at Timber Point 

5.0

Great River, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled on the bank of the Great South Bay with panoramic views of Fire Island, the Mansion at Timber Point is a beautiful and inviting setting for the wedding ceremony of your dreams. The bride’s big day will commence in the lovely bridal suite, where the bridal party is welcome to prepare for the big moment. A beautiful white wedding gazebo is perched at the edge of the stone patio overlooking the rolling greens of the golf course, which give way to a magnificent bay view, for a romantic exchange of vows. Inside of this historic mansion you’ll find classic country décor with modern lighting and sound systems, ensuring a full night of dancing. Every detail will fall perfectly into place with the help of the experienced staff while the bride and groom enjoy their fairytale evening.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Blends luxury with trendiness
  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Everything was great! The staff was amazing and so easy to work with at every point in the process. No one was ever pushy or anything like that. Our maitre d Matt was an absolute gem and my bridal attendant Emma was an absolute angel. Loved the option to get married inside or out. We wanted outside but it was windy and cold so we got married inside in front of the beautiful fire place. We couldn’t have asked for anything better. ️
Erin R., a year ago
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Muttontown Country Club 
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

One Wedding at a Time, No Membership Required Experience the elegance of a private country club without the need for membership. Whether you're envisioning an outdoor reception, a grand ballroom wedding, or a dazzling black-tie affair, The Muttontown Club will bring your dream celebration to life. Our expert chefs and acclaimed catering services will craft a memorable menu tailored to your desires. From elaborate dinners to receptions and al fresco lunches, every meal is executed with impeccable service and flawless flair. Make your special day unforgettable—contact us today to start planning your perfect wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
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Essex Club 

4.9

Brentwood, NY
  • Up to 220 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

With resplendent garden views, a picturesque gazebo and a magnificent ballroom, Essex Club sets the scene for an extraordinary wedding or special event. Set amidst 50-acres of rolling greens and perennial gardens, the quaint country club can be customized to the setting of your dreams no matter the occasion. Be it an al fresco cocktail hour, a sophisticated fundraiser or an exchange of vows at the edge of the sprawling lawn, your vision will come to life at Essex Club.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides catering services
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Awarded Best of Zola
From the beginning to the end Jessica was almost like an angel from above! Any questions no matter how stupid or how silly she always responded! Rob was amazing and Jancey was literally an angel! I would get married again just to have it there and will definitely be having my baby shower there! We love you all!!!
Samantha K., 6 months ago
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The Rams Head Inn 

5.0

Shelter Island Heights, NY
  • Up to 225 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

Please contact us directly to get more information, pricing and availability. Email corinna (a) the rams head inn . com, or text/call 6 3 1. 9 0 3. 2 3 5 5. Located on beautiful Shelter Island overlooking Coecles Harbor, The Ram's Head Inn has breath-taking water views. The hotel features 17 guest rooms, a private beach, hammocks and Adirondack chairs for our guests. The restaurant features the best in local fare with food coming almost exclusively from the east end of Long Island or from the Chef's garden. Website: the rams head inn .com

Why you'll love this venue

  • Historic touches
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Lighting and sound are not included
Magical venue under new management and they are working hard to update. Beautiful spot for a wedding...
Deborah, 4 years ago
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The Halyard at Sound View Greenport 

5.0

Greenport, NY
  • Up to 180 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $4,500

A home for weddings, celebrations, or the perfect sound side cocktail party, Sound View Greenport is the newly renovated, boutique Resort on the North Fork, with the ability to host events up to 200 guests (with a full venue buyout) or a small intimate wedding in our Library room, up to 50 guests. The convivial atmosphere and timeless charm of our spaces and grounds will provide you and your guests with memories to last a lifetime. Whether it is saying “I Do” on our private beach or celebrating a bridal shower or rehearsal dinner in our cozy library, our catering team is on hand to create a tailor-made event for your enjoyment. The Halyard can accommodate a seated wedding with dance floor for up to 130 guests and can offer a cocktail style reception for larger groups up to 150. Create the wedding weekend of your dreams.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • No on-site bridal suite
I've been a wedding photographer on the North Fork for 10+ years and since The Halyard came on the scene it has quickly proven itself as a top event venue. Not only is the location itself like none other, literally hugging the water's edge, the food is beyond outstanding and the staff is wonderfully professional. The recent renovation under new ownership was so well done, featuring modern and nautical decor while maintaining the charm of the North Fork. The Halyard is connected with The Soundview Hotel making it a truly ideal wedding location, allowing couple's to relax without having to shuffle around on the big day. And no matter what light is given, the closeness to the sea at The Halyard ensures beautiful photos always. It's a special place on The North Fork and hands down my favorite waterfront venue.
Caroline, 5 years ago
Calissa Restaurant 

5.0

Water Mill, NY
  • Up to 400 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,000

Calissa is Mykonos in The Hamptons. Drawing on a decade of private dining experience in Manhattan and The Hamptons, our events team executes dynamic, unique and creative events with professionalism and care. Calissa’s outdoor dining spaces include the tented Garden, covered Terrace and open-air Meadow. Our more intimate indoor spaces are the Private Dining Room, Lounge, Bar, and Main Dining Room. We recommend utilizing either the two outdoor spaces or renting out Calissa in its entirety. Services Offered In addition to weddings, Calissa is available for bridal showers, engagement parties, rehearsal dinners, farewell brunches, and afterparties. Food comes first for us: we serve the same ingredients to private dining guests as are served to a la carte guests, sourced from family-run farms and local fishing boats. We are Slow Food certified and have won numerous awards for our commitment to sustainability.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Calissa was amazing! We booked our wedding ceremony/reception and they were all so accommodating. The restaurant/venue is beautiful on its own, so we didn’t need much for flowers and decor. The food was delicious, our guests said that food kept coming and that’s exactly what we were looking for. And the service was excellent. Everyone was so attentive and friendly. From the planning of the day’s events, including the amazing band, to the food and the details, Calissa was amazing. Several of our guests said our wedding was the best ever! Dara and Kylie were amazing! Our day was perfect!
Anita S., 2 years ago
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Moby's NY 

5.0

East Hampton, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $30,000

Moby’s, situated in a lovingly restored 1880s home along the scenic stretch of Highway 27 leading to Montauk in East Hampton, beckons with its seasonal Italian cuisine, cocktails, and everlasting summertime enchantment. The restaurant offers a blend of indoor, outdoor, and patio dining experiences, providing a charming ambiance for culinary delights amidst historic allure. Amidst this charming backdrop, Moby's transforms into a versatile event venue, catering to gatherings of all sizes, from intimate dinners to grand affairs, Moby's offers a range of event spaces providing a seamless indoor-outdoor experience.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a glamorous vibe
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
  • On-site parking not available
Awarded Best of Zola
Not only is Moby's a beautiful spot to have a wedding, but the team there is truly the best to work with. John went above and beyond to make our dream wedding day come to life and made us feel so special and taken care of. The communication was amazing and the service was next level throughout the whole planning process. John knew exactly what to do and accommodated all my requests. Planning a wedding was made so much easier by the Moby's team and our guests absolutely loved the food and setting. I would recommend Moby's to anyone wanting a Hamptons wedding. If I had to do it all over again, I would choose Moby's every time.
Meg H., 9 months ago
RGNY 

5.0

Riverhead, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

We are a family of winemakers with a deep regard for our heritage. Our Mexican roots bring a unique perspective to our business. We value our family’s tradition of wine-making and aim to foster the Rivero González legacy as we enter this new chapter. Quality is fundamental to our brand and relationships - it is what makes up our DNA. We guarantee quality and customer satisfaction, giving the best in everything we do. With all the north fork charm, RGNY’s spaces include special comforts and updates for you and up to 200 guests, year-round. Our outdoor space showcases both our vineyard and horse pasture. Our barn offers modern bathrooms, a bridal suite, a groom’s loft, and air conditioning all while maintaining rustic elegance. We also offer another location for couples searching for their dream wedding venue, Las Vides - a picture-perfect palette tucked away among the vines.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Dressing room available
  • Raw space for complete customization

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • No venue-provided food services
thank you thank you thank you so much to the girls at RGNY from the bottom of our hearts for a truly spectacular wedding day. Everything truly exceeded our expectations from the service, to the set up, to every last detail. We were truly blown away how seamless, amazing, and especially GORGEOUS everything ended up turning out. It has really been an absolute pleasure meeting and working with you all over the past year and half on our dream wedding.
Gabriella Z., 2 years ago
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Water's Edge Resort and Spa 

5.0

Westbrook, CT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

If you imagine a waterfront venue on your wedding day, then look at what the Water’s Edge Resort & Spa offers. Less than two hours from New York and Boston and under forty-five minutes from Hartford, Water’s Edge has been hosting the most memorable bridal showers, rehearsal dinners, ceremonies by the beach, and receptions in our ballrooms for decades. Traditional or unconventional, festive or formal – a view of the water complements any wedding. With the one-of-a-kind backdrop provided by the views of the water, it’s easy to see why Water’s Edge is a perennial wedding destination in Connecticut.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No built-in audiovisual options
We had the most incredible experience working with the team at Water's Edge Resort and Spa for our wedding. From the moment we first reached out, they were open, professional, and genuinely excited to help make our day perfect. The venue itself is absolutely gorgeous, with an open and airy atmosphere and breathtaking views that created the ideal backdrop for our wedding. The staff, we worked with Melody, was incredibly organized and went above and beyond to ensure that every detail of our wedding day ran smoothly. The guests loved the bartenders and we appreciated everyone’s enthusiasm for us!We loved everything about Water's Edge and our day was everything we could've asked for and more!
Molly, 3 months ago
North Fork Meadows 

5.0

Aquebogue, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

North Fork Meadows is a vast, open landscape designed for DIY celebrations. From intimate ceremonies to grand tented receptions, this property provides the perfect blank canvas for you to customize every detail. The expansive acreage offers plenty of room for tents, dance floors, games, and all the unique touches that make your wedding truly yours. If you prefer a more relaxed approach, our wedding planning team is here to take care of all the details for you. From the initial design to the final toast, we manage every aspect, ensuring your day unfolds seamlessly. We will work closely with you to personalize every detail, creating a wedding experience that reflects your love story, while you focus on enjoying the moment. With nothing but the sky above and lush meadows around, North Fork Meadows allows you to embrace nature and celebrate under the stars. Ideal for couples seeking a fully personalized and hands-on experience, it’s the ultimate setting for a day as unique as your love.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Surrounded by beautiful vineyards
  • Unique barn setting

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • No on-premises lodging options
In July 2023, my husband and I hosted our outdoor wedding on this gorgeous property we rented on the North Fork. The venue featured, sprawling, well kept grounds, offering a serene, open space that was ideal for setting up our large tent to accommodate 150 guests. We had plenty of space To accommodate parking, a restroom trailer, and an open field for the kids to run around and play! This was the perfect setting for our outdoor celebration in nature!
Sadie, 7 months ago
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The Vineyards at Aquebogue 

5.0

Aquebogue, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $14,100

Nestled on the North Fork of Long Island, The Vineyards at Aquebogue provides a captivating setting at any time of year for your next event. Whether it be your dream wedding, an intimate celebration or corporate event, we will make your dreams come true.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
I could not have asked for a better experience with this venue. It speaks for itself, but the decor and indoor spaces just add to the overall beauty. They have multiple areas for photos, both indoor and outdoor. The staff was also incredible to work with. I cannot say enough good things as they were more than willing to accommodate us and it truly seemed like it was their goal to make us happy. I would highly recommend the Vineyards!
Danielle K., a year ago
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Sole East Resort 

5.0

Montauk, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $50,000

Solé East is located within walking distance from the ocean, and less than one mile from Montauk Village’s downtown area. Enjoy our newly renovated, modern boutique hotel, with oversized mattresses by the pool, our hip, full-service restaurant & lounge (The Backyard), our pristine swimming pool, lush lawns with hammocks, and outdoor seating throughout our extensive gardens. Your guests will sleep on new pillow-top king-size mattresses with high thread count Italian cotton linens, in climate-controlled rooms. There are flat-screen HD TVs in each room and access to High-Speed Wireless Internet service throughout the property. Being a boutique hotel allows us to customize your event, and provide you with top-quality food and service. We will happily work with you to accommodate your needs and create a wedding reception that reflects personal styles and budgetary needs. Please contact us with any questions you may have. We'd love the opportunity to host your event!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Dressing room available
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Lighting and sound are not included
Beautiful location, this place and my band (no offense to everything else) made the best day of my life. Thank you!!!
Stephen, 2 years ago
Essex Steam Train & Riverboat 

5.0

Essex, CT
  • Up to 230 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

We make our beautiful facilities, equipment, and catering staff available for weddings, reunions, meetings, and other events. We have four beautiful indoor/outdoor event spaces to choose from, all different and unique in their own way!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Not wheelchair accessible
I have loved coming to the Essex Steam Train & Riverboat museum since I was a child so when my husband and I got engaged, we knew we had to get married here. It was such a magical venue and was reasonably priced. They truly don't try to nickel-and-dime you like a lot of other wedding venues, they just want you to have a good experience. The bridal suite was a beautifully decorated air-conditioned train car. We also decided to add on a roundtrip steam train ride down to the CT river and a steamboat cruise as our cocktail hour (honestly didn't cost as much as you'd think...). Our reception was inside the hall and was perfectly air-conditioned and decorated. We did a buffet option and the food was good! If you decide to get married outside, just remember that it IS an active train yard so make sure your officiant has a microphone. Meredith and Tyler were very easy to work with while planning the event. I highly recommend getting married here. Oh, and your photos will look INSANE.
Kayla M., 2 months ago
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Atlantis Banquets & Events 

5.0

Riverhead, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $139

Atlantis Banquets & Events can accommodate your wedding for 50 to 350 guests in one of nine diverse locations including the modern and beautiful Sea Star Ballroom with sweeping views of the Treasure Cove Resort Marina and Peconic River. The Coliseum Room is another perfect venue located within the Long Island Aquarium, which houses our most captivating and colorful aquatic habitats. Your ceremony can take place outside, in the Riverside Pavilion just on the banks of the river, or in the Grand Foyer of the Sea Star Ballroom, with beautiful marble features and a stunning Chihuly-inspired glass chandelier. An event like no other, only Atlantis Banquets & Events can bring the element of nature to your wedding with photo sessions including our penguins, sea lions, sharks or within our indoor and always tropical Butterfly Garden.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Does not allow pets
From our initial tour of the venue, we knew that Atlantis Banquets and Events was where we wanted to have our wedding. If you are looking for an incredibly unique experience, this is it: The venue overlooks the water so guests were able to watch the sunset over the water during cocktail hour, and then, everyone moved inside to the Long Island Aquarium where they were able to dance and dine amongst the fish tanks. The aquarium transformed that evening into what felt like an enchanting underwater forest. Atlantis has an in-house caterer, and the food was exquisite. We received comments from guests who are notoriously picky eaters, and they said this was the first wedding where they’ve been able to eat (and enjoy) the food! There was a huge team working the evening of our wedding, and they kept everything running smoothly. The staff were all incredibly professional and kind throughout the night. We worked with Joan and Bryan throughout the planning process, and they were absolutely wonderful. They were responsive, detailed, and helpful throughout the year as we planned and finalized event details. They also helped us coordinate our after party AND our hotel block (both within a few steps of the venue). I truly think Atlantis Banquets and Events, and the Long Island Aquarium, is a hidden gem of event venues on Long Island. The location is stunning and conveniently located in downtown Riverhead, the venue is so unique and beautiful, the food is delicious, and the staff is wonderful. Take a tour of the venue – You won’t regret it!
Christy W., 8 months ago
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360 East at Montauk Downs 

5.0

Montauk, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

360° East at Montauk Downs is a breathtaking backdrop for your dream wedding celebration. Surrounded by panoramic views of Montauk, and overlooking a Robert Trent Jones designed 18-hole golf course, 360° East at Montauk Downs is sure to be your one-of-a-kind wedding destination.

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Provides catering services
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Choosing 360 East at Montauk Downs as our wedding venue was one of the best decisions we made. From the start, their communication style was incredibly accommodating, responsive, helpful, and kind. Hailee, who manages the venue, was a true powerhouse - she had a smile on her face the entire night and it was clear she loves what she does. The staff was equally as great, ensuring the whole planning process was a breeze and our special day could not have been more perfect. The quality of their work and value was stunning - the venue was beautifully managed, the food was incredible, and they had amazing in-house vendors that provided great service. We couldn't recommend 360 East at Montauk Downs more highly to any couple looking for an incredible wedding experience.
Kailey C., 6 months ago
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Madison Beach Hotel 

5.0

Madison, CT
  • Up to 160 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,000

Madison Beach Hotel is a classically elegant beachfront wedding venue in charming Madison, Connecticut. Part of Hilton's signature Curio Collection, our four diamond Hotel offers an exclusive location on the Long Island Sound to celebrate the wedding of your dreams. Whether you plan on sauntering barefoot across our private beach, or exchanging vows on our manicured lawn, Madison Beach Hotel offers unparalleled natural beauty as the backdrop of your wedding day story. Inside the Hotel, guests enjoy sweeping ocean views from the Grand Ballroom, exquisite award-winning cuisine, and 33 luxurious guest rooms. We take pride in our discerning service standards and authentic hospitality. In fact, we have an entire wedding team dedicated to working closely with you to plan each step of the way. After all, these memories last a lifetime!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • On-site parking not available
We started our journey with the Madison a little over a year ago in providing our daughter and son in law a dream wedding on the beach. On May 17, 2025 this dream became a reality. The staff at the Madison could not have been more friendly and accommodating throughout this process. From our meeting with Lisa, to working with Amanda and her staff, everything went without a hitch. A special shout out to the valet staff, they were phenomenal. If you’re looking for a venue that treats you like family and executes what they promise, the Madison is the ideal place for you. It’s where dreams come true!
Laurie - H., 19 days ago
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East Wind Long Island 

4.0

Wading River, NY
  • Up to 1000 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $12,000

East Wind Long Island is an award-winning catering facility situated on 26 lush acres of the North Fork, where you find a venue for any size or style event. For your "one wedding at a time" experience, our ALL NEW VINEYARD with picturesque grounds offering a romantic, rustic setting, or experience luxurious elegance at the Estate, where the space is exclusively yours for the day. For a stately soiree, the Inn features Grand Ballroom and the Newly renovated Veranda. East Wind is a destination, with a luxury hotel, a 10,000 square foot full-service Spa & Salon, Desmond’s Restaurant, just right for the rehearsal dinner and breakfast buffet. The Shoppes, just a few steps away, offer impressive array of retailers and Ruggero's Family Style Italian Restaurant with a grand carousel right outside the front door for a perfect photo backdrop. East Wind caters to all cultural, ethnic and LGBT wedding clients with many inclusive package options. It's the perfect destination to say “I do”!

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
After trips to other different venues, I knew East Wind was for us. The venue was rustic and beautiful. Jen McLaughlin, our sales rep, was awesome and consistent throughout the whole process. Very sweet, pleasant, communicative, prompt and was reliable regarding concerns I have. Fast forward to our wedding day, 12/8, it was perfect and everything I could ask for. Reid, the maitre d, took over and made everything seamless. Placed all my DIY decorations as they should be and more, turned my vision to reality. Very mellow guy. Patient, sweet, chill and very attentive to our needs. Our wedding party loved him! And Barbara, our bridal attendant, what a doll! Very nurturing presence. She was very lowkey and whatever I asked help for, it was magically done right away. I asked for food or drink, done. Honestly, all the staff had been awesome to us, including the bartenders, the waiters. It was perfect, none that gave us headaches at all. And the food. Our guests couldn't stop raving about it. It was delicious and never ending. I wanted to attend to any wedding at East Wind just to have a great dinner and experience everything again. Thankful for this bunch! ️️
Gem G., 6 months ago
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The Riverhouse at Goodspeed Station 

5.0

Haddam, CT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,175

Our elegant and private wedding venue promises you a world-class experience unmatched anywhere. Just around the corner from the historic East Haddam Swing Bridge, The Riverhouse at Goodspeed Station provides upscale services, a jaw-dropping view, and an experience that you and your guests will never forget. Your selection of flowers, music, lighting and other special personal and maybe whimsical favors, paired with our award winning menu, linens, dinnerware, wines, liquors and wedding cake, will seamlessly blend to create the wedding you have always dreamed of. We will make every professional effort to reflect your personal vision of elegance and excellence. And while you are preparing for and enjoying your grand occasion, the entire Riverhouse is yours alone. With our expertise, let us help you make this a day that lasts a lifetime. Like the day you’ve waited for, The Riverhouse is one of a kind.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic seating dinner
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Offers full-service amenities

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
5 stars is not enough. Our wedding was without a doubt the most perfect event we could have ever wished for. From the beginning planning stages, Hattie, Lauren, Kelley, everyone was so incredibly responsive, helpful and answered a million questions from myself or my mom. They worked with us to ensure everything was perfect, and we could not have had a more elegant wedding without the help of the entire venue staff. From day of Rob and everyone who assisted made sure things ran so smoothly. One of our busses was delayed due to traffic (Memorial Day Weekend- no surprise there) & even with the minor inconvenience the staff made sure that things ran so smoothly that myself (the bride) and my guests really had no clue things were pushed back a tiny bit. The food was outstanding, the service was impeccable. We had our cocktail hour both inside & outside and adding a second bar was ideal. We added a sushi bar, and my guests are still talking about how delicious it was. They accommodated all of our requests with ease, and I wish I could relive the day and night over and over again. All of my vendors informed me during the planning process just how professional and wonderful the venue is, and it could not be more true. They all worked seamlessly with Riverhouse. Our personal attendants were wonderful, ensuring myself and my husband had the best day and night of our lives. Most venues do not offer suites for grooms, and I am so happy that the men were able to have their own place to relax and hangout. our bridal suite was prepared perfectly for us with champagne snacks and everything we needed. Quality service is hard to come by these days, but every single staff member working at our wedding went above and beyond to make sure my husband, myself and my guests had an incredible night. My guests are still raving weeks later about the wedding. I could not recommend this venue and the entire staff enough, get married here!!! Thank you from the bottom of our hearts for the most perfect wedding!!! ️️️
Lindsay R., 8 days ago
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The Woodwinds at The Blackstone Library 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 475 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

The James Blackstone Memorial Library, commonly known as the Blackstone Library, in Branford, Connecticut, is a historic and elegant venue perfect for weddings. Commissioned by Timothy Blackstone to honor his father, James Blackstone, the library was designed by renowned architect Solon Spencer Beman and completed in 1896. Its classic architectural features and serene ambiance make it an enchanting backdrop for wedding ceremonies and receptions. Woodwinds Catering enhances the wedding experience at the Blackstone Library with exquisite culinary offerings and impeccable service. Their attention to detail ensures that every aspect of the wedding day is flawlessly executed, from planning to the final toast. The library’s stunning exterior, with its intricate stonework and majestic columns, provides a picturesque setting for wedding photographs. Inside, the elegant interiors with high ceilings and rich woodwork create a warm and inviting atmosphere for guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Has an intimate atmosphere
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
Worked with the woodwinds at the library and they were so helpful. They showed me ahead of time where I was setting up, on arrival they had a table waiting for me. They even made sure I ate (the food is delicious!!!) I hope I get to work with them in the future!
Jay, 10 months ago
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The Woodwinds at Nuzzo's Farm 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $9,000

Woodwinds at Nuzzo’s Farm is a stunning wedding venue in Branford, CT. Woodwinds Catering of Branford, Connecticut, brings over 50 years of experience to the wedding and catering industry to the beautiful Nuzzo's Farm. Nuzzo’s Farm is one of Branford, Connecticut’s most picturesque Christmas Tree Farms and historic landmarks. These two family-run businesses make All Inclusive Farm Wedding dreams a reality!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
We recently had our wedding at Nuzzo's Farm and Woodwinds was the caterer. This is the DREAM TEAM!!!!! The venue was gorgeous and super accommodating. Woodwinds made wedding planning a breeze. The night of our wedding we had such a blast! All of our guests were raving about how it was the best wedding ever. From the food to the gorgeous grounds, everything was absolutely perfect. I would not change a thing!
Lindsay S., 10 months ago
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Woodwinds 

4.5

Branford, CT
  • Up to 600 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $115

WoodWinds is one of the most sought after Connecticut wedding venues for wedding receptions, banquets, corporate events or any special occasion, in the Tri-State area. A wedding in our impressive European Country Manor will reflect your personal vision. Imagine a magical experience, enhanced by a unique ceremony and reception on the beautiful grounds of WoodWinds. Envision standing on a grand staircase under the twinkle of Austrian Crystal chandeliers, taking pictures in a magnificent garden and dancing the night away on a marble dance floor.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Bridal suite on site
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No free parking
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
The venue had a few hiccups, but overall we had a lovely reception there. The outdoor space was the highlight - truly gorgeous for photos. Communication on coordination was a bit spotty at times, but the maître d', Sergio, was a god send and stepped in to ensure things flowed smoothly. The food was phenomenal, as well! So many of our guests shared it was the best wedding food they’d ever had. We did have both our bridal attendants provided by the venue disappear on us shortly after we arrived, which was inconvenient since we would have paid for our own attendants if we knew that would be the case. While parts of the indoor space is dated, it worked out beautifully with some creative decor. When weighing everything in, the Woodwinds was a spectacular venue!
Negeena & M., 10 months ago
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The Woodwinds at Kalmia Garden 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

Woodwinds at Gastler Farm is a stunning wedding venue in Durham, CT. Woodwinds Catering of Branford, Connecticut, brings over 50 years of experience to the wedding and catering industry to the beautiful Gardens and Farm Scenery of Kalmia Garden at Gastler Farm in Durham, CT. These two family-run businesses make All Inclusive Farm Wedding dreams a reality!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Venue is completely outdoors
  • Exudes style

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • No free parking
  • No built-in audiovisual options
The grounds are extremely well kept and every aspect is well thought out. The Woodwinds took care of every detail so we had nothing to worry about! We just showed up and enjoyed and got to hear about everyone rave about the food and the bar while sitting around the firepit. Our wedding was an unforgettable night all thanks to the crew at Gastler Farm and The Woodwinds!!!
Jenn T., 10 months ago
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Mystic Aquarium 

5.0

Mystic, CT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Welcome to a culinary journey that transcends the ordinary, where Oak View Group Hospitality & Mystic Aquarium unite to create an unforgettable dining experience beneath the waves of love. As you embark on this celebration of union, our commitment to excellence in every bite & unparalleled service will be your compass through the currents of joy. At Oak View Group Hospitality, we pride ourselves on curating a menu of high-quality fare that is as exquisite as the love you share. Our dedication to sustainability echoes the enduring nature of your commitment, ensuring that every dish reflects our shared responsibility to the planet. Join us as we dive into a world where gastronomic delight meets aquatic enchantment, promising a wedding feast that not only satisfies the palate but also nourishes the soul.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • No free parking
We had a wonderful evening at Mystic Aquarium! The food was delicious, and the staff was super friendly. Loved being surrounded by all the fishes! Definitely recommend booking your event with them.
Michael, 3 months ago
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Hilton Mystic 

5.0

Mystic, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $72
  • Offer

Imagine your dream wedding at the Hilton Mystic, a stunning venue in the heart of charming Mystic, Connecticut. We make planning effortless with a truly seamless experience. Say 'I Do' with ease. From the intimate ceremony to the vibrant reception and even a delicious brunch the next morning, we offer everything you need in one place. Our flexible spaces accommodate weddings of all sizes, indoors and outdoors, with stunning views and cozy fireplaces to set the perfect ambiance. Experience the Hilton Mystic difference. Our dedicated wedding specialists will guide you every step of the way, ensuring your day is as unique and stress-free as possible.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Has a chic vibe

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Not wheelchair accessible
The team at the Hilton Mystic was incredibly personable, informative and helpful throughout our entire wedding planning process. From our very first interaction with Michele, the event coordinator, we were impressed by her attentiveness to detail and ability to keep the planning running smoothly. The Banquet staff was also incredibly helpful and friendly, contributing to an excellent overall experience. The quality of their work was outstanding - the venue was clean, modern and provided excellent value. We are so glad we chose the Hilton Mystic for our special day and would highly recommend them to any couple looking for a stress-free, beautiful wedding venue.
Maria A., 3 months ago
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The Hounds 

5.0

Stonington, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Located one mile from the harbor in picturesque Stonington Borough, The Hounds is a stunning, coastal, event venue with immaculate landscaping that abuts the Avalonia Paffard Marsh preserve. The inside spaces have a low-key nautical decor, custom, in-house made lighting, double-side bar with mahogany and cherry bar tops, and floor to ceiling sliding glass doors that let the beauty of the surroundings be enjoyed from every seat in the room. The Hounds is the ideal place for weddings, galas, corporate events and parties. This New England weather-proof property is open year round.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Does not provide event staff
  • No all-inclusive dining options
We couldn’t have asked for a more beautiful wedding day at The Hounds! The venue provided the perfect blend of charm and elegance, with the ceremony set against a stunning marsh backdrop—it was absolutely breathtaking. The nautical decor added a unique and cozy touch, perfectly complementing the natural beauty of the surroundings. Inside, the venue's hardwood floors added warmth and sophistication, while the bridal suite and groomsmen lounge were both comfortable and well-appointed, giving us a relaxing space to get ready. We felt so cared for, and our guests couldn't stop raving about how lovely everything was. Highly recommend this venue to anyone looking for a picturesque, memorable wedding day!
Sarah S., 7 months ago
Ocean House 

5.0

Westerly, RI
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $30,000

Nestled on the scenic Atlantic coast in Rhode Island, Ocean House has been named one of the “World’s Best Hotels and Resorts” by Travel + Leisure, Condé Nast, Fodor’s and other notable organizations. Originally built just after the Civil War, Ocean House is perched high on the bluffs in the charming seaside Watch Hill village. The property re-opened its doors in 2010 after a $140 million historic rebuild. Today, guests enjoy waterfront views from the resort’s 49 guestrooms and 20 signature suites. A variety of casual and fine dining options plus the Ocean & Harvest Spa, complimentary resort activities including culinary classes, art experiences, complimentary croquet, movies and more make Ocean House a perfect destination for weddings, events and luxury escapes. Ocean House is a member of Relais & Châteaux and is one of only 12 hotels in the world to receive triple five stars from Forbes Travel Guide for accommodations, dining and spa.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available
Ryan Designs has been the exclusive lighting, draping & decor partner with Ocean House & Weekapaug Inn for many years. We have built a strong foundation between our design & technician team with their in-house sales team to create MAGIC for all our clients. Our goal is to make the planning and design process as simple as possible, provide amazing styling and inventory and ensure the event turns out better than they could have dreamt. Ocean House has multiple locations with epic backdrops of the ocean view, manicured lawns and the charming hotel. Choose your space and we will all work together to create that final touch.
Ryan Designs, 2 years ago
The Salem Herbfarm 

5.0

Salem, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $2,500

The Salem Herbfarm Offers a delightfully unique venue in the heart of New England. For your wedding or special event, take advantage of our beautiful grounds and peaceful gardens for your enchanting ceremony and pictures. Our spacious lawns and gardens offer you and your guests ample opportunities for relaxing strolls and quiet conversation before venturing into our rustic, 1867 barn to enjoy an elegant dining experience. You and your guests will always remember the quiet conversations and romantic dancing as the sun sets over The Salem Herbfarm and your new life together begins.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Additional event staff required
  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
Salem Herbfarm is a wonderful venue! The property is absolutely beautiful and the family the owns it was so lovely to work with. Absolutely recommend!
Rachael P., 2 years ago
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Riverbend 

4.2

Higganum, CT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

Welcome to Connecticut Wedding Group's latest jewel, Riverbend—a masterpiece poised to claim its title as the state’s foremost wedding destination, with an opening scheduled for 2026! Nestled in the heart of Higganum, this venue seamlessly blends the rich tapestry of the town's industrial history with a contemporary touch, resulting in an unmatched fusion of industrial charm and modern elegance. As you step through the entrance, prepare to be enchanted by a stunning architectural marvel nestled within a lovingly restored industrial gem. Towering, exposed-beam ceilings create an expansive atmosphere, and the weathered brickwork shares the timeless tales of a bygone era. Bathed in sunlight pouring through expansive windows, every corner is adorned with a soft, natural glow, ensuring that your celebration emanates with an undeniable warmth and inherent beauty. At Riverbend, history meets modernity to create the perfect backdrop for your special day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
We knew from the start that to ensure the most important day of our lives went off without a hitch there was no one but CT Wedding Group we trusted. Their reviews speak for themselves but first hand we can tell you they do them little to no justice(having been guests at weddings at their venues). Imagine our surprise when we were able to see the limitless possibilities of their newest space and how it completely shattered our reality of what a wedding day could be. We are lucky enough to say we are the first wedding booked for their newest venue and the sky is the limit. The renderings they provided were unlike anything we've seen anywhere else throughout this process. The vision of what the space can and will become has us more excited by a venue than we thought imaginable. Their attention to detail, earnest care to make our day specific to us, and their overall devotion to their craft is unrivaled. There is not stress, just excitement and its all thanks to their incredible team, and astounding venue. They preach that their 9-5 is the most important day of their clients lives and they take that seriously, and boy do they practice what they preach. CAN NOT say enough about this experience thus far, and as if that wasn't enough, their planning team make the experience simply incredible (and fool proof). This is not a diamond in the rough situation. They set a standard for what the industry should be and then deliver a thousand fold. We've only before seen the end result of their reputation as guests, and now as clients can say that words just simply fall short of the reality. This. Is. What. Dreams. Are. Made. Of.
Michael, a year ago
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Anthony's Ocean View 

5.0

New Haven, CT
  • Up to 550 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $90

For nearly four decades and across three generations, Anthony’s Ocean View has been a labor of love, from our family to yours. This stunning Connecticut location is ideal for weddings, galas, birthdays, or any reason to celebrate. Anthony’s Ocean View makes it all possible by working with our experienced event team. From parties to grand affairs, virtually any group and occasion can be seamlessly accommodated!

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No on-site guest accommodations
I had my wedding at Anthony’s Ocean View. It was amazing and well worth every penny. Brian and Marcello are the best! I will say, the only negative aspect is that I was under the impression that only 1 wedding happened at a time - there was another wedding happening right next to us. This impacted our music, our photos and my speech was cut off because the other weddings music was so loud that the floor vibrated and I had to ask staff to do something. Other than that, the venue was beautiful, so accommodating, and food was absolutely fantastic. Would recommend Anthony’s to anyone.
Dominika Z., a year ago

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About wedding venues in Shelter Island, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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