The Best Wedding Venues in El Cajon, CA

The Best Wedding Venues in El Cajon, CA

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5 Wedding Venues in El Cajon, CA

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Carlsbad Windmill by Wedgewood Weddings 

5.0

Carlsbad, CA
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,540
  • Offer

An Iconic Carlsbad Landmark Completely Reimagined. San Diego’s newest 5-star wedding venue. With flower fields on one side and the ocean waves on the other, The Carlsbad Windmill by Wedgewood Weddings combines a quirky Danish-style building with luxe modern amenities and a trendy locale. It's all topped off with spectacular event spaces, expert staff, raved-about service, a dressing suite fit to spoil you, and standout decor that feels both grand and grounded.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Natural elegance with open spaces
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
I don’t even know where to begin. Our wedding day was absolute perfection! The Wedgewood team made the planning process so easy and stress free. And when our wedding day came, everything was just perfect. Tabitha, our coordinator, was so amazing and helped our vision come to life, and made the day run smoothly and stress free. Our banquet captain Kelly, was so sweet and was on it our entire reception. I’m so sad our wedding day is over but so thankful to the entire Wedgewood team for creating such an unforgettable day. THANK YOU ALL! Love, Matt & Jess.
Jess G., 3 months ago
Brick + Laurel 

5.0

La Mesa, CA
  • Up to 45 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $596

Couples looking to celebrate their bridal shower, rehearsal dinner, reception, and/or baby shower each find Brick + Laurel to be a perfectly fitted, styled space for their gatherings. With no vendor/food restrictions, you can plan your event the way you'd like. BRICK + LAUREL is an intimate warehouse space in La Mesa, CA. Designed for Gatherings, workshops, and photoshoots. Under 50 people fit this space best. You will have access to 1 farm table, lounge area, a full-sized bar built into the space for your use with space rental. We have no restrictions on food or catering giving you the freedom to plan the event that is perfect for you! Our rental rate is $135/hr or $1795 for all day access (8a-12a). We have 4 dining tables and 45 chairs that can be included for an additional $150 (these are included on the all day $1795 package).

Why you'll love this venue

  • Creates a sense of togetherness
  • Raw space for complete customization
  • Perfect for a micro-wedding

Venue considerations

  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • Additional event staff required
  • No on-premises lodging options
I've been working With Brick and Laurel for several years and man, I can't recommend this spot enough. I've work with Pat for years now and from the start of our relationship he has been nothing but an ease to work with. The venue is amazing and has all that you need to pull off your event or wedding. Pat is the BEST!!
Kevin Thornton, 3 years ago
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The Fowler House 

5.0

Jamul, CA
  • Up to 50 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,500

Nestled in the Jamul hills of Fowler Canyon, The Fowler House has been a long-time, family-owned property. Now for the first time, this hidden gem is open to the public for privately hosted events. Reminiscent of a coastal Hampton's style property, the venue sits on a little over eight acres of land and hosts multiple location options for your next event. Ask about renting the whole house for the weekend! https://airbnb.com/h/thefowlerhouse We specialize in smaller more intimate events. The house sleeps up to 12 comfortably. The Fowler House offers a tranquil stay for you and your guests! Located 25 minutes from downtown, you get seclusion as well as the San Diego Charm. We look forward to hosting you and your guests for a night or more under the stars.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Perfect for a micro-wedding
  • Feels like a getaway

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Better for more intimiate events
  • No built-in audiovisual options
The Fowler House is a beautiful place. Surrounded by lush greenery this place is a must see.
Liz Creagan, 4 years ago
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Bonita Golf Course 

5.0

Bonita, CA
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $5,500

Facilities and Capacity: Nestled in the Bonita Valley, experience the alluring setting, comfort and culinary creations of Bonita Golf Course for the wedding of your dreams! An outdoor ceremony site looking onto manicured fairways and beautiful sunsets is the perfect backdrop for an unforgettable event! The newly renovated event space features old California mission-style architecture, vaulted ceilings, and neutral colors giving you a venue fit for occasions of every style. From small gatherings of 80, to large parties of up to 300 guests, Bonita Golf Course is perfectly suited to host your next event! Services Offered: Bonita Golf Course offers traditional and international menu options curated by our executive chef. From bartenders to servers, the professional event staff takes pride in every detail of your special day! Your wedding isn't complete without a dedicated event manager. From touring , pricing , booking to recommendations - our event team is ready to help!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-premises lodging options
Awarded Best of Zola
I have DJ’d multiple events at the Bonita Gold Course venue and I am always excited to come back and work with their team. The venue is absolutely amazing and the staff there are top notch Kelli and her team always takes care of their clients, guests, and vendors. I would recommend this venue for any occasion. Don’t hesitate to book your next event there.
RSDJ Productions, 2 years ago
Rustic Ridge Vineyards 
Jamul, CA
  • Up to 50 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor

In 2002, Rusty discovered the Jamul Valley. He found the granitic soils, warm days and cool nights to be ideal for grape growing. Rusty added an orchard of pomegranates, tangerines, lemons, plums, oranges and apples. Enjoying wine and the fun-ness that comes with it, Rusty was taken by Kerri's love of the vine and together they embarked on planting wine grapes. Life as they had known it changed forever. Kerri's southern Texas hospitality and Rusty's ingenuity have created Rustic Ridge - a very special place. Gardens, fountains, and our warm and inviting tasting room welcome wine enthusiasts with an authentic hospitality. Also ready to welcome our guests are vineyard dogs ChaCha and Coco (husky rescue dogs).

Why you'll love this venue

  • Scenic vineyard views
  • Surrounded by nature
  • Has an intimate feel for a small guest list

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not provide event staff
  • Better for more intimiate events

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About wedding venues in El Cajon, CA

California offers an incredible 840 miles of coastline, 3,000+ wineries and ancient redwoods for your wedding day. When you choose the Golden State, you're getting exceptional natural lighting for your ceremony across diverse settings from Mediterranean coastal zones to alpine mountain backdrops. Each region has its own distinctive character that can perfectly match your vision.

What Makes California Wedding Venues So Special?

Northern California's Napa Valley welcomes you with rolling vineyards and Spanish colonial architecture where intimate wine cave ceremonies create unforgettable moments. Head to Southern California and you'll find oceanfront venues like Duke's Malibu where you can exchange vows with the Pacific stretching out behind you while enjoying fresh coastal-inspired cuisine. Palm Springs offers dramatic desert venues with mountain backdrops and striking midcentury modern architecture that photographs beautifully.

How Much Do Wedding Venues in California Cost?

Wedding venues in California typically run between $9,600 and $11,700 which aligns nicely with the national range of $6,500-$12,000. This represents about 18% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on guest count:

  • 50 guests: $26,190
  • 100 guests: $43,692
  • 150 guests: $60,141
  • 200 guests: $74,836
  • 250 guests: $89,530
  • 300 guests: $104,224

Which California Venues Are Fully Accessible?

The Griffith House features wheelchair-accessible pathways throughout its Spanish-style grounds including the private ceremony lawn and separate preparation spaces for couples. You might also consider Holman Ranch Sunstone Winery and Villa del Sol d'Oro though you'll want to directly confirm their specific accessibility features when you visit. Accessibility options have improved greatly across California venues in recent years.

When Should You Book Your California Wedding Venue?

October leads venue inquiries in California with couples typically booking venues about 13 months (400 days) before their wedding date. If you're dreaming of a Northern California wine country wedding during peak season you'll want to book up to 18 months in advance. Southern California venues offer more flexibility especially during winter months when you can still enjoy beautiful weather while potentially securing better rates.

Where Can You Find Exceptional Culinary Experiences in California?

La Valencia Hotel in La Jolla delivers impeccable service with menu options from lobster bisque to perfectly prepared steak. You'll love Vibiana in Los Angeles with its chef-driven menus served in a stunning restored cathedral setting. Rosewood Sand Hill in Menlo Park offers Michelin-star fine dining while Bali Hai Restaurant serves authentic Polynesian cuisine with breathtaking views overlooking San Diego Bay. California's culinary scene truly elevates the wedding experience.

How Do California Wedding Costs Break Down?

VendorAverage Cost% of Total (150 guests)
Venue$10,66518%
Catering$8,53214%
Florists$7,82113%
Bar Services$6,82611%
Photography$4,7648%
Wedding Planners$4,8358%
Videography$4,3097%
Hair & Makeup$6001%
Cake & Desserts$8181%

Which California Venues Offer Enhanced Remote Participation?

Parq Event Center in San Diego features state-of-the-art sound LED screens and projection walls that support advanced streaming capabilities for guests who can't attend in person. You'll find Exchange LA and Wing Tip in San Francisco offer flexible spaces that adapt beautifully for innovative tech integration. These can include virtual reality experiences interactive live streaming and 360-degree cameras that make remote guests feel like they're right there with you. Technology has transformed how we can include loved ones from anywhere in the world.

California offers an incredible 840 miles of coastline, 3,000+ wineries and ancient redwoods for your wedding day. When you choose the Golden State, you're getting exceptional natural lighting for your ceremony across diverse settings from Mediterranean coastal zones to alpine mountain backdrops. Each region has its own distinctive character that can perfectly match your vision.

What Makes California Wedding Venues So Special?

Northern California's Napa Valley welcomes you with rolling vineyards and Spanish colonial architecture where intimate wine cave ceremonies create unforgettable moments. Head to Southern California and you'll find oceanfront venues like Duke's Malibu where you can exchange vows with the Pacific stretching out behind you while enjoying fresh coastal-inspired cuisine. Palm Springs offers dramatic desert venues with mountain backdrops and striking midcentury modern architecture that photographs beautifully.

How Much Do Wedding Venues in California Cost?

Wedding venues in California typically run between $9,600 and $11,700 which aligns nicely with the national range of $6,500-$12,000. This represents about 18% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on guest count:

  • 50 guests: $26,190
  • 100 guests: $43,692
  • 150 guests: $60,141
  • 200 guests: $74,836
  • 250 guests: $89,530
  • 300 guests: $104,224

Which California Venues Are Fully Accessible?

The Griffith House features wheelchair-accessible pathways throughout its Spanish-style grounds including the private ceremony lawn and separate preparation spaces for couples. You might also consider Holman Ranch Sunstone Winery and Villa del Sol d'Oro though you'll want to directly confirm their specific accessibility features when you visit. Accessibility options have improved greatly across California venues in recent years.

When Should You Book Your California Wedding Venue?

October leads venue inquiries in California with couples typically booking venues about 13 months (400 days) before their wedding date. If you're dreaming of a Northern California wine country wedding during peak season you'll want to book up to 18 months in advance. Southern California venues offer more flexibility especially during winter months when you can still enjoy beautiful weather while potentially securing better rates.

Where Can You Find Exceptional Culinary Experiences in California?

La Valencia Hotel in La Jolla delivers impeccable service with menu options from lobster bisque to perfectly prepared steak. You'll love Vibiana in Los Angeles with its chef-driven menus served in a stunning restored cathedral setting. Rosewood Sand Hill in Menlo Park offers Michelin-star fine dining while Bali Hai Restaurant serves authentic Polynesian cuisine with breathtaking views overlooking San Diego Bay. California's culinary scene truly elevates the wedding experience.

How Do California Wedding Costs Break Down?

VendorAverage Cost% of Total (150 guests)
Venue$10,66518%
Catering$8,53214%
Florists$7,82113%
Bar Services$6,82611%
Photography$4,7648%
Wedding Planners$4,8358%
Videography$4,3097%
Hair & Makeup$6001%
Cake & Desserts$8181%

Which California Venues Offer Enhanced Remote Participation?

Parq Event Center in San Diego features state-of-the-art sound LED screens and projection walls that support advanced streaming capabilities for guests who can't attend in person. You'll find Exchange LA and Wing Tip in San Francisco offer flexible spaces that adapt beautifully for innovative tech integration. These can include virtual reality experiences interactive live streaming and 360-degree cameras that make remote guests feel like they're right there with you. Technology has transformed how we can include loved ones from anywhere in the world.

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