The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Bethany, CT

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Bethany, CT

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46 Wedding Venues in Bethany, CT

Historic estates, mansions
150-200 guests
Available on May 30, 2026
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The Mansion at West Sayville 
  • Up to 220 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Lavish glass enclosed patio, spectacular panoramic views of the Great South Bay.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
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The Woodwinds at The Blackstone Library 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 475 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

The James Blackstone Memorial Library, commonly known as the Blackstone Library, in Branford, Connecticut, is a historic and elegant venue perfect for weddings. Commissioned by Timothy Blackstone to honor his father, James Blackstone, the library was designed by renowned architect Solon Spencer Beman and completed in 1896. Its classic architectural features and serene ambiance make it an enchanting backdrop for wedding ceremonies and receptions. Woodwinds Catering enhances the wedding experience at the Blackstone Library with exquisite culinary offerings and impeccable service. Their attention to detail ensures that every aspect of the wedding day is flawlessly executed, from planning to the final toast. The library’s stunning exterior, with its intricate stonework and majestic columns, provides a picturesque setting for wedding photographs. Inside, the elegant interiors with high ceilings and rich woodwork create a warm and inviting atmosphere for guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Has an intimate atmosphere
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
Worked with the woodwinds at the library and they were so helpful. They showed me ahead of time where I was setting up, on arrival they had a table waiting for me. They even made sure I ate (the food is delicious!!!) I hope I get to work with them in the future!
Jay, 10 months ago
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Woodwinds 

4.5

Branford, CT
  • Up to 600 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $115

WoodWinds is one of the most sought after Connecticut wedding venues for wedding receptions, banquets, corporate events or any special occasion, in the Tri-State area. A wedding in our impressive European Country Manor will reflect your personal vision. Imagine a magical experience, enhanced by a unique ceremony and reception on the beautiful grounds of WoodWinds. Envision standing on a grand staircase under the twinkle of Austrian Crystal chandeliers, taking pictures in a magnificent garden and dancing the night away on a marble dance floor.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Bridal suite on site
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No free parking
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
The venue had a few hiccups, but overall we had a lovely reception there. The outdoor space was the highlight - truly gorgeous for photos. Communication on coordination was a bit spotty at times, but the maître d', Sergio, was a god send and stepped in to ensure things flowed smoothly. The food was phenomenal, as well! So many of our guests shared it was the best wedding food they’d ever had. We did have both our bridal attendants provided by the venue disappear on us shortly after we arrived, which was inconvenient since we would have paid for our own attendants if we knew that would be the case. While parts of the indoor space is dated, it worked out beautifully with some creative decor. When weighing everything in, the Woodwinds was a spectacular venue!
Negeena & M., 10 months ago
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The Wadsworth Mansion At Long Hill Estate 

5.0

Middletown, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $30,000

The Wadsworth Mansion, a nineteenth-century Beaux Art style mansion, is the quintessential country estate. Graced by expansive lawns and surrounded by 103 acres of wooded parklands the Mansion reflects an era of grandeur and elegance. There are multiple locations for outdoor ceremonies and guests can enjoy cocktails and dance on the terrace under the stars. The Mansion can accommodate two hundred guests for a seated dinner reception and larger numbers for cocktail parties. Only one event is scheduled each day and couples can select from a list of approved caterers to create the wedding of their dreams.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Private area for the wedding party

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Weeks later, we're still absolutely gushing over the Mansion! It was the perfect venue for our wedding. They had it all, from phenomenal staff to luxurious facilities, not to mention the stunning views. We had the pleasure of working with Alexandra(Alex) we could not have asked for a better person! Alex knew all of our family members and bridal party’s names, and was extremely personable. She went above and beyond to make sure we were taken care of all night. She brought me a snack before the ceremony and continuously brought me my water all day and night (without me asking)They truly make you feel like a VIP throughout your entire day and their top notch team(along with our caterer David Alan) ensured that everything ran smoothly behind the scenes. In the early stages of planning we worked with Jessica Hess and she is extremely helpful and communicative. The mansion truly felt like home for the day. We hosted our ceremony on the vista , cocktail hour was on the terrace, and we had dinner in the East ballroom. Guests were in awe of the estate (we also lucked out with absolutely perfect weather), and how every detail was perfectly executed. Our special day was truly a dream and felt like it was out of a movie! We could not recommend the Wadsworth Mansion enough, and can't wait to return for future celebrations. It's definitely well-worth the investment and would 10/10 recommend hosting your special day here! Ps ask about the beautiful custom made bar (my stepdad built it) Our wedding Venue: The Wadsworth Mansion Photographer: Crystal Photography Second Shooter: Jenn Tee Photography Videographer: Jf3 Productions DJ: AMS - Mikey Tierney Caterer: David Alan Hospitality Group Bar: Cocktail Crusiers Gown: Grace Loves Lace Flower Girl Dress: Grace Loves Lace Tuxedo & Suits: Generation Tux Makeup: Upstyle Co. Autumn Starke Hair: The Hair Factory - Danielle Gagnon Getting Ready Suite: The Apiary Collective Cake: J Cakes MOB Dress: Camilyn Beth Bridal Bouquet & Boutonnière: Haworths Flower
Arianna C., a year ago
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The Spinning Wheel 

4.7

Redding, CT
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,000

As the embodiment of ‘Connecticut Charm’ with its 18th-century architectural design & rustic, New England inspired designs, The Spinning Wheel is the ideal destination for an intimate reception. Our venue, sitting on five acres of rolling countryside, offers both privacy and accessibility - with its picturesque location in quaint Redding, CT and its proximity to major thruways (I-95) and Manhattan (approximately an hour away). Our charmingly-appointed banquet room can accommodate weddings of up to 150 guests and features the original fireplace from 1742. The scenic garden gazebo is a favorite for nuptial exchange and the covered patio serves as a perfect setting for cocktails and outdoor receptions. Come meet our family and explore our beautiful grounds yourself – we can’t wait to meet you!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides setup and cleanup

Venue considerations

  • No on-site bridal suite
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Awarded Best of Zola
The Spinning Wheel made our wedding absolutely perfect. From the beginning of the process to the wedding day, Katlyn and her Staff were so attentive, professional and friendly. They made all my dreams come true. The food was AMAZING, the wait staff efficient and attentive, the vibe was awesome. Everyone had a blast and said it was the best wedding ever. I had the best experience at The Spinning Wheel!
Melissa, 8 months ago
Saint Clements Castle 

5.0

Portland, CT
  • Up to 260 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $120

Where the castle meets the river, Saint Clements Castle & Marina, is Connecticut’s premier wedding and event venue in Portland. Situated along the banks of the river, each of the three unique event spaces provide a picturesque and scenic backdrop of the riverside and lush greenery while outdoors. Inside, you will find newly renovated historical charm for a variety of special events, including weddings, showers, corporate meetings, and other celebrations. Saint Clements Castle has earned a reputation of an elevated and enchanting setting perfect for all things in life worth celebrating. Saint Clements Castle and Marina’s location, in central Connecticut, is easily accessible as a midpoint from the New York City and Boston areas.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Bridal suite on site
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • No built-in audiovisual options
Awarded Best of Zola
Saint Clements Castle provided a beautiful venue and kind staff for our wedding day. We especially appreciated our sales coordinator, Alyssa, who was professional, fast, and clear in her communication throughout the planning process. When rain forced us to move the ceremony indoors, the team quickly adapted the art gallery for us. The servers and bridal attendants were also attentive and went above and beyond to help finish set up when our florist left early. Our guests had incredibly kind things to say about the servers, and overall we had a great experience. It was also lovely to have a place that was a one stop shop for event planning! We did lose some decor in the shuffle which was an inconvenience, and some of the instructions for set up I left were not followed (our confetti got lost, only four guests got packets, the bridal suites did not have the supplies we left for them). My husband’s family were also really upset with one of the managers on property who wouldn’t allow them to walk in a covered area and was a bit rude about it, despite an event not happening and the rain being a torrential downpour causing unsafe conditions for his elderly family to walk in. Overall we had a great experience, and would recommend the castle to anyone planning a wedding!
Elise D., a year ago
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Riverbend 

4.2

Higganum, CT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

Welcome to Connecticut Wedding Group's latest jewel, Riverbend—a masterpiece poised to claim its title as the state’s foremost wedding destination, with an opening scheduled for 2026! Nestled in the heart of Higganum, this venue seamlessly blends the rich tapestry of the town's industrial history with a contemporary touch, resulting in an unmatched fusion of industrial charm and modern elegance. As you step through the entrance, prepare to be enchanted by a stunning architectural marvel nestled within a lovingly restored industrial gem. Towering, exposed-beam ceilings create an expansive atmosphere, and the weathered brickwork shares the timeless tales of a bygone era. Bathed in sunlight pouring through expansive windows, every corner is adorned with a soft, natural glow, ensuring that your celebration emanates with an undeniable warmth and inherent beauty. At Riverbend, history meets modernity to create the perfect backdrop for your special day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
As a wedding cinematographer, I’m always looking for venues that provide a stunning, natural backdrop to tell a couple’s story, and The Riverbend is nothing short of breathtaking. The venue’s riverside charm, with its peaceful flowing water and lush greenery, creates an atmosphere that feels both intimate and grand—a perfect setting for capturing timeless wedding memories. What truly sets The Riverbend apart is the seamless blend of nature and sophistication. The staff is incredibly attentive and ensures every detail of the day goes smoothly, allowing couples to fully enjoy their special moment. This venue is a dream to film at, offering countless opportunities for cinematic shots that highlight its unique riverside beauty. If you’re looking for a venue that’s as memorable as your love story, I can’t recommend The Riverbend enough!
CInematic Horizon F., 6 months ago
Glastonbury Theater 

5.0

Glastonbury, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $1,300

Nestled in the heart of Glastonbury, Connecticut, the historic Glastonbury Theater has been a cornerstone of community engagement since 1929. Originally a grange hall, this venue has been transformed over the years, keeping its unique charm intact while adapting to modern necessities. Today, the theater offers a blend of timeless elegance and state-of-the-art facilities, perfect for a variety of events, from intimate gatherings to large corporate functions. We can comfortably accommodate up to 100 guests seated, and up to 200 in a theater-style arrangement. At Glastonbury Theater, we craft memorable experiences with a deep commitment to excellence, celebrating the power of community and heritage. We're excited to invite you to become part of our rich history and create your own unforgettable moments on our storied stage.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides catering services
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Has a glamorous vibe

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Not wheelchair accessible
The event team is highly professional and goes the extra mile to ensure a successful event. Highly recommended for a unique and memorable wedding experience
Asana Crystal, 2 years ago
Essex Steam Train & Riverboat 

5.0

Essex, CT
  • Up to 230 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

We make our beautiful facilities, equipment, and catering staff available for weddings, reunions, meetings, and other events. We have four beautiful indoor/outdoor event spaces to choose from, all different and unique in their own way!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Not wheelchair accessible
I have loved coming to the Essex Steam Train & Riverboat museum since I was a child so when my husband and I got engaged, we knew we had to get married here. It was such a magical venue and was reasonably priced. They truly don't try to nickel-and-dime you like a lot of other wedding venues, they just want you to have a good experience. The bridal suite was a beautifully decorated air-conditioned train car. We also decided to add on a roundtrip steam train ride down to the CT river and a steamboat cruise as our cocktail hour (honestly didn't cost as much as you'd think...). Our reception was inside the hall and was perfectly air-conditioned and decorated. We did a buffet option and the food was good! If you decide to get married outside, just remember that it IS an active train yard so make sure your officiant has a microphone. Meredith and Tyler were very easy to work with while planning the event. I highly recommend getting married here. Oh, and your photos will look INSANE.
Kayla M., 2 months ago
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Caramoor Center for Music and the Arts 

5.0

Katonah, NY
  • Up to 700 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $50,000

Although widely known for our weddings, many families have selected Caramoor to celebrate important milestones like special birthdays, anniversaries, family reunions, Bar and Bat Mitzvahs, and other significant life events. Our variety of unique venues will make your wedding day a one-of-a-kind experience for you and your guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Private area for the wedding party

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Dance floor not included
Caramoor magic is real! Surrounding nature, gardens, special spaces and treasures in the Rosen House, festive tented occasions, dining, and year round concerts all happen at Caramoor. With great pleasure, and for many years, I enjoy working with this lovely, personable, dedicated Caramoor staff.
Mary Lou Pappas, 5 years ago
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The Rams Head Inn 

5.0

Shelter Island Heights, NY
  • Up to 225 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

Please contact us directly to get more information, pricing and availability. Email corinna (a) the rams head inn . com, or text/call 6 3 1. 9 0 3. 2 3 5 5. Located on beautiful Shelter Island overlooking Coecles Harbor, The Ram's Head Inn has breath-taking water views. The hotel features 17 guest rooms, a private beach, hammocks and Adirondack chairs for our guests. The restaurant features the best in local fare with food coming almost exclusively from the east end of Long Island or from the Chef's garden. Website: the rams head inn .com

Why you'll love this venue

  • Historic touches
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Lighting and sound are not included
Rams Head Inn was an absolute pleasure to work with for my client's summer wedding! Their events manager was communicative and detail-oriented leading up to the wedding, and on the day of, the entire team was so on top of everything. The RHI staff is delightful and are great team players. I definitely felt like we were all working together to bring our clients' vision to life!
Leah W., 4 years ago
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Watermill Caterers 

4.3

Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

One of Long Island's best-kept secrets, our sprawling estate is nestled in the heart of Suffolk County and is surrounded by manicured landscapes, winding pathways and historic architecture. With an atmosphere of rustic elegance and timeless beauty, the Watermill is the perfect marriage of old-world charm and luxurious modern comforts—perfectly providing the finest amenities and endless enchantments at every turn. For more than 25 years, the Watermill has fostered joy and thousands of lasting memories through an unyielding commitment to providing unparalleled service, award-winning cuisine, and an unforgettable experience for each and every guest who walks through our doors.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a chic vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Watermill Caterers was an absolute pleasure to work with for our wedding. From the moment we first reached out, their communication was attentive, responsive, and respectful - they made the entire planning process feel easy and smooth. The quality of their work was truly amazing, with a stunning, modern, and updated event space that exceeded all of our expectations. They helped make all of our wedding day dreams come true, handling every detail with care and ensuring the day went off without a hitch. I would book with Watermill Caterers again in a heartbeat.
Amanda K., 5 months ago
Curry Estate 

5.0

Hopewell Junction, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,300

We'd love to help you if your wedding has been postponed or rescheduled. We have dates available and are ready to work with brides. Let's sit down and plan a new date for your special day! Le Chambord at Curry Estate is one of the most elegant and romantic wedding venues in the Hudson Valley. We know you have a unique vision for your wedding and this ten-acre beautifully treed and gardened property, with 1863 historic Georgian Colonial estate, ballroom, covered outdoor pavilion, four-star restaurant, conference center and overnight accomodations is the perfect setting to make that dream come true.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides catering services
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
The Curry Estate was the absolute best experience my husband and me could have imagined. They went above and beyond to make sure our expectations were met and exceeded. They make you feel at home and bring every element of elegance, fun, and beauty to the one of the most important days of a couples lives. They also accommodated us by letting us get some wedding photos retaken that were missed at our wedding. They are truly an incredible team!
Makenzi C., 2 months ago
Phelps-Hatheway House & Garden 

5.0

Suffield, CT
  • Up to 160 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $2,749

The Phelps-Hatheway House & Garden highlights the elegant lifestyle enjoyed by two 18th-century families on Suffield’s historic Main Street. From the grand staircase to the fine Connecticut furniture and Parisian wallpaper, the house showcases Federal period high style. The landscaped grounds feature formal flower beds and an herb garden. A historic barn and cozy summer house are perfect for weddings, meetings, and other special occasions.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
Perfect venue for our party size. The staff could not have been better to us
Mary Beth W., 3 months ago
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Chateau at Coindre Hall 

5.0

Huntington, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Seemingly plucked from the south of France, this 80,000 square-foot medieval-style mansion provides a setting that is both timeless and historic. A majestic foyer greets guests upon arrival at this 40-room chateau; a stately circular stairway provides the perfect backdrop for photos, the grand ballroom and piazza offer two distinct settings. Your guests will appreciate being able to explore this 1912 mansion that is a point of pride for Huntington residents and a National Historic landmark.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Bridal suite on site
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Exudes old-world charm

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Awarded Best of Zola
My husband and I were thrilled with our wedding at the Chateau at Coindre Hall. The venue offers a beautiful, elegant, and one-of-a-kind setting that perfectly complemented our vision for the big day. The staff were fantastic to work with - communication was always quick, clear, and helpful in the planning process. They had faith that the rain would let up just in time for our outdoor ceremony, and we are so grateful we went for it because it truly did turn out perfectly. The delicious food and drinks had all our guests raving - we received so many compliments! Overall, we highly recommend Coindre Hall for couples looking for a unique and gorgeous wedding venue with wonderful staff.
Amy S., 10 months ago
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Reid Castle Events 

5.0

Purchase, NY
  • Up to 180 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

Weddings at Reid Castle are truly special and memorable events. When you have your wedding here, all the Shakespearean décor rooms on the first floor will be yours to use as you wish. Our glorious garden terraces and patio that adorn the castle are also open to you and your guests. As our special guest, we only host one reception per day, which means you and your bridal party can arrive early to get dressed, take some pre-wedding photos, or simply relax for a while before the excitement begins.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
You wouldn’t know one of the most beautiful venue and chapel is hiding on Manhattanville College campus but wow does Reid Castle deliver. Every room is more beautiful than the next and the west wing where our reception was held is jaw dropping. If you love a vintage, dark wood and classic vibe- this is the venue for you. Shaun, who runs the show and executes perfection, is the BEST. From the first tour of the venue to the day of she made sure my vision came to life and I cannot thank her and her staff enough.
Amelia H., a year ago
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The Briarcliff Manor 

4.4

Briarcliff Manor, NY
  • Up to 180 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Located in the historic town of Briarcliff Manor, New York, the estate has been making memories and hosting lavish events for over 50 years. Under the new leadership of the DiNapoli family, the manor – a full service venue – has been renovated and remodeled to merge old-world charm and contemporary elegance. Hosting events of up to 180 guests, it is our mission to provide each and every one of our guests with a timelessly elegant experience. Dedicated to delivering events with delicious cuisine, exceptional service and meticulous attention to detail, it is our desire to make you and your guests feel like a part of our family in this historic manor that boasts charm with seven fireplaces, sweeping staircases, and a grand appearance. A non-exhaustive list of available services include: All-inclusive packages, Setup and cleanup, A decor specialist and planner, Event planning, Banqueting rentals, In-house bar and catering, Lighting and sound, Valet parking and wheelchair access.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Private area for the wedding party

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
The Briarcliff Manor was the perfect venue for our wedding day! The staff was incredibly attentive and communicative throughout the planning process, ensuring every detail was discussed and all our questions were answered clearly and thoroughly. On our actuall wedding day, everything flowed seamlessly thanks to their understanding of our vision and their meticulous execution. The grounds were pristine and spacious, providing a lovely backdrop for our ceremony and photos. The ballroom was decorated beautifully and the food was absolutely delicious. I'd highly recommend Briarcliff Manor to any couple looking to have a memorable and special big day! They’ll take care of every little detail so you’re able to just enjoy your day. Also special thanks to Perry, Vincenza and Emily for really seeing our vision through! My bridal attendant was also amazing and I feel terrible that I can’t remember her name, but thank you so much to her as well!
Shoshana, a year ago
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The Bird and Bottle Inn 

5.0

Garrison, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled in the hills of the beautiful Hudson Highlands, this one-time colonial stagecoach stop is over 250 years old and has been lovingly restored in 2021 with all of the modern comforts. Meticulously landscaped grounds, a peaceful brook with overlook bridge and 5 unique, beautifully appointed guest rooms make this the perfect weekend wedding destination.

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Lighting and sound are not included
The Bird and Bottle Inn was the perfect fairytale setting for our wedding. From the beginning, there were many emails back and forth to get all the details just right, but the staff was incredibly responsive and professional throughout the entire planning process. But they really shined the day of the wedding. The set-up and ceremony went so smoothly, they made sure everything was taken care of. Even last minute timeline switches like cutting the cake earlier in the night was made easy. We also were able to stay at the inn and get ready there which made things much easier on us. They had our signature drinks, champagne, and food ready and waiting for all the guests as soon as the ceremony was over. I have been to weddings where the entire cocktail hour we were just waiting on line to get a drink, this was perfectly set up. Drinks were also being continually poured and served at an inside and an outside bar, and if you couldn’t make it to the bar there was always a server nearby to help. There was even one server who was assigned just to us, he went above and beyond, always made sure we had anything we needed, always getting us drinks or more food, it was wonderful. And the food… the food was simply amazing - usually wedding food can be boring, or like it was just mass produced and pumped out of the kitchen, but their food was perfect. I am still thinking about the short rib and our guests are still raving about it over a month later. Literally one guest saying it was the best food they ever had at a wedding. And the space is so beautiful, there are so many lovely place for photos, and really makes it seem like you are in an enchanted place. The bridge over the little babbling brook for a first look, the garden ceremony by the pond, the cocktail hour on the patio, are just to name a few of the perfect spots on the property. And having our Photo Booth inside on the velvet couch was a unique touch guests really enjoyed! Not to mention getting our own private cottage to stay in! We also were able to move inside to the bar after the wedding was over with just the couple guests that were staying with us at the Inn and it was a lovely way to wind down after all the festivities were over. The entire team at The Bird and Bottle Inn truly went above and beyond to ensure our special day was everything we dreamed it would be. We couldn't have asked for a more magical venue to celebrate our love
Amy C., 8 months ago
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Bourne Mansion 

5.0

Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

This historic Vanderbilt mansion is a turn-of-the-century work of art that offers a traditional and classic setting for the grandest black tie affairs. From lawn events hosting over 1,000 guests, to weddings and corporate affairs hosting 300 guests, Bourne Mansion personifies luxury and grandeur and the elaborate celebrations of yesteryear. Bourne Mansion is conveniently located, only 90 minutes from New York City, yet worlds away.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Classic elegance
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
We got married 1/5/25 but had been working with Miriam for probably a year and a half before our big day. She was always so personable with us a treated us like family. Words cannot describe the love and care we felt from Jake, our maître D and Samantha, our bridal attendant, on our wedding day. We were cared for tediously and effortlessly. We felt like at ease, happy and totally relaxed. I needed Samantha and didn’t even know it, I am forever indebted to her - she could not have been more attentive and wonderful. Comforting me, assuring me, getting me where I need to be and when. So friendly, kind and amazing. Thank god for Jake. He is so special and we’re so lucky we got him as our maître D. He deems himself as a “yes man” and he is not lying. Anything you could have ever wanted from him, he’d deliver. We wanted for nothing, had wonderful direction from him all night and he took care of EVERYTHING!  The night was flawless, amazing, perfect and all we could have ever hoped for. The staff at Bourne is unmatched, we made the right choice with this venue. Guests will be in awe of the venue and talk about the food for years to come. I wish I could do it all again. Thank you Bourne mansion & staff for the best night of our lives! I don’t have all my pics back yet!
Sara C., 5 months ago
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The Mansion at Oyster Bay 

5.0

Woodbury, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Mansion at Oyster Bay stands majestically in the heart of 120 perfectly manicured acres in Woodbury, Long Island. The ambiance of this former magnificent Gold Coast estate is rich with elegance and hospitality, but updated with modern amenities. Come enjoy this experience of Long Island Gold Coast luxury, and share it with your guests in an unforgettable setting.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
We had the most amazing wedding at The Mansion at Oyster Bay in October 2024! We had our full wedding (ceremony, cocktail hour, reception, afterparty) all at the mansion and the day was flawless and our guests can't say enough about how amazing everything was! The food, drinks and atmosphere were all amazing and the staff was so kind, attentive and warm, not only to just us as the couple, but to all of our guests. The team at the mansion was very communicative throughout the entire wedding planning process, and on the day of they knew exactly how we wanted the day to run and they pulled it off without any hiccups or problems! Our wedding was outside and it was a gorgeous day, but I also would have been happy if we needed to do the ceremony inside because the decor is so stunning. All of my pictures look amazing because the mansion is such a stunning backdrop. I highly recommend you have your wedding here!!
MaryKate K., 7 months ago
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Whitby Castle 

4.8

Rye, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,500

Whitby Castle boasts a striking similarity to the details of the original Whitby Abbey in England, including some of the original Abbey stones. From the charm and romantic details of the architecture to the delicious food and drinks, and exceptional staff and service, we want to exceed all of your expectations.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Both indoor and outdoor options

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Additional event staff required
Awarded Best of Zola
The communication from the Whitby Castle team was lacking and inconcise, which made some parts of the planning process more difficult than it needed to be. However, the venue itself was an excellent space for the value, and the facility was in good condition, though not exceptional. One highlight was that the set up and clean up went very smoothly, which allowed us to fully enjoy our special day. Overall, Whitby Castle provided a solid space for our wedding, though the customer service could have been better.
Caila G., 4 months ago
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Mansion at Timber Point 

5.0

Great River, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled on the bank of the Great South Bay with panoramic views of Fire Island, the Mansion at Timber Point is a beautiful and inviting setting for the wedding ceremony of your dreams. The bride’s big day will commence in the lovely bridal suite, where the bridal party is welcome to prepare for the big moment. A beautiful white wedding gazebo is perched at the edge of the stone patio overlooking the rolling greens of the golf course, which give way to a magnificent bay view, for a romantic exchange of vows. Inside of this historic mansion you’ll find classic country décor with modern lighting and sound systems, ensuring a full night of dancing. Every detail will fall perfectly into place with the help of the experienced staff while the bride and groom enjoy their fairytale evening.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Blends luxury with trendiness
  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Everything was great! The staff was amazing and so easy to work with at every point in the process. No one was ever pushy or anything like that. Our maitre d Matt was an absolute gem and my bridal attendant Emma was an absolute angel. Loved the option to get married inside or out. We wanted outside but it was windy and cold so we got married inside in front of the beautiful fire place. We couldn’t have asked for anything better. ️
Erin R., a year ago
Union Church Of Pocantico Hills 

5.0

Tarrytown, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,800

Union Church of Pocantico Hills is a quaint wedding venue located in Tarrytown, NY with plenty of parking. Ideal for newlyweds planning a wedding, this charming stone church, built by the Rockefeller family, has a classic aesthetic that wedding-goers are sure to appreciate. Our non-denominational church welcomes all couples regardless of religious background, gender or belief. You don't need to be a member! The church boasts the world-famous 9 Marc Chagall and Henri Matisse stained-glass windows. The only Chagall stained-glass windows in the U.S. Commissioned by the Rockefeller family and Henri Matisse’s last work, the Rose Window creates a dramatic combination of art, beauty, and spirituality. After you have exchanged your vows, you and your partner can walk down the aisle marveling at the eye-catching windows above. The beautiful Reception Hall provides style and comfort! This remarkable venue will provide a truly magical atmosphere as you leap into your new marital adventure.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has an intimate atmosphere
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Private area for the wedding party

Venue considerations

  • No venue-provided food services
  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-premises lodging options
The grounds are peaceful and serene, the church is simply majestic, it's feels intimate and takes you back to a time long forgotten and did I mention the church's Marc Chagall custom made stain glass windows? And working with Natasha is very easy and insightful, every detail and request is met with utmost importance and preciseness
Julia Celio, Petalwhimsy, a year ago
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Rare650 Prime Steak and Sushi 

5.0

Syosset, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,000

Each wedding at Rare 650 is one of a kind – everything you ever dreamed and more. Dine, dance and celebrate in our fantastic new Conservatory with gleaming atrium-style ceilings that soar into the sky like your love together, capturing late afternoon sunbeams or the twinkling stars of night. Anchoring the great room is a majestic 12-foot handcrafted mantle adorned with warm, flickering candlelight. While our lush surrounding gardens bring the vibrant colors and beautiful textures of nature indoors. Comfortably accommodating over 100 guests in a perfect temperature-controlled environment, our Conservatory is a true architectural triumph that your wedding guests will marvel at and you will always remember as the perfect setting for the most special day of your life.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Provides catering services
  • Provides setup and cleanup

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • On-site parking not available
We celebrated our wedding on June 29 with about 75 guests, and it was nothing short of magical. We exchanged our personal vows before the ceremony, which took place outside in front of a beatiful waterfall. The setting was absolutely beautiful and created the perfect backdrop for our special day. Cindy and the entire 650 crew were phenomenal! Their attention to detail and commitment to making our day perfect was evident in everything they did. I wish I had more time to give each of them a hug for their incredible work! The food and drinks were simply amazing — to say they were delicious would be an understatement. What truly set this venue apart was Cindy’s dedication to ensuring everything ran smoothly. She was on top of every detail, even those I wasn’t aware of, allowing me to fully enjoy my day without any worries. I am so grateful to Cindy and the entire team for making our wedding day unforgettable. If you’re looking for a venue that combines beautiful scenery, exceptional service, and outstanding food and drink, look no further!
Sileni M., 10 months ago
Palace Theater 
Waterbury, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $5,500

Fully restored to its original 1920's splendor, the historically grand and architecturally breathtaking Palace Theater is one of Connecticut's most striking performance arts venues and distinctive reception facilities. Be the star of your show when renting our three ornate lobby spaces or give your guests the royal treatment with a dramatic wedding and reception on stage. Our venue's marble staircases, velvet curtains, gold leaf ceilings and crystal chandeliers provide the perfect backdrop for capturing your most memorable wedding moments.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a glamorous vibe
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • No on-site guest accommodations
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The Estate 
New Haven, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,500

NOTE: For additional information about The Estate, please email us directly via our website. The Estate is a countryside wedding venue located in New Haven, Connecticut. Nestled near the flowing waters of the coastline, this historic property is located on 12 acres and provides a refined setting for couples wanting to celebrate their special day in style. To begin your day on the right note, you can use the wedding suites for pre-ceremony preparations. Receptions are held outside in our elegant sailcloth tent while the mansion is a wonderful choice for hosting the cocktail reception. For your big day, The Estate is exclusively yours, giving you and your loved ones the time to create unforgettable memories together. When selecting The Estate as your wedding venue, the in-house event coordinator will work with you to ensure that your dream celebrations become a reality. Contact us today to learn more!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Surrounded by beautiful vineyards

Venue considerations

  • Does not provide event staff
  • Does not have a dance floor
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Guilford Yacht Club 
Guilford, CT
  • Up to 220 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

A beautiful club located on the West River with Dock ownership, rentals, clubhouse and dockside memberships available. The Guilford Yacht Club is a full service facility providing yachting, swimming, tennis and various social activities in a true resort environment. As far as the eye can see, one is surrounded by undisturbed natural beauty, including spectacular views of Long Island Sound and Faulkner’s Island.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Classic seating dinner
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests

Venue considerations

  • Additional event staff required
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
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Lounsbury House 
Ridgefield, CT
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,500

This national historic site was built in 1896. All the original details have been preserved. The House can accommodate seated events of up to 200 guests, or a small, relaxed brunch in the gardens. White wainscoting adorns the rooms throughout the mansion, while floral wallpaper and neutral colored walls create a traditional look. Chandeliers glitter from the ceiling and delicately designed furniture grace the rooms. Outside, their gardens are flawlessly landscaped, for a romantic ceremony setting. Nestled in the manicured landscape are a gazebo, pergola, and fountain for doses of whimsy. Cocktail hour can be held on the charming wrap-around porch and Grecian columns add a stately, upscale touch to the façade. The estate’s event specialists can provide guidance throughout the planning process. Bridal showers can also be hosted on the historic grounds. Your event may take place inside or out, giving you a number of options to create your ideal day. Exclusively yours.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Lush gardens
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Does not allow pets
  • No all-inclusive dining options
The Hartford Club 
Hartford, CT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

No matter the special occasion you are celebrating, The Hartford Club wants to see it through! We want to be a part of your special event from the earliest planning stages to the end of the very day. With our specialized and talented catering and banquet staff, we can ensure your enjoyment is stress-free and a memory that will never be forgotten! The Hartford Club has been named the #1 best wedding reception venue on the East Coast.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic seating dinner
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
1920 Bar and Bistro 
Norwalk, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $2,250

Discover a one-of-a-kind event space nestled within the historic walls of a former Hat Factory in Old Norwalk. Immerse yourself in the allure of a bygone era and celebrate special moments at a venue that holds a piece of Norwalk's captivating history as the 'hat capital of the world.' Whether it's a grand wedding, or an intimate affair, our venue offers a unique backdrop that pays homage to Norwalk's illustrious past. Our versatile space can accommodate up to 250 guests, providing a sit-down setting that begins with private dining for 12 guests and extends to a grand affair, accommodating up to 150 guests for dinner. Our venue seamlessly blends the charm of history with the sophistication required for your special day. The space features a DJ or live music stage, pre-function areas, and an adjoining stylish bar available for private event rentals. Step into a space that not only hosts events but also weaves the narrative of Norwalk's rich heritage into every celebration.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides catering services
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible

Location flexible? Discover venues near Bethany, CT

About wedding venues in Bethany, CT

Connecticut creates a magical backdrop for weddings with its diverse landscape ranging from historic mansions to renovated barns, waterfront properties and lush gardens. You'll find venues that perfectly blend traditional New England charm with modern amenities while showcasing the state's distinct seasonal beauty - exactly what you need to create those perfect wedding memories.

What Makes Connecticut Wedding Venues Distinctive?

Architectural diversity really sets Connecticut wedding venues apart. Eolia Mansion features an incredible amphitheater ceremony space and lovingly preserved period details that transport you back in time. The Barns at Wesleyan Hills stands out with its Edison Light Wall that creates absolutely magical evening ambiance you and your guests will remember forever. Fall weddings between September and October deliver spectacular foliage colors for ceremonies while July offers perfect conditions for waterfront celebrations along the Connecticut shoreline with comfortable temperatures and stunning water views.

How Much Do Connecticut Wedding Venues Cost?

Wedding venue costs in Connecticut typically range from $8,300 to $10,200 and represent about 17% of your total wedding budget. This aligns nicely with the national average of $6,500-$12,000 or 25% of total wedding costs, so you're getting good value in Connecticut.

For different guest counts, your approximate total wedding budgets will look like:

  • 50 guests: $24,172
  • 100 guests: $39,982
  • 150 guests: $54,842
  • 200 guests: $68,120
  • 250 guests: $81,398
  • 300 guests: $94,676

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in Connecticut?

The Riverview in Weatogue accommodates up to 500 seated guests with complete accessibility features and packages starting at $10,000. You'll find The Waterview in Monroe offers beautiful lakeside event spaces for up to 300 guests with handicap-accessible indoor and outdoor areas that make movement easy for all your guests.

Eolia Mansion at Harkness Memorial State Park gives you accessible ceremony locations for up to 150 guests with pricing starting at $5,000, while The Glastonbury Boathouse welcomes 150 guests with wheelchair accessibility throughout its indoor and outdoor spaces so everyone can enjoy your special day without limitations.

Which Connecticut Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

The Omni New Haven Hotel at Yale showcases local ingredients through their upscale in-house catering that will impress even your foodie guests. Delamar West Hartford features the award-winning Artisan Restaurant offering refined cuisine in an upscale setting that perfectly complements your celebration.

The Pond House Cafe in West Hartford has earned serious praise for unique food options and stunning presentation that elevates your reception experience. Winvian in Morris delivers true 5-star farm-to-table dining with ingredients harvested from their on-site gardens; you'll taste the difference in every bite and your guests will be talking about the meal for years.

How Can Connecticut Venues Accommodate Remote Wedding Guests?

The Waterview offers cutting-edge virtual reality applications allowing your remote guests to explore venue grounds and interact with on-site attendees almost like they're physically there. Anthony's Ocean View provides dedicated event concierges who help integrate technology for seamless remote participation so no one feels left out.

Innovative venues now incorporate interactive video conferencing virtual reality experiences and personalized virtual engagement platforms that go far beyond simple streaming. These technologies create truly inclusive experiences for remote guests who can't make it in person but still want to share in your special day.

When Should You Book Your Connecticut Wedding Venue?

Connecticut venues typically need booking 16 months in advance with September generating the highest volume of venue inquiries. The peak wedding season spans September-October when fall foliage creates stunning natural decor driving serious competition for prime weekend dates at barn and outdoor venues. You'll want to secure your date early especially if you're dreaming of that perfect autumn wedding.

What Wedding Costs Should You Expect in Connecticut?

Key wedding expenses for a 150-guest wedding include:

  • Venue: $9,243 (17%)
  • Catering: $7,395 (13%)
  • Florists: $6,399 (12%)
  • Bar Services: $5,916 (11%)
  • Planners: $5,119 (9%)
  • Photographers: $4,977 (9%)

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