The Best Wedding Venues in Apex, NC

The Best Wedding Venues in Apex, NC

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8 Wedding Venues in Apex, NC

250-300 guests
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Carnes Lake Banquet Hall 

4.0

  • Up to 250 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $1,995

Carnes Lake is an 1800 square foot hall that will be perfect for your wedding and/or reception. It's set on a private, fenced and gated, property outside Lancaster SC at 3548 N Rocky River Rd. The 6 acre lakefront venue will make you smile and breathe a little easier as soon as you arrive. The hall will accommodate around 50 - 75 people inside and room to double that with outdoor seating. Both inside and outside areas have a beautiful lakefront view. Another great feature is ample parking for all you guests. Whether you're in Lancaster, Charlotte, Waxhaw, Monroe or Pageland, Carnes Lake Banquet Hall is perfect.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Flexible event spaces
  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Not wheelchair accessible
My husband and I just got married here on September 13, 2025 but I’ve attended several weddings at this venue and I LOVE it every single time I arrive. Our wedding was the most perfect day! Carnes Lake has an intimate, at home feel! The out door space is amazing with multiple options for how you can set up for an outdoor event. The inside venue space is the intimate part, it’s small but MIGHTY! We had about 150 guests at our wedding and had plenty of room out on the patio area AND inside. They have a full kitchen with an island that’s perfect for serving space and preparation for making food! Ugh, everything about Carnes Lake helped make our day SO magical! Mrs. Fran, the owner, is so helpful and sweet & has answers to all of your questions and quickly! She was a delight to work with through our planning! Carnes Lake is just the most precious spot for your event/ wedding! We LOVED every thing about it!
Kelsey M., a month ago
The Oaks at Salem 

5.0

Apex, NC
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor

The Oaks at Salem has everything you are looking for! As the premier venue for weddings, receptions, rehearsal dinners, and other Triangle functions, the property provides numerous options for both outdoor and indoor entertaining! ​ Combining centuries-old charm with the best of modern conveniences, the setting is designed to capitalize on the views from every vantage point. Situated on over eleven pastoral acres with mature hardwoods and beautiful landscaping, The Oaks at Salem provides a plethora of photo opportunities beyond your imagination. The main level of the house offers a cozy fireplace and over one thousand square feet of veranda overlooking our ceremony wall, serene, one-acre pond, and newly acquired rustic barn.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Promotes a party atmosphere
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • No venue-provided food services
  • No free parking
  • Best for events with big guest lists
The Oaks was everything I dreamed of and provided the absolute best back drop for our pictures. The house is gorgeous and plenty spacious! We are thrilled that’s where we got to say and celebrate our I Do’s!
Stephanie K., 2 years ago
MacGregor Downs Country Club 

5.0

Cary, NC
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $7,500

Nestled by the lake, MacGregor Downs Country Club offers a serene and picturesque setting for weddings. The venue's elegant ballrooms and scenic views create a romantic atmosphere, while the attentive staff ensures a flawless and memorable celebration.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Does not allow pets
From the moment we first reached out to the team at MacGregor Downs Country Club, their communication was easy, fast, and completely transparent. The quality of their work and the overall value they provided was truly enchanting - the venue had a classy and charming atmosphere that set the perfect tone for our special day. The service and food were both absolutely amazing, with numerous guests commenting that the meal was the best they had ever experienced at a wedding. We could not have been more thrilled with how everything turned out, and we are so grateful to the MacGregor Downs team for helping to make our wedding day truly unforgettable.
Greg W., 8 months ago
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The Club at 12 Oaks Country Club 

5.0

Holly Springs, NC
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $8,000
  • Offer

12 Oaks Country Club is an enchanting wedding venue that seamlessly combines elegance with natural beauty. Set against a backdrop of lush greenery and stunning landscapes, the venue offers both indoor and outdoor spaces perfect for ceremonies and receptions. The picturesque outdoor ceremony site features manicured gardens and breathtaking views, providing a romantic setting for vows. Inside, the elegant clubhouse boasts sophisticated decor and ample space for dining and dancing, accommodating both intimate gatherings and larger celebrations. With experienced staff dedicated to making your day special, 12 Oaks offers personalized services, from catering to event planning. Couples can also take advantage of beautiful photo opportunities throughout the property, ensuring unforgettable memories. Whether you're dreaming of a grand affair or a more intimate celebration, 12 Oaks Country Club is a stunning choice for your wedding day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a sophisticated vibe
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
The Club at 12 Oaks Country Club was an absolute pleasure to work with as a vendor. Their communication throughout the planning process was extremely responsive, making the coordination of our client's special day seamless. The clubhouse itself is beautifully modern and exceptionally well-maintained, providing a stunning backdrop for the wedding. The team went above and beyond with detailed planning meetings to ensure every wish and request from our clients was brought to life. The impeccable service on the day-of made the entire celebration feel effortless. I highly recommend The Club at 12 Oaks Country Club to any couple searching for a top-notch wedding venue.
Josh, a year ago
Goels Plaza 
Morrisville, NC
  • Up to 1500 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $2,000

Goels Plaza provides a place for family, friends, loved ones, and coworkers to come together to celebrate the special moments in life. Host your events in one of the most prime and central locations of North Carolina: The Triangle. With five different ballroom options, no event is too big or too small. As a full-service venue, we can offer services from planning to entertainment to décor. Our team at Goels Plaza is honored to host events that have led to unforgettable memories. Allow us to become a part of your memory as well. Goels Plaza is the largest privately owned banquet facility in North Carolina.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not allow pets
The StateView Hotel 
Raleigh, NC
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor

All you need for the perfect wedding day is to look into the eyes of your spouse-to-be and promise them forever love – with a gorgeous backdrop, impressive food and a charming reception space, artfully decorated with your specific tastes in mind. That’s exactly what you’ll find here at the StateView Hotel in Raleigh, NC. Imagine saying “I do” while standing in the sunshine on our sweeping green lawn with the glistening waters of Lake Raleigh in the background. After the ceremony, retreat to our beautiful ballroom, completely customized for you and your guests. Now it’s time to eat, drink and be merry – you’ve just tied the knot with the love of your life!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a glamorous vibe
  • Provides catering services
  • Caters to out-of-town guests

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Does not allow pets
  • Dance floor not included
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Various Scenic & Iconic Venues at Meredith College 
Raleigh, NC
  • Up to 1000 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $950

A premier North Carolina event destination where timeless moments come to life. Discover historic elegance, versatile venues, and impeccable service on our beautiful Raleigh campus. Parking is ample and available all around campus, wherever you need to park your trucks and crew. Whether you are planning an intimate anniversary, a grand wedding, or a pivotal corporate summit, our venues provide a versatile and inspiring setting. Gothic buildings, vast natural foliage, modern atriums, old-school classrooms, different atmospheres that fit your filming & event planning needs -- all within walking distance. We specialize in bringing events of all types and sizes to life with elegance and precision. Each space provides a unique and memorable backdrop, ready to be transformed for your landmark event. Please get in touch to learn more about our full range of venues and how we can bring your ideas to reality. We offer various add-on services as well.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Space for a large guest list
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Requires outside catering services
  • Does not allow pets

Location flexible? Discover venues near Apex, NC

About wedding venues in Apex, NC

North Carolina offers an impressive wedding venue landscape with everything from historic plantations to rustic barns, elegant urban spaces and coastal retreats. You'll find architectural diversity throughout the state; from colonial-era mansions in Charlotte to converted textile mills in the Triangle region. Mountain venues give you breathtaking panoramic views of the Blue Ridge Mountains that your guests won't forget.

What's the Average Cost for North Carolina Wedding Venues?

Wedding venues in North Carolina typically run between $6,400 and $7,800, making up about 16% of your total wedding budget. That's actually quite reasonable compared to the national average of $6,500-$12,000 or 25% of total costs. For a complete North Carolina wedding you can expect these total costs based on your guest count: A small wedding with 50 guests averages $19,707. With 100 guests you're looking at $32,695. For 150 guests the typical cost reaches $44,906. Larger celebrations with 200 guests average $55,823 while 250 guests pushes to $66,740. A large wedding with 300 guests typically costs $77,657.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in North Carolina?

Alexander Homestead in Charlotte offers ADA-accessible parking and restrooms in a beautiful historic setting with a rustic barn and gorgeous gardens. You'll appreciate the inclusivity without sacrificing style. The Mint Museum features various rooms and terraces that can accommodate different needs, making it a solid choice for accessible events with an artistic backdrop. Nantahala Weddings & Events is fully ADA-compliant while giving you stunning mountain views on a secluded estate. They even have nearby lodging options for your guests.

Which North Carolina Venues Support Remote Participation?

The Barn on New River in West Jefferson gives you a picturesque setting with modern amenities that can be customized for interactive remote elements. Your virtual guests won't miss a thing. River Landing near Wilmington features elegant spaces and grand ballrooms that support technical capabilities for streaming and live Q&A sessions. The Maxwell in Raleigh, with its contemporary design and abundant natural light, adapts beautifully to technology integration for virtual wedding experiences that feel intimate even from afar.

How Much Should I Budget for Wedding Services in North Carolina?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget (150 guests)
Venue$7,08916%
Catering$5,67113%
Flowers$5,54612%
Bar Services$4,53710%
Photographers$4,2669%
Planners$4,0249%
Videographers$3,7688%
Bands/DJs$1,3903%
Cakes/Desserts$9602%
Hair & Makeup$6351%

Where Can Foodies Find Outstanding Wedding Cuisine in North Carolina?

The Farm - A Gathering Place in Candler offers amazing farm-to-table dining with customized menus just west of Asheville. You'll love having multiple ceremony sites to choose from and the convenience of on-site lodging for your guests. The Carolina Inn in Chapel Hill is known for classic Southern cuisine with elegant event spaces right on UNC's campus. Their beautiful outdoor courtyards create a magical setting for your special day. Polanco Venue by Chef Carrasco in Asheville specializes in mixed cuisine with excellent service from experienced staff who can help create your perfect culinary experience.

When Should I Book My North Carolina Wedding Venue?

September is North Carolina's most popular inquiry month for weddings, so you'll need to book earlier if you're planning a fall celebration. Don't wait too long or your dream venue might be taken. Focus your venue tours on spaces that specifically accommodate your guest count to save time and avoid falling in love with locations that won't work for your party size. This targeted approach helps you find the perfect match faster.

North Carolina offers an impressive wedding venue landscape with everything from historic plantations to rustic barns, elegant urban spaces and coastal retreats. You'll find architectural diversity throughout the state; from colonial-era mansions in Charlotte to converted textile mills in the Triangle region. Mountain venues give you breathtaking panoramic views of the Blue Ridge Mountains that your guests won't forget.

What's the Average Cost for North Carolina Wedding Venues?

Wedding venues in North Carolina typically run between $6,400 and $7,800, making up about 16% of your total wedding budget. That's actually quite reasonable compared to the national average of $6,500-$12,000 or 25% of total costs. For a complete North Carolina wedding you can expect these total costs based on your guest count: A small wedding with 50 guests averages $19,707. With 100 guests you're looking at $32,695. For 150 guests the typical cost reaches $44,906. Larger celebrations with 200 guests average $55,823 while 250 guests pushes to $66,740. A large wedding with 300 guests typically costs $77,657.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in North Carolina?

Alexander Homestead in Charlotte offers ADA-accessible parking and restrooms in a beautiful historic setting with a rustic barn and gorgeous gardens. You'll appreciate the inclusivity without sacrificing style. The Mint Museum features various rooms and terraces that can accommodate different needs, making it a solid choice for accessible events with an artistic backdrop. Nantahala Weddings & Events is fully ADA-compliant while giving you stunning mountain views on a secluded estate. They even have nearby lodging options for your guests.

Which North Carolina Venues Support Remote Participation?

The Barn on New River in West Jefferson gives you a picturesque setting with modern amenities that can be customized for interactive remote elements. Your virtual guests won't miss a thing. River Landing near Wilmington features elegant spaces and grand ballrooms that support technical capabilities for streaming and live Q&A sessions. The Maxwell in Raleigh, with its contemporary design and abundant natural light, adapts beautifully to technology integration for virtual wedding experiences that feel intimate even from afar.

How Much Should I Budget for Wedding Services in North Carolina?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget (150 guests)
Venue$7,08916%
Catering$5,67113%
Flowers$5,54612%
Bar Services$4,53710%
Photographers$4,2669%
Planners$4,0249%
Videographers$3,7688%
Bands/DJs$1,3903%
Cakes/Desserts$9602%
Hair & Makeup$6351%

Where Can Foodies Find Outstanding Wedding Cuisine in North Carolina?

The Farm - A Gathering Place in Candler offers amazing farm-to-table dining with customized menus just west of Asheville. You'll love having multiple ceremony sites to choose from and the convenience of on-site lodging for your guests. The Carolina Inn in Chapel Hill is known for classic Southern cuisine with elegant event spaces right on UNC's campus. Their beautiful outdoor courtyards create a magical setting for your special day. Polanco Venue by Chef Carrasco in Asheville specializes in mixed cuisine with excellent service from experienced staff who can help create your perfect culinary experience.

When Should I Book My North Carolina Wedding Venue?

September is North Carolina's most popular inquiry month for weddings, so you'll need to book earlier if you're planning a fall celebration. Don't wait too long or your dream venue might be taken. Focus your venue tours on spaces that specifically accommodate your guest count to save time and avoid falling in love with locations that won't work for your party size. This targeted approach helps you find the perfect match faster.

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