Affordable Wedding Venues in Southold, NY

Affordable Wedding Venues in Southold, NY

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11 Wedding Venues in Southold, NY

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360 East at Montauk Downs 

5.0

Montauk, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

360° East at Montauk Downs is a breathtaking backdrop for your dream wedding celebration. Surrounded by panoramic views of Montauk, and overlooking a Robert Trent Jones designed 18-hole golf course, 360° East at Montauk Downs is sure to be your one-of-a-kind wedding destination.

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Provides catering services
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Choosing 360 East at Montauk Downs as our wedding venue was one of the best decisions we made. From the start, their communication style was incredibly accommodating, responsive, helpful, and kind. Hailee, who manages the venue, was a true powerhouse - she had a smile on her face the entire night and it was clear she loves what she does. The staff was equally as great, ensuring the whole planning process was a breeze and our special day could not have been more perfect. The quality of their work and value was stunning - the venue was beautifully managed, the food was incredible, and they had amazing in-house vendors that provided great service. We couldn't recommend 360 East at Montauk Downs more highly to any couple looking for an incredible wedding experience.
Kailey C., a year ago
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Haley Mansion at the Inn at Mystic 

5.0

Mystic, CT
  • Up to 220 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $2,000

The Haley Mansion, located in the heart of Mystic, Connecticut, is a historic estate that offers a truly unforgettable setting for your wedding day. Originally built in 1904, the mansion seamlessly blends classic New England charm with thoughtful modern updates, creating an atmosphere that feels both timeless and inviting. The property provides a variety of picturesque spaces for every part of your celebration. Say “I do” in the secluded garden, framed by lush greenery and natural beauty, then dine and dance the night away under the elegant marquee—an open, adaptable space perfect for personalizing your reception. The mansion’s unique character and scenic views set the stage for a day that’s truly special. With all-inclusive packages, in-house catering and bar service, and a dedicated planning team to handle every detail, the Haley Mansion allows you to focus on what matters most—celebrating your love story in a place as special as the moment itself.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Space for a large guest list
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Can't recommend the Haley Mansion enough!!! Besides being absolutely stunning (there are 10,000 amazing places for you and your guests to take pictures), the staff was phenomenal. Joe, Sue, Zac, and Kendra (and others!!) took amazing care of us. I feel like I literally had no thoughts and no stress the day of my wedding because they handled so much. They are so kind, easy-going (but on top of stuff), attentive, and think of everything. The process of booking, planning, etc. was so fun and easy. They are very flexible with the space and let you make everything your own while providing really helpful guidance. It's soooo nice that your guests can stay on site at the Inn and you can have an after party at the Rocks 21 restaurant. Nobody likes a shuttle/uber!! Multiple people told me it was the best organized wedding/after party they've been to. The food is good!! We got a lot of compliments on the food (recommend the lobster bisque!), which I feel is uncommon at a large wedding venue.
Colleen & A., 6 months ago
Stony Creek Brewery 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 140 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Situated in heart of Connecticut’s Branford, the Stony Creek Brewery offers a modern brewery venue for a fun-loving couple hoping to throw a laid back big day! Merging quality brews with delicious food and stunning design, it is no wonder that soon-to-be-wed couples see the Stony Creek Brewery as a stunning venue for their weddings! Imagine exchanging your vows on the adjoining dock with the glittering bay waters as a backdrop for your “I do’s.” The beautiful taproom boasts a unique atmosphere that is perfect for a relaxing reception.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Both indoor and outdoor options

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No in-house catering options
Stony Creek Brewery was an absolute pleasure to work with for our wedding celebration. From the start, their communication style was easy and straightforward, making the planning process a breeze. Their indoor-outdoor space provided the perfect setting, with gorgeous views. We were able to kick off our wedding weekend with a wonderful welcome party in their private upstairs room the night before the big day. The space was perfect for our casual pizza, drinks, cannolis, and cupcakes - it set the tone for a fun and memorable celebration. We're so grateful to the Stony Creek team for helping make our wedding weekend truly special.
Anne-Levert, a year ago
Saint Clements Castle 

5.0

Portland, CT
  • Up to 260 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $120

Where the castle meets the river, Saint Clements Castle & Marina, is Connecticut’s premier wedding and event venue in Portland. Situated along the banks of the river, each of the three unique event spaces provide a picturesque and scenic backdrop of the riverside and lush greenery while outdoors. Inside, you will find newly renovated historical charm for a variety of special events, including weddings, showers, corporate meetings, and other celebrations. Saint Clements Castle has earned a reputation of an elevated and enchanting setting perfect for all things in life worth celebrating. Saint Clements Castle and Marina’s location, in central Connecticut, is easily accessible as a midpoint from the New York City and Boston areas.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Bridal suite on site
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • No built-in audiovisual options
Awarded Best of Zola
Saint Clements Castle provided a beautiful venue and kind staff for our wedding day. We especially appreciated our sales coordinator, Alyssa, who was professional, fast, and clear in her communication throughout the planning process. When rain forced us to move the ceremony indoors, the team quickly adapted the art gallery for us. The servers and bridal attendants were also attentive and went above and beyond to help finish set up when our florist left early. Our guests had incredibly kind things to say about the servers, and overall we had a great experience. It was also lovely to have a place that was a one stop shop for event planning! We did lose some decor in the shuffle which was an inconvenience, and some of the instructions for set up I left were not followed (our confetti got lost, only four guests got packets, the bridal suites did not have the supplies we left for them). My husband’s family were also really upset with one of the managers on property who wouldn’t allow them to walk in a covered area and was a bit rude about it, despite an event not happening and the rain being a torrential downpour causing unsafe conditions for his elderly family to walk in. Overall we had a great experience, and would recommend the castle to anyone planning a wedding!
Elise D., a year ago
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Pachaug Cottages 

5.0

Griswold, CT
  • Up to 130 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Pachaug Cottages hosts a lakeside 40x60ft heavy timber frame pavilion and seasonal cottages to host your wedding! Conveniently located near the Rhode Island / Connecticut border on Pachaug Pond, the property is within driving range of several international airports (Providence, Hartford, Boston). Contact us today to book a tour!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No venue-provided food services
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
Pachaug Cottages was the perfect venue for our wedding. From our first interaction, the owners, Jeff and Karin, were helpful, and friendly, going out of their way to ensure we had everything we needed. The property itself is truly beautiful, with serene lake views and a ton of beautiful places for photos. Every detail from ample parking to a specific area for catering and a designated bar has been thought of so there’s less to stress about on the big day. This family-owned establishment is unparalleled, and we highly recommend Pachaug Cottages for anyone's wedding, family reunion, or other event.
Katy S., a month ago
Block Island Maritime Institute 

5.0

Block Island, RI
  • Up to 160 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Block Island's best kept secret for weddings, receptions, rehearsal dinners or just welcome receptions. BIMI has outdoor aquariums and touch tanks that offer a unique cocktail reception experience for your guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Requires outside catering services
  • Additional event staff required
We loved getting married at BIMI. It was great to be on the water and have an indoor and outdoor location. BIMI comes with its own tables, chairs, bar, kitchen, and dance floor as well as a back porch and lawn. We were able to personalize the venue to our needs for decorations. You also know when you’re getting married there that you’re supporting a great cause, as BIMI uses the funds for maritime education and programs on Block Island!
Kate, a year ago
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The Mansion at West Sayville 

5.0

West Sayville, NY
  • Up to 205 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Located in West Sayville, NY, Mansion at West Sayville is a historic waterfront venue that hosts weddings and other milestone events. The management of this exquisite facility invites you to hold your special celebration in this setting with sweeping views of the Great South Bay. You and your loved ones can anticipate festivities with a private club ambience - a truly remarkable backdrop for your important day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
The Mansion at West Sayville is a gorgeous venue inside and out, and we’re so happy we chose it for our wedding. We loved the vibe from our first visit. It doesn't feel like a wedding factory, but being a Lessing's Venue you know they know what they are doing. Bob was down to earth, practical, and never tried to upsell us or pressure us into adding anything we didn’t need. Anytime I emailed Bob with a question, he responded within minutes and was always very on top of things. On the day of, everything about the wedding itself went so smoothly. Ann Marie the maitre d and Camille the bridal attendant were sweet, attentive, and so good at what they do. They set up our decor so beautifully and packed it away in an organized way at the end of the wedding. Ann Marie kept everything running smoothly, and Camille made sure we always had whatever we wanted, from food and bar drinks to our own pitcher of water when she noticed we were “the most hydrated couple she’d ever worked with” (lol). The bartender and all of our waitstaff were so attentive and wonderful too. The food was delicious and we got so many compliments about it, and about our venue in general. Our wedding day was truly unforgettable and The Mansion at West Sayville played a huge role in that!
Emily L., 4 months ago
Hotel Moraine 
Greenport, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $1,500

With breathtaking views of the Long Island Sound, our property offers 20 guest rooms, a sprawling lawn, private beach, pool, and bluff cottage. We host events for up to 100 people. Tented Events on the Lawn: Our expansive lawn overlooking the Long Island Sound provides the ideal setting for tented events of up to 100 guests. Say "I do" with the gentle sound of waves and the sun setting over the water as your backdrop. Private Bluff or Beach Ceremonies: Exchange your vows in an intimate ceremony against the backdrop of our private Bluff or Beach areas. The serene atmosphere and natural beauty of the surroundings will enhance the magic of the moment. Special Requests & Intimate Dining: We take pride in accommodating your special requests to make your event uniquely yours. Our Cottage on the Bluff offers an intimate space for rehearsal dinners or private dining experiences for up to 25 guests, adding a touch of exclusivity to your celebration.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Flexible event spaces
  • Blends luxury with trendiness
  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Dance floor not included
  • No on-site bridal suite
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Navy Beach Restaurant 
Montauk, NY
  • Up to 175 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Montauk’s favorite beachfront restaurant, Navy Beach serves casual coastal cuisine in a laid back, family-friendly setting. Positioned on a 200-foot private beach, the restaurant offers prime seating on the sand and some of the best sunsets in the Hamptons. Boaters are welcome to anchor in the protected waters of Fort Pond Bay (41° 02′ 45.11″N, -71° 57′ 44.88″W), which was once occupied by the US Navy, and where two Navy piers are still part of the water landscape. As Montauk’s favorite beachfront restaurant, Navy Beach is available to host a myriad of events indoors– in our waterview bar and dining room–and outdoors, on our 200-foot private beach.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
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Lombardi'S On The Bay 
Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $99

Cited by the New York Times as a location where “The food is as good as the views,” experience the Lombardi Family tradition of fine cuisine at Lombardi’s on the Bay. A property of Lombardi Caterers, a renowned entity in Long Island Hospitality, Lombardi’s on the Bay continues Lombardi’s 40-year-tradition of quality cuisine and service. With breathtaking views of the Great South Bay, Lombardi’s on the Bay offers a legendary elegance exclusive to this venue. Whether dining in our restaurant, enjoying a catered event in our banquet hall, or having your dream wedding where you are the only bride, Lombardi’s on the Bay is your choice for perfection and class.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Designed for grand celebrations
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets

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About wedding venues in Southold, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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