The Best Wedding Venues in Smithtown, NY

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6 Wedding Venues in Smithtown, NY

300+ guests
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Watermill Caterers 
Rating: 4.6 (11 reviews)
Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor

One of Long Island's best-kept secrets, our sprawling estate is nestled in the heart of Suffolk County and is surrounded by manicured landscapes, winding pathways and historic architecture. With an atmosphere of rustic elegance and timeless beauty, the Watermill is the perfect marriage of old-world charm and luxurious modern comforts—perfectly providing the finest amenities and endless enchantments at every turn. For more than 25 years, the Watermill has fostered joy and thousands of lasting memories through an unyielding commitment to providing unparalleled service, award-winning cuisine, and an unforgettable experience for each and every guest who walks through our doors.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a chic vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
“Watermill Caterers was an absolute pleasure to work with for our wedding. From the moment we first reached out, their communication was attentive, responsive, and respectful - they made the entire planning process feel easy and smooth. The quality of their work was truly amazing, with a stunning, modern, and updated event space that exceeded all of our expectations. They helped make all of our wedding day dreams come true, handling every detail with care and ensuring the day went off without a hitch. I would book with Watermill Caterers again in a heartbeat.”
Amanda K., 2 years ago
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Stonebridge Country Club 
Rating: 4.7 (115 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Stonebridge Country Club combines the natural beauty of its surroundings with exceptionally elegant settings for special events. Spectacular view of our meticulously manicured golf course, coupled with hands-on hospitality from our staff and the Lessing’s reputation, make Stonebridge the premier destination for any special occasion.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
Awarded Best of Zola
“We got married at Stonebridge this past weekend, and it truly exceeded every expectation we had. From the moment we started planning to the very last song of the night, everything was absolutely incredible. The food was phenomenal, the cocktail hour was amazing, and our ceremony was absolutely beautiful. Every detail came together perfectly, and our guests are still talking about how much they loved everything. A huge thank you to Diana, who was incredible throughout the entire planning process. She was so responsive and always one step ahead, making what could have been a stressful experience feel seamless! Terrence is hands down the best maître d’ in the business. He made sure we always had a drink in our hands, reminded us to eat, kept us hydrated, and ensured we actually got to enjoy our wedding. He somehow managed to be everywhere at once, and to top it all off, he ended the night on the dance floor serving cannolis to our guests! His energy and genuine care made such a difference. Tracey was the absolute best bridal attendant we could have asked for. She was there for anything and everything we needed and constantly checked in on both the bridal party and the groomsmen since everyone was getting ready in the suites. Everyone loved her, and she made the entire day feel so relaxed and stress-free. The updated bridal and groom suites are absolutely stunning. My sister-in-law even had her 2-month-old baby with her, and there was more than enough room to create a quiet little corner for them without feeling crowded. It worked out perfectly, and everyone had plenty of space to get ready comfortably. Stonebridge gave us the wedding of our dreams. Every member of the staff went above and beyond, and we couldn’t have asked for a more perfect day.”
Taryn O., 3 months ago
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Windows on the Lake 
Rating: 4.6 (7 reviews)
Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $90

Windows on the Lake is the The Most Romantic Waterfront Venue on Long Island. See what couples are raving about with our award winning wedding venue. Some of The Unique Features: • Catering to Only “One Wedding At A Time", so we can focus all our attention on your wedding. • Beautiful Waterfront Setting with spectacular sunsets create memorable weddings. • Majestic Gardens complete with palm trees for a tropical setting, (in -season). • Beautiful waterfront wedding chapel available for your On-Site Ceremony. • Outdoor patio for an on the water cocktail hour with Fabulous Food Stations. • Elegant Ballroom with floor-to-ceiling windows providing panoramic water views. • Our one-of-a-kind lighting and in-house sound system can make your event special. • International Menus and Presentations to impress your guests. • Special Ethnic, Halal and Kosher menus can be accommodated. • Experienced In-House Event Specialist to make your event "Stress Free".

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
“Windows on the Lake is a perfect wedding venue! Beautiful views, amazing service, and everything was organized so well. The food was excellent and the whole atmosphere felt magical. Highly recommended for any special occasion!”
Aaron H., 4 months ago
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The Port Jefferson Country Club 
Rating: 4.8 (30 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Port Jefferson, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled on the scenic North Shore of Long Island, Port Jefferson Country Club offers an exquisite setting for unforgettable weddings. Overlooking the shimmering Long Island Sound, this premier venue features a meticulously maintained 18-hole championship golf course that provides a stunning backdrop for your special day. The club’s elegant clubhouse boasts refined dining options, a state-of-the-art fitness center, and luxurious locker rooms—ensuring that every moment, from preparation to celebration, is steeped in comfort and sophistication.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Additional event staff required
“I just got married at this venue on 8/31/25. I was the second wedding after all the renovations made, and I had the absolute pleasure of working with Mirian and Meg. If i can rate them & their staff alone it would be 10 stars. They were so attentive, helpful, professional, and kind. They didn’t only treat me (the bride) or the groom this way, they treated everyone with the utmost respect and amazing service. Sofia was in my care, who was the sweetest person and did everything for me that day. Meg was my maître d and she was so attentive and fun to be around. She pulled strings to make sure i got the most insane pictures and i couldn’t be more grateful that i had someone as great as her attending to me and my new husband! Mirian was the head person in charge before the wedding and she made everything so easy! She dealt with my vendors and made everything possible. she made sure my vision came to life and i really appreciate everything she did for me and my fiance as she made it possible. We met with her two weeks before the wedding, she helped me organize everything and even gave me very cute last minute ideas!! Meg and Mirian were the best two people to deal with i recommend anyone getting married here to push for them for their wedding day too. You know you have amazing staff too when your whole wedding and wedding party know them by name and mention that they loved them. The food was TO DIE FOR!! at one point after pictures, meg and sofia made sure me and my husband sat down for a moment to eat, which was super helpful and thoughtful. The food was amazing, everyone complimented it. Everyone raved about how good the meat carving station, seafood and pasta stations were. Everyone raved about the entrees and dessert as well. I cannot wait to go back and visit this place. It was so special, the vibe, overlooking the water. it made my fairytale wedding come to life. It wasn’t only the venue, it was definitely the people who worked there. Mirian and Meg, thank you so very much for making my wedding so memorable for me, my husband, and our whole family.”
Alyssa C., a year ago
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Larkfield 
Rating: 4.8 (100 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
East Northport, NY
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,500

Larkfield is a Long Island venue that blends timeless European-inspired charm with modern luxury. Its elegant indoor and outdoor spaces create a warm, sophisticated atmosphere perfect for weddings, social events, and corporate gatherings. With versatile rooms that can host up to 475 guests, Larkfield offers refined décor, high ceilings, and flexible layouts. It’s a sought-after destination for celebrations of all sizes, combining opulence with comfort to make every event unforgettable. Larkfield Manor is more than just a wedding hall on Long Island. Our Long Island wedding place offers a range of beautiful indoor and outdoor spaces, each designed to create lasting memories. From the stunning garden event venue on Long Island to our elegant ballrooms, we offer the ideal setting for your special day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic seating dinner
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Has a glamorous vibe

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not provide event staff
  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
Hamlet Golf And Country Club 
Rating: 5.0 (1 review)
Commack, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,100

Join us and experience the myriad advantages and privileges of Long Island country club living, alongside forging lifelong friendships and cherished memories. With its captivating Stephen Kay-designed championship golf course, exquisite indoor and outdoor dining options, tennis facilities, swimming amenities, private event spaces, and beyond, The Hamlet stands unmatched in its locale, service excellence, and array of offerings. Experience the epitome of luxury living at The Hamlet.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Does not allow pets
“Our experience with Hamlet Golf And Country Club was absolutely wonderful from start to finish. Chris and Lisa, the coordinators, were consistently reliable, enthusiastic, and genuinely interested in making our wedding day as special as possible. The venue itself had a beautiful rustic-glam aesthetic that felt warm and inviting for our guests. Everything came together perfectly, creating the ideal setting for us to celebrate our love. We couldn't have asked for a better venue to host our special day.”
Melanie Z., 2 years ago

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About wedding venues in Smithtown, NY

Why Is Smithtown a Perfect Choice for Your Wedding?

Smithtown sits beautifully along Long Island's North Shore, offering both luxury and more accessible wedding venue options for couples. You'll find everything from sprawling lawns to waterfront vistas and historic locations that create memorable backdrops for your special day. Stonebridge Country Club stands out with handicap-accessible spaces both indoors and outdoors, all set on meticulously manicured grounds you'll fall in love with. Just a short drive away in Stony Brook, The Estate at Three Village Inn provides a scenic and elegant environment perfect for couples needing accessibility features. If you're looking for upscale settings with accessible event areas, Essex Club in Brentwood offers stunning spaces across its 50-acre golf course.

What Types of Wedding Venues Can You Find in Smithtown?

Smithtown's venue selection caters to various wedding styles and preferences. The elegant ballrooms at Stonebridge Country Club feature Grand Ballroom spaces and charming outdoor gazebos for your ceremony or cocktail hour. If you're planning a larger celebration, Insignia offers beautiful mansion-styled settings with family-style rooms that can accommodate your extended guest list. You'll appreciate the historic charm at Three Village Inn while venues like Watermill Caterers provide more intimate atmospheres where you can expect attentive service throughout your celebration.

How Much Do Smithtown Wedding Venues Cost?

Wedding costs in Smithtown scale with your guest count, starting at about $32,316 for 50 guests and reaching $132,709 for 300 guests. Most couples planning for 150 guests spend around $76,011 for their complete celebration.

Guest CountAverage Total Budget
50 guests$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests$132,709
The average venue in Smithtown runs about $16,708 which makes up roughly 22% of your total budget for a 150-person wedding. This is noticeably higher than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 that typically represents 25% of wedding costs. You'll want to factor this premium into your planning process early on.

Where Can You Find Exceptional Culinary Experiences in Smithtown?

Insignia delivers some of the area's most impressive culinary offerings. You'll enjoy high-quality sushi, perfectly prepared steak, lobster and rack of lamb in an elegant mansion setting with both family-style rooms and outdoor options. Their fully staffed bars and dedicated event planners help accommodate large gatherings while maintaining that personalized touch you're looking for. Watermill Caterers at 711 Smithtown Bypass creates an intimate atmosphere that guests consistently rave about. Their cocktail hour selections and dinner service receive particularly high praise, and you'll benefit from experienced coordinators who ensure your celebration runs smoothly from start to finish.

Which Smithtown Venues Offer Remote Participation Options?

Stonebridge Country Club features an open-plan design with abundant natural light that supports high-quality video setups to engage your virtual guests. You can create truly immersive remote experiences by choosing venues with spacious layouts and strong internet connectivity. Look for places that welcome technical equipment and offer interactive platforms that transform passive watching into genuine engagement for those who can't attend in person.

When Should You Book Your Smithtown Wedding Venue?

Most couples secure their Smithtown wedding venues about 14 months (400 days) before their wedding date. August sees the highest number of venue inquiries, suggesting strong demand for fall and winter celebrations in this area. You'll want to start your venue search early if you're considering these popular seasons.

Which Venues in Smithtown Are Fully Accessible?

Accessibility matters for many couples planning their celebrations. Stonebridge Country Club offers handicap accessible spaces throughout their indoor and outdoor areas. The Estate at Three Village Inn provides accessible facilities too, though you should confirm specific details directly with them for your particular needs. Essex Club features accessible outdoor and indoor spaces that accommodate guests with mobility requirements while maintaining the elegant atmosphere you're looking for.

How Can You Maximize Value at Smithtown Wedding Venues?

You can stretch your wedding budget further by considering off-season dates from November through April when venues often offer discounts on their minimum spending requirements. Friday weddings typically save you about 10-20% compared to Saturday events. At some venues, daytime ceremonies actually include enhanced food options for the same per-person rate as evening events, giving you more culinary value for your investment.

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