The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Shelter Island Heights, NY

The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Shelter Island Heights, NY

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22 Wedding Venues in Shelter Island Heights, NY

Farms, barns, ranches
150-200 guests
RGNY 

5.0

Riverhead, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

We are a family of winemakers with a deep regard for our heritage. Our Mexican roots bring a unique perspective to our business. We value our family’s tradition of wine-making and aim to foster the Rivero González legacy as we enter this new chapter. Quality is fundamental to our brand and relationships - it is what makes up our DNA. We guarantee quality and customer satisfaction, giving the best in everything we do. With all the north fork charm, RGNY’s spaces include special comforts and updates for you and up to 200 guests, year-round. Our outdoor space showcases both our vineyard and horse pasture. Our barn offers modern bathrooms, a bridal suite, a groom’s loft, and air conditioning all while maintaining rustic elegance. We also offer another location for couples searching for their dream wedding venue, Las Vides - a picture-perfect palette tucked away among the vines.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Dressing room available
  • Raw space for complete customization

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • No venue-provided food services
thank you thank you thank you so much to the girls at RGNY from the bottom of our hearts for a truly spectacular wedding day. Everything truly exceeded our expectations from the service, to the set up, to every last detail. We were truly blown away how seamless, amazing, and especially GORGEOUS everything ended up turning out. It has really been an absolute pleasure meeting and working with you all over the past year and half on our dream wedding.
Gabriella Z., 2 years ago
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North Fork Meadows 

5.0

Aquebogue, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

North Fork Meadows is a vast, open landscape designed for DIY celebrations. From intimate ceremonies to grand tented receptions, this property provides the perfect blank canvas for you to customize every detail. The expansive acreage offers plenty of room for tents, dance floors, games, and all the unique touches that make your wedding truly yours. If you prefer a more relaxed approach, our wedding planning team is here to take care of all the details for you. From the initial design to the final toast, we manage every aspect, ensuring your day unfolds seamlessly. We will work closely with you to personalize every detail, creating a wedding experience that reflects your love story, while you focus on enjoying the moment. With nothing but the sky above and lush meadows around, North Fork Meadows allows you to embrace nature and celebrate under the stars. Ideal for couples seeking a fully personalized and hands-on experience, it’s the ultimate setting for a day as unique as your love.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Surrounded by beautiful vineyards
  • Unique barn setting

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • No on-premises lodging options
We rented this beautiful property on the north fork for our wedding in September last year, and it was absolutely perfect. The expansive, well-maintained grounds provided a pristine, open space, ideal for our large tent, which comfortably hosted 100 guests. Surrounded by lush greenery, the natural beauty of the location created an unforgettable atmosphere……truly a stunning backdrop for our outdoor celebration. Jo and Dean were a pleasure to work with, offering great recommendations for local vendors and decorating that helped bring our vision to life. their support and expertise made the entire planning process, seamless and stress-free.
Samantha, a year ago
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Bill Miller's Castle 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,925

A magnificent, breathtaking landmark, Bill Miller’s Castle has served as an elegant venue for weddings, corporate events, and special occasions. Meticulous attention to detail, natural stonework, exposed reclaimed beams, an antique bronze bell weighing more than one ton, and rare antique furniture create a beautiful backdrop for any event or special occasion. Featuring five working field-stone fireplaces, three-story cathedral ceilings, ornate stained glass windows, crystal chandeliers, and a large dance floor; the grandeur of Bill Miller’s Castle will make your guests feel truly extraordinary from the moment they walk through the door.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Historic touches

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Bill Miller’s Castle was the first and last venue we looked at. We just knew it was where we needed to be married. And it was everything we could have dreamed of and more for our wedding! From the moment we walked in, we were blown away by the character, beauty, history and warmth of the space. It’s truly one-of-a-kind, and our guests are still talking about how magical it felt a month later. The staff was incredible—professional, kind, and attentive to EVERY detail. Lisa Miller made the entire process seamless, and on the day of our wedding, everything flowed perfectly. The castle provided the most stunning backdrop, from the ceremony to the reception, and our photos and video look like something out of a fairytale. It has its only salon area to get ready and hair and make up was done flawlessly. Photographers will have a field day! Choosing Bill Miller’s Castle was the best decision we made. It wasn’t just a venue—it became a part of our story. We will cherish the memories we made there forever.
Alicia C., 11 days ago
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Nuzzo's Farm 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $4,000

Who doesn't love a party, and we're here to help you pull it off. Our farm gives you tons of space to spread out and enjoy the day. With multiple buildings on-site and sweeping scenic views, everyone's going to have a great time.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Promotes a party atmosphere

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
Nuzzo's Farm was the perfect choice for our wedding venue. From the very beginning, the team was incredibly clear, prompt, and friendly in their communication, making the planning process a breeze. On the day of, Audra was a true professional, ensuring our celebration moved seamlessly despite having to pivot to an indoor reception due to rain. The venue itself was simply beautiful - a cozy, rustic space with so much natural charm and timeless elegance. Our guests were blown away by the stunning grounds and beautiful barn. We couldn't have asked for a more perfect setting to celebrate our special day. We highly recommend Nuzzo's Farm to any couple looking for a truly memorable wedding experience.
Caitlin Z., 22 days ago
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The Woodwinds at Kalmia Garden 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

Woodwinds at Gastler Farm is a stunning wedding venue in Durham, CT. Woodwinds Catering of Branford, Connecticut, brings over 50 years of experience to the wedding and catering industry to the beautiful Gardens and Farm Scenery of Kalmia Garden at Gastler Farm in Durham, CT. These two family-run businesses make All Inclusive Farm Wedding dreams a reality!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Venue is completely outdoors
  • Exudes style

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • No free parking
  • No built-in audiovisual options
The woodwinds at kalmia garden is ideal for a weeding. stunning views, cozy vibe, and excellent service! highly recommended!
Ines M., a year ago
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Smith Farm Gardens 

5.0

East Haddam, CT
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Welcome to Smith Farm Gardens Countryside Venue, a family-owned historic 15-acre estate located in East Haddam, CT. Step back in time to experience the grace and grandeur of an earlier era. Our charming New England property includes an 18th-century farmhouse with expansive green lawns, flower and vegetable gardens, an apple orchard, and walking trails among many other features, all providing the perfect backdrop for your dream wedding or special event.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Has a luxe vibe
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
  • Does not allow pets
Smith Farm Gardens was the most perfect place for our wedding. The communication with their team was amazing!!! From the moment we started planning, Peggy, Travis, and their wedding coordinator Eva made everything so easy and went beyond what we needed. My family and friends don't stop talking about how beautiful the venue was and how incredible the staff was in helping with every detail of our special day. We couldn't have asked for a more perfect wedding venue. We highly recommend Smith Farm Gardens to any couple looking for an amazing wedding experience.
Leticia C., 18 days ago
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The Salem Herbfarm 

5.0

Salem, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $2,500

The Salem Herbfarm Offers a delightfully unique venue in the heart of New England. For your wedding or special event, take advantage of our beautiful grounds and peaceful gardens for your enchanting ceremony and pictures. Our spacious lawns and gardens offer you and your guests ample opportunities for relaxing strolls and quiet conversation before venturing into our rustic, 1867 barn to enjoy an elegant dining experience. You and your guests will always remember the quiet conversations and romantic dancing as the sun sets over The Salem Herbfarm and your new life together begins.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Additional event staff required
  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
Salem Herbfarm is a wonderful venue! The property is absolutely beautiful and the family the owns it was so lovely to work with. Absolutely recommend!
Rachael P., 2 years ago
Millpond Gatherings 

5.0

Northford, CT
  • Up to 175 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

From the moment you and your guests step foot onto Millpond Gatherings property, you will be awed by all you see. With gorgeous spaces to enjoy, your wedding will flow seamlessly throughout the venue. The main venue area is an idyllic setting for your nuptials. Its open layout allows for maximum customization and self-expression. The wooden beams and glossy flooring serve as the perfect backdrop, while the chandeliers warm the space with golden light. When you book Millpond Gathering, you will be delighted with the privacy and exclusivity you experience on the day, as they only host one wedding at a time. The onsite team will be on hand throughout your event to ensure that everything runs as smoothly as possible. Using only the freshest ingredients, your guests will enjoy a feast like no other, even using meat from their personal cattle farm up the road.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Provides event staff
  • Creates a sense of togetherness

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
The space is perfect for an intimate wedding! Larissa, the day of coordinator, was hands down the best person we could have asked for to help with our special day! She responds quickly to emails and is so easy to talk to with any questions or concerns you may have for your big day! She checked in on my husband and I throughout the night, danced with the guests and made our guests feel right at home!
Jamie C., 8 days ago
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The Barns at Wesleyan Hills 

5.0

Middletown, CT
  • Up to 225 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

The Barns At Wesleyan Hills is a historic wedding venue located in Middletown, CT. With glorious topiary and glistening ponds on the grounds, this one of kind barn offers beauty both inside and outside its walls. This venue accommodates one wedding per day, allowing couples to enjoy this spectacular location and the surrounding grounds at ease. Our award winning team of professional wedding planners, chefs, wedding coordinators and mixologists are here to help make planning and celebrating your wedding a breeze! Your guests will be in awe of the timeless one of kind beauty paired with award winning farm to table cuisine and the best hospitality in CT. We are ready to help tell your story and ensure you have the best wedding ever - we are just a call, text or email away!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a fun and festive vibe
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Unique barn setting

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • No on-premises lodging options
Awarded Best of Zola
As a wedding photographer, The Barns is one of my favorite venues to photograph weddings at. The grounds are beautiful, and always make for print-worthy wedding photos. I always feel like I have plenty of options for backgrounds between the pond and weeping willow trees. And then the inside of the venue is just as picturesque. The contrast of the dark wood interior with the brightness of string lighting makes for dreamy reception photos, and works well with my bright and bold editing style.
Nick Cinea P., 10 months ago
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Rockville Wedding and Special Events 

5.0

Rockville, RI
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $4,500

At Rockville Weddings, the possibilities for your wedding are truly limitless. Our stunning venue offers a variety of facilities to suit every aspect of your special day. Host your reception in our spacious 300-seat dining lodge, complete with an industrial kitchen to cater to all your culinary needs. The wedding party can relax and prepare in our luxurious lounge, while guests enjoy the charm of our outdoor ceremony options. As the evening unfolds, gather around our cozy firepits or retreat to our unique glamping sites, cabins, and bunkrooms for a memorable overnight stay. Whatever your vision, Rockville Weddings provides the perfect setting to bring it to life.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic yet refined style
  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Does not provide event staff
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
Rockville Wedding and Special Events was a dream to work with for our wedding. Their communication was easy and fast - they responded promptly to all of our questions and requests. The venue itself was a perfect blend of rustic and modern, with a clean aesthetic and all the amenities we needed to make our day special. The staff was kind and attentive, helping to ensure our wedding went off without a hitch. We're so grateful to the team at Rockville for contributing to making our wedding day truly unforgettable.
Sara D., 8 months ago
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Meadow Brook Inn 

5.0

Charlestown, RI
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Meadow Brook Inn is South County’s premier boutique special events venue nestled in the woodlands of Charlestown, RI. The venue and grounds embody classic New England charm and simple elegance and offer a private country setting for your special event. The Meadow Brook Inn was built in the early 1900s, is rich in beauty and history and serves as the perfect backdrop for many types of events, ranging from elegant and sophisticated to natural and rustic. We invite you to be our guest and experience the charm of Charlestown!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Natural elegance with open spaces
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
Awarded Best of Zola
We had the most amazing experience at MBI! Charming views, attentive staff, delicious food - everything was perfect. All of our needs were met and we couldn't have asked for a better place to celebrate such a special occasion. Marisa and Gabe are a joy to work with. While I won’t miss wedding planning, I will certainly miss working with them :)
Krissy, 10 months ago
Connecticut's Beardsley Zoo 

5.0

Bridgeport, CT
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $1,000

Choosing the right location for your wedding is one of the most important and often the most challenging decisions to make. Let your imagination run wild at Connecticut’s Beardsley Zoo! Celebrate your special event in one of three unique spaces, including our Victorian Greenhouse, rustic Hanson Building or large Carousel Building with an indoor working carousel. Whether it’s your ceremony, reception, or rehearsal dinner, we are sure to have a venue to meet your wedding vision!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Wheelchair accessible

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Does not have a dance floor
We had a beautiful wedding at the greenhouse of the Beardsley Zoo. The GlowWild light festival in the evening simply added to the magic of the event. The coordinators were wonderful in helping us set up and organize everything. If I had one piece of constructive feedback, it would just be that the head coordinator, Lindsay, was sometimes tricky to get in contact with via telephone for things like making our deposit and final payment for the venue.
Amanda L., 2 years ago
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The Mountain Room At Mount Southington 

4.6

Plantsville, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,750

The Mountain Room at Mount Southington strives to create the perfect day for our Brides and Grooms by providing rustic chic amenities at an affordable price. Our Mountain Room is warm with wood accents, lofted ceilings, beautiful arching beams and one ceiling-to- floor glass wall from which there is a stunning view of our grounds. Ceremonies can be held outside on our spacious lawn and cocktail hour can be held on our vast patio.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Classic elegance

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
The Mountain Room At Mount Southington was the perfect venue for our wedding. From the beginning, Andrea and Melissa were responsive, caring, and dedicated in helping us plan every detail. The space itself is beautiful, spacious, comfortable, and private - it provided the ideal setting for our special day. When the weather didn't cooperate, the team quickly and professionally pivoted to ensure our celebration went off without a hitch. Andrea and Melissa were truly phenomenal in providing dedicated assistance throughout the entire planning process. We are so grateful to have found this wonderful venue and would highly recommend it to any couple looking for a stunning, personalized wedding experience.
Kim, a month ago
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Falls Creek Farm 

5.0

Moosup, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Falls Creek Farm is an enchanting 300-acre destination nestled in the picturesque Connecticut countryside. With two distinct venues onsite - The Reserve and Creekside -our property offers couples the flexibility to choose a setting that reflects their vision. At The Reserve, you’ll find our timeless stone chapel, lakefront ceremony options, and the Lakefront Barn for unforgettable receptions. At Creekside, celebrate in the Orangery, followed by a reception beneath our stunning Century Tent. Whether you dream of an intimate garden ceremony or a grand celebration in a barn with chandeliers, our versatile spaces and dedicated team will bring your day to life with timeless charm and unforgettable detail.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Both indoor and outdoor options

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Dance floor not included
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
The venue speaks for itself but we wanted to take a moment to express our sincere gratitude to the Falls Creek Farm staff. Words truly can't capture how exceptional Julia, Grace, and the entire Falls Creek team were. Not only are they incredibly professional and talented, but they’re also some of the kindest, most thoughtful people we've had the pleasure of working with. From the moment we arrived, they made us feel completely cared for. They welcomed us so warmly, checked in throughout the day, and handled every little hiccup with grace and efficiency. (Often before we even realized anything needed attention.) While we didn’t have the most hands-on coordinator, the Falls Creek team never missed a step. They stepped in seamlessly, going above and beyond to ensure everything ran perfectly. Thanks to them, our wedding day was not only beautiful but truly stress-free and more than we ever imagined. We’re so grateful for everything they did to make our day so special. We can’t recommend them highly enough! If you love the photos in this review please take a look at our amazing photographer too @wildrootmoments
Carolan & L., 3 months ago
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Wright's Mill Farm 

5.0

Canterbury, CT
  • Up to 210 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $89

With our charming storybook country setting, Wright’s Mill Farm is truly a special place. Romantic waterfalls, winding country roads, scenic ponds and historic buildings bring back the rustic charm of a bygone era. From the moment you arrive you’ll feel how private and intimate your day will be. Whatever the season, the facilities at Wright’s Mill Farm will be beautiful for your wedding. Wrights Mill Farm offers a number of packages to fit your specific needs. To view a list of packages so that you can choose the one that fits your

Wright’s Mill Farm has weddings down! Between they’re prompt response for any questions we might have had, the upfront pricing, the guidebook, we were left feeling like we could tackle this wedding with no issues! But the real reason for that is the people! Bri is amazing, there isn’t anyone else I could imagine to trust to run the show like she did! Curt always had an answer for any question we came up with, Krissy was amazing, she paid special attention to my elderly grandparents, and they have been raving about her since the wedding! Mark was who we planned the music with, and the meetings we had with him were clear and concise and amazing to nail that all down, but when it came to the night of, we couldn’t have asked for a better DJ, Patrick was fantastic! The best! He knew how to get the crowd out on the floor and keep them there! It was a prefect night, the husband and I can’t thank Wright’s Mill enough for all their attention to detail, passion for the industry, being so kind and being an integral part of a wedding that went so smoothly, and will be remembered for a lifetime!
Emma S., 4 months ago
One Woman Wines & Vineyards 
Southold, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $10,000

Our vineyard and winery are located in Southold, NY. Previously a potato and melon farm, Claudia fell in love with the property across from her home and when it came up for sale in 2001 she did not want to see the farm developed. After closing her restaurant in western Nassau county she went forward with purchasing the property and selling the development rights to preserve it's beauty. Since then she's slowly hand planted and renovated the potato barns that existed on the property into her winery.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • No on-site guest accommodations
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Stone Acres Farm 
Stonington, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $13,500

Stone Acres Farm is a sixty-three acre working farm located in the historic coastal New England town of Stonington, Connecticut. The property's rolling hills, gardens, and acres of vegetable production are open to visitors. We celebrate natural farming, sustainable food, culinary education and the preservation of open space, cultural landscapes, and historic structures.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Promotes a party atmosphere
  • Rustic-chic setting

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Meadowbrook Estate & Mansion 
Marlborough, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Meadowbrook Estate Inn and Event Venue is a beautiful venue with accommodations set in the rolling countryside of Marlborough, Connecticut. We offer luxurious lodging with private suites, spa baths situated perfectly between Boston and New York. Our grounds and ballroom also offer a safe environment for full-service events, weddings, family reunions & retreats. Create that custom elegant lodging vacation or plan your next event with us. Your wedding vision can be fulfilled with all your events held in one beautiful location. Our elite full-service event planning company can customize everything -from having your rehearsal dinner, Bridal Party Preparation, your Dream Wedding - to the After Party Brunch.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic elegance
  • Feels like a getaway
  • Lush gardens

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
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The Old Field Club 
East Setauket, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor

All year long our beautiful waterfront location provides the perfect setting for some of the most important days of your life. The manicured grounds are ideal for an outdoor ceremony while the spacious deck is perfect for entertaining your guests. Inside, our facility is the epitome of understated elegance and charm. A classic backdrop that you can transform into a place that reflects your personal style and taste! We take great pride in catering one wedding at a time so your special day has our full attention. It starts right in the planning stages where our management team and trained staff makes sure every aspect of your event is to your satisfaction. From decorating options to menus to finding ideal vendors, we’re here every step of the way!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • No free parking
The Charlestown Rathskeller 
Charlestown, RI
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor

The Charlestown Rathskeller started out as a speakeasy in a different time, and has grown into something entirely unique since then. Nestled in the woods of Charlestown since 1933, the Rathskeller is one of the most memorable dining and entertainment destinations in Southern New England. We serve deliciously grilled steaks, local seafood, burgers and sandwiches in our meticulously restored dining room and tavern, beautiful outdoor patio, and at our indoor and outdoor bars. Just across the restaurant’s backyard sits our rustic outdoor music and entertainment venue. Down Back, our summer stage, backyard bar and burger shack surround a roaring bonfire on cool summer nights. Guests from all over New England descend on the Charlestown Rathskeller for concerts featuring some of the best party, pop, rock and country cover acts in the region. With tasty food and beverages, plus backyard games like horseshoes, cornhole and bocce, guests can enjoy a whole day or night at the Rathskeller.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • No on-premises lodging options

Location flexible? Discover venues near Shelter Island Heights, NY

About wedding venues in Shelter Island Heights, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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