The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Selbyville, DE

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Selbyville, DE

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12 Wedding Venues in Selbyville, DE

Historic estates, mansions
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Bellevue Hall 
Rating: 5.0 (12 reviews)
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $14,000

This notable estate is truly a one-of-a-kind property at which to host your wedding celebration. The mansion was built in the 1850’s and is the former home of William DuPont Sr. and his family. Start your celebration early in our spacious bridal getting ready suite. There's a groom's lounge as well! Your ceremony can be held on the sprawling lawn alongside a charming gazebo and gorgeous perennial garden. Or choose one of the marble patios with the stately mansion as your backdrop. An elegant reception then follows beneath a pristine clear outdoor tent or, for a more intimate crowd, in one of the mansion’s luxurious indoor rooms. Bellevue Hall features stylish dining rooms, elaborate marble fireplaces, a sophisticated wood-paneled library, and an enormous central foyer with a grand staircase. Celebrate your happy occasion at Bellevue Hall. It’s sure to be a memorable event!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not allow pets
“From the moment we started planning, Bellevue Hall's team responded to our emails right away, which made the whole process stress-free. The venue itself is stunning with its lush gardens and floral backdrops, and we loved how flexible they were with customizing the space to match our vision. Our coordinator was there the entire day and jumped in to help whenever we had questions or needed something adjusted. They also took our dietary restrictions seriously and went out of their way to make sure all our guests with allergies were taken care of. The spacious grounds gave us so many options for photos and different areas to use throughout the event. We'd recommend Bellevue Hall to anyone looking for a beautiful, well-run venue.”
Joan M., 4 months ago
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The Barn at Cauffiel 
Rating: 4.8 (4 reviews)
  • Up to 160 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $14,000

The Barn at Cauffiel Estate is a historic estate set atop a grassy hill in Bellevue State Park that provides spectacular views of the Delaware River. This enchanting former summer residence and working farm with exquisitely landscaped lawns and gardens and its charming façade offers an enchanting backdrop for outdoor ceremonies and lively receptions. Inside the house, bright sun porches, a parlor, and a classic dining room provide the perfect setting for an intimate celebration. The newly restored Pennsylvania bank barn makes Cauffiel Estate perfect for those looking for a rustic-elegant wedding venue. With an abundance of historic charm and natural beauty, this estate is the perfect place to gather your loved ones to toast your new marriage!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Provides catering services
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Lighting and sound are not included
“I have to say The Barn at Cauffiel was the best venue that my husband and I ever could have picked for our wedding day last April 2025. I’ve been meaning to write this review for a while! The whole Jeffrey A. Miller (JAM for short) team there is extremely professional, helpful, and just downright amazing people for organizing your event and catering, whatever it may be. The Barn at Cauffiel estate is gorgeous with a combination of vintage, rustic, and floral beauty. They really have some amazing places to take pictures of everything and our photographers loved the space. They even rent out the house to stay in overnight in case you want to get ready at the house before the ceremony and reception (there’s a gorgeous room with natural lighting on the ground floor that we got ready in)! The food and drinks (lavender lemonade and hibiscus iced tea were my favorites) there are absolutely incredible. Especially the hors d’oeuvres, the ones that stick out in my memory were the salmon cones, prosciutto Manchego croquettes, lamb chops, bacon wrapped scallops, cheesesteak spring rolls, and even a surprise one called “hot date in Nashville” (a cheese stuffed date with what I think was sweet chili sauce. We also got the pretzel bar add on with multiple dips for picky eaters (my niece and nephews). Our dinner was pasta for the vegetarian option, chicken with parsnips puree, and coffee rubbed tomahawk steak with mushrooms and sauces. You will not be disappointed! They also made our cake for us which was delicious as well, we went with a split of strawberry for the bottom layer & bourbon chocolate for the top and middle layer with salted caramel buttercream icing. All of this was already amazing, but by far the best thins about picking this venue was the event coordinators. Lissette & Nicole helped to organize the WHOLE THING. They put together a timeline for everything to happen so I could communicate with the other vendors coming to help. They had organized forms to fill out for seating charts, menu choices, and decorations inventory to keep track of everything. They even followed up with me before, during and after the whole event with any questions or concerns I may have. They were so THOROUGH. Not only that but the assistant coordinator Siobhan worked incredibly hard with tracking the decoration inventory from the house for cocktail hour to the barn for reception dinner was so helpful and on point. She was also so kind and excited about our wedding that she really stood out as a wonderful person. I can’t say enough about how amazing our big day was, so thank you from the bottom of my heart!”
Amy H., 8 months ago
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King Cole Farm 
Rating: 5.0 (45 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Dover, DE
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $3,250
  • Offer

Now offering Microweddings! King Cole Farm is your premier destination for a picturesque and enchanting wedding venue in Dover, Delaware. Nestled amidst scenic landscapes, our modern farm offers an idyllic setting for couples seeking an unforgettable celebration. As one of the top wedding venues in the Mid-Atlantic region, we pride ourselves on creating magical moments for your special day. Our charming farm is perfect for those dreaming of a castle wedding or seeking rustic elegance in barn wedding venues in Delaware. With fields and breathtaking views, King Cole Farm provides an unparalleled backdrop for your ceremony and reception. Whether you envision a barn wedding or an outdoor celebration surrounded by nature, our versatile event spaces cater to your desires. Located conveniently near Dover, our farm offers a tranquil escape while remaining accessible to the city. Our facilities in Dover, Delaware, provide ample space for your guests to revel in the joyous occasion!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Private area for the wedding party

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • No built-in audiovisual options
Awarded Best of Zola
“King Cole Farm was the perfect venue for our wedding weekend. From the moment we reached out, the team was prompt in their communication and great at answering any questions we had. The location is absolutely beautiful, with a stunning natural setting that provided the perfect touch of class and elegance. Everything was incredibly clean and well-maintained, allowing us to truly relax and enjoy our special day. We had the most wonderful weekend away for our wedding, and it was all thanks to the stress-free experience provided by the team at King Cole Farm.”
Cassidy B., a year ago
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The Carriage House 
Rating: 5.0 (5 reviews)
  • Up to 400 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $123

No two love stories are the same, which is why weddings at The Carriage House celebrate each couple’s unique story. Our venue offers indoor and outdoor venues and customized menus to delight the most discerning palates and experts who understand that planning is simply the first step to bringing your vision to life. Whether you desire an intimate ceremony for 75 guests, a reception for 300 in our majestic ballroom, our experienced and passionate team of professionals will personally attend to every detail and make sure that your wedding is perfection!!!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Historic touches

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
“We cannot recommend The Carriage House enough for your special day! Their communication was always prompt, clear and easy throughout the planning process, which took a lot of stress off our plates. The venue itself is gorgeous, and the team's attention to detail is unmatched - we felt like VIPs from the moment we arrived. They took care of everything behind the scenes so we could relax and soak up every magical moment with our guests. The food and drinks were raved about by everyone. Our wedding day truly exceeded our dreams thanks to The Carriage House's incredible service and hospitality. We couldn't have asked for a better partner for our wedding. Don't walk, run to book your date with them - you won't regret it!”
Janessa M., 2 years ago
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Castle Farm 
Rating: 4.9 (39 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Snow Hill, MD
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $24,999

Castle Farm is a private, exclusive 150-acre premier equestrian estate & wedding and corporate event venue located in Snow Hill, on the beautiful Eastern Shore of Maryland. We are an authentic historic farm, breeding elegant Andalusian horses and adorable micro mini Scottish Highland cows. The barn is an immaculate timber-framed barn with hammered copper walls and the solid mahogany barn doors provide the perfect entrance to your fairytale. If you want an authentic barn wedding, where your guests will make lasting memories for years to come, taking photos with newborn foals, and being impressed with impeccable service AND a truly magical experience for your wedding, book Castle Farm today.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
“We have been working with [and for] Castle Farm since the beginning. We did the first wedding ever there! Every year they add something new and there are tons of places for pictures! The owners are great people and are extremely accommodating to everyone! You can have a beer pony, horses in your portraits and the guests truly love the interaction! No matter where you are you get an incredible view! I can't say enough about this place and the owners...it is definitely a one of a kind location you won't forget!”
Andrew Nock Photography, 2 years ago
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Sunnybrae Mansion 
Rating: 5.0 (1 review)
Milford, DE
  • Up to 400 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Sunnybrae Mansion offers a historic and elegant setting for weddings. The venue features grand architecture, beautifully landscaped grounds, and a stately atmosphere. Sunnybrae Mansion's commitment to personalized service and attention to detail ensures a timeless and sophisticated celebration for couples and their guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Historic touches

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
“We recently got married at Sunnybrae and it is a beautifully stunning mansion. There are so many spots to take gorgeous photos. Having the mansion for the entire weekend with 9 bedrooms was the perfect solution for our out of town wedding. We absolutely recommend Sunnybrae to have the wedding of your dreams!”
Caitlyn, a year ago
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Peter Shields Inn & Restaurant 
Rating: 5.0 (6 reviews)
Cape May, NJ
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $2,000

The Peter Shields Inn & Restaurant offers a romantic, seaside getaway and a spectacular venue for your wedding celebration. Located right on Cape May's Beach Avenue, this beachfront Georgian Revival mansion provides the perfect combination of excellent accommodations, Zagat-recommended fine dining, and impeccable service. With the ocean as your endless backdrop, our dedicated onsite wedding coordinator and staff specialize in creating a celebration that is as unique and special as you are, for intimate affairs of 25 guests or larger parties up to 100.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
  • Requires outside catering services
“We got married at PSI on 9/26/26, and we couldn't be happier with our choice. From our first tour to the final exit, the space was breathtaking and clean, and our guests are still raving about the food and the bar service. We unfortunately got married during a nor'easter, but the team didn't miss a beat. They were incredibly accommodating with last-minute decisions and seamless coordination, keeping everyone safe and comfortable while ensuring our day remained absolutely perfect. A massive shout-out to our venue coordinator, Amy Garrity. She was organized, prompt, calm under pressure, and made sure every single logistic ran like clockwork despite the weather. If you are considering booking here, do it!”
Maggie G., 12 days ago
The Brandon Estate 
Parsonsburg, MD
  • Up to 600 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Founded in 2003, the gated-entry Brandon Estate is a cherished and prized estate of the Brandon Family. An Fierm, which translates to “The Farm” in Irish, was originally a smaller four bedroom house, primarily used as a getaway cabin and romantic escape. Over the years, the Brandons added over 3000 square feet of living space and amenities including a great room, a stone wood-burning fireplace, a wine cellar, a pool, a game room, and a private balcony overlooking the estate. The mansion is now well over 5000 square feet- comprised of 6 bedrooms, 7 bathrooms, and a stunning designer kitchen. All in all, the mansion can sleep 16 people comfortably. With over 300 acres of private farm land, 200 acres of which is farmed crop. Loaded with scenic walking trails, barns, fresh water fish-stocked ponds, canoes, a stone chapel, and rolling landscape- the property is sure to keep you busy during your stay!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
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Virginia Hotel & Cottages 
Cape May, NJ
  • Up to 60 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Virginia Hotel provides the perfect intimate space to celebrate your special day, indoors at the Ebbitt Room dining room or outdoors on the back garden patio. If you dream of a wedding by the sea, begin your story at this charming and impeccably-restored 1879 landmark boutique hotel in Cape May, New Jersey. The Virginia Hotel provides the perfect intimate space to celebrate your special day, With luxury accommodations including private cottages and welcoming guestrooms, as well as state-of-the art facilities on-site and nearby, we can help you make your wedding in Cape May everything you’ve dreamed of.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Has a warm and cozy vibe

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Requires outside catering services
The Southern Mansion 
Cape May, NJ
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $11,175

The Southern Mansion is set on 1.5 acres of private tree-lined grounds, this architectural masterpiece boasts luxurious and spacious guest rooms, exquisite mahogany woodwork, intricately carved crown moldings, soaring fifteen feet ceilings, giant gilded mirrors, grand ballrooms, and 5,000 square feet of verandahs. A Victorian Cape May B&B. Circa 1863 the Mansion has been restored impeccably, winning national and local awards for its beauty. No other Cape May Inn offers such comforts and amenities available. With millions of dollars worth of antiques, a stay is “not to be missed” and its the “only place to stay in Cape May” (The New York Times). Southern Mansion is perfect for Cape May Weddings or Corporate Retreats.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Not wheelchair accessible
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Congress Hall 
Cape May, NJ
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Cape May is one of the top wedding destinations in the country and Congress Hall is its undisputed shining jewel. This beloved resort combines sweeping views of the beach and ocean with more than 100 guest rooms, an expansive grand lawn for outdoor ceremonies, and an exquisite Grand Ballroom that can host up to 180 guests. Congress Hall blends elegant sophistication with coastal beauty, offering a variety of stunning wedding venues perfect for any size celebration. Whether you're hosting an intimate ceremony or a grand affair, the venue’s historic beauty and serene seaside atmosphere create an unforgettable setting.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
The Bayly Estate 
Cambridge, MD
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $8,000

First sited in the 1750s, the Bayly Estate was expanded in 1796 as a family compound by the Josiah Bayly family. There are many beautiful homes on the Eastern Shore from this era, but none like this. Set on High Street, in the middle of Cambridge on what novelist James Michener called “one of the most beautiful streets in America,” the Bayly Estate has been hosting family gatherings for nearly three centuries. We have now opened our homes and carefully manicured grounds on over one acre to help you celebrate the most important moments in your family’s history. With seven bedrooms on-site and the ability to expand to 25+ rooms in the Historic District (to host principal families – the Hyatt Chesapeake Resort in town can accommodate another 300 guests), the Bayly Estate is perfectly set up to host your entire wedding weekend in style.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Surrounded by nature
  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor
  • Natural elegance with open spaces

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Dance floor not included

About wedding venues in Selbyville, DE

Why Choose Delaware for Your Wedding Celebration?

Delaware packs exceptional wedding venues into its compact size, giving you access to stunning waterfront settings along the Chesapeake Bay, historic mansions with roots in the 18th century and charming rural farm estates featuring centuries-old barns. You'll appreciate Delaware's strategic location that makes it easy for your guests traveling from Philadelphia, Baltimore and Washington DC to attend without you having to pay the premium prices these metropolitan areas command.

What Does a Typical Delaware Wedding Cost?

Planning a wedding with 150 guests in Delaware? You'll want to budget around $38,281 with venue costs averaging $4,622 which represents about 12% of your total wedding budget. Here's what you can expect to spend based on guest count: - 50 guests (small wedding): $17,057 - 100 guests: $27,995 - 150 guests: $38,281 - 200 guests: $47,482 - 250 guests: $56,683 - 300 guests (large wedding): $65,884

Where Can You Find Delaware's Most Beautiful Venues?

You'll discover Delaware's wedding venues clustered in three main regions across the state. In Northern Delaware and the Wilmington Area you can celebrate at Hotel Du Pont with its ornate chandeliers European-inspired architecture and century-old craftsmanship or choose Winterthur Museum & Country Estate featuring 60 acres of breathtaking naturalistic gardens. The Delaware Beaches offer perfect settings for couples dreaming of waterfront celebrations with panoramic bay views and beachfront ceremony spaces. If you head to Southern Delaware you'll find The Farmhouse with its 1800s architecture massive timber beams and multiple outdoor ceremony sites nestled within lush gardens.

Which Delaware Venues Offer Accessibility Features?

You can count on Hilton Wilmington/Christiana for wheelchair accessibility throughout all spaces along with stylish event rooms and customizable packages that fit your vision. The Clubhouse at Baywood gives you wheelchair-accessible pathways connecting all ceremony sites to reception spaces and accommodates up to 250 guests with both indoor and outdoor options so everyone in your party can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Delaware Venues Enhance Remote Participation?

Juniper by Tonic in Wilmington offers you contemporary design with floor-to-ceiling windows creating an ideal backdrop for incorporating interactive live streaming and digital platforms that bring distant loved ones into your celebration. At Hagley Museum you'll enjoy historic charm with lush gardens where virtual attendees can experience 360-degree views of your special day. Winterthur Museum & Country Estate can help you integrate virtual tours of its vast gardens and galleries for remote guests making them feel included in all aspects of your wedding day.

Which Delaware Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You'll love Juniper by Tonic's famous seafood and steak options served in a chic dining atmosphere that impresses even the most discerning guests. Deerfield Golf Club near White Clay Creek State Park delivers refined catering options and comprehensive culinary experiences that can be tailored to your preferences. Hotel Du Pont provides you with luxurious dining experiences in a prestigious setting where every detail is crafted to enhance your celebration.

When Should You Book Your Delaware Wedding Venue?

You need to book Delaware venues about 16 months (484 days) before your wedding date with October being the most competitive month requiring even earlier planning. If you're eyeing prime Saturday dates in May June September or October you should move quickly as these book first especially at historic properties with limited weekend availability.

What Seasonal Considerations Matter for Delaware Weddings?

Spring weddings let you showcase Delaware's flowering landscapes while fall ceremonies feature dramatic foliage creating vibrant backdrops for your photos. Summer beach weddings give you extended daylight for stunning sunset photography opportunities. Winter celebrations benefit from existing holiday décor at venues like Hotel Du Pont and often come with attractive off-season pricing at waterfront properties that might otherwise be beyond your budget.

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