The Best Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

The Best Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

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22 Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

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Swan Lake Caterers 
Rating: 4.9 (68 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Manorville, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Swan Lake is a new and unique destination in Long Island's East End for hosting your events. We are located on the award winning Swan Lake Golf Course which allows us to offer a unique backdrop on our beautiful greens. Swan Lake Caterers is a banquet hall wedding venue located in Manorville, New York. This event space is nestled within the Swan Lake Golf Course, offering beautiful grounds and picturesque views for your special day. Swan Lake Caterers aims to provide the perfect setting for your dream day, offering quality cuisine, elegant event spaces, and comprehensive rental packages to make your day unforgettable.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
“Highly recommend! From start to finish they made the entire wedding and planning experience incredible.”
Erin B., 2 years ago
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Essex Club 
Rating: 4.8 (80 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Brentwood, NY
  • Up to 215 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $85

With resplendent garden views, a picturesque gazebo and a magnificent ballroom, Essex Club sets the scene for an extraordinary wedding or special event. Set amidst 50-acres of rolling greens and perennial gardens, the quaint country club can be customized to the setting of your dreams no matter the occasion. Be it an al fresco cocktail hour, a sophisticated fundraiser or an exchange of vows at the edge of the sprawling lawn, your vision will come to life at Essex Club.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides catering services
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Awarded Best of Zola
“We had an incredible experience at the Essex Club from start to finish. The team communicated every detail clearly and offered a vendor package that made planning so much easier. The space itself is stunning and didn't require any extra decorations, which saved us time and money. On our wedding day, all we had to do was enjoy ourselves—the Essex Club handled every minor detail exactly as we'd discussed. Our guests couldn't stop raving about the waiters' excellent manners and the delicious food. We'd absolutely recommend the Essex Club to any couple looking for a venue that takes care of everything.”
Lydia N., 7 months ago
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Mansion at Timber Point 
Rating: 4.8 (30 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Great River, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled on the bank of the Great South Bay with panoramic views of Fire Island, the Mansion at Timber Point is a beautiful and inviting setting for the wedding ceremony of your dreams. The bride’s big day will commence in the lovely bridal suite, where the bridal party is welcome to prepare for the big moment. A beautiful white wedding gazebo is perched at the edge of the stone patio overlooking the rolling greens of the golf course, which give way to a magnificent bay view, for a romantic exchange of vows. Inside of this historic mansion you’ll find classic country décor with modern lighting and sound systems, ensuring a full night of dancing. Every detail will fall perfectly into place with the help of the experienced staff while the bride and groom enjoy their fairytale evening.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Blends luxury with trendiness
  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
“The Mansion at Timber Point was amazing! Everything came out perfect. The space, set-up and value checked all the boxes. We had a checklist of must-haves and don't-wants, and that checklist was completed exactly as listed. The staff was incredible, and the food was incredibly impressive. I would highly recommend this venue to anyone, especially my family and loved ones.”
Julian A., 9 months ago
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Bourne Mansion 
Rating: 4.7 (93 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

This historic Vanderbilt mansion is a turn-of-the-century work of art that offers a traditional and classic setting for the grandest black tie affairs. From lawn events hosting over 1,000 guests, to weddings and corporate affairs hosting 300 guests, Bourne Mansion personifies luxury and grandeur and the elaborate celebrations of yesteryear. Bourne Mansion is conveniently located, only 90 minutes from New York City, yet worlds away.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Classic elegance
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
“We got married 1/5/25 but had been working with Miriam for probably a year and a half before our big day. She was always so personable with us a treated us like family. Words cannot describe the love and care we felt from Jake, our maître D and Samantha, our bridal attendant, on our wedding day. We were cared for tediously and effortlessly. We felt like at ease, happy and totally relaxed. I needed Samantha and didn’t even know it, I am forever indebted to her - she could not have been more attentive and wonderful. Comforting me, assuring me, getting me where I need to be and when. So friendly, kind and amazing. Thank god for Jake. He is so special and we’re so lucky we got him as our maître D. He deems himself as a “yes man” and he is not lying. Anything you could have ever wanted from him, he’d deliver. We wanted for nothing, had wonderful direction from him all night and he took care of EVERYTHING!  The night was flawless, amazing, perfect and all we could have ever hoped for. The staff at Bourne is unmatched, we made the right choice with this venue. Guests will be in awe of the venue and talk about the food for years to come. I wish I could do it all again. Thank you Bourne mansion & staff for the best night of our lives! I don’t have all my pics back yet!”
Sara C., 2 years ago
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View 
Rating: 4.4 (101 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 180 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

At the mouth of the Connetquot River and overlooking Great South Bay, View is Long Island's ideal location for wedding and social events - an atmosphere that is at once elegant and casual. The light and airy main dining room boasts a crisp seaside vibe, with walls of windows, white leather chairs, and rich wood tones. The outdoor patio affords panoramic views of the bay alongside a 20-slip marina, perfect for cocktails and hors d'oeuvres or waterfront ceremonies.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
“View was an absolute delight to work with for our wedding. Their communication style was easy and responsive, which made the planning process a breeze. The quality of their work and overall value was exceptional - the venue was beautiful, with an open, spacious floor plan that was perfect for hosting our party and entertaining our guests. The staff made us feel so valued and important, never hesitating to go above and beyond to ensure our special day was perfect. As the bride, I was thrilled to be taken care of so well by the entire team. This place is truly a hidden gem - if you're looking for an oceanfront venue with a non-traditional, whole-style approach but with top-notch service, View is the perfect choice.”
Angela B., a year ago
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Tiki Boat Long Island 
Rating: 5.0 (5 reviews)
Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 29 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $1,769

At Tiki Boat Long Island, our mission is to create fun, enjoyable, and memorable experiences for all our guests. We are dedicated to ensuring that every cruise is not just a trip, but a celebration of life and camaraderie. Tiki Boat Long Island offers Unique Long Island Booze Cruises. Complete with Full-service bar, Spacious dance floor, VIP seating, Restroom, Sound System, Lighting System, USB ports and Misters (for hot days or nights). This vessel is perfect for bachelorette parties or any other celebration. Create one-of-a-kind memories that last for a lifetime. Catering is available upon request. Included is a USCG Master Captain, Bartender, and Host/Hostess to serve your needs. We accommodate from groups of 2 people up to 29 guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Provides catering services
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Does not allow pets
“I was looking for something different to celebrate my anniversary with my fiancé Annette. I came across this when eating at the restaurant "The Wharf" and I had to try it after speaking with the staff members. The offer 2 options, the 90 minute and/or 3 hour cruise. I chose the 90 minute and every second on the tour was a dream. The views where spectacular, the drinks the bartender was making where fantastic and the music was setting the mood in such a perfect way. My fiancé and I will be doing this again next season!”
Kevin and A., 3 years ago
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The Mansion at West Sayville 
Rating: 4.6 (59 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
West Sayville, NY
  • Up to 205 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Located in West Sayville, NY, Mansion at West Sayville is a historic waterfront venue that hosts weddings and other milestone events. The management of this exquisite facility invites you to hold your special celebration in this setting with sweeping views of the Great South Bay. You and your loved ones can anticipate festivities with a private club ambience - a truly remarkable backdrop for your important day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
“The Mansion at West Sayville is a gorgeous venue inside and out, and we’re so happy we chose it for our wedding. We loved the vibe from our first visit. It doesn't feel like a wedding factory, but being a Lessing's Venue you know they know what they are doing. Bob was down to earth, practical, and never tried to upsell us or pressure us into adding anything we didn’t need. Anytime I emailed Bob with a question, he responded within minutes and was always very on top of things. On the day of, everything about the wedding itself went so smoothly. Ann Marie the maitre d and Camille the bridal attendant were sweet, attentive, and so good at what they do. They set up our decor so beautifully and packed it away in an organized way at the end of the wedding. Ann Marie kept everything running smoothly, and Camille made sure we always had whatever we wanted, from food and bar drinks to our own pitcher of water when she noticed we were “the most hydrated couple she’d ever worked with” (lol). The bartender and all of our waitstaff were so attentive and wonderful too. The food was delicious and we got so many compliments about it, and about our venue in general. Our wedding day was truly unforgettable and The Mansion at West Sayville played a huge role in that!”
Emily L., a year ago
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Windows on the Lake 
Rating: 4.6 (7 reviews)
Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $90

Windows on the Lake is the The Most Romantic Waterfront Venue on Long Island. See what couples are raving about with our award winning wedding venue. Some of The Unique Features: • Catering to Only “One Wedding At A Time", so we can focus all our attention on your wedding. • Beautiful Waterfront Setting with spectacular sunsets create memorable weddings. • Majestic Gardens complete with palm trees for a tropical setting, (in -season). • Beautiful waterfront wedding chapel available for your On-Site Ceremony. • Outdoor patio for an on the water cocktail hour with Fabulous Food Stations. • Elegant Ballroom with floor-to-ceiling windows providing panoramic water views. • Our one-of-a-kind lighting and in-house sound system can make your event special. • International Menus and Presentations to impress your guests. • Special Ethnic, Halal and Kosher menus can be accommodated. • Experienced In-House Event Specialist to make your event "Stress Free".

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
“Windows on the Lake is a perfect wedding venue! Beautiful views, amazing service, and everything was organized so well. The food was excellent and the whole atmosphere felt magical. Highly recommended for any special occasion!”
Aaron H., 4 months ago
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Drift82 
Rating: 5.0 (3 reviews)
Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 175 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $12,000

Drift 82 is a waterfront wedding venue located on the Patchogue River, offering sweeping views of the Great South Bay. With flexible indoor and outdoor spaces, coastal charm, and a relaxed yet refined atmosphere, Drift 82 provides a stunning setting for ceremonies and receptions designed to feel personal, effortless, and unforgettable!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • No free parking
“Choosing Drift 82 for our wedding was one of the best decisions we made!! The waterfront setting created a relaxed, elevated atmosphere that felt both special and intimate. The space flowed beautifully from one moment to the next, allowing our guests to truly enjoy the day without feeling rushed or crowded. The staff was professional, calm, and attentive, which gave us total peace of mind. Everything felt thoughtfully handled, letting us stay present and enjoy every moment. Drift 82 delivered an experience that felt effortless and genuinely memorable!”
Erica, 10 months ago
Chops Steakhouse 
Rating: 5.0 (3 reviews)
Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 50 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Chops Steakhouse in Patchogue Village is a premier steakhouse and event-friendly venue located in the heart of downtown Patchogue. With a prohibition-inspired atmosphere, upscale menu featuring dry-aged steaks, fresh seafood, creative cocktails, and a world-class bourbon selection, Chops offers an elegant backdrop for celebrating special occasions.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has an intimate atmosphere
  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • On-site parking not available
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
“We celebrated my dad’s 60th birthday at Chops Steakhouse and it couldn’t have been better!! The private space felt welcoming and elevated, the speakeasy-style atmosphere set the tone for the night, and everything flowed seamlessly. It was a fantastic setting for bringing family and friends together for such a meaningful milestone.”
Jennifer, 10 months ago
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VIP Room Catered Events 
Rating: 5.0 (3 reviews)
Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 125 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

VIP Room in Patchogue is an elegant private event venue on Main Street that’s perfect for weddings, parties, and special occasions, offering a beautiful space with a full bar and attentive staff to make every celebration memorable. We combine modern style with personalized service and delicious catering options, ensuring your event feels both special and seamless from start to finish!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides catering services
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
“From start of planing to the day of Christine made it happen. Her communication skills are unlike any other catering hall, whether it was first thing in the morning or in the late afternoon Christine was always there even down to the day of the event. Going into the day of, it became a dream, you would have no idea we were on Patchogue Main Street. The attention to detail from the food to the cocktails made by Janine was absolutely anything a bride could ask for.”
Tiana V., 10 months ago
James Betz 
Rating: 5.0 (1 review)
Ocean Beach, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor

Established in 1936. Current owners since 1995. Waterfront. Sunsets. Outdoor deck. Inside dance floor. Island Bar with top shelf liquor. All in one venue, catering, setting! Maguires owners Jim Betz, general manager and Drew Becker, Chef, will make your wedding day a memorable experience. Located in Ocean Beach, Fire Island you have a destination wedding right in your New York back yard. Have your guests travel across the Great South Bay on a beautiful ferry and take in the town of Ocean Beach with spectacular beach on the Atlantic Ocean and interesting clothing stores, ice cream shops, markets and gift shops. Let us take the guesswork out of your wedding day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
“While planning an off-season wedding on Fire Island is daunting, Jim, Drew and the whole Maguire's crew made it easy! Quick responses, and really worked with us to deliver exactly what we wanted for our big day - even with some ridiculous requests. The food was incredible, setup was better, and the vibe was one that our friends and family STILL talk about to this day....6 years later! I actually can't write enough good things about this venue. It was the best day of our life, pulled off effortlessly. My husband and I are actually already planning to do a 10-year anniversary party there - at our guests' requests! We love Maguire's, and the view is not so bad either ;).”
Alexandra & C., 6 years ago
Lombardi'S On The Bay 
Rating: 5.0 (2 reviews)
Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $99

Cited by the New York Times as a location where “The food is as good as the views,” experience the Lombardi Family tradition of fine cuisine at Lombardi’s on the Bay. A property of Lombardi Caterers, a renowned entity in Long Island Hospitality, Lombardi’s on the Bay continues Lombardi’s 40-year-tradition of quality cuisine and service. With breathtaking views of the Great South Bay, Lombardi’s on the Bay offers a legendary elegance exclusive to this venue. Whether dining in our restaurant, enjoying a catered event in our banquet hall, or having your dream wedding where you are the only bride, Lombardi’s on the Bay is your choice for perfection and class.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Designed for grand celebrations
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
“From the moment we started planning, Jeannie at Lombardi's On The Bay became our go-to person and truly became our friend. She was thoughtful about every detail and helped in every way possible to make our vision come to life. Pedro took things even further—he went so far above and beyond that we honestly can't find enough words to describe his efforts. The waterfront venue itself is stunning, and the food was excellent. We felt like Lombardi's catered to every aspect of our day, making sure nothing was overlooked. Choosing this venue was one of the best decisions we made, and we highly recommend them to any couple looking for a professional, experienced team that delivers real value.”
Natasha R., 7 days ago
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Stonebridge Country Club 
Rating: 4.7 (115 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Stonebridge Country Club combines the natural beauty of its surroundings with exceptionally elegant settings for special events. Spectacular view of our meticulously manicured golf course, coupled with hands-on hospitality from our staff and the Lessing’s reputation, make Stonebridge the premier destination for any special occasion.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
Awarded Best of Zola
“Stonebridge did an incredible job from start to finish. Diana was a pleasure to work with. You could tell she has years of experience and guided us through the whole process. Terrance was awesome on the day of the wedding. He has so much experience as well and made sure that we were taking care of the whole night. Stonebridge is a beautiful venue, the 360 bar was unique and our guests loved all of the food. We would highly recommend this venue to any couple that is looking, we had the most amazing day they made us feel like family.”
Sean L., a month ago
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Insignia 
Rating: 4.4 (100 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

At Insignia, every wedding is a wonderful creation that’s as refreshingly different as your love together. Our elegant, modern décor both indoors and out is a beautiful departure from typical wedding halls. Combining the look and feel of a Hamptons-style mansion with a chic, upscale Manhattan restaurant, it sets the stage for a truly memorable experience.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a glamorous vibe
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
  • Does not allow pets
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Watermill Caterers 
Rating: 4.7 (13 reviews)
Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor

One of Long Island's best-kept secrets, our sprawling estate is nestled in the heart of Suffolk County and is surrounded by manicured landscapes, winding pathways and historic architecture. With an atmosphere of rustic elegance and timeless beauty, the Watermill is the perfect marriage of old-world charm and luxurious modern comforts—perfectly providing the finest amenities and endless enchantments at every turn. For more than 25 years, the Watermill has fostered joy and thousands of lasting memories through an unyielding commitment to providing unparalleled service, award-winning cuisine, and an unforgettable experience for each and every guest who walks through our doors.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a chic vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
“We got married at The Watermill on September 6th, and we honestly could not have been happier with our decision! Everything about our wedding day was incredible, from the beautiful venue and outdoor ceremony area to the amazing food and, most importantly, the staff who made sure everything ran seamlessly. The entire Watermill team was wonderful, from the woman at the front desk to Rob, Maria, and everyone who worked behind the scenes to make our day so special. Our maître d’, Sean, was absolutely incredible! He was so funny, kind, and personable, and he kept everything running smoothly throughout the evening. Our bridal attendants, Olivia and Francesca, deserve a special shout-out because they went above and beyond for us. They were constantly checking in to make sure we had everything we needed, including food and drinks, and they took such great care of our families, too. They made sure our parents were taken care of and had drinks throughout the evening. They brought a HUGE tray of cocktail-hour food right to our bridal suite so we could actually eat on our wedding day! It was such a thoughtful gesture, and we were so grateful for how attentive they were. And the FOOD! The cocktail hour was absolutely incredible, and our guests are still talking about it. The food and drinks were amazing, and people have repeatedly told us that ours was one of the best weddings they have ever attended. Everyone loved the room, the outdoor area, and the overall atmosphere. We have received so many compliments, and it makes us so happy knowing our guests had just as wonderful a time as we did. The venue itself is gorgeous, and the outdoor ceremony area was perfect. We were also so impressed by how The Watermill manages to host two weddings at once while making each couple feel like they are the only wedding happening that day. Most of our guests had absolutely no idea there was another wedding taking place until they were leaving! The best part of all was that we were able to truly enjoy our wedding without worrying about anything. I genuinely don’t think anything went wrong, but even if it did, we would never have known because the staff handled everything so seamlessly. They took care of every detail and allowed us to be present and enjoy every moment with our family and friends. We would choose The Watermill all over again in a heartbeat and recommend it without hesitation to anyone looking for a wedding venue. The beautiful space, incredible food, and outstanding staff make this place truly special. Thank you to the entire Watermill team for giving us a wedding day we will remember forever!”
Alyssa, 15 days ago
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Rockefellers Kitchen & Cocktails 
Rating: 5.0 (2 reviews)
Lake Grove, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $1,300

Rockefellers Kitchen and cocktails offers our Gatsby room for a private event in our timeless space, known for its Old New York charm, elegant atmosphere, and thoughtfully curated menus. Whether you’re envisioning an intimate gathering or a lively celebration, our experienced events team is here to help bring every detail together seamlessly.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
“I just hosted the most amazing private party at Rockefeller’s Kitchen and Cocktails, and I’m still buzzing from it! From start to finish, everything was perfect the venue really knows how to make an event special. The space was absolutely beautiful, with the perfect balance of stylish and cozy. We had the whole area to ourselves, and the ambiance was just right for our group. The private space gave us the freedom to have fun without worrying about the crowd, and the staff was super accommodating.”
Aly, 10 months ago
Wind Watch Golf and Country Club 
Hauppauge, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Starts at $1,200

Elevate your celebration at Wind Watch Golf & Country Club, a high-end Long Island destination. Perched in Hauppauge, this venue boasts stunning, panoramic views of the North Shore from one of the island's highest summits—a breathtaking backdrop for your wedding, rehearsal dinner, or bridal shower. While renowned for its pristine golf course, Wind Watch specializes in creating luxurious social events. It offers the perfect blend of natural beauty and classic country club elegance, complete with exceptional catering services and a sophisticated, well-appointed clubhouse setting designed to make your day truly unforgettable.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • Additional event staff required
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Courtyard by Marriott Long Island MacArthur Airport 
Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor

Celebrate your special day in style at our Long Island hotel wedding venue. With flexible spaces and expert assistance from our dedicated team, your dream wedding is within reach. Treat your guests to spacious accommodations and the convenience of our hotel's prime location. Choose from our elegant boardroom venue, boasting natural lighting, a beautiful oak table, and ergonomic chairs for maximum comfort. Let us take care of every detail, ensuring a seamless and unforgettable experience for you and your loved ones. Say "I do" to the perfect wedding at our Long Island hotel.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Provides event staff
  • Versatile for various event styles

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
  • No free parking
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Beach Club Estate 
Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

We offer a private, secluded, hideaway tucked away on the Secluded 3 mile round Glazier Lake of Long Island’s largest freshwater lake, the Beautiful Lake Ronkonkoma. Coupled with our breathtaking views, you become enveloped in the calm and serene beauty of the countryside Look. Our 5 star Chefs Superb Cuisine and exceptional service combine to offer you memories of a lifetime. Featuring a on the lake chapel, romantic sunsets, amazing water views, beautiful natural gardens, and waterfalls & antique fountains — there are plenty of splendid photo opportunities for you. This is a Newly Renovated Beautiful Mansion on the Water is a One of Kind Place on Long Island with its has Caribbean vibe surrounded with palm trees and breathtaking views for memorable pictures.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Has a luxe vibe

Venue considerations

  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • No free parking
The Better Man Distilling Company 
Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

The Better Man Distilling Co is a one-of-a-kind venue packed with personality and charm. Our mid century modern tasting room and outdoor patio and grass areas provide numerous different backdrops for guests to mingle and make memories. The distillery is worlds away from the typical no-personality event venue. Our mid century modern decor, outdoor patio and pergola, and grass area make this the perfect place for any kind of event. Plus, lots of amazing photo spots!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Has an energetic and exciting atmosphere

Venue considerations

  • Additional event staff required
  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-premises lodging options
Knights of Bayshore Catering 
Bay Shore, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $1,500

No matter what you're celebrating; Birthday, Anniversary, Christening, Bridal Shower, Baby Shower, First Communion, Graduation, Retirement or Wedding, our spacious ballroom combined with our fine cuisine and professional staff makes an excellent combination to turn your special event into fond memories that will last for many years.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Does not allow pets

About wedding venues in Oakdale, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue. Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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