The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Hastings, NY

The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Hastings, NY

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9 Wedding Venues in Hastings, NY

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The Barrack's Inn 

5.0

  • Up to 230 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

We are an upscale wedding venue with both inside and outside seating located directly on picturesque Lake Ontario with our 1600 square foot dock over it. The Barrack’s Inn stone center building was the first building built in the War of 1812 to be the bakery. It is on the historic national register. Inside we can seat 150 people, while outside we can seat an additional 100 people. We are happy to make any and all food requests and we feature all-inclusive packages which include: flowers, table decorating, music, photography, cake and desserts, ceremony, favors and all food and beverages.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Allows pets

Venue considerations

  • No on-site bridal suite
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • On-site parking not available
Awarded Best of Zola
We had our wedding at The Barracks Inn last month (Labor Day 2022). What a beautiful venue, the view can't be beat, the reception/dinner room is beautiful, the food was wonderful. And the drinks were perfect! The owner was so accommodating with all of my quirky plans - never complained, listened to what we wanted and made it all happen. We are picky so this is really something. The sound system is great - really over the top from what you would normally expect. Dancing on the beautiful deck that sits out on the water was heaven. We could have danced until dawn. I heartily recommend this venue and Kim (the owner) as "the" place to have your wedding, anniversary party, birthday party, or just a party party! You will be very pleased with the whole process.
Elise Ambrose & J., 3 years ago
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Blenheim Hill Farm 

5.0

  • Up to 225 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $30,000

Blenheim Hill Farm is a heavenly wedding destination in the Catskills Mountains. Our capacity is from 100-225 guests. We grow the food and cook it for you in ​our ​own kitchen. You don't have to worry about outside catering, rentals, or even a planner. Our in-house team—at the farm and at our NYC restaurant—help you every step of the way, and everything is included. Our historic farmhouses ​ ​are gorgeously appointed sanctuaries for you and your family, sleeping up to 40 guests. With over 15 years in farm-to-table dining and destination weddings, we are committed to hosting your best-day-ever with extraordinary attention to detail, making it a very personal experience. Please read our couples reviews.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Unique barn setting

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No free parking
Awarded Best of Zola
I cannot say enough good things about our experience here. From Min and Morten, to all the advisors that helped us, to all the staff who worked the venue for set up, the cooks, the servers, the bartenders, and not to mention how insanely good the food was - every single aspect of this place and the people there were truly magnificent. I was excited to marry the love of my life, sure, but after 16 years together I really viewed this as just a big party to celebrate with all the people in our lives. I expected and welcomed that view. To say it exceeded expectations is overwhelmingly unfair - it completely blew my mind how amazing the whole day was, honestly the whole weekend since there was also the rehearsal and breakfast the morning after, and I cannot express how grateful I am for how the whole experience turned out. I know I had loved the venue itself when we first visited, and that I thought the food was absolutely amazing during the food tasting, but it ended up being even more gorgeous on the day and the food for 150 people was still all so delicious that not one guest didn't mention at least one of the apps/ entree throughout the night and following day. One of my brides people who is quite the foodie snob keeps mentioning how juicy the chicken was. Seriously though, the food was just phenomenal. I never like cakes at weddings (they're always beautiful but don't taste good) and had planned on getting cake pops for my wedding, but at the food tasting I was just shocked at how amazing it was that I had to have that cake for the day. I would recommend this venue, and this staff, so whole heartedly. If any of the staff read this review, thank you all for making our special day one that will forever be a heartwarming memory.
Janell S., 4 days ago
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Tailwater Lodge 

5.0

Altmar, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

A Stunning Venue With Everything On-Site Tailwater Lodge offers well-appointed accommodations, a full-service spa, award-winning dining, and beautiful event spaces—perfect for weddings year-round. Say “I do” at The Barn at Tailwater Lodge, a rustic-yet-refined venue nestled along the Salmon River. Host your entire weekend with rehearsal dinners, welcome receptions, and farewell brunches all on-site. Enjoy upscale rooms, outdoor activities, and spa treatments without ever leaving the property. With a dedicated wedding specialist to guide you and customizable packages tailored to your vision, every detail is handled with care. Contact us today to start planning your unforgettable celebration!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Provides catering services
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • No built-in audiovisual options
The wedding venue was absolutely breathtaking and the staff was beyond supportive, kind, and helpful!
Juliana M., a month ago
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Ashling Acres 

5.0

Hamilton, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $15,900

When you get married at Ashling, you get the entire property to yourself. From your rehearsal to your day-after brunch, it's all yours. We handle the tent, tables, chairs, and bathroom trailer. Plus we have a wedding coordinator on-site for you, along with unique accommodations for 20 people. You choose your caterer and DJ, and we make it happen.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Feels like a getaway

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
Ashling Acres is one of my favorite properties to cater at. From the professionalism of the owners, to the stunning grounds and views it never disappoints. The lodging and amenities are first class and very well thought out. I highly recommend!
Michael Latreille, a year ago
Heritage Barn at the Dunham Homestead 

5.0

Hamilton, NY
  • Up to 275 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,900

Rich in familial history, Heritage Barn at the Dunham Homestead is a wedding venue located in Hamilton, NY. The property stretches over 200 acres, featuring undulating hills that allow for panoramic views of Chenango Valley. You can set up an aisle of your own design and exchange your vows. It maintains its classic, rich wooden interior and features a high vaulted ceiling, giving it a distinctly hallowed aesthetic. Boasting a capacity of up to 300 guests, there is ample room for each of your loved ones.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Space for a large guest list
  • Unique barn setting

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No in-house catering options
When looking for a venue, we did not a barn. Then we stumbled upon the Heritage barn and met the Dunham family and instantly knew this is where we wanted to have our wedding. It truly was the best weekend of our lives and we had so much fun! Every single detail was exactly how we wanted it thanks to Allie and Ken and the rest of the crew. They worked with our vendors to make sure our day was perfect. If we could host another event there we totally would. We booked the venue for the entire weekend so we were able to stay on property Friday and Saturday night with all of our best friends. My husband and I had the honeymoon cottage for the night of our wedding and it was so cute! Best weekend ever.
Adrienne C., a month ago
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Inns of Aurora Resort & Spa 

5.0

Aurora, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Imagine a collection of historic inns, restored to luxury, with beautiful balconies and porches overlooking pristine Cayuga Lake. Picture sweeping lawns that roll down to the water’s edge, where the sun sets each night in a riot of golden hues. Add exquisite artwork, from-scratch meals, and all of the on-site assistance you never knew you needed. Visit and see why we’ve been hailed by BRIDES as the “perfect place for a weekend wedding” and by Country Living as “America’s best-kept secret.”

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Has onsite accommodations

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
Awarded Best of Zola
Amazing doesn’t even begin to describe the experience we had with our wedding at the Inns of Aurora. We cannot thank Kim, Breanna, Alistair, Taylor, Julia, and the entire team enough for making everything seamless from start to finish. They handled every detail, answered every question, and made the entire process effortless. What stood out most, though, was how genuinely warm and welcoming everyone was. The venue itself is breathtaking. We planned everything at the Rowland House, and it was the perfect size for our party of 30. The house, property, and rooms were beautiful—living up to the photos and then some. And the food was absolutely delicious; everything that came out of the kitchen felt both home-cooked and elevated. If you’re looking for a place that’s not only beautiful but also filled with people who make your day feel truly special, this is it.
Steven + S., 8 days ago
The Craftsman Inn & Suites 
Fayetteville, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $6,000

Celebrate your wedding in an extravagant fashion. Say "I do" in the charismatic village of Fayetteville, minutes from downtown Syracuse. The ceremony and rehearsal dinner is sure to inspire hearts in one of our indoor or outdoor venues. Share your reception time with the family and friends you love. Our professional wedding planners will see to it that you do. We start with your vision, outline the to-do’s, and handle every detail from your venue design and catering to your Champaign toast and guest accommodations. So you relax and enjoy your day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Rustic yet refined style
  • Provides setup and cleanup

Venue considerations

  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
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Allyn Lodge 
Skaneateles Falls, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $22,000

Allyn Lodge is a premier wedding venue in the heart of the Finger Lakes, located just outside the charming village of Skaneateles, New York — and directly connected to Skaneateles Fields Resort & Spa. The largest freestanding timber structure in the state, Allyn Lodge features dramatic floor-to-ceiling windows, a private deck overlooking a tranquil pond, a roaring stone fireplace, and twinkling string lights — creating a warm and memorable setting for your celebration. Directly across the street, Skaneateles Fields Resort & Spa — part of the Curio Collection by Hilton™ — offers 89 beautifully appointed rooms and suites, exceptional dining, a full-service spa, and year-round activities, making it the perfect overnight option for your guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Space for a large guest list
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Not wheelchair accessible
White Eagle Conference Center 
Hamilton, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

You are making your way down the aisle. All eyes fall upon you as you approach your spouse-to-be. You take your vows on the shores of the lake – the setting sun dancing off the waters just for you or in the gazebo with the classic buildings in the backdrop for the romantic moment – and the ring slides down your finger. Hundreds of your closest family and friends smile at you. They’ve never seen someone so lovely, or more elegant. Now, it is time to celebrate your life-long journey with a top-of-the-line wedding experience like no other. Whatever your wedding dreams may be, at The White Eagle Banquet & Conference Center, we specialize in making them all come true.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available

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About wedding venues in Hastings, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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