The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Cato, NY

The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Cato, NY

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10 Wedding Venues in Cato, NY

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Curtis Manor Oswego NY 

5.0

Oswego, NY
  • Up to 275 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,500

Curtis Manor is a rustic barn venue located in Oswego, New York. This newly renovated dairy homestead offers everything you'll need for a picturesque, nature-inspired event. With a young apple orchard, pond, and several elegant indoor spaces from which to choose, it is an ideal place for family reunions, weddings, community events, corporate meetings, or team-building events both large and small. The relaxed environment and accommodating spaces fit both formal events and casual get-together events. No matter what your event vision may be, choose Curtis Manor to make it come to life.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
Throughout the whole wedding process Sharon Abbi and Erin have been amazing to work with. Every question I’ve had they had answered within a reasonable time frame. They have such beautiful decorations to choose from. They also set up and break down most things. The staff is just as fun. One server was dancing with us while working and it was a blast. They definitely made my wedding process and wedding everything i could have asked for. If you are looking for a barn style wedding this should be on your list.
Haley C., a year ago
Arlington Acres 

5.0

Lafayette, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,000

We're more than just a wedding venue. When you choose Arlington Acres, you're continuing the 150 year tradition of creating memories on our family farm. From your first tour, you'll notice the difference in the care, passion and personal attention we provide all our couples.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
We had our wedding at Arlington Acres and couldn't have been happier with the venue and staff. Katie and her team were extremely responsive throughout the planning process, answering all our questions thoroughly and creatively troubleshooting any issues that came up. Their communication style made wedding planning feel effortless. The rustic open space allowed us flexibility in decorating and arranging the event exactly how we envisioned. Katie went above and beyond day-of to make sure everything ran smoothly so my husband and I could relax and enjoy our special day. By the end, the Arlington Acres staff felt like family, contributing so much warmth and care. We highly recommend this venue for couples wanting a beautiful, rustic setting with accommodating, detail-oriented coordinators devoted to creating your perfect wedding.
Amanda C., 2 years ago
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Osmica at Spring Trail Farm 

5.0

Lansing, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

As the premiere sustainable wedding venue in the Finger Lakes, we focus on creating unforgettable memories for you and your guests, AND being kind to the planet. We truly believe that you can leave a small footprint on your big day. We provide a bespoke experience for all of our couples. We strive to support your vision, while helping you navigate the logistics. You will have exclusive use of the rustically elegant barn, farmhouse and land during your rental period, and we will be by your side the whole weekend to help manage your vendors and address any concerns. We are not a wedding factory! We host a limited number of weddings each season, so we can give your event the attention it deserves. Our stunning countryside views and historic farm buildings offer unique opportunities to create a charming and inviting venue for an intimate gathering or lavish event only a short drive outside of Ithaca, NY. Let us capture your imagination and help make your event dream a reality!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Offers full-service amenities

Venue considerations

  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
We are so grateful for the beautiful wedding that Allie and Kurt helped us to plan and host at Osmica at Spring Trail Farm! Throughout the planning process, Allie was incredibly communicative, organized, and attentive to our vision. She is extremely creative and helped us to bring all of our ideas to life! Allie also has many relationships and experience with local vendors, and was able to make recommendations and introductions to folks. Allie also helpfully reminded us about key tasks over time to keep us on track, which we greatly appreciated! The venue itself is incredibly beautiful – there are walking paths through wildflowers, an impressive garden that supplied our floral arrangements and a lovely breakfast on our wedding day (both of which Allie and Kurt made for us), a beautiful farmhouse where we stayed the nights before and after and got ready in (which made logistics much easier), and scenic views. We couldn’t have asked for more. We’re even grateful to have been rained out of the outdoor ceremony that we planned – the hayloft is gorgeous and made for a dramatic backdrop. We would get married at Osmica and hire Allie again in a heartbeat. We can’t wait to visit again in the years to come :) Huge thanks to Kelsey Travis for these photos: https://www.facebook.com/kelseytravisphoto/ https://www.instagram.com/kelseytravisphoto/
Olivia, a year ago
Dutch Harvest Farm 

5.0

Lansing, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Dutch Harvest Farm sits on 50 picturesque acres along the east side of the Cayuga Lake Wine Trail (Route 34B) in Lansing, NY. The Farm is bordered by tall mature trees that create a wooded-wonderland but not to be out done by the cascading falls running the length of the property into Cayuga Lake. We are conveniently located only 15 minutes from downtown Ithaca, the Ithaca Tompkins Regional Airport (ITH) and an hour from Syracuse Hancock International Airport (SYR). ​ Our 7,000+ square foot event barn offers many layout options that let you design the event your way. The barn can comfortably seat 280+ people inside for a reception and there is no need for a tent with plenty of ceremony options such as the enclosed loft, attached porches, custom pavilion or our lavish gardens. You have plenty of layout options - it's your day, plan it your way! ***Date availability, pricing information or tour requests must be submitted on our website***

Why you'll love this venue

  • Feels like a getaway
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Lush gardens

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Does not provide event staff
  • Requires outside catering services
Awarded Best of Zola
Laura has been a dream to work with. She is quick in her responses and has eased my worried-bride mind countless times. Covid struck the wedding business so hard but she has operated with grace throughout the whole process. The barn is gorgeous and we love that our wedding is in the town we met and went to college in. I would highly recommend Dutch Harvest Farm to anyone looking for an easy, professional, and picture perfect wedding experience.
Bridget, 5 years ago
Gather in Victor 

5.0

Victor, NY
  • Up to 40 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $1,200

Welcome to Gather, a charming and elegant private event venue steeped in history and restored with modern touches. Originally built in 1836, our beautifully restored barn reopened its doors in 2023, blending historic charm with contemporary chic. Gather operates as a space-only rental venue, allowing you the flexibility to bring in your choice of vendors and create a truly personalized experience. Additionally, we offer planning services to help you orchestrate every detail and ensure your event runs smoothly. Whether you're planning a wedding, corporate event, or special celebration, Gather provides a picturesque and versatile setting to make your vision come to life. We invite you to explore the beauty and possibilities of Gather for your next event.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Raw space for complete customization
  • Perfect for a micro-wedding

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Better for more intimiate events
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Gather in Victor was the perfect venue for our small intimate wedding reception. After our first meeting and tour of the space we knew it was exactly what we were looking for. The owner, Cara was exceptional to work with and went above and beyond to ensure every detail had been thought through. The space is cozy and beautifully kept, perfect for a small reception or shower. We were so pleased with our experience and highly recommend Gather in Victor!
Melissa S., a year ago
Wolf Oak Acres 

5.0

Oneida, NY
  • Up to 240 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,450

Discover the rustic elegance of Wolf Oak Acres, a stunning barn wedding venue nestled on 206 picturesque acres. Our versatile property is designed to create unforgettable memories, whether you're planning a signature wedding, a stylish corporate event, or a special celebration. We offer a seamless experience for gatherings of all sizes, from intimate affairs to large-scale events. With on-site accommodations for up to 80 guests, you and your loved ones can celebrate and relax without ever having to leave the property. Experience the perfect blend of country charm and modern amenities, and let us help you bring your vision to life. At Wolf Oak Acres, every event is a celebration to inspire.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • Does not provide event staff
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
Wolf Oak acres is by far, the best wedding venue in our area!!! The willingness from Katrina & Russell to help out in any way they can, goes so far above and beyond! Their professionalism and desire for perfection is unmatched. The venue itself and the grounds it's located on are breathtakingly beautiful no matter what the season is!!!
Andrea Graves, 5 years ago
The Kester Homestead 
Memphis, NY
  • Up to 170 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $4,500

The Kester Homestead is a historic farm venue located on the cusp of Finger Lakes Region in Upstate NY. Enjoy access to the entire property for the duration of your gathering weekend. Stay in the 1854 House with your family and bridal party, wander the trails to our Woodland Cathedral for ceremony, head to our Wild Garden for cocktails then dine and dance in our Gambrel Barn. We have on-site coordination, an extensive prop closet and floral services which makes the planning seamless. Reach out to us directly at The Kester Homestead at gmail or online.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Both indoor and outdoor options

Venue considerations

  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Does not allow pets
  • No in-house catering options
The North Farm 
Geneva, NY
  • Up to 240 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,000

The North Farm is a large, recently renovated wedding event venue located in Geneva, New York. Consisting of repurposed 19th century dairy barns, a large courtyard and a manicured ceremony location with gorgeous lake views, this venue is perfect for rustic wedding couples who are looking for something truly unique. With six different gathering spaces available, you’ll have an environment that is centered around sustainability and flexibility, allowing you to create a completely customized and memorable experience that you’ll cherish for a lifetime. The uniqueness of the space will provide a truly memorable wedding backdrop; you can also make use of the space for incredibly memorable wedding photos that you can cherish for years to come!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
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The Meadows at Sweet Farm 
Himrod, NY
  • Up to 170 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $2,500

The Meadows is a four-season, lakefront venue on the shores of beautiful Seneca Lake. Located at Sweet Farm, our 100-person event space can be expanded during the warmer seasons to host up to 170 people in an indoor- outdoor experience. The Meadows offers sweeping lake views, stunning fields of flowers and heirloom vegetables, and optional experiences to spend time with rescued farm animals. The property we sit on has a rich history in the Seneca Lake region. It was one of the first grape growing properties established in the early 1800s, eventually becoming the site of the first organic winery in North America. Our historic house, barns, and vineyards tell a unique story of farming in the Finger Lakes. Hosting your event at The Meadows supports Sweet Farm’s nonprofit mission—a vegetable and flower farm and home to over 150 rescued animals—while offering an on-the-farm experience that’s as meaningful as it is memorable.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Dressing room available
  • Promotes a party atmosphere

Venue considerations

  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Lighting and sound are not included

About wedding venues in Cato, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue. Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue. Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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