Your Modern Ritual


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Prices start at $300


About Your Modern Ritual

Your Modern Ritual

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I’m a native Texan, born and raised in Pflugerville. After heading west for college, I spent 17 years in California growing up, not learning to surf, getting a Master’s degree in cultural anthropology, and starting a family. I began officiating weddings in 2017, and moved back to my hometown in 2021 to re-root and keep the party going here in the Austin area! I love co-creating wedding ceremonies that reflect and affirm each couple’s uniqueness, love, and vision for their future.

I take great joy in making secular, nondenominational, interfaith and nontraditional weddings feel sacred. I love marrying LGBTQ couples, couples who want something fun/different/offbeat, couples who are blending families, etc. I also adore sweet and simple elopements. If love is the motivation, I am here for it! As an anthropologist, I love exploring how we form and nurture bonds that enrich and define our lives. As a spiritual person, I have profound reverence for the everyday magic that stirs when people who love each other gather with a common purpose: to witness, honor and celebrate life’s most precious and mystical moments together.

In three words: Calm, Collaborative, Supportive

Best of Zola 2026

Services

Ceremony types

  • Civil Union
  • Commitment Ceremony
  • Elopement
  • Interfaith Ceremony
  • Legal License Signing
  • Multicultural Weddings
  • Non-religious Ceremony
  • Other
  • Religious
  • Vow Renewal Ceremony

Religious affiliations

  • Buddhist
  • Catholic
  • Christian
  • Hindu
  • Interfaith
  • Jewish
  • Muslim
  • Other
  • Pagan
  • Secular
  • Sikh
  • Spiritual
  • Unitarian
  • Wiccan

Reviews

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Rating: 5.0

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5 reviews

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    Maggie

    Rating: 5
    Jul 16

    Bride

    Julia was everything we desired in an officiant and more! She was so intentional in the way she got to know my husband and I and worked with us to build the most beautiful ceremony. My husband and I come from different cultures and religions, and Julia worked to seamlessly blend the two together to make both of our families feel seen and celebrated. She was such a gift and I cannot recommend her more!!!!

    Julia MartinezJul 17, 2026

    Maggie!!! This is such a great photo and I love that it also features your gorgeous creativity, it was so inspiring seeing everything you made for y’all’s beautiful celebration! Thank you for taking the time to share these words, they mean so much to me and it was such a joy working with you and Kush and getting to witness a magical moment on y’all’s very 1 in a million journey. Sending tons of love and every blessing to y’all!!

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    Lindsey F.

    Rating: 5
    Dec 12, 2025

    Great Energy, Wonderful Experience

    I'm so grateful to have connected with Julia on Zola! From our first conversation, her personality was incredibly warm, friendly, and inviting. Julia had a clear, easygoing communication style and was organized throughout the planning process. On the day of our wedding, she was professional and well-spoken. Julia ensured the ceremony was perfectly personalized to us as a couple and created the exact lighthearted, meaningful atmosphere we were hoping for. We couldn't have asked for a better officiant to bring our special day to life full of love and laughter. Highly recommend Your Modern Ritual!

    Julia MartinezDec 12, 2025

    Thank you so much, Lindsay! Wow, I love these pictures, thank you so much for sharing them as well! Y'all were just an effortless delight. I'm still chuckling at John pranking me shortly before the ceremony. Loved y'alls energy and absolutely infectious, fun, excited vibe. Cheers to all your future adventures, on the Citabria and otherwise!! I'm so lucky to do this work with couples like y'all.

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    Melanie V.

    Rating: 5
    Sep 10, 2025

    Authentic and from the hear

    I'm so glad I found out about Julia. I actually saw someone suggest her on Reddit and reached out to her about officiating our little elopement. Before speaking with her, I spoke with another officiant who a lot of people suggest in the Austin area but there was no connection, she just told me what she was going to do and how the ceremony would be without asking me what I wanted which did not vibe with me at all. Julia on the other hand really took her time to talk to me about what I wanted to do for my ceremony and she was very invested in making sure everything was ok with what she would say and how the ceremony would play out. She is very open minded and has really good suggestions as well for things you can add or different wording if you want to do something a little different than the traditional wedding vows. If you want an officiant who you can have a connection with and speaks from the heart I would 1000% suggest reaching out to Julia. Trust me you will not regret it. She really made our little ceremony special.

    Julia MartinezDec 12, 2025

    This review means so much to me Melanie! Your elopement was so special and really captured why I do this work, and why it is so meaningful. Wish you and Bruno and your family every blessing, always! Thank you for the honor and the absolute sweetness of officiating your wedding.

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    Matilda C.

    Rating: 5
    May 13, 2025

    Julia is amazing!

    Julia was a delight to work wit!. We had a non-religious, short ceremony, and she was able to customize it for us exactly how we wanted it. She looked professional and talked in a clear, calm manner which is important for an officiant! We are so happy we chose Julia to be our officiant for the biggest day in our lives. Would recommend to all the couples out there in the Austin area. Thinking back on our wedding day fills us with joy and we can’t thank Julia enough that she was a part of making it so perfect.

    Julia MartinezDec 12, 2025

    Thank you so much Matilda! Y'all were brimming with bright, beautiful energy and were a delight to work with. Thank you for taking the time to share this review and your stunning photos, it was a joy to officiate your wedding and I'm so thankful I get to do this work with people like you and Danny!

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    Amanda G.

    Rating: 5
    May 7, 2025

    A fantastic officiant

    Julia did a fantastic job officiating our wedding! She completely matched our energy and helped to create the exact tone of the ceremony that we had hoped for (lighthearted but meaningful). We hired her just a few weeks before our wedding, but she managed to make it all work in time. When we met, she really got to the root of who we are, what are values are, and what we wanted to convey in our ceremony. She gave us a lot of options for the ceremony so we could mix and match and add or take away the parts that we liked the best. She was totally open to our questions and helped guide us in tailoring the ceremony to our taste which was a huge relief since there were 10 million other things to think about before the wedding! I'd recommend her a million times over. She was punctual, professional and fun and also took care of mailing in our license which was wonderful.

    Julia MartinezDec 12, 2025

    Thank you Amanda! Y'all were so intentional from our first meeting, which you know I love. I loved every way you personalized your ceremony, including the altar selfie!! That was a first and I'll also never forget Daniel's (infamous?) dad joke lol. Y'all are amazing. Thank you for the honor and true joy of inviting me to witness your momentousday. Blessings always!!


Preferred vendors of Your Modern Ritual


Yes I’m happy to! I factor travel time into my fee for services, and have done beautiful weddings all over the Texas Hill Country. And if you’d like to fly me to a destination wedding, my bag is packed!
If I am not booked and it is worth it to you (I do charge for my time/travel), of course. I’m happy to.
Absolutely! I am down for anything your hearts desire!
I stopped counting! Probably 175. I’m ready for anything!
My base fee for a personalized ceremony, written by me (no AI!) is $300, and then I add travel/mileage. In-town (Austin area) elopements are less. My fee includes early arrival on the ceremony day, our meeting(s), all communications and editing needed to get your custom ceremony exactly right, and I’m also happy to meet in person! I love connecting with my clients! I’ve been asked to help with vows, go on secret elopement missions, all sorts of things. Happy to help make your ceremony as magical as possible!